MY MISTAKE Moving to Thailand

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Don't do THIS in Thailand! Learn from my MISTAKES. When I moved to Thailand, Keis told me, Tempus told me - but did I listen...? NOPE! I let my ego run wild and surely enough, it all came back to bite.
Today I speak very candidly about moving to Pattaya, Thailand and the terrible mistakes I made. I discuss binging and spending vs health and budgeting.
I talk about saving money when relocating to Pattaya, Thailand and reveal happened when I let grog get the better of me in downtown Treetown. This may not be an easy watch but I believe it's worth saying should it help others from making the same mistakes. I need to do better - and I will.
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@johnceragioli9671 11 ай бұрын

Very good and honest video Sam. One thing to always remember, when you go overseas you should open your heart and open your mind, without any preconceived notions and ideas that you bring from your home country, to your new countries realities. Always remember that you are a guest in their country and you are at their mercy. Main rule, never do anything thing that’ll make a Thai person lose face, it’s disrespectful.

@DreamofThailand19000 11 ай бұрын

As a Thai, I appreciate your honesty. We all make mistakes but we learn from it. We( Thais)'d rather have foreigners who are real and own their mistakes than those who think they are more superior than we are, and disrespect us and our culture in our country. Welcome to Thailand!

@sk8nix66 11 ай бұрын

Hey Sam, I highly recommend getting into some kind of activity/fitness routine. It's what mentally gets me through my rat race office job. No gym needed, walk/bike/run/skateboard/pushups/squats/whatever floats your boat and gets your blood pumping and muscles firing. It's free, gives you routine and purpose, makes you healthier, takes up a little portion of the day where you could be worrying or drinking, and the routine and discipline is respected by others. Also those endorphins! It's like free drugs bro, you feel good physically and mentally when you're done and you know you can do it again the next day. Cheers mate! Love your content!

@GoneAdrift 11 ай бұрын

Love this sentiment brother. I’m going to follow this up

@mikeyboy3054 11 ай бұрын

Everything Adam told you is solid advice. Listen to him. And as far as you making 3 poor decisions during interactions I say congratulations because you learned valuable lessons and made ammends for it. None of us are perfect. You're lucky because if you get into it drunk or angry with the wrong guy here or any country you could end up dead. You got this. Keep going. A few bumps and the road will be smoother.

@GoneAdrift 11 ай бұрын

Thanks big guy 🙏🏻🙏🏻

@allenbracchi8922 11 ай бұрын

Dude , it doesn’t matter what station in life or nationality another person is , you should always be polite and respectful to anyone you meet.

@stanleykyle 11 ай бұрын

living in Jomtien you have a great beach walkway to get out and cool off your hot head each day by going for a long walk.. you can do two a day, one early in the morning and one at night. I lost 25lbs by doing that in December and January. now I go to the gym every morning to start my day. Shopping at the markets will save money, get a rice cooker, meats at Big c or lotus. develop a daily schedule. you will get back on budget in no time.

@PloyandJayinThailand 11 ай бұрын

Thanks for your honesty. Learning from mistakes is key. We are all young once and make mistakes. But no need to overthink these things. Better days coming 👌

@peteonretreat2023 11 ай бұрын

As a fellow local KZfaqr that openly talks about mental health challenges living here I can’t tell you how refreshing it is to hear your honestly on this topic. Too many folks just say whatever they think their audience wants to hear. You got a sub from me and an ear if you ever want to talk. Take care 🙏🏼

@GoneAdrift 11 ай бұрын

Fuck yes mate

@SkellyGamingCreates 11 ай бұрын

That's right mate, pull your head in. Stop drinking. Start hustling and don't settle in Pattaya.

@franksaunders6534 11 ай бұрын

Head up, man. We all make mistakes especially when drinking and carrying baggage with us. I made plenty of similar mistakes when I lived in Indo in 1996 - most linked to alcohol and letting Western emotions get the better of me. Asia is very different. Rather than despair and fight it, suck in the air, open your eyes, learn to breathe the air and take in all that is around you. There's a lot going on in Asia and the people are great!

