The only unique KZfaqr I respect,value and uphold with all dignity wambui mwangi ❤❤
@kk-xl2pp2 күн бұрын
Doing job professional
@VeronicaDunbar2 күн бұрын
J. W. Wa Mwangi:- - Wacha kupigia mtu/watu firingi. Nimependa 'firingi', Nimependa huyu mdada mgeni leo, na, Nimependa kila kitu. Asanteni panel yetu ya leo🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉.
@annmacharia90692 күн бұрын
I'm convinced she was meant to be a nun; they don't biologically give birth, but they are mothers to many people.
@user-yv3cf5je1y2 күн бұрын
She looks so young and happy sababu hana stress ya ulezi Kumbe tuko wengi Lets embrace childfree ppl in our society Children are luxurious under this government
@maggienjenga86172 күн бұрын
Huyu sister anajijua ❤. I like that
@pmtwo1655Күн бұрын
my classmate here wangeshi your story is a vibe,salimika
@rebeccaetter11042 күн бұрын
I respect your decision children need attention and time.its personal decision
@samuelmuchoki72382 күн бұрын
Life is a choice,good different inspiring stories to the world God bless you MrsJane Wambui Mwangi.
@user-yv3cf5je1y2 күн бұрын
She dont look 40yrs anakaa early 30s aging gracefully
@reginadavid4454Күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂she is so funny and happy,nduretigira gugakorwo lonely wakura 😅😅
@esthernjerikimani2 күн бұрын
Wambui i love u so much..only mukurino i Watch n i trust you are mature,you have aclass like a woman.your host she is talking areal life story..i have 👀this 4 me its normal,coz i stay in europe..and i have mzungu girlfriends they talk the same..among of them they have pets ,n stop!!she is real.true story!
@annwamiti2 күн бұрын
Okay kila mtu na life yake just enjoy how you like it
@anitahchris24662 күн бұрын
Wengine walizaa na wakaachia wazazi ama serekali afathali this lady. The gals she is mentoring are her children
@VeronicaDunbar2 күн бұрын
Kweli kabisa. Na wengine wapo physically present, but emotionally ni zero. Or maybe hata wana kerwa. Na wengine wateseka na wana watoto. Hata huona aibu kuambia watu wana watoto.
@rmkarugi2 күн бұрын
Life is a choice. We should respect her decision....Wambui, your dresses 👗 are so beautiful 👌.
@jamiemo65682 күн бұрын
And very decent❤
@rirt82392 күн бұрын
@@rmkarugi thanks 😊
@carolinemunge156318 сағат бұрын
😊
@winjoygatugi57942 күн бұрын
Jesus i pray for pastor Nicolas and his beautiful wife please GOD have mercy upon your servant and put a smile on their faces, let's there hands hold their own babies in Jesus name 🤱 very soon mrs Nicolas
@Truthfulmen_women2 күн бұрын
Who is Mrs.Nicolus ?? 😮😮
@AdmiringBoombox-pn5wu2 күн бұрын
Amen amen ni pastar mzuri sanaa mungu awabariki sanaa 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@TheNicos2662 күн бұрын
Amen and Amen We receive in Jesus name
@TheNicos2662 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for your prayers
@Truthfulmen_women2 күн бұрын
@@TheNicos266 where did you give your story I watch it ,, I need to watch it , because am also having a sister going through the same challenges .... ❤️❤️
@elsiekendi962115 сағат бұрын
I have two aunties who are in their early 50's.They dont have kids of their own but wamelea my cousins and they love our kids so much
@FaithImani-qj1ci2 күн бұрын
I respect your decision childfree women are shunned by society ,but i respect your decision,very few women can make such decision ,you owe nobody an apology live your life to the fullest
@catherinenjoki18172 күн бұрын
I also respect, I don't know why society always has an issue.
@AnitahAnn-np2ld2 күн бұрын
I also respect her desicion life is funny saa ile mm hapa praying hard nipate mtoi 2nd born juu naona miaka inasonga😂😅
@wambuievelynwaithira2 күн бұрын
@@AnitahAnn-np2ldmm naomba hata kamoja 😢
@elizabethmwaura37982 күн бұрын
This one need to be in America where they don't like giving birth,ni mbwa tu wanapenda.
