Mother In Law Tries To Control Daughter In Law | Nijo Jonson

Mother In Law Tries To Control Daughter In Law | Nijo Jonson | Motivational Video

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If a woman wills to work, then no one should stop her. Be supportive and open-minded and let her take independent choices as she is an adult and can make her own living.
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@sanjaybhatt1203 Жыл бұрын

Hi sar

@seemabrahma6872 Жыл бұрын

Am also suffering this problem..Don't know how to get rid of this from my life

@sumbulnaz5180 8 ай бұрын

It happens with me too.. He can’t take stand for me even I have done love marriage with him but after marriage I realised I lost all d ways of happiness and smile due to my mother in law & sis in law controlling and manipulative nature.. My husband who used to love me a lot before marriage now hé don’t feels anything for me due to their constant manipulation, they always tried to to find my fault and bring me down before him.. I wish and pray meri shadi chal jaye, wherever I read this kind of comments or story I came to know their marriage ends soon.. Please pray for me meri chal jaye

@shwetarai9827 3 ай бұрын

this link is not working. Do you provide personal counseling as well?

@ShalinisharmaSharma123 3 ай бұрын

Help me sir/mam

@nikisharma1006 Жыл бұрын

It’s a miracle mother in law realising her mistake nd husband makin her realise .. 😅n reality this rarely happens

@ThejeshwiniRamesh Ай бұрын

Yeah

@Eastwindwards Ай бұрын

Exactly , I know right? Mother in laws with old fashion ideals, that are so deeply ingrained into their beliefs, can only “act sweet” for a few days, at best. I had to walk out. My mental health deteriorated so much in six “insult laden” weeks. She was a petulant pariah. 30 years later, she is 86, totally defeated and deflated. She never managed to get her claws into me. We live away from them. When the time comes and they need help, THEIR own daughter can care for them. They financially exploited me for 30 years.. but that’s another story 😒

@sindhikaarigari Жыл бұрын

I recently got divorced because of same situations... That daughter-in-laws are nothing but just house maids. I suffered this mentality in 21st century for 4 yrs... And finally left the house... But that husband never helped me liked the husband in this video. That man instead divorced me rather than to hire a maid 💔 I loved him but now I don't have a single penny regret of leaving him. To make a marriage work is not only woman's responsibility, man is equally responsible to maintain the dignity of the relationship.

@mona9096 Жыл бұрын

I also want divorce but dar lagta hai

@sindhikaarigari Жыл бұрын

@@mona9096 if your life and health is at risk, be brave. May God always bless you.

@deadshotjet3476 Жыл бұрын

@@mona9096 agar aap ke saath aap ke gharwale aur husband achche nahi rehte tho mere hisab se alag hona chahiye baad mai bahot pachtana padhta hai mai apn personal experience bata rahi hu

@priya-jk Жыл бұрын

Stay strong

@Satisfying_vidzz Жыл бұрын

Right

@surmit100 Жыл бұрын

It happens only in shows not realities. In laws never apologise or nor even try to understand opposite side's feelings.

@shradhashrivastava322 Жыл бұрын

Very true

@rishikachakrabartty1210 Жыл бұрын

So true....even my inlaws are very cruel

@infinitetheinfinity5241 Жыл бұрын

Correct, inlaws dont want to hear anything except their own decisions

@User74125 Жыл бұрын

True

@keshabkaflay9075 Жыл бұрын

That is the point of the story!

@sapna_creation1 Жыл бұрын

It's very important for girls and women to become independent and break the chain of patriarchy. We need to help each other in rising 😊😊

@mishapillai9414 Жыл бұрын

Yes. Women should support each other

@gopalhatwal7245 Жыл бұрын

apaki bhabhi bhi yahi bol rahi thi ki bhabhi ka Ghar nhi basne deti Inki bhudi maa aur sadiual sa bhudha baap pada rehta hai bhabhi n bhabhi ki chhati par.. marte bhi dono bhudha

@monikabarbie7453 Жыл бұрын

Aurat ki dushman aurat hi hoti h

@Anonomus007 Жыл бұрын

@@monikabarbie7453 aapke sath shadi ke bad agr ye sb hua to😂

@annsgal2025 Жыл бұрын

The mother-in-laws apology stemmed from selfish motivations, and was opportunistic. If I was the daughter-in-law, I would have filed for divorce because the MIL is an evil bitch at heart.

@somprabharajpoot4617 Жыл бұрын

Thankfully this husband took a stand for his wife but in reality, even the husbands are mumma’s boy and spoil their marriages. It happened with me and many others. Hope such videos may bring changes in the society.

