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Myka Stauffer Wanted To Adopt ANOTHER Child, YouTuber LEAKS Her Past?

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Myka and James Stauffer revealed what happened to their adopted son, and people are extremely upset.
This is the second and final part of the series on the Stauffer family.
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@allergictoblood
@allergictoblood 4 жыл бұрын
Myka and James have no right to adopt another child after what they did.
@rave_girl
@rave_girl 4 жыл бұрын
I know😡
@theblackcatgirl7013
@theblackcatgirl7013 4 жыл бұрын
For sure
@leiia2589
@leiia2589 4 жыл бұрын
Frr
@JKARAZMOJML
@JKARAZMOJML 4 жыл бұрын
Wouldnt it be illegal or noted for trying to adopt again
@tundrance
@tundrance 4 жыл бұрын
off topic but AAA YOUR COLOUR RECIPE PFP
@taylormendenhall5080
@taylormendenhall5080 4 жыл бұрын
“Protect his privacy” clearly that wasn’t what she was worried about when they documented every part of the adoption and his life with them.
@blessedchildofthemosthighj6702
@blessedchildofthemosthighj6702 4 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing. She rewords thinks to fit whatever situation she's in at that moments. I've noticed her contradicting herself a few times over the years.
@samanthacottrell8646
@samanthacottrell8646 4 жыл бұрын
She wanted to keep what happened (her giving him back to China) a secret, that's what she meant. I don't exactly agree with what she did, but just know that that's what she meant
@widya1583
@widya1583 4 жыл бұрын
@@samanthacottrell8646 wdym "I don't exactly agree with what she did"? Why is there an uneeded "exactly" in your sentence? Just say you don't agree with what she did "at all", not "exactly".
@love_julie
@love_julie 4 жыл бұрын
"Anything that happened in the home that was hard for him- that's not fair for me to put out publicly. That's his privacy." Where was that so called privacy when she filmed him... on multiple occasions.. showing him crying and saying, "he's having a meltdown", "he's throwing a tantrum", or "this is his 8th meltdown today".
@graciasolenyanu369
@graciasolenyanu369 4 жыл бұрын
She’s a freaking you tuber for god sake! There’s no such thing as privacy! If she kept him private, she wouldn’t have of gotten as many views and followers as she wanted. She exploited him on purpose. She’s delusional and disgusting. Am done
@butter7790
@butter7790 4 жыл бұрын
They wanted to adopt little Huxley after he was diagnosed with brain tumor and even when they found out it was terminal, because she wanted to milk his funeral and get all the sympathy and views from it. When the diagnosis changed to autism, they still kept him for fame. When they found out his death wouldn't have been a way to get rid of him, the rehomed little Huxley. This is all the truth. It's insane yet the truth. And it's even more disturbing, scary and evil than we all imagined
@Katya-zj7ni
@Katya-zj7ni 4 жыл бұрын
Got shivers there, what a world !
@eveofhades9260
@eveofhades9260 3 жыл бұрын
She's clearly suffering from severe Narcissistic disorder. It's horrific that she has access to any child.
@jangayle7960
@jangayle7960 3 жыл бұрын
😯
@remekbrat
@remekbrat 3 жыл бұрын
Possibly. Very possibly, these people don't deserve respect for throwing away this poor baby lije a used toy.
@HeatherLynseyMusic
@HeatherLynseyMusic 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my god even reading it makes my stomach turn and knowing it happened, if not in the exact way you said, something very similar. It’s so sickening.
@kayjones7301
@kayjones7301 4 жыл бұрын
“I feel like a failure as a mom” Maybe cause you’re a failure as a mom, bro 👀
@donnatran3104
@donnatran3104 3 жыл бұрын
Can't be a failure at something you never were... 😤
@poppypoppop3231
@poppypoppop3231 3 жыл бұрын
she’s not only a failure as a mom, she’s a failure of a human being.
@cheeseK8
@cheeseK8 3 жыл бұрын
she's not even a mom- her maternal insticts?? nowhere to be found
@kairetalvarez990
@kairetalvarez990 3 жыл бұрын
She’s a failure as a human being
@moonypoony7614
@moonypoony7614 3 жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t even call her a mom…
@itsme-yb9bs
@itsme-yb9bs 4 жыл бұрын
"Anything is possible with a China adoption" she described like that she was gonna return a wish product. That's so disgusting
@kylerj.2512
@kylerj.2512 4 жыл бұрын
I dont even return wish products and they return a whole child
@nonofyabidness
@nonofyabidness 4 жыл бұрын
btw i think all chinese adoption associations make it very clear that most children up for adoption HAVE ISSUES. they are obligated to say that. This just prove they did not do enough research before adopting, OR they knew that, but acted like they dont to show they are nice people.
@corimoon3360
@corimoon3360 4 жыл бұрын
Jefffer They said that the doctors and the adoption agency told them and warned them about his issues and they claimed they didn’t care and it “went in one ear out the other” because they “LoVe HiM So MuCh” and “He’s UnReTuRnAbLe”... and then returned him..
@heysaucemikehere1804
@heysaucemikehere1804 4 жыл бұрын
Jefffer The thing is they not only knew, they _specifically asked_ for a special needs child, then, when they were told he may need more care than they initially thought, she said it went ‘in one ear out the other’. The whole situation absolutely infuriated me, but that part gets me the most.
@MM-uw5uj
@MM-uw5uj 4 жыл бұрын
Ik it makes me uncomfortable that my name is pronounced like hers and that I’m gonna become like her 😖
@hope2338
@hope2338 4 жыл бұрын
so basically: "we wanted a child that had special needs, but didn't have to be taken care of specially."
@huixianhu2474
@huixianhu2474 4 жыл бұрын
They wanted a kid that has special needs that don’t live long. So they could be the hero parents and don’t have to take care the kid for ever. Look how disappointed when myka found out “the tumor” in huxleys ct scan is not something detrimental. She was basically very upset because he had autism not cancer
@isa-qm2jy
@isa-qm2jy 4 жыл бұрын
bethany i’m not trying to be a Stan for the KZfaqr but she did put him into therapy for his special needs though I do understand that they could’ve done better but it’s not easy to take care of a child with special needs.
@aidaminyu7004
@aidaminyu7004 4 жыл бұрын
@@isa-qm2jy I understand what you mean...but in this case, it is largely an exploitation of a child, and is very damaging for him. The long reason why - in the first place they ignore the doctors advice prior to adopting the boy, saying " the words went in and out the other ear". So why are they suddenly listening now when they choose to be irresponsible the first place..they specifically wanted a special need kid but don't bother understanding the boy's situation (food insecurity and mistaken it for the boy throwing a tantrum) and igniting the doctor advice. Secondly, rehoming a kid comes with lots of risk as well. There are currently no proof that the kid has been sent to another family. Myka claimed that the new family has medical training but she also said she had medical training and that's why she specially wanted a special need child (with obvious special need trait) who is easy to care for. Thirdly, the Stauffer are loaded, they just bought a new mansion, went on a new holiday after making alot of money off the adoption video and crowd funding without caring about the boy's privacy, yet they cannot afford to get him a better treatment. Not to mention adopted kids who are sent away, might not get readopted, and with this boy's existing attachment issue it will be very difficult for him to adapt to a new environment, not to mentioned a new family. Changing environment once is already quite damaging to a child growth, let alone a kid with special needs and attached disorder. Based on all the envidence out there, not a single one can support how this family really care for this child at all. Maybe you give them the benefit of the doubt, but do more research on it and if all the envidence from countless source (including the Stauffer own words that they will support their biological children if they behave this way instead of giving away) will definitely be obvious to you that this family was using him for clout and returning him when they found it too difficult to handle.
@jacquelineess1141
@jacquelineess1141 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for knowing how to spell. A breath of fresh air.
@taytayqueen7024
@taytayqueen7024 4 жыл бұрын
Translation: Great for views and clicks but low effort.
@bilboswaggins7596
@bilboswaggins7596 4 жыл бұрын
"it drives my husband bonkers" CHILDREN DO WEIRD THINGS JAMES
@pbrownie4
@pbrownie4 4 жыл бұрын
"he looks at me" ,,,, ok??
@CandaceStevens
@CandaceStevens 3 жыл бұрын
I caught that too... Everything is always SO HARD for *THEM* as parents... What about the children? They have to attempt to survive living under these narcissistic, indifferent, downright neglectful parents... These parents are clueless at best... Grossly Negligent & Abusive at worst...
