Be strong for your kids man. I lost my parents at age of six. Life changed. I went through hell i never get education. But i have survived 30yrs +without parents. Iam doing good. Building your home. Brother your kids needs your more.

This time I’m standing with the lady coz it’s not fair the man yes he lost parents but he has kids too that need him drinking won’t solve anything

Wish i could give this woman a job😢 BMS lets number i pay for her hata rent ya 3months

I salute this lady ingekuwa mwingine angeenda kitambo

The guy is depressed wooiii and the gal loves him

This is a very sick man. He is very selfish in his sickness as well.

Huyu Jamaa ana utoto.....at this age you still talk and depend on dead parents yet you have kids!!!!?????

This man needs help, and he has to be strong. God will open your way where kids are involved 🙏.

This lady has a good heart, some counsellors pls come up and support. This lady loves this guy and she talks to him with a lot of respect...

It reaches a point that you have to let go and focus on your life and the kids....

Tell this guy need to Mature up, I lost both of my parents and had nothing and i had only cleared form 4, i had 4 siblings behind me, and no one cared about us, my relatives and non. I went back sat down nikajiita mkutano, and i decided where to start. Now our Last born amemaliza shule na anapiga hustle,after 20 yrs So tell this you man to go back aachane na pombe na ajiite mkutano la sivyo apewe viboko like my area chief did to me. And he will move somewhere

This woman is going through alot more than the man,if this man dsnt change,atakufa ju ya pombe and the woman shud leave him koz he claims he dsnt need help he shud be left alone ndio atajua wazazi hawatarudi and he has a life to live

This is a goood, great woman. People younger than this man have lost parents and pulled through. We grief differently, but we don't have to go this route of pombe. 😢

This man is depressed but life must go on! God have mercy on this family

I now agree with obina that many men have depression 😢😢😢 women are warriors 😢😢😢

All i can say is that the guy is in denial haamini wazazi wake walikufa... hope they find a solution to their problems

U have a good woman been drunk won't solve anything be strong

How can you give up in life...this man is lazy....there are many who have lost their parents,many have been left by their wives,we have burried our children and what matters is to value your life to live long for our loved one and those whom we matter to them.... please man just man up and don't let your children suffer they need a fatherly love

May the lady get all the help she needs so as to shape the future of those young ones. I hope she equally knows the level shes willing to go while exposing the kids to alcoholism in the name of love for a selfish person like this who sees no sacrifice she makes😱💔💔

Huyu mwanaume ako na ujinga saaaana,I am also a total orphan,Our parents died long time ago leaving us with younger siblings we are taking care of. Now my younger sis doing her fourth form and last born bro he's in grade 6.

Huyu jamaa ni mjinga sana eti hataki usaidizi na hana kitu na ulevi tu ya ujinga! He's still depressed still thinks that the dead parent's will one day wake up and come to help him! How!? Ye should man up bro

Hata kama ni depression naye pia ako too much.hajali family

He is a looser I lost my Booth loved parents during COVID-19 and am still strong working hard to support my family

After listening to the lady's story, I can't blame her. Sometimes life can push us to extremes, and while we may seek help from friends and family, our efforts may not be forthcoming, as some will just "advise" you and tell you that it's well, or they'll "pray" for you. If I were the lady, I'd just pack and go back home and start all over again, hata kama ni kufanya vibarua as she awaits njia zifunguke. Maybe akitoweka ndio this guy will come back to his senses na aachane au apunguze huu ulevi, coz if she's doing everything then this guy won't change at all.

This guy is so selfish and this woman should be supported ajijenge mwenyewe coz this is a mammies boy ndio maana ataki kumove on

J know it is painful to lose the both parents and grief can be very challenging however you still need to put yourself together and live for your family.....your parents where they are will be happier when you remain a responsible son. Right now the family is exposed very badly.

Lakini kama ball ni ya Victor please usiwekelee your man, he already has too much to handle... I hope he shall get help. All his old friends and family members should come together and try save a life

BMS usindanganywe na uyu jamaa ati ni yatima mtu anaitwa dad uyu ni mzee mwenzangu😂😂😂

I understand this man. I too lost my mother and I lost all hope. I felt my life was over. I don’t know how I managed to be alive until now

Stevo ,hyu jamaa apelekwa kwa rehab cha nguvu.