@FaithImani-qj1ci2 күн бұрын
@@elizabethmwaura3798 unfortunately your very behind hata huku Kuna children free couples
@wanguimary11212 күн бұрын
Life is all about personal choice keep up gal
@Joycenderi9682 күн бұрын
Mimi niliitwa tasa wachoka wakaachana na mimi but what i know is Ngai wa Hanna ari o muoyo.
@wambuievelynwaithira2 күн бұрын
Woi mm niliitwa tasa hivo nikiwa 20yrs 😢😢😢
@annmuchiri39612 күн бұрын
Pole saana mama😢nko na my friend she's married for the last 11yrs imgn saa hii ako pregnant 5 months ,,naeza ku connect na yy akushow her doc,,,our God is a faithful God my sister 🙏
@MaryWangui-hk3ly2 күн бұрын
Her contacts pliz,i have a friend who needs help@@annmuchiri3961
@NancyNjeri-hx2qyКүн бұрын
Wachana na watu ni wale wale.mimi niko na watatu na bado iko pregnant ya mwingine bado wanaongeanga nimezaa sana.
@shikuliz413416 сағат бұрын
You can't prease society live your life unapologetically
@waridim92492 күн бұрын
Parting shot îyo nî perfect, as usual, Wambûi wî kairîtu kogî takî!❤
@musymuthoni65152 күн бұрын
You are a courageous girl. There are so many women out here who have chosen that path but can't confidently speak up. We have diffrent callings. You are an inspiration keep going. Those who think that she will suffer in old age how many parents are suffering whereas they give birth. People are suffering silently in marriages and relationships because they are afraid of societal stereotypes. Let us embrace living true to ourselves. You'll be accountable of your life before God. Peace out!
@ezranjehia83842 күн бұрын
People are not fools! if you can't give a child attention and care why should you stay with someone's child since you don't like responsibility live people's children
They come for help not that we go seeking who to stay with. So we help them like nuns do. We don't look for companies. We are very contented
@VeronicaDunbar2 күн бұрын
Unamtafuta na negativity. Usigeuze maneno yake to imply kitu au mambo mbaya.
@VeronicaDunbar2 күн бұрын
@@florencenjeru9000 Hakuji contradict. Ni wewe una push na ku twist maneno yake yaonekane mabaya. Yeye anasaidia watoto wa community. Je wewe Mungu aliekujalia watoto, waenda jitolea kusaidia watoto yatima au watoto wasio na uwezo wa kuwasaidia majumbani?
@WonderfulSeagull-lg1tzКүн бұрын
Daaah, Mungu aliumba watu tofauti tofauti, Ata sina la kusema
@eunicenjeru215Күн бұрын
I love her openness, a heart that doesn't bleed on others.
@wanguibundi40172 күн бұрын
We should allow people to live their life coz people are created differently and God has purpose for everyone.Having lived out there for sometime I see where she's coming from coz I've seen many men and women who talk before getting together and decide not to have any children and they agree 👍💯 to live by themselves.Lets not be anyone's judge if they're any questions to be answered they'll answer them elsewhere not to us.Love ❤them and respect them for who they are.Wangechi live your life you're not a banden to anyone,by the way they're people who got children and they die alone with no one to take care of them it's no guarantee that they'll be there for you,it happens by God's grace and I'm not advocating anything don't take me wrong.Wambo good Job 👍as always we 💕 you 🙏🙏🔥🔥✝️✝️🕊️🕊️🛐🛐🤍🤍🌹🌹
@margretnjuguna29492 күн бұрын
Wambo uko na dress smart sana
@isaacmuruga34972 күн бұрын
I respect your channel,you bring inspiring stories, God bless you
@user-lw7xf6ey8p13 сағат бұрын
One of the best interview i have ever watched....thanks maggie for sharing this story.....people should let people be
She doesn't have to regret just people say so or feel like it
@VeronicaDunbar2 күн бұрын
Hata wale wana watoto, some regret n are veryyy disappointed. Na don't wish/kutakia or ku predictia watu mabaya.
@veronicamuthoni26642 күн бұрын
Esther, you r right, a time will come and she will come to desire her own children. Let not encourage girls not to have children. Not all children become bad that you don't want to have children. Children r the best blessings only come from God.
