Sounds like me

You’re not alone

This is exactly me too

brittagolds I have this aspect too in a very tight orb. Everything you said describes me as well. It’s exhausting and hard to deal with. I wish I could just be normal in relationships but I’m learning that the key is to start loving myself

I know exactly what you mean 😔

Same, venus in Taurus 10th house opposite pluto in scorpio in 4th house. What houses?

@@SoundLight_Self-Discovery lol I'm opposite you, venus in taurus 4th and pluto in scorpio 10th house haha

My ex is Venus and Jupiter in 2nd House Taurus opposite Pluto in Scorpio in the 8th House

Same here , libra rising tho

Same placement!!!

I also have Taurus sun 4h with venus om IC, opposite Pluto 10h and mc. I agree with you fully...it can be rough for us for sure.

Could you please explain more? Like how you projected the darkness onto others? 😢

MegiBG me too lol

Same placements here

Same. Venus in Taurus 10th house opposite Pluto in 4th Scorpio

@@SoundLight_Self-Discovery Twinsies

Me too!

Hey Andy, what sort of hypnosis did you do? Any tips ? :)

What Hypnosis?

Exactly what I’ve been looking into.

Omg really?

I have it Venus in Taurus opposition Pluto in Scorpio I have BPD.... so interesting

I have this aspect and i always thought i may have borderline tendencies

I haven't been diagnosed but I definitely fit the description

Oh good to see you here. U r so sweet . Yes, I agree, Jewel is amazing :)

I love you boo...

this is horrible to read but on the other side I can totally understand your emotions having this aspect myself, too... it's a feeling of doom...

Victor David S wow! I have the same placement... venus in the 1st house in taurus opposite pluto 7th house scorpio... i know what u mean!

Me too!

Ximena García same here😩

I have the same combo!!!!!

What is it like to look like this? What is your experience with these aspects to your Pluto?

+Mary Montenegro I have the exact same opposition as yours to 1 degree

Same aspect for me and damn, it's been tough!

Sam Motiram i do as well!!!

Same here.

Same

I have pluto opposite my venus in the 8th house with Chiron as well. It has brought a lot of emotional pain for me in all kinds of relationships and I don't think it's something I want or creating for myself all of the time. I think in this lifetime I have to learn to love myself and be alright with being alone although I hate it and it makes me really sad a lot. It's hard for a lot of people to accept but being in an intimate relationship with somebody until the end of time is not something that is going to make you feel complete and it's not going to happen for a lot of people. I think it is fate for me. It is kind of like that saying that goes " the greatest love affair you will ever have is the one you have with yourself".

I've heard this aspect can bring traumatic deaths of the partner for a lot of women who have this one.

+Violetta L It's not Pluto that will be effected, it's the moon. There is likely to be some tension and projection onto opposite sex relationships with that alignment.

I have Venus square Pluto but yes, it resonates more than Jewel's video on Venus square Pluto. And I'm so glad I'm taking some good advice to break this pattern. It's valuing your own self and not be dependent on other person for it. I will not invest on anyone who is not available for me .

I have both Venus Opp. Pluto, AND Venus in 8th. Not sure what to make of this.

The Venus opp pluto give your love style a scorpionic "energy," while the house its in tells that you like scorpionic "things." If that makes sense at all

Thanks, it does. Basically there is overflow of 'Scorpionic' energy when it comes to love, relationships, infatuations, encounters with opposite sex? I also have Ascendant sextile Pluto, so do you think that comes in picture too? And if so, then how?

Traumatized by relationships and I really don’t feel comfortable with people liking me out of fear of being manipulated or them leaving suddenly. So I adore people from a distance and enjoy my single life. I’ve had to learn how to love myself and I really enjoy being alone and going to the gym to get my frustrations out. I just wish I had more money so I could travel and support myself and experience life differently than having an expectation of people being deceitful. 🤷‍♀️

yamatonadeshiko_yoojy what is it like when you like someone? How do you live with these aspects and what do you want from ur partner?

yamatonadeshiko_yoojy i kno someone w exact placements u have

Ouch. Mommy dearest?

+Jewel Mayberry I guess you can say that. It's definitely a challenging placement. Thank you, very helpful video.

I have this too! Thanks Jewel for your honesty.

So ur pluto and venus are in a conjuction. Look at what degree each planet is to see how tight the conjucntion is. Urs is conjucnt not opposite, opposite would be venus in sag and pluto directly opposite Gemini. The tighter the degree the more effective. The opposition is when planets are directly opposite eachother in the opposite signs. And a conjucntion is when planets are in the same sign and again the closest the planets are to eachother the more effective. I don't think it always is the case to show deaths traumatic deaths around a partner definitely seems to with some but not all people that's why someone's full chart needs taken into account. It also happens or is incline to happen more for females again not always but more so than males. It will always indicate a relationship with someone or maybe u hold the traits of thats mentioned in this video but again with the 7th house involved and opposite the 1st the spouce of chart holder could lets say be a midwive working with creating children venus bringing change and transformations into people's lives pluto or spouce may be creative have creative talents and bring transformations to people's lives venus combine pluto. Or simply spouce may be a scorpio love or spouce venus and pluto represents scorpio. Its not to say these things are a given either its just a few different examples. Hope it helps in some way. Im only studying astrology around 4 years I have in that short place of time seen sorrow with venus pluto conjucnt and venus pluto opposite but I have also seem some of the examples mentioned. Also others spouce or partner into illegal activities .

I've just realised I've commented on through my sons KZfaq lol not to worry.

+DANI This pattern of thinking can produce those types of tendencies.

No.

@@leae3750 are you Jewel? Doesn’t look like it. Instead of a simple ‘No’, perhaps some explanation would’ve helped, given that I have no reason to believe in your credibility. You could do better!

Oh no, reaally? How so?

@@ladye2818 emotional abuse was an expression of love from him honestly. Intense jealousy and projection. Fucked up Power dynamics and control and games were a huge part of the relationship. I felt like I was punished with being cheated on whenever I did something he didn't like. If there wasnt a conflict I felt like he didnt love me and I started to associate being loved with being treated like shit.

@@ladye2818 in our composite chart pluto is square to venus and in synastry his pluto is square my moon. It was just painful. And it didnt mesh well together because I dont think hes used to the people he dates seeing him for who he really is. I'm very vengeful, and gaslighting doesnt work on me, I dont feel guilty for acting on anger that I feel is justified. So it made for a really explosive relationship because I didn't submit. On top of that I was not able to let go of that attachment lol and am still not able to.