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NPD Series |Ep 54| : The Silent Treatment of a Narcissist

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Dr. Susan Koruthu

Dr. Susan Koruthu

Күн бұрын

NPD Series: The Silent Treatment of a Narcissist
Language: Manglish (a combination of Malayalam & English)
Dr Susan shares the wisdom from her therapeutic experience working with narcissistic personalities and Narcissistic victims through her NPD vlog series.
A narcissist may often go to a silent zone where there is no verbal communication or sometimes goes without any contact. It can be short-term or long-term. Short-term silent treatment can cause stress and anxiety but long-term silent treatment leads to emotional distress. Stonewalling, shunning, ghosting and social isolation are different types of the silent treatment. Watch the video to learn more.
Dr Susan Koruthu is a multifaceted life psychologist and mind wellness coach. She brings 28 years of professional experience in the field. She speaks wisdom from the experiences she had working with individuals, businesses and over 40 nationalities.
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Disclaimer: The information shared in this video is for educational purposes only. You are encouraged to seek professional help for guidance on your specific issues. This video provides general information about narcissistic personality disorder. This does not refer to any specific person or group and should not be used to refer to anyone specific to prove having narcissistic traits or related disorders. Permission is not granted to prove any allegation that a specific person is a narcissist by using this video and related videos.

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@tomyjoseph6779
@tomyjoseph6779 5 күн бұрын
എത്ര കൃത്യമായാണ് dr. പറയുന്നത്. അനുഭവിച്ച ആളാപ്പോലെ. അനുഭവിക്കുന്ന ഞങ്ങൾക്ക്‌ ഇതെല്ലാം കൃത്യമാണ്
@simpleandhumble7980
@simpleandhumble7980 2 жыл бұрын
ഇത് തന്നെയാണ് എന്റെ life.ദിവസങ്ങളോളം മിണ്ടാതിരിക്കും .ഇപ്പൊ എനിക്ക് മനസ്സിലായി കാര്യങ്ങൾ അതു കൊണ്ട് ഞാൻ എന്റെ കാര്യങ്ങൾ നോക്കി ജീവിക്കുന്നു .
@prabhar8531
@prabhar8531 2 жыл бұрын
അയാൾ മിണ്ടാതിരിക്കുന്നത് നല്ലതാണ് എന്ന അഭിപ്രായമാണ് എന്റേത്. ചീത്ത പറയാനും കല്പനകൾ തരാനും മാത്രമാണ് ആ സമയത്ത് വാ തുറക്കുന്നത്😂😂😂
@simpleandhumble7980
@simpleandhumble7980 2 жыл бұрын
@@prabhar8531 😅😅😅
@seenathnivas3491
@seenathnivas3491 2 жыл бұрын
@@prabhar8531 correct
@jollyshibu1552
@jollyshibu1552 2 жыл бұрын
Ente life ingane thanneyanu pokunne ente hus ennodu mindarilla .eppolum ingane ayathukond njanum mind cheyyarilla
@SJ-yg1bh
@SJ-yg1bh 2 жыл бұрын
മിണ്ടാതെ ഇരിക്കുന്നത് നമ്മൾ ആസ്വദിക്കുന്നെന്നു കാണിച്ചാൽ മതി 😀
@Malayalikada
@Malayalikada 2 жыл бұрын
This NPD is ruining many lives, my heart goes to all those who are suffering whether it is a boy or girl....Just pray and stay strong
@emmanueljoseph2520
@emmanueljoseph2520 2 жыл бұрын
Prayers just don't work, because there is no God. Rest I agree with you. If God requires a "prayer" from the victim to do the right thing, then he is not God, he is Devil. If you don't agree with me, then ask yourself this question. Imagine you happen to witness a child falling to the water and the child does not know how to swim. You are a master of swimming (God). Do you wait to be "asked" (Prayer) by the child (Human beings) to do the right thing? Or you will you just jump right in? Think for a second. Some people may say, God is testing your love for him by giving you these challenges. The more he loves you the more he will give you hardships. Seriously? What kind of twisted logic is that? If that is the case, then God needs mental and psychological evaluation. God will need some counseling. I am a big fan of Dr Susan Koruth. Has not missed any of her videos. But, I find it extremely revolting she keeps referencing God in almost all of her videos. If I may ask her, isn't God the greatest brand ambassador of NPD behaviour of all time? 🙄🤔
@rosammajohny5426
@rosammajohny5426 2 ай бұрын
Ithinu oru marunnu paranju tharaamo olanzip 5 mg nallathaano
@atmaheshathouse2551
@atmaheshathouse2551 2 жыл бұрын
ഈശ്വര എത്ര സത്യം , വളരെ ഭംഗിയായി -സ്വയം അനുഭവിച്ച ഒരാളെ പോലെ - പറയുന്നു ...
