The fact that her own child must have seen something to say mummy did it is horrific . That poor child. For real life.

@a hungry ghost crying piteously for food My heart goes out to your family and your husband. I have some understanding and experience with this type of scenario and i want to give you hope and let you know that it IS possible to heal from trauma like that, but it requires help. I am not talking about psychatrists and psychologists who rarely ever actually know how to heal the trauma, but for myself, I took a chance on something called Reiki. I was very skeptical about it as it's a method of healing through energy (physical contact isn't even required) I was desperate for healing in my life though and started going as a last resort, as one of those "I've tried everything else". I can't explain to you exactly how it all worked, I was lucky enough to find a trusted person that I saw several times over a few month span, and from that very fist session, things opened up inside me that I had forgotten about, I even cried for no reason I could explain while on the table. Afterwards I had strange dreams and thought about things differently in random ways, I got angry, the it passed. It was like a roller coaster of emotions and experience unblocked inside me. Within six months of that first healing session, I could hardly believe the change inside of me. The nightmares were gone, the anxiety that I had lived with every day, just... gone. Inside I feel whole and healed for the first time in my life. My relationships have changed in positive and dramatic ways. I share this story with you because I truly believe from my heart, it can help your husband. Maybe even someone else reading this. Sending you and your family much love, care, and respect for all that you go through together ❤

I give my condolences to your father and his mother but also anyone who was in anyway connected to the death of your father's mom.

Kris is tan because she is from Nicuruagua.

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Wow, this is a tragic situation for all of you. I’m so sorry you’re all going through this.

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It's so sad that people like her have this mindset, I too feel sad for her poor kids growing up with a mother who only cares about physical pleasure mixed with her terrible narcissistic attributes!😔🙏💜✌️

100 % slag

She is evil ... It's all about her ...

Yeah the video literally mentioned that she said that.

This vile thing brought children into her violent life ……

Exactly

Where is the children

Typical borderline a victim label they are just extremely dangerous female narcissists with psychopathic tendencies

She's so selfish and self obsessed.....

I mean, even a spirit Halloween model is a model

Words have definitions that you don't get to decide.

Just a slag, thats what i call em 😂

Cyberho

It is an insult to real models.

Don’t have kids with women whom act like men.

Ahm, nor did the victim?🙄

Studies do show childhood experiences can impact us for the rest of our life. These kids may grow up thinking loving someone is dangerous and they may also suffer anxiety and depression.

I feel so bad for these kids... They didn't deserve that...

For real life.

Likewise women.

People.

@@watchinvidzwatchinvidz7691 I know... i wasn't saying it was only men who suffer from unspoken abuse. Just that it's more likely to go overlooked with men. It's like saying there are starving children in Africa. It doesn't say there aren't starving children in other places. I'm just stating a thing... not trying to start a war over gender.

'Almost 24% of all relationships had some violence, and half (49.7%) of those were reciprocally violent. In nonreciprocally violent relationships, women were the perpetrators in more than 70% of the cases.' - NCBI

WHEN ALL 2 PEOPLE HAVE IS THE BED.

Yes, thank you ! Say that louder for the people in the back !

Its not an excuse but it is an example of those who keep that vicious cycle repeatedly turning.

@@ericainbloom true

It’s definitely not an excuse but a reason why we need to focus deeper on those who struggled with there mental health. We could prevent these things if there wasnt a stigma for therapy and honesty and vulnerability. Thoughts turning into conversations rather than actions. But for some reason we are striving for things that prevent us from confronting our problems which ultimately makes those issues worsen

Thank you Fleurbunny for stating the truth! I always said "if being abused or witnessing abuse was an excuse for abusive behavior, I would have been an axe-murderer! And I'm not.

I’m pretty sure they share similar traits

Everyone is on the narcissist spectrum. She's on the furthest part. She's both a narc & psycho but I think she mixed dugs & alcohol & went crazy AF.

I don’t think you understand Bpd, it’s an awful mental illness

@@dottieland7061 not all cases are this severe though. This is because of who she is, not entirely because of bpd. People make their own choices she just wasn’t that good of a person

@@dottieland7061 it’s a disorder not an illness. And most people diagnosed with it are working really hard to be better than this, and we are

Me too.

For real life.

This🎯💯

Part of the reason for her actions ≠ excuse I’m saying “part” because she still had an active conscious choice in her actions. I had what one would call a “tragic” childhood and I’ve been in a beyond abusive relationship, yet I would never abuse anyone. But I’m sure it okayed a role. That doesn’t make it an excuse, the consequences remain the same, as they should.

Abuse is never an excuse for more abuse, it's just a pattern of explanation. Not all people who are abused become abusers, a vast majority are not. But most abusers were abused.

