Narcissistic infidelity differs from "normal cheating", because a narcissist feels no shame or remorse for what they've committed! In fact, they convince themselves it's your fault, and actually lead the new partner to believe they're a victim of you. A narcissist will talk about marriage and having kids with you, while sleeping with another person. They'll give you the silent treatment and punish you, trying to make you feel bad for their own bad behavior. Survivors often wonder "why wasn't I good enough?" or "why is the new partner better than me?" because the narcissist will shamelessly wave this person in your face and parade the new target around on social media. Every second you spend comparing yourself to this person will erode your self-worth and fill you with feelings of inadequacy and rejection. How did they replace you so quickly, immediately making all the same promises to another person? The answer is simple: Cluster-B disorders all stem from the inability to attach. They never attached to you, which is why they try to intensely manufacture all the normal feelings of love and bonding, and it's also why they are able to detach and do the same thing to someone else in one day. Because they never successfully attached to you, despite all of their sweeping words. Sociopaths and narcissists are incapable of attaching to other human beings, so they hone all of these other skills like seduction, flattery, mirroring-all in an attempt to mimic what they see other people doing: loving each other. The problem is, they see "love" as receiving constant attention and adoration. This is what they give to you, and this is what they want to receive in return. The NY Times describes it this way. "Narcissistic alexithymia: The inability to understand or describe the emotions in the self. Unable to know themselves, sufferers are unable to understand, relate or attach to others. To prove their own existence, they hunger for endless attention from outside." Narcissistic "supply" is really just a distraction from this condition. When you fail to relieve this (because no external factor can), you are punished and replaced. No matter how caring and kind you were, they still don't feel good, and their disorder convinces them that a new partner will be the magical fix to everything. This is when you get "split" as the crazy bad person so they can justify their sudden change of heart. Even though they blame you, I hope you can see that this process has literally nothing to do with you. You can follow their new relationship, hope it fails, analyze yourself, analyze them, try to be more perfect, prove yourself, figure out whose fault it was, etc. All you're doing is hurting yourself. Turn your focus from external to internal. What do you feel? Inadequacy? Shame? Rejection? Betrayal? These are your feelings, and those are what matter. You need to work with these feelings, understand them, and learn to offer yourself the comfort and love needed to heal them. Otherwise you're just left with an unresolved mess of pain from an impossible situation, and a frightened heart that believes it's at fault. Left untended, it'll eventually just fade into a numb obscurity. Work with this pain, understand it, talk with it, communicate with your body. This is the most important thing you can do. Every time you're tempted to check on them, ask yourself what you're feeling. A void? Emptiness? Loneliness? Resentment? Numbness? These issues cannot be resolved through searching externally. Yes, they were created by an external factor, but it's your wound now, whether you want it or not. You are the only person who can decide to nurture these wounds and build a loving relationship with your emotions. Additionally, You can remotely spy on your narc partner without leaving any evidence or traces and you’ll be getting their text from their phone to your phone. This can only be accomplished by hiring a private investigator Metaspyhub@gmail. com who can help you hack into their device and uncover whatever they are hiding from you.

Cheating is the least of your worries. In fact you should wish them to find someone else. 😂

Not all STDs are curable, don't take a chance. Once you suspect this stupidity, get the hell out. If they can careless about themselves, what of you? Run for your life..

1. Polar opposite of what they claim to be 2. Last minute changes 3. Disregard sexual health (STD) 4. Alter their sexual behavior 5. Alter personal hygiene routine ( preoccupied with looks) 6. Claim ex spouse is jealous

Always open to a new supply especially when they realize you've figured them out.

Horribly sad when you finally reach the realization that someone that close to you is actually more like an enemy. 'Betrayed' feels like an understatement. Barely have the words for it.

