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Mama was absolutely right, he’s talking down to himself the entire song dealing with depression and survivors guilt. Thank you so much for checking it out. Also as mentioned, “i” is a continuation of this song so you should def check it out someday

Your mom was spot on. Kendrick wrote this song in the booth and recorded the vocals with the lights turned off. The producer said it was a really uncomfortable session because he just recorded while Kendrick was battling his demons right in front of him. She's extremely perceptive!

I’m so sorry for my little breakdown , it was a combination of the song and also my personal fight. I will try to record as much as possible till surgery, but it ain’t easy . Be kind 🙏

She needs to whole album to lead up to this, also tell your mom we all cried the first time we heard this.

kdot's non-mainstream songs actually becomes more pleasing to the ears the more you listen to it. I actually would listen to U more than humble. That little break, the beat change + kdot's breaking voice is something else.

“U” is the ego self, “i” is the real true soul self, god said I am that I am

Mom was spot on that first comment. The Homelander reference was surprisingly fitting.

Mama was right. Kendrick was talking to himself

Mama is very emotionally intelligent. I didn’t get the meaning of the song the first time I heard this album. I wasn’t listening with intent, but it’s great that she understood it right away!

Your mother is absolutely correct. Kendrick admitted he was talking to himself. It's an emotional rollercoaster. I was battling suicidal depression and let me tell you. It's a tear jerker due to how relatable it is. God bless y'all for checking out more of Kendrick's music.

Kendrick’s albums really should be heard in order

Sending all the love to Mom ❤

She interpreted the video without even watching it. She had it on point

I loved watching this. I'm a fan of Kendrick Lamar and it's so touching to see someone so intuitively feel and understand his message. Mama was 100% right. This song is based on a true story of Kendrick falling into a depression whilst he was on tour- he locked himself up in a hotel room, drank a lot and had suicidal thoughts. He was dealing with survival's guilt because he felt he had abandoned Compton- following his recent rise to fame- and his community was still struggling with poverty and violence. Kendrick is particularly affected by an incident that occurred before he became famous, where his close friend's younger brother was shot and killed. If you listen to 'Sing About Me, I'm Dying of Thirst' from his previous album- he recounts this story through the perspective of the older brother (First verse). There's also another song on To Pimp A Butterfly called 'These Walls' about Kendrick's vengeful thoughts against the murderer. So this incident is very much a recurring theme in Kendrick's discography. But back to 'U'...the song also addresses Kendrick's guilt over his sister getting pregnant at a young age- he felt that he failed to be a positive influence in her life, despite some of the songs on his past mixtapes that were made to uplift and positively influence young women. In general, Kendrick really struggles with self love. A lot of his music reflects that he does have an ego, but if you pay close attention you'll see he takes every opportunity to make himself smaller. The theme of duality is constant within his art. 'To Pimp A Butterfly' was designed to resemble the structure of a poem- so the songs are not necessarily meant to be sonically pleasing. But the album contains an immense amount of energy and is a beautiful emotional roller coaster. Sending you lots of healing energy Mama!

Bless your mother. Her feelings and interpretation is 100% correct. Because it’s hers. That’s what musical art is about. Her overstanding of what the song can be used for is the same as what I was thinking…… Sometimes when your in a dark place. Open your eyes to see the darkness.

My mother passed away recently to bone marrow cancer. Definitely enjoy these moments while you can. Thanks for sharing ❤

This song still makes me cry and it’s been almost a decade now

Gotta react to “i” after this, it’s the perfect shift from “u”

That song was the first time i felt seen and understood on a personal deep level.

you are definitely right he was talking about himself in this song, hope your mom feels better with what shes gone through!

Mama’s interpretation on this song was perfect… I couldn’t articulate it as well as she did and I’ve listened to this song 100’s of times

Omg mom was spot on. He was talking to himself. I get what she said about not sonically pleasing but I have listened to TPAB fully at least 12 times since it was released. Kendrick fans know that Kenny makes music for himself first. He can make hits and sonically pleasing songs but at times it’s to remind everyone that he can. All his albums has a general theme for the most part and kinda reflects on his current state of life of state he’s coming out of. Forever a fan

Bless mama. May her health go to 100%

I’m so sorry to hear that prayers for your mom. She’s a fighter!!!

Mom is an empath she definitely felt the energy of what Kendrick was feeling ..prayers to your mom 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Damn. Your mom got the meaning of the song practically exactly. Thats so sweet man.

I loved how your mom talked about how it’s ok to be “in the zone” of being sad, and when the next day comes you might realize that it’s not so bad, because funny enough that’s exactly what happens with the following song on to pump a butterfly. “We gon be Alright!!” You should definitely do a reaction to “Alright” soon with that context in mind

this was beautiful. her interpretation is spot on

Kendrick Lamar- Father Time It's a phenomenal song by him. Especially if your on your journey of growing and healing.