@Dan-uc7vl 11 ай бұрын

You made 4 mistakes, 4th being "Don't swim in that ocean!"

@paulweston285 11 ай бұрын

I agree and i lived there its a sewer

@Dan-uc7vl 11 ай бұрын

@@paulweston285 I'll stick to using the hotel pool

@GoneAdrift 11 ай бұрын

Hahaha classic!!

@Deeroc25 11 ай бұрын

I find your honesty and transparency regarding your struggles to be very relatable. Kiesy has a great channel and he seems like a very good friend, but honestly, I can’t really relate to his 100% non-stop enthusiasm and positivity. Anyway, hang in there mate. We are rooting for you 👍. Remember how many blessings you’ve got and be thankful. You’re a young man, living out your dreams in a beautiful part of the world. There will always be bumps in the road but the troubles will pass ✌️

@GoneAdrift 11 ай бұрын

He sure is 100% positivity, always. Never gets stressed. Rarely angry. Rarely concerned with Jack shit! Wish o was more like him 🤦🏼‍♂️

@cdmorrissy3692 11 ай бұрын

I went to many countries, when I was in The Navy, and I learned (usually the hard way) valuable lessons about being successful when in foreign places - be VERY open minded, be VERY patient, do NOT expect anything to work as well as in your home country, do NOT be defensive in your dealings with the locals (but do be cautious in extending trust) and do NOT get drunk, because all of the other "ways" you need to be are (usually) disabled (by booze), and you fail miserably. I'm "semi-retiring" in The Philippines 4/2024, and I'm preparing well for this, and thankfully, I've spent a lot of time there in the past, so "culture shock" isn't really an issue, as I know what to expect, and I'll have A LOT of savings and income, so money won't ever be a problem. The right attitudes and preparation are the key to success.

@BaileyEmia 11 ай бұрын

Respect. When your actions don't match the words you say, life gets hella stressful bro. It's kinda like you can't even do what you said you were gonna do so you start second guessing and losing trust in yourself. Then every time life slaps you back to reality and you say those same words about changing for the better and doing the right thing, they become meaningless and hold less and less weight and everything feels foreign and foggy. And once you step back and take in the view, you realise the cycle continues to loop on different levels throughout your life over and over and over. Starting again, taking on small challenges like waking up on time, making your bed in the morning, eating breakfast and following through, you start believing in yourself again and the confidence and competence starts growing again, and all of a sudden life's looking up, and you feel capable of tackling those big things again. I'm only saying this because i've been there/done that, and from what you've shared so far I see a lot of similarities. It's all love, bro. We're all gonna make it 🤙🏽

@GoneAdrift 11 ай бұрын

Thank you mate

@jm-is4cr 11 ай бұрын

when i moved to thailand ,after 1 month i was over it and missed home ,but i stuck to it and never looked back after getting over the first month .just gota keep going mate .

@GoneAdrift 11 ай бұрын

Thank you brother

@philt6470 11 ай бұрын

Glad that you made amends with those you wronged & those that you mean a lot to.👍 Just know that we all can make mistakes & don't beat yourself up to much about it. Be the best person you can be to others, whilst remembering why you moved to Thailand in the first place. Good Vibes & Good Friends.😉 Thanks for your honesty Sam.

@native_ty 11 ай бұрын

some solid advice right there. After spending 3 or so months in thailand earlier this year im getting ready for the big move myself. thanks for the tips !

@mikemcneil5647 11 ай бұрын

First video I've seen of yours and you seem easy going on camera. We all go through ups and downs, and you've been through a bit of baptism of fire moving countries with the stress that comes with it. Sounds like you understand where you need to be and you have some mates around that will help (I follow Keis and think his last video was speaking to some of the issues you mentioned). Good luck, and best wishes. I'll keep wathcing.

