This is true. I had a job I started back in 1999 until 2008. I got let go and people who I thought were my friends, even best friends didn't even call me, come by my house, ask if they could help or anything. Not one. I struggled badly. I lost my house, car and on the verge of homelessness. I mean, I wasn't expecting them to drop by and give me bunch of money, but when you don't even hear a phone call. That was pretty hurtful.

In this world we are alone for most of the time,nobody is going to help you.

Everyone should listen to this, because it's beautiful. And it's true people only care about themselves and that's mostly the world we live in.

I care too much about other people that's my problem when nobody cares back

"Only you know your strength." I have none.

Brilliant! Thank you Todd for the great insights, advice and your energy!

Thank you for all the Advice Todd!

what i know about this old college roomy of mine is that he is trustworthy. you can have opinions about his message, but at the end of the day, trust that he fully believes in his message, and it is based on a plethora of experience. the only argument i have is about his sister and mom not caring. i know them both, and they do care about him. but he is right, nobody else cares. do what you love.

Yes it’s true. My military veteran husband was an IT manager for a pharmaceutical company for over 20 years and one day he was let go because the company wanted to use an oversea firm from India to run their IT department to save money.

Why are people laughing, what he says is pretty sad

thank you for your true insights

no one is safe. place where i work had a few VP's let go! One goal in life i currently have is to save enough money to be OK for a bit in case i lose my job

5 Skills 4 Values 1 Passion Make these lists ASAP.

I've never made a list like that, but when I did it really assured me that what I'm doing with my life is the right choice.

Darn true.

And still no one cares.

Exactly, no one gives a damn. The sooner one accepts it. Sooner you start to create your own path. Hardest life lesson that many will deny.

I've "known" and "known of" Todd Putman for a couple of decades. What I "know" is reflected in this talk: he does care; he knows from whence he speaks; and he is a top tier marketeer/general manager (for non-novitiates: you don't get into P&G without an MBA from a top tier BSchool without passing the dreaded "M Test" which he obviously aced.) A standing albeit not particularly crowded ovation from my living room Todd. And that's the second such ovation after my second viewing of your talk. Purdue U listen hard as well as any others of you lucky enough to stumble upon this talk. Signed, Sr. Level Retained Executive Recruiter (e.g. I know from whence I speak.)

Sandy 💞 you

at first realizing this is scary, then its freeing.

I thought the concept he was trying to express was that of being proactive, Covey's 1st habit. A proactive person takes full responsibility for their outcome and does not blame others. I thought he was trying to teach the listener to be proactive by taking full responsibility for their lot in life. Even if 90% of ones failure is because of others, it is still 100% of their responsibility to deal with it.

Nobody cares about what you think and yet people need approval to give credence to their belief or vision. So at some point someone cares.

The right people will take time to show they care.

What do you want to do when you grow up? I want to do nothing. Period. (Or else, may be I haven't found it.?)

I thought I was a pessimist. He’s so full of it it’s sad to be him. People do care. I care. Even when I feel/know that nobody cares about me. Am I a crier? Yes. And if you say no, you’re a liar. The only truth is I don’t care about what negative people say. Cry, recover and move on. You’ll be happier. There are empathetic people and there are cold souls.

I think one thing that is not accounted for here is academic jobs. It is not just on you to get the job. Your references need to write you letters too. It is always hard to have to chase your recommenders to make sure that they send the letters in before the deadline, and if they don't read your emails because they are always busy with their research, that would ruin your career opportunities! How many academic jobs are out there in the first place?

I have to go a whole month without food though my employer punished me for getting Corona by risking my health for them. It will be very hard to work fulltime for 30 days in starvation though and have no electricity and have to live on the street. And no one will show no mercy for me beeing tired and weak, just enjoying my suffering. No mercy and understanding for those whom get sick. Forgive them, they dont know what they are doing.

my 5 unique skills my 4 core values We have different thinking My 1 Passion ? Write all the above. Create a Mission Guide to my life career Find my truth My stories difference to the world

I have nothing to write down as I don't agree we should maintain a system that forces us to be the bankers slaves.

PRAISE GOD for this message!

Don't ask yourself that it's WHAT CAN YOU DO WELL?

all in all nothing matters but what happens next

People only care of you fan provide them something

I think the part about being responsible for yourself and your career is great, but the last part was not as useful. I don't have a passion, but the ones I had, I lost interest in. I'm not the only one who doesn't have a passion. I just want a job that I don't hate which earns me enough to pay for good food, an okay apartment and some fun experiences.

So if people don't care because they have their own bills why don't we free each other, don't make each other pay and live life in love with living and each other

I have no mortgages. No debt. A bit of savings. So it is not horrible at all. Bu i don't like to do anything. :-/

The infinite regression of nobody cares

So why does he give this speech? He cares.

I want to cook travel hike bike get lost in the woods pick berries mushrooms and dance zouk or other similar dance like kizombawith my other half period!!

Que the Seinfeld theme music.

Mothers usually do care though

Then why not just be a criminal and steal, kill and deceive others for personal gain? Seems love is delusional.

"What do you want to do?" No point.

People that Gilbert don't love me

Your partner doesn’t even care. All you have is you now cry

I want to be dead when I grow up.

Sorry Todd Putman, but no one cares about what you want to say. Literally not me. Am just here for an assignment.

Be a EMT for 20yrs. Then let me know about your mission.

I want to be a dictator for the WORLD! (EDIT Seriously though)

If nobody cared your parents or Guardians would not have raised you. if nobody cared your various teachers would not have taught you. if nobody cared you would have never had a friend. if nobody cared then people would not show up to the grocery stores you shop at. if nobody cared no one would be at the gym that you go to. if nobody cared you would not have gone to the church you went to. if nobody cared no one would have provided you with shelter or clothes or food or things to drink. if nobody cared then there would not be cashiers at gas stations. If nobody cared then there would be no inventions. If nobody cared then there would be no religion whatsoever. If nobody cared then there would be no philosophy. There's nobody cared then there would be no libraries. If nobody cared there would be no police there would be no paramedics or ambulance drivers. It's nobody cared there would be no firefighters. If nobody cared there would be no therapists there would be no psychologists there would be no counselors. If nobody cared there would be no psychology whatsoever. If nobody cared then there would be no people creating all the clothes you wear. If nobody cared no one would have written a single book. If nobody cared then there would not be so many different types of music movies paintings sculptures masks. If nobody cared then there would be no singers there would be no storytellers. If nobody cared then there would be no funeral celebrants or funeral officiants. If nobody cared there would not be any lifeguards at pools or beaches. If nobody cared there would not be any senators or congressmen or any other type of politicians like mayors or vice presidents or presidents. If nobody cared there would not be any world leaders. If nobody cared there would be no innovation in science or health. Hopefully by now you realize that you can tune down your rhetoric that nobody cares hopefully you have the potential to help others realize the countless ways in which people do care.

He is just Salty because he got fired. lol

I just said when you have no money and then you come up. you are being paid. cause you guys get paid top$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$. Trump for chump!