This is the most wholesome video I've seen in a while. I found that song recently while I was trying out some new things in my discography (I just found out abt Kendrick) and I'm starting to listen to albums from top to bottom in a 1 sit. This song absolutely destroyed me, I had to take a break from it (I did not finish TPAB just yet) and I keep listening to this track over and over. It really impacted me. As a recommendation I would request that you two listen to the album good kid mad city but more specifically "M.a.a.d City, Swimming Pools, Sing About Me I'm Dying of Thrist" in a row. It tells a story and when you get to the last soul it really is soulbreaking. Best wishes for both of you.

It's amazing that she was so spot on, on the very first listen. ❤

This was a great reaction. REAL HIP HOP does this. Speak to the real in all people 🤲. Peace to you and yours✊

Mom’s interpretation is what Kendrick’s music makes you do! Or it’s what it should do if you allow yourself to go there! “I make music that electrifies them, you make music that pacifies them”

Still my favorite kendrick song. Makes me cry every time

My prayers go out to you and your mother. Her reaction to this song is the truest form of emotion. This is the beautiful thing about hip hop, you can feel the pain and truth that artists like create with their art.

Your mom is an amazing emotionally intelligent woman. Good luck to her 🙏🏽

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Hearing the song makes me wanna go back and listen to the album again...

As an immigrant that went through architecture this song hit hard . Being 3000 Mike's from, home and everyone telling you yout worthless and you begin to doubt yourself and the talent within you . I graduated bu5 it was dark tjmes

Love her, she reminds me of my Grandma, keep her safe

Your mom is spot on about the meaning! Sending love and strength with what she’s going through!

I can only listen U every once in a while because it makes me shed a few tears.

Your mother shows her emotions to us freely. Respect and love to her.

As emotional as watching this is, its beautiful seeing someone spending time with their mother. All the best for you both!

Bro I love the sincerity and synchronicity of the head bob… like she really playing attention to her past..loving in the future with the same perception of different aspects

bro you’re mom has to be protected shes a wonderful human and person i am going to pray for yall

I am SO thankful for her translation, it hits so much deeper. I feel that's his subconscious telling him he doesn't have much time to clean out the guilt, depression, and inner demons, he must do it now👀

I love how hip hop can be good and a way to show how depression really affects PEOPLE not just a black man but just people. I pray for your mom and deliverance from your situation. Also understanding because this world is scary and confusing. Love ❤

Actually i love when people are emotional, specially with kendrick music. He is a real artist and I cried a lot to “count me out” video. And everyone has been harsh to themselves sometimes in their lives. Your mom is so sweet soul and i feel it to how she accepts the music. Subscribed ❤

First of all, sending a lot love to mama, i hope everything goes well

She said “there’s something with humble and pride” and Kendrick Lamar got songs with both tittles

I love how sweet your mother’s spirit is because she’s so sincere. She didn’t miss anything. Unfortunately, it’s difficult to appreciate art that challenges and yet hit our own emotional triggers. I love the whole “To Pimp a Butterfly” Album as it challenges and pushes the listener as the artist dug deep into his emotions. That piece of wonderful art was powerful.

Sending all the good vibes to mommaT

seeing someone be this emotional when listening to music is such a beautiful thing and the magic that comes behind it is unexplainable. Kendrick is one of the most important artist of Hip-Hop and this reaction is why. The message is felt all abroad.

This is one of the realest thing i ever heard and i always thought of it , when u are in a bad mood and overwhelmed by whatever reasons or things and people telling u for example do not listen to sad music u ll be even more sad. Ok i get it and that might be also true ,but how long can u just lie to yourself that u r fine while u are actually not fine ( its okay to not be fine sometimes ) and that's why listening to something more sad ,emotional and realistic can be so much better cause u just relief urself from all the bad energy and thoughts or whatever just by crying or just simple listening to something more emotional

Your mom is precious.

You should listen to Lauryn hill the miseducation of Lauryn hil

She got it wow mama understood the concept and her spirit connected with the lyrics and she can relate is some way I love this

Cant believe how fast she got it. Almost cried during the reaction

The struggle with your inner self. You against you. Beautifully spoken.

I love how momma was bobbing her head like a true hip hop fan ❤

I would say Kendrick Lamar is the first rapper to make me feel every emotion he has more than one song I cried at and it’s been times I didn’t cry at weddings and funerals

Her reaction was so beautiful and genuine… ❤ and correct!

your mom is so sweet i love this video thx for the wach😁

Kendrick need to see this. This song has touched so many.

Dude momma learning spanish bc so many people that watch their videos are spanish speakers is insane. What a nice woman, I'm happy you have each other

u and Sing About Me will always be my favorite Kendrick songs. I’ve been suicidal since elementary school and u helped me in 2015 which was the same year I was inches from ending it all. Still a struggle

5:24 the power of Kendrick music n why he’s so versatile as an artist to be able to depict himself in such a light that millions of ppl can relate in their own way

❤❤ mom is strong and we praying for mom🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

Your Mom is a G for this!!! MAY GOD BLESS HER!!!

