A goodbye letter I wrote to my family from my hospital bed after a heart attack when I didn’t know if I’d live through the next day.
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@SusanNexus9 ай бұрын
My ex husband of 30+ yrs died last month. With no closure, I listened to your letter and imagined it was his words I was hearing. I hope this is what he would have said. Thank you... I am happy you got a chance to change your life! You and Danielle and Pop are really touching people!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
@dsalnorcal14349 ай бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss. I truly believe my regrets would mirror your husbands. ❤
@naomieberhardt39319 ай бұрын
❤️⭐️🙏🏼
@JesseJames-vc2bm9 ай бұрын
God Bless. Susan
@JesseJames-vc2bm9 ай бұрын
@@dsalnorcal1434 Very nice, I'm glad your are still here, God wanted you to do something greater, he has big plans for you Sir!
@adriamartinez48109 ай бұрын
Very sorry for your physical loss as spiritual you and husband are always close.
@trixiegirlism9 ай бұрын
This letter is a beautiful gift to your family. Better that they hear it while you're still here.
@marymahar84469 ай бұрын
❤
@kinyozinyumbani22689 ай бұрын
Very emotional letter 😢 Tears were rolling down my cheeks when you were reading it. Bless you, your family, Dad,Mum, Mark and all. ❤
@abssiaghoum31449 ай бұрын
😮😮😢😢😢 dear friend don't panick please take a deep breath eat only fruits as green vegetables and fruits don't get nervous stay away from méat and alcohol stay in Sun and fresh air WE love you so much m'y best regards from algeria
@junehume319 ай бұрын
Very wise words! Well written.🎉
@CSmith-oz4wp9 ай бұрын
Just remember even that I’m up in the left corner of our lovely country, You, my friend are important and loved. Hoping for a long life for you. Thanks for sharing your inter most family issues.
@msmay20399 ай бұрын
I PRAY ANYONE WHO NEEDS THESE WORDS, IT SOMEHOW REACHES THEM. 🙏 Thank u Dan & Blessings to all 💜
@margaritamatos7879 ай бұрын
Amen
@beckiepatrick69009 ай бұрын
My Mom always said don’t bring flowers to my grave, bring them to me now so I can enjoy them. You have brought this letter to your family now, so they can appreciate it. You are very brave to share it with all of us. Thank you for being so selfless and thinking of others and where they might be and how your letter might help them. I cried while listening to your letter. I thought it was both beautiful and sad….but ultimately happy because it wasn’t your untimely passing. I’m so happy you’ve had a chance to make the changes you felt necessary. Life is but a vapor. Thank you for sharing ❤
@mickysuechan73539 ай бұрын
Yes, life IS but a vapor. Most of us forget that as we travel through this world. ❤
@lbccarpediem9 ай бұрын
My mother loved flowers too. She always said bring them to me while I am alive not when I have died.
@onthehill33819 ай бұрын
There’s a song about that.
@scottybt36529 ай бұрын
You said life is but a vapor! This one do you mean? Is there a second one? I believe there is and it is with our creator for eternity and that starts today!
@ibincolon14988 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing. Only Jesus knows when we will leave our loved ones. He gave you a second chance. Take time and seek Jesus. Read The Bible for he promises love and peace. I have realized that when we close our eyes and give our last breath that second will determine where we go Heaven or Hell. Jesus has a purpose for you. Glad you are doing better. You and your wife are a blessing to your family ❤
@bonniemcmillion15919 ай бұрын
Dan, I cried the entire time you were reading this. You are such a caring, humble, selfless person. Danielle is a lucky woman. I'm sure she knows that. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@nailedbykayy9 ай бұрын
I did too... and still am as I write this😂
@klmegm1976829 ай бұрын
Such a beautiful self-awareness that we all need. So raw and emotional, thank you, Dan.✨💫
@helenspencer55059 ай бұрын
Wow! ❤
@vyethkiran17239 ай бұрын
That's a blow of Reality ❤
@googleuser40093 ай бұрын
@@nailedbykayy but why are you laughing then lol
@mybby19669 ай бұрын
Thank you Dan! I am struggling here financially and medically and it’s overwhelming to say the least. Being in debt is no fun. And you try to prioritize things and reach out to various companies and it’s difficult to find help. But I’m not giving up. I’m going to prioritize a roof over our heads and food on the table and doing what I can. Taking it one day at a time and believing things will get better. Holding on for another day! ❤ Thank you for sharing!
@conniepayton-nevels26859 ай бұрын
Regarding debt….my mama always said “don’t worry about how much you owe….worry about how much you can owe!” In other words as long as you can get what you need….the rest will take care of itself! ❤️‼️💥
@deltapapa829 ай бұрын
There’s something one of my police sergeants told me many years ago I’ll never forget. He said, “ Everything is temporary son.” I was going through a divorce at the time that was getting the best of me. Good ‘ol Sergeant Pettus happened to be right.
@toddjohnson18999 ай бұрын
Touched my heart Dan. Everyday the Lord gives us is absolute blessing. ❤
@susannaCdonovan239 ай бұрын
Yes, one day at a time. Do you have a program in your city for energy assistance (electric bill, gas bill)? St Vincent de Paul and Salvation Army, and other groups can help you with those hardships.