@FaithImani-qj1ci2 күн бұрын
@@veronicamuthoni2664 ni wangapi wako na watoto na hawajali na wale watoto wao wamekufa wanjinyonge kama yule aliuliwa watoto wake wawili afanye nini ajiue ,na wale hawapatangi watoto ,na wale walizaa na wakatupa children should never be used as retirement scheme by anybody ,she is ok than most people who have kids and they hate them
@tabithachege7956Күн бұрын
Esher, those that she has are her children though not biological,they might stick close in her lifetime than those that she could have born. She will not regret because even God is just enough to let them be
@PurityMirugi2 күн бұрын
Yani naskiza hii story na vile naomba tu siku moja nipate mtoi???God bless me with Twins
@joycemaina21262 күн бұрын
I see this girl s real cos anapenda watoto❤ . life is personal.. Wachana na watu..
@joycemaina21262 күн бұрын
Wambooo, u luk so smart..
@jenniferk41672 күн бұрын
Love your vibe ladies 😊
@PurityKarimi-mq5ue2 күн бұрын
Yes mm nilikua napenda watoto sana na sikupa nafasi ya kulea juu ya mateso hadi sai mm na fanya kazi ya nanny sana bt watoto wangu wamekua wakubwa i thank God
@wanjirumonica3232 күн бұрын
Pia mm wangu wako home sai ni miaka nane pekee angu
@wanjirumonica3232 күн бұрын
Pia mm wangu wako home sai ni miaka nane pekee angu
@RoseMary-xf3pt16 сағат бұрын
Its true Wambui responds very fast.. she's such a good gal
@dorothywaigwe53132 күн бұрын
I understand her very well i thought am alone in this
@rirt82392 күн бұрын
Tell them, this is who we are
@jeremiahkamau51252 күн бұрын
Watching from Qatar ati Wambui woiga ati mundu maisha make ni momu ta ngumu nikanjoya all the best
@CatherineMwaniki-jw9ni2 күн бұрын
I like your dress wambui eve the lady is smart
@rosemuthoni34372 күн бұрын
I like your openess....life is about chooses.respect❤
@serahwothaya547620 сағат бұрын
Wambui umeamua parting shot leo ni vayolense😂 😂😂 I like it
@rirt82392 күн бұрын
Thank you so much Wambui wa Mwangi for sharing my story. You are the most kind, humble and empathetic person i know. May God continue to bless you. For those asking how am able to help other kids, we do it because they need us. We empower their parents with skills so they can be independent. I do it with no expectations and am fulfilled. Am never lonely coz Christ completes me though not many will understand that. Those asking who will take care of me in oldage, God is doing so and even He will. Let's learn to let people be. Know your purpose and live it. Blessings 🙌 Wambo
@VeronicaDunbar2 күн бұрын
Mwanamke bomba. I think u mmoja wao. ❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉
@VeronicaDunbar2 күн бұрын
@@kw-gp7yh He is.
@RoseMary-xf3pt15 сағат бұрын
truest...old age is not a big issue...am also a loner.i like my space
@user-hp4qs9uz5k2 күн бұрын
Wambo looking very smart
@gitaumwati73012 сағат бұрын
Wambui ni nyendete show ciaku ni kubacirira ciugo ona ci nditu be blessed
@LeahKaranja-ps6ypКүн бұрын
Huyu lazima alipitia mambo mangumu sana akachukia watoto ❤❤❤
@nellykatrina479418 сағат бұрын
Maybe hawezi pata.. normal woman hawezi chukia mtoto bure
@shikuliz413416 сағат бұрын
Who says that not everyone has motherly instinct ni haku stop judging wrong she's ok
@user-bk5jt5kd8z11 сағат бұрын
She has said she loves children..
