I use desensitization, counterconditioning and approximations to get a dog better with my kids.
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@mozartrn12 жыл бұрын
Love seeing your kids participate. "They need newness", I believe that's what you said. Builds confidence, a larger world, and enhances relationship. Horses require the same.
@nicolcacola2 жыл бұрын
My daughter was attacked by a family pet as a child so proper dog training with kids is near and dear to me. Well done ❤
@smith128852 жыл бұрын
This visit was not what we expected. Dexter was not his usual self, but it was still so worth it! It was fantastic to see him completely avoid Prince--Dexter found out he wasn't the biggest, baddest thing out there. I found out how important it is to get him with other dogs, and we got so many fantastic ideas of how to socialize and exercise him better. I'll be studying your stop and pop closer because I am not doing it right. This exercise with your kids was so important. Thank you so much! I seriously recommend bringing anyone's dog to you no matter how far they have to travel because it's worth the time and cost!
@lisaleondires95762 жыл бұрын
My heart ❤️ is melting, your children helping dogs. And having fun. This is the best video on the internet. You are a very special family. Thanks for making the world a better place 🥰
@connorkrug47942 жыл бұрын
She was doing cartwheel with the treat bag. Peak moment for me lmao. Love this!
@2cansam952 жыл бұрын
I haven’t had a dog since 2020 she passed she was old but I still watch these lol I like Joel’s technique
@KerriEverlasting2 жыл бұрын
I've never seen anything like this. Mind blowing so effective, so simple - but why else do I come here lol Another great job Joel and fam 💖💪
@songbird2g22 жыл бұрын
Watching your youngest running and yelling is so adorable.
@sibeldjc18642 жыл бұрын
This video is just extra 😍 I love it!!! The kids are so genuine and pure and funny 😂❤️❤️ Great solution as usual.
@pramitaghosh64532 жыл бұрын
I love this video!!! Thank you for doing this Joel!!! More videos with kids and dogs please!!!
@towpottsfam76312 жыл бұрын
Omg your little one just stares into the screen with your face! 🤗
@fatkidsdontrun93942 жыл бұрын
Great job Beckman family! The kids were great. Dexter definitely was a little more comfortable with time. He may never love kids, but he can learn to be ok with them if they're not so "scary".
@KingsMom8312 жыл бұрын
Love to watch the master at work here!
@smith128852 жыл бұрын
Joel Beckman is a wizard!!!
@Sgmorris00542 жыл бұрын
daddy's little helpers need to be in more of your vids thats was sweet
@tiffanymonti27822 жыл бұрын
I really liked this video.. I think it is important for people to know how to properly interact there children with dog, especially reactive, fearful, or just simply high energy dogs.. I would like to see more videos on safe interactions between dogs and children with do and donts . Cause even though I have never had a problem.. I always feel there is an opportunity for something new to learn.. and I think it is important topic
@HyperWolf2 жыл бұрын
Yeah. When I first got my German Shepherd (my first dog) I had a little kid run at him. He was a shelter dog and we’d been told he was extremely reactive so I remember feeling my stomach drop. My dog started barking and luckily the kid moved away. Now I now he’s a really gentle guy, just loud but he doesn’t bite, but back then I had no idea what to expect. The fact that he doesn’t bite came in handy with a severely Autistic man that got too close to him when his guardian wasn’t watching him properly. This was worse than the kid because he didn’t seem to react to the barking at all. He lunged at my dog and I thought I was going to have a heart attack. My dog was growling and barking the whole time as the guy rubbed his hands all over him. I was moving back and the guy just kept following. I was so scared but the worst my dog did was buck like a bull. He didn’t even nip. Then his guardian finally came over, yanked him off my dog and yelled at me. That was when my dog decided to lunge like he was going to bite (the whole time before he’d been backing away with me), because he thought I was in danger but all he did was push the guy. It’s still kind of frightening to look back and realize it was all just luck that my dog is a gentle guy and the reactivity is fear, not aggression and not him being a jerk. Back then I’d had no idea how bad some parents are at keeping their kids safe or how irresponsible people in charge of disabled people can be. It’s important that dog owners go in knowing most people won’t behave well near dogs. Because of the pandemic there are so many more unsocialized dogs out there and people need to be aware that they can’t let their kids just go up to any dog.