@johnnyappleseed5262
@johnnyappleseed5262 3 жыл бұрын
paigey ok HE DID NOTTTT HAVE THE NERVE TO SAY THAT WHAT-
@WyattRyeSway
@WyattRyeSway 3 жыл бұрын
His ex-wife who said she herself has narcissistic tendencies, said James is very narcissistic.
@babymaude8469
@babymaude8469 3 жыл бұрын
That is one of the most disgusting and bizarre parts of this story. He's a little boy. If someone staring at you drives you bonkers, you are not mature enough to be a parent. You're not mature enough to be in Jr. High School. These people are the worst!
@h921c
@h921c 4 жыл бұрын
huxley should receive compensation for the emotional distress these “ex-parents” inflicted on him
@kathyh4804
@kathyh4804 3 жыл бұрын
They should have to give him all the money they made off of the poor little guy! What a narcissist she is!!!!!! She didn’t even bother telling her “followers” they even dumped him!!!!!!! She cared NOTHING about his privacy! What a joke!
@bellamichelle6248
@bellamichelle6248 3 жыл бұрын
He should get all the money they made off him!!!!!! And more!!!!!!!!
@unapologeticella4540
@unapologeticella4540 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed it's the least they can do as an apology.horrible ppl.
@unapologeticella4540
@unapologeticella4540 3 жыл бұрын
@@kathyh4804 in some videos ahe used to mock the way he talks as if she was a Chinese person very sad they didnt deserve Huxley.
@tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454
@tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454 3 жыл бұрын
I agree
@natalieperez625
@natalieperez625 4 жыл бұрын
Didn’t she say herself that the doctors told them NOT to adopt the child because his conditions could get worse as he grows??
@doodleproductions7552
@doodleproductions7552 4 жыл бұрын
YEP. Then she refused to take responsibility and said that the doctors didn't tell her the full story (NEWS FLASH: Yes they did, she just tuned it out when it benefitted her and then started listening when it continued to benefit her)
@kiera6666
@kiera6666 4 жыл бұрын
"iT like weNt like thRouGh like oNE eAr anD like, oUT like like like like like like like like like like like tHE like oTHeR. i MILk mY soN bEcaUse iM toO fLaT for HIm to MILk mE sO i feEd him unNuTritional aRSe jUicE."
@paigep.1885
@paigep.1885 4 жыл бұрын
Two words. Views. Money.
@andrielisilien
@andrielisilien 4 жыл бұрын
And then suddenly they listened to the doctors when they advised James and Myka to rehome Huxley.
@melissapowell7787
@melissapowell7787 4 жыл бұрын
She was saying that when the doc was talking it went in one ear and can out in the other
@denizblack1850
@denizblack1850 4 жыл бұрын
"He always chose other people instead of us in public situations. He signed and showed tons of emotions to show us." Girl, he's telling you that you're being bad parents.
@tarabooartarmy3654
@tarabooartarmy3654 4 жыл бұрын
Right? OMG, if the child is choosing strangers over them, there's probably a very big reason for it.
@panjaro1890
@panjaro1890 4 жыл бұрын
Not really
@shiannpace
@shiannpace 3 жыл бұрын
“New forever family” “Their former son” “Rehomed him” How upsetting, it sounds like they’ve tried to get a dog from a shelter and it didn’t work out. A HUMAN BABY BOY! This breaks my heart a million times
@tayloranderson7547
@tayloranderson7547 4 ай бұрын
A human baby boy! This breaks my heart ❤️ a million times. For real life.
@elliottmaryme
@elliottmaryme 4 жыл бұрын
The way she was treating him when he was having his "meltdowns" says it all.... very cold and unattached! Poor baby!
@adamburdt8794
@adamburdt8794 3 жыл бұрын
For real. Those weren't even meltdowns. He was just being VERY slightly fussy. The sad part is the way she treated him on camera was the nicest she ever was to him. Imagine off camera. Scary
@tayloranderson7547
@tayloranderson7547 2 жыл бұрын
The way she treats him she was having meltdown says it all very cold and unattached poor baby
@tayloranderson7547
@tayloranderson7547 4 ай бұрын
The way she was treating him when he was having his meltdowns say it all... Very cold and unattended! Poor baby for real life.
@alexmun7391
@alexmun7391 4 жыл бұрын
“his new mommy has medical professional training” don’t YOU have medical professional training??? edit: yes ik not all medical training is the same, but the whole reason they took him home when they were advised not to (because his condition would most likely get worse) is because she has “medical professional training”
@melonmusk7903
@melonmusk7903 4 жыл бұрын
That part made my head hurt
@jennifer2185
@jennifer2185 4 жыл бұрын
what is 'medical professional training' supposed to mean anyway? CNA, RN, doctor, radiologist, receptionist at a doctors office? Very vague to, yet again, try to make themselves look good because they chose a "qualified" new mom.
@coolkitten6726
@coolkitten6726 4 жыл бұрын
yeah she claimed to be, then in the part where her former neighbor was talking about her she said myka didn’t know how to do any of it and she paid people to do her work for her in nursing school, and she only became a nurse because she was bored at home. Truly disgusting
@iCynnie
@iCynnie 4 жыл бұрын
lol she somehow became a RN and only worked for a year until she got fired for throwing a metal tray at her coworker, who was pregnant
@Jacky.c.v
@Jacky.c.v 4 жыл бұрын
Jennifer I thought that too. Like what is a dentist supposed to do with a special needs child.
@maniccheesewizeater7739
@maniccheesewizeater7739 4 жыл бұрын
This is gross. They should not be allowed to have another child after the first one. They have already proven they can not care for a special needs adopted child.
@starcarlson2898
@starcarlson2898 4 жыл бұрын
Aren't adoptions pricey?
@Plant-CatLady
@Plant-CatLady 4 жыл бұрын
I agree
@domenicaz390
@domenicaz390 4 жыл бұрын
Star Carlson Usually, depends on the agency
@lunalovegood5632
@lunalovegood5632 4 жыл бұрын
Star Carlson international and baby adoption can get v expensive. But adopting from foster care isnt pricy and can be free
@domenicaz390
@domenicaz390 4 жыл бұрын
Luna Lovegood I’m pretty sure the woman who adopted the child (for some reason can’t think of her name) paid $500 just to see his file, right?
@myafigs6065
@myafigs6065 4 жыл бұрын
I mean . . . Kids always stare when you eat. I open a snickers and young relatives are like 👁👄👁
@peapie5920
@peapie5920 3 жыл бұрын
LOL!!! Yes!!!! My kids (9, 11 and 18) still do that! Even if it’s not something they particularly like! 🤣🤣
@unapologeticella4540
@unapologeticella4540 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@christineborrell5339
@christineborrell5339 3 жыл бұрын
I can’t eat anything I don’t want to share in front of my two year old. She will follow me around and spit out the food I gave her just so I can eat my food. It’s just what kids do.
@HakunaMatata21
@HakunaMatata21 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!! This is why I eat my Ben and Jerry’s while taking a bath and watching Netflix. If I didn’t do it that way I wouldn’t get any of it. 😂😂. Plus he’s from a different country with different foods. He was young but he was old enough to be curious about what he was seeing. I’m not sure what kind of foods they eat but I guarantee it’s a lot different than the foods he was used to in China.
@myafigs6065
@myafigs6065 3 жыл бұрын
@@HakunaMatata21 my mom would eat food in the car before coming inside 😂
@grace83996
@grace83996 4 жыл бұрын
“Former son” there is no such thing you cold hearted beasts
@judeflowers2813
@judeflowers2813 3 жыл бұрын
Isn 't that the truth? So sickening!
@darkenedabyss7808
@darkenedabyss7808 3 жыл бұрын
Im so glad my parents kept me, i got generalized anxiety disorder and autism, I'm scared of leaving the house
@hao9508
@hao9508 3 жыл бұрын
@@darkenedabyss7808 same
@tayloranderson7547
@tayloranderson7547 2 жыл бұрын
Former son there is no such thing you could hurt beasts
@sabrinniamathullah601
@sabrinniamathullah601 4 жыл бұрын
idc if she couldn't "handle" taking care of the first child she doesn't deserve to adopt another one.
@averymartinez9505
@averymartinez9505 4 жыл бұрын
Having a kid with a disability isnt anything like having a normal kid
@averymartinez9505
@averymartinez9505 4 жыл бұрын
@you're totally right no I don't.