I am just leaving my 57 year marriage with a narcissist. Everything you said in the last episode fits him over the top. When I was listening to the last episode about cheating your message stopped me instantly - every single item you talked about opened my mind and I clearly see that I wasn’t nuts. I know that at 75 I’ll probably spent the rest of my life alone, but I was alone for the past 57 years. I’d rather live alone forever than face that nightmare again. Lies, lies, lies……………

They play the victim while making you look insane while the whole time they ghost you or hangup on you all the time when you are trying to have a conversation them

Being with my ex narc for the past 10 yrs. made me observe this very pattern. I think they wanted to feel very important in a way that is disturbing. Instead of building trust with their intimate partners, they destroy the trust that they built with you (in that case lying when they tried to put you in their pedestal). Once they have a committed partner, they can’t stand being loved authentically by one person. Instead they go on and prey on other women that is susceptible to their love bombing. My ex narc was a compulsive pursuer in a relationship. He would go back and forth to the women he were involved before or try to meet women in complicated situation so that going public isn’t an option while having you as their main supply. In the end they destroy the very person that loved them. They are like toddlers testing your love for them. Showing and telling them you love them isn’t enough, they will cheat on your face to make you feel inadequate even if you are more than they deserve. They want to test your love for them so they keep hurting you and when you have enough of their abuse, you leave. Then they tell you, ‘you never loved me because you abandon me’. Well in fact it’s their actions and narcissistic behavior that made you leave or in other cases they discard you and will give silly reasons of the discard. Mine would use, ‘she’s crazy’, ‘she’s a nega-star’, ‘she insults me’, ‘she cheated on me’ et al. So with this pattern of infidelities and emotional abuse (who knows what else) it’s better to walk away. I did walk away and is now rebuilding my life with our daughter. We are struggling financially because I’m not earning enough to provide for my daughter but now we get to laugh and bring with us sunshine every day. No lies, no abuse and no fake love. We only live once, forgive yourself and move forward but never forget the lesson that narc abuse taught you. That is to respect yourself to walk away from what’s hurting and destroying you. That you deserve a life of solitude, happiness and love. Hugs*** :) Additionally I got to know about my narc husband bad ways when I reach out to a private detective Metaspyhub@gmail. com for help he did a perfect work for me I can see everything he’s doing on his device.

Completely accurate. Their behavior is predictable once you learn that you’re dealing with one. I’ve heard so many bs excuses that I look back wishing I would have known this personality disorder even existed. Even telling me that our neighbor was too ugly to have sex with. I believed that one because I thought she was. I’m not sure if all narcs sleep with their best friends wives for the thrill of it or just the one I had. It always amazed me that the husbands would not only forgive him, but somehow turn them into seeing me as the villain. They absolutely will try to make you out to be crazy to deflect attention to all of the terrible behavior they inflict on others, usually without the people even being aware of how bad the situation the narc has put them in. I used to think my ex never lied, but in the end realized it’s because they lied all the time. I strongly suggest learning everything you can to protect yourself from ever falling into this trap again. They don’t look for partners, they look for targets. 💜

The way a narc make you crazy is they will withold whatever it is once they know you want that thing from them. What a sick creature. My ex cheated on me i confronted him. I finally completely lost feeling. Infidelity is such a big thing for me that it cuts all the ties and any kind of bonding with him very easily.

Never let them know you know who they really are under their facade. They will strike in ways you’d never imagine they’re capable of doing to hurt you at your very core. Who they were isn’t who they are and NEVER will be. Once you get it, get out as quickly and quietly as possible. I know, I lived it.

Everything he said is 110% true he didn't miss a beat yes they do give you hints under their breath nothing that screams but their actions speak louder than words... Narcissistic are serial cheater's.

If she’s asking for space she’s cheating 😂🤣

Everthing you said is exactly what I've experienced over a period of 35 years with my narcissistic spouse, now I simply go deep, detach, dont explain, don't become personal and I do not discuss my emotions, it's a sad way to live but it works not giving in to the demands of a narcissist, they are like a bottomless pit, never, ever satisfied with anything

I have been married To a narcissist for 30 years, what you have said is all so true. It is a difficult life, my first husband was an alcoholic. I can’t win

I couldn’t stay in our home. I moved out & getting a divorce. He doesn’t want to see me growing in my career, but he wanted my income.