@feycute699Күн бұрын
Uyu ena rwake how comes hupedi kushaa ,hata yesu alisema eda mushaanee na muti utari maciaro ni gotemwa utemagwo😂😂😂😂 ni faku mwede😂😂😂 proud mother of 2queens
@user-vr8lx5vn2fКүн бұрын
Its kuzaa not kushaa 😂😂
@alicemumbi75852 күн бұрын
Soo inspiring and truthful lady I like her spirit Thank you Wambui for such interviews 🙏
@iannambanga9130Күн бұрын
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🏫🏫🏫🏫Fanya kazi ya mungu 🙏 kabisa
@Truthfulmen_women2 күн бұрын
Madam,here in Wambûi wa Mwangi's KZfaq channel, we respect people's decisions.😊🙂Old age will come and we hope you will not be a lonely granny. I have seen old grannies without kids , some due to infertilities , others maybe it was their choice. As per my own view, they tend to give their extended family members , community or organisations some "mzigo" , to look after them in their old days. 😥😥Even if God will do, you will need some people around you. Eg. God cannot come to cook for you ,, to wash your clothes, to change your diapers,🤔. Yes we agree that God might send his angels (some other people) to do it for you, but it feels more peaceful and easier if done by your own blood who happens to be your kids , or grandkids. Even if you will be poor or rich in materials, believe me, there is some peace that comes from seeing your generations. 🙂🙂Anyway, your life is your choice dear.❤️You both look great. Thanks. ❤❤
@rirt82392 күн бұрын
Thanks dear, I thought the same when I was 30s but the more I age the more I love who I am
@user-yv3cf5je1y2 күн бұрын
Tomorrow is not promised don't talk about it
@Truthfulmen_women2 күн бұрын
@@user-yv3cf5je1y nobody said it's promised we only hope for the best and always wish that God gives us the best old age . 🙂🙂🙂So better be prepared .
@VeronicaDunbar2 күн бұрын
So unazaa ndio wakutumikie ukizeeka? I think that's selfish reason.
@VeronicaDunbar2 күн бұрын
Some of those children n grandchildren burden their parents. Even aggreaving them, as kuwaua, negiect etc Usipangie watu maisha na vitisho. Au wewe ni wale hutishia na ku curse watoto wasipo watimizia their demand uzeeni. Unakua soo entitled or kuthani mtoto/watoto lazima wakulipe deni ya kuwazaa. Saidianeni muwezavyo, but msishikie watoto wenu 'buduki ya kichwa' bcz mliwazaa. Pia msiweke watoto kwa guilt trip hio. Ulayani in general, hawana hayo maturation ati ni 'lazima'. Watoto si mifugo ati in future utawapeleka auction/soko ukawapige bei. Again, ulayani mbona hakuko hivyo? Na siongei kuhusu wale eg Waafrika etc waendao ng'ambo.
@estherwanjiru9831Күн бұрын
True wambui it’s not normal for alady to say she cant give birth and she doesn’t have problem and she is saying she love kids and people she need to consoling
@rosembugua85432 күн бұрын
Nikweli Wambu Ako Smart Sana Ata Wangechi Ako Smart Sana Wako Sawa
@JosephmuniuNgangaКүн бұрын
Pole sana sezi may God bless you
@susanmwangi2114Күн бұрын
I respect her decision, may God remember her at old age lest she is struck by loneliness,
@RoseMary-xf3pt16 сағат бұрын
I can stay alone even with 100yrs...Bora niko na internet na pesa..
@user-xt4we5sq9s2 күн бұрын
Wambui uracina muhu ❤❤ wethabetee maa 😊
@wambuiwamwangi2 күн бұрын
Niurahitia 😂
@MayaJanet-xu2ve2 күн бұрын
Mumakagiaii tondu tene ndethambaga 😢onakaba ungiera wabu e smart love u jane❤
@perismuturi877218 сағат бұрын
Of course having a child comes with responsibilities especially your own children.
@ianoneema2 күн бұрын
Wao! My Sister here you come umejibu swali yetu kama familia , unapenda kutembea apo ni ukweli kabisa .. truthful lady 👏👏👏👏👏...ukifikisha miaka ya shosh Nyakiende utafeel lonely akiii 😂😂😂😂
@mercymathenge57422 күн бұрын
Hapo kwa ukizeeka utakuwa lonely I have close relatives she is in old age she is so lonely as we talk
@rirt82392 күн бұрын
@ianoneema kùi don't worry 😉 😋 sitawasumbua..but can't live my life to your expectations..
@VeronicaDunbar2 күн бұрын
Kwani watoto wako watakua kwako ukizeeka????? Si watakua na bwana zao na watoto wao. Au utakua wawalazimisha kuja kukuona? And, by the way, hata ukiwa na watoto 100 or 200 hundred, budo at time utaji feel lonely.
@VeronicaDunbar2 күн бұрын
@@mercymathenge5742 Alikuambia ako lonely? And what do u do to help?
