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@AnthonyManzio2 ай бұрын
All married couples end up having 3 some and do swinging too. Never ever get married. All end up divorcing.
@AminJones4 күн бұрын
Yeah, about that, I Need to get to know her and she is aware of what I'm asking. Let's see if she listens to her choices.
@AminJones4 күн бұрын
@@AnthonyManzionot all married couples, unless you count the threesomes in with the snake and dog. But that's not how we* work.
@grunt18072 жыл бұрын
I was 36, my wife was 24, she was a friend of a friend and I asked her out after the second time meeting her. We've been married for 14 years with 3 kids together.
@ricflair4052 Жыл бұрын
did u get shamed by other people ? I am 38 yo man and interested on a office colleague 23 yo and is worried on this. lol
@grunt1807 Жыл бұрын
I've gotten the occasional crude age jokes in the beginning but never shamed. After our first born it all stopped.
@Alsatiagent Жыл бұрын
@@ricflair4052 The rule is consenting adults and the narcissistic social gate-keepers should be ignored.
@andrewkerr5296 Жыл бұрын
@@ricflair4052 When I was 34 I had a ONS with the Receptionist at work who was 20yrs old at the time. No one gave a stuff, my mates were High Fiving me
@victorcretu77419 ай бұрын
That's the recipe. If you marry a younger woman, 10 years or younger, you have to make 3-4 children to keep her busy and "unavailable" for other men.
@ArmyOne5192 жыл бұрын
Im 60 , my Girlfriend is 38 , and she doesn't care about money. She loves that I tell her she's beautiful and I treat her like a Lady 😉.
@akrambaig26892 жыл бұрын
Good for you bro . I don't even have one since after separatation still stuck in pass
@ArmyOne5192 жыл бұрын
@@akrambaig2689 , don't give up ! Im Divorced after 30 years. Love will come your way. God Bless🙏🇺🇸
@joshmiller81922 жыл бұрын
@Anthony Manzio I was hoping this video would cheer me up more lol
@craiglange45232 жыл бұрын
Good on you. I'm 40 so I have hope,lol
@anthonyvasquez51282 жыл бұрын
That's all it takes brother. I'm 55 and I usually have a gf that's around 15 younger than I. The only thing is I'm not married because I don't want to be. I don't know if that's a good thing or not?
@mafp22w Жыл бұрын
The main reason an older man should consider a younger woman is baggage. It is so much easier to love someone that hasn’t been burned and jaded in relationships.
@georgevue8175 Жыл бұрын
Body count - My 19 year young son says dad I like girls but I can't find anyone with a body count less than 30, I want someone in the 1 to 3 range. My response is to marry someone 15 years younger.
@adityatripathy8868 Жыл бұрын
absolute truth
@visaman Жыл бұрын
@@georgevue8175 15 years younger than 19?
@yanassi Жыл бұрын
@@visaman yup! Definitely not jaded yet, unless you count being denied a doll or candy.
@edwardmiles4911 Жыл бұрын
VERY, Very TRUE , I myself try hard to avoid such girls
@ulrichriediger4316 Жыл бұрын
I met her in 2007 when she was 26 and I was 53. Today she is 42 and I am 68. After 16 years she is still the only woman who says "I love you" at every opportunity and who really cares concerned about me. The recipe for success? Let her run free, stand by her and be there for her, whatever may come. Then you won't lose her.
@johangoethe2472 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing. What do you mean "Let her run free...?
@ulrichriediger4316 Жыл бұрын
@@johangoethe2472 We have decided not to live together, because I am convinced that will go wrong in the long run. Althought there was a phase where she would have said "Yes" if I had proposed to her she lives her life and I live mine. Despite the fact we live in different cities meanwhile, we are still closely connected.
@johangoethe2472 Жыл бұрын
@@ulrichriediger4316 Thanks for your answer. My case is similar. I am 50 y.o and she is 23 y.o. Let us see what comes from that. Nice day !!
@chrisbillig4277 Жыл бұрын
God created man in her image with logic and reasoning... Why god loves Satan most. Pregnant woman don't want combat.. 😊😂😊.. What you know what you think you know may be two different things... The biggest problem with these videos is it does not take away the reality of it all.. Such as no life skills in today's education. Being as old as you are. You understand when I say future is no more america is no longer great.. Because what made America great was not everyone chooses their parents.. So what they refused to teach you was taught in schools.. Today's is 100% opposite. Combine the fact it's female minded oriented. Woohoo here we come .. Satan's wisdom. Want a tomato tomorrow. Plant the seed today you're still waiting.. Tear it down from inside out Trojan horse.:)
@arunchandramathi9572 Жыл бұрын
you gave me hope 😊
@D33Lux2 жыл бұрын
Her "I don't date older men" Man "I'm rich" Her "I love older men."