@yc_8088 Жыл бұрын

Right

@anarkalimamta3448 Жыл бұрын

Very true

@tribikramdas2181 Жыл бұрын

Am I at liberty to call my wife papa's girl because if she always talks about our personal lives to her father? Unfortunately, you will call me misogynist.

@poornimac3127 Жыл бұрын

Right as u said in real life husband's r maamas boys knodding head they won't open there mouth it goes to such a level that they r even forced to divorce and re marriage also then only they realize same thing is repeating with her also that time they will stand 4 it why don't they do this before only because of them two girl families has to suffer and most of them end there life by taking wrong decisions

@tribikramdas2181 Жыл бұрын

@@poornimac3127 So you started assuming all boys are mamas' boys for which divorce are happening. Well do you know in India divorce rate is less than 1%? And brutal truth that when husband of a woman will say that her parents are interfering in their personal lives, mostly wife's mother, then wife will pack all her belongings and simply will go to her parental home. In such situation, woman will like you call that husband misogynist because he said that her mother is interfering too much. This is what exactly happened with my maternal uncle. My mother is fed up with such type of feminism. She tells me real woman are those who are rani laxmi bai, amitra pritam fought for independence. This is what my mother tells me that these women are real feminists. Stop presuming boys are mamma's boys and dowry seeker otherwise woman will call me as well as boys as misogynist if we say that girls are gold diggers and treat boys as an ATM machine.

@anjaninandibhotla8877 Жыл бұрын

Here the husband understood what his mom is doing..but mostly it doesn't happen like that.. every one feels that their moms are right and tend to control the wife along with mil. Hopefully this video brings changes in peoples lives.

@vaijayantideshpande5189 Жыл бұрын

Mother in law realised her mistake only when she had to do all house hold work 🤣

@NPPREMA Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@indiangirl001 Жыл бұрын

Exactly.. The hypocrisy

@pranayabannoth1578 Жыл бұрын

Haha bas shows mei hota hei... real mei nahi hoti

@prasansa1961 Жыл бұрын

Then why are u laughing it is a serious matter 🙄🙄🙄😐😐

@kanikachawla7197 Жыл бұрын

Well said

@lostboy1190 Жыл бұрын

The prominent problem of Indian Parenting is that they enter into their children's marriage life 24×7 hours. In this way, one can never be independent and can never learn the proper way of living. So, just let them live their life and live your own life freely. If their son/daughter are happy with their spouse, then let them be in a pure harmony state.

@Akashsingh-xj6td Жыл бұрын

Agar itni permission dedi in laws ne to yahi bahu fijul kharcha karegi.. Aur jab apka beta uski jarurate puri nhi kar payega to fir ladai aur extra marital affairs.. This is bitter truth why people don't want to accept this

@anweshabhatta5951 Жыл бұрын

@@Akashsingh-xj6td Hr insan extra kharcha nhi krta bohot sari bat aurte hi ghr ka saving krti hai apko nhi pta aur ha inlaws samjhaye advice de finances ko lekr to thik hai pr aise hitler bnkr mere hisab se hi chlna pdega ye bohot glt bat hai aur ha ye bat ap kbhi nhi smjhoge kyuki ap ldke ho apko khi to jna nhi hai

@aijazfatima1234 Жыл бұрын

True

@ANJALI-hs6bb Жыл бұрын

@@Akashsingh-xj6td ajkal ladkiyan bhi job karti h bhai aur bhot se husbands ko to problem hi nhi h apni wife pe paise kharch karne me kyunki wo dikhana chahte h ki wo unko kitna khush rakh rhe h yahan tak ki mene dekha hai bhot se logo ko apni wife ko zabardasti mehngi chizey lene bolte h taaki unka standard na gire. Fizul kharchi ki itni chinta h to wife bhi kaam karle wo phir apne paise apni zarurat ke liye use kar payegi to husband ko bhi problem nhi hogi lekin nhi inhe to problem h bhot badi wali ek to chahenge ki hi-fi bahu ho aur paisa kharch hoga to usme bhi rona h

@madhavprasad3824 Жыл бұрын

I am struggling same to manage my mom listen to my sister at the same time my wife listen to her mother they both allowing outside people to interfere with their life's.

@aryanverma6143 Жыл бұрын

This is reality and that is the reason for the most of the divorces. Care is good but controlling someone life is worst.

@dharmawatieautar6857 Жыл бұрын

You are right. The lady married the son not the mother in law.

@jerryandme Жыл бұрын

So true. And it is mama's boys who usually have divorces.