@xoblieuxx
@xoblieuxx 4 жыл бұрын
AT LEAST not right away!!!
@amandagaribayvlogs2348
@amandagaribayvlogs2348 4 жыл бұрын
Avery Martinez my son has the same issues and yes, it’s hard and if he is under or overstimulated, he will cause harm to himself or others but it’s something you have to work on and sacrifice for some who needs you. They had a ton of money they made off of him to do more.
@Cat-eh3td
@Cat-eh3td 4 жыл бұрын
THEY * her husband is guilty too.
@ashleycarr2180
@ashleycarr2180 4 жыл бұрын
"He wanted this" he's 4 years old with an attachment disorder. 🤦‍♀️
@diannamarks8232
@diannamarks8232 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly! It sounds like disinhibited attachment disorder.
@margotl9756
@margotl9756 4 жыл бұрын
This. Giving agency to a four year old is just not taking your own responsibility as a parent.
@ShieniLicksOnLemons
@ShieniLicksOnLemons 4 жыл бұрын
4 year old with an attachment disorder who had finally become attached to his sister and James and then gets ripped away from them...
@anonymouse257
@anonymouse257 4 жыл бұрын
iman is mayonnaise What part of this is too difficult for you to understand?
@irabow5378
@irabow5378 4 жыл бұрын
@iman is mayonnaise kiddos with attachment disorders often have no stranger danger radar. Any adult that's nice to them is now their best friend and they need to stay with them because that's who's going to protect them. At least in the kid's head.
@lunacouer
@lunacouer 4 жыл бұрын
Let's call "private rehoming" on online marketplaces what it really is... Human Trafficking
@Katya-zj7ni
@Katya-zj7ni 4 жыл бұрын
Alice in Dumbeand 👏👏👏👏
@kristingallo2158
@kristingallo2158 4 жыл бұрын
Is it even legal to "privately" rehome a child you brought into the country, get citizenship for, and agreed to be responsible for? I feel like that should be illegal especially when bringing children all the way from their home country and disrupting their entire lives, taking them from everything they know. How does this even work with immigration laws? Its gotta be illegal.
@aparrot2966
@aparrot2966 4 жыл бұрын
She is evil and it should be illegal.
@free2beemee
@free2beemee 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed! 💯
@lunacouer
@lunacouer 4 жыл бұрын
@@kristingallo2158 I haven't done a lot of digging, but from what I've gathered, it's legal. The cases tend to go through the adoption agencies though, not on f'in online marketplaces. But it happens enough that "private rehoming" is a thing. But like you said, it shouldn't be. It seems like it's flying below legislators radars, so no one has made a law banning it. I mean, if you just give your birthed child away, you can be charged with abandonment and neglect. I don't see how this is any different.
@kadenhiggins9338
@kadenhiggins9338 4 жыл бұрын
As a foster mother I’ve seen failed fosters....on occasion. And failed adoptions very rarely and when those happen it’s usually understandable with really good reasons. It’s heartbreaking but knowing what I know, it does happen. I came into this series with an open mind with what I’ve experienced but I’m absolutely fuming now!! They used this baby to make money then when he was used up they sent him on his way!
@tayloranderson7547
@tayloranderson7547 8 ай бұрын
And failed adoptions very rarely and when those happen it's usually understandable with really good reasons. It's heartbreaking but knowing what I know, it does happen . I come into this series with a n open mind too with whatlve expiced but I'm obviously fumming now they used this baby to make money 💰 when he was used up they sent him on his own way !
@tayloranderson7547
@tayloranderson7547 4 ай бұрын
That is so true
@emmar5198
@emmar5198 4 жыл бұрын
How many times is this poor excuse of a mother gonna say “like”.
@heyimgalaxy
@heyimgalaxy 4 жыл бұрын
Emmalynn Voldivosky Every like is her saying “like”
@biscuitsluv2037
@biscuitsluv2037 4 жыл бұрын
Like, like, like y'know?
@disgustan3747
@disgustan3747 4 жыл бұрын
LITERALLY like.....
@blepp9807
@blepp9807 4 жыл бұрын
Like I know like it’s like the like I swear she keeps on saying like
@matthewwilde1574
@matthewwilde1574 4 жыл бұрын
Take a shot everytime-
@serahmatsu6906
@serahmatsu6906 4 жыл бұрын
People who defend them.......... Honey, if they wanted the kid as much as they said, they would've FOSTER him first. No adopted him right awa--- OH. WAIT. You can't film and exploit a foster kid.
@HatersLuvBey
@HatersLuvBey 4 жыл бұрын
Serahmatsu very good point!
@emilypetro7136
@emilypetro7136 4 жыл бұрын
OMGGG
@lydia1630
@lydia1630 4 жыл бұрын
At first i gave them the benefit of the doubt but noe I know more and I’m against what they did 99%.
@MsBlonde0000
@MsBlonde0000 4 жыл бұрын
How were they supposed to foster a child from china? It doesn't work like that.
@karramia14
@karramia14 4 жыл бұрын
MsBlondeYo Ms.Blonde lol you can foster here in the states and then decided you will adopt out of the states. Let’s me real, they wanted that coin from being ‘the perfect white family that saves a poor little child from China’
@izzlebizzle9581
@izzlebizzle9581 4 жыл бұрын
Myka: *constantly goes on about how she’s a nurse* Also Myka: *unable to fulfill her son’s medical needs*
@matthewdoherty803
@matthewdoherty803 3 жыл бұрын
She said she was a children's nurse to didn't she?
@kuroe-chan5190
@kuroe-chan5190 3 жыл бұрын
She claimed an oncology nurse...don’t know what to believe anymore
@remyratatouille634
@remyratatouille634 3 жыл бұрын
no because she made a point to make it clear she is a nurse
@facelessgirl4731
@facelessgirl4731 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe she is not even a nurse
@daithflo
@daithflo 3 жыл бұрын
Then she was a bad nurse
@cigargoddessqueenofthesmok4629
@cigargoddessqueenofthesmok4629 4 жыл бұрын
Myka said that they spoke to “tons” of doctors prior to the adoption and were advised not to adopt this child, but they know more than the doctors, and here we are......
@coffeeekrixi9903
@coffeeekrixi9903 3 жыл бұрын
She literally said out loud that doctors and others told her not to adopt him, and then went to someone else in order to hear what she wanted, ignoring the advice of professionals at first then ran with just one person saying it will be fine and that it will all be hunky dory. I can't remember the exact video, but there's clips out there
@MasterofScrutiny
@MasterofScrutiny 2 жыл бұрын
Those doctors understood her motivation. They were looking out for the child.
@tayloranderson7547
@tayloranderson7547 4 ай бұрын
For real life.
@Whatishappening32
@Whatishappening32 4 жыл бұрын
All I'm hearing is: "We wanted special needs, but not THOSE special needs."
@abmin84
@abmin84 4 жыл бұрын
Yep, I thought that too
@daybyday0731
@daybyday0731 4 жыл бұрын
She said they were ready for 99 conditions...they are disgusting..poor baby
@donotfeedaftermidnight
@donotfeedaftermidnight 4 жыл бұрын
Yes. We wanted special needs but we wanted it to be easy.
@sarahmichelle473
@sarahmichelle473 4 жыл бұрын
Peace And Love she literally says in a video that all medical professionals warned her not to adopt him to begin with and she joked about it going in one ear and out the other. She knew what she was getting into
@coralrose5754
@coralrose5754 4 жыл бұрын
For real
@midnightmak3up
@midnightmak3up 4 жыл бұрын
they need to blacklist her from ever adopting again.
@chrissyb7916
@chrissyb7916 4 жыл бұрын
They are blacklisted from any legitimate agency. Once a parent re-homes a child they are not allowed to adopt again. However they can go thru private adoption or the black market.
@AwesomeCrabman
@AwesomeCrabman 4 жыл бұрын
@@chrissyb7916 but don't you need documents to prove it's really your child when you want to send it to school or when you want to travel and need a passport for your adopted child?
@ivytaylor1494
@ivytaylor1494 4 жыл бұрын
I doubt they would try, it’s not like they actually wanted to adopt in the first place and they’re never going to recover on social media
@laurenwasinger9436
@laurenwasinger9436 4 жыл бұрын
Te Es yeah that’s my question too. But I guess you can enroll kids in school and take them to the doctor if you have a power of attorney that gives you permission. The passport thing I have no idea though.
