Nothing ruins an adults life more than being abused as a child. God bless her.

This channel is really shining a light on the scope and range of negative consequences for child abuse victims. Tragic.

Her pain is so accessible to her, and she's so intelligent. I hope things come together for her. She deserves goodness.

OMG - this woman is a victim of serious childhood PTSD - my heart goes out to her.

The Soft White Underbelly comment section is by far the most compassionate and empathetic that I have ever seen on KZfaq. I was cringing at the stuff I thought everybody was going to say about her.

I actually cried when she talked about her childhood. I hate sick people who touch children. She’s been doing this since she was an infant and you can tell she’s doing this because this is all she knows and the fact that her parents don’t even acknowledge the trauma she’s been through is absolutely sickening 😣I’m so sorry this happened to her. Please protect your children you never know what people are capable of. I’m praying for her 🥺💜

This should've been a longer interview, I would've loved to hear more about her. You can easily tell she's hiding and burying so much traumatic pain from her past childhood. I hope she gets some real professional help and sticks with it.

I would never allow my daughter to go see her grandmother knowing that she still lives with the man who abused me. Thats crazy

That was NOT a story of a nymphomaniac, it was a story of a survivor doing whatever she can to blot out her pain.

When she said family is not happy that she's going to this show. You'd think it was because she'll be talking about all of the hookups. But it's actually because they know she'll talk about the abuse they did nothing about. Insane world man!

This episode hits really hard. So far, I’ve lived 3 separate lives, my childhood, my independence and now my surrender. My husband forced me to see that I was loved and needed right where I am, tho I’ve tried, he never let me push him away. My prayer for you is to look at yourself as the little girl that needed a mother like you are to your child, then treat yourself that way. You deserve love, loyalty and safety.

My heart went out to this woman. The damage sexual abuse to young children leaves them scarred for life. Watching this interview made me want to hug her because I feel deep down she’s still searching for real love, I hope she finds it.

I have a hypersexuality disorder and this is very refreshing to see for some reason, not in the sense that it's good, but in the sense that the comments are being supportive. Most people aren't like that, especially towards women. Bless this woman and interviewer. Amazing job.

My late wife went through much the same thing as a child. We met when she was hyper sexually active. Things with us just clicked and we had nearly 10 wonderful years together before cancer took her. Kudos to Jessica for having the strength to put this out there. My heart goes out to you.

Man as soon as she talks about her childhood it all comes out immediately. The human psyche is fascinating. I hope she and her daughter are doing well.

I fell for a woman exactly like this recently. Incredible person but had so much trauma it was almost too painful to be with her. And it wasn’t even my past. I just felt it through her. Still hurts thinking about her all the time years later.

My heart goes out to this woman. She’s so self aware. Once she took that mask off of her being a hyper sexual person, you see her pain. Praying for her and anyone else struggling with sex addiction

This all boils down to one thing, all children need, and deserve protection. Adults, especially parents need to be a child's first line of defense. I am so sorry that this happened to this lady.

I thought this interview was going to be very different. What a great interview. As a father of a little girl this terrifies me, I just can’t comprehend how anyone can do something like that to a child. Absolutely demonic.

What a tragic life she has led. First the abuse, overcoming that and getting a scholarship to a Big 10 school as a student athlete, only to lose it all as a senior due to an accident. The question isn’t why did she develop this addiction, but why not? I appreciate her bravery, candor, and honesty. I pray she is able to overcome this chapter in her life and heal/recover so she can live a “normal” and happy life.

Many girls who were sexually abused as kids turn out exactly like this as adults - hypersexual, provocative and looking for approval and attention through their sexuality - because that's what they learnt as kids... It's the trauma replaying in adulthood. So sad. I wish this woman all the best, and I somehow wish she could start healing one day and stop this behaviour.

She went from tough to tears. She’s a beautiful girl I feel for her. An adult did this to her as a child, heartbreaking. Hope her daughter is safe .

I couldn't help but cry during this. This woman reminds me of my mother and I just love her so much. My mom also went through similar things and is much better now... There were many times I was scared I would lose her..

Her story brought me to tears! As a child of sexual abuse myself, I understand her pain and suffering! May she find her peace and love.

some of the "messed up" people you interview are the most authentic, courageous, real and human I've ever heard speaking. (I would say I am messed up too), it's just beautiful to see people who are willing to be real. thanks to all of you for doing this

When she said that $2.5 million (for mutilating her own body for a man) would “change her daughters life” my jaw dropped and I wanted to cry 😩 God bless this woman, I wish her the best

Glad she shared her story. It helps us all to understand what people go through in life, learn from it and have compassion for each other.