@wowser2153 Ай бұрын

@@dharmawatieautar6857soon they will have a child . Daughter in law will go back to work and mother in law will be free house maid

@simaranmahajan681 Жыл бұрын

All mother's in law are like this only. Mine doesn't allow me to go and meet my parents. They refuse to let us enjoy our basic human rights. Everything we do, they hate. Her son cannot give her a grandchild, so she is taking spites on me. I hope God never forgives her for this.

@priyannanoeline1483 Жыл бұрын

Please don't generalize. Not all mothers in law are bad. Some are really good and caring. My mom in law is so loving and caring. She loves me just like her own daughter and she treats me the same way she treats her sons.

@PoojaVaidya1111 Жыл бұрын

@@priyannanoeline1483 good for u. Aisi log hardly 5% hai india mai

@madhavprasad3824 Жыл бұрын

Sorry for your situation one should not behave like that but at the same time you do self analysis for the reason they are behaving like it because maybe you are allowing your mother so much by any chance. I know you feel bad by listening that your mom case but in most cases Indian girls unknowingly listen to her mother which is definitely not good. Like you expect that husband should have own decision and independece you should also maintain limit with your parents. You should not expect in one way that husband family should not interfere but it's ok your parents and siblings interfere. It is the main reason why so many marriage is in trouble today.

@md.suhail8181 Жыл бұрын

Yeah I think bride and groom should live themselves .....not with parents.......the groom is not living with his father/mother in law

@ishika1818 9 ай бұрын

Can you leave sis ?

@naomilazar4765 Жыл бұрын

The moment he said he cannot say no to his mother...she should have asked who she is marrying and walked off.

@kashish9285 Жыл бұрын

Momma’s boys are a curse to marriages 😒

@Jenny_Mitter Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@rad4217 Жыл бұрын

Aren't you overreacting he seems a nice guy atleast he took a stand for her and agreed to help her financially as well it's just that he respects his mother and I don't think it's wrong you are just overreacting

@sakshi2366 Жыл бұрын

@@rad4217 it's not overreacting, imagine if a girl's family demand that the boy leaves his job & sit at home & the wife will take care of their financial expenses. Career & job is not just for money, it's for independence too. And by the video, they (husband,wife) have already talked about job.

@ashwinmiyer6159 Жыл бұрын

@@sakshi2366 boys have the exact opposite pressure from society, in laws of men often taunt them for not earning much.

@sujalkapiswe6829 Жыл бұрын

Best move by the daughter-in-law👏👏, the happiness which we saw in the last part is possible only when people understand that they bring their daughter-in-law in house, not an all-time free maid

@luckyreddy360 Жыл бұрын

Thank you bro for understanding womens

@sakshibagga3771 Жыл бұрын

They want DILs to do full time job and be their slave all the time.

@johnparbhu5128 6 ай бұрын

Spend so much time getting educated & mother in law, shut down ur life after that!! Can't risk that with a girl in the West!!! Anyway, the M I L could be employed too!!

@wowser2153 Ай бұрын

@@luckyreddy360soon the mother in law will be the free house maid

@saritareddydonthi1432 Жыл бұрын

They not only control , but also get her shamed. Abused and also evicted ! They trap you with motherhood as a vulnerable condition! They take away everything from you !

@kiki__-ch2em 12 сағат бұрын

This happened to me indirectly. My father in law refused to pay his grandchildren’s school fees even though my husband worked for him. All my money went to the school . I was penniless for 17 years. Now I stay away from them. They are elderly and need a carer. I stay away. Let them suffer. Let them spend the money that I subsidised on their business ( about £100,000 over 17 years) on a nursemaid, cook, cleaner, gardner and whatever other service they surely expected of me! I am getting a lot of hostility from their daughter because she has to care for them. I DON’T CARE. My husband agrees with me that it was wrong to financially abuse me over the years but says it was out of his control. He has no balls when it comes to his parents, so I grew some balls instead. I’m not going to care for my abusers who didn’t give a fuck about my poor quality of life due to having no money. They did ZERO for me. I have no security apart from my parent’s inheritance, and they are trying to get their greedy fingers on that too!😒

@shafishafi339 Жыл бұрын

from South to North the mentality of most of the mother in laws are like this. very few exception.

@harikakota9329 Жыл бұрын

In most of the cases mother in law and sister in law will spoil the home....they will create so much nonsense and daughter in law will suffer

@mona9096 Жыл бұрын

In my case my brother in law .

@pinkyrajput2607 Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@elsa2885 9 ай бұрын

Hence get a separate house .

@ashliey59 8 ай бұрын

Yesss and if the victim bahu reacts she's demonized as a home breaker or tagged as a trouble maker.

@ArkritiRana 2 ай бұрын

@@ashliey59😢

@gaurika1000 Жыл бұрын

The way the mil says- join back your job. As if the job was waiting for her. She would again have to start job hunting and may be start from a lower salary because she is out of a job & has lost her bargaining power . Its difficult to live with such dominating people .

