Hi, Melissa. Rise above those snarky comments and take the high road (which you have done). Don't let one bad apple spoil the entire bunch of us who really enjoy your videos.

In a world where you can be anything... Be Kind !

My mum always had a saying she used when I was growing up “you can think what you like but be very careful what falls out of your mouth. Respect ,good manners kindness & consideration don’t cost us anything”. That is something I have always tried to live by, unfortunately it is not always instilled in everyone. No one has the right to make somebody feel bad.

I watch quite a lot of KZfaq. Many of the people I watch are honest about bad days or videos content that isn’t what they wanted. I just want you to know that your presence here is enough for me. I live alone and all you wonderful KZfaq content makers make me feel so much less alone. Thanks for all you do.

I am so sorry that you received negative comments. I watched this video yesterday and since then couldn’t get you off my mind because I know you were hurting so much. I know it’s hard not to let those comments affect you but please realize that there are so many of us who appreciate you welcoming us in to your home and sharing your life with us. You are very much appreciated 💕

Bless you. There will always be people who like to communicate unfiltered comments. Dont let this experience affect you too much. Thank you for your transparency. Praying you receive abundant blessings 🙏❤

Thank you for sharing... even on the bad days. Regarding ugly comments - Some people are so angry and ugly that it overflows and spills out of them in any and every way it can. I feel really bad for people like that... It seems like a truly crappy way to live. Shake it off & shine on. You have much better things to spend your time & energy on. ❤️

Thank you for being sincere and simply honest. I appreciate you and your willingness to spread positivism, kindness and joy even on the not easy days, which we all can relate. Keep spreading joy, confetti, we love you for that! You are a light in this world. God bless you.🙏🎉🌷

I like the saying ‘If you can’t say something kind, don’t say anything.’ Hang in there... Like you said.....tomorrow is a new day.

Hi there Mel! I just want you to know that here in Mexico I talk about you all the time to my mom, you are such an inspiration, you and your beautiful family are a sunshine. I'm so sorry about your day, you are amazingly kind, hang in there, the sun will come out tomorrow, bet your bottom dollar that tomorrow there'll be sun!... xoxoxo

I got too! So thankful for your honesty and openness. Here’s to a better day tomorrow.

“It’s not my job in life to convince somebody to like me.” That landed so hard on me thank you so much. I actually had to hit pause and walk away... that statement was so powerful and you said it with such conviction. I needed a moment to reflect on it. 🙌🏾🙏🏾

I love the way you addressed the hurtful comments in this video. My dad and mom always taught me that if you can't say something good, just don't say anything at all. I enjoy your watching your videos.. They sometimes bring me laughs. lets me know there are real people in real life crazy days, just like mine. I hope your days to come get better and the peace of the Lord is with you all.. God Bless

I love that you are just showing real life! And I would not say this vlog sucked at all! It’s called real life and it’s great seeing others living real too!

Melissa... your channel is amazing. It literally calms me down when I'm stressed. Every weekend I wake up super early (not on purpose), make coffee and get back in bed and catch up on your channel and I look forward to that!! Don't let these small minded people get to you. You're doing amazing and your kids are being raised by amazing parents! Shake them haters off!!! 🤣 God bless!!

Thank you for sharing your day with us. You are always real with your viewers and your family is beautiful. I always like to hear your views and thoughts. As a sister Christian, praying that you have a better day. Keep going girl!!!

Today was my crappy day as well and I was open and honest about it on my channel as well because I feel the importance of real ness for the sake of others here on KZfaq. You are always an inspiration to myself. I often find myself rewatching your content for motivation. Thank you for all that you do and share.

Ohhh Melissa please ignore those people who obviously have no idea how your family dynamic works. There are so many people here on KZfaq who are purposely looking to be negative and hateful. I choose to believe that there’s more good than evil in this world. You are beautiful and honest. Please try your best to ignore these comments. So many of us here appreciate your content and are grateful for the time you dedicate to creating these videos. May God bring kindness into those hearts who are corrupt by evil. I hope you have a wonderful week❤️

Thank you for being so honest. That’s why I love your videos. I’m sorry that some cruel person decided she was an authority on you and your family. I think your children are great and feel really relaxed on video. Your family seems perfect. The way your husband looked at you was with love.

I like that you are very intentional with what you do and say. Keep pushing foward. You encourage me to do the same.

