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@@stephenfoster1257 I disagree. I believe our emotional development is lacking. Both women and men.

That's true, you can also apply that same notion to politics as well. There always has to be a boogie man of some sort to induce fear and keep us all stagnant, guessing, afraid, or just simply in order.

@@k.weirdo7747 I didn't say women. I said our.

@k.weirdo7747 The creator is talking about the lack of evolution in our thought processes. You don't just turn off survival cues that existed for millenia after having electricity for a century.

@@Seancarter2010 it's projection. They are intimidated by a well spoken, successful BM who won't be controlled. So much so they go for Pookie because they know they can control him.

​@@MADMOGtheFrugalPrecisely this. Women often accuse men of the things they think and feel. They have been conditioned to think we are exactly the same so they can't comprehend that we might actually have different thought processes.

It's more simple than that: Women think and speak using terms of emotional extremes (Love/Hate, Intimidated/Brave, Bestie/Enemy), and they don't think of men as humans with complexities equal to their own. Relying on negative extremes saves them from having to apply the empathy needed to consider nuance.

Nah this is where I disagree. I think when women say they "intimidate" men I think they are identifying something very real just using the wrong word. It isn't that these men are intimidated, its that say if you got a women who is doing well financially and is dating a guy who is struggling financially, that success shoves a mirror in their face reflecting their own shortcomings. So they become self conscious and often you see these men.

@@mrt094 It's not the mirror making men self-conscious, it's the women who throw mens shortcomings in their faces when they're angry. Women don't fight fair...which would be a good topic for another video.

@@RoyalRumBull What you’ve said relates to a couple of observations swimming around in my head as of late. 1) Romantically, women operate with a lack of empathy toward men. 2) They also have a tendency to reinvent phrases that already have terminology. (“Emotional intelligence” comes to mind.) Maybe this is just slang? But it sure seems to be the opposite of clear…and the new result is consistently, conveniently slanted.

@@mrt094 Sometimes. However: taken into consideration the labor split, success for a woman is (on average) mid-tier management. Men overrepresent high earners. And women express a preference for men who “match” or “exceed” them. Are these women “intimidating” (triggering self consciousness) in the successful guys who avoid them? I don’t think that’s what’s happening.

I mean it's a ridiculous assertion when the two family household worked for us all throughout Jim Crow and didn't start to become impeded until the 60s. I'm tired of all this talk about obstacles for black people. You got two choices, allow them to stop you and admit defeat or push through them. The constant complaining does nothing for us, no one is coming to the rescue. If you as a black person want the family, kids, marriage, white picket fence fight like hell for it so it's easier for your kids to obtain it when it's their turn.

@@mrt094 The household dynamic I was speaking of was not a 2 parent household. That's should be a standard for any household, regardless of race. The dynamic I was speaking on, is that the man is the breadwinner and has to pay all bills, while the mom is the homemaker only. Since access to the type of jobs where a black man could support a family alone was denied back in the day, the woman had to work, and the man picked up some of the homemaking responsibilities. Also, not saying it's not possible for black people to get these high paying jobs, just percentages show that employment for these positions are still skewed to Caucasian people's favor heavily.

Trying not to be full on sexist, here, but: The “we” is women. I was nearly 40 before I started recognizing that a substantial component to the criticism of men as “deadbeats” has less to do with us NOT working than that we don’t make enough for women to stay at home.

@@everObvious Women definitely do push the deadbeat narrative more than men, but I do see some men that try to call a man lesser for not being the breadwinner. Though I do think men antagonize another man for this less than women do now days.

​@prymates it was a delusion set forth by one decade of effective socialist ideals. The reality that has always been women had to work even married and took care of the house. Women were out in the field with their man tending to the fields or being a nanny or secretary. Men worked the harder jobs blacksmith, hunting and carving the animal, construction.

High school??? Before they're 18?? 🤨🤨

@@jaskegoffii3968 The age thing has some of you mentally fk up. With a parent's permission a 17yo woman can join the military and die for her country. No protest about her being too young to serve. My 87yo grandmother got married at 17. Had 6 kids. Stayed faithful to my grandfather until he died. We honor her. Nobody said she was too young 😅 I'm 46. 80% of the women that I went school and served in the military look like trash. Their BEST years was between 17-24. Even my high school sweetheart turned into a dumpster fire after having a baby at 22. So women better lock down a man fast before they turn to 💩

If you're that great of a guy you can find a quality woman

​@@retrojay86 If you're really good at READING COMPREHENSION, you would have understood the part where he was comparing between two options. His statement has nothing to do with his character as a person.

@@aktob316 and I'm saying it's babble, and a completely false comparison if you're an actual quality man.

@@retrojay86 You just want to be an AH, and nothing else. You intentionally chose to misinterpret his comment, then insisted that your interpretation is the real deal. What makes you a real man? Your ability to attract women? Money? Wisdom? (that I seriously doubt) People see things differently. People define themselves (positively or negatively), not what you think should be a man.

@@aktob316 carry on brother 👌🏾

I took the statement from the perspective of evolution: sure, we change over time, but we’re talking thousands of years. Human civilization progresses waay faster than our ability to grow a second thumb, for example.

This dude is too soft and conciliatory. I dont worry or try to appease Black women

@@123pbI’m sure they’re hurting about it