@bigslice542 жыл бұрын
Or, it might be that he's good looking, in shape, well groomed, well mannered, has an air of coolness & confidence & he treats her like a lady. An older man can appear to have figured out what boys & lesser men have yet to You know, unusual
@georgelewisjr28842 жыл бұрын
I will be 66 tomorrow and I have dated in the past few months 2 27 year old women, a 40 and a 48 year old. I am not even trying. There’s an advantage to being older because I can run the gamut of ages without too much fuss. at 18, you have such a small range of ages to be with and even that might get you into trouble.
@andyknight41752 жыл бұрын
@@georgelewisjr2884 That's true. I'm 38 and the age range I can date at 38 is much bigger than when I was 21.
@dondavis1779 Жыл бұрын
ROFL!! /nod
@covelus Жыл бұрын
Maybe they are just trying to avoid immature dudes as you...
@MrMar21457 Жыл бұрын
I just turned 66 and I can't tell you the times younger women have flirted and hit on me and most of them were in their thirties, I love it.
@goforitrazz7 ай бұрын
@@Not_afraid1i get lots of smiles from younger women,probably smile at me because i remind them of their grandfather🤔
@larrybrinley82227 ай бұрын
Why do you love it so much @MrMar21457 ?
@i.canalista77187 ай бұрын
They probably hoping you die soon and leave them with your inheritance
@eugenmalatov54707 ай бұрын
LOL ... always funny to meet delusional people.
@TheKucapaca6 ай бұрын
@@larrybrinley8222 it's simply cute, also a huge confidence boost
@b.entranceperium Жыл бұрын
I'm 42, and I get hit on all the time by younger women. Best feeling in the universe...
@b.entranceperium Жыл бұрын
@@fuzzypanda1684 Bro that seems like they're interested to me. Go strike up a convo next time. Got nothing to lose, right?
@Darrell7777 Жыл бұрын
@@fuzzypanda1684 I totally get it man. That's why you should just rent them by the hour 😎
@Alex.Kalashnik Жыл бұрын
I am in the same boat. I am 42 and for some reason keep attracting attention from young girls. It feels good.
@darioschaeffer5513 Жыл бұрын
Me too
@Bill-tz3wg Жыл бұрын
You must mean they hit on you as they try to escape from you in a dark alley.
@RamonCruz-tw3cf2 жыл бұрын
1. DON'T BE IMMATURE. 2. SHOW HER A GOOD TIME. 3. DON'T TRY TO BUY HER. 4. SHOW HER SOMETHING SHE'S NOT SEEN. 5.INITIATE THE TOUCH. 6. TEASE HER A LITTLE. 7. KEEP HER GUESSING. 8. ENCOURAGE HER TO BE ADVENTUROUS. 9. SHOW HER HOW EXPERIENCED YOU ARE. 10. INTRODUCE HER TO YOUR MATURE FRIENDS. 11. MAKE SURE YOU ARE CLOSE TO HER. THANK YOU JOYANIMA ✌️🇵🇷👋
@armandosanchez8329 Жыл бұрын
And buy her.... Taking her to nice restaurant 😂 very good
@jimwatson4425 Жыл бұрын
🎃
@akrambaig2689 Жыл бұрын
I have these all qualities in me but still single what do woman really want they are complicated to understand
@mightysavage459 Жыл бұрын
@@akrambaig2689 Women are drawn to those who are desirable or aloof. The trick is to focus on yourself more (treat yourself, workout, go on personal adventures), and before you know it, your demeanor will be different; you will talk and walk with an air of confidence. Women naturally find you more attractive.
@paulyboy1951 Жыл бұрын
I started dating a woman that was 4 years older than me. We had gone to the same high school. She was a cheer leader and I would watch her. She was pretty to me. We both lived in Tulsa at the time. We met on Facebook because I recognized her, but she didn't really know me. I posted some Indian cave painting I had found. That was the hook, she said I would like to see this cave. She is an artist and was excited to be able to see them. Of course, I took her and after that it was on. We spent a couple of years dating, but the age difference bothered her. She saw herself aging faster than me. One day she said how do I look, l said you look beautiful. She said no I don't I looked in the mirror. There is no response for that. So I did show her something she had not seen and never would have without me.
@kensthorne7060 Жыл бұрын
I'm 62 an my wife is 29, they say that a woman's maturity level is greater so our our relationship is really closer to equal. She allows me to be the man of the house as my wisdom has more experience because I've lived longer and been through more situations, it's a blessing that she follows my lead always an sex is far more fulfilling than when I was younger
@grahambrown19806 ай бұрын
Wow! You be like MORE than TWICE her age!! Hopefully you’re into the same idea of active and healthy lifestyle choices like me - if you’ll imagine that… me telling you… because I’m only almost 44! I grew a serious bubble butt in my late 30’s because of that lifestyle adaptation. The sex has got to be so unbelievably good, that’s it’s got to be like gasping for air just thinking about it! Not to mention the romance!
@TonyRome4028 ай бұрын
Older men do not need tips on how to flirt. As we get older, everyone else begins to move in slow motion. We see everything and know exactly when and how to strike. Thank you for your enthusiasm. You are a 💓 cutie.
@johnmaddern35197 ай бұрын
I am with you Tony
@arathaemaxus52507 ай бұрын
Ya I’ve notice this a little bit too
@bbgcars6 ай бұрын
youre right! everything is moving in slow motion now!