@mercymathenge57422 күн бұрын
@@VeronicaDunbar haiya long story though
@Empressoftomorrow7416Күн бұрын
Life is a choice not a chance.....c mko smart akii
@user-to4xx3rj1m2 күн бұрын
Aki mimi na yeye same WhatsApp 95%😂😂
@angieblessed2 күн бұрын
Nipatie hiyo nguo yako.iko smart
@rirt82392 күн бұрын
Come we make for you for free. My student did it for me
@nectarblue2 күн бұрын
I have a few friends who have children and they swear if they had known they would not have had children. They are married and they have no issues 6 their children but they still say if they had yo do it all over again they would not do it.
@mercielee22182 күн бұрын
This is me aki😂😂.. but I have a babygirl
@shiksjustin2 күн бұрын
I like your decision gal
@sarahngugi27792 күн бұрын
Ona sisters nimatuire who are we to judge you
@Lucianakaranja-hf1rvКүн бұрын
Uuui ngai Kai guthiaga ati maa,,,me here trying to get pregnant for 6year but I can't bcz of my block fallopian tubes😢3 operation but I didn't😢.is Soo unfortunate I lost my both fallopian tubes in 3 operation 😢the doctors say the only way I can get pregnant is only through IVF😭I lost my marriage 😭now am in Gulf countrys trying Soo hand to get money for IVF 😭😭..But I have hope one day I will have my own kids ,God my confidence is in you 🙏 I put trust in you🙏Ipo siku😢
@ESTHERWanjiru-oo8fmКүн бұрын
May God see you through my siz
@Lucianakaranja-hf1rvКүн бұрын
@@ESTHERWanjiru-oo8fm Amen 🙏🙏❤️
@Empressoftomorrow7416Күн бұрын
Wooiye pole ipo siku momaaa
@marynyambura521821 сағат бұрын
May God help you and give u what u want l knew u will give testimony ukiwa na mtoi wako
@elizabethwanjiru-vp1qx20 сағат бұрын
Amen God will remember us in Jesus name
@GraceNyoike-tb7wxКүн бұрын
Life jo balance aki some fast and pray for kids ata kamoja mwingine anasema hataki mtoto weuhh earth is hard ohh😢
@shiruwsteve3063Күн бұрын
Wambúi wí smart múno ❤❤
@bilhawambui73192 күн бұрын
I like that courage, I wish I have that
@nyandusathecomedian2616Күн бұрын
Wee tareke nie jiare ndere twana ndakura ndatuona ngakena
@user-ym2zk7ek3l10 сағат бұрын
Wangeci pata mtoi unipee nilee hadi hiyo age ya kujielewa my sister napenda watoi sana
@user-jx7jl9oq7l2 күн бұрын
Wambo nipee hiyo 👗👗
@ThankGod20242 күн бұрын
Wow ❤❤❤❤❤ and the way many hamsters women and rabbits breeds type of women knows no boundaries in giving birth without caring or putting in to consideration what life they can offer to the children saying that children comes with a plate of food from God 😂only for the children to be sleeping empty stomached , no parents bonds , no affections , many scolding than complimenting 😢
@winnienganga2187Күн бұрын
Aaaaaaiii????? I've never heard that.....😢
@GraceWambui-ou7myКүн бұрын
Mungu akusaidie
@elizabethmburu46262 күн бұрын
Waiting for you
@user-tx3tw7pt6x2 күн бұрын
So wambui clearly stated that people shouldn't judge the guest but there're some people who just can't take it and respect someone's decision.... she's very right why would you bring a kid in this world and you don't have the motherly instincts or you can't be there for them (attention) when needed,I have seen people who hate their kids so much and make them go through hell and always reminding them every day that they hate them... And yes she's among few people who come out to confess because many fear to be condemned by the society And no one has a right of telling her what her future will be like coz she doesn't have kids, remember you aren't considered good just because you are a parent
@florencenjeru90002 күн бұрын
I don't understand how she can't give her own child attention but she can take care of other people's children . How?
