Are you wanting to host it from your machine or a hosting service like CreeperHost/Apex/etc.?

@@kingofandrew2 from my pc, i tried port forwarding but my friend says its not working since its not discoverable on their cmd. and refuse to install the pack without testing it on their minecraft

There is a website that is called Port Checker that will show you if the port is open. If it shows port 25665 as closed then you will have to open it on your router. Another way to get around this is a mod called ESSENTIAL Mod by SparkUniverse_. Since Abe pack is Forge 1.19.2 make sure to get the right version(1.3.0.2) from Curseforge. Just note that the Essential Mod makes your world/computer the host so it will have to be running if you want your friend to join.

@@kingofandrew2 thank you, will try this