@bradfromoz 11 ай бұрын

Love your openness with your ups and downs on your new adventure Sam. Youve done so well getting where you are now. And a positive youve learnt some tough lessons early on. Keep going Brother!!

@GoneAdrift 11 ай бұрын

Love you bro

@chopsfury7980 11 ай бұрын

Dude, way to man up and take ownership!, that’s solid my man. Also sharing vulnerabilities and being honest with yourself. Don’t beat yourself up too much about it, just now maintain this mindset, stay positive and kick ass. You got this all the way. 💪🏻. Fully support you moving forward mate, go get it.

@TheTimeIsNow1985 7 ай бұрын

Thanks for being real 😊 I plan on moving to Thailand within 60 days, on a budget. Never been there before. I'm glad you have figured it out quickly and got yourself back on track ❤ you got this!

@andrewoakley4957 11 ай бұрын

Good to hear that you're learning from those errors and made a point of making your peace with the affected people. It takes a big man to do that, so don't beat yourself up too much. Relax and embrace the beauty of Thailand and the thai's 😊.

@mactvtravel 11 ай бұрын

cant believe Ive only just seen this, your transparency in this videos speaks volumes mate, love it!! and so does everyone else looking at the views fair play mate, i know your doing well now, will pop down Soi 7 again soon as i can bro ❤

@lRedBaronl 11 ай бұрын

Hey man! I truly appreciate this video because I am moving to Thailand soon and I know that going to a new country for vacations and moving there permanently are two completely different things. You sound real in this video brother. Remember we all make mistakes and you going to apologize shows that you are humble and learn from your mistakes. I’m a new sub and also, random question. You mentioned that you gave the girls at the bar “artwork” what exactly do you mean by that? Are you an artist? If so, I am a digital artist myself.

@noaneill 11 ай бұрын

Great vlog! Having the ability to raise your hands and say, "I fucked up" is commendable. And to then also chat about it on KZfaq? Fair play!

@simonnz7193 11 ай бұрын

Number one rule , avoid confrontation !!!! Good honest vlog mate, very easy to get carried away with the drinking so good to see you are having a break.

@goodvibespattaya2423 11 ай бұрын

Well done mate, good advice and please let me know anytime you want a chat or someone to hangout and bounce shit off, I’m back from Koh Samui and happy to come and meet you in Jomtien, it gets easier 👍

@levelinggenius1474 11 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing. Everyone just wants to front like it’s all perfect and that it’s so easy to make it there. Being humble is so hard sometimes. Good luck to you man.

@TheMikeyStory 11 ай бұрын

I think in your case , its about drinking in moderation when your out at a bar or somewhere , this way its less of a chance you will do something stupid or something you cant take back and it cost you , if your going to get drunk then do it at your place or at a place that your around friends whom know how you are when your drunk and they know how to handle you ... Its best to get away from ANY fights from a Thai cuz you will lose by default ... The key is to know your limits and know what advantages you have that works in your favour .... Mostly , live your best life and make youtube videos that you pay you so you dont have to have many jobs to live .... just saying .

@BR-bd1nv 11 ай бұрын

Good luck on your journey, Just out of curiosity have you ever lived abroad before? Do you contribute all three of your mistakes solely to drinking? If not what other adjustments (physical fitness, meditation etc..)are you taking to address other possible factors that led to your mistakes?

@andreasjohnson9041 11 ай бұрын

Great video! Loved your honesty and how great the people are around you. Never judge the people around you. Your honesty was refreshing!

@daveinsea 11 ай бұрын

I feel you, bro! I have been in Thailand for 5 weeks. I've made a few mistakes, too. Mostly, with understanding/communication. I have had to watch my alcohol intake, too. I joined a gym a couple of weeks ago, and that has helped. Culture Shock is real. Head up, my bro! You've got this!

@user-qz6mt9wo5x 11 ай бұрын

Sam stay strong mate. life is never easy and a person can get caught up in the party way to easy. keep up the awesome vids buddy.

