My husband соmmіttеd suісіdе the night I refuse to go back home

My husband соmmіttеd suісіdе the night I refuse to go back home | Tuko TV

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Ruth missed the chance to go to school and has been working since she was a child to survive. She was married with two children but left the marriage because of being mistreated. When they worked things out, she was to go back to their home but told her husband she needed some time. On the night she told him that, he went home and told his mother that if they don’t bring Ruth back to him, he would end his own life and on that might, he did. Ruth then lost her daughter to pneumonia in 2021. She had left her daughter under the care of her parents who she says had problems with alcohol. She says people blame her for the dеаth of her husband and she regrets not being there for her daughter when she started falling ill.
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@deborahmwaura3321 Жыл бұрын

I want to do that too tired of been sick

@mariabaemedi3326 Жыл бұрын

Incorporate English please would love to understand what Ruth says x.

@sicilynmuthoni5686 Жыл бұрын

Ruth is so so pretty May God in heaven dry her tears.. God bless you Ruth

@Nell654 Жыл бұрын

She should have no regrets for not going back to her late husband. He would have taken her life too. That was his plan.

@robertkenyanchef Жыл бұрын

As a human nature it pains because she was married to him and they shared a lot. May God give her comfort

@bednarekbaloyes Жыл бұрын

How do you know he would have killed her yet you don't live in his mind ? Maybe he just wanted her company.

@violetmildred4521 Жыл бұрын

True

@kaninamargaret8025 Жыл бұрын

LADIES!!!!!!!!!! UNAPOONA MOTO WAWAKA JUA TUUUU SIKU ITAFIKAAAAA!!!! POTEAAAAAAAAA

@herinahellen9862 Жыл бұрын

I also think so. The moment he started declaring someone's death my heart skipped. The spirit of death was in his heart

@petuakaplaigia7233 Жыл бұрын

May God heal her. I can't even imagine the pain she has had to endure all her life. No parent should ever bury their children

@keepitreal335 Жыл бұрын

Pole sister but please take your child with you,unaeza rentisha kanyumba ukue unafanya job ukieda kwa nyumba yako jioni

@roselynekamau3782 Жыл бұрын

I am glad she has released her pain...road to her healing.... may God heal you in Jesus name 🙏

@ursulabosire3787 Жыл бұрын

She needs counseling and her parents together with the remaining should have complete medical checkup.

@vincentomondi5612 Жыл бұрын

Let her cry it out,, its not easy loosing a child, very painful. She passed through a lot.

@skeryl7426 Жыл бұрын

My deepest sympathies and healing. Maasais , Samburus, are so so beautiful , her skin n dimples…nice teeth n gap. Be well mama❤

@victoryisours Жыл бұрын

Kila laana ilotamkwa kwako haitafaulu

@ritantananga3666 Жыл бұрын

Please take the boy for TB test aswell,sorry for your loss Ruth.

@louisaeunice4426 Жыл бұрын

The trauma. The way she broke down describing her daughters death and didn’t do the same for her husband let’s me know a mother’s pain is real. Hugs mummy, you’ll be alright ❤

@florencekitonyi9686 Жыл бұрын

You could have stopped the interview for her to calm down her cry is heartbreaking

@bestfunnyfails2 Жыл бұрын

This is so sad and painful may God give Ruth strength

@zainabramadhan6025 Жыл бұрын

I can't stop crying haki madaktari tafadhali ukiona kua mgonjwa wa mtu ako very sick plz let the care takers take care of their sick.. sasa ata huyu mtoto aliomba sana abaki na mamake but akakatazwa why!!!!!!!unapata ata security wanakufukuza na kuambiwa ngojea masaa za visiting.kueni na utu. Tafadhali

@mackoko9054 Жыл бұрын

They are trying to reduce nosocomial infections. By limiting the time spent with patients.

@priscillamuthonimburu1792 Жыл бұрын

Lord may you comfort her soul, give her strength to continue with this life and take care of her family...may you favour her according to your words in Leviticus 26:9-12

@annewairimu1035 Жыл бұрын

Our Messiah please come through for her. Give her a new beginning, a time of rest and joy.