@tiffanymonti27822 жыл бұрын
@@HyperWolf I agree unfortunately there are too many people who do not know not to run up to a dog they do not know, and too many parents who are busy working full time , and trying to put food on the table and cloths on there child's back, that they forget or simply do not have time to teach these important lessons.. Which is why I love this channel.. because Joel Beckman is real and honest. Children and dogs are everywhere and are bound to have interactions.. We can not control other people.. but we can control ourselves and our dogs.. Joel Beckman is the perfect person to show us how to handle a situation of a little kid running up to you when your walking your reactive dog or in my case just simply excitable and high energy dog My pitbull (who past away) was great with children and in that situation. I had that situation happen with her on a few occasions.. I was able to place her in a sit .. and when the child got to her she would it would be all kisses, rolling over, belly rubs and laughs.. My current Shepard mix.. even though she is very friendly and loves people and children.. I have had that situation happen with her she has a jumping problem when she gets excited and a new person running up too her cause s instant excitement. So she jumped on the child in a friendly way, and knocked the child over.. no one was hurt.. and since we have leash laws where I live, which I was obeying, and a security guard witnessed me tell the child no stay away, many times as I backed away. And the child not listen, and the parents not paying attention.. my dog and I was not blamed for it..
@HyperWolf2 жыл бұрын
@@tiffanymonti2782 Oh, yeah. My dog does that. When he’s not anxious he’ll tackle anyone because he wants kisses. He tackled a cop once and I was so sure something terrible was going to happen (I’ve heard too many cop shooting dog incidents) but I got lucky he was a K9 handler and just laughed. The relief I felt. I nearly passed out. 😂 As for parents, I’ve had the ones that do seem responsible run after their kids and grab them. Or ask if they can get close. The ones that bother me are the ones that are sitting at the park not even looking at their kids, just on the phone. The kid that ran at my dog was a toddler, maybe 2 years old. The dad didn’t even look up from his phone during the barking, until the kid ran up to him crying, and then only to look annoyed. I witnessed a close call with a different kid running into the street. The kid got lucky the car stopped in time. The mom had literally been in her car on the phone and we couldn’t finder. The driver that nearly hit the kid helped me look for close to half an hour. Then she got all upset a man was with her young child and yelled at me for not being the one holding her kid’s hand. I was like, lady, that man helped me look for you for so long because I couldn’t get too close to the kid with my dogs. They would have squashed him. Then she took it out on another kid that was at the park that was “supposed to watch her younger brother,” but she looked to be about 7. There have also been several parents that are somewhere across the park and come up to me only once they see their kid is throwing a tantrum because I told them not to get too close, and some even get mad at me for it. Every single time I just think to myself how if I were a kidnapper or my dog bit them, those parents would have had no idea what happened to their kids. It makes me so upset.
@patguarneri50412 жыл бұрын
The “Wall of Kid” was so awesome because it had the same effect on the dog as Prince correcting a dog.
@llKaiserx0ll2 жыл бұрын
Great to see the whole family.
@aSweetDisaster772 жыл бұрын
Thank you for including your children and making this content. I've never seen a session for this issue and it is one I worry about with my own reactive dog.
@c.cooper95492 жыл бұрын
Off topic -- but I have to say, my favorite moment in the intro is your wife with the dolphins -- LOVE it!
@XxGamer2 жыл бұрын
I just noticed I missed your last few videos because I didn't recognize the thumbnail. I'm so used to seeing your backyard, didn't think that I would associate your backyard with your channel.
@scarydebbie Жыл бұрын
Thank you for another great video! I am learning so much!
@inspire2respire3822 жыл бұрын
Love this!!! Giving them time to desensitize is big. I often get my dog to sit when people is coming very near. (Not sure if that is best) it gives me time to check her emotions, give a command to leave it, and prepare if she reacts. 4:50 kids are hot dog delivery systems (classic) 6:38 what kid doesn’t like to run and yell (job well done) 8:30 lil bro beats up big bro and got it on tape!!😂
@eliasdefoort82992 жыл бұрын
Haven't seen many spaniels in your videos yet. Having a spaniel-like breed (small munsterlander) myself, it's nice to see!