@pejfectlife 11 ай бұрын

Decompression looks different for everyone. And without the right tools to deal with it, it can surely be messy. Glad you realized what path you were on before it was truly too late. Keep it up. :)

@mikeg8013 11 ай бұрын

Dumping the booze is a great move, owning up to and realizing your mistakes were an even better move. Keep pumping out the content boss man 🤙🏽 aloha from Hawaii

@ifitistobeitisuptome 7 ай бұрын

Love the honesty, looking forward to watching more from you in the coming months! Cheers! 🙂

@theworldaccordingtohappyba2393 11 ай бұрын

Wow. You are one honest guy. You may have stuffed up but you have owned it, so dont be too hard on yourself mate. It is an easy thing to do in that place. Just keep the boozing to one day a week and set yourself a limit then go home

@S2KDAN101 11 ай бұрын

dude, great video, I like what you said near the end about those 3 interactions gone right.. connections are Key! and will help you so much in life. you never know when walking up to someone, who they are or what they do. the more friends the better.

@scubasausage 10 ай бұрын

I found this fascinating. I dont know your back story or why you moved out to Pattaya. I lived there for 7 years as a SCUBA insstructor and the one thing I would say is that if you dont have a job or a purpose out there then you will fall victim of the city sooner or later. I wish you all the best mate. I had an amazing time moving to Pattaya when I was 20. I daresay doing it younger makes it easier.

@BadRongo 11 ай бұрын

Dude. Being a nice person and putting good energy out there to others will always pay you back in dividends. The younger you learn that lesson, the happier and more at peace your life will be.

@GoneAdrift 11 ай бұрын

Yes Sir!!!!

@veclubby 8 ай бұрын

Thailand is nice for 2 weeks. You go home, work a bit and plan your next trip 6 months down the track. I find 2 weeks is my limit there, i cannot wait to get back to Melb

@Stuclinton 11 ай бұрын

Just found your channel Sam, I've lived here for 18months sold everything and haven't got an income source I live off investments and it's very stressful at times. One thing I have learned is you must not beat yourself up we all make mistakes I've been fortunate and I understand thai culture very well. What you did was 100% the right thing to do just treat everyone with respect if you don't get it back no big deal. Living in Pattaya is going to be a little bit harder I think than say Hau hin where I live as it not known for its party lifestyle. If your a drinker then you will struggle living there and I'd even consider somewhere not so crazy. Get into a routine get yourself working online go to the gym ect oi only drink at the weekends and not a great deal just keep busy my friend if you need any help with anything let me know I always willing to help anyone that needs it😁👍🏼

@mercy2me1 11 ай бұрын

Simple & natural is the best way to go bro. In my youth partying has always been toxic for me but the best things in life has been hobbies, exercise, & simple inexpensive things. When you focus more on how to help one person (even in small ways) love will find you. Some of us have been burnt in life because our job was helping others but God wants us to turn that job into a passion to help the one (shepherd leaves the 99 to go after the one). Don’t know why I’m saying all this but feel God has some good things in store for you. 🙏🙏

@stackedfat 11 ай бұрын

Takes a real man to admit his mistakes and to make amends for them. Good job. Keep doing better.

@davewave36 11 ай бұрын

Self awareness & never lying to ourselves is critical, as you realized. I believe it's a common process for western men to figure out in Asia. Something that I did, that most men will 'eye roll' about is starting a meditation practice, starting with 5 minutes & working up. Calming my Monkey Mind, working on being grateful for the friends and loved ones who put up with me, being alive and healthy, cause we forget it's all temporary. Find a Yoga class, language class, art class, whatever it is that you define as your 'Safe Activity' also been through the PTSD thing, it's brutal being hyper aware for threats 24/7. Anyway, love your content, thanks for sharing, and looking forward to watching your successful transition.

@summercameron3505 7 ай бұрын

I am still thinking about visiting/moving to Thailand and have just over 2 years clean and sober here in California. I hope they have AA meetings there - the program saved my sanity and my life, and I am beyond grateful 🙏

@GoneAdrift 7 ай бұрын

Mate I’m about to make a video about this. There’s A LOT of meetings in Pattaya and likely other areas of course.