Aki grief wewe....😢😢😢this thing is heavy on him

some men need to mature bado uko kwa past life must continue mtoto wa mama.unasaidika aje na kichwa ngumu.kweerrraa

Thank God you lost your parents ukiwa mkubwa!wengine wetu tulikua wadogo n we grew up no matter wat.huyu ni uvivu akonae

Huyu jamaa ni ajikubali ako chini ata mimi time ya covid nilishuka hadi zero na saa hii niko juu....mungu siku zote

Depression is real steve fanya Mambo, let's help this man before it get on another let. I silute the lady so far so good she stick for her marriage.kongoi missing

must be a caring, loving, mother n wife God bless you mama

l know the pain i lost by dad & he was my everything wueh nilijirealize 6 yrs later may God come thru for him....

Be strong for the kids mama. The man He's leaving in denial.

Woiyee...so sympathetic

In as much as you're in pain life has to go on work hard to make your parents proud by living a go life

This man ako ma kiburi,us we don't have parents but we push on.

God... This is heavy on him may the Almighty see them thru.... Aki nmelia

Mummy be strong and take courage for your kids, you can do it kuwa single and alive to take of them it's better than six feet under.Achana na huyu or depression will catch up with you.

We are human and anything may happen to any of us let past not rule your present focus men with ur family this is the family you created and respect them

Am really sorry for this young family...God have mercy on this family...this lady is a gold

Bro your parents are gone and we understand your pain, but life must continue, you aren't a kid you're a full grown man, achana na pombe jitafutie maisha bro, focus on building your family.

Even if you are going through hard times, it's not good to be sleeping with men out there,, it's good to know your worth, I can't judge but ......

Nimewafeel wote 😢 they are suffering and they need help, especially this man needs some advice.

Kindly BMS connect the lady to any job plz I know you have very many friends

These man anakuwa petty sasa kuna watu wako total ophans .....awache excuse z wazazi at atry kukimbia majukumu yake n hiyo ety wazazi what we are still strong struggling to maintain our families with pain but we thank God for the far believing one day we will meet ....pombe will not help my friends future matters alot

At some point in life you cant advice a grown man, let this woman focus on herself and the kids. She can go back home and work hard rather than stay in the slum and suffer. People will always talk, but will never help you

From my own Experiences ,I was chairman of walevi . But my wife used fast for me and introduced me to church. Sahii Pombe nikama sumu kwangu. Pray Over Altars of Drunkardnes.

Despite the man needs help but I feel he's being too petty, he's not the only one to loose a parent, i lost both my parents and brothers ended up being alone subjected to poverty nd all the challenges. But not in my life I would give an excuse of not focusing on my life just because I don't have any family. I understand its not easy but a man has to be a man.

In Life Anything can happen so for therefore human must ready for anything ,This Man needs to know with parents or not Life must go on

The guy needs serious help, Maybe rehab to heal and overcome alcohol. I stand with the lady.

Woiye😢😢sa situation kama hii mtu husema nini hufanya nini waaaah tuwaeke kwa maombi

Much love for lady,zingingua hizi viruka njia za wire mesh kwa mapua zingesonga mbele

This lady is so patience if i were in place i should have walked away long time ago seems the man doesn't care about his kids wish she knew hange pata ball ingine😢 but it's better late than never maybe if she leaves him he will come back to his sense's

Woooi Steve please help this man he's depressed he needs counselling

I just feel this couples manze hii ni dipression uyu jamaa ako nayo Mungu awafanyie wepesi inshaa Allah

Bro I know the pain of loosing a parent t,plis accept and move on for the sake of your kids

The man ana kiburi yet his family is suffering. Yeye bora amelewa haoni shida, i really feel for his family!

I lost both parents but life must continue. Let this guy man up, he behaves like he is the only one who has lost parents

This is very unfortunate but the lady will clearly not progress and the children will suffer if she does not leave the man. She needs to start rebuilding until he realizes that life is for the living and must continue. Until then she is also wasting her life. The man is still in denial until he accepts he needs help, there will be no change. To the lady,please go back home,home will always be home no matter how old you are and as long as your family welcomes you ,stay there with your children and wait to welcome the little one as you work on getting back to your feet.

