My Wife Found Out About My Ex Wife After Our Wedding | Iyanla: Fix My Life

My Wife Found Out About My Ex Wife After Our Wedding | Iyanla: Fix My Life | OWN

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Iyanla Vanzant works with a couple from Knoxville, Tennessee who say that they are trapped in a sexless marriage. Tiffany and Nick have been married for five years, but they admit to rarely having sex, sometimes going a full year without being intimate. Tiffany feels that the problem rests with Nick's lack of initiative. Nick says Tiffany's nagging and controlling ways turn him off. But sex is not the real problem here, painful past hurts and a lack of intimacy are tearing this couple apart. Iyanla steps in to address the root causes of the couple's lack of intimacy, before their marriage dissolves. (Original Air Date: 11 May 2013). Watch more of Iyanla Fix My Life on the WatchOWN app and visit: www.oprah.com/app/iyanla-fix-...
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About Iylana Fix My Life : Author and inspirational speaker Iyanla Vanzant goes behind closed doors and deep inside people's lives for emotional conversations. She helps reveal secrets, uncover truth
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@hb9018 18 күн бұрын

I miss iyanla fix my life

@utubeunlisted 18 күн бұрын

Yessss

@jackiescott7807 18 күн бұрын

Me too❤

@leeleemee 18 күн бұрын

Great therapy.

@QueenFlowerChild28 15 күн бұрын

Me too. Especially before the network turned the show into a celebrity studded circus. Iyanla was her best and most personable before the new hired stylist, MUA & all the extraness OWN started forcing! It was obvious that even she was so over the shenanigans towards the ending of the show.

@user-wv3th8rz1r 14 күн бұрын

Yes God I love her ❤

@juliajulia1835 18 күн бұрын

She's really good.

@altheaseaborn1081 18 күн бұрын

Iyanla dont be playing! She be right up in your face!!!

@Love-bo3df 18 күн бұрын

Poor woman, my husband did the same thing. Such a betrayal, he knew I wouldn’t have married him had I’d known.

@vturner 18 күн бұрын

how did u find out ?

@Love-bo3df 18 күн бұрын

@@vturner he was telling me a story that he had already told me when we were dating and accidentally gave extra details. I started asking questions and he admitted the truth when he realized the cat was out of the bag. It destroyed our marriage, I never recovered from the deception.

@noble604 17 күн бұрын

It is such a betrayal.... you’re left wondering if your spouse can lie about that, what else are they lying about.... who even are they?

@Love-bo3df 17 күн бұрын

@@noble604 exactly but the worst for me was loss of trust in myself and I found that to be unforgivable, and it is unforgivable! Never stay, cut your losses and try your best to recover.

@noble604 17 күн бұрын

😞Honestly? I don’t see how you can blame yourself for that. That was that other person’s lies and omissions. They chose that. Yes -- we look at ourselves and we think we “should have” seen the red flags and been more aware and maybe that is true that we were not as discerning as we “should” have been in wanting what we wanted and in going along with certain things ....for whatever reason.. even by outright enabling bad behavior ... but Let’s be clear, it was that other person who chose to deceive, either by omission or by commission. They acted and you were placed in the no-win position to respond to that deceit. Let yourself off the hook for that one. They were the actor. If they hadn’t chosen the action, you would not have been placed in the position to give the response. The burden of acting untruthfully lies with them.

@gailcolbert5732 18 күн бұрын

I miss seeing your TV shows

@leslieburton-ewing6458 18 күн бұрын

I don't understand why being married before is such a bad thing.

@brielax4441 18 күн бұрын

IKR. It shows that a man isn’t afraid of commitment but it looks bad if you have multiple divorces.

@deanalanna 18 күн бұрын

It could be depending on the reason for the divorce. If the ex is still around questions can be asked.

@MoniiDiop 18 күн бұрын

it's not. but hiding it is!

@opulence_prime 18 күн бұрын

@@MoniiDiophiding it and the why behind it.

@noble604 17 күн бұрын

It’s the not telling it. You learn >90% about a person you’re considering involving yourself with jusr by learning about their past relationships. And if they were married to someone else before you, that’s a very strong indication of how they are in marriage and how they will be in marriage with you. For them to completely ignore that whole vow dedicated to someone else and to overlook that entire time in their lives - even if “it was just for a couple years” “back when in my early 20s” when “I was young and dumb” - is their intentionally not telling you who they are and what their life experience is. Marrying is one of, if not THE most important choice you will ever make, and to fail to tell someone that important that you’ve made that choice already is huge.