@asiagee5217 Жыл бұрын

When it comes to kids i cannot take it;so painful indeed..take heart..time will help u heal;Cry unto God for strength.

@serahadhiambo3369 Жыл бұрын

😭😭😭

@waridim9249 Жыл бұрын

This is too sad! The death of the little girl breaks my heart. 😰

@dorisfam Жыл бұрын

So sad 😢😢 kindly let them heal first before interviewing them , hata Sina nguvu ya kuwatch the whole thing juu ya pain and cries😥😭😭,adi mtu akue ready to share their story

@lindagithaiga1974 Жыл бұрын

Sure I totally agree 💯

@robertkenyanchef Жыл бұрын

So sad indeed 😭😭😭😭

@noble7123 Жыл бұрын

Telling their stories is part of healing

@fridahnjeri2062 Жыл бұрын

Telling the story is healing ,there is no single day they will heal completely

@lucymwangi2247 Жыл бұрын

Kuna uchungu mtu haezi heal, and healing huanza na kuongea, na hakuna mtu hulazimishwa kushare story so let her be, let her cry it out

@roselineatieno6339 Жыл бұрын

God give her strength. This is sooo painful to watch. Hugs mum

@graceg2464 Жыл бұрын

My dear take your son to the true man of God to be prayed.aki.mpereke church aombewe woiye.tafuta rev cephas wa CCI CHURCH DANDORA.utasaidika woiye🙏

@joycemsiska-chihana9010 Жыл бұрын

Oh Lord May you comfort this hurting mother and give her peace that no man can give her, that surpasses all understanding and heal her aching heart

@jeddyjohn8813 Жыл бұрын

Ruth please take your son and stay with him he needs your company without the sister.. it's good to suffer with your kids than leave them behind and regret later..,.chukua mtoto wako afadhali you suffer together in Nairobi.. please

@pollyokkiboko.osteen4387 Жыл бұрын

I hope she does this

@marilynjoseph237 Жыл бұрын

English please

@leahgithua6728 Жыл бұрын

TB inakuwaga very tricky 🤨kabla ujulikane uko na TB unakuaga umetibiwa pneumonia sana na ma private hospital that's why I choose government hospital coz magonjwa hupatikana haraka kabla hajaenea sana

@risperwambui8369 Жыл бұрын

She has been through alot. It's such a pity.

@lebuajoang5785 Жыл бұрын

May God almighty protect and heal your son; And may your soul heal and find peace

@bennygati324 Жыл бұрын

WOOOW 😪😥POLE SANA.SHE S BRAVE TO TELL THIS STORY.VERY SAD INDEED..MAY GOD STRENGTH HER ALWAYS

@ericameiring7388 Жыл бұрын

The enemy caused this in an attempt to destroy Ruth's life but God will turn this around for His glory! God bless you dear sister Ruth! It was not your fault!

@robertkenyanchef Жыл бұрын

Amen. May God remember her.

@judykathi2886 Жыл бұрын

This is so painful 😔... I can imagine your pain dear ...Be strong

@nyabsmary6449 Жыл бұрын

😭😭😭😭😭 pole mummy. You've been thru alot.May God's healing be upon you na your family

@victoriavikaka Жыл бұрын

It's a high time Kenyan hospitals start calling loved ones to let them know when their loved ones have died or area near death because we have cell phones instead of just letting someone come and find an empty bed.This hurts even more

@robertkenyanchef Жыл бұрын

I agree with you. Sometimes you go there and you are told pole sana😭

@wkimunya Жыл бұрын

Palliative care should be taught a lot to people in kenya . Doctors take advantage. Of vulnerable sick people when they know the person is coming to their End of life (eol)life , they don’t care at all . Palliative care should be explained what palliative care is in details and how to handle it in all ways .

@flower_princess23 Жыл бұрын

True

@mwendapoleee Жыл бұрын

But even when they know like a child is dying why not leave the mum to stay with her child aki wafrika tuko na uyama ingine.

