You need to be coming life more frequently...we love this part of you..push like button if you agree..

I've been celibate for 2 years now. Its very possible for women to stay a long time without sex.

That’s my big sis from another mom ❤😍A very lovely sweet lady, super mom , artiste , multifaceted content creator and a lot more. She deserves the very best and I pray she reaps the fruits of her labour .

Vdm can't be blackmailed emotionally. He's willing to hear from both sides

“I’m not in control of how people treat me but I’m in control of how I treat myself and how i move on" letting go is a key part of self development and a happy life. That’s my take. Good one sister. God bless you

Summary: As a man make sure you have a solid job that feed your family.

Ladies, know this! Never carry the financial burden of any single man who can't champion his marriage to you.. No man should feel comfortable with that if he is responsible...RED FLAG!

Didn’t realise VDM was the hilarious 😂. Wish the Lady Luck. 🍀

This guy is just too good, he even ask the lady wether to post the video

Her voice is so soft I love her personality

VDM to da world #Respect

It takes two to tangle like the lady said but its notbthat easy. We have only heard from her side. We are yet to hear from the guy in particular. So let's not really condemn anybody yet. This Same thing happened to me just a year ago. Got married to a lady, sent her to Canada to school and now she is acting strange to me. Most ladies believe they travel abroad and once its not working for them, then all they wanna do is to start sleeping around with men. I get that the pain the woman in this video is going through is not easy but what if she's very much at fault in her approach when dealing with the man nko? God will help us all. To get a loyal and God fearing man or woman is nit easy these days ooo

VDM 95% of the marriage relationship breakdown because of money issues. Most of the men in the Diaspora don't want to take charge as the man in control. How can a man be the Boss if he doesn't want to take financial responsibility as a family head.

Vdm sincerely has a sense of humor 😂

VDM for the people, who never listen to that Ashmusy anthem 😂

Sometimes, our expectations in others, particularly when it comes to marriage, can be a source of disagreement and disappointment over time. These often lead to hatred as opposed to love that holds marriage together. I can imagine the reasons for most failed relationships? Good luck to everyone with the Grace to fulfil marital obligations. Appreciate this lady for speaking the truth about 10 years waiting time. God bless her, VDM, and all watchers.

Just 55mins it's already 1700 views... Big up vdm... More blessings to u

Very interesting VDM

The problem is the money and culture. It seems this woman wants to control the house and Nigeria culture doesn't allow that as Nigerian man

We need hear the guy side of the story 😏😏 to coup for new environment nor easy

She fell in the wrong hand😮😢

Good luck Queen. Wish you strength and prosperity. You children will grow up well and good. It is well with you

A well-mannered and soft-spoken lady. I hope she matches this with the home character. Best wishes

This is interesting to watch, guy u funny sha 😂

VDM thank you for the good thoughts for the Igbos. One love bro

Vdm God bless you bro for your good work

I like this girl. Well done VDM.

😂😂😂😂 very dark black man funny too

VDM no involve for relationship matter.😂 Good people always meet bad ones Her last statement was sweet saying she’s not regretting cos sometimes GOD just use people to help others.

😂😂😂😂 i no you would definitely want to know if she knack that 10years 😂😂😂

How could VDM claim that Yoruba or Edo people are inherently bad in relationships? Good and bad individuals exist in every group, regardless of tribe or origin. Furthermore, many families abroad experience breakdowns due to financial issues. Financial challenges abroad are far more intense compared to those in Nigeria.

Beautiful lady, God will do the best for you sweet lady Yes, good people meet bad people some times

Sis I understand that most African men in diaspora they want their women to pay most bills,it’s crazy.

Bro, I'm an igbo guy, from imo state to be precise. But trust me, there are bad people everywhere in as much as there are good people everywhere too

But this aunty worry oo.. which level sef. She sef follow for d problem.

VDM is unstoppablly hilarious..Yoo the reactions are top notch 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

Please, what's her stage name?

Story Story... Story hmmm.. another Storyline.. yes, vdm hmmm

VDM, you are an evangelist. God is calling you to do His work.

VDM, I dey feel you bro❤

That is true Good people meet the bad people so sad the world is unfair😢

Guy dis woman fit dey beat d guy true true,💜😅😅😆😆😆

I love you sister everything will be better again the Lord is your strength ❤💘

Nah she is beautiful she is even kind ❤❤

She's a very beautiful lady with a nice persona.

We have heard her side, can we hear his own side as well? This woman is married twice and is collecting child support despite supposedly sponsoring her dependant.... something is not right about this story

Guy u funny na knack u wanna know 😂😂😂😂😂❤

Menn you won't understand why the guy isn't there anymore if don't live in the UK. You might be shocked when you hear his side of the story and there's a big question inside the six months that he tried! We have a culture and our women forget that, and embrace the laws designed like it was made for them. Again even if they're not using it against you they make sure they threaten and remind you everyday just to just have full control over you and before you know it... You are a mumu man! I'm not trying to exonerate him but African don't want to function like and she has to keep the man if she wants them to stay😢 Only a few women hold their men high in UK and that's a rare wisdom to own a man's heart forever.