You are one of the most refreshing and genuine women on KZfaq. I adore your messages and what you share with us all. I have learned a lot from you. I’m doing a better job of pacing myself to be more present and productive in all that I do. I’m a better woman and wife and mother for it. Thank you for your uplifting spirit and guidance. Rise above, as you remind us to do. So we are rallying around you tonight to give you a hug and a boost. You are amazing! ❤️

Melissa, I so admire you! Spending a day the way you did with your littles is what it’s all about! The day to day stuff is special in and of itself. Thank you for creating content! It inspires and uplifts me! You’re a wonderful you! 💞

I love your honesty, I really could never understand how people can intentionally hurt someone? I’ve ever understood this?

You have a lovely family. Thanks for sharing your videos!

New in your channel and I am amazed how strong you are. What you do takes a lot of courage. We all do things differently and NO ONE is perfect. It’s sad that a lot of people like that lady doesn’t see the beauty of it.. keep on doing what you are doing. For 1 person that dislike anything you do there are 10 that support you and loves your videos.. 😊

Hi Melissa, you will always get someone that wants to spoil things and say hurtful things, don't let it get to you they don't know anything about you, and it has nothing to do with them ,i think you do a fantastic job and i enjoy your video,s Thank you xx

Girl, you need to have thick skin if you are going to do videos on KZfaq. Ignore the haters. You have a beautiful family and home. Blessings to you.

I love your videos and I love how real you are and how my motivation they bring me! Thank you for sharing this ❤️ I pray your family stay safe and healthy! Enjoying all the videos!

Take care of you! People forget that it’s only a snipet of your day and what goes on in your day. Thanks for being open and honest!!

Hoping you have a better day tomorrow ! I enjoy your videos and look up to you as a homemaker and mom. 🤍

Great comments....love your idea of think...helpful or hurtful

I really enjoy your vlogs when your family is included because it’s much more relatable, especially at this time when most of us have to work and school kids from home. Your family seem very humble and it shows even more that they all support you by allowing you to include them,but I guess I can’t expect everyone to see it the way I did. Like the saying goes,”hurt people hurt people” and she’s the one being intrusive with her negativity. By the way, I sometimes do things that I know annoy my husband and he does the same with me,just for fun and nobody gets hurt; so don’t feel bad i think it’s normal for married couples.😂

Misery loves company. Unfortunately there are people who just enjoys being ugly. I think you’re an amazing Wife and Mom! Thank you for your honesty and faith. Please don’t let the devil in people stop you from sharing with the majority of us, that loves what you’re doing!

I hope this doesn't change your vlogs! I love them! They're a bright spot in my day! 💕💕💕

Your channel is one of my very favorites. You are uplifting and positive. Your videos are refreshing to watch. Ypu come across as extremely kind and gentle and your children seem sweet and most importantly, happy! Shake off the negative comments and know you have many people who support you. God bless you akd your sweet family ❤

Hi I never comment on videos normally, but In this situation I wanted to share with you my thoughts. I think your videos are inspiring, for me it’s not your content quite so much but the way you come across, I find anything you have to say interesting and you always put a slightly different view on things to the norm. I am glad you can share your views on KZfaq, anybody can make a KZfaq video but its personality that’s make a difference. I have missed your videos over the last few months and so glad you have started them again. I really value your views on the topics you film. I live in the U.K. but family’s are so often alike wherever they are. Your topics are just as relevant here. Keep up the good work. We can’t control others but can control how we react to situations and think you made a wise call with your last video.

Just forget about that bad comment! You are such a lovely person and a wonderful mother. Your family looks very happy and I like the way you seem to tease your husband a little bit with your camera 😊 Please forgive my English, My name is Gabi, I am a 55 year old woman living in Vienna, Austria and I really love your work on KZfaq. You are one of my 4 favorite channels to watch when I am looking for some motivation and inspiration for my daily life. Please keep on doing what you are doing! Your videos are very important for many, many people! Sending you love and peace from my locked down home ❤️☮️🇦🇹

Thank you for your honesty. I’ve said it before, you have a beautiful family and your videos bring me a lot of joy!

👏🏻👏🏻 for keeping it real...scripture says ‘there is a time to speak..a time to be silent’ we need to be wise and know When! My mum always told us IF YOU CANT SAY ANYTHING NICE DONT SAY ANYTHING AT ALL! sorry for your sucky day...god gives us dawn and dusk for a reason ..new days,, ❤️🙋🏻‍♀️🇬🇧💕

Thank you for sharing. I think from time to time people forget their human decency and manners. I’m glad you shared because it brings to light that you have people out in the world that appreciate you and the tips and tricks you have to share. You are helping to make people’s lives a little better. For the one mean comment you have made a difference in at least one persons life and that’s all that matters. I can say personally you have touched mine. Chin up/soldier on and keep doing what you are doing. Take care. Your neighbor from Colorado.