@carolineobegi3648 Жыл бұрын

Pole sana Ruth may u find peace through Christ so sorry for everything ur truely strong person

@toshtechnologies 9 ай бұрын

all she said is true. i have known her since she was a young kid. her nickname was Titai..

@gracerogito8566 Жыл бұрын

You are indeed a strong woman👍👍 ..may God see you through in everything you do ...Always remember Abraham's God is always in control 🙏 have faith

@robertkenyanchef Жыл бұрын

Amen. May God visit her.

@rahabnjuguna202 Жыл бұрын

this is so sad, lm a nurse in US the care for dying patients is very different. the whole family is always allowed to be with the patient even after hrs. l have seen patients take their last breath with their loved ones there, we hold their hands, give them hugs, coffee just to comfort them. kenyan hospitals need to do better, so disappointed.

@eliudmagumba4676 Жыл бұрын

Pole sana. Imeniuma. Mungu ni mfariji mwema dadangu. Jipe moyo. Maombi yangu yako pamoja nawe. pole sana

@georginaopati9587 Жыл бұрын

Pole sana dadangu Mwenyezi Mungu akuvute machozi na akuinue kutoka maisha magumu akupe tabasamu la milele ❤ Rember this... what God cannot do does not exist

@robertkenyanchef Жыл бұрын

She went thru hell, but God can restore all that she lost.

@lucys702 Жыл бұрын

Kenyan hospitals management all over the country need to rethink about not allowing close family members at least 1 or 2 people to spend nights and be there for critical patients especially those that they(doctors and nurses) know very well they are nearing death (end of life) and worst of all pediatric patients!! Both patients and family need your care- patients whose family members are available focus on getting better and not worry about being keft alone wuth strangers! Take care of the whole patient, not only the physical but also the mental health.The whole patient =the patient and the family members.Subjecting a kid that age to unnecessary separation anxiety from the mother is uncalled for. Hospital leaders please emphasize or think about it like this, what if it was your little daughter? These cases are so many in Kenya. Please please hospital management and leadership help families get closure. Pole sana Ruth. 😢 🙏🏾i pray for God's comfort and Divine Protection over you and little Vickie and your parents also.

@bbmcparosekingoo2823 Жыл бұрын

You are right

@mwendapoleee Жыл бұрын

Mimi ningembeba niede na yy sababu sinidawa alikuwa tu anapewa ,ningembeba nililie Mungu amponye ,Mungu ndie anafufua wafu God is the last card when everything jams!

@victoriashiko7172 Жыл бұрын

Well talk we need more help from government talking about the hospital problems 👏🏽🙏🏽🇰🇪

@Zaam026 Жыл бұрын

Llll

@Zaam026 Жыл бұрын

Ll lol

@lizwambui5424 Жыл бұрын

It is such a sorrowful encounter,no parent is supposed to bury her child,I just pray that God may give her peace that surpasses human understanding,I will also advice her to make a plan and live with her remaining kid,cheers mum

@panafrican.nation Жыл бұрын

One thing you can't take away from this woman... She's tough. Toouuuugh

@catherinenjeri5916 Жыл бұрын

Some doctors though, private mostly,why keep a patient you can't manage?

@sharonabiha2546 Жыл бұрын

Woiyeee poleee dear this is so painful 🥺💔 aki people are suffering Sana, yaani it touched my heart like it's my mom or one of my family members, please 🙏 God see her through and give her strength 💪.

@robertkenyanchef Жыл бұрын

Yeah, very sad indeed.

@elizabethnjoki6186 Жыл бұрын

Hugs mama . Mungu akufungulie milango ya baraka na ukuondolee uchungu wa roho .

@robertkenyanchef Жыл бұрын

Very sad indeed. May God comfort her.

@georgeolongo372 Жыл бұрын

May God give you strength Ruth

@beatricemurage9903 Жыл бұрын

Is there a way unaeza kaa na mtoto wako dear maybe u rent kanyumba uanze kabiz hata ya kuzungusha uji,chai mandazi ama kibanda

@robertkenyanchef Жыл бұрын

Good idea. People have made it thru small hustles.