Huyu mama akipewa opportunity she’ll go far

I salute this woman salute

Thevmonent he started talking it's to say do not look behind you mami the guy is completely incapable at this juncture. Someone able, please give this mother of 2 a chance for the sake her children🙏🙏

Wewe mama jitoe ulee watoto wako utaanza kuwa wewe single mother wako wengi huku nnje masingle mother

Sio rahisi haki😢

he is in denial and depressed he needs alot of help but pia awache ujinga akubalikusadika

this lady is strong and the guy is depressed. he needs help fast

Big Mab Stevo,help him get Psychiastrists,that's the only help he can get,then he can another job.Please help that man God will reward you Comrade❤❤❤

Yes I lost my Dad whom I trusted very much, I was in form four back then, I lost everything have nothing at all but I have tried, struggled all through went to college did diploma, CPA mpaka 4 despite being jobless I really try but sometimes depression is really,coz currently I do drink and chew miraa like daily for me to survive, it's life have tried but it's called life,nko tu like nko tu, this man is trying, sometimes we as human being go through alot

@Obinna please come through for a fellow man. This guy is depressed

I can't blame any of them. Man is in denial, while the woman was pushed to the wall. Both can be helped and build their family.

Brother never let her go.. she deserves you🎉🎉🎉🎉 find Jesus on your way forward🎉🎉🎉may God bless this woman

I was orphaned at 18.....this man is a fooooooooooooooool......akwende na huko Nugu kapsaaaaa

seems like he was depending on his parents fully....nothing like depresssion here

Most of us have lost our parents but life must move on no matter what

Us long as you said that you love him but you did rong to cheat on him ju ya situation yenye ako that was not good, poleni kwa masaibu munayo pitia i pray that Mungu amuonekanie apate kukusamehe mutengeneze familiar yenyu 🙏🙏

They are good together Life frustrations would really pin 📌 us down May God grant them relief

😢problem of been a mama boy ona sasa huyo alikua anategemea wazazi hawesi jitegemea

Huyo hako na ufala si hawache pombe haende kazi woiyee hata huyo mama ni strong sanaa ,

Its very painful... And hurting to loose loved ones especially parents... But.... Please nobody lives forever..... May God send help for this man.... How???? I don't know but God knows...

Mtoto ako kwa tumbo niwa Victor , huyu wife awachabe na Victor afuemanguo akilea mungu atanuonekania

As much as I feel for this lady, cheating is never a solution..it brings even more bad luck..you either decide to trust GOD for a break through,or move on

I lost my parents when I was young bt we grew,we past through a lot bt we are good,,, moving on is important thing ,,your kids need you much

I would advise this woman to let go leave this man alone and concentrate on your life and kids this man cannot be helped.

I fully understand this lady. I fully understand the husband. Man be strong for your wife and kids. Life has to go on. Seek professional help

The man is selfish,If he doesn’t like the situation why does he want the kids to go through hard life man up aki😢

Denial is one of the most difficult hurdles to overcome in addiction…

I lost my dad at the age of 15. My elder sister died at the age of 40 and left her kids at age 16 and 10. I had to take care of the kids

Hapo kuna shinda ,mtafutie counselor,

Mambo yaku expose ur success openly muwachane nayo some ppl r not pleased hata from ushago. Fungeni midomo with ur success

Even if it's depression this man is too much bana 😢 wengine wetu have passed allot but drinking alcohol daily basis is not solution actually u have a good wife na amekuvumilia zaidi kwenda na uko bwana

If anyones till sympathizes with this weak boy shauri yake...acha akuliwe...Stevo give me that mama..we have lost parwnts,relatives..big jobs and we dont resort to pombe and "depression"...bure kabisa

Team sisi kwa sisi.....comrades family......lets support these lady......drop her namba......

He needs spiritual help. Tell the lady to seek help. Huyu amerogwa.

The woman should pack up and leave this guy. Maybe then, he may wake up.

This word Victor spoilt my first marriage