@jitharanjith2524
@jitharanjith2524 Жыл бұрын
👌👍
@reenavarghese1876
@reenavarghese1876 2 жыл бұрын
മേഡം.... ഇതെല്ലാം ഞാൻ അനുഭവിച്ച കാര്യമാണ്. മാസങ്ങളോളം മിണ്ടാതിരിക്കും. പട്ടിണി കിടത്തും, സുഖമില്ലാതായാൽ ഹോസ്പിറ്റലിൽ കൊണ്ടുപോകില്ല. മേഡം പറഞ്ഞതെല്ലാം 100 % ശരിയാണ്
@David_memes230
@David_memes230 2 жыл бұрын
😞😞
@jasheenajeshi9989
@jasheenajeshi9989 10 ай бұрын
എന്റെ husband ഉം ഇങ്ങനെ തന്നെ. വർഷങ്ങൾ മിണ്ടാതിരുന്നിട്ടുണ്ട്. ഇപ്പോൾ സൈലന്റ് treatment ആണ്. ചിലവിനൊന്നും തരില്ല. Prostitutes ആയി tour പോവുകയാണ്.ശരീരികമായി ഒരുപാട് ഉപദ്രവിചിച്ചിട്ടുണ്ട്. എന്തിനാ തല്ലിയെ എന്ന് പോലും അറിയില്ല.Kuttikale കരുതി sahikkunnu
@animathew1309
@animathew1309 3 ай бұрын
Makal anubhavikunn
@animathew1309
@animathew1309 3 ай бұрын
Anubhavikunnu makal
@sinicg9726
@sinicg9726 2 жыл бұрын
ഓരോ വീഡിയോയും കാത്തിരുന്ന് കാണാറുണ്ട്.... ഇതേ അവസ്ഥയാണിപ്പൊ മൂന്ന് മക്കളുള്ളതുകൊണ്ട് മറ്റൊന്നും ചിന്തിയ്ക്കുന്നില്ല സ്വന്തം കാലിൽ നിൽക്കാൻ ഇപ്പൊ ഞാൻ പഠിച്ചു മാഡം ഇതൊരു വല്ലത്ത വിഭാഗം ആൾക്കാർ തന്നെ പെട്ടു പോയി..
@prabhar8531
@prabhar8531 2 жыл бұрын
എത്ര സത്യമാണ്. ചീത്തവിളിക്കാനും കല്പിക്കാനും മാത്രം വായ് തുറക്കും
@Aspiranthere7
@Aspiranthere7 2 жыл бұрын
സത്യം. ഞാൻ അങ്ങോട്ട് പോയി മിണ്ടും. അല്ലാതെ അതെല്ലാം മോശമല്ലേ എന്ന് കരുതി. നമ്മൾ അവരെപ്പോലെ നിലവാരം കുറഞ്ഞ ആളല്ലല്ലോ.
@drkitreesa7336
@drkitreesa7336 15 күн бұрын
25 വർഷം എന്നെ silent ആയി Treat ചെയ്തു. 5 വർഷ മായി ഞാനും അതേ രീതി തന്നെയാണ് ' 6 മാസ മായി സ്ഥലം മാറി യപ്പോൾ ഭർത്താവ് violent ആകും നാട്ടിൽ ചെല്ലു മ്പോൾ 'കാരണം അയൽ പക്കക്കാർ അയാൾ ഒറ്റ പ്പെട്ട ക്കാര്യ o അറിയിച്ചു.
@sreedevivimal1422
@sreedevivimal1422 2 жыл бұрын
This is how I exactly manage the relationship with npd person... your series helped me a lot in realising the fact and also understand ing my soul.. thank you mam...
