My pastor husband planned my funeral while I was alive

My pastor husband planned my funeral while I was alive | Tuko TV

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When Lydia got married to her first pastor husband she believed he would make a good husband and father. But things turned different ...
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@Tuko 9 ай бұрын

What message do you have for Lydia? You can reach her through her number: +254 726 478452. To share your story with us, send an email to yvonne.kawira@tuko.co.ke or eucabeth.mukami@tuko.co.ke.

@user-oe1en5kb7j 9 ай бұрын

Hi Lydia

@dhahabukristin7262 9 ай бұрын

Your editor messed this story up! Too many details are missing and not making sense. Sometimes, let the story flow,stop looking at the time a lot..you can do part 1 & 2

@eunicemakori8966 9 ай бұрын

@@user-oe1en5kb7j❤❤❤😊

@nyasilijoseph5376 9 ай бұрын

You are very strong.

@graceambiyo4833 8 ай бұрын

@@user-oe1en5kb7jl

@paulinewambui4823 9 ай бұрын

In my few years of life's observations, listen to your parents/guardian, they see a lot more than we do. If they say don't, think about it very carefully.

@lawalogomaker9376 9 ай бұрын

Good for elder are good for youth, but not all good from elders are good at all!For this case it can be true or otherwise

@jj-pl6jf 9 ай бұрын

"God has good plans for me" I'm really encouraged by the strength of this woman. Thank you for sharing your story.

@agnesnyamongo5219 9 ай бұрын

Lydia Our God in heaven loves orphans and He cares for you. Trust Him and pray without ceasing. Be blessed and your children.

@favourlydia596 9 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏

@jepkemei 8 ай бұрын

So many young women lack advice.. this lady saw marriage as a refuge from her home situation and that one step led to a series of challenges. We need to take care of our youth. this is heartbreaking.

@kanaakauraisa 9 ай бұрын

Surely, your past doesn't define you.....hence "Don't look for me in my past, you won't find me there because I have moved on". Such a strong woman.....

@millicentcirindi4116 8 ай бұрын

Being strong Nowadays is the Only option ! People pass through too Much !

@user-hb7jl3cx1l 9 ай бұрын

Majogwa kama hii dada yangu ulipewa mahali ulioleka Nena na mungu atakulipizia binadamu wamesaa kuwa mashetani kazi yao ni kumarisa watoto wa watu hiyo pepo hikemee ulundie alie kipea katika jina la yesu

@princessjane9432 9 ай бұрын

Those sicknesses are not yours,I have a feeling if you pray earnestly they will disappear coz ni demonic diseases from your enemies. Receive healing and restoration in the name of Jesus Christ our Jehovah rafa and Jehovah jireh

@cessr8210 9 ай бұрын

You are a very strong woman God loves you and your children

@HanaPhiri 8 ай бұрын

I am to read comments just to try and catch up the story if the story telling used English it was going to be better to me

@rachealthirikwa2286 9 ай бұрын

I sincerly pray for your children to have bright futures to an extend that those who maltreated them, may be ashamed when they one day meet them as successful adults.

@lydiakariuki5789 9 ай бұрын

Take heart Lydiah. May God see you through. All will be well in Jesus name

@keepitreal335 9 ай бұрын

As an orphan i wish i had supportive grandparents like yours ....though she strong and hardworking women shouldn't be getting married to solve problems

@melankoli1225 9 ай бұрын

Your aunt was right aki ungefata hiyo advice I don't think ungepitia haya yote but you took it negatively....Sorry dear

@user-ro4if6ez8y 9 ай бұрын

Asiyesikia la mkuu huvujika guu....cucu yako alikuwa aneona bali ukakataa ushauri wake sasa ona

@elizabethmwalo8424 9 ай бұрын

Surely why are people pretend to be pastors?

@sophieotieno1300 9 ай бұрын

Lydia is a very strong, hardworking and resilient woman.

@patticiarose4526 9 ай бұрын

Everyone has a story. Lord show your mercy on every person going through hard times.

@elizabethmwalo8424 9 ай бұрын

Pole mama, you were for the success of your Marriage, but the man was a nassist.