@deborahrehema5819 Жыл бұрын

Oh so it's true so sad Nipe like Niko first 🥇🏆 pole sana so sad 😭

@sadelshiko7210 Жыл бұрын

That man who rejected her with the pregnancy from the genesis is the course of all her misery, hugs mum all shall be well it really hurts expecially that time Michelle was telling you "mum usiniache" mum "unakam kaa nakufa" they really hurt I wish we could meet one day I give you a warm hug😌, God is in control

@robertkenyanchef Жыл бұрын

Very hurting indeed.

@monic1724 Жыл бұрын

Sad indeed

@susansimiyu6079 Жыл бұрын

Sorry for that may God heal your heart.and please may you make arrangements to stay with your son .

@kendimuhoro8471 Жыл бұрын

I heard the Kikuyu version of this sometimes back....I think this girl needs a lot of counselling coz it's like she's becoming worse. She really needs to heal a little bit

@rosewanjanngari7516 Жыл бұрын

Take heart mum

@estherwangui8449 Жыл бұрын

Pole sanaa mungu akupee nguvu

@marthachepchumba2019 Жыл бұрын

😭😭so sad..may she heal

@CALVINJEROP-r4e 27 күн бұрын

So heartbreaking. Am feeling the pain😢

@njeruphyllis1322 Жыл бұрын

Pole sana! It's not easy but may God strengthen you!

@stephengathiri3474 Жыл бұрын

I had seen this lady on another channel today she looks beautiful.

@risperoseko6297 Жыл бұрын

Me too ni vile nimesahau

@panafrican.nation Жыл бұрын

What channel, please?

@nancy3734 Жыл бұрын

Me too... I wonder why people are channel trotting..

@LastEmperor86 Жыл бұрын

@@nancy3734 where is the problem?

@tecmediake Жыл бұрын

Take heart sister, there's no mountain that is big in God's eyes, All this pain will end soon, God will not forsake you🙏

@johnshikuri5532 Жыл бұрын

Amen

@maureenadhiambo2879 Жыл бұрын

Amen

@bekaogoro7071 Жыл бұрын

Pole sana Ruth. It is so painful

@mulkihassan3343 Жыл бұрын

What a beautiful lady. Xx God bless 🙌 🙏 💖

@supercharmy3435 Жыл бұрын

Soo sad mungu aliiyekumba wewe na watoi wako akupe nguvu na amani dada ngu

@jaseminephat4953 Жыл бұрын

My dear if a partner commits suicide just know God saved you from him / her ,he would have killed you....such pple who think of suicide in most cases be sick or going through something terrible

@vincentomondi5612 Жыл бұрын

But you have to be there for him if you realise there is something he is going through

@unicornstable667 Жыл бұрын

Really.its called mental illness. ..shame on an ignorant world.

@jaseminephat4953 Жыл бұрын

@@unicornstable667 but you're in it "ignorant world and u inclusive

@winnienyawiraofficialpage4827 Жыл бұрын

@@vincentomondi5612 true, you have to support and help him/her where you can...your words and prayers might be a very big help to him....hawa watu wanahitajingi tu someone they can trust and listen to them without judging them harshly🙏

@unicornstable667 Жыл бұрын

Ofcourse

@faithchepkoech6121 Жыл бұрын

May God give you strength..

@martinbarasa3442 Жыл бұрын

God will give the strength to overcome the loss take heart.pole sana

@cheb4sho Жыл бұрын

I wish you could just hug her to comfort her, she's really going through it

@catherineahawo822 Жыл бұрын

Pole sana, I've cried with you. May God comfort you

@robertkenyanchef Жыл бұрын

A sad story indeed. May God wipe away her tears.

@bobogitau5383 Жыл бұрын

Am so sorry

@bevelitajohns6891 Жыл бұрын

May God intervine in Ruths Life… Very Sad indeed..❤❤❤❤❤

@robertkenyanchef Жыл бұрын

Very sad indeed

@eldermourine1280 Жыл бұрын

Ruth you are very beautiful and God loves you so much, great things are on your way.