Yes Narcissists will always betray you this is the truth. GOD-BLESS.

It is so important to go and stay no contact! They will Hoover until they get you back and start the entire process all over again. I dealt with this for a year and a half. I was in disbelief when I first started listening to these KZfaq channels. Everything is accurate as I started keeping notes on his behavior. I was never in a relationship like this so I had no idea what was happening. I was in a fog because I was constantly gaslighted. He would say he was on his way to my house and never show up. I would be so upset thinking something happened and be up all night worrying because he wouldn’t answer my texts or calls. In the morning I would get a “Hey beautiful” and gaslighted about what happened….ran out of gas, phone got shut off and he couldn’t call, had an emergency and got caught up. I believed this garbage because I was worn down and in a fog because I was so sleep deprived. I couldn’t focus. Once I went no contact I started seeing exactly what was going on. It was difficult because I was in love with this person. The love was fake. I was in love with the person he pretended to be in the beginning when I was love bombed and future faked. Please go no contact for your sanity and health. This effected me in the worse way. I became a person I didn’t know. I was strong and vibrant and was broken down. I became depressed and anxious. It is the worse abuse I have ever experienced. Going no contact has helped. Stay strong survivors.

I was married to the narc. He cheated on me with my friend. I filed for divorce and kicked him out. He beat me so bad. I called my mom and she called the police. They arrested him but he said he would change. The judge put him on 1 1/2 years probation. We lived on eggshells for almost that time frame. A week before the probation was up I filed. He left because he knew he could go to jail. A month later he said he wanted to see the dogs. He brought coffee for me to make. I sat down and the first thing out of his mouth. It was all your fault. I was so scared, got up and told him people know your here. He left...that week I was so sick and lost 30 pounds. He poisoned me. So please be careful. Now my son is married to a narcissist for over 27 years. I haven't seen my son in 4 years. He lives 2 hours away. But I make sure I text him 3-4 times a week. He is broken, I'm worried. She tried to make me feel sorry for her and bad mouth my son. I'm 72 and soon I will go and get my son. He's 54 she's 58. Please God help my son.

💯 %% Rushed into marriage, he changed the day we said I do. 3 years later, divorce is in the work!! He lost 50 pounds 6 months into the marriage, caught hi. Cheating on our 2 year anniversary in our home with a 19 year old boy from an app! He tracked my car, my phone, so he'd know where I was at all times so he wouldn't get caught, but I had a feeling, borrowed my daughters car and left my cell phone, he was SHOCKED! Thank you, Jesus. I am not in a mental facility, but I sure could've been. My advice is, if you're debating whether to stay with your narcissist or not, RUN! I've got a lot of work to do to get back to me, but at least I'm out. Good luck 🙏🙏

they accuse you of cheating

Listening to your channel, totally opened my eyes! I’ve wasted my precious time with a man I met on a Paid Dating site! He would blame it all on his Ex, for cheating on him. ( which was a red flag). But, he’s 62, and would tell me that he looks much younger than his age, and that these much younger women would hit on him, because he looks so young! I was thinking to myself: so, the grey mustache doesn’t give away your age???!!! I’m DONE with him! Lessons learned! Thank you for your insights on Narcissistic people.❤

Yes that's the key knowing what your dealing with, these ppl are from the devil himself,evil and they love it, RUN for your life and sanity

Wow!!! That’s my husband, he’s a narcissist and thinks he 20 and in his 50s. So pathetic!!

Omg 23 years of BS & Suffering here. No more !!!! I'm done !!!! Taking back my life & POWER !!!!!!!!! Thank you for this video The Best explanation yet I found on here.

