Janie Holland i am thinking about getting one! I feel weird wanting to get one... embarrassed just like she does! I couldn’t put my finger on it until i saw her video. Thing is my hair has been falling out and it bothers me. Im glad i am not the only one that feels this way!

Don’t you think he should say she doesn’t need a wig? She’s beautiful just the way she is and that she shouldn’t have to worry about wigs staying on and affording new ones and making them feel bearable.

Yamixoo yes I thought the same throughout the whole video. ❤️❤️

@@eryns2302 it doesn't mean he hasn't said it off camera. He probably knows Dani would feel more comfortable this way and is trying to help her out xx

I’m sure that her n Jordan have had many discussions privately before filming any of this, in those conversations behind closed doors and no cameras recording he has told her all of that, that he loves her with hair, without hair he is now trying to give her all the support he knows she needs to deal with this in her own way, he knows how incredibly upset, uncomfortable, not feeling pretty to herself etc. effects her. We all know when we look and feel our best whatever that best may be for oneself that we feel good, happy, confident, sexy. I’m sure he reminded her that her hair is not what he fell in love with but yet he understands what a big insecurity this brings upon her. I mean come on we all know how brutal people are behind keyboards n just how insensitive people can be. To a woman our hair is a big part of our looks, I completely understand why she would feel the way she does, I myself have had a total hairstyle change and cut that I hated it so much and could not wait til it grew out and did not feel good n comfortable about my looks for awhile til it really started to grow back out. Not everyone feels so strongly about their hair as another may, but it doesn’t mean any of us are wrong we all just have certain things that may cause us to feel very insecure with oneself.

Dear darlin' Dani, what a brave young woman you are to bare your soul, your "shame" over your hair loss and just putting yourself and your vulnerability out there for others who might be in the same boat. I myself have been down the same road of having long beautiful hair in my younger years to losing so much hair, due to undiagnosed thyroid disorder and other hormonal issues, it was a constant struggle to hide the thinning and it became unsuccessful. Your hubbie is a prize as I think most of us "wig girls" have been blessed with super supportive men in our lives. I hope by now you know of all the amazing channels that are out there. If not here are some of my many favorites: Taz's Wig Closet, Faux Hair Don't Care, Let's Talk With Kim, Abby Andrews (can't recall if she has a channel name), and a darling girl, also from Texas, named Bren (Fake Hair, Real Talk...i think it's called). Once you tap into these amazing gals and hear their stories your own hair journey and joy over your many options will continue to soar! There are so many tips and tricks I could share but one big one that was a game changer was a Hair Grip, also ones called Wig Grips. I pin my bio hair in a tiny low "bun" with those little "snap barrette clips" then wrap the band as per instructions. I use 4 more of the clips 2 in back and 2 on top so it won't slip due the my slippery fine hair. Then when you put on your hair and get it adjusted, that "girl" is not going anywhere! In wind, rain, at the beach, no worries! Taz has some fantastic vids on every aspect of the challenges and joys of getting to wear "hair". Binge watch everything you can, if you haven't already! You will learn so much so fast! You are so adorable, I would say it will be the most rewarding "journey" imaginable! Sometimes the things we never would have chosen, turn out to give us the most joy, both in finding real pleasure in our pain but also and maybe even especially in helping others find that same peace and joy! I would say you might be the next rising star in the "WWC", Wig Wearing Community! I can see you being a great candidate for being a model for any of the young market of "hair" manufacturers, just like Abby Andrews is for Amore! You just need to keep putting your sweet vulnerable, but also confidant, self out there to help yourself and others! By the way your "hair" looks sooo real and so beautiful both of them! I loved the messy braid, that is so fun and adorable. A side pony up over one ear with some messy tendrils is a cool way to wear it in the Texas heat. I'm in Tennessee and we get the same heat and humidity here but somehow I really don't sweat it! Look forward to your next vid as a subbie! Luv, Susannah

JJ HAWK pure gold

...he was putting a camera in her face but ok

@@aubreybooker8566 she probably told him to for the vlog but ok...