Wow, Jessica, it’s so hard not to listen to your story and not want to hug you and tell you that you are worth so much more. You’re so incredibly smart and self aware and well thought. I feel like you could do SO MUCH to help the world understand these issues. I hope you find a sense of peace and have many blessings. Your story broke my heart, and I won’t ever forget it. I think you’re amazing.

Bondage with a complete stranger is one of the most dangerous things you could do.

I love her. Something about her is just LIKABLE. There’s gentleness, in there. But man, so much sadness. She speaks as though she’s numb to all of this, but her eyes and the way that she talks say otherwise. I hope so much that she realizes her worth; and if she doesn’t already, that she gets there.

Even if she crossed terrible things during her childhood, she never harmed no one. I wish her the best.

I feel nothing but complete respect, admiration and empathy for you, Jessica. I wish I could give you the warmest hug, you're an amazing woman and mother! Lots of love and happiness for you and your daughter!

My sister was sexually abused as a young child. She too exhibits hypersexuality. Thank you for helping me understand her better. It is a hard conversation to have with her because of her PTSD, anxiety and depression. You are a beautiful person and deserve so much more. It's never to late for education. We are in desperate needs for vets. Especially large animal vets. I wish you the best. Please have her back for an update!

I can’t imagine the pain her step fathers abuse had on her as a young girl, the fact her mom is still with the abuser is the worst part though . She is a brave strong woman I pray she finds her true worth and healing. God bless her.

Aw Jessica! I can relate to you so much. I hope your are genuinely happy and fulfilled now. Short, but really impactful interview. I am so sorry you were not protected. I am so sorry you still live with the torture of what has happened to you. Please keep yourself SAFE. Seek peace and healing and restoration, for these are abiding and not just momentary escapes. ❤ my heart is truly with you!

Nothing pisses me off more than someone abusing a child. The pain in her voice says it all.

She is so achingly intelligent, self-aware, well-spoken. I teared up during her own flashback. You can tell how fiercely independent she is but how protective she is of her daughter. Bless this woman.

I absolutely relate to this 100%. I have been sexually promiscuous my whole adult life, and I was a street prostitute from age 20 through 24. You see, when I was a little girl of only six, my dad started molesting me. He was also like a kind of pimp, passing me around to some of his male business associates. This continued until I turned 11 (interestingly, I started menstruating when i was 11.) Through on-and-off therapy through the years, I learned there's a connection between early childhood sexual abuse of a young girl and sexual promiscuity and prostitution. I've been raped, literally pimped out; I've contracted VD (gonorrhea and genital herpes, also known as HSV-2)), I've been beaten up by guys; I've been used. Throughout my whole life, I always thought I was to blame for all of this. My heart hurts.

Your video's fascinating, listening to the different people talking with you, allowing you and how many others across the world a glimpse into their lives. As another poster has mentioned, most of them are so brave in talking about subjects which are obviously very painful for them

Wow. I’m thankful for the platform to share and very insightful. Sad her abuser is still around and with her mom

She so honest and loyal. She said her mom is wonderful. No, Jessica, your mom is weak and selfish - she probably has other attributes but she didn’t protect her little girl and she is still living with one of her abusers. You’re smart and attractive, be kind to yourself. Just take one day at a time. May God bless you and that inner child who is still hurting. I wish you nothing but the best. Love from Canada ❤️🇨🇦

Mark you’ve developed a skilful balance in your interviews. Your awareness of the interviewee’s sensitivities curtails your curious questioning ; enough to give the audience an awakened perspective of the unknown worlds while maintaining the sacred peace of the person involved. Thank you for your decency and insight. And an even bigger thank you to the wonderful story tellers who get involved ❤️ This channel is a blessing 🙏🏼

She’s so incredibly aware. I hope she finds healthy happiness.

Thank you for interviewing her so we can understand whats out there. Child Abusers need to be exposed and put in jail. My heart goes out to her.

Am I hearing this correctly? Her mother is still with the man who molested and abused her? That is horrific. Jessica I am so sorry for what you've been through and what you are STILL going through.

Made my heart hurt when she started talking about her child hood. Takes alot of guts to put yourself out there like that and tell your story.

I'm watching this for the second time. The fact that her Mom knows what happened to her and still has the step-dad in her life absolutely blows my mind & breaks my heart for Jessica. I just want to give her a big hug. After what she's been through, it is great to see that she is confident, strong-willed & that she's trying her best to be a great & protective Mom to her daughter.

