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@PolishIbexАй бұрын
Feel like if you can’t even say sorry when you know you are in the wrong , you gotta cool your ego a little bit.
@CommanderRichАй бұрын
His entire point went way over your head
@TTTreviewappАй бұрын
Maybe it's just to attract viewers
@skuxxkixkidАй бұрын
Yes if you’re in the wrong, if your girl just crying over leaving the toilet seat up, don’t say sorry, learn, put the toilet seat down next time. You know sometimes you’re just crazy busy and have things on your mind, and forget to put the toilet seat down. So don’t apologise.
@PolishIbexАй бұрын
@@CommanderRich I understand his point. I’m arguing that I think it’s sad that nowadays if you want to avoid being seen as “weak and submissive” , one of the requirements is you can’t apologize to anyone. That your ego takes precedence over being a human being and knowing when it’s appropriate to apologize. Anyone with a shred of maturity would appreciate an appropriate apology. I hold myself to being a traditional man and I think men need to be men again , but not apologizing doesn’t make you any less of a man, I think it makes you more like a stubborn kid. I agree with his other points but not when he makes the point to say “even when it’s justified” that’s the difference
@alexyancy601827 күн бұрын
Whatever you think this guy is about... it aint it
@dakotabrinson7872Ай бұрын
Was always taught it takes a real man to admit when they're wrong and apologize...it doesn't make you weak, saying sorry is just acknowledging your mistake.
@JoeFromSomewhere230314 күн бұрын
I was once told by a teacher "If you say you're sorry it means you want to not do it again. Are you going to do this again?". And I think about trying to not over say "I'm sorry". I agree with you it's important to say sorry when we've made a mistake but it can also feel like a get out jail free card if you don't actually hold yourself responsible. So I disagree with the guy about not saying sorry but I do agree with the parts about actually doing something to fix the problem.
@treasurevalleytrackside952714 күн бұрын
that is true. But the word sorry is not to be overused. I know dudes who say sorry in every sentence and sometimes I'll flat out tell them "stop saying sorry"
@Georgegie85Ай бұрын
There is nothing wrong with saying sorry, if you spend your entire life thinking of how other people sere you, youll be miserable your whole life, just do you and if you feel the need to say sorry, say it and move one, ffs.
@hyabusa22Ай бұрын
You’ve clearly never dated these over entitled humans. I mean women. One crack of weakness and you’ll wake up single and have no clue why. Never say sorry, I agree with David.
@markseabrook5279Ай бұрын
“Sorry” if offered with sincerity and good grace - is much more powerful. Revisit your behaviour too, by all means, and learn. But an unwillingness to use sorry is denial and weakness.
@santiagocabeza6990Ай бұрын
This is so goofy
@DJCrazy-ng3ytАй бұрын
So toxic to not apologize especially if you are in the wrong, especially when you are saying to wait for her to apologize..cold shoulder is not smart man ..man up and apologize when it is justified
@MorphianDAАй бұрын
Nothing about this is toxic. "Sorry" doesn't mean you've acknowledged your mistake nor see the other party's side of it.
@DJCrazy-ng3ytАй бұрын
@@MorphianDA saying ' never' apologize..never ...c'mon thats egotistical ridiculous..no one likes those ppl
@Digitalsurfer265Ай бұрын
It’s like this guy is allergic to being a husband lol
@KehindeShodehindeАй бұрын
Simp
@NG813Ай бұрын
Smart to do these things, but also smart to say sorry when it is warranted. Just don't abuse saying sorry, because then it has no meaning.
@powerralleyАй бұрын
Disagree with all this. It takes a real man to say sorry when he really messes up.
@sylvanusjohannes836528 күн бұрын
You are wrong. Real, attractive men have their unique ways of handling the situation. Sorry, is for weak, unattractive men who don't know how to deal with a woman. An unattractive man will be like "I am sorry babe, I forgot to take out the trash" An attractive man will be like "Babe, you know your man just forgot, let me handle it right now"
@GozuTobАй бұрын
Weak men are afraid to say sorry
@francescomaster861320 күн бұрын
For real seem like he cannot control his ego if girl act like him and dont say sorry when she wrong imma slap the 💩 out 😂
@ksl4688Ай бұрын
Saying sorry is good but the other person should feel that you really mean it.