Husband of the century for doing the bare minimum? Staying by your spouses side and supporting them Like what?? We need to stop applauding basic human decency... This should be the normal not the godly Would you leave someone just becuase they pulled hair?? Its death due us part.. Yes he seems lile a good guy and good husband but like comeon

Are you wearing your hair piece now? I also relate to you on a personal level, started balding since I was a kid and it got worse when I got older. Im in my twenties looking like Im forty because of it, I want to wear a wig but Im also scared that people will notice and make fun of me for it because I just dotted my hair line before going to classes but my bald spots are pretty noticeable. Im glad that you shared your story because I thought I was the only one who felt this way, I bought a lot of wigs but never worn them but I probably will take a chance after this semester, I hope everythings working out for you though ❤️

@@canyounot313 I am not wearing one now. I did not have my hair piece customized yet. I have been growing my hair out for the topper and have been having some ok hair days so I haven't rushed the customization. I'm in my 40s and I wish I would have started this earlier before it was so obvious of a change. I think you look great with or without your pieces. Keep with the human hair and a natural looking density and you should be good. Keep posting cuz it's just so nice to see this journey is not just mine. How wonderful it is to cheer you on!! If you ever need to vent I'm here. My family and friends all say my hair is fine and they don't see a problem. I think they get sick of hearing about it and the wigs I never wear. It's an anxiety that no-one can understand.

There are medications for this... I am experiencing this and have been treated for almost a year and all my bald spots have started to grow back. My hair will never be thick again as it was before all the hair loss but it’s making me feel more confident now I don’t have bald spots everywhere

@@canyounot313 Go for it! Wear that wig with pride and joy! It just takes getting used to. I chose a wig that was close to my color and style. Originally I was wearing my hair up all the time with like 3 hair pieces on my top part of my head to cover the balding spots and no one knew I later learned! Have FUN with it all!

@@roobixroo8411 I'd love to know what that product is!

My hairdresser said the same when she wears hair extentions.

When I read this I immediately thought of “you like my hair? Gee thanks, just bought it.”

So true! I’ve been wondering what to say when people ask me that

Lmao I do that too. It's mine I bought it, I own it

Remember a wig in a box is a wig, when on your head it’s your hair!

Yeah I am really happy for her!

Exactly

EmmaCateee Hiya this this!!!! Thank you for saying because it is so important. Do not minimize someone’s pain because it doesn’t equal what another is going through.

EmmaCateee Hiya everything is relative, including pain. the worst thing one person has gone through is still the worst thing they’ve ever gone through even if it’s “worse” than something someone else has gone through ❤️

Like I commented you can drown in 10 feet of water or 100. The 10 feet can be easier to push yourself back up from but it doesn’t mean it’s not painful. We all should feel our feelings and not hold back because other have it worse. We can all be there for eachother no matter your particular struggle.

THIS

yes!!

Completely agree. Thank you for sharing this.

Amber Lee How in the world do you send light?

Perfectly said, thank you

@@raeleegarcia1475 Agree! Thank you so much

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On the verge of shaving my head too! Just bought my first two wigs... Going thru exactly what Dani has gone through... still haven't worn my wigs head as I just got them 3 days ago... get a wig girl... we got this!

I have been wearing wigs for 8 years I suffer from female pattern baldness. My mother struggled with it as well. My hair got very thin and my part got very noticeable... so one day I just went online and I without knowing what I was doing, I bought a wig. When the wig arrived in the mail, I shaved off all of my hair and started wearing the wig. I cried about it there's definitely a grief process that you have to go through but now I really appreciate being able to change up my style when I want to and I've even "gone grey" in my older age. I have finally gotten to a point in my life where I completely accept it. Be gentle with yourself... it is a definite process.

I feel for you. Having a supportive husband is wonderful, mine always tells me" I love your hair!" BUT know this, even if yours is not supportive and can't relate to your struggles, remember you have wig wearing "Sisters in Spirit" who are there for you, to encourage and uplift you. There are a number of Facebook support groups out there for us wig gals of all ages. You'll be surprised what a connection it gives you to walk down this road, HAPPY and joyful with people who understand and love you! Even if you dont know them face to face. I once told a friend who was saying how her husband could not relate to her on an emotional level, I said "Don't worry about it, thats why God made girlfriends!!" 👍😉! Blessings on you sweet sister!

@@susannahwilson7790 Thank you for your supportive comment. I will check that support out. You are gem, also, Susannah. Your encouraging words meant so much.

Hi its nce to know taht others go through this im 13 and i have alopecia and being in high school its hard , nearlh all my hair has gon ex

Audrey Oliva does she have alopecia?