@nabanita26 Жыл бұрын

Couples need to have an independent separate household, and parents need to be mentally prepared for it before the marriage.

@Satisfying_vidzz Жыл бұрын

Right

@akshaymundkur Жыл бұрын

@@nishabojammma8268 I am not sure if I can agree. Trust me. Living together with in-laws does breed resentment in the long run. A newly wed couple prefers to live life on their own terms and build a life together. It is better to let them do exactly that.

@monikabarbie7453 Жыл бұрын

This is india ...uha aisi soch bnane me abhi hazaro saal lg jayege

@Soumyameghani Жыл бұрын

Really ? Your parents raised you most of your life And you won't do anything for them How selfish could you be You can make adjustments with your parents as well as your partner's parents Leaving your parents alone on their own is the worst thing to do

@SAM-NITP Жыл бұрын

@@Soumyameghani aggreed

@jinendra.jain1588 Жыл бұрын

It happens only on screen, not in real life. Nobody changes and realises own mistakes so soon. It's Harsh truth of real life.

@NirajSingh-ym4yi Жыл бұрын

Atleast in this story the mother in law and husband understand the lady's pain bt in reality no one even try to understand....they believe in making us proof wrong.

@sangeetakulkarni8770 Жыл бұрын

It's difficult to live with a husband who is a Mama's boy.

@tribikramdas2181 Жыл бұрын

It's also difficult to live with a wife who is a papa's girl.

@tribikramdas2181 Жыл бұрын

@@deepthyhemanth Once a papa ki pari is always a papa ki pari !! until her father dies her husband will have no justice. Sounds misogynist right. Don't forget your statements is completely misandrist.

@farhat517 Жыл бұрын

@@tribikramdas2181 papa ki pariya sirf apne ghar me pari hoti hai,, apke ghr aake waise bhi usko naukrani bana diya jata hai, but muma's boy ka kya .?? Naha ke khud ka towel tak jagha pe rakh nhi pate due to mother's pampering...

@riya8924 Жыл бұрын

@@tribikramdas2181 Papa's girl do not stay at her house. She leaves her home and adjust in yours after marriage. Not the same !

@tribikramdas2181 Жыл бұрын

@@riya8924 So according to same logic, a man also tolerates a stranger woman who will come to live with him permanently. He will have to buy properties in order to get respected by society for which they will say that it is duty of man to maintain his wife. You know the problem of men is that we don't create ruckus in society when we have abusive wife.

@misbahpathan4968 Жыл бұрын

In videos, in the end everything comes back to normalcy.. They even realise their mistake. But, in reality, nothing sort of thing happen.. They just feel this as their priority.. Husband's support also matters, not all husband are like this.

@wg3951 Жыл бұрын

They don’t care and have zero realization.

@wowser2153 Ай бұрын

@@wg3951this was a love marriage, so husband was understanding

@priyannanoeline1483 Жыл бұрын

I am very lucky that I have got an amazing mother in law ❤️ She is caring, supportive and open minded.

@srushtichavan19 Жыл бұрын

same here dea 🥰

@subhashjha8689 Жыл бұрын

@@srushtichavan19 ⁵,

@pranayabannoth1578 Жыл бұрын

Lucky u r

@jagrutibhat1384 Жыл бұрын

@@pranayabannoth1578 you got but not every daughter in law gets such good mother in law even me n my mom had got evil torturing husband n torturing mother in law 👊😡👊

@pranayabannoth1578 Жыл бұрын

@@jagrutibhat1384 may i know you?

@Purvihdave Жыл бұрын

I still feel she wanted her back because there was so much work and she couldn't do all by herself !! Every mother in law wants only a unpaid maid for their family and son!! Nothing more!!

@vijrever2770 2 ай бұрын

Yeah husband realized mom is old and is not a wife. And mom realized that she is getting old and can fool daughter in law by talking sweet and making her do all the household work anyway.

@wowser2153 Ай бұрын

@@vijrever2770soon daughter in law will produce a child and go back to work and mother in law will be treated like free house maid

@vijrever2770 Ай бұрын

@@wowser2153 not this mil. She is smart enough to escape. That’s why her son got his wife back because his mom won’t cook even for him. They want the wife as a maid.

@wowser2153 Ай бұрын

@@vijrever2770 but in the end they showed daughter in law goes to work and mother in law serving food 😀

@vijrever2770 Ай бұрын

@@wowser2153 that’s bad too. I didn’t notice that. Replacing one woman slave for another. Why does anyone have to serve food. The man can also do some cooking after work or employ a maid helper or at least wash vessels. Anyway this is all fake and life goes through cycles.