@BardownClownКүн бұрын
This guy doesn’t know what being a man is, this guy is glazing romance skills he doesn’t have
@drmarctagon11 күн бұрын
Saying sorry is very manly and strong. Not weak at all unless you overuse it.
@seangallagher4331Ай бұрын
Disagree with 2 big time it's actually weak to not say sorry if you are wrong
@saeedal-naser959917 күн бұрын
Yep
@saeedal-naser959917 күн бұрын
It actually indicates that you're a conceited guy for no reason.
@thomasgriffiths5559 күн бұрын
“my nan just died” “good.”
@BodaciousWickerman14 күн бұрын
If you're British, it's impossible not to say sorry! Even for things which aren't your fault! 😂
@jme92685Ай бұрын
But what if it’s something like I accidentally bumped into someone or stepped on their foot?
@silverhetch338310 күн бұрын
JB featuring Howtobeast: Never say Sorry
@nora5401Ай бұрын
Nothing wrong in saying sorry, y'all overthink every shit
@tomcarrowАй бұрын
Nah. David is spot on with most of his advice, but if you’re wrong you apologize and change the behavior.
@howtobeastАй бұрын
agreed, see #2 -- its all about changing the behavior when you mess up
@michaelnaakАй бұрын
This is how the godless think.
@tmar8959Ай бұрын
Apologising is if you care whether you hurt or offended someone, regardless of how you feel about your error/ action. When I was younger I'd always make it 'it's a YOU problem that you're hurt, i didn't do anything wrong I disagree'. It's about that true empathy and regard for others' feelings and trying to improve.
@herculeeza19 күн бұрын
I don't know if I agree with this, I think it takes courage to say that you're sorry if you know that you are wrong. I don't agree that it diminishes you when it's justified. But agree that saying sorry when it's not your fault is weak
@Ech33zyАй бұрын
Hmmm, apparently it's hard to grasp the concept of "actually changing your behavior as your apology" Rather than outright saying that you're sorry because guess what.. "everyone is always sorry about something" And "everyone" likely fucks up again because they're more bent on saying their apologies rather than actually seeing their behavior and actually doing something about it to change it. Basically, all your sorries don't mean shit if you don't actually recognize your mishaps, shortcomings, etc. and do the real work of actually correcting yourself and being on point like the man you're supposed to be. Period!
@youtubeuser510218 күн бұрын
Hes kinda right guys. Sorry is so overused it has no meaning anymore.
@Walid.OnTheTrack672513 күн бұрын
the best sorry is don't do that shit again
@anthonygarcia41586 күн бұрын
Nope not toxic at all.
@Amdu5c22 күн бұрын
Apologizing is a personality trait for humble people. It's not a bad thing.
@dktvview7444Ай бұрын
Keep explaining bro😂 we know you have told her sorry multiple times😅
@LeviHalimiАй бұрын
What bro want
@howtobeastАй бұрын
Seems you missed the point brother
@mannie1980Ай бұрын
OOOOH he caught it smh 😂@@howtobeast
@vltron_playzАй бұрын
@@howtobeastHe did miss the point bro😂😂
@franklavilla3385Ай бұрын
@@howtobeast i have to say if someone did something very wrong and without a doubt it was wrong they should say sorry and apologise
@MeLovePizza471714 күн бұрын
It's okay to say sorry and if you're girl disrespects you for that then leave her and find a women who respects and appreciates what you do and say. But saying sorry too much is a completely different subject.
@Carmen8888828 күн бұрын
Rule number 1: say sorry when you mean it! It’ll cool everyone’s else’s nerves and make you look like the stronger person. The rest of this- correcting your behaviour, respecting peoples time, etc- should be taught to everyone first day of kindergarten!
@newyork397Ай бұрын
Nah, my step dad was always starting fights and was never wrong and never said sorry. Guess where that got him? He is all alone now.
@howtobeastАй бұрын
listen to #2
@dariuslloydАй бұрын
"Thank you for your patience" (running late) or "I appreciate that perspective and will do xyz going forward", language is powerful
@franklujan83049 күн бұрын
Me as masculine I would never say sorry to a woman never….