@yanassi2 жыл бұрын
I was an older guy who dated young, but any flirtation was not overt. If i found a younger woman particularly attractive and we began conversation, that conversation either turned or didn’t turn into more. If it didn’t and stayed short but sweet, that was good enough being what it was. But if it seemed to turn into more, i always let the younger woman take the lead, maybe i needed to be sure she was receptive to the differences in age (many are). Difference in maturity does matter, but i found maturity and immaturity in both younger and older women. In general, i believe women mature faster than men. I also found, older women sometimes become jaded due to life’s experiences that may not been good. At 57, i began to realize i would have an approaching problem. I knew my “age appearance” would catch up to my real age at some point (yes, i wore my grey hair proudly). I needed to stop dating women under 30. I needed to determine if my dating habits was me or the young women, i realized it was both. I decided to only date above 40, that has worked well. Flirting with younger women, if it’s done with subtle undertones i think it’s fine but what’s important is that you respect your age, respect yourself, and importantly respect the woman you’re approaching. Let the woman decide if she’s interested, she’ll let you know.
@jonerrek7806 Жыл бұрын
Well stated.
@emanuelelston8652 Жыл бұрын
I agree 👍💯😎
@michaelcalles1124 Жыл бұрын
Really good advice, plainly from experience.
@mtgne5351 Жыл бұрын
"Flirting with younger women, if it’s done with subtle undertones i think it’s fine but what’s important is that you respect your age"¨ I agree.
@pandaman1331 Жыл бұрын
Finally someone who gets it. There still exists this huge misconception that maturity is related to age.
@josephang99272 жыл бұрын
Many young women like older men... sometimes up to 10 years of difference. No need to hate if both are consenting adults. If you are an old woman you can still get men too, even if fewer. No need to hate. You had your chance.
@asiandude83612 жыл бұрын
It's because older men are mature. But not all of them.
@alessbritish2282 жыл бұрын
@@asiandude8361 bruh srry to say this but fax is fax, I do be more mature than most older guys out there so...
@asiandude83612 жыл бұрын
@@alessbritish228 what? Where did you learn English? Write properly. I don't understand the f what you're saying.
@alessbritish2282 жыл бұрын
@@asiandude8361 no u
@josephang99272 жыл бұрын
@@asiandude8361 I agree.. Very few older men get significantly younger women, only those who are mature and well established do.
@djoleprolece75244 ай бұрын
I'm 107 and my wife is 82, she love older guys , thanks for advices!❤
@georgevue8175 Жыл бұрын
My current wife hit menopause age age 45 & has been sexually dead ever since. Using this as reference I have instructed my sons to marry at least 15 years younger as to keep husband - wife libidos more evenly matched.
@markr6653 Жыл бұрын
There are plenty of 45 plus year old women that can't get enough. Maybe she doesn't enjoy it with you anymore.
@davidpetersen1 Жыл бұрын
@@markr6653 POW.. tro the moon, Alice.🤣🤣🤣🤣
@edwinhernandez6627 Жыл бұрын
Maybe it's time to introduce her to the SWINGERS LIFESTYLE. 🍍
@rodneydukes7616 Жыл бұрын
Just keep fighting you'll meet your match guaranteed it.
@MA-xi9bh Жыл бұрын
That younger women might look for an older older man for the same reason the older man leaves the older woman for a younger one. A younger woman might go for that older man at 45-55 but as that man gets older and it’s more noticeable she will look for a younger man (ED and lower libido) A woman might go thru menapause…but after that everything still works. There are plenty of women 50 plus that can’t get enough… and want a sexual loving partner.
@HARLINSVIKINGLIFELNC Жыл бұрын
Best pick up line for younger women or any woman for that matter is simply introducing yourself by saying: "Hi,.. how are you ? I'm . . . . " And striking up a simple conversation after, with a compliment. Make direct eye contact, use good posture, and be yourself. What really attracts younger females is the sense of maturity a guy has at that moment.
@ralphlazio505 Жыл бұрын
Very true.
@paulyboy1951 Жыл бұрын
Agree
@Bill-tz3wg Жыл бұрын
Like the maturity a guy has when he goes to youtube to watch videos on attracting younger women?
@HARLINSVIKINGLIFELNC Жыл бұрын
@Bill .. ya like the maturity you're here. It doesn't matter if their younger than me within reason or older ? The same common sense applies. You either have it? ..or ? theirs bill. lol
@Bill-tz3wg Жыл бұрын
@@HARLINSVIKINGLIFELNC - I didn't even watch the video. This woman's videos pop up on my home page periodically and I like to come see what's going on in the comment section. As for your other "point" you don't specify what you deem to be within reason. If it's 10 years, okay. If it's more than that you're two different people from two different worlds. You'll die decades before her leaving her very possibly in bad shape and she may have to be your nanny even for the last decade or so of your life. I see that as selfish, not sophisticated.
