Stay safe guys 💙

"I found a new family that doesn't wanna tear me apart." The community is the family I never will have again. They accept me for who I am.

Me coming out as pansexual Friends: that’s so f*cking cool! Mum: I support you Dad: that’s cool Older brother: *keeps making pan and lesbian jokes* Younger brother: what the hell does that mean? Sister: I thought you were lesbian? That one Christian dude in my class: *SINNER!*

Me: *sees this song* Also me: HEADPHONES ACTIVATE

Can we all take a moment to appreciate how supportive this whole comments section is? I honestly love all of you and come read the comments whenever I’ve had a bad day.

I'm a lesbian....but I told them I was straight......I'm writing an essay for school...I'm going to base it on that

Sometimes you trust strangers more than your family and friends

My mom told me "the internet made you trans" and "you can't be trans because you never had boy interests" Me: has intense gender dysphoria, was always scared of expressing myself how I want, finally found community and people that understand me because of the internet

I came out as lesbian to my mom and she said "You're not lesbian. You're still young. You still have a lot to learn about yourself. When you get older you can decide that. And my final answer to that is you're not lesbian"

I'm bi and this touches my heart

I was low key hoping that at the end they would randomly shout “IM GAY” or “IM TRANS” or something

When my mum kicked me out for being queer I had no idea what to do I tried hiding that I "wasn't normal" my dad later took me in and he didn't know I was queer then I listened to this song it has helped me realise I can't hide who I really am from people 1 year later I have a loving girlfriend and a father who supports me unconditionally

Love when my parents are like, "we just need time" BITCH WE'RE RUNNING UP ON THREE YEARS AND YOU WON'T EVEN ACKNOWLEDGE IT. Luckily I have awesome friends and other family who love and accept me

In a lesbian but I haven't told anyone cause I'm to scared to Edit: thank you all for the support on here! And honestly I never thought that this would be seen😅. But I came out to my parents after coming out to my friends and later came out as non-binary! They all accepted me luckily. and again thank all of you for the support ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

Came out to my whole family... Sister - Okay with it. Brother - Okay with it. Father - Happy for me. Mother - ...It's a faze... ...Three out of four is better then nothing...^>^

Me: asks parents if they wanna hear a something funny Parents:Sure Me:ok let’s just say if I was I boy I would be straight Parents: start laughing and said we kinda already knew. Me: runs up to them and cry’s saying they’re the best!

-covers self with five blankets- -grabs tissue box- -hides in room- *time to cry.* -click-

I needed to hear this, my mom found out I was daiting a girl and started swearing and screaming at me...nothing is gonna ever be the same but I'm ok with that cause I love myself and who I am

My parent's are so homophobic, i don't think them hearing the words "mom, dad I'm lesbian" are going to be a good idea And it hurts that I can't be myself around then

Mother had a breakdown when I accidentally outed myself. Cried about how I can’t be Black and gay at the same time, it would be a “curse.” Father started screaming at me when I did it again (we were alone in a car), but this time I feared for my life and thought he was going to kick me in the middle of no where to find myself a way home. Equally ‘fun’ experiences that I will never forget. I love myself more than others expect. My parents may not accept but I have learned that I am most important in my life, and they can’t ever change the soul that is “Me.”

No one: Straight people: COMING OUT PRANKKKK ✨🤩💞💞💞

To the one person who disliked the video "who hurt you?!?1??"

It says "wishing you weren't as blue", but I'm wishing I was more blue (blue as in male) cuz I'm ftm lmfao

"washing my hands again" has a whole nother meaning in 2020

I’m trans and told that my parents a few months ago and they still see me as a girl and call me by my dead name :| And they just ignore me when I tell them to call me by my new name. They even told me „it’s just a phase“ and laughed at me, like how would they know how it feels like to be born in the wrong body.

My sister outed me to my mom when I wasn’t ready to come out. She says “You’re not really bisexual.” Which my sister denies ever happening because she wasn’t there in the room. I came out to my dad during the pandemic, he started crying because he couldn’t believe me. Like in a good way. I had been told by my mom to hate him, but when I came out he still loved me. He didn’t care as long as the person I dated loved me and I loved them. I’ve been out as bisexual at my dad’s house for 4 months and I recently got a pride flag for Christmas. Edit: They/It btw, I prefer masculine titles (king, prince, sir, etc.) :]

i started crying like 20 seconds in.