Spot on. Lying, manipulative, egotistical people, weaken! Un loyal men x

Me too, it’s a cruel situation to be in. However, there’s always away out, once you know what your dealing with. This is a great video, education is the way to go. Thank you, Behind The Scene 🙏

Record them. It saved my life after 28 years.

happened to me. Ex wife was showing signs, but gaslighted me for years, my gut told me what was happening, but she said I was paranoid, I was the one cheating, etc. changed her hair, shaved down south after not for years, never available at work or just "riding around". She contracted herpies and tried to give it to me, then insisted I see her Dr and get tested so she could blame me for giving it to her. I was clean, Life is MUCH better now. Always a victimhood mentality too. Hope this helps somebody.

I can't tell you how much I appreciate this video. Its been very enlightening. I've been racking my brain trying to make sense of ex. Replaying all the fighting that didn't make sense, the Gaslighting, the lying, the cheating, the betrayals, manipulations, welching on every deal she's made with me, & everything she promised me she gave to others. Replaying all this ad nauseum has caused me to hav actual PTSD, which is something I thought only soldiers got, returning from war. & the PTSD & trauma from all this gave me ADD. I admit, I had lost myself in that relationship in a way that has never happened to me before. I had no idea what a Narcissist even was until after our relationship when I started looking up some of her actions that didn't make sense to me. So, I was completely unprepared & caught off guard. I have found other sources that explained some of it. But this video actually covers alot of the sexual aspects & how they use that to psychologically control & harm their partners. Thats something that most other sources on Narcissists don't really touch on. & that has been her most effective weapon against me. I still find myself unconditionally attracted to her. & I mistakenly thought she was trustworthy. I fell hard for her. & boy, oh boy, did she make me pay for that. I need more videos like this. Has anyone ever figured out how to get a Narcissist back for all the damage they've inflicted? I feel like she owes me a massive karmic debt.

Another comment was "you will take a long time to get over me!" To anyone reading this be aware of the ego plus the alcohol. Very hurtful

I’m so happy someone else took interest in me cause now I’m not worried about my narcissistic person. Once someone told me I’m beautiful inside and out and he adored me it was then that the narcissist didn’t have control over me anymore

Once my narc suddenly lashed out at me saying, "Your best friend and maid of honor told me not to marry you." I stared back at his stare and immediately said, "She told me not to marry YOU ! " HE WAS SO SHOCKED he quickly put his head down and scurried away.

This is the absolute best video that I have ever found that describes this whole entire scenario and the narcissist to a T. Every single paragraph I was nodding my head to. Knowing that I ran into these people a few times, I'm really tired of meeting the same people in different bodies. This information was so Dead on. It's scary to think that these people are out there. But they are. These videos, it helps to know ahead of time the pattern of narcissism. Thank you I see said the blind man I see

having never cheated when that topic comes up I let them know "I'm not a cheater, I'm a leaver." they love bringing up the hypothetical and working you up to worry, F that - you do what you gotta do baby, I'll do the same.

Yes got accused of cheating usually when she had been cheating. I’d get that gut feeling, but then be accused of being paranoid. She was 54 but looked 60. But we still borrow our 18-year-old daughters clothes and looked hideous, but said she felt 30 it’s finished now and I’m glad to say it’s done

You are so on point... my ex became fixated on his looks weight and type of clothes he started buying... he started body shaming me...and i realized this was not normal...his out of my life...thank god they are sick people...

Im a little late on all of this. My husband of 12 years was giving me the silent treatment, when i asked what was going on,he said work was stressful. Ya ,well. Screwing the secretary and then coming home to your wife would stress me out too. He brutally discarded me in May to go shack up with her. Evil & malicious

I have said goodbye to this player. I knew earlier. Bye forever.

Always saying "I will not make a commitment" this video is so applicable! Thank you for sharing. Last words were "if you want to come up to see me you can come,' what a joke. I am so angry that I was do gullible. I know he thinks I am a joke but believe me I am a lot better off without him. No contact for two months!!

My dad would cheat on my mom, tell me the lurid details and tell me not to tell her. Very conflicting and painful loneliness for me. He acted entitled. She had to be loyal to him. He's not worth getting upset over: she divorced him!