@roseprevost8081
@roseprevost8081 3 жыл бұрын
She wants to protect his privacy, AFTER waving him all over the internet. Cry some more.
@zbear199b3
@zbear199b3 3 жыл бұрын
And saying his name
@arielm1374
@arielm1374 3 жыл бұрын
This wasn't mentioned in the video but another reason rehoming him is so hurtful is because some people with autism need structure and any minor change in that schedule can send you into a meltdown so I can't imagine the pain, confusion, and fear that little boy experienced having to leave the family he learned to grow attached to. He'll grow up hearing about this knowing he was given away because he was too much to handle - it will crush his self esteem. If he didn't feel like a burden, he'll definitely feel that now.
@Yzarcos
@Yzarcos 4 жыл бұрын
"I didn't adopt a little boy to share these things publicly" umm that's exactly what you did...??
@IZAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAR
@IZAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAR 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah exactly what I was thinking
@mistykari
@mistykari 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@jessicacarrion8433
@jessicacarrion8433 3 жыл бұрын
I know!!
@dannyjoo6706
@dannyjoo6706 3 жыл бұрын
Hypocrisy level
@sirius1ish
@sirius1ish 3 жыл бұрын
People wanted to know
@Lu-zj6bo
@Lu-zj6bo 4 жыл бұрын
They aren’t “grieving”, they are RELIEVED. She kept saying “didn’t want to mess things up” which means she didn’t want to stop the money train. They are such hypocrites it’s disgusting.
@Zoe-dy4uk
@Zoe-dy4uk 4 жыл бұрын
That’s not what she meant.
@alexas.7634
@alexas.7634 4 жыл бұрын
They are happy to get rid of him :(
@BearAlt
@BearAlt 4 жыл бұрын
Zoe Eh I agree when she said didn’t want To mess things up... I didn’t even think of it like that... I thought they were saying they didn’t want to mess things up for the kid... i feel so bad for the kid...
@beaudullahide6334
@beaudullahide6334 4 жыл бұрын
They moneytised his rehoming video !! Yeah never exploited it .. none of that money will go to him ! Over 5 million views
@Nyasiamonique
@Nyasiamonique 4 жыл бұрын
Fr when she said that her emotions on her face didn’t show saddest nor grieving 🙄
@sayurisakakura2787
@sayurisakakura2787 4 жыл бұрын
I never heard of a word " former son" before. Former boyfriend, husband yes. This is really horrifying. That little angel deserves more. I think he's better off without these people. Now, I'm scared that they will do it again. 😰😰😰😰
@yunasgf8284
@yunasgf8284 4 жыл бұрын
i’ve never heard her say “my son” but instead she says “adopted kid from china..”
@mariahhr
@mariahhr 3 жыл бұрын
I always thought it was so weird how strongly she singled him out from the other kids!
@unapologeticella4540
@unapologeticella4540 3 жыл бұрын
@@mariahhr she used to mock the way he talked in a Chinese accent like when he said apple and her kids would laugh.disgusting
@SlowedAesthege
@SlowedAesthege 3 жыл бұрын
Nah she just says the name she gave him nothing else-😒
@Gaeisok
@Gaeisok 2 жыл бұрын
The only time she referred to him as her son was when she said « former son » as if your son can suddenly stop being your son.
@tayloranderson7547
@tayloranderson7547 2 жыл бұрын
She says adoption kid from China
@maysararahaman3039
@maysararahaman3039 4 жыл бұрын
"I didn't adopt a little boy to share these things publicly" I- but, you did? You made it like a whole vlog/series of his life and adoption process. The audacity to say that you didn't wanna share those things publicly, yet shared his whole LIFE with you publicly, speaks volumes on how much you care about your self image -_-
@thehendo5824
@thehendo5824 4 жыл бұрын
Couldn’t have said it better.
@margaretagyei8398
@margaretagyei8398 4 жыл бұрын
PREACHHHH
@jolielaide2494
@jolielaide2494 4 жыл бұрын
its absolutely disgusting. Classic Narcissist. disturbing:| af
@izzyob186
@izzyob186 4 жыл бұрын
On top of that she even had people donate to the go fund me so they could afford the trip to the adoption... or the adoption itself, didn’t she? Even more so why she owes people an explanation, they paid for it!
@aritrichaki
@aritrichaki 4 жыл бұрын
and how they have made all the adoption videos private 🙄🙄
@Pinktish
@Pinktish 4 жыл бұрын
They said "forever home" and "when we got (child's name)" like he's a dog.
@IONE_the_Enby
@IONE_the_Enby 4 жыл бұрын
Rehoming is a common term used for animals. Its gross.
@user-vm2ep5mt8e
@user-vm2ep5mt8e 4 жыл бұрын
Michelle Howrad oh because animals are worth so much less than humans?
@marialuyan
@marialuyan 4 жыл бұрын
@@user-vm2ep5mt8e yes they are we have more emotions. Rehoming isn't ok. I love my human kids and my fur kids. But I recognize the difference
@casswashwash1070
@casswashwash1070 4 жыл бұрын
zee • Yes. Humans don’t put animals above their own species no other species does
@AwqCutie
@AwqCutie 4 жыл бұрын
They definitely thought of him like a show dog
@Sassyglbeauty
@Sassyglbeauty 4 жыл бұрын
As horrible as she is, can we all just be thankful he isn’t with her anymore? I sincerely hope that he’s with a family who can love and take care of him the way he deserves. Let’s hope her other kids have some stability and love coming from somewhere.
@tayloranderson7547
@tayloranderson7547 8 ай бұрын
For real life
@tayloranderson7547
@tayloranderson7547 4 ай бұрын
For real life.
@free2beemee
@free2beemee 4 жыл бұрын
I hear online marketplace re-homing and I simultaneously hear human trafficking!!!
@sunny-fr9jw
@sunny-fr9jw 4 жыл бұрын
This whole situation just screams "I wanted to adopt a child who has special needs and is from another country to make me look like an amazing person, but when the child actually showed behaviors of their problems I got annoyed and gave it back"
@meyramerah
@meyramerah 4 жыл бұрын
My god the possibility that they thought of h-- as an "it" breaks my heart
@KarloStars
@KarloStars 4 жыл бұрын
They legit got annoyed because he stared at them.. While they ate.. Something so harmless drove the husband "bonkers" as they said. Makes me think what legit behavior issues he had and how they treated him because of it because it "annoyed them".
@doodleproductions7552
@doodleproductions7552 4 жыл бұрын
@@KarloStars This is a bad sign for them, staring is a way of curiosity for kids (not even just H--, this is normal for kids). This means he wasn't taught how to eat, but it's good because he was trying to learn for himself. He was showing progress through staring, and he might have autism so he doesn't know staring is creepy and rude (not insulting him, that's what people consider it), but it also means he LEARNING for himself so good on him.
@vanessaloran2648
@vanessaloran2648 4 жыл бұрын
She even said if her bio children had special needs, she’d do anything for them. Just shows she never saw that little boy as one of her own
@morganpettipas9198
@morganpettipas9198 4 жыл бұрын
Can they, like, idk STOP calling Huxley their son... He isn't theirs.
@i_is_aly3812
@i_is_aly3812 4 жыл бұрын
They treat him like an object it’s so gross
@natalieh1950
@natalieh1950 4 жыл бұрын
I read it instead of he, and it makes me so sad to realize that they probably called him it and I am gonna go cry now
@makaylaosei4319
@makaylaosei4319 4 жыл бұрын
Morgan Pettipas righttt
@toriladybird511
@toriladybird511 4 жыл бұрын
@@natalieh1950 😷hugs
@sonya1157
@sonya1157 4 жыл бұрын
It’s so annoying they segregated him from their biological kids so they could use him as a way to get money and clear her conscience.
@mr.e3768
@mr.e3768 4 жыл бұрын
yeah "grieving" so much they went on a expensive trip to Bali... Mom of the year folks...
@YoSoyWerlix
@YoSoyWerlix 3 жыл бұрын
She has videos when states “I don’t care what doctors say: my son is not returnable” I MEAN
@NevaehMyAngel
@NevaehMyAngel 3 жыл бұрын
I couldn't believe it when I seen that video smh sickening 😪
@facelessgirl4731
@facelessgirl4731 3 жыл бұрын
Is not a product is a kid who breath
@sarahbarr429
@sarahbarr429 4 жыл бұрын
The words “former” and “son” just don’t make sense together.