@vijayalekshmy6827
@vijayalekshmy6827 2 жыл бұрын
Hi mam,ethu school thalam muthal oru study meterial ayi konduvaran onnu sramichukude.Nalloru sathamanam alukalum ethu anubhavilkunnavaranu.But narcissam enthanennu ariyilla.Thank you mam.
@helsisreejithsreejith4521
@helsisreejithsreejith4521 2 жыл бұрын
Mam paranjathu correct aanu, imotionally abuse cheythu, ellavaril ninnum ottappeduthi, life focus cheyyan sadhikkatha vidham down aakki, ippo ellam thiricharinju.. Thank u mam
@thasneemaumer4318
@thasneemaumer4318 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you doctor. Thank you very much. You show us a way to open a new way of our life . Please help us with your knowledge and experience to become an emotionally independent person while living with an npd person. Your videos are like a breath for us every time you post. Thanks a lot. I believe god is supporting us through your words.
@maneesh008
@maneesh008 Жыл бұрын
Hi Dr. you gave me life saving insights on NPD. You are speaking about like a winner who was a victim in the past. So mind-boggling.
@parvathy555
@parvathy555 2 жыл бұрын
My dad gives silent treatment since my school life. He had looked at me oly for exploding and abusing violently. Growing up ,this is my comfort zone with him. Even when he was forced to keep my first pennukaanal (at the age of 30) , he detailed the grooms party, about my younger sis only. Through out that 2 hrs process I was treated like an invisible person , even I felt that the pennukaanal was supposed to be for sis 😄. Well, I always felt comparatively safer with the 15 years long silent treatment. Else I wud have subjected to the trauma on a daily basis like it used to be.
@soniathomas3512
@soniathomas3512 2 жыл бұрын
Wow sorry sis, I feel you..lot of unworthy people on earth who’s been sick for people around them..
@shailajaps4352
@shailajaps4352 2 жыл бұрын
താങ്ക്സ്. Mam
@swapnamathew1117
@swapnamathew1117 Жыл бұрын
Take care of yourself👍
@anoopkalliath108
@anoopkalliath108 Жыл бұрын
My Father in law is a narcicist. When I want for pennukanal he go on talking to me. It seems as if I went to aanukanal. At last my mother had to arrange for a talk between me and my wife. Wife's mother is SOMATIC SIMPTOM DISORDER PERSON. my wife is a combination of d two 😀
@ramesankrishnan1805
@ramesankrishnan1805 4 ай бұрын
വിവാഹം കഴിഞ്ഞ് 3 -ാം വർഷം ഞാൻ Hospitalൽ Admit ആയി 10 ദിവസം . ഉച്ചയ്ക്ക് ഭക്ഷണം തന്നിട്ട് അധികം സംസാരിക്കാൻ പോലും നിൽക്കാതെ എന്നെ ഒരുപാട് വേദനിപിച്ച ആളായിരുന്നു. മക്കളെ ഓർത്തു മാത്രം ഒരുമിച്ച് കഴിയുന്നു.
@jumathomas1685
@jumathomas1685 3 ай бұрын
Mom, you said it right. I have been under this silent treatment abuse for the last 28 yrs . I recently realized thru my therapist I am married to a horrible narcissist 😢
@sreejanair4809
@sreejanair4809 2 жыл бұрын
Madam, 🙏 NPD victims madthinte series kanunnathu valiya oru anugrahmanu , eeethu kanan thudangiyathu mauthal kure ok karyangale handle cheyyan padichathu, evrude kude jeevikunnathu valare dhusahananu , mentaly , physically financiall y nammale evar abuse cheyyunnathonu kanakilla , enthu papam cheythittano enganullvarude kude jeevikendivarunnathu 🙏 eee karyangal manasilakitharunn madathineym familly eym eeshwaran anugrahiktte niranja manasode 🙏
@myworld9546
@myworld9546 2 жыл бұрын
Life endha ingane ayathenn kure alojich sankadapettitund...😔😔 Ingane oru reason anenn arinjath ee aduthanu... sherikum lifel ottapett poyapole... Jeevidham thanne avasanipichalonn thonni pokarund.. kutikale orkumpo sahich munnott pokunnu ...