This song always hits home for me my first time listening to it gave me a slight anxiety attack triggered my childhood traumas in which made me hate myself truly unfortunate how common it is ❤ Listening to Kendrick is being forced into therapy though he’s songs resurfacing childhood traumas and showing how to heal them then let it grown instead

All our prayers and love goes out to you momma.

Best track on the album. Just pure beauty

The way I look at "U" and "I". U is how i looked at myself when influence by the external, hence why it is "you". I is more about the perception that comes from within.

Moms hit it on the button. He is definitely talking to himself. Survivors guilt and shame. This is very emotional for me to watch as well moms...I pray for you to heal and continue doing these videos with your son. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

Don’t apologize for crying. We understand and we send love your way, most people have probably cried due to this song and plenty of others. Wish the best for you guys.

Praying for a successful surgery to Mom 🙏🏼 and absolutely love your reactions guys. ♥️ “Yes it is true, Kendrick was talking to himself but furthermore he was giving us (the listener) a chance to relate in that it is okay not be okay sometimes, once you realize that, you gain a new profound introspection of yourself, that allows you to be vulnerable enough to face your demons allow yourself a chance at coming out stronger.” First time I heard “u” it broke me down and “I” picked me up. Thanks again for the reaction. 🙏🏼🫶

I’m new to your channel and I must say the mom’s reaction here is so pure that you can’t help but cry with her. She gets Kendrick’s messages so well with her perception of his music. Kendrick makes music for the heart. Things that challenges the core by exposing himself. That’s how we properly relate and grow as a society. When we take time to become vulnerable and realize that we’re not the only ones who go through life’s crazy courses, it makes coexisting and connecting so much better. This song is the epitome of “we are our own worst critics” Kendrick’s journey to love himself while trying to leave a positive impact with his music is something that needs to be studied in college courses

Shoutout to you and your mom I hope all is well going forward and looking forward to the great content stay blessed mom ☝🏾

Sending prayers and blessings to your mom.

I’m not sure what the full intent of this video may have been but I have to say I appreciate this review and Mom’s read of this song more than you’ll ever know. TPAB is probably my favorite album of all time, and I know this song all too well, from the message, to the chaos, down to the angle of Kendrick’s approach. I haven’t listened to this song in a long time; today im in a very dark place, fighting daily to find my way out and attempting to do my own self help therapy over the last 8-9 months. Hearing Mom’s read of the first phase of this track kinda sent me through a loop, it shifted Kendrick’s words directed at himself to me directing it to myself as I read the lyrics with you guys. This is the first time this song has ever reached me this way and I think I like this song even more now. Today may be my day to feel bad for myself, and for once it’s not a terrible feeling 😅 so I’ll say Thank you. Liking, subbing, and praying for Mom. Y’all are the shit❤

I just want to start by saying I appreciate the time and attention you take with your mother. That love is priceless. Also she was spot on with her Interpretation. There are a few things to take note of. The song is very dark but also very cultural. I wont say you have to had lived through it to understand or listen to it a lot, but I will say where you are in life can determine how you identify with this song. Also there definitely is a contrast in the way the songs U and I sound. But Kendrick is very intentional with his song choice and placement. It's in my honest to fully enjoy the Rollercoaster of this song. It is best paired with the following track on the album which is titled alright. I dont k ow if your mother has heard that one. I usually recommend listening to both songs together just for balance. I think you should let you mother hear alright and tell her to keep In mind that this is what comes next. I hope for nothing but the best for you and your family✌🏾

Mom felt everything, I got emotional myself ❤❤❤

i got teary not the first time when i heard but the time when i understood the lyrics because I came from different country. This music is something you have to live with to understand.

This was a great reaction. You are right on the nose about the song. The song wasn't meant to make you dance but look within at the harsh truths

BEAUTIFUL. Its brings people together is empathy for each others own personal journey. Music is KING.

Your mom is a legend, the fact that she ca n connect to a song to that level on the first listen is incredible to say the least. She's the best brother! Cherish her forever.

I cried listening to this too. Your mom is spot on with the interpretation. I’m sending your mom prayers 💜🙏

the boys reference out of nowhere was crzy 🤎 love to yu both

We love you Mom. Get well soon!

We love you Mom, prayers of strength and enduring faith…stay strong momma bear

This is one of my favs from TPAB it’s sooooo poetic and unfortunately so relatable but so is “i” so listen to both he gets better lol but in real life I feel like a lot of ppl go in circles between u and i

Your mom is such a beautiful person bro! I’m glad you got to shared this moment 🫶🏾

Salute to mom! Praying for you.

I appreciate her take and this is why Kendrick is great, he makes you think and feel and confront, appreciate you momma

I'm having such a hard day, and I appreciate having Mom's emotional vulnerability to keep me company right now 💖

Best wishes to your mom! I pray for a speedy recovery. ❤❤

great reaction amazing mom ur blessed to have her

I haven't heard the song in a while and after replaying it I was nearly in tears. This is possibly a top 10 song for Kendrick's legacy and is an inspiration to how to write a self-reflection song. Thank you for sharing your reaction.