@nisa3612
@nisa3612 4 жыл бұрын
It sounds like Huxley was already passed away 😅, heck even our deceased family member wouldn't be called as 'former'
@narutosinuyasha11
@narutosinuyasha11 4 жыл бұрын
They always have a camera in the kids faces so what’s this “privacy “ she keeps talking about trying to keep 😂
@carmendilcherd4765
@carmendilcherd4765 4 жыл бұрын
It's NOT about the"privacy", it's about THEIR embarrassement!!
@daybyday0731
@daybyday0731 4 жыл бұрын
Yes only when it's convenient for them...
@vng1607
@vng1607 4 жыл бұрын
exactlyyyy brooo 🤷‍♂️😭
@jax422
@jax422 4 жыл бұрын
Having a camera on you 24/7 in your living room is not the same as having a camera on you in your bathroom. There are levels of privacy.
@iljaxox526
@iljaxox526 4 жыл бұрын
They filmed his tantrums but he deserves privacy, bish wut?
@angelynyadao7839
@angelynyadao7839 4 жыл бұрын
This is so sickening to hear people defending these actions. How can a toddler “choose” a family?! Saying that he wanted this is just insult to injury! He probably just excited to get away from abusive people. Shouldn’t that have been a red flag to the adoption agency how he was happier with other families but they were the only ones who had issues with him.
@D-me-dream-smp
@D-me-dream-smp 3 жыл бұрын
They put the blame totally on that poor little child who had no say in the situation.
@remyratatouille634
@remyratatouille634 3 жыл бұрын
LITERALLY
@tayloranderson7547
@tayloranderson7547 2 жыл бұрын
A red flag to adoption agency is how he was happier with other family families but they were the only one who had issues with him.
@nataliejoelle911
@nataliejoelle911 2 жыл бұрын
That’s what I was thinking. “This is what he wants, this is what’s best for him.” Because you treated him poorly!? Because you’re not trying to meet his needs despite what you say?
@laurenlongfellow9714
@laurenlongfellow9714 3 жыл бұрын
As if naming him Huxley wasn’t abuse enough..
@catebartley9865
@catebartley9865 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr. Her kids has the craziest frickin names. Radleyy and Jaka, NaKova or Kova, Onyx and Huxley!! Never heard any of these names before Miss Thang....
@PepeDeezNutz
@PepeDeezNutz 3 жыл бұрын
People that name their kids like that are idiots
@zoeheart8764
@zoeheart8764 3 жыл бұрын
i don't understand why the name are abusive can someone explain >.< sincerely
@FunnyFille
@FunnyFille 3 жыл бұрын
He dodged a bullet tbh because she also considered the name Geronimo
@AEFarnam
@AEFarnam 3 жыл бұрын
Riiiiiighttttt????!?!?
@TM-ry6hc
@TM-ry6hc 4 жыл бұрын
I am a mom to a 16 yr old with high functioning autism and cognitive delays. He’s also deaf. I’m 1:40 into this video and I’m in shock. I’m sorry, do you think I was told about every special need my son would have? Nope! We went for years without a diagnosis and knowing something wasn’t right. Because my son is deaf, they didn’t have a sure fire way of testing him for autism. The appearance of autism made itself very known. Then, in February of this year, he was diagnosed with epilepsy. It doesn’t matter what information you are told or aren’t told. You adapt. Don’t try to change the child to fit the environment. Change the environment to fit the child. They don’t deserve the chance to adopt again. IMO
@satanicnoodles7214
@satanicnoodles7214 4 жыл бұрын
PERIOD! you aren’t told about what potential special needs your kid could have when they’re born!?? my little brother was diagnosed with autism only ~3-5 years ago (hard time remember, i’m only 16 now and he’s 13) and it’s not like we were gonna “trade him in”?????
@azsli2
@azsli2 4 жыл бұрын
That's what I thought too. My aus babies are 20 and 6. This kid was a 3. With proper help he could have had a lot of growth. My kids are tested at a 2&4
@MyanhLovesChocolate
@MyanhLovesChocolate 4 жыл бұрын
Eloquently put!
@maaarie24
@maaarie24 4 жыл бұрын
Totaly. My older brother have autism and it’s not always easy but it’s life. My mom would cringe if she had to listen to this horrible story 😓
@BlueKungFu
@BlueKungFu 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly this. Would they have sent one of their biological children to another family? No is the answer. They used that poor little boy for online fame and monetary gain. When the going got tougher than they were willing to deal with, they simply got rid of the problem. Worst. Couple. Ever. They should never be allowed to adopt ever again.
@doodoo3579
@doodoo3579 4 жыл бұрын
“Anything is possible with a China adoption.” She’s literally comparing the son to a stereotypical Chinese cheap product.
@ellaanderson5224
@ellaanderson5224 4 жыл бұрын
honestly it makes me sick.
@luci4311
@luci4311 4 жыл бұрын
I know its so so sick
@nowirehangers2815
@nowirehangers2815 4 жыл бұрын
Bad ebay purchase. Shes wants to return the item amd wants a refund.
@shawnabasallo7515
@shawnabasallo7515 4 жыл бұрын
Believe it or not, I learned from a couple who adopted from a very overcrowded adoption center in China and that’s not just that one, all (or majority) is overflowing with children and babies, so much so that some children don’t get the care and explicit diagnosis(s). Absolutely not saying what they did is okay, because it’s not! They knew he had health problems before and they opted out and that’s terrible.
@LPSTEENSCREAM1000
@LPSTEENSCREAM1000 4 жыл бұрын
My Chinese husband is mad at her because she makes it sound like all orphans in China are damaged goods. There is many reasons kids are orphans in China and most common is the child rule (now is two kids)
@celsyvedolla8963
@celsyvedolla8963 3 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one annoyed with the amount of times this woman says “like” ?
@BooBoo-qj2zj
@BooBoo-qj2zj 3 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!!!!!
@LiveGrowRescue
@LiveGrowRescue 3 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!! I just commented the same thing! Shes definitely not intelligent!
@kuroe-chan5190
@kuroe-chan5190 3 жыл бұрын
Definitely not. After the tenth “like” I wanted to pull my hair out haha
@ojibwaywmn
@ojibwaywmn 3 жыл бұрын
Yes!! Very annoying smh
@rachelselby5469
@rachelselby5469 4 жыл бұрын
They made so much money out of H that they could have used some of it to hire a full time nanny with special needs training to look after him in the only home he knew.
@yaseminozhatay535
@yaseminozhatay535 4 жыл бұрын
she’s loaded how can she “like not support the child like enough”
@halahalahala2015
@halahalahala2015 4 жыл бұрын
Because she wanted that LV bag so much and the mansion and the Cartier bracelet. You know the necessities
@blackfishbones
@blackfishbones 4 жыл бұрын
It's fair if she can't support him, she shouldn't have got him
@mklee9187
@mklee9187 4 жыл бұрын
@@halahalahala2015 right. like how could one live without them.
@Courtney-vw6wq
@Courtney-vw6wq 4 жыл бұрын
I was about to ask how many times is she gonna say like 🤣🤣🤣
@Jezahb
@Jezahb 4 жыл бұрын
Maybe she didn't mean financially? If Huxley had severe behavioral issues that led them to being violent and putting her biological children in physical danger, including her newborn baby... It's possible that she was just not able to support what Huxley needed in order to be safe around her kids
@WonderfullyApril
@WonderfullyApril 4 жыл бұрын
“They gave us a sheet with a list of 100 conditions and we were ok with 99 of them” apparently not because you tossed him aside like he was trash and then took off to Bali
@MM-uw5uj
@MM-uw5uj 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah and they did a fundraiser to get money for him but they didn’t even show us anything
@fartgirl6284
@fartgirl6284 4 жыл бұрын
1000th like
@taylorzaremba
@taylorzaremba 4 жыл бұрын
Micha Mariana luvfyguggg
@tranzco1173
@tranzco1173 4 жыл бұрын
The missing part? He was just horrible at representing their brand, connection with their followers, generating ad revenue or corporate sponsors. No "it factor". No screen presence. Their new baby from Moldova arrives July 6th. They are naming him Orwell Stauffer, and he looks like a much better fit. Blonde and just adorable. He has Downs Syndrome, but Myka was a nurse, and can take care of him.
@Kuraujia
@Kuraujia 4 жыл бұрын
@@tranzco1173 How do you know this?