@sinicg9726
@sinicg9726 2 жыл бұрын
Ithe avasthayil munnote povunna orammayaane njaanum moonne makkalde Amma .. saramilla ennelum sariyaavum ..swanthamaayi Oru way of living kandupidikyuka...🤩
@Hosurvlogs973
@Hosurvlogs973 Жыл бұрын
Njan last week anu npd enoru word thane kekkune . Njan vicharichu ennelum shariakum. Ipo manasilayi shariakilanu . Be busy and happy wid kids. Njan ipo anagne aa.. for me it worked😊
@geminidesal1461
@geminidesal1461 11 ай бұрын
Love you mam. You are giving me a support to my mind.
@nextlifedreams8655
@nextlifedreams8655 2 жыл бұрын
Pravaasi aaytulla Narcissistic aaya Silent treatment tharunna Ente husband
@muhammedpayya7892
@muhammedpayya7892 2 жыл бұрын
Enthe husband gulfil aane...love marriage ayirunu 9 yrs ayii....ipo narcissistic aano arilla but madam videos kanumbol e features okke undo ennu ipo enke doubt ane....but silent treatment apoyum aalu enke tarar unde....
@muhammedpayya7892
@muhammedpayya7892 2 жыл бұрын
Pregnant ayapol enthenkillum njn paranjal Apo ishtapetilenkil phone cut aakum.... ithupole 3 days no calls nd no msgs....njn irune alogikkum ithu entha vilikate ennu njn vilichal call cut aakum busy ennu text msg cheyyum... angane apoyum undavum.....
@krishnair4642
@krishnair4642 4 ай бұрын
Coz he is making things with someone else..thanks me later
@myidmywish
@myidmywish 4 күн бұрын
Kutty ipo enthayi avastha? ​@@muhammedpayya7892
@princypoulose6235
@princypoulose6235 2 жыл бұрын
Mam your words are absolutely right because i am victim of my mother in law. She reacts me like this way. It is brutally hurts me in early years of my life after that i can understand well about this behaviour pattern. She can chage this character whenever enyone will come to my house. You are a brillant person to explain correctly without any experience.
@manjushapv8014
@manjushapv8014 Жыл бұрын
എന്തിനാണ് ഈ episode കണ്ട് കണ്ണൂ നിറയുന്നതെന്ന് മനസ്സിലാവുന്നില്ലല്ലോ Mam.....
@shailajanp8062
@shailajanp8062 8 ай бұрын
മാസങ്ങളോളം മിണ്ടാതിരിക്കും 😥😥😥 ഇപ്പൊ എന്റെ കാര്യം😢 നോക്കി ജീവിക്കുന്നു
@lijijoseph2408
@lijijoseph2408 8 ай бұрын
😢
@fasilkilimanoor1451
@fasilkilimanoor1451 2 жыл бұрын
എത്ര കൃത്യമായ വിവരണം.
@lyriccelesta9552
@lyriccelesta9552 2 ай бұрын
Makkalude syllabusil cheruppam muthale phycology yumayi bandapetta classukal kodukanam.ennale ellavarkum ithinepatti oru awareness undakukayullu.
@thomasbenoy8474
@thomasbenoy8474 Жыл бұрын
No messages, no call for 1 month..then sends something..then again...silent..they can do this for years..beware!!
@india7775
@india7775 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Dr. For this topic. At present he is in silent mode. Every year this happens for months. When my son (5yrs)call him..he never responds. Will this attitude affect my son mental health. Because everyday this happens with my son. He sits like a 🪨. No reaction.
@GG-dk3zm
@GG-dk3zm 2 жыл бұрын
I can't explain the pain by silent treatment..still continuing periodically... He also told me to wait untill he break it.. I thought how someone can give these kind of pain...how hard the mind of them...
