My Husband Says It's INAPPROPRIATE For Our Daughter To Call Him Daddy
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@kay-chanvids2293 2 ай бұрын
Why is the first dude even thinking like that when it’s about his own daughter? Major red flag in my opinion
@sinbefregd3254 2 ай бұрын
I fucking hate idiots like that.. Excuse my language.
@reeses_unicorn 2 ай бұрын
Exactly.
@sofiathefirst8510 2 ай бұрын
Exactly.
@Darkstalker1012 Ай бұрын
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@kpoparmyorbit 2 ай бұрын
I read the first story on twitter and all I have to say is that people need to put the porn down.
@Kyutie. 2 ай бұрын
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@BangtanARMYLovely-_rpwp_- 2 ай бұрын
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@Maya_hee 2 ай бұрын
"Baby" is also a sexualised word, so is the father never gonna refer to his child as his baby ever?
@Aurochhunter 2 ай бұрын
Good point.
@saimawasti9598 2 ай бұрын
Yeah. Not to mention couples call each each other baby all the time in relationships.
@19GAS 2 ай бұрын
Yeah, exactly, HaHa.
@kaylarapp9591 2 ай бұрын
Okay, I get now adays the word "Daddy" is sexualized but here's the thing. If it's an adult calling another adult "Daddy" then yeah it could be for the kink, However once a child says it, that's when it's not at all sexual and is just your kid calling you Daddy because it's easy for them to say. To even think of that coming from your kid in an inappropriate manner is just gross.
@FictionalShippingBean 2 ай бұрын
Exactly! Also an 18 month old wouldn't know the concept of 'inappropriate' things because it's only a BABY! It disgusts me that a child innocently saying 'daddy' is seen as 'inappropriate' by the child's OWN FATHER!
@Kayenne54 2 ай бұрын
Something really wrong with that boy. I wouldn't leave him near my daughter, frankly.
@kbye452 2 ай бұрын
Gosh even mommy is being sexualised and I hate it soo much. Like hell nah. I'm usually like u do u but I just can't help but feel disgust when looking at people who sexualise these words
@saimawasti9598 Ай бұрын
@@kbye452yeah. Like how can people sexualize the word mommy? That literally means mom.
@Solar-kf2sq 2 ай бұрын
I'm 23 and I still call my dad daddy and my mom Mama or mommy sometimes. I think you're never too old to call your parents mommy or daddy
@Feathered_Crow 2 ай бұрын
I'm 18 and I still call my dad daddy and my mum mummy. Even my 24 year old sister does
@alexholman6662 2 ай бұрын
I said this in my own comment but I'm 18 and still call my dad Daddy
@Traci2000 2 ай бұрын
I'm 42 and still refer to my dad that way. Though I'm from the south so it sounds more like Teddy but with a d 😂
@gazoontight 2 ай бұрын
First story: He is an imbecile. All he has to do is wait until she's about 15 or so and then she won't be talking to him at all. And he'll be wondering why not. Daddy? Is he watching too many dirty movies? Second story: As bad as that may seem, it could have gone much, much worse. However, by telling his wife, he has made his problem into her problem. After the update: Obviously it did go much worse. He mesed this up big time. Well. some people don't know what they have until they lose it.
@Kayenne54 2 ай бұрын
She'll stop talking to him a lot sooner if he starts thinking his female child is making sexual advances every time she sits on his lap, hugs him or wants to be carried. I would think a long walk off a short jetty would be appropriate for this guy. He needs to take his hand of the joystick and get his mind and thinking out of the X rated web adventures.
@BangtanARMYLovely-_rpwp_- 2 ай бұрын
I blame the people who made daddy sexualized, but also, the dad shouldn't be feeling like that or even thinking that when it's literally his child. Disgustingggg
@destinyc7801 2 ай бұрын
Blame porn, because people with kinks keep that between consenting adults in adult spaces, never in public or around children. Anyone who would feel that way about their child watches too much porn because people separate calling their partner baby and their child baby all the time. I’m so sure he only feels this way about his daughter because she’s a girl and he’s struggling to see women/girls as anything other than sexual which is in itself messed up but worse when projected onto his own child.
@crystaldumpling 2 ай бұрын
Oh just my the title I'm already enraged, how did we get lost in translation this bad? Damn
@_mirary_ 2 ай бұрын
bro the dad in the thumbnail 💀 i have no words
@ellorasg4525 2 ай бұрын
I am a 34 year old woman and my brother is a 31 year old man and we still call our Dad Daddy sometimes, especially when we are distressed. What is wrong with that man in story 1?