Hello, I made a little story that would go along with the lyrics to the song (I'm not very good at interpreting lyrics, so it may not be super good, but I wrote it for fun): Warning; it is very long "Front door, porch light," the main character, let call him Jake, is sitting on leaning on the railing to his porch. The sun is setting, and he looks like he's waiting for someone. He was planning on having his boyfriend come over, to help him come out to his parents. As he waits, he checks his texts. "Alone again blissfully" A text says that his boyfriend found out he's actually straight, and that he's sorry. He says that he would still come over if he wanted. Jake texts back that it's fine, that he could do it on his own. At he looks out into the now night sky, a single tear falls down his cheek. "Pacing, bedroom" Jake is pacing his bedroom holding a paper trying to review the best way to tell his parents. "Nothing but worn out dreams" He crumbles up the paper knowing its not good enough. He wanted to come to them, and he knew they loved him, he just had no idea if they were homophobic. "Told yourself it would be tonight - this time" He goes up to both his mom and dad. The TV is playing in the background. He tells them that he needed to tell them something. He was sweating. They don't look at all worried for him, the father glances at the TV behind Jake. It was showing the pride parade, and how happy everyone was to be in it. He hears his father mutter how they were all a bunch of hooligans. Jake stutters as he says "nevermind", then hides his face that begins to tear up as he walks up the stairs to his room. "look up, sky line, wishing you weren't as blue" Jake is now outside laying on the grass. he stares up into the sky, filled only with a few clouds. He squeezes his hand into a fist, tension building up inside him. "Falling, freedom - words that you've already said" Jake tried multiple times to muster up the courage to tell his parents. He only keeps backing down again. He tries to think of another way, but he can't. "I'm desperate, I'm lonely, I'm dying when I go to bed" He goes through severe depression. He lays on his bed, not knowing what to do with his life. He hates it, but he's too stubborn to end it. Jake recalls being bullied at school for simply being gay as he lays in his bed. He didn't under stand why everyone seemed to hate him. He even recalls his old boyfriend being one of the bullies. It's weird, the second you're "normal" everyone seems to like you better. Jake didn't hold it against his friend though, Jake new that his friend would be bullied too if he didn't suck up the other guys. Still, it tore Jake apart. "Waiting, breathless - trying to break out of this cage" Jake stands nervous, as he washes his hands after dinner. He forces himself to say it. Before he can say the key word. His father says "You're gay aren't you?" Then scolds him and tells him to stop being gay. With everything built up inside of him, Jake starts screaming at his parents, telling them that this was who he was, no matter what they did. His father gets even more angry, and for the first time, hits his own son. His mother only glares at her only son, with the most disapproving look. "Nothing's gonna be the same" After the incident, Jake never speaks to his parents again. He avoids eyes contact, but when he does look at them, he glares. He begins to make his own food, study on his own, and go out when he wants. Though they live together, they act as if each other don't exist. He hates his parents. Even now, his parents still hit him when they're angry about anything. "Whisper, quiet - nothings gonna be the same" Jake finally decides that he can't stand living there. In the middle of the night he packs all of the things he needs. He had met someone online, a boy named, Gabe. He had met him countless times in person, falling in love with each other. After explaining his situation, Gabe had offered for Jake to live with him and his parents. Jake jumps out his window, walking to the gas station near his own house, where Gabe said he would meet him, as Gabe lived far away. As he steps into the car, Jake knows that nothing will ever be the same in his life, but he was glad that he was finally going to be happy. Gabe's parents turn out to be very friendly people, and very supportive of their son. It was only a few weeks until Jake became 18, when he would legally be allowed to get his own house, so they didn't bother with adoption papers. The only reason he was going now, was because he knew his stubbornness wasn't going to last him two more days in that house, or in that town for that matter. He eventually does leave, and lives with Gabe. They both end up getting married, and loving each other their entire lives. Holy crap, this took forever to write.

Can we talk about how traumatizing coming out is? Being in the closet can be scary and icolating but even when you know they will be supportive it’s like your hearts getting ripped out

I came out to my mom as being bi... then I came out to my friends and they support me... I also started having feelings for my friend- I asked her out and she said yes... Then a while later she came out as transgender. We're still dating Edit: so um sorry guys he actually broke up with me a while ago and I forgot about this comment. He broke up with me in 2019. Anyway, no I am not pan. I am bisexual, thank you very much Edit: FTM, thank you

Everyone else saying what they are Me having absolutely no idea: I’m a person :)

I'm bi and this community is the best I could've asked for

I'm so scared to tell my mom...

My parents knew I was gay before I did. Everyone did actually XD

I came out to my family as nonbinary and pansexual, my dad doesn't really mind, my mum is obsessive over "not wanting a lesbian in the house" but my brother's first reaction was "iS *sHe* hAvInG a GiGgLe!?" He's 16...