@debrap94489 ай бұрын
Sometimes when your debt becomes too much of a struggle, look into filing bankruptcy. If your credit is already ruined, it’s a good way to start fresh and get back on track. It’s rough coming up with that lawyer retainer, but after you retain the lawyer, you’re not obligated to pay any of your credit card bills. It’s a law you can use to clean up your credit, take advantage of it. And whatever you do. DON’T go crazy and charge up more debt afterwards. Get on a budget and stick to it. Good luck.
@sue59809 ай бұрын
Spoken from the heart, Thank you Dan for sharing your journey 🇬🇧🙏❤️
@miltondengler9 ай бұрын
What happened I watch him all the time
@sarahprice13759 ай бұрын
And look what staying here has done for many people Dan. Your beautiful letter hit a chord. You care for everyone in your family, are so patient with your Dad and have taught many out in the world how to deal with dementia etc. You have respect from so many with your wife Danielle. Keep well my friend of the net xx
@richsiwes9 ай бұрын
That’s why I love reading the comment section :So many positive,loving people,from all over the World! I mean India! Who wouldn’t want to go there! Realizing that there are so many good folks who mean well gives me hope on days like these..Glad you’re still around &Thank you for sharing! From the Netherlands 👍🏼👀✨
@setybtv9 ай бұрын
A little corner of respite from a jaded, sad world. Thank you, Dan, Danielle, Ed, and family... and commenters!❤
@viewer7771009 ай бұрын
Dan, you sharing that with us is a great privilege. It is an honor to know you, your dad, your family, and to be a part of your world even if only through social Media 💗.
@classicnutt64449 ай бұрын
Dan you are truly the Man Accepting accountability for your flaws and acknowledging your love and pride of your family As my grandmother use to say we are all oddballs in are own way but when you find the right oddball to live your life with , well that’s happiness It admirable and highly educational on how you and your wife are coping and caring for your Dad Rock on Brother ❤️
@dsalnorcal14349 ай бұрын
You had a wise grandmother
@yvonnegrant37368 ай бұрын
My heart is broken over losing my son, this video actually made me cry, laugh, and know my son wouldn’t want me to be sad but continue to enjoy life, so…..I will thank God for all I have and had ..thank you
@dianamarcelo39 ай бұрын
This letter is everything for your family. What a wonderful gift to them. Remember LET GO..AND LET GOD!!! BLESSINGS TO YOU ALL ALWAYS
@ericawebb969 ай бұрын
Thank you Dan for being vulnerable and sharing your letter with us. Some many of us struggle with many things but many of us choose not to express ourselves publicly at this magnitude. So thank you for being our voice!! I’m grateful Dan that you turned things around for the best. God has a better plan for you!! Inspirational ❤🙏🏾
@dsalnorcal14349 ай бұрын
Thank you so much
@liwaywaydecastro9 ай бұрын
" Great is thy faithfulness, O Lord". Keep your faith, there is a God, who is in control, turn your eyes to Him. God bless your heart. From d Philippines.
@ButterFlyKisses089 ай бұрын
Wow so beautiful and very touching
@EnubeeStyle9 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for sharing 😊
@edshank38979 ай бұрын
Thank you Dan for being able to share your innermost thoughts about your loves, life and family. I lost my oldest son who was murdered walking his dogs at a hotel in North Charleston, SC. So I know where you are coming from when difficulties arise in families. Family is everything. I miss him terribly every single day of my life. But my life is good watching my two grandsons grow up and just enjoying the little things in life. God Bless you Dan.
@suewerney25759 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing that letter with us Dan. I'm so glad you recovered. You have an amazing lovely funny wife who would have been devistated if you hadn't made it. God needed you here to help look after Grandpa Ed who we all love. God bless Dan.
@Michelebell749 ай бұрын
Amen. Beautifully said ❤
@carrolgraham31239 ай бұрын
I've e been watching his channel from you came on You Tube but responding for the first time.Dan God knew you would be needed mot just to take care of your dad but to be an inspiration to so many who watch this show..Blessings to you and your family Watching from Jamaica
@denjoel19 ай бұрын
You made me tear up. Beautiful letter. Tell them while you're still here. you'll never know when we leave, and they never knew how much you loved the family expecially your wife. God has given you another chance to start all over and do all good things you do and help everyone that you could. When God gives us a change in life its because it wasnt time to leave. but to stay since he has'nt finish what he has used us to do. God bless you until its your time. Hugs
@user-ls1yu7cz2d5 ай бұрын
Yes Dan , God still has work for you. You and Danielle are amazing people! I see the love of Jesus all around you! 6:15
@gabrielajarrell73244 ай бұрын
You have created a world that needs you in a multitude of ways. Your words are poignant. Thank you❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@SisterGoldenHair1119 ай бұрын
That was beautiful Dan’ Thank God’ you are here to read and post that for anyone else is hurting out there. Wishing you and your wonderful family the Warmest and Most Amazing Holidays this year !! And that goes for everyone else out there. ✨⭐️🙏❤️
@Batchpig9 ай бұрын
I had a similar experience in July. Not a party guy or drinker but lack of exercise, stress and diet took its toll over a decade. Carted out in a stretcher from work that I didn't even think I'd be alive to get in. Life changes when "your time" is not some, academic, future date. All I felt was sorrow and grief for my family... not me... not the things I didn't do or see. Nor the money I didn't make, etc. Just guilt that I indirectly/directly did this and now my family would be left to fend for themselves and pick up the pieces. Take care of yourself, all. Diet, stress, lack of activity will get you long before you would have departed. I got a second chance. Get moving today and take care of yourselves. Let my wakeup call be your own.