@jinypaul3015
@jinypaul3015 2 жыл бұрын
Love you mam and alots of thanks from my bottom of heart
@FlyingExplorer2022
@FlyingExplorer2022 10 ай бұрын
I was a victim of the silent treatment by my girlfriend with whom I was engaged to in 2022 December silent treatment was 1 month before my marriage, here's what I went through Day 1: She said this relationship is over. I will talk to my parents, I will block you now I will talk to my parents and will tell u about this. Day 1-3: No response from our end Day 3: I texted its not my fault or yours its a way of perspecitve. "No Response" Day 5: I apologised and tried to call her. No response Day 6: I called her 10-15 times rejected all my calls and turned it off Day 7: I was literally struggling to breathe and felt like I was being choked by the neck with a rope. I texted her let's break up... Then suddenly she replied to me and called me straight away. We were together for 10 more days and just because of this silent treatment I broke up with her on Jan 3, 2023
@myidmywish
@myidmywish 4 күн бұрын
😢
@swathysudheendran3672
@swathysudheendran3672 2 жыл бұрын
Enta husband 5, 6, 7, 8 masam okk ya pinagi erikunne ohhh unsahicable thanne mam
@chinnusworld4403
@chinnusworld4403 2 ай бұрын
എന്റെയും തന്നെ
@yadhukrishnan4420
@yadhukrishnan4420 2 жыл бұрын
Hi mam, can u do a video about narcissistic mothers and how they effect everyone in the family ? It would be great if I could explain it to my dad by showing your video.. he always thinks that I'm crazy when I talk about my Nmom's personality disorder. He is also a victim but he fails to understand it.. he always says that it's a part of life and we should adjust to it. The worst thing is that she has a job and takes a lot of pride in it and see everyone else in the house below her and uses her job for acting like she has some kind of weird control over my dad and me.
@Malayalikada
@Malayalikada 2 жыл бұрын
It is hard to convince others
@manjunm7521
@manjunm7521 3 ай бұрын
മാഡം. കഴിഞ്ഞ ഇരുപത് വർഷമായി അമ്മായമ്മയിൽ നിന്ന് അനുഭവിച്ചു. ഇപ്പോൾ ഹസ്ബൻ്റിൽ നിന്ന് അനുഭവിച്ചു കൊണ്ടിരിക്കുന്നു
@thereisnospoon123
@thereisnospoon123 2 жыл бұрын
Please do a video on Narcissistic mothers (Especially when she is a single parent), the scapegoat child (male) and the golden child. Also please explain how the scapegoat child can overcome and heal the trauma. 🙏
@SUDHEESHSNairvet
@SUDHEESHSNairvet Жыл бұрын
Excellent rendering. It was really helpful in understanding a most underrated yet ubiquitous personality disorder. Keep going. You are helping a lot of people. Regards 💐
@reshmaroy2325
@reshmaroy2325 2 жыл бұрын
Mam narcissistic mother in law ee patti video cheyyumo
@jessydavid698
@jessydavid698 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Doctor.
@ponnuthomas8343
@ponnuthomas8343 2 жыл бұрын
Everything is very true.. how can u say so much..this is what they do..
@David_memes230
@David_memes230 2 жыл бұрын
Oh... My mam.. Thanks a lot😍
@beenamoncy5
@beenamoncy5 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely correct madam.👍
@mariyasalam5072
@mariyasalam5072 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@reenavarghese1876
@reenavarghese1876 2 жыл бұрын
എൻ്റെ ഫോൺ നമ്പർ പോലും അയാൾ block ചെയ്തു വെയ്ക്കും😢😢
@parvathyp4152
@parvathyp4152 2 жыл бұрын
Vittukala sister. Self love and self respect should be the priority
@simpleandhumble7980
@simpleandhumble7980 2 жыл бұрын
എങ്ങനെ സഹിച്ചു ഇതൊക്കെ
@sinicg9726
@sinicg9726 2 жыл бұрын
ഇതേ അവസ്ഥയിലൂടെ കടന്നു പോവുന്ന ഭാര്യ യാ ണ് ഞാനും സഹിക്കാൻ പറ്റാറില്ല ഒറ്റപ്പെട്ടുപ്പോയ ഭാര്യ... അയാൾ എന്ത് ചെയ്യുന്നു എവിടെ പോവുന്നു എന്നൊന്നും എനിയ്ക്കറിയില്ല ശരിയ്ക്കും വെറുതെ ഒരു ഭാര്യ ... മക്കൾക്കു വേണ്ടി മാത്രം ഒരു വീട്ടിൽ ഒരു ബന്ധവുമില്ലാത്ത രണ്ട് പേർ
@parvathyp4152
@parvathyp4152 2 жыл бұрын
@@sinicg9726 financially independent ano
@sherinepapali9844
@sherinepapali9844 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you dear doctor …. My life….
@sintochan7
@sintochan7 2 жыл бұрын
Waiting ✌️
@jisha9573
@jisha9573 2 жыл бұрын
Mam, social anxiety ye patti video cheyumo please...