Me, too but I hate the way I look now and I’m buying wigs but I hate wearing them. Why oh why did I cut my long hair?

@@rebeccayoung6344 it's okay, it will grow back so much quicker than you think It's only temporary. It's probably on your mind alot now cause it's fresh but literally as soon as it starts growing back even a little you won't even be thinking about it ❤️❤️ You're still beautiful even with wigs/less hair/long hair/whatever!!

hello i suffer from alopecia as well so i feel it and understand too i would appreciate if you checked my channel i try my best to share my story and vlog being bald as well

Same:/

Hi im 13 and have alopecia quite bad i have to have a wig and i cried qith happiness its niv wto kniw others arw going through the samething x

I half alpaca no hair on the top no neon the sides it runs in my familymohairon my brows under myarms none on my legsnoneonmy private area so I been wearing synthetic but they only last not to long

Honestly same I literally loose handfuls of hair every hour. Alopecia isn’t fun :(

Natalies Outlet Que lindo comentario ❤️ Te amo muchísimo Natalie soy de Cali 💚💚💚

Well said. :)

Don't be. Many people suffer from the same thing. I too have alopecia and I'm just 20. I'll just go for a wig if things get too bad. You should too❤

HI THERE! I AM SHOCKED AFTER ALL THE COMMENTS IT'S SAS SO MANY OF YOU SUFFERING FROM ALOPECIA AND YOUR SEL ESTEEM COMPROMISED...ON THE FLOOR?!.... PLEASE, STOP LOOKING FOR WIGS TO HIDE THE PROBLEM, LET'S FIND A SOLUTION INSTEAD!! BECAUSE THERE'S A SOLUTION IF IT'S NOT TO LATE, BUT HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT? IF YOU HAVE BEEN SUFFERING FROM ALOPECIA OF ANY KIND FOR LESS THAN 3 YEARS, PROBABLY THOSE FOLLICLES ARE STILL ALIVE ! YOU GUYS DON'T KNOW THAT UNTIL NOW! RIGHT? LET ME HELP YOU ! NOTE : REACH OUT TO ME ONLY IF YOU ARE DESPERATE AND DETERMINED TO GET YOUR CONFIDENCE/HAIR BACK! Follow me here/DM me Instagram handle Ariana business_hairskin

Whyyyy???? So what???? Look at people who struggle with cancer and pain everyday . whats wrong with people . u dont want to leave the house cause u think u are not attractive and sexy?!😒😒😒😒😒😒 get up and live the life and accept anything life give u and be happy . other wisr u will be stuck in ur negative troughs and get depress and maybe hurt ur self 😒😒😒😒 all this cause of freaking hair !!! U must be kidding

I feel this so deeply. I'm dealing with this right now.

Girl let me encourage you that I was the same exact way. I have PCOS, so i have androgenic alopecia. I was able to do volumizing products and powders to cover my scalp for years. After I had my little girl, it was beyond fixing because of postpartum hair loss. It’s an emotional thing and I’ve cried over it so many times. I’ve been wearing a wig for only 2 years, but I still struggle with it. I’m a stay at home mom, so we don’t get out much, and when we do I’m usually in a hat. I take what hair I have and make the most of it. Baseball caps are seriously a life saver. I get the soft caps because they conform to your head and look better. I took my wig to a wig hair dresser and she thinned my wig to make it more natural. It takes trial and error.

FirstCass stay strong girl!! I work in a rheumatology office so I see what you’re going through a lot! Many happy thoughts to you

Recently my hair started falling out in clumps. I've had lupus since childhood but I got covid and the hair loss was intense. I'm obsessed now with how thin my hair is and my receding hairline

I have that too!

I have trichotillomania too! Which is the same concept. I pick out my eyelashes and really grieve about it sometimes. Girls strive for long lashes and eyelash extensions and I don’t have the opportunity for those.

Marlena Geller isn’t she❤️ loved this video.

@ Nala Miller, I think you're beautiful Nala!!! 😘😘😘😘

Thank you Miss Norma!!!

@@mandamorris7934 , 😉😘👍

@@mandamorris7934 , you're welcome Nalla 😘

thecosmogirl171 hey girl, I have a similar story. My hair started falling out by the handfuls when I was 18. I’m not 24 and my hair is starting to bald. I bought a wig but I’m scared to wear it out

Doyle Mcpoyle hey just stopping to say you are beautiful