RULES FOR THE TALKING STAGE 😳🤔

Рет қаралды 117,631

Жыл бұрын

Пікірлер: 116

@EthanMyatt Жыл бұрын

For the boys, don’t try skipping this stage I only got humbled by this girl and we had to start from square one. Now I’m competing with another guy all cuz I tried to skip it

@mr.lonely4321 9 ай бұрын

Bro this is actually really helping like i skipped this stage and then boom me and her broke up

@leoniexo5627 9 ай бұрын

How’s it going?

@MichelleEstrada 9 ай бұрын

👏🫶

@SaadboutabssilMohammed 8 ай бұрын

Competing with another dude for a girl ? Bruh you need help

@xx7spiffy7xx27 8 ай бұрын

Never compete bro. Your not some choice. Back out and move on

@vandala9756 8 ай бұрын

If a girls is interested, she will spend time with you. If she make you wait, it's mean she talking to 5 other guys and your just an option to her

@blueridgeocean 8 ай бұрын

You're right, and she will be able to tell if you are talking to other girls as well. Definitely dont get clingy, and dont ghost her. Just have different options.

@danicaharley6273 Ай бұрын

We're all looking for out best option before we commit

@iiheartemma3447 7 ай бұрын

i gave it 7 months because i was madly in love with this man and were together now and ive never been happier

@Zippy_YT1 3 ай бұрын

I don’t get talking stages as a whole. Ask them out or don’t. I’ll personally never be with someone who wants a talking stage first

@nighttimedepression2803 Жыл бұрын

I disagree with the month, if you’re serious about dating to marry then it can very well take months

@imaniscript6323 Жыл бұрын

Really?

@kalliraab Жыл бұрын

I agree

@trevorsimpler3727 Жыл бұрын

Fac

@jabbaweezy Жыл бұрын

A month and a half tops.

@amvso2.0backup82 Жыл бұрын

Someone can be serious but want to take things slow

@valentine444 Жыл бұрын

please do more dating advice!!

@cortm2009 Жыл бұрын

Yeah, we need more!

@makenahluvsu Жыл бұрын

Yessss

@NikiPatton Жыл бұрын

OMG YAY OK SEND ME QUESTIONS

@valentine444 Жыл бұрын

@@NikiPatton what should i do if this guy has a gf? 🤔

@allaboutemma6068 Жыл бұрын

@@NikiPatton ooooo can I do middle school crushes

@Astruline 5 ай бұрын

Bro why is this shi so difficult in this age 😭

@ashlay 7 ай бұрын

Honestly, especially since I am on the younger side, the talking stage is fine and me and my man have talked about it. It’s less pressure but we both know we like each other.

@longbeach562idk3 Жыл бұрын

Tbh For me if I’m talking to a girl I have to get to know her real deep meaning i got to know who she is a as persons how she put her self out there.

@rixnana Жыл бұрын

how do u do that? like how do you bring it up?

@amvso2.0backup82 Жыл бұрын

@@rixnana can’t speak for him but I’m guessing through the questions you ask, through how she presents herself when she’s alone with you compared to when she’s with you and her friends are there or when she’s just with her friends and I think through the way she wants to be treated and how she treats others

@xynezal Ай бұрын

Currently in one, im so scared bruh😭😭 pls help

@FlashyEditz_SUB 27 күн бұрын

same 😭

@Valentineisme 2 ай бұрын

Me and my crushes talking stage was 1 week which is pretty good

@theobroscinema1499 9 ай бұрын

From a dude who has trust issues from being laughed at all through elementary, jr high, and the past 3, starting 4, years of high school, I’m going to need to see from afar before I decide if I a) trust her as a friend and b) like her. There have been 2 girls that have caught my eye and that was because they made an effort to make sure everyone was involved in the friend group.

@MegantheOne23 4 ай бұрын

Me and my guy are pretty much dating but we just say we’re talking because his parents are strict about dating. We’ve already kissed, I talk to him everyday, we say I love you and we hug every time we say bye.

@what-should-i-call-this3231 Жыл бұрын

I still can’t get out of the friken taking stage 😭

@camiwamie 5 ай бұрын

how do i handle getting cheated on? i’m really struggling rn.