@danscalone81102 жыл бұрын
I'm 59 yo, my Girlfriend is 43. We're Loving Life
@feloniousmonk3049 Жыл бұрын
Simple... I don't chase, I let women approach me. If she wants to talk, is interested, she will. If she texts fluently, great, if short sentences or curt conversation, move along.
@omnipop49369 ай бұрын
Reminds me of what Cary Grant told the director and writer of 'Charade' (1963). He was 59, and his co-star (Audrey Hepburn) was still in her early/mid 30s. He told them he didn't want his character to be the one initiating flirting with her in the movie. He thought it "unseemly" (today we'd say "creepy"). He agreed to do the role only if _she_ was the one who initiated the flirting and kept encouraging the relationship. And that's exactly how they played it, and it worked brilliantly. (Great movie, btw.) Cheers.
@omegarugal92836 ай бұрын
exactly, and before anything happens i give the speech "look lady, im x years older than you, are you sure you wanna do this?"
@notazip68142 жыл бұрын
I’m seeing a gal 26 - I’m 63 . Confidant, solid frame guys
@silencescreams46802 жыл бұрын
How did you get her?
@brianlane95342 жыл бұрын
@@silencescreams4680 I wouldn't date a woman I couldn't lift up easily.
@tem31112 жыл бұрын
Stop the cap
@silencescreams46802 жыл бұрын
@@brianlane9534 me neither but what does it have to do with age?
@chrispekel5709 Жыл бұрын
Filipino??
@davidkane32442 жыл бұрын
Your videos are so helpful, many of the things you say I have in place already! I just needed to take down my self imposed road blocks and relax and enjoy the process, thanks
@johnhudson19652 жыл бұрын
Be respectful,decent,kind and considerate to women ..but always put yourself first ,in a non selfish way. By trying to please her all the time you’ll end up been disrespected and discarded . The age issue doesn’t really count , if you ‘connect’ with her then charm and woo her, if its meant to be that’s great ! It’s easily possible to have a fantastic relationship with a woman decades younger than yourself, eg look at Mick Jagger and his wife
@barryklein6521 Жыл бұрын
Act like a daddy twards her childeren and like them or act like you like them and it will melt her heart and she will be yours...
@stevelopinto49282 жыл бұрын
My favorite content, keep them coming Anna!
@reb10502 жыл бұрын
i have a friend who is in his mid 60's. He's was dating a woman that is 29. He is 12 yrs. older than her dad is. He's what many refer to as an "old school biker". He's got long hair, a full beard, and, at his age, is living on a modest income. She's beautiful in every sense of the word. I often have had the opportunity to be around them on numerous occasions and studied their interactions. From what I have witnessed, he treats her with respect and consideration. He listens to her without judgement. He often relates past experiences to her, but 9 out of 10 times, it's in a way that's comical in the outcome...usually at his expense. I can see that the advice in this video is being used to some degree. I think he won her over by being somewhat of an old school romantic. It seems she had never experienced that before. I was actually present when I think he won her over completely. They were celebrating her birthday at a local restaurant and for her birthday, he did not buy her a gift. Instead, he gave her a birthday card and it had a poem he wrote inside. I wish I could have seen it, because after she read it, she burst into tears and hugged him so hard, I thought his head was going to pop off. He eventually ended the relationship and when I asked him why, he said that she had been alone and taking care of her children (2 of them) for years. One was autistic and would probably have to have special attention for quite a while. He said that she needed someone closer to her own age to help with that because, in his words, by the time the child can go off on her own, he would be so old that she would be having to take care of him. She needed a life without having to live it for others.
@a320nick6 ай бұрын
That was beautiful and such truth.....sad but, not really.....great people.
@sih37256 ай бұрын
Funny video!! The creator said don't need to spend lots of money when you are older to get younger girls then proceeds to list multiple things that cost lots of money 🤣🤣
@honeybear84852 жыл бұрын
I'm 51..and I still get the eye from the younger lady's ..😊 the best wing on the planet. ..right here guys ,👍👍💚💚💚💚💚💙💜💝💖💗💓💌
@honeybear84852 жыл бұрын
@Anthony Manzio yep just have find the right ones 👍👍
@jackwalker1822 Жыл бұрын
You make good sense. Most dating videos are BS but I think you make some really good suggestions for things that will work.
@chrisholt48042 жыл бұрын
Guys. This message is telling you to succumb to woman. Never, I repeat NEVER succumb to woman and never let her call the shots. Ever. You are the man, you are the prize. These chicks need to prove themselves to you.
@fruitybts87742 жыл бұрын
you've never been with a girl before, have you? perhaps you swing the other way?
@overk1llz2 жыл бұрын
Some of the things she said I'm just gonna do the opposite, I get better results.
@2000sancho2 жыл бұрын
Just because you're old doesn't mean you need to look old exercise eat well and groom yourself
@markmarco28802 жыл бұрын
Boy, you are a doctor! And by that I mean that you come off like a true professional. On romance. Appreciate you, and putting yourself out there. Makes me wanna be like you. Which is great.
@Clownboy152 жыл бұрын
#1: Be mature. Me, a former circus performer and professional clown who collects arcade cabinets: I’m out!
