Surprising how a sober and poignant conversation like this is not attracting the same attention as the matope posts

This was quite informative. Thank you

good choice on Lawyer to handle the topic

Educational.

On the court and how they determine support, all factors held constant (I e assuming no corruption, no disappearance of files, no changes of judges every so often etc), what he says would make sense. However, are all factors 'held constant'? Before asking people to be honest, would the court process be foolproof? From where I sit and given our 'justice' system, it's not worth suing someone. Besides, life is not about money. It's about relationship. So what if the child gets 7k per month support but never has a relationship with the dad because the dad wants nothing to do with it? Court processes enforce laws at the expense of relationships. If there can be mediation outside anything to do with court, the better. Btw before you run to court, be informed that it's not as straightforward and smooth as it's made to sound in this discussion. It's lengthy, can take years, emotionally and financially draining. The people who will urge you to go to court will be nowhere to be found during the process. Be warned 🙂 Watch USA divorce courts, child support courts, a complete mess. Yet they are developed, sembuse Sisi?

I don’t understand how can can they say your the father and not any dna no birth certificate sign just her word of mouth she was sexing my son and his friend he never got any papers for court he has his own son and he can’t even take care the one he lives with he can’t barely pay his bills what shall he do

Most women have well paying jobs but want men to contribute so that they slay huko inge....

The lady in red is selfish

The thing is .. women should stop opening their legs to deadbeat men.. chose your partners wisely... It's so unfortunate that our women just go around procreating with irresponsible men