@ninawaryaro9415 9 ай бұрын

God cares about you lydia i thank God for God has not forgotten you and He is still working on you. All shall be well. You and your children shall do great and mighty things in this world. He will make you whole

@favourlydia596 9 ай бұрын

Amen

@essyk5854 6 ай бұрын

A life lived story /narrating real lived life history of many years in few hours looks crazy...yet you're needed to give it in details that pple can fully understand.......may God see you through 🙏

@jdezeeuw6540 9 ай бұрын

Your English captions disappeared sorry. Thank you there back. Not necessarily to beating children. Why do some pastors in Kenya don’t look for work as well. Especially if it does not pay.

@sonyia7521 9 ай бұрын

God of opharns, please remember this lady in Jesus name 🙏

@favourlydia596 9 ай бұрын

Amen

@conkiria1340 9 ай бұрын

This guy is not apastor nikuwekelewa aliwekelewa awe pastor.. plis sometime people destroy the image of the Name.. the guy even salvation hakuwa nayo..right from the way you married him..its funny.. God will grant you mercy to heal madam wachana naye.

@damarismunala8908 7 ай бұрын

Pia wangu Ni pastor Wa SDA but amenitupa after 29 yrs on the line 😢

@yvonnejoyce 4 ай бұрын

Weh😢

@Gracewanjira-ib3ow 4 ай бұрын

Wauh 29years

@cynthiaakinyi9829 9 ай бұрын

We should take time b4 we get married......pray about it...when you meet the person take time to know him.....know his back ground....and rely mostly on God......

@lydiarobi8580 7 ай бұрын

My name sake I have gone through the same saddest experience of a abusive marriage but mine was tough which made me to leave my children

@mrs.muntetjackline9270 9 ай бұрын

You are a strong woman.. May God keep you healthy for your kids .they will prosper in Jesus name 🙏🙏

@hadassahfirst1478 8 ай бұрын

I pray that she gets the resources so she can be compliant on treatment. This will give her quality life and she can be strong to see her children grow up and reach their goals

@benjaminkyalo1516 8 ай бұрын

A very strong and courageous woman,, all those Bastards messed her, she has a star of wealthy in her

@lucywamucii7759 9 ай бұрын

Lydia you are a strong woman God will restore your health, thank you for the great advice to women

@gilbertnyachae4060 9 ай бұрын

If your first marriage fail do not remarry

@angelalyimo2862 7 ай бұрын

@elizabethnechesa 9 ай бұрын

This is a sad story to hear...This woman went through alot😢

@herinahellen9862 9 ай бұрын

The first red flag should be enough surely unachapwa before marriage na continue staying???? i will leav na don't care what people will say

@yvonnewambui6319 8 ай бұрын

Aki, mi mtu akiniekelea Kofi ama anithreaten baaas najikata

@user-fr7mx4zw3h 3 ай бұрын

In love with how she narrates it all....she's an iconic woman👑

@2minuteschallenge599 8 ай бұрын

God bless this amazing strong woman....What happens in the dark will eventually be exposed in the light...God is Good.

@MrMurigij 9 ай бұрын

God will restore fully my friend! Ur blessed Lydia

@YvonneKawiraTuko 9 ай бұрын

Amen and thank you for watching

@maxiesecurityservicesltd11 9 ай бұрын

Wah!! Aki Kenyan 🇰🇪 women go through hell with those men who pretend to be pastors or men of God. Even other men. But this woman is strong and God will heal her fully.

@favourlydia596 9 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏

@cgitahi 8 ай бұрын

You are hardworking and resilient .Your husbands are the ones who set you back otherwise you would have been far financially.The stress from your marriages made you have sickness you would never have had.Being unmarried is not the worst thing that can happen to a person.Being in a bad marriage destroys a womans body ,mind and finances

@yvonnejoyce 4 ай бұрын

True 😢

@geemai435 9 ай бұрын

😓😓😓 this was a horror story with a good ending. As we all know adolescent girls and young adults don't listen. They believe love is enough and marriage is the end goal. Mum once told me... get children you know you can comfortably care for in case hubby leaves, dies, or is abusive. Usipate tu hivo ati ni baraka. Utastruggle hadi ujue some blessing are just lessons in disguise.

@kidsentertainmenthub4126 9 ай бұрын

My mother and your mother are two very wise women,she keeps repeating this to me every single time,she doesn't like pple asking me naongezea mtoto mwingine lini.