@dsalnorcal14349 ай бұрын
That is exactly how I felt. ❤️. Stay well.
@sunshineb25169 ай бұрын
Thank you for turning your life around Dan. Only fools don’t change. You are a blessing 🙏
@dsalnorcal14349 ай бұрын
❤️
@sarahjane89499 ай бұрын
Sunshineb2516 That really helped me reading your message today especially the “only fools don’t change” because I haven’t smoked for seven weeks and I just want to say thank you for that message I know it was for Dan but it’s helped me to 👏👏👏👏👏👏👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍🤗🤗🤗
@user-ck2ei2sw1g9 ай бұрын
Having something so big happen in someones life it really makes you think very clear and know whats really important in your life
@tessramos88289 ай бұрын
Hi Dan 🕊️ What a Powerful letter 🎉 Outstanding 🌟
@faithnaidoo76476 ай бұрын
Sometimes it's so darn hard to see the wood for the trees when deepening with deep emotional trauma.Feeling that the glass is always half empty.Thank you for this video and sharing your heart touching letter.May you and your family be well.God speed.
@bfruit95219 ай бұрын
Thanks Dan I just got home from hospital after 3 surgeries and amputation of my leg. Your message was uplifting in every way. I never suffered anxiety or depression.... always rose above....until now. I'm going to hold on to your message for this time...a dark place in my life. I am blessed with a wonderful family and many good friends.... Again Dan Thank you for your message.❤😢
@ludiromarlan40669 ай бұрын
😊😊😊😊
@karinlinakrauchi659 ай бұрын
❤🌳☀️
@karenmia66968 ай бұрын
Your strength will become your legacy. And your story has the potential to inspire others 👍❤️ But for now, be well. Good vibes coming your way 💖
@penelopecr67898 ай бұрын
I know from experience the uncertainty of things after surgery, it's ok to feel the way you do, it's normal... but you are not alone, you have people arround you, and if for a moment you feel alone remember that you are loved!!! Good days are coming, the emotional and physical pain will eventually subside!!
@user-iw8mp1oe3e8 ай бұрын
I know it is Scarry to have a surgery that changed the way you live. Thank God you good family, and friends. If you are not in pain every thing is possible. Few things that help, pray, mediate, listen to a music, learn something new eg. Painting, new language. I know you can it.
@Cannarozzi12349 ай бұрын
Thank you Dan! You’re heart is as big as the sea! ❤love you and so happy you’re still with all of us
@jazzmichelle129 ай бұрын
I clicked real fast I thought something happened to grandpa… 😩😩😩… Dan praying for you.. you are such a blessing … To others
@neilwilliams73819 ай бұрын
I did exactly the same 😅
@user-du8zl4dt6g9 ай бұрын
Yessss me too😢❤
@ashleehayes38119 ай бұрын
Yep I did also 😫
@tanyajohnson23159 ай бұрын
Me too I started praying Lord please don’t let him have died
@yourmanzach23079 ай бұрын
grandpa got another 10 years on him
@adermm9 ай бұрын
I barely comment, but I watch everyday. This was so tear jerking, but yet very inspiring. I greatly appreciate you sharing this. Dan, you're the man my friend. God Bless you and keep you, hope his face shines upon you. May God bring you peace and joy that surpasses all understanding. Tell Doctor Grandpa, his keys are way down 2300 miles plus away in S.Florida. Tell him one of your fans stole them...😊... I love you and your family. Thank you so much for sharing such as heart felt message and including us into your family.
@BrendaRinehart-pe8tj4 ай бұрын
Dan, what a beautiful heartfelt letter to your family ❤️ so glad you are still here. I had a heart attack in 2019, and it really does make you stop and think about your life. Thank you for sharing with all of us...our lives have all been truly blessed getting to know you all ❤
@Bombabingbong669 ай бұрын
This made me cry. Its so beautiful. Nobody selfish could write that. You are loved equally by them as well. Its such an important message Dan for everyone, to stop a moment and actually write that letter to see not the problems and demons we deal with daily but all the beauty we have and how fortunate we are. Also to be more responsible and kinder to ourselves in order to be better for our friends and families. Its just beautiful Dan. Thank you for sharing. 🧡🍁🍂
@mimiiofosu6429 ай бұрын
Marrying your wife wasn't the 'one thing you did right in life'; you looked after your father...that's the BEST thing you've ever done! You missed out being the BEST SON on that list.....you're a great son, brother, husband, father and friend!!💖💖💖💖💖
@natalielawrence88099 ай бұрын
Being just over a year in recovery.. from what amounts to the majority of my life seemingly wasted in addiction... and all the travesties that go with it.. especially the ways I have failed my most loved. This was the most powerful and timely reading. So honest, raw, brave and inherently human. I'm so happy that you made it through Dan.. you are such a bright, thoughtful, layered and inspired man. There's something very philosophical about you.. and I am as drawn to this channel for you and Danielle.. as I am Dad. 🙏 You are a truly remarkable writer btw. I will return to this often..
@paulinemanifold4369 ай бұрын
Here Here ! ❤
@stephenr1159 ай бұрын
I urge you to write a book.
@stephenr1159 ай бұрын
You should write another “New Chances.”