@nina4955
@nina4955 3 жыл бұрын
A old teacher of mine had a special need. He was born in Vietnam and was very poor. And he was born around the time of a war. And a family had decided to adopt him and his sister. He was raised amazingly and his whole family loved him so much. And he got married and had daughters. And he is currently mourning the death of his adoptive mother.
@maggiemoo578
@maggiemoo578 3 жыл бұрын
**Myka showing up with her receipt and Karen privilege** “yes I’d like to make a return, the quality of this child is sub-par!” 😑😡
@cydneychappelle9012
@cydneychappelle9012 4 жыл бұрын
SHE COMPLAINED ABOUT HOW HE WATCHES THEM WHEN THEY EAT?????? I-... Shes asking if she’s ready for a 2nd adoption????? Oh my god? This is disturbing
@tjfromalaska4520
@tjfromalaska4520 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly that is ridiculous!
@DrRisk01
@DrRisk01 4 жыл бұрын
That's weird. He's four for goodness sake
@sexualtaco308
@sexualtaco308 4 жыл бұрын
Almost every child does this, she just needed another excuse
@oleanderrain4622
@oleanderrain4622 4 жыл бұрын
It depends on the situation but I think its a good sign when children/baby's pay close attention to what you do, and its even better when they do the same thing or try to mimic it in some way!
@hycynth82828
@hycynth82828 4 жыл бұрын
And even if that “isn’t normal”, the child had autism, there are things she just had to deal with, to learn to handle, because normal off him is not the same for her or her chiodren, and as parents, the father and the mother are responsables to teach their children to understand that their little brother is normal, he just has different necessities.s
@TC-ek6fo
@TC-ek6fo 4 жыл бұрын
Spill: "Please wait until the end of the video before forming your overall opinion on what happened" Everyone including me: no
@LeticiaSPandaMcfly6
@LeticiaSPandaMcfly6 4 жыл бұрын
Right! Lol ditto
@MiniMexii
@MiniMexii 4 жыл бұрын
Before I even clicked... “It’s time to rage”
@fathimathsaara9070
@fathimathsaara9070 4 жыл бұрын
IzaCchi Samee dudeee
@freezieford1966
@freezieford1966 4 жыл бұрын
🤣
@ilovespicytuna
@ilovespicytuna 4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely not waiting 🤣
@ChibiChidorii
@ChibiChidorii 3 жыл бұрын
What I've always found weird is how James says 'how hard *Myka* has tried' and how hard things have been for her. He seems to be a present father with the other children, so why does it sound like he was no part of this???
@graceusala127
@graceusala127 4 жыл бұрын
As someone with chronic disabilities which developed in my late teens, I politely messaged the mom asking her what she plans to do if her biological kids turn disabled as well, and if she plans to give them away too.
@disneydork100
@disneydork100 Жыл бұрын
Not until after she exploits them of course 🙃
@aridotaku
@aridotaku 4 жыл бұрын
"It's not about me," she says, right after making it about her.
@anonymous92388
@anonymous92388 4 жыл бұрын
tHe KiD kEpT wAtChInG tHeM wHiLe ThEy'Re eAtInG aNd HeR hUsBaNd LoSt HiS mInD yet she wanna adopt more kids, her husband probably would hurt them.
@arielbenjaminarielb4973
@arielbenjaminarielb4973 4 жыл бұрын
sule b all the video clips I’ve seen of her talking about updates on her adopted child are all about her! Or how he was acting more normal. They were awful
@wairimurommy5230
@wairimurommy5230 4 жыл бұрын
It's probably better that child was “returned” because he would have suffered in her hands.
@teaseekinggremlin5004
@teaseekinggremlin5004 4 жыл бұрын
I agree sadly my first thought was atleast maybe this poor baby will be safe 😭
@bibianaguadalupeislasherre9880
@bibianaguadalupeislasherre9880 4 жыл бұрын
Or because he didn't fit in her aesthetic of "Perfect family."
@merrittkatelyn
@merrittkatelyn 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah it’s really sad that they “returned him” but it’s also good that the child has a home with parents that can actually take proper care of him. But it’s super sad because that child is being moved around. Heart breaking!
@hosty9163
@hosty9163 4 жыл бұрын
Feeling his care would have been inadequate and improper is how I feel this would have ended had they not “rehomed” him. As much of a mess this is, I am hoping that the child needs are met properly now.
@GabiKostha
@GabiKostha 4 жыл бұрын
He was already suffering, she was starving him
@Whoareyoupeople900
@Whoareyoupeople900 3 жыл бұрын
I became epileptic when I was in 7th grade. I couldn't imagine the feeling if my parents gave up on me and tossed me away. I just wanna give that little boy a hug! He deserves so much better and I hope he's getting that now. God bless him and the people who are looking after him now.
@TheGenocideXAngel
@TheGenocideXAngel 3 жыл бұрын
Similar thing happened to my partner as it did with Huxley. I hope everyone who is neurodivergent is NEVER hurt like this.
@amberkelly3187
@amberkelly3187 3 жыл бұрын
It’s frightening how vulnerable the adoption laws make children leaving them open to all kinds of abuse and neglect. This is a much larger issue than this one case.
@hadiya123456
@hadiya123456 4 жыл бұрын
Drinking game: take a shot every time she says "like" or "privacy"
@laurianemorel
@laurianemorel 4 жыл бұрын
or "me"
@Justastudent013
@Justastudent013 4 жыл бұрын
You better be talking about a shot of water 😂
@NiNi08247
@NiNi08247 4 жыл бұрын
No thanks. I like my life.
@takitako7593
@takitako7593 4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like alcohol poisoning.
@chantelleg5253
@chantelleg5253 4 жыл бұрын
i would end up in the HOSPITAL
@alinaj8556
@alinaj8556 4 жыл бұрын
I really just want the children to have a happy life.
@xyla3513
@xyla3513 4 жыл бұрын
Alina J hes in a better place now that he’s away from them
@alinaj8556
@alinaj8556 4 жыл бұрын
@@xyla3513 I hope
@colleenbennett2867
@colleenbennett2867 4 жыл бұрын
Me too!!!
@dixiewinxeqandmore356
@dixiewinxeqandmore356 4 жыл бұрын
Preach! I just want Huxley to have a life where he flourishes!!!
@MAli-ms8sn
@MAli-ms8sn 4 жыл бұрын
Huxley seemed so sweet and fun, he just needed some support, I really wish he has found his well deserved forever home❤️
@snowps1
@snowps1 3 жыл бұрын
"They're not a family. They're a brand." Just like the Gardner Quad Squad. They also made some major money off their kids.
@dock5120
@dock5120 4 жыл бұрын
I was adopted from Romania 🇷🇴, I grew up with issues and my mom bailed out so I feel this kids pain :-( I’m lucky my dads side of family took the time to raise me .
@mybigfatexpatlife6865
@mybigfatexpatlife6865 Жыл бұрын
Me too, adopted from Romania by a (divorced) single mother with 2 other children and a full-time job. It was a recipe for disaster. My early/teen/twenties were destroyed. I received Jesus Christ at 26, and I had an anchor for my soul and life. Now, I'm happily married and looking forward to having our own children. I really thank God alone for drawing me to Himself and for giving me a second chance at having my own family soon. Glory to God!
@matd
@matd 4 жыл бұрын
10:56 “we would never give up a child” THATS WHAT YOU LITERALLY DID I-
@katie15732
@katie15732 4 жыл бұрын
I rolled my eyes at that part
@tonybalony1811
@tonybalony1811 4 жыл бұрын
Narcissist logic works like that. They are separate from their actions.
@ashcatchum
@ashcatchum 4 жыл бұрын
“His new mommy has medical professional help” uuuhhhh wasn’t that your excuse about being a nurse that you could handle it? ☕️ just sayin
@colettenp
@colettenp 3 жыл бұрын
They talk in circles and use "big" words incorrectly. These two are scary.
@Kay-dh3sf
@Kay-dh3sf 4 жыл бұрын
I could imagine he didn't need a camera in his face either. So glad he isn't with this vile family anymore.
@chr15_t0ph3r
@chr15_t0ph3r 4 жыл бұрын
Why adopt another kid when u gave up the first adopted kid? Istg people are losing brain cells during quarantine...
@daybyday0731
@daybyday0731 4 жыл бұрын
She has been like this for awhile now...evil witch
@merbearn2526
@merbearn2526 4 жыл бұрын
Are we surprised? They decided to have another biological child after adopting their special needs child but claim he is "too much to handle." If he was that much work, then why did you have another kid???? They don't care.