@jayalakshmikonatala7031 Жыл бұрын

But all daughter in law cannot leave the house they are dependent and face it daily..... adjustment in the name of love

@Doggo491 Жыл бұрын

let husband also adjust its love right

@jagrutibhat1384 Жыл бұрын

@@Doggo491 this 😡😡bloody husbands just torture harads their wives bloody monsters👹

@ss-qv6un Жыл бұрын

I guess you are that type of MIL too or mostly a lady who suffered the same that you think it's normal

@bts_fiction653 Жыл бұрын

No one should interfere between couples not even parents

@sudharaman4405 Жыл бұрын

Thank God finally 👍if every mother-in-law understand the feelings of daughter-in-law then there will be no problem at all. 🙏🙏

@simranahuja. Жыл бұрын

The most irritating thing is why do women themselves want to downgrade other woman? Like Its sad your mother in law tortured you or women in your family never experienced freedom. Why do you want your daughter in law to go through the same?

@poonamshinde9597 Жыл бұрын

They are reflecting back their own traumas on to others

@wowser2153 Ай бұрын

@@poonamshinde9597because when bahu goes to work the mother in law will be treated as free house maid

@dianalayne4803 Жыл бұрын

He should have been able to stand up for his wife and not let her be treated that way by his mom we all must adjust at one point it another

@merlynmenezes_0106 Жыл бұрын

Very good move by the daughter in law to get the mother in law to her senses...

@banupriyar4173 Жыл бұрын

Leaving away Is a right choice.this is what the punishment for these kind of people.

@nitin9625 Жыл бұрын

In India mothers in law are so dominating.. Especially the mother of the groom, over involvement of parents ruin the life of their kids. Every time they think they are right. I myself faced all this and finally my married life suffered a lot and it ended within 2 years. I believe live and let live. sorry if I hurt anybody's sentiment.

@elizabethsamuel2894 Жыл бұрын

At least this husband spoke up for his wife.mines never does; I just sit and suffer all these years

@elizabethjoyce6982 Жыл бұрын

Same here

@neham5100 Жыл бұрын

Same here

@happysam8268 Жыл бұрын

Same here

@coolcoogi Жыл бұрын

Same here

@ishika1818 9 ай бұрын

SISTERS, PLEASE LEAVE. Men like this we all just hate

@lay6745 Жыл бұрын

Parents should learn to be independent and teach children to be independent. Children should help parents too depending on situation. Raise children with love and proper discipline and be a role model to your own children.

@shrutijain2019 Жыл бұрын

Itne supportive and understanding husbands are rare to find

@calcotitus Жыл бұрын

Yeah right! How many mothers in law understand their daughters in law? This happens only in movies but not in reality!! Daughters in law will always have that pain in their heart till their last breath, that they left their own families to come to an indifferent environment where she is always made to feel like an outsider.

@ishika1818 9 ай бұрын

when our generation eill become kother in law, they will understand. And i think there arw mother in law out there who do understand. They love their daughter in laws so much. Mother ib laws who are toxic just does not want to change or had no education on how to deal with their daughter in laws who is another human being. Or they are simply kuttis.

@jb9201 2 ай бұрын

All it takes is respect and humanity for someone to feel valued

@moila04 10 ай бұрын

If the mother in law treats ger daughter in law as her iwn daughter and us loving towards her, it us natural for the daughter to have a positive energy abd relationship and give that back. Respecting each other goes both ways. After marriage, both partners should keep close connections to both sides of the family.

@tarjinderkaur5437 Жыл бұрын

My husband is also mumma's boy she always interfere in our talkings and life as well we can't even give time to each other that's why there are a lot of problems which I have to face She is such a greedy lady but never show to anyone and don't like my parents she always have problem from my every side and find the way by which we can get upset from each other never helps me in house chores but always show to Everyone that she is much tired by doing everything I tolerate all this only for my baby and my family but can't talk to anyone and that's my Life 24*7 work work and work and then listen listen and listen though I m ill dead or whatever

@gsonikarahul6377 Жыл бұрын

I can understand this

@syedaadeebafatima6666 Жыл бұрын

It's not that easy to make people realise their faults.. And if a girl leaves the husband's home this way, she'd better kiss him goodbye. Because this will surely lead to the end of the marriage. They won't realise it's their fault that she left the house. Instead they'll blame it all on her. She wasn't given proper upbringing, she's not worth it, whatnot. Things will get even worse. The husband that didn't take a stand for her in the first place, what makes you think he'll stand up for her when she's gone. Leaving will give the in laws more of an opportunity to brainwash the husband against the wife. Which will eventually lead to divorce, I guess. Whatever happens after, doesn't matter because the damage has been done.