@scrambler62819 ай бұрын
Couldn’t have said it better myself@natalielawrence8809👏🏻❤️
@alicebibi31919 ай бұрын
Agree 💯 with you.
@missycitty94789 ай бұрын
I can't imagine how terrifying that must have been for you Dan. So thankful you are still with us. ❤❤ Bless you and yours. 💫
@elizabetholiviaclark9 ай бұрын
The ending couldn't have been more personally relevant since I had scary news today. I'll persevere. That's my motto. But you are still here! Yay! That letter didn't have to be read by anyone else. You got to do it, and thank you for sharing it with us. The most important thing is that your dear bride still has you, your folks have you, and so do your siblings and children. You've done many right things in this life, Dan, and you'll do many more. You're a good person, and these people who call your dad "dad" and "grandpa" love you and your family a great deal for good reason. It's a very touching thing to see because it's obviously genuine. I just found your channel recently, and I'm glad to be a fan now. I'll join your many other fans to say that I'm glad you're okay.
@averyriversjr9 ай бұрын
Am listening to you reading that letter to your family and am crying my eyes out Dan, on January 29th 2015 I was at deaths door thank God am here but you had the chance to write a beautiful letter to your wife and family, I did not have that chance only God’s blessing am here today to be with my son and family. You are blessed Dan God gave you that blessing to be here to help your dad who really needs you now something you may not have thought about. But our God is awesome and so are you and your wife for the wonderful way you take care of your dad. Love that letter take care of yourself ,dad and Danielle. Love you guys.
@thisdollslifejenna38419 ай бұрын
*As a writer, I appreciate your candor & sentiment, whilst you are still here. Thank you for sharing and knowing your worth, Dan. Self care is important, and you are growing into your own patriarchal journey. This letter you penned will surely stitch itself into the pockets of your wife and your families hearts! One thing I admire about you is that you are unapologetically "YOU!" Live big, live bold, and live on purpose!!*
@paulacollier71769 ай бұрын
That was hard to watch. 😢
@vsandoval49009 ай бұрын
❤ I would love you help me with something for my mom
@kathymeador57829 ай бұрын
Beautiful
@dsalnorcal14349 ай бұрын
Thank you so much
@red28469 ай бұрын
Well said!
@thomaswinkler78099 ай бұрын
Thank you Dan as I really needed to hear this message today. Lost the love of my life 8 months ago today and I have struggled terribly and all but given up. As painful as this was to listen to it reverberated within my soul. I am hoping I can take your words to push me through. Love to Grandpa Ed and Danielle. You are making a positive impact to many of us.
@sandis84369 ай бұрын
Big hugs Thomas, it's a difficult road you are walking but the pain & rawness will leave eventually...and in it's place will be the joy of knowing how very blessed you were to have known, loved and been loved in return by such a beautiful human being. The memories of your time together and looking back on photos will bring smiles and gratitude for having known such a deep abiding love. One foot in front of the other Thomas... you've got this! Your partner would definitely not want you to be unhappy... so honor their wishes for you and let them continue to live a happy life through you. Big hugs and best wishes... 🫂⚘️
@nicholelesassier17999 ай бұрын
Thank you Dan for sharing. I go to a group called Celebrate Recovery. It’s for people with hurts, habits and hang ups. Your letter was quite timely in a lesson I am teaching tomorrow night on giving and loving. Watching you over the last year give to your Dad as his care taker has been the most pure form of Love. You inspired me with this letter today may we all have a second chance to give and love to our families and those around us.
@helenpaul48869 ай бұрын
Celebrate recovery is a terrific program
@doodahman29959 ай бұрын
We have that here in CT. too. It is a great program. Should probably pop back in sometime.
@teresamortenson80007 ай бұрын
Pastor Rick Warren is amazing. His program Celebrate Recovery is unniversal.
@MyInsatiableMJ_Curls_LipsNHips9 ай бұрын
I respect you so much, sir. I love watching Pops. But over time I have grown to have love for your family along with Pops! The holidays are hard for my mom. So thank you for giving her this. She watched, handed me the phone, and walked away like she was ok but saw her wiping her face. I know what that means. She’s my mom and my dad. And she’s told me you guys are good people to look up to. I do. Thanks for sharing this letter, and I am glad you did not die ✌🏽
@francoisetabor76329 ай бұрын
Dan, thank you for sharing your beautiful profound goodbye letter, I had a few tears. I'm so glad that you didn't have to leave your letter for your family, God gave you a do over. Cheers from 🇨🇦
@bohochic24599 ай бұрын
Dear Dan, Thank you for your courage and vulnerability to share this heartfelt letter with us. It was exactly what I needed to hear today. The world is a better place with you in it. Many blessings to you and your family. I am filled with the utmost gratitude. ❤
@lindagrigsby36999 ай бұрын
Very touching, Dan. I'm so glad you made it through and still have so much to share and enjoy. Blessings.
@feliciareynolds57859 ай бұрын
WOW....Beautiful Letter ❤...This will truly help someone....😊
@atruerosebeauty96129 ай бұрын
Dan!!!!! Thank you for sharing this. This Monday I was given very bad news that a brain aneurysm that I tripled in size in the last year. This was the most painful year of my life and I have been through a lot. I also lost a child this year, but I believe better days are coming and it is shifting me to finally do the things I put off because I was taken care of so many others and never stopped to take care of myself. I already appreciated you sharing your family because I never had one like yours. A family so loving and kind, but your sharing your family, your dad, and now your kind words help inspire me even more to push forward with my plans. Take care and I am happy you made it through and have found a way to give back to the world. Blessings, and God bless you and yours!
