What are you talking about? I'm assuming you're just tryan get rage bait most common for comments like this but you know Female groomers...are just are real as male ones and thus we shouldn't shy away from using the correct term

shes a "Nurturer" of course she cant be a r@pist, molester and all those things this shit is swept under the carpet when it comes to women.

It's because we live in a sick, twisted world where misandry runs rampant throughout western society. You can often find people that are otherwise decent spewing the most vile, anti-male rhetoric they can think of and, socially, they NEVER face any pushback or consequences. Ever. It's a sad state of affairs.

France president Macron wife was his teacher, and everyone seem to elude it

@@papibatti-battv7842 nono, we french all made fun of them the whole time.

He’s a male. Nothing massive to the public.

​@MbajIIHD you realize that there are entire religions doing this to little girls all day every day for decades and no one's even batted an eye at it....

You'd be surprised how many people are willing to sell out their children for material gain

@@CaitlinKelly-mo1ld Impressive, you found a story about an sexually abused, groomed, assaulted 16 year old boy and turned it into a pity party about girls you know nothing about.

@CaitlinKelly-mo1ld Typical depends on the culture. Modern day Western countries typically don't give a flying F about their males. Outside of labor use.

Hahaha. 16 years could already be a senator in Rome.

Probably because no one takes a woman grooming a boy very seriously I can guess

Money, duh.

And a little known fact of the the phrase "believe all woman".

​@@nightworrior721your incel logic is as flawed as your grasp of English grammar.

@@nightworrior721 that is not the saying LOL. its "believe all victims"

He is both.

Op should help if he wants to, yes, but the kid doesn't deserve this. Nobody deserves what the kid went through. Please stop trying to justify this and grow as a person.

​@@9zuks There is no justification. It's a simple consequence on his decision on being a pos. But if it's ok for you to feel sorry for someone who harass people, incite his friends to do it too and even he sent videos only because in the long game, he got effed up. The kid already failed in life long before the drugs appeared.

@@ThePawerStation I honestly don't care if the kid is a POS or not in this set of context. Yes what he did was wrong and he should be punished for his actions accordingly but what happened to him by this monster shouldn't have happened to anybody. You're not only not grasping at how bad this situation truly is and how gruesome what had happened really was but you're condoning this by saying that the kid "deserves" this. You don't understand how bad the actions of the ex really are and how it's affected the kid and you are saying it's fine because of what the kid did when he was 16 and being GROOMED.

@@9zukshe never said he should he said he failed which is true

Nobody deserves this. Stop trying to justify what happened because of what the kid did. He was a prick and deserved punishment for his actions yes but nobody deserves what this kid went through. Please change and grow as a person because this video opinion and mindset is absolutely sickening.

This is such a sick and awful mindset to have towards any victim. Confronting any abuser isn't as easy as you would think, especially when it just happened so recently for the kid. The people around him failed the child so terribly and now he has to deal with all the horrible aftereffects probably on his own because people aren't getting him proper help.

@@9zuks”now that he has been used and abused”

​@@vm6141 I find what you are saying so funny! Confronting any abuser is not easy and i agree with you on that. but let's not forget that the kid was also an abuser when he and his gang decided to threaten OP. If not for the involvement of the law enforcement, they wouldn't have stopped. I'm not earing you condemning the kid for that; but we should be sorry for him when he is tasting a bit of his own medecine? The people around the kid have failed him terribly? It's not like he was on age of making his own decisions isn't he? Again, all i'm earing here is a bunch of excuses to absolve someone of his wrongdoing. It's the mindset of people like you which is destroying the young generation. instead of taking accountability for your actions, you are trying everything in the book to blame what is happeinig to you on others. And the last part of you comment "people aren't getting him proper help". There is a saying "help yourself and the sky will help you". Why should anyone help him if he is not even able to stand up for himself? If a woman is been beaten on a daily basis by her partner, the one thing we would told her is to find the strenght to leave; because if she can't do that, noone will be able to help her when she is still in that hellish environnement. That's also the case here. If he want some help, he should at least do the minimum to ask for help not hindering the investigation.