@aleena386
@aleena386 2 жыл бұрын
Waiting
@vojaison9445
@vojaison9445 2 жыл бұрын
Doctor parayunna ee same from my husband when I was pregnant...and his mother also a extreme NPD ... when I said iam pregnant at first time.. she said if it is good gene will survive othorwise good to abort ...I was shocked and when I got bleeding she said come and go for a trip..and iam totally inactive to that...and her son was totally ignoring what iam saying and now he went to his mother abandoned me and our son when he is 56 days old ...he and his mother saying iam mentally ill and he went to court..and all my gold is with his mother they are saying that is not with them what I can do...he is saying iam only 100 kg flush for him his mother always says you are not good in nothing u don't have any value to come to our home etc and surprising thing is all this happening infront of him he is not reacting and he saying my mother is good all she saying is correct. How can I prove this in court
@praveenakrishnan4581
@praveenakrishnan4581 Жыл бұрын
Contact shyla rani. She has a youtube channel
@jessyjose110
@jessyjose110 2 жыл бұрын
Good message
@9847187831
@9847187831 2 жыл бұрын
I am a silent party when I am agitated or triggered. But I am not a narcissist.
@maneesh008
@maneesh008 Жыл бұрын
And how long ? How soon you break your silence ?. If you use silence as a weapon, who knows what the real situation is.
@alphonsathomas5768
@alphonsathomas5768 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you verymuch 🙏🙏🙏
@sruthiswiz
@sruthiswiz 2 жыл бұрын
NAMASTE 🙏✨ Respect Legend Doctor ma'am 🙏🌹 Yesterday I subscribe channel I watch maam Awareness life psychologist departments video talk By follower friend sister 5.12.2021 9:37 .pm Repeat watching
@nandhuchandran30
@nandhuchandran30 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks dear doctor
@santamariya1254
@santamariya1254 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mamm
@lidiyajebin5212
@lidiyajebin5212 2 жыл бұрын
Mam njangal epo legally pokuvane one sitting kazhynju epo mediation anu arkum enne manasilakunnilla ente kuttikal ayalude kayilla entha cheyyande mam kuttilale kittan.
@bibipeter576
@bibipeter576 2 жыл бұрын
Same to you
@annieromal9113
@annieromal9113 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mam
@rekharekha9511
@rekharekha9511 2 жыл бұрын
Orupadu TNX♥️
@nishabiju6507
@nishabiju6507 2 жыл бұрын
Thanku soooo much mam❤️❤️❤️❤️
@salini8776
@salini8776 9 ай бұрын
Thank u mam ❤
@user-li3zd6hm3c
@user-li3zd6hm3c 3 ай бұрын
Ente mother in law yum sister in-law yum samsaariykunnath kelkaanidayaayi. Njangalude veetileyk varunnatho njan samsaariykunnatho ishtamalla ennu parayunnath kettu. Ennod valare sugar coated aayi samsaariykukayum ennil ninnum kitaavunnath vanguchedukkukayum cheythu kondiriykumbozhaanu inganeyoke paranjath. Avarod njan ketta karyam parayukayum pinneed avarod samsaariykaan poyittilla. Njan cheyyunnath silent treatment aano .. boundary setting aano?
@sishasree3031
@sishasree3031 2 жыл бұрын
Well said Ma'am ❤️
@myblooms8101
@myblooms8101 Жыл бұрын
I was victim of Father and husband . I need help to be stand before my husband as better but iam not sound financial. I had job and my husband made debit for me and iam paying . My husband is lavish in money spending. Now I need help from you to get back my financial crises
@ponnuthomas8343
@ponnuthomas8343 2 жыл бұрын
👍waiting
@vidhyamk28
@vidhyamk28 3 ай бұрын
എനിക്കും ഇതാണ് അനുഭവം
@preethachandy5113
@preethachandy5113 2 жыл бұрын
I had undergone silent treatment, he will not explain why he us not coracting and he does not even discuss it. It caused me tension and anxiety. . He us not bothered how we feel. His ex wife used to keep silent for two days, I think it must be he who kept silent. If his demands are not granted, then he punishes us by giving silent treatment.
