Object Relations Theory: Why we repeat the same toxic relationship patterns.

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2 жыл бұрын

We discussed the main points of the Object Relations Theory, followed by a case study.
The Object Relations Theory is a modern psychodynamic concept created collectively by various psychoanalysts, most notably Melanie Klein and Donald Winnicott. The theory places emphasis on how our relationship with our early caregivers creates a bedrock for our relationships later in life.
This video was largely based on the book “Essential Psychodynamic Psychotherapy: An Acquired Art” by Teri Quatman ➭ amzn.to/3NyeS4o
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@goodenoughpsychiatrist 2 жыл бұрын

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@Labrigni Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, I have read it in my textbook, attended the class lecture on it, and reviewed my professor's PowerPoint over and over. Because of you I FINALLY feel like I understand. It might be the culmination of all the studying but this is where the lightbulb lit

@goodenoughpsychiatrist Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your feedback, Labrigni. We're always happy to hear that our content brings further clarification and understanding to our viewers. Thank you for supporting our channel!

@jessymanalu5 9 ай бұрын

I know right! my personality lecturer was very smart, but i still didn't get the point of Klein's theory😅

@imnina9086 5 күн бұрын

Hello what’s the name of the text book please?

@jaclynnward2858 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for making this simple and informative

@aridivinity7123 9 ай бұрын

This video was amazing ! Thank you. Wish there were more.

@wandawilliams6848 Жыл бұрын

Very well explained. Thank you!

@sarahhajarbalqis Жыл бұрын

Thank you. This is certainly good enough. I have had trouble understanding the concept 'object' in this context. I hope to see more good enough videos from this channel. 🇲🇾

@FriskyTendervittles Жыл бұрын

If you don’t “gravitate” toward the familiar is possible you “create” the familiar? Like if in the example he had a good loving partner he felt anxious so he took steps to change the dynamic between the two of them to make it more familiar for him?

@sarahhajarbalqis Жыл бұрын

I appreciate this question. Curious for some answers too.

@giticaravan7196 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for such a great video!!

@user-kw8ff9ne8l Жыл бұрын

So that would explain the rigid and strict way we interact with people-we,love people,but we hate some kind of people,although there is no real reason for it.

@jasmines2328 11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much. I love the video. Great to the point explanation unlike the go around of the book.

@loimagdaraog1481 Жыл бұрын

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS🥰

@shivantikauchiha1822 18 күн бұрын

Very well explained

@sunitavishwakarma9086 Жыл бұрын

hi , thanks for uploading very informative video

@safetifying Жыл бұрын

Very good thank you 🙏

@Naii_lah 10 ай бұрын

great video!

@leojablonski2309 6 ай бұрын

Well done.

@stevensteinberg6206 10 ай бұрын

I'm teaching HS psychology and this is a clear and visual explanation THX

@bellakrinkle9381 3 ай бұрын

PERFECT. ALL secondary schools ought to have mandatory psych classes.

@altaaaaeee 10 ай бұрын

Certainly, this video help me to apply the theory in real life situation.

@ilikegeorgiabutiveonlybeen6705 Жыл бұрын

but for real yeah can relate and hope to fix that

@trocchiettoski Жыл бұрын

fantastic video, fairbairn was genial

@deeptikheterpal8430 Жыл бұрын

Awesome

@malakhamadto 6 ай бұрын

thanks, you make it so simple

@goodenoughpsychiatrist 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for stopping by.

@Our_Patterns 3 ай бұрын

I love the name of this channel. Winnicott video next!

@goodenoughpsychiatrist 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for stopping. Yes, a Winnoctt video is definitely in store in the future.

@michaelwolf2795 Жыл бұрын

The quote by Dr.Bruce helped me thank you

@goodenoughpsychiatrist Жыл бұрын

Agreed - we're glad you also find it helpful. Thank you for supporting our channel!

@wizthem 18 күн бұрын

Great video....but just for clarification, that quote about people who prefer the certainty of misery was actually NOT by Dr. Bruce Perry. Even in his book, he gives credit for that quote to someone else. I believe the original quote came from the late great family therapist Virginia Satir.

@tammyphan3260 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for a great video!

@goodenoughpsychiatrist 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Tammy! Stay tuned for more videos:)

@echoes4679 2 жыл бұрын

Would be interested to know how can that person change....now that the abusive pattern is gone, how healthy relationship will look like?

@goodenoughpsychiatrist Жыл бұрын

That is an excellent question. In my opinion, a healthy relationship is defined by what IS NOT rather than what IS. In other words, building a healthy relationship is a journey, not a destination. For instance, as you start noticing your current relationship pattern is not healthy, you may try to move away from that type of negative relationship pattern. Through this journey, you may continuously discover and update what you want in a "healthy" relationship.

@ogcastroneto1 Жыл бұрын

Do you know any books about this?

@goodenoughpsychiatrist Жыл бұрын

Hello, there is no good book for the general public for the object relations theory. But, “Essential Psychodynamic Psychotherapy: An Acquired Art” by Teri Quatman is a great intro book for anyone interested in this type of therapy.