@r1133rocco9 ай бұрын
It pains me to hear of your suffering. I survived breast cancer this year and then my 26yo sweetheart of a son passed away in August. Life is fragile. I hope you are getting good care 🫶🏽
@atruerosebeauty96129 ай бұрын
@@r1133rocco I thank you for your kind words and I hope you too are getting the support and love anyone needs during times like these. Thank God you beat breast cancer and thank you for sharing part of your story with me. Let's continue to enjoy this life and yes it is fragile and amazing, and hard and beautiful. And because of people like you it is also worth it all. Blessings to you!
@melindaanne60369 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. I’m in a deep depression and in the last few months there have been times where I haven’t left the house in days. I sit in my house unable to move off my spot on the couch, getting a drink from the refrigerator is a monumental task. This letter to your family, your message to us at the end, gave me hope for a better tomorrow, or maybe next week or next month. I will one day be the happy person I once was. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your words. ❤
@shirleybhajan4509 ай бұрын
Hi Melindanne.Nothing stays the same.One day in the future you would find joy.Just embrace the small things as Dan mentioned.
@r1133rocco9 ай бұрын
Dear sweet human, be kind to yourself find a therapist if you don’t have one. May light shine into the darkness you are experiencing. Hugs
@nondramaqueen77959 ай бұрын
Believe in yourself, trust your instinct, & you’ll make it 🙏🏻🍀🙏🏻
@marniemorey15809 ай бұрын
I understand what you're going through. Keep up your faith and believe that tomorrow is a new day!
@paulwarner56749 ай бұрын
There was a time when I might have 1 day every 3 or 4 months that was just OK. (not suicidal) then perhaps 2 days .Now I have 1 or 2 days a month. Sure it's taken 5 years or so. But it does get better. It like the guy said ."Every journey start with one step" Get up and walk outside for 5 steps then look around , see you are not alone look at the floor, the sky the cars, the people. Look and ask yourself where they might be going. Then walk the 5 steps back. Do this as many times as you can for a week. Then ask you Doctor for help. So many of us think we are alone in our suffering. But we are not. Sending you heart felt love from the UK❤❤❤
@IreneDingey4 ай бұрын
Beautiful Dan, can’t wait for you to start writing books. Dan you will write a Best Seller. 👍👍❤️❤️
@sheilam87489 ай бұрын
Hi Dan That was a sweet letter. I have always(since watching your family) thought the there is something sweet about you. I was waiting for the words to your wife. That was nice. Right now we are going through a really rough time. My husband has been ill for a few months. They first told him it was pneumonia, Which by the way i know was wrong. Turns out he has advanced congestive heart failure, aclot in his heart and damage to his heart. To the point where they say they can't do surgery for his clogged arteries. His EF is only 15. We are currently in the midst of getting a second opinion from Mayo Hospital in Rochester. He most likely needs a heart transplant. He's only 56 and WE are not ready for anything to happen to him. We (and when i say we i mean the kids, grandkids and myself) need him with us all she love him so very much and appreciate him coming into our lives. All glory to God. He is the love of my life and a great father and grandfather. The grandkids just love him so much. We are hoping and praying for the best. Asking for God to have his hands on this and praying for a happy result in the end. We would appreciate any prayers we can get for a positive outcome. Thank you for posting this. ❤🙏
@alfreddj28809 ай бұрын
God bless Dan !! 🙏🏼
@PurebloodStalker9 ай бұрын
You are a living legend, my friend. You’re family & wife are immensely proud of you. Much, love, from Scotland 🏴🇺🇸
@dianeroberts-om2ng9 ай бұрын
Thanking God that you recovered from your heart attack. Beautiful message. Blessings to you and your family.
@rhondakanderson11209 ай бұрын
Thanks Dan for sharing your beautiful letter❣️💕❤🥰
@trishaspradlin5549 ай бұрын
Wow Dan! That was beautifully written. So raw and truthful of a life not lived as you had wished. You are still here for a reason, my friend. And I believe you have learned what that is. Keep inspiring people like us. And keep being the wonderful son you are to your sweet, precious dad. Your patience is amazing. Your kindness and love for him is on display in every video. Caring for someone who has dementia is a journey. And you are doing it well. Kudos Dan. ❤
@elishar.lockhart10769 ай бұрын
Well said !!! God Bless🙏🏽
@emmainjapan9 ай бұрын
Dan, I cannot thank you enough for sharing this. You have lifted me up when I needed to be lifted up. May God bless you and your family.
@judithcoe75518 ай бұрын
Dan, thanks for sharing from your heart. There is an undertone of sadness of all your regrets. I am sorry about your heart attack. God has bigger and better plans for your life! Keep looking to Jesus, the author and perfector of your faith. Praying with gratitude. We all love you and your family too!❤🎉😊
@vangieeaddy13329 ай бұрын
That was so good God Bless you and your family. Just be ready .😢
@melodygreen50299 ай бұрын
Thank you Dan for the reminder to enjoy every moment we are blessed with. Oh my goodness, tears and tissues.
@gabba54239 ай бұрын
This time of the year is always hard for me. I struggle with depression around Thanksgiving and Christmas.