@ednamanji 9 ай бұрын

Mungu azidi kukupigania utayaweza yote kwa kuwa Mungu anakutia nguvu . Never stay for long in abusive marriage by fearing what people will say ! Walk away immediate as soon the abusive has started. That Pastor was a Pastor of demons not for people of God . A Christian Pastor who been lead by God will not abusive his own family.

@user-kp9ll1qu5n 9 ай бұрын

Sorry for what u went through and also for being sick

@stellahmarriswambuwah9919 9 ай бұрын

GOD BLESS YOU LYDIA AND YOUR CHILDREN❤GOD BLESS TUKO TEAM IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME AMEN🌹🙏🏾

@user-bs3rq2hd9f 9 ай бұрын

You're a very strong woman, may God se you through in all your activities, praying for you Lydia, may you recieve a divine healing in Jesus Name ❤❤❤

@carolinemwazi5583 5 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing your testimony. God is our husband Isaiah 54:5 ff. May He heal you and sustain you.

@dollyk1749 8 ай бұрын

I understand this type of marriage. My mom went through funny marriage we grew in a tough life so when l got married my eyes were wide open immediately l saw funny behaviors l had to step out and live my life.

@suziejoe4187 9 ай бұрын

May God intervene in your life and restore your health.

@marthamoya3212 9 ай бұрын

As for me and my kids, I will marry myself and severe the Lord, kwa maana men are just becoming somethin else

@lilianmarangu7255 9 ай бұрын

😢such a painful story. May the Lord continue strengthening you mama.He has never and will never leave you. That's indeed a testimony. May the Lord heal you Completely through Jesus blood. You shall leave to declare God's favour and your testimony will change many . May the Lord here your prayers and may your children never lack. Continue trusting in God. Nothing is impossible with our Lord

@favourlydia596 9 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏

@debbiemunyao7673 8 ай бұрын

I love your encouragement may God heal you sister

@berno10 9 ай бұрын

Haki rafiki yako abarikiwe sana. Pole sana mami😢. Haki njia zako zifunguliwe🙏🏾

@bernardonyango7866 8 ай бұрын

For the many times I have heard stories concerning pastors "men of god" I have always kept a distance from their pastoral shinanighans....I would rather consult a witch doctor instead of someone trying to fool me that he/she's my connector with my creator.

@catherinegitau9053 8 ай бұрын

@bernardonyango very very true Hawa so called ma pastors ni mashetani

@marymaina839 9 ай бұрын

Theres nothing variable like a parent particulary a mum.being an orphan is difficult. Yet God is faithful He will change your story Lydia

@itsjuliam 9 ай бұрын

I remember watching her story on Wambui wa Mwangi's KZfaq channel

@blessedmum7317 9 ай бұрын

Pole mummy, God loves you and your children.

@shakilazuwena7668 28 күн бұрын

Sickness is not your portion i declare healing upon you in Jesus name

@teresamaina7725 9 ай бұрын

Girl indeed its the hand of God that has lead you

@queenesther8505 9 ай бұрын

Some pastors behaviour,makes people discouraged.tusichezee wokovu jameni.❤

@paulinemwangi 9 ай бұрын

She is beautiful,may God heal you mama

@deborahshiaya6290 8 ай бұрын

You're a strong woman 💪🏿💪🏿,may God heal you of that cancer

@rebecccaaor3462 9 ай бұрын

You've really encouraged me. You are a strong woman, the so called men of God are wolves in sheep's coat.

@liliankemunto2637 6 ай бұрын

Si uongo nimepitia haya,,i can relate

@liliankemunto2637 6 ай бұрын

Waaaa same story with mine🤔but God has been faithful for really

@gracecheruiyot5646 9 ай бұрын

Now lydia God preserve you,i thank God for the courage HE GAVE YOU.YOUR TESTIMONY IS ENCOURAGING MY LIFE.GOD IS OUR PRESENT HELP IN ALL SITUATION.PSALM 23 AND 91 BE YOURS DAILY.

@NancyDoroth 8 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@annemilaho8737 8 ай бұрын

You are more than a conqueror You're a strong woman

@RosyKilele 9 ай бұрын

This one was heavy. Praying for you mum. May God heal you. Otherwise you are beautiful and industrious woman. The ailments must be as a result of the narc abuse.

@violeteli31 6 ай бұрын

Just move out girls even if you have 10 children. There’s always a way.