If there a Narcissist your 100% guarantee there cheating on you. Ghost them immediately!

The narcissist I was with would leave me for a few days. Telling me he had to help his best friend. We would have sex once a month. He told me I didn't attract him anymore I told him to leave.

This video is spot on for anyone whom has had the displeasure of being in a relationship with a Narc. The fact that as they age they still think that they are 'hot" is pathetic as even the most unattractive woman can find some sucker to shag her. They will also live with their STDs while you have sought medical care or treatment. Then their minds go where the body went... into the gutter. Can't imagine how many of these toxic people are out there yet i believe that there is many more than the 5% max that is claimed. Run Forest Run (and don't look back). Life is too short to not be with a loyal companion

They hurt themselves and it's so destructive yet it's the same shit they did to you they do to everybody else! Be glad it's not you anymore! Buy the new supply a drink! Because they are gonna need it!

Absolutely tuue. He works out 5 days a week. Talks to all the women on the phone all day and night. And your rig But he is acting like he's 29 years old and he's going on 50 . actually its sheer insanity on every level. !!!

My ex narcissist gave me a std while i was pregnant and that's how i found out i had a std! And then when i confronted him he had the audacity to say i must have had the std before we met,which i knew was a boatload of crap because i got my pills for free at planned parenthood at the time and in order to get them free the stipulation was they automatically tested se*ually active people twice a year for the common stds which was clamydia,gonorrhea and syphilis and i had tested positive for clamydia! And prior to getting pregnant i wasn't with anyone else! It was heartbreaking and i felt humiliated on top of being pregnant and then being blamed for it! Narcissists are straight up evil people who care about no one! My ex could have given me anything! I thank god it was something curable but it haunts me that he could be so thoughtless as to put my life at risk and his baby's life at risk! This was just one of the many unspeakable things he did to me throughout our 16 year relationship! He stabbed me in the back more times than i care to remember!

This is so true… I watched my Narcissistic ex do these things for 10 years before i found out he was a Narcissist.

Fool me once shame on you Fool me twice shame on ME

Yes this is so so true!!! Wow exactly what he did to me!!

Holy crap!. You hit the nail on the head with all of it!!.

I am just glad that im no longer with my narc ex. Better be alone with a fool there is no companionship.

You described it very accurate! I wish I’ve known this information years ago

It's probably better to stay single. In heaven there is no marriage.

I've put up with the silent treatment for 10 years! Along with the cheating, the lying, the stealing, the smear campaign, the victimizing, the flying monkeys, denied of sex, brought STD's, tracked by my phone. and chased down the street every time I'd go to his place as he had her linked to my phone too. He knows where I'm staying with friends and I can't move and have nowhere to go no contact. Now what?

I haven't been allowed to touch her in years. She's going somewhere for it. I can tell you for sure that never receiving affection or physical contact can drive you insane.

Narcissists that i have unfortunately been involved with are very dangerous and dishonest people that use people like me or who ever they come into contact with with love bombing and false friendships and use what ever they can against you! I decided not to change my issues and problems with these dishonest people that were in my life ! I felt emotionally drained by these awful people who used me for whatever i had of mine! 😢No contact is the best thing ever for me!😅

This is completely accurate!

Wow! All happened to me 😢 I finally left and feel better.

Narcissists that I have met unfortunately are con artists who play their role and they will show you their real personality and real self that you will find out this truth later in the future end of your relationship with this false friend!

my narc has brought down....14 days no contact

My husband did exactly everything you described to I literally was even told by everyone he could never & I was crazy…wow…even caught with own eyes I still was just tripping acting crazy. Thank you.

You have described my 30 year relationship with a narcissist to a T. I am grateful for this video. He would lie and deny and that tell me it was all in my head. I sometimes blame myself for being naive and taken in by his charm prior to marriage then the Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde personality began to surface and I felt used. It is taking a long time for me to heal and regain my self esteem. He played victim to his family and our common friends. I have cut off any socializing with them. Unfortunately the family keeps contact with the children.

