Hey, I know what you are going through is hard. Trust me you are not alone on this. Listen, anybody that does not believe the Bible and calls themself a Christian, It's like an oxymoron. Try to continue being patient, but let me tell you something, God gives the Holy spirit to those who obey him. Because people who really believe.... they want to seek to actually do the word of God. Acts 5:32 KJV 32 And we are his witnesses of these things; and so is also the Holy Ghost, whom God hath given to them that obey him.👈🏻 You cannot expect your wife to be on the same level as you in knowledge of God's word instantly as you probably already know. Sometimes it takes the conviction of the holy spirit to make her realize that she may be headed to hell. Also understand God may be testing you as well.....to see your temperance and patience in this trial etc. You can talk to me about it if you want and I can tell you the things I have learned. I have bult a ton of knowledge on this exact subject. I have lived these verses, just like you are living them now.

Keep being the best husband and father you can during this trial. God helps his children. As much as we wish that a spouse would always do the right thing, they are just as imperfect as we are. I'll pray for you.

My wife was very similar. I had no choice but to stand my ground as the authority when challenged for it.(in a non violent manner) and never forced her to do anything. I still remained loving but solid. Even though I realized she would probably leave me over it. Later on God let me know that I was right for that. He told me that a man who doesn’t take authority over his home will someday be judged as a coward. God actually told me to take the kids and leave her, I hesitated because of how serious God is about marriage, so she kidnapped the kids and God walked me through it and now I have sole custody. I don’t know your situation and don’t wanna instruct you. So I will say pray and ask God what to do. Trust and follow whatever he tells you weather its what you desire or not. I’m gonna pray for you as well. I’m hoping you guy’s can work it out because divorce really sucks for everyone

@@user-vo5zb4iw1v thank you brother. I really appreciate your message and your prayers. I feel like this is an epidemic in the world today that many aren’t talking about.

I had a similar situation that didn't end well. It left the kids confused. I caved out of frustration. I will pray for you. Be strong without being aggressive. Speak the truth in a loving way. Pray for your wife and your children. Keep doing the right thing.

He said Esther had no office .. but she was a queen .. he had many mistakes

@@sayedesam2042 First cast the beam out of your own eye, then you can see clearly to remove the speck from another's.

It is great that God opened your eyes to the design and purpose behind the order God has set forth. God is the ultimate intelligence..

He said Esther had no office .. but she was a queen .. he had many mistakes

But a monarchy is a form of government. During the age of Monarchs, there were priestly orders, and there was never a woman priest. Nothing wrong with women having leadership roles in the Government or political spaces. However, this has nothing to do with their roles in the Church.

Esther's office also had no authority and had to get approval by the king to decree things.

Ok so, Keep in mind, that Adam was not deceived but Eve being deceived was in the transgression. It matters.

This might help you. Eve was to submit to the authority given to Adam, because he was her husband...not to all men. Scripture says that women are not meant to be in authority over men or teach men in the church. The letters of Paul to the various churches were all about how Christians were supposed to relate to each other as Christians and in the church. These roles of authority and submission are all about relationship within the body of Christ, the church. A Christian woman should absolutely NOT be in submission to an ungodly man, unless the relationship dictates otherwise. For example submitting to her Dad or employer. But even in those roles, the woman should NOT submit to ungodly practices. Hope that helps! God bless.

God loves men

@@heathersnyder8789 God loves women just as much as men, but He has given them different roles. Just like God the Father, God the Son and God the Holy Spirit have different roles and authority. God loves everyone who turns to Him, but hates those who choose to remain evil. "For you are not a God who delights in wickedness; evil may not dwell with you. The boastful shall not stand before your eyes; you hate all evildoers. You destroy those who speak lies; the LORD abhors the bloodthirsty and deceitful man." - Psalm 5:4-6

Well that might depend on your understanding of the trinity. For example , most will say that God is 1 but he is 3 distinct persons. I disagree with this view, My view (which would be considered heretical by many) Is that God is 1 who has manifested himself to us in 3 ways. I have found that there is actually more scripture to support my view than that God is 3 separate persons. God is one being, with one mind, one character and one personality. revealed in 3 forms or ways. God is a spirit.

Oh you got him with one example 😂

@@irenetv1776 so is Esther .. he said she didn't hold office.. but she was a queen .. you want more ?

@@sayedesam2042 Esther's power was derived from the King of Persia. He could have had her killed!

He submitted for her prophecy? No he didn't, please provide the scripture which says "he submitted for her prophecy?

@@irenetv1776 No, not quite.

Shellystone, there was nothing deceptive in what he said. He never commented on who was given the command first not to eat from the forbidden tree. His comments were on who did indeed eat first from it, which was Eve. Secondly, after they ate from the forbidden tree, God said to Eve, “I will greatly multiply your sorrow and your conception; In pain you shall bring forth children; Your desire shall be for your husband, and he shall rule over you.” Pretty clear.

Hi, no it’s not that clear. Read the Bible. God actually blamed the serpent because he said because you have Done this But he punished Adam and Eve also And Adam bore the greater sin because by him alone death entered in Third if you understood, Hebrew, you would know that the text does not say that he will rule over you. The text says that you shall turn to him because you will be unsure of yourself.

And try reading Genesis again, and try not to miss the part where when God created Adam and Eve he gave them joint dominion they rule jointly in a partnership like a husband, a wife supposed to when it says the husband is the head that means that you were joined together. The two bodies become one, and you make decisions together as if one head.

@@shellystone3211 I would suggest you read Genesis again, and try not to miss the part where God said to Eve, "I will greatly multiply your sorrow and your conception; In pain you shall bring forth children; Your desire shall be for your husband, And HE SHALL RULE OVER YOU.” Genesis 3:16.

I would suggest read it in Hebrew, because that is not what it says it translates as you will turn to your husband for advice because you will be unsure of yourself. when Jesus came he undid the curses from the garden of Eden and Eve was forgiven, so get over it the devil hates women God Loves his daughters, and you can’t change God’s words when he said he gave them joint rule First the two become one flesh means you have one head that means you work together and make decisions together

Esther's office had no authority. Her requests were only granted at the pleasure of the King. Huldah's prophecy was wisely attended to and enforced by the authority of King Josiah. Deborah wouldn't lead the men into battle on her own because it was the role of the male General, Barak. Also Prophet does not equal elder in the Church. A woman may prophesy, but the male elders must discern and apply the prophecy in the church.

​@@RobertG3567Thank you for understanding the Scriptures in a proper and mature manner. We need more believers like this.

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