It’s so sad that people feel the need to vent unkindness! Don’t let this deter you from including your family in your vlogs. I, for one, look forward to seeing your posts. They are a bright spot & blessing in my day!

Your vlog did not stink. It was real and honest. We need more of this. Loved your PSA. Thank you. Stay well.

I have to agree with all the positive comments here. I am glad you addressed the snarky comment. People should know they can't get away with this kind of behavior. I 100% agree with the person that said "if you can't say something nice, say nothing" That is how I was raised. My mom taught me to see the positive, look for it. and share encouragement whenever you can. Especially in these days when we don't know what others are going through, Its our job as humans, to be kind and to share love. I enjoy your posts on IG and your videos here. I love your content and your enjoy seeing your children growing and learning. Thank you for your honesty and being inspiring in daily life. I am glad you are here and sharing your days with us to help keep us motivated and encouraged. :)

This has happened to my son twice with his assignments. First time I chocked it up to not knowing now today I thought I was going to lose my mind. It’s so frustrating. I used your method and stopped and took a deep breath before I flipped. Thank you.

You are a breath of fresh air and bring forth such positive energy to your channel. You are very uplifting, motivating and encouraging. It makes me sad someone would say such things, but then again they can hide behind their computer/words. I always tell myself "you cannot fix stupid." Don't you appreciate those teachers even more??? I have a 6th graders and a Junior and I'm like "I'm too old to be dealing w/ this." I'm near Peoria, IL so we're on lockdown until April 30th, but I have a feeling it's going to be extended. Well go forth and don't have too much fun w/ that laundry b/c I know I won't w/ my own overflow. LOL

You tube is for entertainment purposes, to learn, and in someway get to meet new people. I personally came across your channel a while ago and enjoyed the content you had shared with your viewers. The woman who said such harsh and unkind words towards you and your family, I wonder if she would go to a mirror in her home and see if she likes the reflection she sees. If she likes what she sees looking back at her then, then I hope day that God will enter into her heart. I personally believe (as read in the Bible & heard in sermons) that we should not judge/criticize other’s lest we be judged/criticized. I’m so sorry that a stranger had written a very negative and very hurtful comment. My understanding in life and how to treat people is to show compassion rather than hurt, people should be understanding rather than judge, and most importantly we should say kind words and love for one another rather than criticize. Stay strong and safe.

I am sorry you have to deal with this😢I love your channel. You are an inspiration, bringing hope, kindness and positive thoughts. Don’t let this take you from your purpose. I believe God has put you in this channel to bring good news and encouragement. Be blessed and keep spreading confetti 🥰

Hi Melissa! I loved this video! I love what a true, down-to-earth, genuine person you are. I'm sorry to hear that you had a bad day. Thank you for your daily posts. I've been watching you more on Instagram lately, but I'm happy to have caught this video today. :)

Please don’t apologize for anything. These are very hard days for all of us, just hang in there. We are all in this together and kindness is necessary at all times. You should delete the mean people and you can always turn the comments off. That is why I don’t do any videos. People sit behind a desk and make mean comments. God Bless and take care.

Loved this video you have a beautiful family🙋🏻‍♀️

Thank you for being honest! A few days ago I unsubscribed from a youtuber because she was soo fake that it really upset me. So thank you for being you!I love your channel and truly look forward to it everyday. It is nobodys buisness what goes on in your home between you and your husband.Your children are beautiful ! They do not look uncomfortable on camera. Have a fantastic day!

Just block the mean ones their's slot of us that love watching you and your family. Your the second one that has to talk a out this in the last few hours. God bless you and your family.

I just want to say thank you love following you because you keep it real not exploiting your kids for views keep it up❤️👍🏽

My husband works from home and invents life-saving diabetes drugs while I’m a stay at home mom...He tells me all the time that my job is just as important as his and that they would probably all die if it weren’t for everything I do 🙂

When hurtful comments are said about how you deal with your family, it can be the most hurtful. Especially when you're having a hard day, and when you're trying SO hard to be a good wife and mother!!! We are living in the very end of time and are at just the very beginning of hard times. I believe we will look back on now and wish for it! God will help us to do whatever we need to. I believe it actually helps somehow when we hear that someone else had a bad day. There's something strangely comforting to hear each other's woes! 😊. We need to hold each other up and encourage one another especially in these crazy times. 😊❤️💐👍