@margaretsharry3267 9 ай бұрын

Pole kwa hayo.ningekuomba,Kama uko nrb,uennde kwa altar ya repentance and holiness huko Yaya kilimani na uongee. na sr pasttorr

@BettyNick 3 ай бұрын

Yes repentance and holiness is the place to be

@Irenemoraa30 9 ай бұрын

God be with u lydiah❤ U are a strong lady indeed😊

@doctorrees4473 9 ай бұрын

Let me marry myself since am a single mother. Stories like these push me farther and farther from getting married again, just to protect my child. Why would someone go to school to beat the children. What were the teachers doing watching him assault the children? 🙄🙄🙄🤗🤗. This is beyond sad

@ciccoann2311 9 ай бұрын

If you give up, you are passing that battle to your child, but if you overcome, you are fighting for your child(ren) they will have successful marriage, depending on how you will handle marriage issues, start praying for him/her right now, and that means ,kuombea ndoa,na ni kuanza na wewe

@user-kp9ll1qu5n 9 ай бұрын

Same

@zainabuabdulahi5012 9 ай бұрын

@ waa, caicoon kabisa hapa umesema ukweli. Weee

@zainabuabdulahi5012 9 ай бұрын

Lakini ciccoan, mtu kama ni narcissistic, heri umuombee awe na good relationship, responsible na mapenzi kwa watoto wake kuliko kuombea ndoa . Mkirudianana yeye mwenyewe, he is not ready to get heal and change! Ni kazi bure. You'll find b going again for second abuse and torture, and this round will be more worse.

@MosDw 9 ай бұрын

Live your own life.. hiyo ni yake

@RuvaraShe77 8 ай бұрын

Please use English subtitles, you will be glad to know you have an international audience

@2minuteschallenge599 8 ай бұрын

Try Settings and press Caption.. subtitles will be found. Choose English!

@ruthmutahi447 7 ай бұрын

We are not for grammar.

@kobetortoise6410 6 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂 God sifai kuchekaa yawaa@@2minuteschallenge599

@user-cj3kc7yt7b 9 ай бұрын

God of mercy be with you Lydia,it's alot but your life is in hands of almighty.

@peterkithaka1654 9 ай бұрын

Girls am man. My advise to you is once the first marriage fails please please don't enter into another cause you will get more children and even the second marriage will fail and more subsequent

@ninawaryaro9415 9 ай бұрын

It's not for every case Sir.i know of many women that got married again and they are living better than before.we just have to be prayerful and discerning on who we are to marry

@RKBro-jr1ts 9 ай бұрын

This lady got a heart of a lion Wuueh!!

@favourlydia596 9 ай бұрын

Thank you

@RKBro-jr1ts 9 ай бұрын

@@favourlydia596 💕

@yeshuasservant2351 6 ай бұрын

For anyone who does not understand narcissistic abuse this is it! in layman's language

@Faithchepo2166 9 ай бұрын

Sorry darling God is in control all will be well by God's will. It sounds like a movie kwanza hapo mtu anachapa watoi wako kama dogs lady's pliz be careful so that you will not be killed in the name of marriage and I have no were to go.

@orioorio2467 6 ай бұрын

I went through too as pastor's wife,let me just stay single 😢😢😢

@annechege2872 9 ай бұрын

Pole sana. You are not alone.

@zainabuabdulahi5012 9 ай бұрын

Don't leave your children to a Narcissist person. Narcissism is a devil 👿 (Rea Revelation 12:-1-10) evil woman that breed evils things. There is no way that the children can have a good life with them. Pole sana, n'gan'gana kukaa na watoto wako despise your sickness, magonjwa ni vitisho vya shetani ili uishi kusumbuka tuu. GOD THE FATHER, THE ORIGINAL SOURCE IS ABOVE narcissism and cancer. Be positive mind for it will keep attract positive energy to conquer the negative things, cancer and narcissism. Imekuwa

@favourlydia596 9 ай бұрын

Amen

@evelyngakii4438 7 ай бұрын

So sad....may God the Father, Son & the Holy spirit be with you alwys. ❤

@MishenOnMission 9 ай бұрын

The editor did too much injustice on this clip

@muriungigeoffrey5194 9 ай бұрын

Sure sure. Some flow is missing

@skeryl7426 9 ай бұрын

Yes we jumped from one pregnancy to the next wedding to , many random pieces of the story

@monicakariuki3010 9 ай бұрын

I heard the word prison somewhere

@carolmuhia6262 9 ай бұрын

Haina flow

@ichaihellen2033 8 ай бұрын

Wanafaa waache yote even if ni part 1 ad 2

@JK-oy7sy 8 ай бұрын

More.grace upon you mama. As shall be well in Jesus Name!