@alant22082 жыл бұрын
I suppose being responsible is close enough to what she means.
@Clownboy152 жыл бұрын
@@alant2208 well, she did make that crack about going to arcades. I’m just having a bit of fun, but I’m also a geek, so my hobbies could be considered by some as “immature” like collecting arcade games. But I’ve also have never had a problem attracting younger women. My fiancée was only thirty-five when I lost her last year and I’m about to turn forty-eight. I have always had a harder time attracting women my own age. Closet I’ve ever dated to my own age was my first girlfriend who was four years younger than me.
@cory351822 күн бұрын
I am 78 and my gal is 36. Shes currently outside chatting with the pool boy. We have a strong love.
@prepperjonpnw64822 жыл бұрын
Another thing I’ve noticed about dating younger women or even just being friends with them is that they feel safer with an older more mature and more experienced man. First we tend to not get ourselves into bad situations in the first place lol. Second, quite a few of us have served in the military and/or we have also already been in our share of physical altercations. A couple of years ago I was taking an evening walk with my younger female date when two guys tried to rob/mug us. I know the smart thing to do is just give them your money and watch and simply replace them later. These two wanted more than just our money and jewellery though. It was over in a matter of seconds but one ended up in a coma for several months before he died and the other now makes due with one kidney and part of his liver had to be removed. I was cleared of any wrongdoing mainly because it was their weapons that caused their injuries. I’m 5’9” 200 lbs with less than 15% body fat. Years as an Airborne Ranger followed by several more years in special squads for LAPD and a keene interest in self defence make a difference at any age lol. Young punks picked the wrong couple to try and rob. Point being my date was very pleased to be with a man who can keep her safe. For those of you that don’t have a background like mine, my advice is to first make sure you are never in a vulnerable position ever. Second is do something now such as get into shape, take a boxing class and a wrestling class. You don’t need fancy martial arts that are usually worthless anyways. Almost every altercation I have ever been in that didn’t involve a gun got down to punching and/or wrestling on the ground even if someone has a knife. Trust me when I tell you that if you hit someone in the face with enough force to crack their cheekbone or crush their eye, they will leave you alone. If they don’t then kick them in the nads so hard that they have to open their mouth to pee from then on. Knife? Grab their wrist and with the other hand hit them in the throat crushing their windpipe. Simple things are best, they work and they’re easy to remember. My date told her girlfriends what had happened and two things occurred. The single ones asked if I had any friends they could meet and the married ones asked me to teach their husbands how to do what I did lol. Sua Sponte!
@ctaigwoolsey34712 жыл бұрын
I got you all beat women of the no matter what age it's always been if you ever thought I was ugly and creepy looking no dates no girlfriends ever that's proof of it right there so that is this b******* applies to me
@ctaigwoolsey34712 жыл бұрын
I've never had a date my f****** life I'm 58 years old never had a girlfriend never had any f****** dates because they all f****** think I'm ugly and creepy and I'm just the way I am just where naturally that way I guess everybody else in this world is just like they f****** got everything f****** coming but I don't have nothing coming to me why what the f***
@ezkempinkemp34672 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this world a safer place.
@thedudeabides39302 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the tip! (I just hired two guys to pretend to attack me on a date.)
@Johnadams207602 жыл бұрын
thank you for your service. however, most of us are not militarily trained.
@Daoistify Жыл бұрын
Japanese women typically don’t view age gaps important as they get older and unmarried. Naturally in the 20s and 30s they want a younger man like in the states. However, I married a beautiful Japanese woman 23 years younger than my self. Of course, I am in good physical and emotional shape which she noticed and made me attractive to her. Also, I learned a lot from my previous marriage. So, I showed respect, caring and affection like everyone wants.
@kennyslaughenhaupt38392 жыл бұрын
Nice comment I'm 60 , let me tell you something I'm 54 and I've been married for 31 years my stepson who is now 40 years old moved in here 10 years ago and has only works three of those 10 years sporadically finally got a permanent job where he's making money my wife and him moved out and got an apartment together because for 10 years I have disagreed with a man a grown ass man living at home with his mama not being able to support himself paying his bills we have and feeding him, he has been living under my roof and my wife tells me that I am immature so you answer that f****** one !!! Answer that one for me. I have been supporting a grown ass man through his adulthood is agreed with it and she protects him over me and I'm the one that's immature so after that one for me ladies I want to hear it ladies come on.
@jayhockley8841 Жыл бұрын
There is a whole Generation out there that feels that they don't have to work and their ' mommys ' will support them . I partially raised a step-son who turned out to be a thief , like his real father . I havnt heard from him in years . Good riddence . Your Wife should have supported your decision that he ' Grow up " but blood is thicker than water and he obviously has her fooled .
@byron8657 Жыл бұрын
Yes! As my Grandfather use to say Old Horse eats young grass! And young vine climbs old trees k!