@Glorious40249 ай бұрын
Hang around on with grandpa Ed and this year will be different or you can take a vacation to the family am sure they can help out an online family ❤❤❤
@Kelly552169 ай бұрын
Please don’t be depressed regarding holidays it man made do research it has nothing do with the Bible or The Creator..
@rebeccamariscal80919 ай бұрын
Same here. I struggle with depression especially during holidays, missing my family that have passed. Feeling so alone. Wishing my dysfunctional family would get their act together instead of loving them just the way they are. NOT PERFECT BUT NEITHER AM I.
@gabba54239 ай бұрын
@@rebeccamariscal8091 yeah it's not the same especially when my mom died 18 years ago.
@priscilladevi97059 ай бұрын
Oh my, this has made me cry. So glad that YOU are okay now. Thank You for sharing ❤🙏💙
@nycfinest41829 ай бұрын
Dan, I have the upmost respect for you🙏The letter was so touching… Glad you’re still with us. Praying 🤲 for you and your family Dan…I have to admit you helped me yes when I feel a door closes a window opens. When someone is removed from my life, I believe God is protecting me and is going to replace it with much more. I pray 🙏 people understand . Awesome letter ❤!!!
@Tuesday51509 ай бұрын
What a tear jerker, Dan. Thank you for sharing something so personal. Positive outcomes can be the result of the most dire situations and you chose to live a better, healthier life for you and your family which is commendable. You are a great example of perseverance and strength. You and Danielle have no idea how many hearts you are touching and lives you are influencing by being honest and raw, how just an encouraging word or your relatability can make such a huge impact in someone’s life you may never know. For that, we thank you both. To those that are struggling, you are not alone. You are loved. Keep fighting the good fight. What seems like the darkest time now could lead you to a brighter future as you never know where your journey will take you. Remember, some of the best moments of your life may not have even happened yet. There are things all around us to be grateful for, we just have to look for them. Wishing you all happiness and peace. Be the love and kindness you would like to see in the world.
@lindathompson93349 ай бұрын
That letter to your family was beautiful. How lucky they get to hear how much they mean to you. I have to admit I cried listening. My husband died in 2021 with dementia and did not realize he was passing. I would have loved to hear from him any thoughts like you expressed. We were married 52 years. Thank you for sharing.
@lenderabickham91389 ай бұрын
A very touching speech. The blessing thing is that you blame Dan, no one else. The even more blessing is that you changed your life style. May Jesus continue to bless you and your beautiful .
@yumihh89499 ай бұрын
Dear Dan, every words r came from u r heart and perfect.. Thanks for sharing very personal with us.. Sending you lots os hugs and love. God bless u and u r family.. 💕💕💕💕💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💕💕💕💕💕💕
@charlesbronson52359 ай бұрын
Full flowing tears 😭 You were needed to be here for them and was given the chance of life because you deserved to be here for the betterment of others. People like me need the therapy both you and Danielle and Dad bring to the channel. Thanks for all you do ❤
@delightfuldesignsbydenise97109 ай бұрын
Dan…WOW!! TFS! My Amazing Hubby got sick w/Cancer & passed nearly 3 yrs ago. I didn’t get a letter, he couldn’t speak in the end. Keep that letter as a Precious memory of MORE life!! GBY & Family🥰
@simplycarolyn7779 ай бұрын
Dan I'm glad you made it God had more work for you to do so he gave you more time. Live every day with no regrets like it's the last day of your life. We love you and all that you do for your family you be blessed and stay encouraged!🥰
@praisealcolic9 ай бұрын
God bless you for sharing. And you are 100% right. You have your Father's heart for people. That is a gift from God. ❤
@tammyr29669 ай бұрын
This was written from your heart and your family should hear this now while your alive and someday when your no longer with this world, it should bring them comfort. I think God wasn’t ready to take you, as He knew, your dad and mom, needed you, as well as your whole family! Glad your still here to share this. I’m sure it will help many!
@lydiabarber89319 ай бұрын
Thanks fir your comment. It’s genuine & deep. Dan us a good man & lovely child for Granddad Ed. God our creator will spare his life to be there to bury his Dad. I don’t even want to imagine him not there for his father. Dan has a large heart & may God continue to keep & protect Dan. Thanks again for your beautiful message.
@joyseegers57839 ай бұрын
I just finished being my fil’s 24/7 nurse for a solid week - giving him hospice care and helping ushering him into eternity . Listening to this is very timely . Thanks for sharing ❤
@SundariSantosАй бұрын
May this beautifull letter be an example to all of us.🎉I lost my beautifull Indonesian Mom🎉 at the age of 1 and a half yrs.young. she was only 33. My dad died in 2001. He had dementia and the last 4 month visiting him at the nursing home was full of love and laughter🎉😅. You are a fantastic and loving son who gave your dad a comfortable life🎉 these days. Its a pleasure to watch🎉😊 thank you Dan!🎉
@davidgloberman30989 ай бұрын
Dan..you are a true Mensch. The world is better because of you. I wish you many many good years. Thank you for opening yourself to all of us. You have inspired and helped so many.
@mollycyrus62189 ай бұрын
You can't begin to even understand how much this resonates to my soul. Its like Im speaking to my own family talking about my own struggles. I cried my eyes out. Im quite lucky to still be here because of my own choices and demons. The flat truth is life is hard and many times we ourselves make it much more difficult. Admitting it and getting it out is just not easy, especially out loud for the world to hear-- So thank you very much for sharing. I, alike many many others Im sure, are glad your still here. You and Danielle both help motivate, inspire, and encourage others. Thank you.
