lmao😂 bliss you for this laugh

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I'd say u found a n*gga way to explain what he is saying to average people.

“Never explain yourself to anyone, because the one who likes you would not need it, and the one dislikes you wouldn’t believe it.” - Ali ibn Abi Talib

he basically said "don't slunk out broke ass homeboy"

what is my name

😂😂..too funny.. but true.

@@greatman5836 you don't know your name?

@@realheckertrustmebro he lost his name 😂😂😂

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Maybe you don’t have the right people in your life

That is about trust , my friend .

Ever think you are the problem? Ofcourse not 😂😂😂

@@mick20075 not me , I’m a saint !

@@harryleighton7500 Ofcourse you are mr delusional 😂😂😂

Said the man that actually had a man stand right next to him. The guy woukd whisper in the Emperor's ear, "you are just a man." He did this while watching the gladiators fight, executions, etc.

@@kevinelrod323 Have you read anything on him or just throwing out gibberish because he was a Roman Emperor which clearly makes him a bad person or whatever people want to say. He didn't enjoy the gladiator fights, he talks about how he cannot comprehend why people enjoy such things. They called him a bore because he was more worried about the empire than the fights. He said in his meditations how he could not understand why a gladiator would want to go back into the ring when clearly already injured. I'm pretty sure he changed the fights also so they weren't using deadly weapons. Imagine thinking that having a mentor is terrible. Don't Surgeons have mentors when they're in residency? So we should not have attending surgeons stand right next to residents to guide them during surgery, we should just let them learn it with no guidance. What a stupid idea. Looks to me like you need someone to whisper in your ear.

@@467076 I know who he was (according to historians) & I read all of 6 lines of your verbal diarrhea. In those words I saw all I needed to see. You are NOT the type of person that should EVER say anything about someone elae talking out of their ass or how'd you put it, oh yeah, gibberish. Maybe you should read a bit more about him? Ever consider that or are you the typical know it all Democrap that can't find your ass with both hands & someone telling you where it is?

@@kevinelrod323 A major historical world leader had a person whose job it was to keep him humble and this somehow registers as bad to you?

@@sunkintree No not at all. Quite the opposite actually. It makes me think a couple different things. ANY man that had the power that Aurelius had & for him to have a common man to whisper in his ear to remind him not to get the big head & think he is something or someone more than a man is incredible & telling of how our minds can get out of control if we aren't very careful. Mike Tyson did an interview a year or so ago & he said, “Sometimes I get in my head and think I'm somebody and I'm easily offended. When I remember I'm nobody I could never be offended."

good summary

@@leekuan4728 Thank you 😊 🙏

You’re the sort of person I’d like to be friends with. Not too many critical thinkers around nowadays, it’s becoming a lost art…

Perfect 👌🏼

@@RevealedFilms Appreciate brother 🙏

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It’s exhausting with a person that never has a solution

@@Sterban. every solution is a compromise and it brings a problem.

@@goldberg1174 no action is a compromise, only that way gets NOTHING done.

Very

I know early what you mean. Most times we take such complains to our significant others. At least that's what I do ;but do t know if it's right or wrong I mean ethically speaking)

It’s completely understandable but it’s a bad habit. It just makes you relive your bad feelings and also makes the listener feel bad. It is ok to talk about problems you have though and ask for advice on how to deal with those problems in a constructive way.

OP that's where therapy comes in. Tbh, most people don't really want to hear people's problems.... especially when they have their own. A therapist on the other hand is paid to listen, (without judgement) and help with solutions

Getting a therapist was the best thing I ever did.

@@lauraashley1 👍👍👍

Beautiful. I stop complaining before 10 years ago

Wrong its giving abusive people aka bullies aka toxic people what they want if you complain and don't complain 😂😂 it encourages them and can even change yourself to become heartless like them

​@@mick20075RIGHT

If we were “always in charge” we’d all get to choose to be born & choose to die, instead we’re forced to be born & forced to die (even with suicide, since most take that route when they don’t feel like they have anymore choices or options). The ones who repress themselves & suffer in silence because they don’t want to “complain” & “be a victim” accomplish what exactly?incurable cancers, high blood pressures & heart problems etc. But hey at least they didn’t complain, & they’re not victims & they’re so “in charge” that they will beat their health issues with the same mentality that caused them.