@summercameron3505 7 ай бұрын

Congrats Sam! Keep coming back!!! @@GoneAdrift

@OUFN 11 ай бұрын

We Live and We Learn, experiences that last a lifetime. Thanks for sharing this!

@TEpScin 6 ай бұрын

Props to you for taking the challenge of living abroad. I have plans to retire in Thailand so I appreciate your info. Have fun!

@sweatingbuckets 11 ай бұрын

Good self awareness Sam. Well done quitting drinking. Thats the way forward. Give it a month or two and you'll be on top of everything. It sounds like you need a bit of time to decompress and adjust. Drinking wont help but time will. Relax adjust a bit. Be kind to yourself. Good video btw. Very authentic.

@GoneAdrift 11 ай бұрын

I won’t quit permanently. Just had a break to refocus and reassess :)

@gastongeneral6861 11 ай бұрын

You have made some excellent insights into your situation. Good luck. Cheers The politeness one/ reputation one is key as you have found out.

@carole2835 10 ай бұрын

Great video - I've learned in life if you are respectful and smile, make an effort to try to do a good deed each day if only opening a door for someone or when doing a big shop and you let that person with a couple of items go in front of you their reaction makes you feel better than any bottle of Leo could!

@antoniorangel5011 8 ай бұрын

You have to be respectful at all times, even for one minute in a different country. You mentioned that if you came for two weeks you didn’t care. Just learn for your mistakes, we all deserve a second chance.

@zzfightingirish 11 ай бұрын

Im assuming this came up in my feed because i watched keis one. Glad to have come across you and subbd . Cant wait to watch more!

@markhutchison5187 11 ай бұрын

Well spoken Sam , stay strong and believe in yourself mate 👍

@drummerchicago 10 ай бұрын

the late Robin Wiliams said it best "Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be kind. Always."

@JP.Travelz 11 ай бұрын

Thanks for your vulnerability and self awareness … doing this will provide you some pressure and accountability to keep on track ! You are only 4 months ahead of me in my Thailand dream ( October 15 😂😂) This really was an amazing video Sam

@EarthCamper 11 ай бұрын

Yes ..for me Number one thing....do not confront Thai person....so many videos out there saying this.... everyone should know this even before we book ticket first time....

@jaredgrant9201 11 ай бұрын

Live and learn brotha that’s what life’s all about! Props to you for correcting your wrongs. Keep killin it !!

@GoneAdrift 11 ай бұрын

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

@paulandrews4767 11 ай бұрын

Bro, have to say this is one of your best vids yet! Brutal, honest, truth! Everyone has their demons, trust me I know. Peace mate

@lordrossmacca 11 ай бұрын

Sounds like some very good advice for people considering moving to Thailand. Stay cool and be safe. You need to consider the long term and stay off the grog

@NewyJon7787 11 ай бұрын

Good luck man, found your channel from following Keis channel. I found him when planning my own Thailand adventure. Sadly mine was only a visit. Would love to come back sometime soon though. Hopefully see some of Vietnam next time as well.

@journeyofaconfusedartist 9 ай бұрын

So True. Just be nice and kind and you will be looked after

@jomontanee 10 ай бұрын

LOVE LOVE YOUR HONEST BLOGGING. Please keep it up. This can be your FORTE!❤❤

@jeffsimpson46 11 ай бұрын

It is wise of you to learn from mistakes. Way to go! It sounds like you are on the right track.