@sylviakettlewell80889 ай бұрын
Dan, thank you for sharing your most feelings with us. Maybe if we had heard those words love, guilt and regret, there may have been a chance of reconciliation. If there is a lesson learned, say those words people who love you have been waiting to hear. Hearing those words are so much better than reading them too late. Also thank you for sharing how it is with a loved one suffering from all sorts of dementia. We learn patience, what it's takes to be a caregiver and trying to understand what they are going through. It is never too late. You get back what you give. Love your videos. Family is the most important.😘
@trudyramgren88176 ай бұрын
What a wonderful and heartfelt letter Dan! I'm glad you are still here.Your family would be broken if you were not. What you spoke of is so true. We aren't guaranteed tomorrow. Some people leave by illness, accidents, homicide and suicide. My best friend who was a professor at our local college took his own life several years ago but it still haunts me to this day why. I saw no signs. When a person you love ends his or her life, it's total devastation and the grief is horrible. I know nothing of your past history but I feel that you are a kind, loving and good man. We can't judge ourselves of our pasts. You are doing the most wonderful and honorable things to do and that is taking care of your father. The one who gave you life and took care of you. You also are intelligent, funny and transparent. These are great qualities! Thank you for sharing this with us all. Hugs
@marionsnahshol4870Ай бұрын
WOW, Daniel your Words are so warm and Loving for your Wife and your Family which are everything to you. So glad that your health improved and that you are with us all viewers to read your Wonderful toutching Letter. Keep well and carry on being the Amazing Son, Father, and Husband that you are ❤️
@ednaakrish35819 ай бұрын
Thank you Dan for such an important, sincere posting… other people and other countries hard times effect us - because we are humans who cares! As you know, our tradition teaches us that even when hard time hit - better days are yet to come…🙌 Stay healthy and Thank G-d for your good health and Family - Shalom 🫶
@sassykow9 ай бұрын
Oh Dan... I sobbed like a baby! A gift to your loved ones to know just how much each and everyone means to you. Some of us think that, but alot of us never have the chance to say it. I love your father,,,, you can tell he thinks of his children's well being alot. I was a part time caregiver for my grandfather he was also in his 90's, it takes alot of love & patience. I had both for grandpa!! We built a bond like no other. I sure miss him, but you know what??? I have so many great memories of that time i cared for him, and no one can take that away from me. God Bless your famiily!
@homa53789 ай бұрын
Dan, i was holding on while you read this heartfelt letter but fell apart at the start of the line "to my wife...."😢😢😢😢. Im so glad you are still here, not only for your immediate family but grandpa and all of us. Thank you for sharing with us❤
@joannekuzborski4918 ай бұрын
Superb!!!!
@jo-anng218012 күн бұрын
We are all broken and flawed. Family is everything!!
@Jfwqs72129 ай бұрын
You are around for such a time as this. Thanks for taking such good care of your dad and family. Thanks for your encouragement, I will remember your letter when my demons attempt to overpower me, and smile even though I want to weep. GOD bless you all.
@d10nlyuniquelyme749 ай бұрын
Dan this is so heartfelt and sad. Even when you thought you were dying you unselfishly wrote something your loved ones would keep near and dear forever. That's grandpa's trait for sure.
@uralbob18 ай бұрын
Dad raised good kids! You’re a gift to our world!
@shadonnawilliams91729 ай бұрын
Sitting here in my own despair, and this pops up on my feed. Thank you 😢
@djjuarez56799 ай бұрын
That’s very brave of you to share this with the world. Your message will reach many and give us all something to think about. I love the smell of the crisp mountain air and the smiles on my family’s faces. Cherish life and CELEBRATE yourself. We’ve come a long way, baby. Be proud of yourself and keep working on those aspects you’re not so proud of. Ask for help and be humble enough to know when you need it. It’s OK! IT’S ALL OK. Take a deep breath and be grateful for being able to take that breath. Sending love and healing to ALL. 🙏🏽🌏💖💖💖
@sandramartino32439 ай бұрын
Thank you Dan for sharing this, what a reminder. Before my oldest sister passed she mailed wrote a personal letter to each of us siblings. Somewhere in the mess of my youth I lost it. One of my big regrets. I had intended to do this for my children and grandchildren and have not done so. Your touching, heartfelt msg was what I needed to get on with this. Thank you Dan. Let me add, that it has been a privilege to get to know you and your family, and in a way, to be part of it.
@pamelawalton16439 ай бұрын
😭😭😭 Ohh Dan‼️‼️. Thank You Soo Much For Sharing. We are ALL Very Blessed to Still have You in Our Lives. Your video/letter is very timely. Love and Hugs to you and Danielle. 🎁👍🙏🥰🤗💞😇
@MelissaPurpllotus9 ай бұрын
God saw fit to keep you here. Praying that you continue to heal and live beyond that day. You’re a great man Dan, God bless you and your family. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@MH-ko6hb9 ай бұрын
To the three of us still listening... Are you kidding me? I'm sure you had anybody that is a true lifer to your channel locked in by this video. Don't underestimate your words. They were very beautiful and it was a pleasure hearing what not even your family has heard it that point yet. You are a blessing to each and every person in your life, and to the audience who have been captured by you and Dad. You are just an exceptional person, Apple didn't fall far from the tree in this situation.