Appearance and much younger than they are it’s crazy it’s really sad

I feel as if iv been in a narcissist relationship. I would offended wonder why he would say almost the same thing I was saying about him. But instead he was saying it was me. He would tell me all he wanted was happiness. But in the same breath be so miserable. An unhappy. Would ruin my whole day. He would get all excited to go do something even brag about headed to where ever we maybe going. But within a few hours he would ruin the whole day by his words. Then it dawn on me. An I said to him. You always saying all you want is happiness. What you are really saying is all you want to do is take someone happiness. How I figured out that he was cheating on me. He would text or call me up saying that I was across the street from his house. Or I was in town with another man. He would come up with all kinds of things. That wasn't true. At first I thought he was losing his mind. I wanted him to get some type of mental help. Cause yes I felt bad cause I thought he really thought these things about me. An it hurt my feelings so I had thought surely it hurt his feelings to. Come to find out when he said I was in town with another man. That's the reason why he had me to leave his house. He went out on a date with someone that weekend. When he said I was across the street from his house. He had another women over. He said all those things about me. Only for me to focus on what he had to say about me. Instead of what was really going on. he was manipulating me. An I thought he was going insane.

Me too I’ve was married to one for 40 years !

I was married to a narcissist for 20 years. And when I finally divorce him and found freedom. Yup you know it. I was found by another one and didn't even realize it before I married him. Going through the angry silent treatment right now.

He purposely set things ip for me to find, then deny it... The Rage .. I felt his guilt one day... She is hidden... I saw her car leave his driveway... he still denies it... I'm crazy... I stand my ground.... I don't give in to his gaslighting

I came from a broken dysfunctional home, so i was an easy target, my first ever relationship was with a women like this, i was 21, graduated uni, got a job, decided to finally date someone, first ever relationship kiss, sex etc. didnt know how relationships worked, she was cheating on me the entire 3 years, with neighbors, friends, ex's, school friends, her professor, random guys; woke up to her having sex with me, taking pictures of my dick, got into bdsm randomly someday, new sex positions; would be cheating on me while i was at work, would pick up fights with me put me in a state of distress and emotional devastation; go somewhere for a couple of hours, giving me the silent treatment; put her phone on DND and went cheating with someone else; her room mates and her friends were helping her. My first relationship, its honestly so messed up. So effing messed up. I just want to be alone; this is so messed up. Like fk

A narcissist will always blame their victims for their own selfish behavior and actions! Remember narcissist needs to blame someone because they cannot take responsibility for their behavior and actions! And they are self motivated and not honest with you or themselves! They will always blame their past relationships this is gaslighting you! The narcissist will deny the fact that they are to blame for the breakup of their past relationships!the narcissist cares only for himself and not you!the narcissist will deny anything to Escape the reality that they are the reason why this relationship fails! These people have no respect or Morals or Empathy for you or anybody else!

I am going through this now

Wow!! This is the most accurate thing I have heard.

This is exactly my story from living with a husband that did all kinds of horrors to me for years...I finally got a divorce but it's had a serious affect on my life.. Get away from the narcissist the first time they do that.They only get worse when they see they're getting awY with it with no consequences...

Oh so true. My narc of 35 yrs - you must have met him. So evil and sad.

Any alcoholic or ex alcoholic run 🏃

So freaking spot on. I tried reconciliation, because 21 year marriage, but she did everything described to a tee. Talk about getting hurt in the end!! I thought I was losing my mind due to her complete flip once she had her new supply lined up. Luckily, the kids helped me and did some online therapy where I found that I am recovering from NPD abuse. Even the erectile dysfunction is due to it. Slowly getting better and better. Divorce is almost over, and then that evil b@tch will forever be out of my life and hopefully my mind completely.