@meghabansal3224 Жыл бұрын

I hate all those people who tries to control other's life

@hello-xf5ow Жыл бұрын

NO GIRL SHOULD EVER LEAVE HOME AFTER MARRIAGE WHY GIRLS AND WHY NOT BOYS SHOULD LEAVE?? IF WE ARE EQUAL

@neham5100 Жыл бұрын

This does not happen in real life.. in real life husband would say.. if u r leaving then don’t ever come back.. stay at ur parents house itself..

@durdananaqvi8606 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely right

@Priyanka-sl8hs Ай бұрын

Everyone said he's mama's boy😂idts guys Look at how he confronted her🔥sceeeene! He's the man Poor guy, he loved her so much n missed her too

@here2hear90 8 ай бұрын

This man stood for her..but same men never stand

@anushahegde9774 8 ай бұрын

Sometimes I feel it is better to get married later in life by love marriage,or after reaching a deeper analysis of your spouse and their family through lots of meetings and pre marriage counseling,even intercaste or inter religious marriage is not a problem.Rather than sacrificing your self respect,your financial independence,rather than marrying a stranger or emotionally manipulative person or a flirt or a Mamas boy who is over pampered and then regretting it your whole life,it is better to proceed very carefully when getting married.Even staying single is a better option rather than staying in a constantly toxic and abusive marriage.Marraige is supposed to make you happy,bring out the best in both spouses otherwise it is more like a forced compromise

@jumanahuzefa Жыл бұрын

Wish you had made this video 18 yrs back! It's like my story, I was pushed to the extent of taking my own life... Alhamdulillah I'm much better now.

@muskankhan74063 Жыл бұрын

Now ur mother in law is alive❓

@UmaJaiswalArtist 10 ай бұрын

what you did sister so everything got better ritenow i m suffering from all these

@ishika1818 9 ай бұрын

@@UmaJaiswalArtistSister, if you married your husbanf because you both loved each other. It is okay. But if you re husband is normal that these things are happening, your husband does not respect you and love you the way he should. Leave him behind and move on with life. I know when it is a marriage, it is hard and especially if you are not financially stable or even due to attachment. but trust me, leaving that man is the best thing you can do to set YOUR life free. YOUR LIFE , YOU matter. Stop sacrificing your entire life for a husband who does not give a shit about you.

@user-yg2uy8bc8q 9 ай бұрын

That mother understood because she had the ability and the intellect to realize that at least later on, but most people do not have that ability

@mrsrana5314 Жыл бұрын

God bless you for this video U teach us how to tackle this type of situation.

@roshmiray674 Жыл бұрын

This is one of the best 💯👍 short film tht I have ever seen... Keep it up guys..... And keep uploading short films like this... Every mother in laws should watch this kind of short films and learn something from these films...

@priyadamor5683 Жыл бұрын

I really don't understand that why can't elders can't apologize if they did wrong...if you have done mistake you have to apologise.. Even if you are a child or an elder person..

@sakshikochar3000 Жыл бұрын

Because we show this to our children

@priyannanoeline1483 Жыл бұрын

True that. Once my aunt told me sorry for something and I told her to not say sorry because it doesn't look good but she told me that there is nothing wrong in apologizing if they have done a mistake even if they are older to us.

@priyadamor5683 Жыл бұрын

@@priyannanoeline1483 Really happy with what ur aunt did.. Mistake is a mistake..whosoever does it.. U shouldn't feel ashamed accepting your mistakes and apologising for that..

@user-ok6oi1hi4f 6 ай бұрын

Thank god he realise his mistake and told his mother.and support her wife every wife is not lucky like her😢

@balajirs9171 6 ай бұрын

Well done Daughter in law 💯👌👍

@kamexa29 Жыл бұрын

Real life me aisa koi nahi samjta. This is Real story bt half only.

@preran67492 Жыл бұрын

Some time realisation is must But kuch logo ko apni galti pata hokar bhi realize na karna chahte balki they want us to manage them

@suriyakala3393 10 ай бұрын

Mother in law is always a mother in law.. I don't understand why do they behave badly with daughter in laws. They also once daughter in law na? I have a boy and I am very conscious I should not repeat the same to my daughter in law in future.. they need privacy and should be ready to support whenever they required. Need to leave my ego.. that's it😊❤

@theultimateflawless779 Жыл бұрын

Bharati is Phenomenally Pretty, exceptionally cutie pie & fabulously Brilliant Actor🤗🤗😍😍🧚🏻‍♀️👑

@kashish9285 Жыл бұрын

actually even the MIL is really pretty :)

@theultimateflawless779 Жыл бұрын

@@kashish9285 MIL? who's ??