@@judigemini178 is not about that, it's how you deal with them. Complaining is not a healthy way of dealing with life, that's what actually can bring all those ailments you're mentioning. So the idea is to switch how you look at life, hence how you deal with it. As the saying goes "it's all perspective". You should try it, your comment itself have a complaining tone.​

Without an explanation or communication, doing something can result in a bad reaction and downhill scenarios.

Some things don't need communicated.

Yeah we definitely have to explain stuff sometimes haha. But if you’re doing something that doesn’t require the input of others, there’s no need to explain and explaining becomes a kind of way to drain energy from people (like complaining) by forcing them to imagine your fantasies with you

This clip is really just him quoting his own book "Mastery"

Do any other animals love?

Coming from a politician of any stripe that's some kind of joke or insult.

People in certain jobs in corporate environments and stuff tend to do well when compliment and support the leadership. Even if you fake it it might be worth it if you stay in the job because just acting like you are happy and upbeat will rub off and you a little bit and they will probably support you more and give you a raise and put you in management someday just because they think that you like them. You're disposable to them but they can also be disposable to you but it's best for everyone to either actually get along or at least pretend to... some will say you are so loud but when you're buying their dinner you can tell them to suck it

Shhhh don't expose heartless people 😂😂

There's nothing you get from explaining to others that you don't already get from explaining to yourself

Only to wise people in your life that look at things from other angles and give you good advice that you actually follow. Other than that, think to yourself and act.

Agree it's a bit tongue-in-cheek but explaining a concept and explaining (re: justifying) your actions are different things.

NOT TRUE SOME ISSUES NEED TO BE ADDRESSED AND SOME SITUATIONS NEED TO EXPLAINED

@@estherkeeling777 Justifying your actions to seek external validation, and demanding (or providing) a justification when a boundary has been crossed for the sake of conflict resolution are, again, not the same thing. His point wasn't that you should never explain anything to anyone, but that you shouldn't freely offer an explanation of your choices to everyone you meet.

​@@MlgChickenSaucecasting your pearls before swine and all that

Not even the same thing he is talking about

Agree! ❤

He reads hundreds of books for like 16 hours a day for the whole year just to write a book. Ofcourse, he has an incredible work ethic.

Yours, i like!!! But complaining and explaining are the air that i breathe ..

If you are heartless and totally misunderstand people then yes

@@mick20075 and yet you seem set on misunderstanding everyone here

It’s just reality plus the never complaining thing is for the man’s benefit, no matter how much you want society to care about men in that way they won’t other men won’t care and neither will women. Trust me nobody likes a whiny complaining man it’s down right atrocious complain in your head then ask yourself why you’re complaining to yourself it’s what works for me.

​​@@supawithdacream5626then yall the problem 😂 being heartless doesnt help it only encourages skum like the toxicity today 👍🏻

@@mick20075 yea we are

@@supawithdacream5626 nobody would be loved by everybody, I just want to find my tribe; I won’t if I’m not my true self. It’s about whining I’m grateful! It’s not seeing the world through opposition, being negative… or positive. Instead just being human, being both. Light and darkness. It depends on what you consider happiness, I guess !! 😅 I’m not a scholar, it’s just my opinion 🙏🏾

@@malibubliss8153 "both light and darkness" I agree, the human experience is in constant strife but we find comfort in each other

Violet crawley?

Dude obviously if you’re on a team you’re going to be explaining things you’re one part of a whole this video is obviously not talking about that.

Too much

This reminds me of the DBT acronym DEAR MAN. It's essentially the same in terms of what it aims to address

its fault of those who mad ethat setup, no shock mount on the boom arm and the boom arm is touching the table...

This shit has me weak😂

he just tapped the table, and will not explain why

It's just bass 😅

Eh, I wouldn't say so. If you do it may be a bonus, but not necessary. If the other person wants to jump into his conclusions without knowing what is actually going on, but only guessing, then you don't need to do anything. He should just ask. Jumping to subjective conclusions (which are influenced by the feelings of one) is one of the most effective ways of ruining communication.