"I found a new family that doesnt want to tear me apart" yep.. that hit hard.. the community is home..

TO ALL THE PEOPLE LIKE ME WHO CANT COME OUT TO FAMILY OR FREINDS BECAUSE THEY PHOBES KEEP FIGHTING, HANG IN THERE, YOURE FREE TO LOVE WHO YOU WANT AND BE WHAT AND WHO YOU WANT, AND YOURE ARE REALLY DAMNED LOVED

Came out to my close family and friends. Friends: ya do whatever. Just dont fall for me Best friend: im so happy for you Sister:two girls together is gross Mom: meh. Its a phase. Dad: dont date a girl ever. You dont want to sin Kinda hard when you only have your best friend...

I came out as trans around almost 2 years ago and I wish I heard this song before but I’m glad I did because this song makes me feel safe and makes my dysphoria quieter. So thank you for this amazing song! And to all those no matter who you are, you are loved just the way you are! Never change even if someone is forcing you to…you matter!

“Nothing’s gonna be the same” The crushing fear that the world around you will fall apart if you come out, because some numb, realistic part of you knows they will hate you

Came out as panromantic ace Dad- ok Sister- I really don’t care Mom- it’s a phase you don’t know what you are talking about. Moms still mad. Oh well

i’m balling my eyes out right now😭😭 having a homophobic family sucks

I'm pretty lucky because I always knew my family would accept me. Still, coming out was extremely scary, and this song catches this feeling so well. Thank you for that!

Can't this song be any more relatable? Hi, my name is Gabriela, and I'm a closeted lesbian, my family is super religious, me included, I'm not ashamed of myself but I don't fully accept myself... but I accept any other people who's from the LGBTQ •-•

i didn't plan on crying this much on freaking new years eve. i plan on coming out to my mom as bi today.

Questioning transgender but proud pansexual

I’m sitting here while my whole house is asleep listening to sad songs and this popped up and I released I haven’t watched this for a bit and that I love this song

This song made me feel so comfortable and understand, I told myself I was gonna do it and chickened out almost every time.

I'm pan and non-binary. This song really speaks to me. I found it really hard to tell my brother as he is homophobic. It took me a while. My friends were the first ones to know as they are all apart of LGBTQ+ family, even my straight friends accepted me. I did tell my brother. It's taking him a while but he is understanding. He actually slapped one of his mates for me because they were making fun of me. It just proves that everyone can change. Also who are the two people that dislikes this?

I'm proud and lucky to say my mom is bi (she's been dating a Trans guy since I was one) and she would support me no matter what. In her words "I don't care if you wanna be a purple dino. I would still love you" And I'm so glad for that. I hope all you beautiful people have someone like that in your life. Even if you feel like you don't you do! You love who you love! You be who you want to be! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. It's not thier choice to make! It's not effecting them with who you f*ck or who you wanna be! It effects YOU! You are bravest people I know. I know it takes a lot so you KEEP trucking though! So keep smiling, laughing and living your lifes the way you wanna. LGBTQ+ Pride I love you beautfuil people!

"its a phase!" "This is because of the people you hang out" "Your to young!" "You can't be gay if you've never dated a girl before" "I refuse for my son to be gay"

*In case anyone needs this daily reminder: Remember to breathe. You may not be or feel ok at the moment, but you will be. Remember that. So, for the time being, just take a minute to take a step back, relax and breathe. Please & thank you.* 😌💕

My family: finds out I’m non binary* My parents: iT dOnT exIsT My older sister: says she supports be but always dead names me and use the wrong pronouns* My younger sister: they only one uses the right pronouns and the right name even if she’s 8 and don’t fully understand

Man, dude this really hit me hard 😭 😭 Im trapped in a girls...body my parents made me go to a counselor instead of excepting me 😭 ( I didn’t realize how many people liked and responded to this)

I-i..I have no words for how hard this hit the feels

This video/ song means a lot to me. It holds so many memories and feelings. I keep finding it every few months

I came out as pansexual and non-binary and this song made me cry idk why 💕🏳️‍🌈😭

I was so depressed before I came out as bi but now im pretty sure im depressed again for not knowing my gender I told my mum I was transgender and I think she was trying to deny it why is life so hard AND I have to deal with having a HUGE crush on a girl in my class

2 Years ago I realized that the identity I've had for years was being Transgender. I found this song while being scared of coming out. Especially coming out to my conservative Father. I used to listen to this song a lot before I came out. I decided to write a letter to come out, because it would be easier than talking to him myself. Meanwhile I was listening to this song. My father did not accept me. After that I decided to move to my mother. Now 2 years after I have almost completely socially transitioned. This song has really helped me, I am grateful for everything. ❤

Me: chilling My friend: that lines not straight Me: impressive work, you found out lol

I’m transgender and I have yet to come out so I vibe to this song on bus.