@crazygamer_1082 2 ай бұрын
That’s what children do. They’re supposed to call their parents daddy and mommy. Every child does that. Unless they were taught to say something different. Or they have like two dads then you have to like make sure they refer to the right one as the right “dad”. Like home boy needs to put down p++n and chill TF out. 😂 Also if I was the mom I’d be freaked out if my husband saw my kid sexually because she was saying daddy. Red flag
@Kayenne54 2 ай бұрын
Exactly.
@reeses_unicorn 2 ай бұрын
Dude's actually sexualizing his own daughter calling him daddy. WTF?
@Lord_Skeptic 2 ай бұрын
The reason why father is shortened to Daddy is because it is just a noise babies make.
@shadowboxer1 2 ай бұрын
0:05: This whole "don't call me daddy or dad" thing just gives out creepy vibes to it. I don't know what to make of this. Maybe he wants his daughter to call him "father" or something. I hope that's all it is. 2:31: At first, OP's husband resigning from his university job was a simple case of nipping something in the bud, but after the truth came out, OP is right to file for divorce. OP's husband is a scumbag for pursuing an intimate relationship with the student in question and jeopardizing his marriage in the process. Besides, who resigns simply because he developed feelings for one of his students?
@Kayenne54 2 ай бұрын
I knew as soon as OP said "He told Uni higher ups his reasons for leaving" that he was trying to gain brownie points for "being honest". Absolutely no way he didn't mess with the girl. He was scared he was going to get outed so resigned first to try and put his own spin on things (or he actually got sacked and he's oh no, he's lying, who would have thought??) Nope. Out with the garbage. He's lying to himself, to OP and to his former employer. And the poor misguided girl, who has stars in her eyes and a nice high pass mark as well.
@Selena-gz9ts 2 ай бұрын
I call mine Daddy. Have all my life. When we are in public we do get funny looks
@alexholman6662 2 ай бұрын
For the first story, I hope the OP realizes that the husband isn't the best. I (18, male presenting, gay) have called my father Daddy pretty much my entire life. The word only has innappropriate meaning when you give it that meaning. For the dad to immediately consider it inappropriate is a major red flag
@TheArnaa 2 ай бұрын
Story 1: why didn’t the husband just say he’d rather his daughter call him something else, instead of playing mind games by staying silent for six months then getting angry with his wife when his daughter started calling him that?
@darrylscott740 2 ай бұрын
Of course, he shouldn’t tolerate his daughter calling him the same thing that his - young - girlfriend calls him come on now!😂 Your responses/thoughts/opinions are spot-on! 💯🔥❤️
@ricebeansrockroll882 2 ай бұрын
Everything else aside with the first story, it took him 6 months for him to voice that?
@hunni.nut.cheerios 2 ай бұрын
Ah hell nah he seriously needs to do some reflecting it he thinks it's weird for his child to call his something completely normal 🤦🏾♀️
@lonikostiew4277 2 ай бұрын
First story..dude, get your mind out of the gutter.. you've got issues...
@justarandomhumann 2 ай бұрын
If the first dad has such an issue about his kid using the word "daddy", is he even able to handle his wife telling the kid "I love you"? Like ffs, when the girl grows up, he's gon be like "but I'm not a pedophile, I don't love my daughter like that so I can't tell her that I love her"
@Joseph_417 2 ай бұрын
“The dad is uncomfortable with his daughter calling him “daddy”? I guess I could kinda understand if it’s a new thing and the daughter is like a teenager or something…” “18 month old daughter” WTF???
@emochick.05 2 ай бұрын
I'm 18 & i still call my dad, daddy & dad. i use to call my mom, mommy but now i can her mama or mom. the guy needs to get his head out the gutter. the 2nd story I'm not surprised & i feel so bad for the wife.
@spinasoul 2 ай бұрын
About the university teacher I think I would have forgiven him if he really hadnt acted on his feelings and had done the right thing by immediately resigning and telling everyone what happened and why he is leaving, because sometimes we cant help how we feel but we can take control over the situation and step away But since he did act on those feelings it looks more like he got scared that the student may tell someone else and "ruin his life" so he decided to just simply confess a half-truth
@Feathered_Crow 2 ай бұрын
That was my reasoning as well, we can't control who we fall in love with but we can control how we go about that
@hadassahm 2 ай бұрын
At 19 I still sometimes call my dad “daddy” when referring to him
@deadsetondreams1988 2 ай бұрын
I legit call my dad, father because of people making "daddy" weird, I'll call him dad when I'm trying to get his attention though like if I have to wake him up or something. But he's always been in my phone as father 🤣 Story 2: I'm leaving. First thing I would do would be trying to ask the girl if anything ever made her uncomfortable. (I was typing that as you read the update- VOMIT)
@riel4553 2 ай бұрын
First guy doesn't have nephews or nieces? Of course little kids can't pronounce most words so they default to baby language. That little girl doesn't say daddy in a sexual way (how in the world??). Instead of dirty looks he could act like her dad and help her practice her words until "dad" or even "papa" is easier to say.