@warrior_of_da-Tetragrammaton Жыл бұрын
I unconsciously do that… I’m 37, one of my girls is 23 and the other ones are either above 23 or pre-wall. Also, do NOT show weaknesses, just be a little vulnerable (but not weak)
@kjkrantz91227 ай бұрын
Yeah what's considered weaknesses? That you shouldn't ever show or do?
@tonyjones81492 жыл бұрын
Older man ur chances are 10-fold better in a brothel at 2am and the choices are better and they’re younger - no wowing needed.
@detroitcowboy1313 Жыл бұрын
Guys …use this line when she’s having a bad day or a problem , “ Is there anything I can do to help ? “
@davinalopez-oz1ez11 күн бұрын
im 28 and my gf is 17 been together for 5 months. Been going well so far
@philmitchell88872 жыл бұрын
ahmm mighty glad this still goes on pardner.
@bloodshadow70822 жыл бұрын
On Discord people get mad because I find 20 year old women hot and sexy, and they call me a creep because of me being in my 40's. Makes no sense.
@southernguru14552 жыл бұрын
Haters are gonna do their job
@srsr80376 ай бұрын
I'm 73 and have 20 somethings crossing my path frequently. If they're my type, I'll speak with them, if not, I dance around them and move along. Recently, at a gas station, a 20 something girl slamed her body into mine when I wasn't looking. I had noticed her fawning over me before at other locations in town. I asked her if she had just run into me and she said yes. Then I turned and walked away. That's just the way it goes sometimes.
@BWater-yq3jx5 ай бұрын
It's probably because you're using the words 'hot & sexy'.
@billytothe6thpowerАй бұрын
I'm 96 I have hot 30 somethings looking at me all the time. A few ended up on my couch
@surplussean33642 жыл бұрын
I'm in my early 40s. I have girls in their 20s hitting on me all the time. I've had to reject a few coworkers advances because I'm married
@Keeter1012 жыл бұрын
"Mansplaining", silly little feminist term and very sexist.
@Tyranix972 жыл бұрын
Chronological age is irrelevant among consenting adults. ... But, biological age is relevant if offspring are desired. ... High value people tend to seek out like minded individuals and tend to avoid those who seem "not ready yet," "not sure," "don't know," "already have," or are "sorry" and "forget" a lot--as they are aware of the stress and pain connected with bad relationships.
@jimmyyu21842 жыл бұрын
Oh, Gosh, "Show her something she's never seen before..." Reminds me so much of the Henny Youngman joke.
@thedudeabides39302 жыл бұрын
lol
@jonbeams97862 жыл бұрын
I cook. I once went to a woman's home. And cooked for her. Played chess while chicken baked. We talked.laughed.after dinner. I washed dried. She thought it was a fantastic date. She played with my hair. She said it was late. And snowing out side. She was calling off in the morning. I don't sleep around, I need that connection. She wanted a 1 nite stand. Maybe a backup friend. I never saw her again.
@dngrwllrbnsn_2 жыл бұрын
Dude, that is rough. I think she felt inferior to you and couldn't handle anymore of a very nice man. Or she has borderline personality disorder. Move on, your tactics will win you the right girl.
@michau_127 ай бұрын
I'am 59, my Girlfriend 35, she was looking for a man she could trust in, we love each other deeply. It later showed up that she does'nt strugle with money, and she don't care that I don't have that much money myself. Her daughter calls me Dad, All by herself.
@christalley95392 жыл бұрын
This gorgeous young woman hosting this site is mesmerizing to me.Gazing at her and listening to her speaking actually makes me smile. I'm not some kind of weirdo perving out over a random supermodel type woman on the freaking internet . It's not like that .I just reckoned I would state my opinion,for what little it may be worth , about this site ; and say : to exercise the 3L's in Life ( which are to LOOK,Listen, and Learn) doing so in this site," with this breath of fresh air narrating the advice ",is a pleasure .
@silencescreams46802 жыл бұрын
I definitely want a younger woman.
@johnquartieri51416 ай бұрын
Say high maintenance without saying it
@Alexbank2406 ай бұрын
I was very impressed w your clip and totally agree. Actually I was kind of surprised as well as how well it was presented.👌👌
@johnmcguigan44567 ай бұрын
This is very worrying, we continually see and hear about old guys getting taken for a ride by the gold diggers, all too often these younger women are coached by their older friends to go to work on their frailties and emotions, which is what will get you rinsed.
@tomsullivan8435 Жыл бұрын
Be careful, while it is totally possible to date younger women, they can easily be put off on the idea for a lot of reasons. Here's what I have learned. Most women will at some point in her life date an older man, and when I say older, I mean 15+ years older. With a bad experience it can turn into a one and done forever. This is where everything Joyanima talks about in this video comes into play. About 20% of the women out in the market are open to the idea of going older, with the right man, and 10% of women actually prefer dating older men. The problem is you won't know how a woman feels about this until you put yourself out there. It's easy to get frustrated when younger women reject you, but remember it really is a math equation and timing plays a big part. You need to appreciate why a young woman would even consider the idea of dating you. A lot of men under 30 haven't established themselves and may never do so, they smoke pot, play online gaming, and mistreat women like their hip-hop idols do in the videos. After years of dating these types, women start wanting the old-fashioned gentleman that reminds them of their dads or grandads. You have to deliver on whatever she imagines dating an older, mature guy is like and you won't know exactly, but she will indirectly tell you if you pay attention. Also, the approach you use for the 18-22 year old grouping is going to be different than the 23-27 year old group, and with the 28-32 year old group, the approach is going to change again. When you get a younger woman responding to you, try to remember what was important for her approximate age and lean into it with your approach. If a younger woman doesn't respond, move on, she may have a boyfriend or isn't attracted to you. It's the creepy old men that are giving the sport a bad name.