My Mind in 2017:I am pan and non binary and gender fluid but mom and dad hates me My mind in 2019: mom and dad loves me like I am and I’m proud

I'm a trans male and I'm freaking scared to come out to my parents My sister is okay with it but I think she still hasn't realised it's real and it's not just a faze My friends I came out to totally support me I'm so lucky on this side...

Mostly Everyone: *Talking how their family reacted to Their Sexuality/Identity Me: *family does not know anything*

I've came our to my parents about being ftm but it's like they don't care. I feel terrible and I need to get a therapist so I can be diagnosed with gender dysphoria so I can get on t and I need a binder but they haven't even tried to use the correct pronouns

I'm trans-massiculine and non-binary and love girls my parents think I'm a lesbian they tell me you're a pretty girl and I hide in the bathroom and silently cry to myself cause I'm a boy

Guys, my entire life I thought I was just a straight ally, but recently there’s this girl I’ve been absolutely head over heels with and I don’t know what to do. Like it’s weird beca I know I’ve only ever felt this feeling for guys, but she’s so amazing…. What do I do?

awwwww all the different ppl sharing there stories got me almost crying. LOTS OF LOVE TO ALL Y'ALL -A Bisexual Lady

stop playing these games with my heart

I'm transgender and pansexual. I just told my mother I'm who I am and she can't change me even if she tried. I told her to give it her hardest shot but she seems quite fed up. Guys, if your parents say you have to change yourself or that you can't be this or that, just be your damn self. You are unique and beautiful any way you are. Beautifully made, different from the rest. Be you. Don't try to be someone you aren't. If you're gay, you're gay. If you're trans, you're trans!! BE WHO YOU ARE FAMMM

I came out to my mom (I’m Pansexual) a year ago.. she told me that it was fine. But yet when the conversation came up again she told me “You can tell me the definition of this *thing* but you’re not pansexual! You haven’t been through enough to understand what ‘sexuality’ even is!” I cried.

Am I the only one who made a playlist for this 1 song and pressed loop?

im transgender too. Im just nervous of telling my parents but ill tell thme soon enough

my mom: people in 5th or 6th grade cant say they are gay because they are just to young me being bi lesbian gay then pan and then confused all from 5th to 6th grade: nvm I dont have anything to tell you

I wish I didn’t come out to my mother today as bi she told me I’m not like that and kept telling me no

Sad part? People who have faced Homophobic People or live with them, often close themselves and trust those on the Internet, such as KZfaq Comments. It's great you have people supporting you, but hate when you can't find someone who supports you out of a phone and someone who isn't Miles away. Those who say, don't hide who you are, it's because of how terrified you can get, because of how harsh people can be, and sometimes, you just can't help but listen to them, so it get's to you and eats you alive. Later, yes you do find people but it's still upsetting that people who raised you instantly throw out the child they are supposed to take care of, love and cherish, but throw them out or disown them just because they are Gay, Lesbian, Pansexual, Asexual, Transgender, Genderfluid. Or, they'd full out say it's a Phase, or blame something you do or use, and maybe even use the damn fucking bible. It pisses me off when I hear such stories or see it in my own eyes, you birth them into the world only to ditch them over something that is clearly normal and valid, I don't believe in god or such, like I do believe he exists, but I don't believe he made such rules, I just think that he just you know, wanted to spice the world and created us. Certain rules such as murder and that, I can believe, but not being gay or such? Bullshit man, bull-fucking-shit. I have a Mom, who is still raised in such times to not support stuff, but she's trying her damned hardest to respect me while not fucking scolding me for being Genderfluid and Pansexual. At times, she loses it and then she breaks down apologizing, I understood though. She raised me to accept everyone, yet she can't do it but, at the same time she is. It's confusing, but still hard to handle when I have my bad days. It's hard, and fucked up to those who even do such as kicking them out for something so valid and normal, like fucking come one people? Now I'm ranting again, I do apologize but thank you for reading this all.