@craigellis8354 5 ай бұрын

Your contrition is sincere We’ve all had triggers in our life Live Learn Do better Stay safe brother

@Skenners 11 ай бұрын

Rough, buddy. The real measure of good character is how you react to the bad things you do to others. What you did after you realized you screwed up shows good character and shows growth and learning from a good person. well done, man. Like I said when you left, there's very few things in life that you cant bounce back from. Keep going, man and if it gets too much, i got a spare room you can crash in for a few days! :D

@dolphinvlogs2831 5 ай бұрын

Some of the soundest advice I've heard. I admire your honesty. We always keep security sweet with drinks, fruit and snacks at least once week. You just never know. Good luck

@richiemochi 11 ай бұрын

Everything done in Thailand is at a much slower pace. Practicing patience is very important if your living there long term. Words get out very fast wherever you are living amongst the locals. Good luck

@addicted2travel966 10 ай бұрын

4th Mistake is thinking Pattaya is cheap, which it is but it’s very easy to get lost in the sauce in Pattaya. So much temptation and outside of partying there is nothing else to do in Pattaya. Spent over a year living there and now I find Bangkok a much better balance to live.

@MrABroad 10 ай бұрын

Everyone make mistakes, but this is how we learn from them. 👌💯 I am going to Thailand very soon, can’t wait

@eastongreen7164 11 ай бұрын

Excellent video mate! When you get real... many of us can relate. I live here in Pattaya as well and essentially you gotta find a purpose. For me... I joined a gym and will begin Muay Thai soon... Keep your head up bro... Just remember it took courage to get here and leave the West in the rearview...

@GoneAdrift 11 ай бұрын

Great sentiment mate. Thank you

@andyinasia0 11 ай бұрын

Fair play for opening up dude. I think your experiences will help people that move to Thailand. That bloody squirrel looked like a fridge with a head, a massive unit of a thing 🤣 Stay strong 👊

@GoneAdrift 11 ай бұрын

Hahaha best comment! Thanks legendb

@Grimreapervlogs 11 ай бұрын

Good to see U recognise your mistakes mate. Your a good bloke bro

@brad1084 11 ай бұрын

You are growing fast.(subscribers).We all make mistakes but learning and moving forward with realization is important.I know the stress one face moving to new country.I have that experience.Reputation matters in every aspect of life brother.

@GoneAdrift 11 ай бұрын

Thanks Brad, I’m learning right?

@intsccents 9 ай бұрын

Been coming to Thailand for about 20 years and have seen foreigners misbehaving over drinking and causing problems its unexceptable and im glad you changed your tune ! life gets better with clear eyes... L.A Rob

@chriskerrico6855 11 ай бұрын

Great video, keep it up I moved to Thailand a week or so before you. Everything you said is on point!!

@rikwilliams388 11 ай бұрын

It's pretty straightforward, treat others the same as you'd like to be treated. Be respectful to everyone as there are better ways to deal with disputes, especially in situations when you're the only member on your team. Good luck with your stay in Thailand 👍

@GoneAdrift 11 ай бұрын

I appreciate it 🙏🏻

@joegiccominato7402 11 ай бұрын

Sam that is just the best advice about Thailand. Ok so you made some big mistakes but you learned from. Keep an open mind mate, its not like Aust, i just go with the flow in Thailand, smile, and thank you. great video Sam and very honest well done

@byt290 11 ай бұрын

As tourists...we must be extra polite with Thai people. They really appreciate it & doors will open for you 🇹🇭😎🇦🇨

@GoneAdrift 11 ай бұрын

I appreciate it 🙏🏻

@williamhartz8707 11 ай бұрын

I lived in north Pattaya on Beach Rd for over 14 years ( employment near the city). I never had any issues because I never hit the bars or Walking Street & such. My evening activity was going to the gym. Most of my weekend social life was spent in BKK - a more cosmopolitan venue.

@GoneAdrift 11 ай бұрын

BKK ❤️

@youtuber-MGTOW 11 ай бұрын

You went through a lot to fulfill your dream of moving to Thailand, Sam. Of course your emotions had to come out at one point. Shift down a gear, slow down a bit and give yourself time to arrive. Limit your drinking and find a more healthy routine. I have no doubt that you will succeed 🙏

@douglaswilliams4274 11 ай бұрын

Great refreshing honest video. ❤ Slow down and enjoy life. Stay Safe, and Stay Blessed Sam. Cheers,

@JayJay-mw5ur 11 ай бұрын

Good video and more than the standard ‘mistakes I made ‘ vid that we see from many vloggers in Thailand , Philippines etc. Can’t put my finger on your ‘x’ factor that made me want more - perhaps it was your anecdotes and self appraisal . Anyway maybe you will find your niche with this style. Keep it up.

