My mother-in-law has her fist so deep in my husband that she's convinced him our son isn't his...

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My mother-in-law has her fist so deep in my husband that she's convinced him our son isn't his and to get tested. Fine, then I'll give them what they want with a fistful of divorce papers. Plus one update.
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@ai_d_in 24 күн бұрын

First pin pls ❤😊

@michaellunney2737 20 күн бұрын

The fact that he went ahead with the paternity test at the insistence of his mother shows that no matter how abusive his mother gets, he will always be on her side not yours. Also, I grew up in a home where the parents stayed together for the sake of the children. You have no idea how toxic that environment was. If he refuses to stand up to his mother, leave. Take a Space Shuttle to get out as fast as possible.

@ThePawerStation 24 күн бұрын

I would've prefered for op to give an ultimatum. I give you the paternity test but you go NC with your toxic mother or divorce. There is no need to make MIL apologize, just expose her as the reason on why the marriage failed and why he is only going to have visitation rights.

@Catherine.Dorian. 20 күн бұрын

Plus add on that part of the requirement should be a paternity test of husband to find out if MIL is projecting

@jessicathompson236 15 күн бұрын

@@Catherine.Dorian. ,100%

@NourAmsterdam 3 күн бұрын

These Op’s barely do that. People still have the mindset: I must stay together for the child(ren). Unaware of the fact it’s only more toxic for the child(ren) to stay together.

@RahimKhan-ic9qv 24 күн бұрын

I heard the movie "A fistful of dollars" but my first time hearing and seeing about A fistful of divorce papers. It is probably one of the greatest/embarrassing divorce "fistfight" ever

@reneeharper84 20 күн бұрын

I get why she is willing to work on her marriage, but i hope she is still willing to leave if he doesn't change.

@mimiSMj 23 күн бұрын

Honestly I understand op... All we need is for our man to be our rock who we can rely on and be sure that no matter what this person will be on my side... If he can't meet this one requirement then I'll just run and break things off no matter how much I love him

@JustinAdamson270 21 күн бұрын

So you want a simp slave

@Epoxinator 21 күн бұрын

Well, that went nowhere.

@reillycurran8508 24 күн бұрын

Never ask for the test. You're a parent too, you can just go do it yourself. Asking for the test literally just shows your hand and starts a fight. If she is cheating she's gonna get defensive, and if she isn't she's going to be ready to kill you because you just accused her of cheating over something she has no clue looked suspicious. Asking for the test only gets you anywhere if you already have proof she cheated and are deciding if you want to fight for custody.

@NourAmsterdam 3 күн бұрын

Wrong story dude.

@louisedykes4794 Күн бұрын

If mil wants paternity test then mil’s children undergo a paternity test as well.

@tristanisadore7285 24 күн бұрын

This women has 0 respect for herself

@luci_1152 24 күн бұрын

Op seems like a doormat

@Jordan_99 23 күн бұрын

Always with the Reddit kids telling the woman to leave the man. It’s crazy

@luci_1152 23 күн бұрын

@@Jordan_99 she should though? She’s literally letting herself be disrespected by both husband and MIL?

@Jordan_99 23 күн бұрын

@@luci_1152 he’s taken the steps to cut her out of their life. You’d be surprised how much someone you’ve know your whole life can influence you. Besides with all the paternity fraud horror stories I don’t think it’s too far fetched for a man to get one. I can see how it’s insulting to the woman if she’s innocent.

@luci_1152 23 күн бұрын

@@Jordan_99 not enough though imo since he’s enabled her and proved that when it comes down to it he’ll believe his mom over his wife she should still absolutely get divorced from him

@Jordan_99 23 күн бұрын

@@luci_1152 I hope you don’t get married ever lol

@pretzelicious4200 21 күн бұрын

How did OP apparently get so many awful comments? wtf

@Garoslol 21 күн бұрын

Reddit is full or terrible people coming from broken or single parent homes.

@JustinAdamson270 21 күн бұрын

She knows she cheated

@JustinAdamson270 21 күн бұрын

@@Garoslolsingle parent homes are better than two parent homes

@missytanner3501 18 күн бұрын

@@JustinAdamson270 Did you understand what was be said. His mother is a religious zealot homophobic and made it up

@NourAmsterdam 3 күн бұрын

@@Garoslolno more like those extreme feminist stereotypes. Literally they hate men in general. They scream divorce with even the smallest things. I’m divorced myself and I would never give someone the advice to do that. It’s not my place only if the situation is really life threatening. I’ve a married friend and she talks to me, I’ve never adviced leave him or get divorced. I know they belong together and will figure it out eventually. Their problems aren’t huge or not fixeable. And I’m still on good terms with my ex husband. He is like a friend I guess.

@NourAmsterdam 3 күн бұрын

This screams toxic boy mom, and son is codependent on her. That’s how she raised him.

@marianaoliveira6731 6 күн бұрын

Where's the rest????

@juanitamoore3217 5 күн бұрын

Please stop flashing the words,it can be a trigger for seizures.

@Arkelk2010 5 күн бұрын

I am more bothered by the background quickly running through an old video game.

@rosebay44Evergreen-ti3zl 3 күн бұрын

The whizzing around in the video is dizzying.

@tothewonder6248 24 күн бұрын

Always just get the test, fussing about it just makes you look guilty no matter how innocent you are.

@de3px117 24 күн бұрын

im sorry for ur s/o

@tothewonder6248 24 күн бұрын

@@de3px117 ???

@tothewonder6248 24 күн бұрын

@@de3px117 what? Taking the test means MIL or whoever is asking for it has one less thing to use against you. Saying, "NO, I won't!" will just make the accusations worse.

@andynorck2389 24 күн бұрын

@@tothewonder6248 that isn’t the problem here. As you saw, no one actually even expected the test to reveal anything and it didn’t.

@commanderelite 24 күн бұрын

@@andynorck2389 I'm going to have to disagree, the MIL thought OP cheated, and to shut his mom up, her husband went and got the test done even though he knew she didn't cheat. The test was just to shut his mom up. Best thing to do here is for OP and her husband to go either low contact or no contact with his mom if this is the way she acts around OP, as god only knows what she will put in the mind of their baby when they are older

@missinformed9550 14 күн бұрын

Talk is cheap. 😅

@Scyon13 24 күн бұрын

Yeah I'm not a fan of women jumping straight to divorce, if paternity tests are wanted but I get it in this case to a degree, men have insecurities too and someone whispering in your ear all the time doesnt help, not that he's justified, just that I can see his perspective too.

@Jordan_99 23 күн бұрын

Paternity tests should be mandatory

@pretzelicious4200 21 күн бұрын

He wouldn't have those insecurities if he had told his MIL to shut it from the beginning.

@behiyepalo2985 21 күн бұрын

She isn't divorcing because of the paternity test, she's divorcing him because he is a spineless mama's boy and lets his mom walk all over her.

@Scyon13 21 күн бұрын

@@behiyepalo2985 already know that, just pointing out that i understand wanting paternity tests, he's a victim in this too, to a degree, years of brainwashing from a loved one can be powerful, you can always apply conditions going forward for the relationship after the test.

@behiyepalo2985 20 күн бұрын

@@Scyon13 Then maybe he should have recognized and stopped this.