Everybody blaming her but it takes 2

Yep. Let's keep it simple, just a bad egg.

snitches get stitches

Not like he was aware what he was doing

Nagy but frr

the only good snitch

Natural born snitcher

Thank you for saying this. Being someone with BPD, getting defended like this, truly means a lot ❤

Its definitely the bpd they're all disgusting

It is BPD , intense and inappropriate anger is literally a symptom

@@Namanzw Murdering someone is not a symptom of bpd though

This is almost the same situation with the Woman who was an OF model and stabbed her BF to death in a jealous rage. He had to audacity to say hello to a woman as he rode his bike past her.

They lose their sense of reality, they think their on line persona is real life. If you k*LL someone, just log off & restart later. No prob!

Clearly. Avoid these types please, men.

Validation from social media, I know something is wrong. For real life.

Kids have nothing to do with it. It is always very hard to leave abusive relationships. Make yourself aware of that.

@@krisj5561 exactly and leaving makes u dead for sure and u need outside help which isn't easy because you're watched 24/7. And kids just puts more lives in danger....

well women can use kids to manipulate men beyond the normal manipulation that they typically implemented

deb. I 100% agree. Having children does make it harder, especially if you're severely abused, brainwashed, downtrodden. Some victims may leave sooner for their kids sake. In a more severe case the abuser will use the children as weapons, leverage making life beyond hard for the victim and harder to leave. Also there's more risk involved when leaving with children, its less risky if there's only one person escaping. There's also a possibility if you can't take your children with you the abuser may take out their anger on them.

@@krisj5561 Well kids were also victims too of a dysfuctional family

Yes, most of us are actually trying so hard that we turn out being less „toxic” than an average person that isn’t self aware, I feel like

Most of us know y’all are not bad people ❤️ I hope the stigmatization around BPD gets better

Isn't it better for yall to stay single? I've seen BPD in action and the only way I could escape was to literally hot foot powder myself. And it worked!

@@ScribblebytesWorldwide that's incredibly stigmatizing 😬

​@@rafuresiabut true

Tons of murderers are free or somewhat free in the community and you'd never be able to pick them out most times

That’s UK justice for ya… whole life sentences are reserved for what the courts perceive to be ‘the lowest of the low’, child killers etc

True, true, true, it is scary.

Her even getting the chance for parole is crazy to me - for real life.

A lost identity

Exactly. @@pg6776

Yes, and I hope it was shut down before more lives are damaged.

Therapy for that child, immediately.

Easier said than done 🤣🤦🏾‍♂️ i must be drawn to them

Most of the time when people find out it’s toxic they already in it to deep. I don’t people understand this.

Yup- so true

AND, how to raise kids, You'd think not un-living their father would be obvious. Not!!!

I know, ughhh!

Sorry but no, These murderers still think they'll be ignored like they were during minorhood. Because nobody told them not to hurt animals when they were young.

@@Rexorazor That's true. From my experience of dating a girl with BPD, there are strong elements of narcissism in BPD. Sufferers often treat other humans (and animals) like objects to be used and discarded. That's why Abigail, and my ex, cheated a lot. They are impulsive, and think in black and white.

You can't help people who aren't trying to work on their issues it's futile give your love away to a lost cause.

Unfortunately she seemed to enjoy her BPD and often did not take her meds. Also, she should never have been drinking . She was upset he was pulling away, but she was shoving him out the door.

It’s not that simple with “it goes both ways”. And not every situation is like that😅.

I’m from the uk and I agree you rarely see any happy relationships anymore

Sick society we live in now.

I have bpd and I agree it isn’t the person with bpd fault it’s the parents fault for causing them to develop this

Those are excellent points. I wish we'd have more education on the responsibility of having and raising kids. It requires sacrifice and self-discipline. Children are not possessions or minnie-me's!!!!

I have this same argument ALL THE TIME.

that was just made up by her!

People with BPD, psycopathy and NPD can't be helped.

@@Michael-r3d uh yes they can ??

@@Michael-r3d That is not true. My sister has it and she's taking care of it very well. It's a matter of wanting to get help and actually adhering to the medications/therapy.

@Onna Margret BPD is borderline personality disorder, not bipolar

​@Onna Margret if you're so good at controlling yourself how did you come about being diagnosed with bipolar disorder 🫣

You can learn to manage IF you want.

You’re an evil b! This has nothing to do with it. She decided to be evil! You’re being absolutely ignorant about mental health diagnosis.

Same

They'll come in handy where she's going.

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nobody asked

@@voguexperimental if you’re going to a do a factual documentary then it should be factually correct. it’s called feedback.

Hey, why don't men get vasectomies, they want to have kids with that? Really?

Good point. It's amazing how people's egos are so dang fragile now..