@rittsincanada7391 8 ай бұрын

Can you pls explain the stages? I mean a lot of ppl don’t even know if there are any stages when we start dating initially or getting to know someone. I am one of them. 😅

@Mia_8822 Жыл бұрын

Okay I need to know this because I’ve heard both responses to this, does the talking stage mean you both like each other

@queensha616 Жыл бұрын

Yes

@OnNth 10 ай бұрын

I want 3 months talking stage personally

@iqrahussain6010 7 ай бұрын

mine is 2 months for now, i feel it takes a while to build a serious connection if i'm looking for something long term

@diamondtheif4007 7 ай бұрын

@@iqrahussain6010What if a guy came up to you after meeting you 4 days prior for a date? Is that something you take, that is if you like the guy of course.

@iqrahussain6010 6 ай бұрын

@@diamondtheif4007 yeah probably, though i'd prefer the date to be something quite chill; involving a hobby we both like and having the time to get to talk and know each other better

@Yourlocalwerido. 3 ай бұрын

Fr like I need time to build trust and connection

@DevilFrog61 7 ай бұрын

She’s got the crazy eyes…..that’s enough right there for me, honestly

@lifedeather Ай бұрын

Thumbnail is that stalker girl meme

@6lu5ky86 10 ай бұрын

Respect!

@Loni_sounds_better 5 күн бұрын

💀i be holding that talking stage for 5 months until the guy decides to give up 😭✋🏽Am I the problem?

@EmmaRAERAE-qq2kf 6 ай бұрын

Her: it can’t take longer than a month Also him just existing: GERMAN

@ninadee9753 Жыл бұрын

This was actually so helpful

@nottacobelRubi 7 ай бұрын

I NEED MORE

@nobody-dy1di 9 ай бұрын

How do you know your in the talking stage

@NotBamaUser9383 9 ай бұрын

What if ur 11 and the talking sTagw goes on for more than a month?

@pinkylodha4966 7 ай бұрын

Talking to multiple people when you are not committed is actually okay. If you are committed, then sorry no

@leiajones852 7 ай бұрын

I’m committed and I tried to talk to another guy just to keep my options open or whatever. But I felt bad the whole time lmao. And the other guy I don’t really like tbh. I need help. 😭

@toucheCS2 5 ай бұрын

@@leiajones852Then you’re not committed? Loyalty isn’t hard, what do you need help with

@leiajones852 5 ай бұрын

@@toucheCS2 I was talking about I needed help bc I’m fucked up for doing that lmao but anyways that whole fiasco is over. It was my first time talking to someone so yk you live and learn as you go. Imma just be real I was being an attention whore and I’m aware of that.

@cadyblueeeee 8 ай бұрын

We’ve been talking 3 days, he’s asked me out already, I think I like him but it’s long distance and I don’t know do I’m read yet what do I do???

@magdalenarobles459 5 ай бұрын

I’m in the same situation 😭😭😭

@AbigailClark2023 4 ай бұрын

Me watching this video after going thru the talking stage: 😐😐😐😐

@TheyLuvSamantha01 4 ай бұрын

My boyfriend prob took less then a day to fall in love with me aka my first day cuz 2 weeks ago I was new to a new school then a couple days before Valentine’s Day he asked me to be his valentine and 2 days ago he asked me if I can be with girlfriend soo

@user-zg7sl8vk6h 7 ай бұрын

Y’all ima go talk to my crush more info soon Ok I did he was silent and walked away I don’t think he cared😢 He came up to me today and said he likes meeee 😊 He asked me to be his gf today!!! I remembered I can’t date until 8th grade😮 Skrew it I’m saying yessss🎉 I did and now we are together🤭 I have to tell my bsf!!! I guess she liked him too… She got mad and told everyone I’m scared she will tell my sister since they are friends to😰 She didn’t yet but she told me we will only last a week I want to prove her 😑 Ok I have to break up with him right? Well I liked him since last YEAR!!! I have to or I will be grounded for life 😢 Ok my bsf told me he kissed another girl 😭 I broke up with him and I feel much better about myself now 👁️👅👁️

@MelinaNym 6 ай бұрын

Like my friend asked if my crush liked me and he said maybe, what does that mean??