@graceomakada5082 9 ай бұрын

Marrying a pastor or man of God must be thought through. Those people have very complicated pasts before serving God and at times more than ordinary people. Many Pastors/ministers have some of the worst marriages characterized by addictions, infidelity, deception etc.

@favouredcarol2903 24 күн бұрын

Whatever I went through

@mburulucky9580 6 ай бұрын

single Mama wanafaa waeshimiwe sikwakupenda kwao wakae single balinihali inawakuta tuu wanao watumia vibaya walaaniwee

@naominjau6464 9 ай бұрын

My sis there is God and he watch on us and I know thing's will change and you will not die.

@favourlydia596 9 ай бұрын

Amen

@emmagathoni4237 9 ай бұрын

Person editing did a poor job.. too many gaps ..don’t mess up a good channel

@monicaloyanae9404 9 ай бұрын

Lydia you are strong woman

@alicedrehsen3546 6 ай бұрын

God bless you My daughter you are strong enough

@rosemoraa-ro1tk 9 ай бұрын

You are very strong woman mama may God see you through 🙏🙏

@balancedviewpoint7418 9 ай бұрын

Yvonne you are doing a great job. Thumbs up. Now, the kind of guests you host give disturbing experiences. Purpose to be visiting a personal therapist. They can be very disturbing and before you know it, depression or anxiety may wear you down. Positive feedback my daughter. Take it positively.

@rutak.rwehikama4532 9 ай бұрын

What a wonderful insight and great advice dear. Yvonne needs to take your message very seriously for her very best personal well-being. ❤❤

@stellahmarriswambuwah9919 9 ай бұрын

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@BukuruClaudine-uz2jy 9 ай бұрын

May God bless with ur children 🙏🙏

@julieawiti6989 9 ай бұрын

Aki women go through alot,kumbe tuko wengi.

@catemumbua2610 9 ай бұрын

Wacha tu😢

@favourlydia596 9 ай бұрын

Weuuh

@ssaa-fe5ml 9 ай бұрын

Ayo yote yataisha utayasahau in Jesus name

@Trizahpope 9 ай бұрын

Be blessed en be strong Lydia 🙏 May God see you through

@flagranciagathiru8720 9 ай бұрын

The good thing is that you have no Cancer..God is good.

@favourlydia596 9 ай бұрын

Amen

@mayaevans4325 9 ай бұрын

I'm a single mom but if I meet someone family planning Mara hiyo in secret

@humphreykingori5966 9 ай бұрын

be blessed may God comfort you

@celebrateGodalways 17 күн бұрын

May God help us make right decisions

@juliahkinyua-pj3xo Ай бұрын

May God reign in this situation MEEEEEEEN OF GOD!!!!! good lord

@annechiko1585 9 ай бұрын

May God hea you and keep you mama

@debbieochako5143 9 ай бұрын

Women, we should learn to love ourselves

@jeniffermbatha7010 8 ай бұрын

What an inspiration, your story is encouraging. May God sent you help as he has always done.

@rachelshankwaya1957 9 ай бұрын

Interpret on screen in English. Very important message. Thank you

@crocodilemasala7956 9 ай бұрын

Really sad story. Step father rarely love the children of the wife. A single mum should just struggle with her children, nowadays men are vampires.

@damarislaichena9533 9 ай бұрын

Oh God😢😢These people will know no peace. How do you do such to someone yet you call yourself a pastor🤔God pigania huyu mama na watoto wake.

@favourlydia596 9 ай бұрын

Aki

@NancyDoroth 8 ай бұрын

Turut

@sarahndila4278 9 ай бұрын

Mt sister may the God of Israel who who brought the dry bones to life heal you for the honor and Glory of his mighty name.

@judithnthenya4905 7 ай бұрын

Amen

@isaackchumba8655 9 ай бұрын

May God give you long life