I’m dealing with one right now whenever I have a genuine problem she immediately snaps and flips everything on me by saying I’m “disrespecting” her storms out at every little disagreement and doesn’t say where she’s been for hours or even a day… I don’t wanna believe she’s doing things behind my back because she claims to be so loyal but honestly.. I do not believe she’s loyal at this point

Emotional deprivation 🎯

Now that I know what is going on. NO ONE WILL BREAK ME

He does know what is doing to himself! They are lost because no one listened to his negative thoughts! Thank you for explaining what they action. Yes, i noticed him, he is not interested on you! He just want to destroy you!

Clearly written by AI but still entertaining , insightful, and humorous.

Undermining your identity in order to discredit you is a sadistic pleasure to them. It is that particular cruelty that is an earmark of the devil. A trademark of a worthy partner is wanting you to want the higher good for yourself (to share with others). True charity is a sign of Godly love. Keep in mind these traits when trusting your heart to someone. 🤍

Yes this is what I, m going through now and I just know that, s how I know that it, s him and I just keep dealing with man who, s so unfaithful and I can, t keep doing this to myself but God has given me some very good advice every dog has they day

He goes silent and MIA for hours to days. The lies never ends, even when he was caught red handed. On our first date, he told me his ex-wife was crazy!

My husband tell lies so much when he want to go to a next woman he cant be trusted

When I caught my ex cheating I was told it was my fault for finding out...wtf ?

Mine told me! “I’m just going to go to sleep, I’ve got all the tail I can handle.” Smirk smirk…Bye Bye 😅😅😊

Not that interest of cheating as " lover"- but as yotal betrayal as friend/ family. Viciously brutally breakdown. X .

They can never see anyone as a person, only a extension of themselves. You are just a toy or a way to get something.

Thank you for information anout them, now i will never deal with them!

They always have back up like courts and police help them destroy u

We would go out the night before. I'd be terribly hung over. He'd be up, showering, new underwear etc. Leaving me to either catch up or not at all. Then he'd come back and go home. Later I'd got to the point where I took him to to court for assault. I found out from the court he had been done twice before for similar. Two years after, he's married and got a new child. Yes he was seeing someone in my town and ended up moving near me. Good luck to that women, poor child. 🙏🏻 I'm free thank the lord. 🙏🏻

OMFG You literally explained my entire Relationship with my ex. Like to the T. It’s quiet scary how accurate!!

Everything from the beginning to the end that has been described as a narcissist is exactly what my wife does and without any feelings from her heart, she walked out leaving me ,lost, hurt, broken with nothing left with me. I loved her so much that I had sacrificed everything for her. After all, I deserved to be hurt extremely and depressed now.

I knew she was cheating for months, spending tons on shoes makup clothes salon treatments late nights out, rooftop hotels and multihundred dollar dinners, none of it for me. Thought i could still fix it. When it finally came up, she tried to make me feel guilty, ashamed, like it was my fault, "i should be able to do whatever i want, like sleep with someone else." That was the "aha" moment after nearly a decade together. I almost fell for it, and THAT was the wake-up call. We were divorced within 60 days.

My ex said I Was too big. In other ways too if you get what I mean. But now he's with a girl that's way bigger than me. I never knew about narcissist until now. They have no remorse. All they do is think about themselves 247 sad but true. But thank God I got out .

Im in a new relationship and im seeing things that are very odd in her reasoning. She is a covert, sweet, helpful nice. In the beginning. Now its ALL about her, her wants, her dinner, her her her. Im kickin her to the curb

My disgusting narc ex did indeed cheat on me and gave me a STD but didn't claim that I cheated on him. However, he lied to me right to my face and claimed that somehow his previous partner must have been diseased and passed it on to him, and then that was how I got it. I was young and naïve at the time and gave him the benefit of the doubt and stayed with him for more than 10 years after that! I always knew that there was no way some random ex gave it to him. He cheated on me (he was looking at dating apps during that time) and I will have to deal with it for the rest of my life. At least it will be a life without him!

The accuracy is hilarious 😂😂