I'm grateful to Jessica for her courage and candor and I pray that she will find steps that will build her life so that her pain can fade into her past. I'm grateful to Mark for his kind and intelligent questions. And I'm grateful to the people who have commented here with such love and compassion.

This is proof positive of what an adult (or several) can do to a child and damage them for life. Shame on the adults who abused her as a child - but MORE shame on her so-called mother. Jessica comes across as a very beautiful, kind and likable woman. I wish her many blessings in the future.

When she said appreciate the people around you at the end, I needed that. I bet she didn't think she had advice to offer us, but she absolutely did. Thank you Jessica. Please have her back, Mark.

She is such a likable person. I have so much compassion for her, yet she is stronger than I am. Great interview.

Prayers for this woman. The hurt in her voice is overwhelming and I hope she can find the therapy she needs to recover from her trauma. ❤

As a father, I am absolutely disgusted by men (and women) who abuse children in any form. The long-term consequences are life destroying. The victims need lots of help and the perpetrators need lots of time in prison.

I love how open and honest Jessica is. So sorry for her childhood, but she is fiercely protective of her daughter as a result. Wishing her and her daughter all the best. ♥

“To appreciate things. If you have a good life don’t fuck it up. When she said this, it really meant a lot to me, I feel like it can be easy to undermine all the good things we have going on. So, always trying to take a moment to appreciate everything is this just and reflective thing that really helps me to keep going, and look back at what I have now that could be gone. Thank you for this interview ñ, it has definitely shed some light on another perspective of someone’s life. I am thankful for her ability to share this to the world, truly.

Ive got nothing but respect and admiration for this lady!!! I don't think most people realize, The guts it takes to get up, and speak candidly on horrible shit like that. And and to be objective and honest about herself or your own self in trials and tribulations and all the horrible shit that was given to you in life ,and all that she didn't ask for in her life. One thing I've learned about life is that we've all kind of gone through some kind of messed up thing one way or the other depending on it being milder on the extreme side depending on the situation and that's what ends up defining us in one way or the other or making or breaking us! Hell , Life can be really tough, I've been through the drugs and the addict stuff and its all true. It's , it's a hard world out there, but I've turn my life around , an raised a daughter, an i am living a good life now. Just being thankful in general for everything we can all take for granted in life!!🦀😵‍💫 and thankful for stories and people like this, who are much stronger than most of us are. I appreciate her telling your story and and for YOU bringing it to us!!!! Thank you!!!!!!!!

I despise how abuse 99.9% of the time results in self-destruction. She knows exactly what she’s doing and how she’s causing further unnecessary trauma to her body, mind and soul, yet she doesn’t feel like she can stop. My heart breaks for her. Sending you the biggest warmest hugs dear girl.🌷I pray you can climb out of this one day soon. You are strong. You are beautiful. ♥️

She is paying a heavy toll on her soul. Her sadness runs deep .

Gawd. You watch these an feel like your the only one on the planet not abused as a child. Thanks mum and dad x

"tell me about your childhood" is the most iconic soft white underbelly line

“Consenting?”….heart drop :(

Omg you just want to hug this woman and comfort her. What an incredibly brave and beautiful human being.

I am always impressed by the people and their honesty that you showcase, such amazing stories. The courage...

Her explanation about somedays being asexual and some days hypersexual after childhood abuse is spot on. I experience the same. I'm proud of her for being as strong as she can but I hurt for her.

She’s surviving the only way she knows how. I’m so sorry she had to go through this and no one protected her. Many hugs to you of you read this.

I can see her pain she goes through every day, but she's COOL AF! Love her attitud and fighting spirit to live life as best possible and positive, one can be with ourselves no matter what.

This beautiful woman wears everything on her sleeve. Her pain, her defences, her strength, her vulnerability, and sweetness are all so honest and beautiful. I really enjoyed her vibe.

Praying for her and her daughter. I don’t think she gives herself enough credit for how smart she really is. 💕

She’s a smart women who had a damaging childhood like so many others. I hope she gets the help she needs. Everyone deserves to be loved.

I was not prepared for this. What an amazing introspect into this woman’s life. Thank you for not going for the low hanging fruit.

I understand her from the depths of my soul. So brave. I genuinely want her to be ok. ❤ she’s not alone.

She is one of the most "real" people I've ever had the pleasure of listening to. Thank you for this video.