@ExploringBangkok 11 ай бұрын

It's good you're honest to yourself!

@Improveng1 9 ай бұрын

Some great advice there Sam. It's a big thumbs-up and a sub from me. Respect from the UK.

@Messyhit 11 ай бұрын

Yo bro, can’t always be rainbows and unicorns. Well done making this video that must’ve been a tough one. Pattaya can be the best place ever but also mentally draining at times, between the move and settling in you have had alot to deal with and probably not stopped to process it all. No better place in the world to learn about Jai yen 🙏🏻

@GoneAdrift 11 ай бұрын

🙏🏻

@theresafry3514 11 ай бұрын

Goodluck in Thailand ! Very exciting to jump out there .

@bags4649 11 ай бұрын

It;s ok, mate... sounds like it's been a lesson learned, without too much damage done.... Try to get some Aussie food after a couple of weeks, helps with the homesickness a little bit.

@Paula-yw4rx 7 ай бұрын

I am very proud of you and appreciate your honesty :)

@rickyisaan 11 ай бұрын

Moving to the night-life capital of Thailand probably doesn't help with the temptations to go out and drink nightly. But definitely hope you get on top of things and make yourself into a long-term resident of Thailand mate 👍

@bgt828 11 ай бұрын

Mate, you were making great videos back in Oz and on your previous trips to Thailand. How about doing daily vids? Or every second day? Maybe that could be a focus to keep your mind busy and stay out of trouble? Understandably Sin City would be a tough place to live.

@bgt828 11 ай бұрын

Also a word of advice, always give yourself 6 months in a new place. It is always hella tough in the beginning. But you need to force yourself to do 6 months and after that you'll be happy you stayed. Almost one month down, focus on getting through the next 5. 😎

@johnhughes1952 11 ай бұрын

But isn't the way you say we should behave in Thailand relevant to whichever country you live in? Don't be confrontational and disrespectful? Don't live beyond your means? Before you say that Thailand is different, I have lived here for 25 years and had no problems whatsoever. It's the same all over the world, treat others as you wish to be treated yourself. The main message I get from your video is ... 'Don't drink too much'. However, I'm glad to see that you quickly realized your errors and changed ... believe me, many haven't and paid the price. My genuine best wishes for the future.

@GoneAdrift 11 ай бұрын

Many thanks Mr John. I’ll heed this lesson

@keithmuckchucker6468 11 ай бұрын

STRESS is a killer! drives you nuts, try working the stress and aggression out in the gym😊😊and just be the version of you that you want to be, things will all drop into place in time

@GoneAdrift 11 ай бұрын

Thank you brother

@user-kz9rp3pq2z 11 ай бұрын

Great vlog, Sam. Open and honest. One of the six perfections in Buddhism is giving, and with giving your honest story you have created positive karma for yourself. Keep moving forward mate.

@GoneAdrift 11 ай бұрын

I appreciate it 🙏🏻

@brice5542 11 ай бұрын

Good on you for making amends, I have lived in Thailand, Cambodia. Its not easy, but hey your learning. Good for you. cheers hang in there; you will meet some sweet honest Thais.

@ketil4 11 ай бұрын

Keep your head up, everyone make mistakes. Nice video, not only showing the bright side of living here. I said hello to you and Adam, at Trepprasit night market about a week ago :) Keep going :)

@pbt3051 10 ай бұрын

Subbed, for honesty, humanity, humility, and great advice. I figure if we farangs go to Thailand, we should be so polite and gracious to the Thai and anyone really. I haven't been there for 30 years but am going to get another trip together soon.