@lalamol5157
@lalamol5157 3 ай бұрын
ഇവരുടെ പെരുമാറ്റം കൊണ്ട് നമ്മൾ വേദനിക്കുമ്പോൾ അവർക്ക് അത് തിരിച്ചറിയാൻ കഴിയില്ലേ മാഡം 😔വര്ഷങ്ങളായി ഞാൻ അനുഭവിക്കുന്നു. ഇപ്പോഴാ മനസിലായത്. ഏങ്ങനെ അവരെ മാറ്റി എടുക്കും. 🤔എങ്ങനെ രക്ഷപെടും. ഒന്നും അറിയില്ല. എല്ലാം ദൈവത്തിന്റെ കൈയിൽ. 🥺
@ssunitha4391
@ssunitha4391 2 жыл бұрын
Oh...my God.. too much
@lakshmivadakkepatt5879
@lakshmivadakkepatt5879 2 жыл бұрын
Love you Madam💖💖
@Princessk6789
@Princessk6789 2 жыл бұрын
Madam,depersonalization disorder നെപ്പറ്റി video ചെയ്യുമോ?
@DrSusanKoruthu
@DrSusanKoruthu 2 жыл бұрын
I will. It generally happens in an extremely traumatised person.
@smithathoppil9896
@smithathoppil9896 2 жыл бұрын
Love you madam 💓💓💓
@justinjoseph6251
@justinjoseph6251 6 ай бұрын
അനുഭവിക്കുന്നു.8..
@minnujohnson1251
@minnujohnson1251 2 жыл бұрын
Mam how to identify a borderline narcissist? Are they really into narcissism a that stage? Plz reply
@DrSusanKoruthu
@DrSusanKoruthu 2 жыл бұрын
NPD can co-occur with borderline personality disorder. They will show the combined symptoms of both disorders. They are considered malignant.
@annammaeapen6917
@annammaeapen6917 2 жыл бұрын
Ma'am, pls include this Topic.....NPD with borderline personality.
@minnujohnson1251
@minnujohnson1251 2 жыл бұрын
@@DrSusanKoruthu thankyou mam.. If u can plz make a video on that
@ssunitha4391
@ssunitha4391 8 ай бұрын
Same ..my hus.
@ranithomas5079
@ranithomas5079 2 жыл бұрын
But how will treat for it it’s related to cluster b ? It can be curable
@DrSusanKoruthu
@DrSusanKoruthu 2 жыл бұрын
They don't want it to be cured.
@Hosurvlogs973
@Hosurvlogs973 Жыл бұрын
8:30 very true😢
@emmanueljoseph2520
@emmanueljoseph2520 2 жыл бұрын
Dear Dr Susan Koruth. If you are seeing this message kindly give me a response. You have helped me immensely through your videos. Suffered greatly at the hands of my own mother who has olympic level Grandios or Overt NPD. Now I am trying to heal..Has not missed any of your videos. However I find it extremely revolting you keep referencing God, prayers etc in almost all of your videos. If I may ask you? Isn't God the greatest brand ambassador of NPD behaviour of all time? 🙄🤔 Here are my reasons to believe God has NPD. 1. Knows he can help, has the capacity to help, but still won't help, because the victim didn't "ask" (didnt Pray) enough. 2. Needs constant praises and appreciation 👏 🙌 🙏 ✨️ to boost his ego. Else he will punish you. 3. He is the one who "knows everything", but he keeps "testing" your love. If your wife does the same kind of "testing", by hiding in the cupboard, make you run around and enjoy watching you panic, you will say that person needs mental help, but since it is God who is doing it, it is ok 👍 👌 3. Mets out special treatment to the Golden Child (Golden child is in this case their own ilk. For example, jesus will only help those who believe in him, Alla only cares for their folks and so on...) 4. GOD gives the grestest and longest silent treatment. My god!
@DrSusanKoruthu
@DrSusanKoruthu 2 жыл бұрын
😄 Hi Emmanuel, I can understand your feeling about God, but unfortunately I am not referring to the God you mentioned in your message. I trust the universal power which works when we do our part and the energy that boost our confidence and controls the chances we get in life. The power that boosts our intuitions, the prana that helps us energise our soul. the energy that we radiates around us, the divine power that dwells within us. Feeling that energy in my body, mind and soul is the greatest achievement I had achieved in my life. So I am not referring to the God the current godmen preach. Hope I made my idea of God clear to you.
@maneesh008
@maneesh008 Жыл бұрын
A victim should be independent to be safe, don't rely on God or someone will do something for you. All of your expectations can't 100% be met.