@beachybird246 Жыл бұрын

This was quite a nice story👌👌👌

@nijojonsons Жыл бұрын

Thanks! Means a lot.

@vishaldeshmukh9265 Жыл бұрын

Nice act .. and very helpful. Thank you 😊

@tushar_k. Жыл бұрын

The quality content of this channel is top notch 👍🏼

@mitalipusti5028 Жыл бұрын

The same story was going on in my life and don't know how it's going to be end.

@mathsworld8812 Жыл бұрын

I know a lady who has faced the same .She is now taking meds for mental health.

@sanalp.k4681 Жыл бұрын

Wow..Here the person....The son..put the question beautifully... Ys..if this stand is taken... marriage is saved...

@esakkirajamoopanar6289 Жыл бұрын

Nice video 💪 🙏 with great messages. This vedio must be shown to oversmartness and Arrogant Mother-in - Laws who mistreat their daughter-in- Laws for their own selfish by snatching freedom and controlling like TV remote control everytime . Never make daughter-in-law life heal as she comes to husband's house with expect of getting Care , love ❤ , Happiness 😊 and stability from husband and their family 👪 members by leaving behind the lovely parents and siblings. If anyone tries to destroy the freedom , husband must stand up for wife or wife shoud stand up for husband find a positive steps to make life stable and throw away ego from relationships. Keep going NIJO!!🙂

@CARaviShankar-bf4in Жыл бұрын

Ur entire concept of happy ending makes video creepy at the end.

@anushap4626 Жыл бұрын

In real life its very rare

@farhanashabbir6565 Жыл бұрын

Everything in this video is correct except one thing "saas itni jaldi nhi sudharti"🤣🤣🤣🤣

@saritareddydonthi1432 Жыл бұрын

Good that this mil understood her mistakes .. There are few who are ready to take your liabilities but will never understand your limitations… They dig problems for themselves and for their son and his wife too … Try to manipulate even her kids too … Like My Children are always my Children and .. your Children are my Grand Children … That is called Narcissistic Inlaws .. They even try to humiliate you and also try to malign your character…. Solution … Build Boundaries and Break Barriers ….🇮🇳🙏🌎

@aakanshasaxena5247 Жыл бұрын

Kash hr ldka ya hr husband shdi k bd itnaa hi supportive ho jya understanding ho jya apni wife ko smjha uska sth de to married life m ya ghr m koi problem hi na ho fr age sh m hatss off to this guy...jb usna apni wife k ly khud stand liya mummy k saamna 👍👍

@mvvkb Жыл бұрын

It never happens in Indian society. In laws never apologize and husband never take a stand for his wife

@shashicanth7285 Жыл бұрын

Amazing story and great message 👍🙏🏼

@amritasingchd Жыл бұрын

Nijo always come with good things , thoughts regularly watching your video . Thanks Nijo and his team love from Chandigarh

@nijojonsons Жыл бұрын

It’s always nice to get good feedback from you guys. 🥰

@amritasingchd Жыл бұрын

@@nijojonsons ☺️☺️☺️☺️

@jagrutibhat1384 Жыл бұрын

@@nijojonsons l hope your these videos help to change this Indian Society this 😡😡bloody monster men n their monster family

@faridakhan3687 Жыл бұрын

It doesn't matter how slow you go What matters is how long you don't stop..!!

@vijayalakshmikarthik3503 Жыл бұрын

All your stories r eye openers.....👏👏

@nijojonsons Жыл бұрын

Means a lot.

@anushka5746 Жыл бұрын

Ek aurat he aurat ki dushman haii aj ke time main 🙂

@reemapadhan5660 10 ай бұрын

Beautiful video... Respect women

@deepikarai9646 Жыл бұрын

Meri mother in law bhi eaisi he h.. dekh k rona aa gya apne luck pr. Bt afsos ki baat ye h ki ess story m banda sahi h.. bt mere too husband bhi apni mummy ki he baat ko sahi mantey h.

@aafreenjh6420 Жыл бұрын

Mere saath b yehi scene hai. Bas apne gharwale,behan bhanji bhatija...inhi me deewana rehna. Khud ki beti se b koi khaas lagaav nhi.