@jackcrater9725 Жыл бұрын
I'm 32 but often get told I look almost 10 years younger than I am. This girl I sometimes work with is 24 and can tend to be a bit flirty and teases me a lot. I felt kind of weird at first to tease back but I slowly gotten more comfortable around her. She even admitted to me before that she apologizes for coming off too flirty before and the fact I already knew she had a boyfriend and said thank you for not trying to pursue or hit on her. As attractive as she is I still try my best to stay neutral but because of how young and cute she is it definitely doesn't make it easy on me sometimes lol.
@Bill-tz3wg Жыл бұрын
Must've been tough looking like a fetus when you were in grade school. Then again, in the overwhelming spirit of truth on this page, you probably dated some hot fetuses when you were 10.
@dondavis1779 Жыл бұрын
8 years is nothing! :)
@Bill-tz3wg Жыл бұрын
@@dondavis1779 - Like if you got a cancer that takes 8 years off your life, that's nothing.
@dondavis1779 Жыл бұрын
@@Bill-tz3wg I don't know if you're agreeing with me or busting my balls so I can't give you a thumbs-up or a thumbs-down
@hansmeier3287 Жыл бұрын
32? This video isn't for you yet.😊
@LedByGrace7 ай бұрын
My wife is younger than me-by about 3 years. Married for 30 years and we still rock each other’s world. Keep yourself in good physical, emotional and spiritual condition and be confident with how God made you. Be Life to the extreme -and for crying out loud, learn to be spontaneous and funny, Woman love it. 🎉
@retepnosbig48598 ай бұрын
i love younger woman...i'm 48 and my girl is 19....you might say that's quite the age gap and may not last but we've just had our 10 year anniversary! time has proven our love 😍
@paulottis59568 ай бұрын
So you started a relationship with her when she was 9 and you were 38???
@CD-sz7tf7 ай бұрын
That's great you guys have got past all the nosey family questioning of your love and all of the stereotypes of child pedophilia being put to rest. It must have been great when she finally stopped playing with barbie dolls since they can be so expensive for a new romance, and paying for those damn school lunches...so expensive!
@absurdnerd76243 ай бұрын
Since you admitted that you started dating her when she was 9, I am going to guess that you are from Kentucky. And she is your daughter. 😋
@Nedmar2 жыл бұрын
The problem arises when you are of a certain age, but you look 10 to 15 years younger so that it becomes somewhat weird when one eventually dates a woman about one's age or even a bit older. Passers-by may even think that one is being accompanied by his mother.
@markmarco28802 жыл бұрын
I’m starting to think that maybe 30-plus is the answer after all.
@silencescreams46802 жыл бұрын
Thats why a normal guy should not date older woman or even a woman the same age
@darioschaeffer55132 жыл бұрын
Welcome to my world
@bigslice542 жыл бұрын
Women my own age look more like my mom than my gf. Lol Sorry ladies. I get older. You stay the same age.
@mikefran19922 жыл бұрын
That happened to me. I dated a girl a year older when I was 24 but she looked like she was maybe 18-19 some people thought she was even younger. It was funny when she always got her ID checked thoroughly and I didn't. I never saw her as younger though and would joke around about her being a cougar.
@FlyingFun. Жыл бұрын
Date them if you must, dont marry or even move in with them though, and do not get them pregnant. I'm married, 6 years younger than me, the age thing is easy to see though. I never had much luck with girls in my youth but now I feel like women of all ages are getting desperate enough to start flirting with me in my old age lol.
@brianc165122 күн бұрын
I feel like I am good somewhat attracting or at least being flirty, playful with younger women. I haven't successfully dated any though. One coworker gave me her number out of the blue and said, I can't stop thinking about you. When I asked her out, she sid she wasn't ready to date after a bad break up. I gave it a few months and tried again, but she was moving away shortly.
@neilgibson6056 Жыл бұрын
I disagree about introducing her to your mature friends, at least the single ones. Besides, I'm would be trying to keep her focused on me and not anybody else.
@michaelcushman2 жыл бұрын
Learn to dance, well. Salsa or Arginine Tango. These dances are popular all around the world. women LOVE to dance! If you can lead and move musically, you will always have women, of all ages, in your arms. Yes, it takes effort and practice. What hobbies don't, but this hobby keeps you young and desirable until you die.
@danerve18782 жыл бұрын
I have plenty of experience with this subject. It's not easy and there's one out there that will stick with you so work on self first before you climb into any relationship. 6 years single now and I'm at peace but hopefully God will provide a great woman for me.