@nikki2442
@nikki2442 4 жыл бұрын
Because the reason they wanted to adopt a kid in the first place still exist. You’re acting like they gave up the kid because they didn’t want to help a less fortunate kid anymore. They couldn’t help THAT KID but he’s not the only unwanted child in the world so he’s they should surely adopt. What self less thing have you done lately?
@samira3649
@samira3649 4 жыл бұрын
@@nikki2442 soo they basically EXCHANGED him. Can you really defend these horrible actions?
@cuorzi3031
@cuorzi3031 4 жыл бұрын
MONIQUE FLEMINGS They definitely shouldn’t adopt another child.
@jamaal8051
@jamaal8051 4 жыл бұрын
I love how she apologizes to her viewers instead of Huxley. Its how I know she isn't sorry about the Huxley situation she is sorry about the public backlash she received smh 🤦🏾‍♀️
@thehooksetstudio8341
@thehooksetstudio8341 3 жыл бұрын
Bingo
@tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454
@tiffymarieseestheteamarie4454 3 жыл бұрын
Yep
@matthewdoherty803
@matthewdoherty803 3 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah thanks hux for all the money we made off u that's what she thinks
@remyratatouille634
@remyratatouille634 3 жыл бұрын
She is only sorry for backlash she has no regrets
@ultimatepowerfulexplosiveh8640
@ultimatepowerfulexplosiveh8640 3 жыл бұрын
Privacy
@Wallis_2001
@Wallis_2001 3 жыл бұрын
Notice how she's always saying how hard it was for HER. How difficult these times have been for THEM. How upset THEY are. They never considered how his life would be, and already was, impacted.
@butterflysnme724
@butterflysnme724 3 жыл бұрын
When you have a child biologically you don't know about ALL physical or emotional problems they may have. There is guarantee they will be healthy forever.....like ever! An adopted child is no different. My heart breaks for him because he had no clue why he was abandoned. I just pray he is in a safe and loving environment now and is now truly thriving.
@Celena2947
@Celena2947 4 жыл бұрын
“Like respect his privacy like hes a child like but like also like i filmed him for months for like, my own social gain and like, money, but like that was harmless cuz like its money. But like be private for him like, k?”
@mariaelmorsy4280
@mariaelmorsy4280 4 жыл бұрын
Anonymous the amount of “likes” is so accurate 🤣💀
@birthdayfriendship8399
@birthdayfriendship8399 4 жыл бұрын
Oooooof
@randomsthingsandstuff9285
@randomsthingsandstuff9285 4 жыл бұрын
I'm like done 😂
@jurassicjaws
@jurassicjaws 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah I like how privacy is suddenly very important, yet she films all of her kids (who are too young to understand what's happening, let alone consent to it) so she'll get sponsorship money.
@michellerange1525
@michellerange1525 4 жыл бұрын
It hurt to hear that many likes
@mimilopmemes7915
@mimilopmemes7915 4 жыл бұрын
endangering a pregnant woman's baby is the most vile thing you could do. i hope the former nurse delivered a healthy baby. i can't believe she hurt a pregnant woman. she's sick in the head and needs help. and that on top of abandoning a child. i can't believe how awful this woman is oh my God.
@dxnksinatra
@dxnksinatra 3 жыл бұрын
"forever family" they're talking about him like he's a pet, i can't.
@IONE_the_Enby
@IONE_the_Enby 4 жыл бұрын
What I heard: "ME. ME. ME. ME. ME. ME. ME. ME. ME. US. US. US. US. I. I. I. I. I. WE. WE. WE. WE." Not: "our child, my son, my child, our child, our baby, Him. He. His, Their." They're narcissists and didn't even think about his best interests.
@newtyfruityaudreythomas4014
@newtyfruityaudreythomas4014 4 жыл бұрын
Genevieve Gleason 😂 honestly tho
@anonymous92388
@anonymous92388 4 жыл бұрын
she's a girl tho, but yeah so right
@annoyingloudmicrowaveculti4373
@annoyingloudmicrowaveculti4373 4 жыл бұрын
mathers no I’m pretty sure the kid is a boy
@CoreRTV
@CoreRTV 4 жыл бұрын
Selfish woman
@DreamlandRoses
@DreamlandRoses 4 жыл бұрын
"The Adoption Agency didn't disclose all H's needs" Shut up. They did. It went through one ear and out the other. Shut it and you don't deserve another child.
@Como.Te.Atreves
@Como.Te.Atreves 4 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY THEY ARE NOT STABLE ENOUGH TO EVEN HAVE KIDS.
@valdoyle1025
@valdoyle1025 4 жыл бұрын
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK
@grainofsalt9958
@grainofsalt9958 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@TheMotherConfesser
@TheMotherConfesser 4 жыл бұрын
THEY STRAIGHT UP SAID THE WANTED A DISABLED CHILD
@telinhajp
@telinhajp 4 жыл бұрын
*That's what Spill didn't say...*
@bm9152
@bm9152 3 жыл бұрын
Imagine a little child staring at you when you eat, and getting infuriated by it......😢
@caitlindhopkins5091
@caitlindhopkins5091 3 жыл бұрын
Myka: *rage* Normal moms: *making faces at the staring child*
@remyratatouille634
@remyratatouille634 3 жыл бұрын
literally so many kids do it
@coffeeekrixi9903
@coffeeekrixi9903 3 жыл бұрын
I was a child who stared when people ate, even when I wasn't hungry or even hated that food. It wasn't that I wanted it, it was just a habit, but I was yelled at so much that I'm actually scared of even looking at people chewing anymore. I'm hoping their reaction wasn't shouting at him for staring, but I wouldn't be surprised.
@lizzfrmhon
@lizzfrmhon 4 жыл бұрын
“4 year old boy whose privacy should be respected”... which curiously was not respected when you were shoving a camera in his face.
@thatpiscesgirl8010
@thatpiscesgirl8010 4 жыл бұрын
Myka: "I wOuLd NeVeR gEt RiD oF mY cHiLd" also Myka : *re-homes him* thanks for the likes everyone didn't expect that much :)
@ashsteepingtea
@ashsteepingtea 4 жыл бұрын
Re-abandons him tbh
@araasano3785
@araasano3785 4 жыл бұрын
I think she said MY CHILD. so like thats the 🍵
@alexisparisian7392
@alexisparisian7392 4 жыл бұрын
She’s acting like he’s a handbag that she liked when she bought it but then got sick of it and returned it. Discusting
@37kit
@37kit 4 жыл бұрын
Don’t use their words of “re-homing” him like he’ a dog. Say it like it is. They’re RE-ABANDONING him.
@miri100293
@miri100293 4 жыл бұрын
And James ***
@manahilirshad8930
@manahilirshad8930 4 жыл бұрын
THAT CHILD CANNOT EVEN CONSENT TO BE ON CAMERA LET ALONE CONSENT TO BEING RE HOMED AGAIN AFTER MOVING AN ENTIRE CONTINENT (*Edit: tysm for the likes kind strangers Idk how to handle my new fame 🤣🤣*)
@jenathent4840
@jenathent4840 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly ! If this would have been done off camera and without monetizing him it wouldn’t be as bad as it is now.
@manahilirshad8930
@manahilirshad8930 4 жыл бұрын
omg tysm for the likes kind ppl ik its not seen as alot but thanks hehe
@manahilirshad8930
@manahilirshad8930 4 жыл бұрын
@@jenathent4840 they would never have done it if it wasnt for money, lets be real
@AyanamiRei5kyu
@AyanamiRei5kyu 4 жыл бұрын
it's unfortunate that boy ended up in that family but i'm actually glad he's not there anymore and hope his new caretakers are more loving and capable
@aerialtaprootanalysis6117
@aerialtaprootanalysis6117 3 жыл бұрын
we all know why she adopted him, and it wasn't because she genuinely wanted to give a child a home, but for her narcissistic supply, and when she realized that he wouldn't give her what she wanted, she got rid of him.
@BlueGeen
@BlueGeen 3 жыл бұрын
The classic discard.
@doll8125
@doll8125 4 жыл бұрын
She’s talking about privacy but she was the one who put his life out there.
@leahallyannah
@leahallyannah 4 жыл бұрын
they wanted a special needs child.. requested one.. got what they wanted and couldn’t handle it or hux wasn’t what they expected (duh because he’s a human being) so they returned that poor baby. i’m really praying that he heals.