@@chrystylord2324 1. If the kid has been harassed like he harassed OP, it would have been a 'taste of your own medicine.' This saying means that you were treated as badly as you treated someone else. Is grooming/beating/sexual abuse equivalent to phone harassment for you? That’s why people, including OP, state that he didn’t deserve all this. Very few people actually deserve all this. 2. If your parents are not only aware but also supportive of you being groomed, and then basically sell you, they have failed as parents. The groomer has failed as a human being. Their parents supporting their grooming have failed as human beings. Ergo, the people around the kid were terrible at their job. Also, do you magically become wise and mature when you turn 18? Or do you learn by interacting with the world around you and gaining more experience? Because the average 18-year-old has more in common with a 16-year-old than a 30-year-old. They're still lacking in experience, especially if they were groomed. Keep in mind the word 'groom.' He thought getting into this situation was okay because he was groomed, and no one had recognized this. 3. The younger generation's mindset is to try to protect victims, while the older one tends to blame them. There are 6 people in this situation, one victim, and yet you manage to single them out. Considering that if you had thrown a dice to decide who is to blame, you would have been more likely to get someone actually guilty, you really must have gone out of your way to get this result. 4. Yes, you cannot help someone who doesn't want to be helped. However, when a woman is beaten, we try to provide resources and stories to help her realize she needs to get out and how to do so. We don’t tell them that they deserved it, made their own decision, and that what’s happening to her is her fault, although maybe you do because that's what you did to an 18-year-old. OP doesn't have to get in this mess because he has nothing to do with it, not because the kid deserved it. Also, I know that the internet encourages having strong opinions, but excusing someone's shitty behavior because something terrible, but unrelated, happened to them afterward is as dumb as excusing a terrible, but unrelated event, because they had a shitty behavior. You can feel empathy for someone’s predicament while saying they did a shitty thing

he is not a kid, he is 16

@@giuseppegiovani2748 16 year olds are children Giuseppe

@@Sa_mageste_le_roi He is not, he knew what he was doing. He is old enough to undestand that threatening OP online with his friends was a bad thing. People at 16 are old enough to marry, to work and to go to prison. So yeah, he was not a child

​@@giuseppegiovani2748he was being groomed and was at the age where logic is last thing on a teenagers mind hormones and bad choices are number one and two not to mention he had shitty parents does it leave him blameless no but damn he didn't deserve what happened to him. At the same time op owes him nothing so it's up to him to do what's best for him

@@kingthe13 At 16 you are not groomed. At that age you are old enough to make your own choices. Then, obviously he was abused and that was not his fault.

I am absolutely on your side because I can understand op hates this kids guts but he still has a responsibility to him as an adult that can help

@@Sa_mageste_le_roi why does he "have a responsibility"? Because he most certainly doesn't. The kid was a fuck up from the start and now he's a junkie fuck up. OP shouldn't waste his finances lawyering up to fix this guys life, because there is no fixing him. The kid gets consequences for the actions he himself has reinforced for 2 straight years. Also this kid(at the time adult) has harrassed and slandered OP. Which, besides being crimes themselves, is also intentional infliction of emotional distress.

​@@anonymous549 Don't bother. People these days are absolutely allergic to accountability. They'll cry about how OP should help solely because "hEs An AdUlT" when they would never do the same thing in his shoes.

Why should he take responsibility for a boy he was not involved with? Ultimately, this is the ex-wife's family's problem and the boy's family's problem. OP has suffered enough. In my eyes, it is time for him to get to live his own life. What little respect do you have to have for someone whose life you tried to wreck to crawl to them, asking for help? Just because someone is a victim does not mean that they are entitled to help. If I tried to make someone miserable, I would recoil at the thought of trying to ask them for help. The guilt would be too much. They have no right to expect anything. The only thing OP should do is forgive them because they are ultimately human. That is his only duty. However, to let someone dangerous into your life is simply foolish.

Genuinely not trying to start a fight, but how is OP supposed to “step up”? Like, say he goes to the police. What’s he supposed to say? “Hey, I’m her ex husband who has every reason to hold a grudge and I just want to tell you that I’m sure she’s guilty. No, I have no proof and I witnessed absolutely nothing. I’ve had absolutely no contact for two years, you should just for some reason give weight to my suspicion that any lawyer worth their salt would claim is revenge for the divorce”. OP’s pretty sure grooming happened, but the dad is a better witness to that and OP’s thoughts and opinions are a matter of public record from the divorce. Do you really think OP talking to the guy will get him to backtrack again? When his own family can’t convince him to advocate for himself? They had only negative interactions previously. I genuinely don’t think there is anything OP can do to help. If you can think of anything actionable then I’d like to hear it, but as is I’m pretty sure trying to get involved will just get him converted in sludge as well and won’t have any positive effect.