@lailamohamed2946
@lailamohamed2946 2 жыл бұрын
Dr എവിടെ വന്നാൽ കാണാൻ പറ്റും പ്ലീസ് 🙏
@DrSusanKoruthu
@DrSusanKoruthu 2 жыл бұрын
Currently I am residing in Dubai. You may please visit my website www.drsusankoruthu.com
@nannupraveen1997
@nannupraveen1997 Жыл бұрын
Mam, I want to change my silent treatment.. I'm always do silent attack against my paavam husband.. E video kandappol aanu i understand how cruel i m😔😔😔...paranjathellam correct aanu inganeyokke nammude ullil thonnum . Ith change cheyyan pattumo? Mam ,plz reply
@nibilanibila2771
@nibilanibila2771 Жыл бұрын
Iyal npd aano
@selmaka9405
@selmaka9405 Жыл бұрын
👌👍
@meenukishor5336
@meenukishor5336 2 жыл бұрын
😍😍
@aiswarya9908
@aiswarya9908 2 жыл бұрын
♥️♥️♥️
@SuperShanikka
@SuperShanikka 2 жыл бұрын
last 2.5 years....i m a victim for it....now i dont know wt to do...there is no any way to conact...
@sophiabenny2857
@sophiabenny2857 2 жыл бұрын
🌹
@prettyjohnson6495
@prettyjohnson6495 2 жыл бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@reyanamr3905
@reyanamr3905 2 жыл бұрын
NPD.... Treatment undomam pls reply me
@DrSusanKoruthu
@DrSusanKoruthu 2 жыл бұрын
NPD person will not undergo treatment.
@parvatsadasivan4689
@parvatsadasivan4689 2 жыл бұрын
Unexplainable pain is being experienced... Wish to kill myself as no choice.... Why all these in life... At the same time, excruciating agony is experienced thinking of the NPD Person because I care and love him more than my life...
@Malayalikada
@Malayalikada 2 жыл бұрын
Take care of yourself.... I can understand this. An NPD never cares whether you live or die, they care about themselves only
@SJ-yg1bh
@SJ-yg1bh 2 жыл бұрын
Be strong. Never take any extreme measures. NEVER. ❤️
@സത്യഭാമകൃഷ്ണൻ108
@സത്യഭാമകൃഷ്ണൻ108 Жыл бұрын
This is trauma bonding if it hurts you that much dear please leave him 😭😭😭
@ubibaburaj5952
@ubibaburaj5952 2 жыл бұрын
പേരെന്റ്സ് narcissistic ആണെങ്കിൽ മക്കൾ narsiscist ആവുമോ
@DrSusanKoruthu
@DrSusanKoruthu 2 жыл бұрын
Possibilities are there.
@lakshmivadakkepatt5879
@lakshmivadakkepatt5879 2 жыл бұрын
മാഡം ഒരു Doubt. നാർ സിസ്റ്റ് അല്ലാത്തവരും മാഡം Promo യിൽ പറഞ്ഞ Silent treatment കൊടുക്കാറില്ലേ?
@DrSusanKoruthu
@DrSusanKoruthu 2 жыл бұрын
Yes.
@muhammedpayya7892
@muhammedpayya7892 2 жыл бұрын
Yes enthe husband gulfil aane....apoyum aalukke ishtam pedatha kaaryam paranjal fight aayal ingane 3 days okke cheyyarunde
@dhanyaanil2507
@dhanyaanil2507 2 жыл бұрын
Pls do a video on how to live with an alcoholic spouse
@DrSusanKoruthu
@DrSusanKoruthu 2 жыл бұрын
Will do.
@umarageshwari8932
@umarageshwari8932 Жыл бұрын
❤🎉
@beenamoncy5
@beenamoncy5 2 жыл бұрын
👍🌹
@gireeshkumari6120
@gireeshkumari6120 2 жыл бұрын
🌹🌹🙏
@asiyaaishu2336
@asiyaaishu2336 2 жыл бұрын
9:10sathyam
@justinjoseph6251
@justinjoseph6251 6 ай бұрын
മൈ ഹസ്ബൻഡ്.. 😭
@g.varghesesamuel1456
@g.varghesesamuel1456 2 жыл бұрын
Dear Madam, are you a victim.
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