@sethrayne8076 Жыл бұрын

no one will ever manage to talk me out of something more than straights giving advice on straight dating, like i don’t even need it but thanks for the encouragement to keep being better ig

@Voruki 5 ай бұрын

Whomp whomp

@Emma-vq2gl Жыл бұрын

His red flag is that he eats pancakes and bacon together

@JAkE_e_34 6 ай бұрын

I've been dating my girlfriend for over a week she hugs me talks to me and we talk over the weekends a lot what stage is that

@IHeardARum0r_08 Жыл бұрын

Hii! I have a small request (I’m sorry if you don’t them) but can you do “how to tell if they like you” but without communication? (like you guys to talk, text, etc)

@ulama7828 Жыл бұрын

are u a male or female? cuz its different on context. but typically you will know because they make it obvious.

@JayDawg42 Ай бұрын

She broke up with me

@TheyLuvEms 8 ай бұрын

My bf skipped the talking stage and just straight up asked me and now our convos are like so akward

@leiajones852 7 ай бұрын

Lmao this why it shouldn’t be skipped. The talking stage is for you to get to know each other but also get comfortable around each other. 😂

@TheyLuvEms 7 ай бұрын

@@leiajones852 it’s been a month and now we’re comfortable tlwking

@diamondtheif4007 7 ай бұрын

Wait he just asked you to be his gf ? I've never heard of that before

@leiajones852 7 ай бұрын

@@diamondtheif4007 I used to think that’s how dating went when I was younger ngl lmao

@TheyLuvEms 7 ай бұрын

BAHAHHA WE BROKE UP I HAVE ANEW BF BOW

@nonenone6884 6 ай бұрын

Okay talking stage. Dating. What's the difference

@Let_The_Foolish_Take_The_Lead Ай бұрын

Avoid women like this guys, they're not relationship material.

@j.a.n.i.e.5152 6 ай бұрын

He thinks I’m dating him and I don’t think I’m dating him because he never ask me to be his girlfriend but he always call me his girlfriend so idk what type of situation I’m in rn can anyone help me?

@metsfanatic6270 4 ай бұрын

A month? Too long.

@woomedyesh7430 Жыл бұрын

And now after 2 weeks of constant texting he is ignoring me. Idk why, idk if he lied about having a girlfriend but i know he knows a lot of girls and possibly im just another option for him. He is barely replying to me now. Idk why. Idk if i should just tell him that im cutting him off

@sadmarker8285 11 ай бұрын

Yeah a girl did this to me and it sucks

@Immanuel218 Жыл бұрын

So you need questions umm ik you are probably gonna say If they are not interested then don't bother but I really need to pull them back how do spark that connection again like keep it alive in the talking stage because I find my self really trying and they just don't give me all the focus

@Livvyyyy13 Жыл бұрын

We’ve been talking for 7 years 😭😭😭 But I mean I would rather that then picking the wrong person tbh Edit: also he is kinda my besties enemy but like he knows that we like each other but still teases me in a funny kinda way but his friends sometime take it a bit far

@aaronbabcock8499 Жыл бұрын

Your a tool!

@lilpluto1718 Жыл бұрын

men are not going to date your or take you serious, if you choose to not show girlfriend like perks.

@zachpijanowski 10 ай бұрын

This may be some of the worst advice I’ve ever heard

@alishaa7825 Жыл бұрын

But im not allowed to date, but we're talking sooo

@chrishammon14 8 ай бұрын

dont show the dude effort hes gona just use you as a side piece. horrible advice. women dont understand men at all.

@leiajones852 7 ай бұрын

Give me advice please? I’m a woman btw what should I do?

@chrishammon14 7 ай бұрын

this woman has no idea what she is talking about. If you like a man put in the effort and let him know you like him. it puts all the cards in his hand. If he doesnt want you, you will find out really quick after that. @@leiajones852

@xyzzXeau 5 ай бұрын

your life must be miserable af to generalise half the world's population