@targetsunshine60602 жыл бұрын
Don’t try this with you kids…….borrow someone else kids 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣not often that the kids are cuter than the dog lol they are adorable
@terridavis92782 жыл бұрын
This is such a great video. I am always learning.
@UNDERDOGMMA2 жыл бұрын
Great video!
@lalisabee13512 жыл бұрын
5:28 😂I love Joel art of articulating 💛
@Musiclover-uo2oi Жыл бұрын
When my standard poodle was a puppy I took her to parks and splash pads all the time. She was surrounded by running and screaming children. Nothing fazed her all her life. And, she grew up to love children, especially our own.
@Lizzardward2 жыл бұрын
Nicely done. Your kids are great and are growing up to be such smart responsible humans!
@suzettekirby9725 Жыл бұрын
Ur kids r beautiful God bless u all this vid made my day
@Adianodelih Жыл бұрын
Well done, thank you!
@martinavelasco74212 жыл бұрын
First to comment! I love these videos it gives me ideas for my 8 month old reactive puppy.
@Qwill3282 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I'd *love* more kids with dogs videos. Good games for the kids to play with puppies? Maybe a video for kids about basic dog body language?
@MB-lf8rm2 жыл бұрын
Joel, can you please show us a dog (this or another) who *is* triggered by a child and *does* lunge at a child/children, and how you handle that ? Thanks !
@kileypetersen13142 жыл бұрын
Yes! My dog (rescue, shepherd mix) barks and lunges at kids. Considering muzzle training but any sort of desensitization training without a muzzle is stressful and potentially dangerous, I feel like if we use a fence even she would be defensive / guard the property.
@BrendaRodriguez-vx7zt2 жыл бұрын
Yes mine is barking and jumping on kids
@ajmalshah9342 жыл бұрын
I found your channel today and I can’t stop watching. I love to own a dog one day and have never owned one.
@meganjaime7728 Жыл бұрын
I have always been lucky to have dogs that never had trouble around/with kids. Each one was okay with kids never had aggression. I can’t even pinpoint how we did it either.😄😊I mean we had kids come over and pull on our dogs hair and tail and they never reacted. I always praised them for behaving so well and I of course encouraged the kiddos to be nicer, but babies even when they were pulling nothing happened. Our dogs would sniff and try to lick babies (of course I made sure they didn’t lick without moms permission and only their hands) always in a nurturing way too. 😊😄
@JimKernix2 жыл бұрын
Is that your son with the camo hat? I've noticed that when meeting new nervous dogs that it's best to take my hat off. I don't know what it is but hats scare fearful dogs for some reason. Almost evey time I took off my hat, the interaction improved.
@adrienne58362 жыл бұрын
Your kids are amazing! ❤️
@annetterobinson28532 жыл бұрын
Wished I had this info with my brother's Dogo...she HATED the sound of kids playing and laughing...and she was potentially very dangerous.
@chap95782 жыл бұрын
Awesome video Joel !!! I feel like there should be more like this one ! My dog is really well educated, good and relaxed in a lot of different environments, but he's really nervous around children (one bad experience didn't help). And I didn't see a lot of resources on the internet to help resolve this. Since I don't have kids (yet) and most of my friends don't either it's difficult to socialise him with them. Plus, he is a cross-breed cane corso so I don't want to take any risk, as you said with kids we can't take any chances, even though I have good control. I can see that he gets nervous probably because children, as puppies are a hazard, and he's now 7 yo, wants his calm etc. But you know how kids are, they approach him, pet him without asking me sometimes in a weird way, when I'm not watching, behave like little aliens so I can see he's guarded, tense. What is good is that he cheks on me, like "mommy do something, the kid is bothering me" so that I can intervene. And most of the time I would get ground level and be the intermediary between him and the kid to facilitate the interaction. And it goes okay, he's accepting the interaction though not enjoying it. Would you have any precise advise as to get him more relaxed towards children? Maybe even enjoying their company ? Because I must admit that I wouldn't feel confortable leaving him with a kid, even though among all the dogs I know he's one of the most well-behaved, obedient etc. On another note, it's really touching to see your entire family working together to help this dog, I love it
@liamstorm80152 жыл бұрын
These kids are amazing I'd love to see more of them
@tgm111a2 жыл бұрын
Good job kids and Dexter. He sure looks like a Field Spaniel.