@DestructiveDan1
@DestructiveDan1 4 жыл бұрын
yea they're jerks
@charcoalpiggy
@charcoalpiggy 4 жыл бұрын
did they actually request a special needs child??
@centraltime3680
@centraltime3680 4 жыл бұрын
@@charcoalpiggy yes, and even the doctor advised them not to adopt him
@sgourd2725
@sgourd2725 4 жыл бұрын
Also some kids show signs of special needs later in life and not at birth and the fact they just gave up
@laladaniella8859
@laladaniella8859 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah notice how they say “we want a child that has slight special needs; something that can be surgically corrected or easily managed day to day.” Like, whaaaaat?!
@TheDawnOfRayven
@TheDawnOfRayven 3 жыл бұрын
I know this is old news, but I have mild Autism Spectrum Disorder. Change is so hard for me, and someone with more severe autism have an even harder time. I'm so disappointed for this child but I'm glad he's in a better home with a mom that can take care of him the way he needs
@saffiegirl4158
@saffiegirl4158 3 жыл бұрын
“We want to protect his privacy.” TRANSLATION: “We didn’t want you to see us abusing him.”
@97dusk
@97dusk 4 жыл бұрын
These people legitimately make me sick, after hearing about what they've done.
@annunow921
@annunow921 4 жыл бұрын
Burraku Dusk agreed
@dhanyah4805
@dhanyah4805 4 жыл бұрын
I’m actually glad they rehomed him. Since they were mistreating him and exploiting him for views, I think it’s safe to say that he deserves better. I hope he finds an amazing family that treats him right❤️
@dyownne
@dyownne 4 жыл бұрын
Dhanyah S agreed. I’m not mad because I’m thinking oMg u shOuld kEep hiM. If that makes any sense. But I’m mad because she said she will keep him forever.
@nomo2332
@nomo2332 4 жыл бұрын
I agree but I just wish she wouldn’t have put him thru that to begin with. It’s not fair to any of her kids or Huxley. I mean what if her kids are thinking “what if mommy re-homes me?”
@LilyKat
@LilyKat 4 жыл бұрын
Well, we can only HOPE he is in a better place. We do not know exactly where he is place. Overall, he will live with those memories for the rest of his life that's what bothers me.
@JJbIrd0608
@JJbIrd0608 3 жыл бұрын
Woman, YOU impacted his life the minute you laid eyes on his picture. You returned him when you promised you'd never "return" him. I cannot imagine the rejection this little boy must feel.
@MafaldaM17
@MafaldaM17 3 жыл бұрын
When someone adopts a dog and gives him away, several times, it says a lot about their character. If you do this to a dog you certainly are more able to do it to a person. And they did, to a special needs toddler. It’s heartbreaking what I’m hearing actually... I’m a nursing student, vegetarian, dog and human lover, and everything about this goes against my values. I understand it must not be easy at all coping with having a SN child. But nothing justifies their actions.
@janlovesu
@janlovesu 4 жыл бұрын
A child isn’t a dog you can’t just rehome it.
@MAli-ms8sn
@MAli-ms8sn 4 жыл бұрын
Jan Gacha I totally understand what you mean but it’s best to rehome ANY animal when you know you won’t be able to love or care for it the same, it’s better than it getting neglected or hurt. But I agree, what Myka did was disgusting😕
@Rhodaaa_k
@Rhodaaa_k 4 жыл бұрын
She rehomed pets before
@sleepyontime5513
@sleepyontime5513 4 жыл бұрын
Right yeah. It’s heart breaking enough when you have to rehome a dog, but a CHILD???
@adrianna9458
@adrianna9458 4 жыл бұрын
@@MAli-ms8sn how was it disgusting?
@s.d..
@s.d.. 4 жыл бұрын
@@adrianna9458 how wasn't she!
@daniam9984
@daniam9984 4 жыл бұрын
So are these parents gonna give back the money or....?
@halfdeadminah5857
@halfdeadminah5857 4 жыл бұрын
@@jzv.71 Okay ?......
@daniam9984
@daniam9984 4 жыл бұрын
@@jzv.71 And?
@lauralol6511
@lauralol6511 4 жыл бұрын
What money?
@aliciamadrid8524
@aliciamadrid8524 4 жыл бұрын
@@lauralol6511 they got money from the videos they made with him... Fund raiser to adopted the child.
@serixirose7575
@serixirose7575 4 жыл бұрын
@@lauralol6511 all the money they earned of the child for 3 years
@allennawright1394
@allennawright1394 3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry. If she didn’t know that most China adoptions come with that rocking behavior in cribs then she didn’t do her research
@kzhao4618
@kzhao4618 3 жыл бұрын
That's a common symptoms with all adopted children.
@tayloranderson7547
@tayloranderson7547 2 жыл бұрын
Cribs then she didn't do her research
@ChocolateBeansNursery
@ChocolateBeansNursery 4 жыл бұрын
It makes me so sad.. would they do the same if one of their genetic child had similar needs..?My little brother drowned when he was 4 and is now severely polyhandicapped due to his brain missing oxygen for several minutes, but my mom, my family and myself never let him down. We do everything we can to make his life easier and happier. Of course it’s hard, but when we see his smile now that he’s 21, we know why we do it and why we will continue to do it for all the time we have left with him. As her big sister, I already take part with the medical side, and know that I’ll take care of him once my parents won’t be physically able to do it anymore, to give him the best. When my parents had him, they couldn’t know this would happened, and still, they do everything for him. The fact that this family CHOSE to adopt this special needs child and then when it’s to hard they decided to “give away” this little boy just makes me so angry and sad... Kids don’t ask to be born, the less we can do is to give them the best, and don’t let them down...
@luka5798
@luka5798 3 жыл бұрын
I know a lot of time had passed, but you and your family are really a great example, how family should work together, no matter what struggles they are facing
@tayloranderson7547
@tayloranderson7547 2 жыл бұрын
Don't let them down
@anygaby9684
@anygaby9684 4 жыл бұрын
Who else skipped the “OMG she did nothing wrong it’s just the haters “ part because it makes me sick how people can be so blind smh
@37kit
@37kit 4 жыл бұрын
Even THEY themselves are blind. They consider everyone asking where the boy was when they were vacationing to bali after they gave him up to be a ‘troll’
@saidrew1030
@saidrew1030 4 жыл бұрын
Woah, I'm happy I'm not the only one
@Aerials135
@Aerials135 4 жыл бұрын
yeah me too, they weren't foster parents and he isn't a ferret, if he needed more care than expected they should have GIVEN IT TO HIM
@VincentMothling
@VincentMothling 4 жыл бұрын
Mae Falkenrath some people do not have the capacity to give that kind of attenshion speshal needs can be extreamly hard I’m more open to the idea that they found they couldn’t handle it Cos my family has been though the same thing my grandparants tryed to adopt two siblings the girl first then the boy later when finding out he was being abused but the abuse made him to volient we tryed to look after him but had to find him a new home he is doing miles better not perfect but better
@abyssalzei552
@abyssalzei552 4 жыл бұрын
They're adopting kids like Thanos collecting infinity stones.
@moon5497
@moon5497 4 жыл бұрын
At least thanos knows the important the infinity stones
@ameilioracryptos5298
@ameilioracryptos5298 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah (; - ;)
@luci4311
@luci4311 4 жыл бұрын
@@moon5497 I know thanks knows his stuff i like some other peopl
@impoorfornow
@impoorfornow 4 жыл бұрын
Thanos would never let an infinity stone go.
@Zara-tj6so
@Zara-tj6so 4 жыл бұрын
Omg 😂
@MsAdlerHolmes
@MsAdlerHolmes 4 жыл бұрын
Honestly, "rehoming" him was the best thing to happen to the poor kid. These awful people were not the right family for him. I hope the rest of his life is much better and more stable 💖
@JustDanielleThirty
@JustDanielleThirty 3 жыл бұрын
Once I got to this part of the series, I went and gave my mom a hug for never giving up on me. She didn't adopt me, but I have NVLD so this story hurts me deeply, Huxley didn't deserve to placed with this incompetent family, and I'm glad he's gone to a family that can ACTUALLY help him.
@constanzarojas1901
@constanzarojas1901 4 жыл бұрын
So their 4yo son who has autism and does not speak, told them he wanted another family?
@4TLOL
@4TLOL 4 жыл бұрын
Great point!
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