Love and respect you more than ever, blessings to you and yours

Yes. You are right. I’m sorry for those comments. Putting yourself out there definitely opens the door for those negative comments but I enjoy your videos and I actually screen shot what you posted on Instagram about 8 daily tips to keep a well run home. ;-p Take care of yourself, and the babies. I have to sit with my 12 year old daughter and help her with her online lessons all the while the laundry needs done and my 9 year old son need attention and help. He is in a wheelchair and non verbal. He needs lots of mommy time. Watching youtube videos can be a mini escape for me. We don’t need anymore negativity. Just “realness” and honesty. We are not perfect Blessings

I also meant to ask~ where did you get your shirt? I need a new one like that and am having a hard time finding one that I really love!

Hurt people hurt people . . . Snarky commentor evidentally has some issues. So sorry she took her problems out on you. The rest of us enjoy your channel and IG account and appreciate you helping us by sharing your life and family and tips. Take care and God bless you Melissa ❣

J adore vos videos☺️☺️vous êtes géniale , vos contenus sont supers et ne prêtez pas attention aux commentaires désobligeants !!! Continuez ainsi😍😍

I’m sorry that you even had to address an unnecessary comment like that. These are unprecedented times and people are under a great deal of stress. No one should speculate the dynamics of your family or anyone’s based off of a few seconds of footage. Thank you for being vulnerable to show the world the good and the bad. Probably not something the keyboard warrior could do. Keep doing you!

Wow!!! That comment even hurt me 😔.

Evidently, this woman thought her opinion matters to you. You have an absolutely beautiful home that you and your husband have worked very hard for. Your children seem to be very well behaved for a reason. It’s called thoughtful parenting. You have the right attitude in dealing with people like her. Like the song goes “Let it go! Let it go!” Saying all of that, I will say there are some KZfaqrs out there who need to be “woke”. I would love to throw some snarky comments at them but I stop myself. They have fans who enjoy their videos and my opinion of them doesn’t matter to a hill of beans. Sooo.....I move on to the next video. I hope you have a better day tomorrow.

Wow! People can be so mean. I am so sorry. I would have to 100% disagree with everything that person said. Keep being you ❤️

It was an inappropriate remark. I agree with you, she did not know where your mind was. We are from different worlds but I still enjoy your channel. It was a rude remark.

YUCK!! Why do people feel they are allowed to speak to people like this??!!! I have never understood it! And I always feel bad for their children~ having to be subjected to them aaaaaaall the time. Yes, we have bad days and yes, we screw up~ but we know it and don't need someone to try and shame us. There are always going to be people who act like this, but I guess we just need to take it as a lesson and reminder to be nice or be quiet!!!! I hope your day today was much better...we are almost to Easter and the Resurrection and one day closer to the end of all this quarantine!!! We love you and are blessed by your content and your heart!!

Oh Melissa, why are people so unkind? As a Jesus follower, its hard to understand. Thanks for sharing your feelings with us and reminding us how our words can hurt or they can heal. I enjoy your videos so much. I am a 72 year old grandmother and I live 60 miles south of Houston on the Texas Gulf Coast. BTW, my youngest daughter is named Melissa Gail. We call her Missy in the family and some of her friends call her Mel but I love the name Melissa. My mother picked her name so that makes it special to me also.

I truly enjoy you, your videos and your family ♥️ You are an inspiration to many...I’m so sorry that some people are like the lady that made rude comments...there is no reason for that....Also, Vlog of Light videos are terrific!

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First, let me, as a human, ask for forgiveness in her place. Jesus bore our sins for us. I’m asking that you forgive her ugly words. Not for her, but for you. You have inspired me so much. I pray her demonic spirit will not hang around in your mind or home. You are such a blessing to so many. Of course the enemy will try to kill, steal and destroy your good. Now,,,,,if you need me to go have a “come to Jesus meeting” with her, as we do in the south,,,,,,, you just let me know. Seriously, I’ll be praying for you. Much love from Oklahoma

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Wow.... I dont even know what to say. Why ? Why would someone put that ugliness out there? It certainly says more about them than it does you. Love to you and yours. Im thankful I missed it.

Again it was a question and not an accusation

That viewer was correct but you had no answer to her question because she was just telling you what you said, that your husband hates you having him in the camera and your kids the same , she is asking you why do you to that and you gave her no answer, what you're doing with your family is no ones business but when you tell your viewers what and why don't you think they have the right to ask? Just answer them, there question was why, but you not only didn't reply but you found it offensive. Sorry but you are the wrong one here