My significant other came out to me as trans. I still love her just the same as when she was he. We are together happily regardless of what gender she identifies with. ❤️

I came out before I was ready I had this sudden urge to get it off my chest at ten o’clock at night and texted two of my aunts and my grandmother and told them I was pansexual, I literally started regretting it immediately but it was to late to back down because they had read the message I had made gay jokes and dropped hints before but they all seemed a bit surprised and were supportive and I’m very thankful for that But word of advice, Don’t come out before your ready I almost had a panic attack

Me coming out as lesbian: My friends: omg we support you, and most of us are bi anyway- My mum: honestly, I really don't care, as long as you're happy I'll always support you My stepdad: I support you *proceeds to make jokes about it all the time* My siblings: wAhT-? My dad: eh okay, I support you (though he does treat me a bit different at times) My grandma and grandad: same as my mum and even buy me a pride flag My great grandma: doesn't know yet My classmates and teachers: 👏😃 I'm very glad that I have a supportive family. And my deepest condolences to you who don't, just remember you are supported here. Ily all 💜👑🌸

Honestly, my birthday is coming up in a couple of months and- to be honest, I'm gonna play a song like this at it and- tell them I'm a demi-girl. They might not.. agree. But I'll try.

I came out as Pan soon Agender Mom: Supportive Friends: Supportive Grandpa: Supportive Dad: ‘ITS A FAZE YOU ARE NOT BI’ those are his exact words for when I identified as Bi

I totally understand, I just came out to my adoptive parent. I came out being genderqueer and pansexual. Also great song!

"softer footsteps, pretending i don't feel a thing" that hit hard.

I listen to this every night before I go to sleep, and I’m just preparing for the worst and hoping for the best when I come out eventually

Nothing here ,Just a pan in a cupboard------....

My mother when I came out as bi “are you bisexual because it’s popular?”I was hurt when she said that,but I don’t really express my feelings so she couldn’t tell I don’t think she’d care either if she hurt me.

I came out to my mom 10 minutes ago and she said :,, These days everyone wants to be different“ and left...

I came out to my Bestfriends and what they said was Bsf: "Oh" 2nd: "oh.oh.well its ok" Idk whether thats good or bad 😐

I came out as non binary to my parents in early February,, they said two things that day; No” and “You’re depressed”. They booked me an apartment to get therapy the same day, although they did also buy me a £2 binder online. After a few weeks I confronted them about my situation and my mum shouted at me saying, “haven’t we done enough for you?” (Letting me cut my hair and buying me a cheap ass binder when talking about my pronouns) I had never felt so invalidated so I ran upstairs full breakdown in session,, until I made the biggest mistake of my life,, I haven’t brought anything up with them again and I probably never will,, no matter how much I want to purely because I don’t want to be hurt like that again,,

This is to the people that disliked this ... You don't know what it is like to feel like this to be stuck in your own head and you can't escape and feel like your not good enough. But we don't matter to you we are just monsters in your eyes and that's all we are to you.

I'm going to come out when I come home with my partner/girlfriend. We shouldn't have to come out in society and it quite frankly has always made me angry.

Why are strangers on the internet more supportive of me than my own family???

My coming out was like: "Me: I like boobs and I want to be called they/them and i'm a furry My parents: Ye we always knew, you are still the family disappointment" But i'm here-

Came out to my family and friends as agender, poly and bi: Young sis: okay with it Friends: okay with it Dad: Its a phase! Ur trying to change ! Stop changing urself Mum: Ur not being resonable be who u were born as and stop thinking differently! My parents are to controlling and they think they know meh when they dont and i tried to explain but they wont support meh..........

Dysphoria haunts my nights, sometimes I don't even sleep, I keep thinking if I'm truly who I am. Is it a phase? Is what I consistently ask. And as I look up into the sky, I'm reminded that my family would never accept me for who I am. I try to block these voices out and stay strong, I try so hard. I just want to be normal. Why can't I be born in a different body? This was what I consistently asked myself for months, years. But I found myself. For anyone who's struggling, hang on, in the end, it will be worth it. Everything is gonna be okay. Trust me.

I love this community, they’re all family and I love how they support everyone for who they are. I recently lost my friend and I’m not okay. I’m honestly just tired of never being able to have friends because I mess up.

I came out to my best friend and her only reaction was “Well duh.” Then she turned to our other friend who was sitting there and said “you owe me five bucks” I love them so much 😂

I told my mom, that I like girls, and she said, she don't mind that.. She said "Who cares, who you have by your side, if there's a soul, who makes you happy, than why is so important that it's a girl? You are my daughter and I love you, and all I want, is you to be happy, and I don't really care, if that one, who makes you is a girl or a boy" I have the best mom, I love her ❤❤

I've always listened to this before coming out but everyone in my family accepts me 100% and it feels so weird coming back because i didn't expect it to be no longer relatable lol

When you don't know if your moms homophobic or not so you just sit and observe 😃