@rirt82392 күн бұрын
@florencenjeru9000 I live with kids with their mothers so I don't give them 100% attention
@user-tx3tw7pt6x2 күн бұрын
@@florencenjeru9000 just because she said she helps and loves other kids doesn't mean she wants kids of her own, maybe if she tried that root she would be a different person...I love her bubbly personality and the boldness to come out, not everyone also loves everything you do or like and that doesn't make them bad because they choose something different from what you like
@waridim92492 күн бұрын
Atî mûndû oke na attention yake Wambûi!!😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
@mugurenaomi402Күн бұрын
She doesn't want emotional baggage that's all
@lucykiuneКүн бұрын
My class mate pale kigumo pry sch
@nellykatrina479418 сағат бұрын
How I love my own kids... people are different... maybe she could not get her own kids...it's her own choice though
@eunicenjane68532 күн бұрын
Please follow-up on your thyroid manenos.
@user-rc2yg1ko1p17 сағат бұрын
My sis alikataa watoto na pia hajawai kua na boyfriend.yani sjawahi ona or kuskia.he hate men. Sasa na watoto hutoka kwa wanaume, kwake kupata ni ngori
@VeronicaMwangi-in9mw2 күн бұрын
I wish God would change her decisions mimi nko na watoto wawili nateseka nawao but i thank God for them
@rirt82392 күн бұрын
@@VeronicaMwangi-in9mw God will open doors for you dear
@VeronicaMwangi-in9mw2 күн бұрын
@@rirt8239 thanks dear ❤️
@getrudenjoroge3250Күн бұрын
I respect people decisions
@Bravick254Күн бұрын
Kimerie ndawa biu na uhurwo muti biu no muthenya wa mithenya ukamira na igokora wakura wagite nginya kihii ungituma nduka 😮
@JanetJuma-hb9zl2 күн бұрын
Tuned
@user-rc2yg1ko1p17 сағат бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂ety parting shot me ngumu gukira ngumu😅😅😅😅😅
@ShikuMwangi-kf2kqКүн бұрын
Alafu nisikie ukituma wangu akikataa unasema ni muremi 😂😂😂matua matua
@johnwanjiru3627Күн бұрын
Sasa mambo gani ya kucheka hapo,hamuoni huyu ni mtu yuko na shinda,niatia muronia ciana city cia airitu????
@wanjirumonica3232 күн бұрын
Waaah nauria maa jinguaga wenga ngitwo ma'am 😊
@VeronicaDunbar2 күн бұрын
Kwana wamchekelea haitwi mom.
@elizabethwanjiru-vp1qx20 сағат бұрын
Ngai ndeiithia njiito Mum
@shikuliz413416 сағат бұрын
Huyo ni wewe si yeye why feel her feelings watu wako na feelings tofauti
@kameriyakameriya-ec6grКүн бұрын
😂 wambui aty ngumu hahaaaaa
@kenngigi24702 күн бұрын
Wambui hau ha guthoma gatiba ndungitigirirwo na thutha😂😂
@naomuwambui403422 сағат бұрын
Unalea mtoi wa wenyewe, na ww utaki kuza ww n mjinga
@mumbisandtmann8931Күн бұрын
By the way she is giving social services to community
@Joycenderi9682 күн бұрын
Wangeci ena kiheo kiamwanya gitari na andu aingi,no oneke ta ahititie njira no tiguo amu Ngai kiria endaga gugutua nokio ugatuika. Me am 37 na sina no ndithuire kugia ciana.
@lydiahnyawira912 күн бұрын
Onani ndahanaga tawe no riu ni tworanirwo na sis oniwe
@steveropes93212 күн бұрын
🎉🎉
@Bravick254Күн бұрын
Wee ukamotwo muhu etiner ngoma acuthie 😂😂😂😂
@monicahnjoroge50752 күн бұрын
Urisariwa na ww usaye, unrest usomee sister mungu na watu watakuerewa😢😢
@rirt82392 күн бұрын
@monicahnjoroge5075 your parents choice should not be necessarily your choice
@rirt82392 күн бұрын
@monicahnjoroge5075 I can still be outside convention and living my life
@gathonidemary4472Күн бұрын
Mna accommodate wapi...coz ya mwenye ametoka mbali
@PriscillaGathoni-xc2fvКүн бұрын
Nimejaribu kuelewa nimeshindwa,yaani she doesn't like children at all,she cannot attend to a baby,in short she doesnt have maternal instincts eniwes her choice her life,my choice is to be a mother,hers is not to and we are all right