@saimawasti9598 2 ай бұрын
Or words like Ma and Pa.
@destinyc7801 2 ай бұрын
It’s wild he went there honestly because the baby is 1 and a half, what normal sane adult feels that way and then voices that they feel that way about their baby!
@kristalparsons5473 2 ай бұрын
His daughter calling him anything ELSE would be disrespectful!
@Kayenne54 2 ай бұрын
My ex and his siblings called their parents (my then MIL and FIL) by their first names. I never ever got over how disrespectful I felt that was. Apparently they always had. Big mistake. Because that means the "kids" think they're equal to the parents in terms of privilege, but I bet (knowing my ex at least) he didn't feel he had as much responsibility to everyone else in the family. I know he didn't. Even me calling them by their first name felt strange.
@lunchboxv5703 2 ай бұрын
i need these videos when I'm feeling stressed or need to relaxed, I love your channel as a kid to teen now 🫶🏿
@BigSkinty91 2 ай бұрын
Either the first dad I've been around some stuff or seen some stuff but has never changed because of that word. He needs counseling
@amateurflor13 2 ай бұрын
good gracious
@lilicorn7963 Ай бұрын
The man is a cheater and a predator. A 19yo girl still has the mind of a teenager. There is a reason why people who have the upper hand on others cannot fraternize. The power relationship is real. In some countries it is considered rape when someone pursues a relationship with a person they have power upon. I was once the naive 19yo and he was the 30yo Nice Guy™. I learned my lesson. She unfortunately will too
@arcticxabyss 2 ай бұрын
story 1: if the husband has THAT much if an issue with his 16 month old daughter calling him "daddy", then maybe he could've taught her to call him "dad", "pa", or even "papa" instead. story 2: it sucks that the husband wasn't 100% honest with him cheating on his wife, but at least she'll know that she made the right decision to divorce him, especially after what he did. good on her for making the right decision!!
@justamerica5997 2 ай бұрын
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@shadowboxer1 2 ай бұрын
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@theresaeng5330 2 ай бұрын
I get the being called 'daddy', she can teach her either Dad or Papa. My daughter and son in law went the papa route. It's everyone preference. You don't have to change your father what you call him. And it's not s*xualizing it, he just doesn't like it. Cut him so slack, and no it's not disgusting, he doesn't like it and that is his right, you don't seem to like him thinking that way, but that's your right also.
@crystal9621 2 ай бұрын
Hi Hii!! What was he doing with a 19 year old to make him develop feelings? The wife needs to investigate lol…? Edit to update: Ofc it was too good to be true 😂
@julissasailormercury6738 2 ай бұрын
Exactly. The story sounds very strange.💀
@khanminha334 2 ай бұрын
OMG I'M BACK TO YOUR CHANNEL AFTER LIKE YEARS😭 I LOVE YOU ❤ Edited: BTW I'm first to comment can I please get a reply 😭
@shadowboxer1 2 ай бұрын
Sorry, you're the fourth to comment.
@silviadey9737 Ай бұрын
I have a question about the 2nd story, the 19 year old girl involved in this will she get any punishment for all this or not..?
@carisasantiago6256 2 ай бұрын
Story 1: I blame the people who made the word "daddy" inappropriate and because of it this man is almost disgusted when his daughter calls him that, but at the same time, why is he thinking about his daughter like that to begin with? Second story: I knew the husband was lying and cheating on his wife, nobody develops feelings without some sort of interaction, the student just sitting in class isn't really an interaction. Good on the wife for taking action
@buck99 2 ай бұрын
❤u always
@shadowboxer1 2 ай бұрын
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@armaniisgucci 2 ай бұрын
Thts why should have taught her to say dad from the beginning when she was first learning to talk
@terryfilkohazi2237 2 ай бұрын
Or Papa
@masarapwaffles 2 ай бұрын
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@Kyutie. 2 ай бұрын
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@lonikostiew4277 2 ай бұрын
Second story..he hasn't done anything wrong yet.. forgive him, he's just infatuated with the young lady..I'm sure she doesn't feel the same way.... oops, I was wrong 😅
@bristlebuff 2 ай бұрын
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@shadowboxer1 2 ай бұрын
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@rockandtoon2112 2 ай бұрын
Honestly, I do understand the dad in the first story. It's so common for "Daddy" to be sexualized it's not surprising it just springs into people's heads. However, I do believe that he should have told his wife it made him uncomfortable much sooner instead of giving her dirty looks, and start teaching the daughter "papa" or something.