@DirtyBev9 ай бұрын
Wow, that really was beautiful! I felt huge tears in my eyes and wished for a moment that I had a Dad who wrote that to me. I know all your efforts counted. They meant well in your life, and I'm positive your family must feel the same. Each of our lives have regrets but ...Nobody sets out to hurt their own family on purpose, I think for the most part when illnesses or family separation arrives, We all are forced to re-examine our lives and those that are in it, what was important and what is not. IMO, that is what matters the most, and I am certain your family must feel the same. Lifes lessons are full of regrets. We all learn that in time with God's grace❤. Thank-you for sharing, Blessings from a Nana of 3 in NC
@conniewebster14989 ай бұрын
Dan we're so glad you are still with us 🙏 ❤️😇 you are wonderful your family needs you life is beautiful God bless you and family ❤️🎉
@tmoore70499 ай бұрын
What a beautiful letter Dan, I'm so glad you made it through!❤🙏
@bless10199 ай бұрын
Aaaaw Dan. We love you and your family. May God continue to bless you and thank you for sharing.
@ruirwathika9 ай бұрын
My dad passed on 10 years ago of Alzheimer’s/dementia-at 86. For over 16 years, he declined until he became mute 10 years before passing on, albeit physically strong until the last minute due to neglect by a caretaker. He lived in his farm at an African village where I’d visit him whenever I got time off from my job in Washington DC. I was helpless because I could only support through finances. It’s such an honor to be able to care for someone who took care of you when you were little. I owe everything to my supportive dad but I wish I could have been there for him. There were a lot of conversations I didn’t have with him. I’ve shared your channel with my fiancé whose mother is undergoing similar challenges as your dad, deep in the heart of Africa. She appreciates watching you very much. Your dad is such a character of a good heart. Watching him go through life now is especially edifying because we may never get to watch our own end-of-life adventure. As for your letter, I keep preaching: your health is your wealth. You’ll live to read this letter into your 90s, if your attitude towards life stays the same. God willing.
@marniemorey15809 ай бұрын
Thank you for this sentiment. Blessings to you and your family!
@AnnieSezify9 ай бұрын
😮🥺🥹rude awakenings. Thank you for sharing. You had me in tears😢
@Joni-lx6lw9 ай бұрын
This was a heart wrenching letter brought tears to my eyes. But! Listen you won't have to send or give that letter if! YOU take care of your self, lead a healthier life style, nothing is easy but think positive and let your family be your motivation. My husband had a heart attack 17 years ago. He made changes and l was there to coach him on. Be healthy, be safe. All the very best. Love your videos with your dad. 91 and still kicking your a good son . Look after YOURSELF make some minor changes it's not as difficult as you might think. Good Luck and a big hello to your dad. Jl
@zargonfuture40469 ай бұрын
Thanks Dan, we all needed to hear this..
@mrgoyo85179 ай бұрын
THAT WAS VERY SPECIAL.THANK YOU FOR SHARING THAT WITH US.IM GLAD YOUR STILL HERE BROTHA GOD BLESS.
@JasonFlorida8 ай бұрын
Wow, Dan... That is very brave of you to share this! It makes me think about my own path in life and the unfortunate decisions I have made. You are a good man Dan!
@mariawybrandt99069 ай бұрын
Awww 🥹 Thank you Dan , that is a priceless wake up call for all of us , we all forget to live and when we are about to leave this world we find out that we have just existed 😞 Thank you Dan ❤️🥰
@muekieh9 ай бұрын
I am glad you are here, here to share your kind word to family friends and fans…. and Dad! Many blessings to you and your family.
@deliapfenninger42859 ай бұрын
Thanks Dan for sharing this poignant and deeply moving message with us. Blessings to you and all of your family, especially Granddad! From South Africa 🇿🇦.
@analogalien6517 ай бұрын
Dan , that was beautiful! You really owned you faults and I’m so glad you’re still here with your father and your family, as well as us internet people. Your videos add to my quality of life simply by seeing love in action. We need more of that in this cold and often dark world of ours. Thank you!! Happy holidays to everyone, especially Dr Ed!
@sairamalik86649 ай бұрын
We love you too lots of love from London, I watch all your videos lots of love for your dad and your family May you live a happy and healthy and prosperous life ❤my ethnic background is Pakistani and my entire family is a huge fan of your family lots of love ❤️
@PecanBaby...9 ай бұрын
Dammit Dan now I am sitting with puffy eyes from crying so much.😢 I'm glad that your still on this crazy roller coaster of a planet and most of all thank you for inviting us all, into your world with the awesome clips you put up. 🤧
@patneville27989 ай бұрын
Your letter to your family is very moving and beautiful. You never know what’s going to happen, I lost my younger sister to cancer a few months ago, she was never ill previously and I still can’t believe it took her and not me who has a myriad of health problems! It made me realise you can only live your best life while you can. Thank you for sharing your letter. Love from the UK.
@laurelmakula28359 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness. What a moving letter! We should all follow you and write our own letters because we don’t know if tomorrow will come for us. Thank you for sharing something so personal.
@cherlondalofton54594 ай бұрын
You are an outstanding man Dan Salinger!!! Peace and Blessings to you and your beautiful family always. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