@DENVEROUTDOORMAN2 жыл бұрын
This was great
@dawnrhodes22302 жыл бұрын
I have recently discovered your videos. I love your style and have started to do the basic low/side tug. Works great! I think the technique works by itself, but also your frame of mind being calm and not reactive is a big key.
@Wetknees2 жыл бұрын
When I saw how young the kids were I knew it was going to be a good video! I really want a job with animals, any kind any capacity.
@dbk75912 жыл бұрын
What kind of dog is that? I had an English Cocker Spaniel about 40 years ago that hated kids. Never could let him around children at all. We thought he may have been teased at a fence while a young pup. Never did know. The kids are great -- HIGH energy!
@smith128852 жыл бұрын
He's a cocker spaniel mix, a rescue. I'm sitting at a water park right now while he watches kids at a safe distance in case a child wanders over. He is paying more attention to his ball while occasionally looking over at the shrieking kids. Basically he doesn't care.
@dbk75912 жыл бұрын
@@smith12885 He reminded me of my English Cocker. I am reminded I need to do more desensitization with mine. Today on our walk we endured a fire truck with lights flashing and siren wailing, a skate boarder flying by us ( she didn't do well with that) and then a deer that crossed about 6 feet in front of us ( which she did lunge at). Every walk is a training session. 🙂
@jillsy28152 жыл бұрын
I hope all the children grow up to be puppydog trainers! These vids are life-changing🐾❤️
@elainecendali7002 жыл бұрын
Great video having the kids work with you and the dog. My tank liked to jump on my grandkids. After spending time with you he doesn't do that anymore. Your kids are adorable
@colenelson92982 жыл бұрын
I have a 7 month old dog that will not stop biting my kids ankles no matter what I try unless he is leashed. But the moment he’s turned loose he’s right on their ankles.
@annmeacham56432 жыл бұрын
I’d love to see Liz show us how to introduce a high prey drive dog to a new cat coming to live in the same house.:
@alvarobesnier2 жыл бұрын
Did anyone catch the elbow to the brother when asking for more treats 🤭🤭🤭🤭
@jr.30862 жыл бұрын
Would love love a Rottweiler puppy training playlists crate,toys, recall,socializing, walking and ant what age is best
@s7evenTV2 жыл бұрын
Hey Joel I'm sorry if you have a video on this that i haven't seen but is it possible to do a video on what to do when a dog stops while going on a walk and refuses to move? Lilly my belgian malinois is doing amazing, all thanks to your training videos, we found her on the street recently and her previous owner refused to take her back and I decided to keep her as she is very smart and learns very quickly! she's doing very good with loose leash walking, she's learned to stay, walk fast, walk slow, stop on call, and leave it, but i'm just wondering if there's anything specific i need to do when she just stops and refuses to walk forward. thanks in advance!
@gissie3912 жыл бұрын
But what if a child doesnt bring a treat? He not going to get huffy then?that was fun for children so funny!
@OTooth5062 жыл бұрын
Are we talking cooked hot dogs or uncooked?
@539Solomino Жыл бұрын
SOS....I need advice. I have a 10 month old Cockapoo. Lately he has been snapping at my son who has special needs and is non verbal. They will be sitting together and my son will be petting him and all of a sudden the pup shows his teeth and snaps at him. Today my son was putting the leash on him to take him outside and he snapped at him. What do I do at that moment? How do I correct him?
@BDTraining Жыл бұрын
I’m sure I can help you but it’s going to be difficult over YT comments. I’d like to offer you a free 30min phone session. Email info@beckmansdogtraining and we’ll get back to you.
@KathgoKat2 жыл бұрын
Good video.! But then again these are your kids..who know how to behave around dogs!!....I watched a few episodes of Pick a Puppy...where Families go to 3 breeders homes to see their puppies..I couldnt believe how loud and obnoxious some of these kids were !!....If I was a breeder I sure wouldn't want kids mauling my puppies.Please do more videos on the proper way Kids should act around dogs...its REALLY NEEDED !!!
@kristinaa9476 Жыл бұрын
You seem great with your kids discipline wise, but you’re also exposing them to so many parasites. Parasites cause long term illness, if not dealt with they never leave the body. I recommend an annual strict parasite cleanse since you have so many dogs in your midst.