@Masitsa1 8 ай бұрын

This is soo sad. The death of the little gal really pains my heart. I hope God can come in for them and heal this lady. May she find a job to help her take her son to hospital. God please hear my prayers.

@moreenwangui6592 Жыл бұрын

Wooooiii your story made me cry,mungu akusaidie usiwahi pitia mambo kama hayo tena,akuondolee huo uchungu 🙏

@debrahmacharia8373 4 ай бұрын

So heartbreaking

@user-jj7jy5ko4j 6 ай бұрын

It has reach to an extent where by one can't trust her own parents.

@roxinnjeru5837 Жыл бұрын

May the almighty God remember you and heal you Ruth.May he comfort you and give you peace that surpasses all human understanding.

@langathendele973 Жыл бұрын

Do not regret sister. Who knows, since he was abusive he could have killed you too seing that you seemed doing well without him.

@emilymula645 Жыл бұрын

Thank u.

@hildahnalias8005 Жыл бұрын

Painful story but be strong God is there 4 you dear

@mwendapoleee Жыл бұрын

Mama kaa na mtoto wako Mungu atakupa chenye unahitaji!

@ivynyaga3965 Жыл бұрын

So sorry😪 May God heal your soul🙏

@raelchemtai2213 Жыл бұрын

Pole sana Ruth may our good Lord grant you peace that surpasses human understanding.

@joyceatieno6446 Жыл бұрын

This story is very traumatizing.. too much pain

@mercyateka1119 Жыл бұрын

Hugs dear gal

@jebiwotspari9403 Жыл бұрын

May God give you strength my sister 🙏🙏🙏

@JJones-oh3dd Жыл бұрын

Hugs mummy💔

@elizabethatieno718 Жыл бұрын

Pole sana dada

@user-sn9fj5bw8q 8 ай бұрын

May God grant you all shall well

@ennethnasimiyu2677 Жыл бұрын

Be strong always 💪

@margaretmutuku2159 Жыл бұрын

May Almighty God heal her Amen 🙏🙏🙏

@valerieobanya5172 Жыл бұрын

Has anyone seen the popping melanin, the gap between her teeth and the dimples? Woman, you are so gorgeous. May God comfort you.

@jacklyneaseyo9901 10 ай бұрын

May He that make away where there is none see you through. Hugs mama you are so strong.

@carolinemakezi5926 7 ай бұрын

Good hostess but silence is golden sometimes. Telling someone you will get another man and bear more children at such a time is......... Some things are best handled by people who've been there.

@LastEmperor86 Жыл бұрын

Too much suffering in this world.

@millyadhiambo238 Жыл бұрын

Pole sana my dear encourage yourself in the LORD like David when their families were taken captives

@robertkenyanchef Жыл бұрын

What a sad story. May God comfort her

@blkwada Жыл бұрын

I did not understand or speak the language. However, This must be a sad and painful experience. May Jah comfort you and be with you each day! Jah bless!

@wanguwangu3927 10 ай бұрын

She losted first born a girl baby

@RosemaryGeorge_ Жыл бұрын

Haki shida ni mbaya mungu akutunze na akupee mume mzuri

@annwanjiku56 Жыл бұрын

Amen

@williammuli9770 Жыл бұрын

God heal your heart,

@maureen2375 Жыл бұрын

May God give u strength

@kobifm Жыл бұрын

Am so sorry Ruth💔.this is so much pain.

@thehutpropertymanagers-rea1758 Жыл бұрын

Sheso beautiful and speaks nicely ❤❤❤❤❤

@charitywanyela6788 Жыл бұрын

The way she describes her daughter's death makes me remember my own daughter..her death came so quick sometimes I I feel like a dream. It's too painful but the Lord's grace helps me to get through

@lucymwangi2247 Жыл бұрын

Sorry dea, hugs mom

@p.be.s Жыл бұрын

Pole…. Mungu akupe wepesi.