@Hussain- Жыл бұрын

My husband still can’t support me after 17 years of marriage in front of his controlling mom and sisters 😢

@sneharamachandran5730 Жыл бұрын

So sad I feel for you 😢

@Luna-jd3wo Жыл бұрын

Me too😒😒

@ishika1818 9 ай бұрын

It's sad😢

@mswr3351 6 ай бұрын

Bach gayi me aaise marriage se 🥲

@kiki__-ch2em 11 күн бұрын

They will affect your mental health 😢

@PihuNagwanshi1MOfficial Жыл бұрын

Moral of the story - yaha saas mafi mangne k liye taiyar hai .. Lekin Reality of the story - saas direct divorce dilwa kar beta ka dusri shadi krwane k liye ready krwa deti hai 😔😔😔 So ladkiya kya kre ? Any answer

@indianbyheart705 Жыл бұрын

great move by DIL. perfect solution

@beenupandey9728 Жыл бұрын

The simplest thing needed to be understood by everyone that girls don't born to only marry and take care of all household but she is also a human like men. Even after studying well, establishing career, they are questioned negatively if they are not good cook. Even if they are abused by someone in in-laws, they are expected to adjust and forget as mother in law explains how she adjusted after all insults she faced so so this is nothing and should move on. ... Girl after being pampered and loved by her parents see such kind of life and husband also cant take stand as he is also brought up same Way. A girl should choose a partner very very carefully and should meet the guy family as well.

@sakshibagga3771 Жыл бұрын

But its hard to judge the family before marriage..they always act sweet before marriage and will say "ise hum apni beto bnakar rkhenge".

@piyushsomani5018 Жыл бұрын

सास की पुंगी बज गई थी अकेले काम करते करते... इसलिए उसने बहू को वापस घर बुला लिया 😃😃😃

@kainatsharif1402 Жыл бұрын

These types of MIL never understand that they aren't only destroy their DIL lives but also their sons' lives too

@HardeepKaur-zg1jh Жыл бұрын

Mostly real life Mai yahi hota h this is a nice story'

@shamalamanivannan6662 9 ай бұрын

They only realise it when actions are taken, otherwise the women are completely taken advantage of.

@shobham5997 Жыл бұрын

This climax will never happen in this real life

@rachnarawat9916 Жыл бұрын

Right it's not so easy to everyone log pagal bna ke chod dete hai tb b unko chain nhi milta

@jagrutibhat1384 Жыл бұрын

@@rachnarawat9916 sab rakshas hai saale Madarchod Ladke hi kyu krte saale hum Ladkiyon ki zindagi barbaad kar ne ke liye 😡saali Saas Saala Sasur Sare Rakshas hai 😡

@arunatolani Жыл бұрын

He could have taken a balanced way . Though he promised his mom not to help her financially but he could have helped her from behind.

@pearl411 Жыл бұрын

that still doesnt solve the problem..his mom should underher fault..how long will this going behind back last?

@gargisamadar3549 Жыл бұрын

Very nice video.Powerful message

@sharenowthen39 Жыл бұрын

Good men really support women consistently

@tomegoestic1255 Жыл бұрын

Ho gaya vai kisi ke sath.... believe me my mother's friend is like that ...her daughter in law left her house, filed divorce with the amount of 13 lakh rupees bass khatam kahani....yah sab ekdam divorce pe aake khatam hota ha bhai....😎😎😎

@Akashsingh-xj6td Жыл бұрын

Jab itni hi achhi hai to divorce pr 13 lakh kyu... Bina paise liye chali jati.. Bas in ladkiyo ko paisa chahiye.. Is video me bhai ki padhai.. N real life me pati k paise pr aish

@tomegoestic1255 Жыл бұрын

@@Akashsingh-xj6td ara yar isme me kya karu....???

@akhandbharat0481 Жыл бұрын

@@Akashsingh-xj6td पति पत्नी का पैसा अलग अलग होता है क्या , पति पत्नी का वजूद अलग अलग होता है क्या , दो जिस्म एक जान होते है ना

@sumansamee5652 Жыл бұрын

In islam every bride has the right to have her own household and is supposed to be queen. But it's so unfortunate we follow our society more than our faith.

@hariniakula2272 3 ай бұрын

Good message

@shrividyachellam64 Жыл бұрын

Nice video. The lady who played the Mother in law looks very good.

@sneharamachandran5730 Жыл бұрын

I would have never forgiven if my mil would have done it

@yashgole6245 Жыл бұрын

Ye loagonki purani soch kaab badalegi

@kruttikahegde8284 9 ай бұрын

such things happen when a woman sees another woman as her enemy... it's high time that we stood up for each other :)

@archigupta1636 Жыл бұрын

It's truth...I am also suffering with this.

@faridakhan3687 Жыл бұрын

Struggle makes a man strong, No matter how weak he is..!!

@rishabhchatterjee1706 Жыл бұрын

Ironically when videos of the same pattern were being uploaded, the views were skyrocketing but when this channel has started producing some quality content, the views just aren't going up 🍗