This really affirms how protective I am of my kids. Took a lot of courage for this woman to share her highly personal story, and I'm sure it will help a lot of people.

She's as real as it gets.. I appreciate that. No pitty me. No poor me.

This woman is breaking my heart. I cant imagine her life. She's definitely going to be in my prayers. Thank God for channels like this, so people like her stories' can be heard.

I hope Jessica reads the comments sections and sees how much her honesty and empathic nature resonated with so many people. This lady is intelligent, thoughtful and has so much to offer the world in terms of her own voice. I genuinely like this lady.

This kind of promiscuity is something I really recognise in the gay community, too, where it’s also often rooted in abuse, abandonment, or feelings of shame. The added dimension of stigma for a hyper sexual woman is hard to imagine. Wishing her peace.

I wish there were direct links to help specific people on the interviews directly. If i knew it would go to her, id donate right now

i think this is the most real SWU video I've watched so far, not do discrete the story's of the others on the channel the struggled just as much sometimes more but there's just something about her admitting she has a problem to such a transparent level, and the short responses with SWU having to pry information.

Jessica, if you’re reading this, you deserve more than what you’ve been through. You deserved to be protected and believed as a child.

Shame on her mom for not protecting her baby from the stepdad. What a monster. Protect your children and be good to each other ❤️

This is painful to watch in a way. I hope this women see’s her way through the pain. She is intelligent and I have learned from this video. Thank you Mark great video.

What a wonderful interview, thank you so much for sharing Jessica!

The amount of shyt this woman has gone through is terrible, how she's still a functioning responsible mother is admirable. I didn't expect this interview to go this way but it was a real eye opener.

The fact that she puts her child first makes her a wonderful person. She is so strong to keep fighting through life.

Thank you for sharing your story, Jessica! You're an incredible person and have overcome so much. I pray God blesses you and your daughter and I pray you find the peace and healing. ❤

Such a great example she is setting for her daughter. Never change. God bless you girl !

My heart hurts for her. She seems like a really, cool and down to earth person. She just went through a lot at a young age. 😢 Thank you for this interview.

I really feel for this one , i genuinely believe she tries her best in life and i hope she gets a better outcome ♥

An attractive woman but most of all, a beautiful human being ! That was a moving testimony. Thank you for sharing Jessica !

when she mentioned the 2.5 million and said "it would change my daughter's life" my heart sunk

This channel is such a reminder not to judge people, you never know what's hidden in their past. Jessica's story brought tears to my eyes... I sincerely hope she'll find the peace she's seeking.

Baby girl. I'm so sorry that ever happened to you! Wish your mom would've protected you. I know this doesn't fix it, but I hope that it sends a Band-Aid for one of your wounds. Your life is important. Thank you for being so honest. Thank you for sharing your story.

Jessica is smart, insightful, and above all, kind. I hope she carves out space in her life for a man who brings similar and some to the plate. She deserves love and safety. Shame on all those who harmed her and failed to protect her. Loved this interview! So engaging.

"It helps me forget my life." So sad. She has a lot going for her: compassion, insight, intelligence, beauty, honesty, resiliency, etc. The thing I admire most about her is her maternal instinct. She keeps a wall of protection between her daughter and anything that wouldn't be good for her.

It’s hard not to adore her. She was very brave to tell her story. I love her coloring, but it’s interesting that her dress has chain patterns. I hope someday she breaks whatever chains are holding her.

She is so courageous, and aware. God bless her and her daughter. I hope she finds a way to mentally be truly happy moving forward. They are in my prayers.

I love the audience for these videos, on the whole. They are most often very empathetic and kind and respectful of the people sharing here.

I was a psychology major for the beginning of my undergrad studies. Once you get into the field, fellow students would talk or seek guidance (despite telling people you weren't qualified) from you. The sad part I realized early on is there is a tremendous amount of sexual abuse coming from adolescence. If I had to guess, I'd say 7/10 people I encountered experienced some form or another. It's disgusting and horrific. One of the main reasons why I changed majors because the sheer volume of those issues seemed overwhelming.

My ex was a nympho as well to the point where it drove us apart. She would start a fight with me if I wasn't home at a certain time to meet her needs and would send me videos of her talking to other guys threatening me that they would hook up if I didn't hurry up. You could only imagine the damn feeling in my stomach when I saw these stupid videos and trying to keep a professional face at work. It was torture. Sex was amazing but not worth it. She ended up seeing a counselor over her problems after I caught her in a threesome with two of my "friends". That was over 8 years ago and I'm so glad I walked away from that.