@krma8775 2 ай бұрын
He is her FATHER. He shouldn’t have any sexual thoughts in his head regarding her at all. If a adult calls another adult daddy then sure i understand it but she is a CHILD.
@teonnakatz9019 2 ай бұрын
When it comes to the "daddy" thing with the husband I kinda see his point. Give a kid a phone these days and they search daddy in the search bar and they will be scarred for life. Though he could have been more upfront about it and communicated better.
@hunni.nut.cheerios 2 ай бұрын
It's extremely weird that he's thinking that way she's literally a BABY, and there is nothing wrong with her calling him that it's a completely normal way for kids to refer to their dads. His mind's all up in that gutter 🤢
@chiomorii 2 ай бұрын
@@hunni.nut.cheerios it’s totally understandable and I agree that he shouldn’t be thinking it’s a bad word for her to say. But it’s still understandable where he may be coming from. The word “daddy” has been turned into something sexual unfortunately by weirdo adults to the point that the word coming up can cause uncomfortable reactions. He should definitely get over it and learn it should be perfectly fine for his child to say. But at the end of the day some understanding should be given as he’s a human being that gets uncomfortable by a word like most other people do (like idk some people hate the word moist or hate saying the words for genitals). - In my experience, I’m a woman myself who still calls my dad, “daddy” because I always felt it would be odd to randomly switch it and I never felt odd about it. But I can’t deny the fact that I get really self-conscious when in public or around friends or extended family, so I tend to avoid it. I also feel highly uncomfortable when seeing it said sexually in posts or comments. It’s a natural thing and I don’t think there should be anything to twist the meaning of being uncomfy by it by assuming the person is just dirty minded for being uncomfy.
@hunni.nut.cheerios 2 ай бұрын
@@chiomorii Okay, but my thing, yeah, you'd feel uncomfortable if it were adults talking to each other like that, but this is legit his 1 yr old... Like there is no way that would ever make any sense to me
@chiomorii 2 ай бұрын
@@hunni.nut.cheerios yeah and I do get that, he shouldn’t be feeling that way especially since it’s a kid and it’s innocent. But I don’t think feeling uncomfortable with something should be turned into thinking they’re dirty minded. I guess the solutions to this could be for them to teach their child to say anything other than that like: papa, dada, etc. Daddy isn’t the only word they can use to teach her. Or if the child already is used to saying daddy then he should just learn to get used to it. Idk it just doesn’t sit right when anyone feels uncomfortable and they have to be forced to be okay with something or they’re not normal. I remember as a child like 6 yrs old, hearing the word “sexy” and used it for the first time when an aunt asked how she looked when she got dressed up. She felt uncomfortable and told me not to say that. Even though I was a child and thought of it innocently, if the other person is uncomfy with it- it’s not really great to teach a child it’s ok to say whatever cause they’re just a kid and the adult has to suck it up.
@hunni.nut.cheerios 2 ай бұрын
@@chiomorii I mean, I guess?? But to me, that situation with your aunt and his are different. Like being called sexy by a kid, ok weird, and there's like actually a valid explanation that you can give to a child for that because it's a sexual compliment. But to tell your kid that they can't call you a generic nickname, children always use just because there's SOME people out there that use it in a sexual context? I don't know if that explanation was the best. I don't really know how to put.
@Nicholaspimpinsohard 2 ай бұрын
How are you doing sweetie? How are you feeling? I hope just great!! In the very first story, he is 35 years old, he's not apart of Gen Z, and he needs to grow up and start recognizing his own daughter. Him and his wife [The Main Protagonist] created her together so he needs to start acting like a dad. He sounds like a complete joke as a parent. Either you leave him or you kick him out for being so fooolish and ignorant. In the second story, there is absolutely nothing that the main protagonist can do in this situation other than leave him because he's already told her that he has feelings for another lady. That is a 19 year old teenager whom he has feelings for, and that's very creepy because of the age difference and the fact that he's her teacher as well, yuck. If I had a wife and she came and told me that she had feelings for another man, but hasn't acted on her feelings yet. I would thank her for telling me and then I would divorce her so then that way she could go be with that dude freely. I forgive a whole lot except when it comes to being in relationships I am 100% serious about all of them. That's just like you finding out that your girlfriend or boyfriend cheated on you, their response is it was an accident, or we were just playing. I love you so much my friend!! Have a great day!! Good Night from me!! Stay safe!!