We have heard her story but we need to hear the other side. She sounds abit shady too. But only God knows.

Nice video

VDM, these men are like that ooh!! And you think Igbo is not bad 😂😂.. This her story sounds familiar.. I am her age mate and yes I have seen so many of my friends being used for papers! They are heartless and can lie ooh! I’m telling you it is bad. And they use women any how! 🤦🏾‍♀️. I am Anambra so I know trust me 😂. I feel for her . But she be fine.

You can't get sick from not having.... Though body systems are different

VDM is so naughty.... And the lady was so patient...

Wow nice seeing you friend hope it's better now, college friend been a while young sis

I waited for 9 years without naki after my separation from my husband, I focused on my children and my job, when started dating God, there are lots of gold diggers in London.

Beautiful, smiley Londoner! Hopefully, she'll meet an honest and loving partner. VDBM, we didn't get her name.

Yeah throu igbo men are good judging from my father but it depends what they want like their priority I fell he did not love her but did to get to uk

VDM you are a good man ❤

God bless VDM

They don't see themselves as the problem that's why they keep making mistakes

Very dark man... I need your help ooh. My husband has not gotten work since covid ooh we don't try to get a job..

One love bro ❤❤❤❤❤

This VDM is becoming interesting

Vdm focus on your good work , you don’t need this distraction . You don’t need all this distraction. And somethings u come to say on your page doesn’t . I think you will grow as time goes on but u should avoid some discussions and u can do that at your private convo. Bro u gats mature . For real . U r doing a great job . Move differently pls . When u come here and do this kind of stuffs , you align yourself with what we r used to seeing . Pls brother it’s a honest advice

She brought him, do everything.... Their problem was finance... I live in London and that is the way most women reason.... She should have been more patient... The guy noticed her as been controlling so my guy ashmushy....

But women can wait o. My dad died and my mom and step mom didn't remarry and no man . Even my dad's family told them to remarry they both refused . Especially my step.mom she was still very young at that time but she no gree remarry o.

Let's hear from the guy .... This woman is not a humble cheek

This girl is a bit shady.

VDM for president 2027 ✅❤❤❤

He say weather cobwebs cover the toto side 😂😂😂😂 @VDM nor go kill person ooooo😂😂😂

VDM UNDISPUTED 💯

😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 It just got tears in my eyes

Vdm is a sharp guy, so is not somebody u can lie to to😊

De guy is acting Nigeria' life in UK, which will not work

That is the Nigeria's men's character.

Some Imo Men are that... They, they are not responsible.

We need to hear from my own imo State brother side

It is true. A lot is going on in abroad

This can be examples to 9ja women generally , i can see this woman hard working woman ,I appreciate this women 🙏, relationship or marriage is perfect but you both need to go well to each other,I wish her best luck in life and good health 🙏 stay blessed, I base Europe and I understand her well

Very dark bad man😂

This is true what she's saying is true but the problem is they feel like they know all, and tell you what to do, they also think they are doing you a favor so you should worship them. but it's not like that here and they can nag UK women can nag both the black women kudo for that man wey run for his life.. If you ask this woman if cares not taking she came from a polygamous home. With what you've said the man never breeth u don dey remind am say he supposed be man wey em know say em be.. 😢

VDM my man ♥

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Chai my Igbo brother don fall my hands 🥲

Hmmmm..she seems like a nice person..bt dat Guy is NOT d only Igbo Guy dat behaves like dat..many of dem dey shalaye joorr

First😊

Vdm omo this dude na strong meat😅😅😅😅

Please Bring the guy on your show and we can hear his own story

I don't need to hear the other side. I believe her 100%. These men here ain't shit😂

Very rude VDM.😮 Its called the cobweb cover the VJJ not ......😅😅😅😅

VDM, please let's have part 2

Vdm when you coming london

My hubby no toast her ooooooh Unless I will arrest you with immediate effect ❤❤

VDM is not those mentioned that does that .IBO guys are ruthless here in Europe. They only respect their women. I am telling you, my guy.

Mine is almost 15 years now and ready to continue without a man, the love of my life walked away with my heart no man, no sex, I don’t know how I did it ooo😳😱

Things shouldn't be judged from just one perspective. This woman's story is emotionally compelling, especially as she was being used to gain entry into another country by the supposed man. However, she might have been responsible for her own problems. We weren't there to see how she treated the man while they were together. Being wealthier than him, she could have used hurtful words that triggered him to leave her or acted the way he did. We shouldn't curse someone based on a one sided story. I've seen a supportive woman who still belittled her partner at every opportunity, and in the end, she labeled him as bad just because he decided to leave her.

Mhmm !

Imo guys are silly without having yoruba friends or edo imo are liars

This kind of issue is for the wise to counsel. VDM doesn't have this kind of capacity. Please focus on anything that being intelligent and smart can solve. Thank you!

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