@abdelbarifahej277525 күн бұрын
Saying sorry isn't bad u know 🙂
@OpenWorldGamer-11 күн бұрын
powerful stuff thanks for this video
@raymondsoto675426 күн бұрын
its not always what you say but how you say it.
@javy-8129 күн бұрын
Make sure she says sorry but not you...😜😉👌
@jerryvelasquez9080Ай бұрын
bro you in a M5???
@TheOne-yq6qk26 күн бұрын
Is this lessons on how to be a narcissist or something? So now I have to act like the people I don’t like.
@NigerianBallerАй бұрын
I recently made my girlfriend upset, and I didn't actually say sorry, my exact words were "I apologize if I upset you, I was only trying to look out for your best interest, and now I realize it wasn't my place to overstep that boundary". You can still apologize and admit your wrong without actually saying sorry.
@ghost_of_a_dead_poetАй бұрын
The only time you shouldn't say sorry is the first situation.
@so_chan17Ай бұрын
Say thank you instead.
@adityamitruka9921Ай бұрын
He makes sense , for anyone disagreeing you all don’t understand human behaviour.
@eefmydee1slideways26 күн бұрын
Yep I can confirm that this works. I have been doing this for years and just now seeing this video. But I came to this conclusion differently. I got tired of people telling me sorry, I made a mistake. As I got older I realized that people do have more control over what they say and do. Sorry was an escape of responsibility and a band aid to maintain a relationship that was sub par. So I started sticking to my principles and if someone got mad at me for my values and beliefs I was never going to apologize. I had people chasing for my apology and I wouldn’t give it. When I flipped the script I was the bad guy and the unreasonable one. The most powerful thing that was stated here is that instead of apologizing, make the change that is needed. Saying sorry never gets you anywhere only change does. So yea……………don’t apologize but be sure that you have the power of true self reflection to admit when you are wrong.
@verynormalman27 күн бұрын
This is just game playing. Therefore every idea and action in this video is disrespectful. There is an undercurrent that your relationship is bad in the first place.
@GamersWorld-rs5fbАй бұрын
Lesson on becoming a shitty person
@R2D2arthurgeАй бұрын
Please someone go back to when they met , now fast forward to this videos , I know this videos are targeted to a certain audience , but I do miss his authenticity. I think “parenting” the next chapter on a men’s life is about to expire for him , but being so well , I don’t see the problem unless there’s more there that we don’t see . And you kinda tell what could be from the first video to when they met , to the proposal, to moving a lot . There’s something that isn’t fitting on the picture .
@RickoDeSea29 күн бұрын
I know this is true!!!
@ogshinobi1Ай бұрын
Thanks for the info brother. Lets stay Beastly!💪🏽
@EriPages22 күн бұрын
Julia got THICK!!
@vikingengca987820 күн бұрын
You’ve got an ego problem dude.
@dsgomz_20 күн бұрын
jus say sorry if u wrong stop talking about weak and submissive
@FacialFischlАй бұрын
My bad
@oscarpalacios719819 күн бұрын
Beautiful lady ❤
@DJCrazy-ng3ytАй бұрын
Stop living your life playing mind games with other ppl
@vagonstraponov62334 күн бұрын
sosorry
@TheDeadlyKnightАй бұрын
Pure gold. All women I’ve been w/, already do this, the refuse-to-ever-say-“sry” part. Not so much your other parts u mentioned. Your response is effective, I’ve learned. At worst I refuse to ever apologize to her/them.
@kevingreywolf6003Ай бұрын
Be better
@iambeezy1609Ай бұрын
Since I stopped saying sorry it has been doing wonders for me
@amoghshenoy6480Ай бұрын
David back with the shorts!!!! Waited for this for a long time
@TheodoreThomas-ob5spАй бұрын
Hey can you give advice on how to be successful and get rich
@Karla-mq8oi25 күн бұрын
Nonono. If you cant admit when something is your fault, apologize. It doesn't make you weak it shows that you actually give a crap that you did that wrong thing. This guy....smh. Please dont listen to this men. Really. As a woman, i hv a couple exes that never said they were sorry, and it made me feel like they didnt care about what they did. It just makes you lookije an asshole, honestly