@ImranKhan-tj3dr2 жыл бұрын
I m single Alone Looking life partner well u 👧👧😍❤❤🌷🌷🌷 me
@kennyslaughenhaupt3839 Жыл бұрын
I have been working on myself I have been going to counseling marriage counseling you know who I've been going to marriage counseling with nobody I've been going by myself she told me one time one time she wanted to go and then when the time came she said where you going I said to counseling she said oh well I'm going to go for something else I said Okay. This kid is 40 years old and he's still on the nipple
@kennyslaughenhaupt3839 Жыл бұрын
Yeah she's a special kind of angry she twists memories around like molten steel I'll never understand I will also never understand why she puts her 40-year-old son on a pedestal when he can't even put himself on a step stool
@paulyboy1951 Жыл бұрын
My marriage lasted 24 years. We didn't split because of infidelity, but other issues. I am 71 and have been single since our 2006 divorce, and it will stay that way.
@ronyrodriguez85332 жыл бұрын
hello Joyanima. what is the age range you are talking about? l am 58 l don’t see me dating someone in their 20s or on their 30s… because what is the youngest a 58 year old man could date? or am l out of the dating game altogether?
@bobertjones23002 жыл бұрын
I heard a formula in the movie Malcom X: Half your age plus seven years Not sure of its origin or efficacy. I guess it's the minimum age. Sixteen years is the extreme outer range from personal experience.
@JohnBoulding2 жыл бұрын
I've dated two women 20 years younger than me while in my 50s. If you are both into it, it works great. First time I was 52 and she was 32, second time I was 57 and she was 37. No I'm not rich, lol. We just clicked and it felt right
@outdoorsguru2 жыл бұрын
My current girlfriend is 23. I am 58. The problem is all in your head, put there by older women and men who can't get a younger girl. To expand on this, not all younger girls will date an older man, but you would be surprised.
@michaelz65552 жыл бұрын
@@bobertjones2300 "Half your age plus seven" is something I've heard for over forty years. It's a solid metric that works from age fourteen and up. Adhering to that will keep you from overly immature women when you're older, and it will keep you out of jail when you're younger.
@bobertjones23002 жыл бұрын
@@michaelz6555 Well said. It would appear to be a natural algebraic equation!
@rajendrabareto80652 ай бұрын
I am 49 and separated from last 3 years. Many young women showing signs of interest. I was not ready and didn’t find it good to flirt with younger women. Also I look 10y younger as per my friends and colleagues so that may also a reason why they got attracted.
@clintpot85217 ай бұрын
Good list! Thanks for the ideas.
@stephenrollins829 Жыл бұрын
I'm 62 and my Wife is 31 and we get along so great and we enjoy our time together. In the bedroom we have a ball together
@MrOtis10016 ай бұрын
If my 31 year old daughter was with a 62 year old man I’d disown her.
@michaelhorn45402 жыл бұрын
I've always loved younger women! I'm 58 now but have dated women 15 years younger than me, but today I'm dating a beautiful, sexy, Honduran woman 7 years younger than me and I expect to marry her soon.
@thelegaloccupier19822 жыл бұрын
😎💪
@bigslice542 жыл бұрын
Buenas!
@brianrummel6128 ай бұрын
I get hit on by younger ladies often. I am 58 years of age. I found that just be direct and funny with her. They love it! Most importantly just be cool, if you have to buy her then she is no good game over!
@andersnielsen6044 Жыл бұрын
As a professor all I have to do is say "yes" to one-to-one interviews and reviews..
@asiandude83612 жыл бұрын
Some women like older men and some men like older women. It happens both ways.
@MyLostYouth2 жыл бұрын
Just because one is older doesn't mean one has more "experience". The whole point of dating someone young is to have someone to go to the arcade with / party, have fun, learn stuff with, etc. Girls half my age have more experience in the bedroom than I. I figure young girls would be more forgiving on going out with someone without much dating experience, whereas older women would probably more than frown at someone who doesn't - not interested in teaching, where with a young girl, they can learn together.
@garycard14562 жыл бұрын
Also, if you want to start a family, dating younger is a no-brainer. Good luck trying to start a family with a woman who is 40+ years old!
@bravesfandevotee23 Жыл бұрын
I get a bit of a creep vibe with people say young girl. lol
@smoothlyrough5129 ай бұрын
@@bravesfandevotee23maybe it's you then. As no one else seems to care. They know what we mean
@SuperQdaddy Жыл бұрын
Nothing new here...she has to like you period and that is up to you
@ellsed59166 ай бұрын
I'm 98 my girlfriend is 21 she says it's nothing to do with my millions in the bank she says she just thinks my cheeky farts in a morning are fun but to be honest I don't know I'm doing it.
@boristagesson9672 жыл бұрын
I have no friends.
@08980072 жыл бұрын
Me too, or money, or stories. 😂
@Peter-xo6bn Жыл бұрын
A wallet full of cash always works , 7 decades experience.
@nathaniellampman20523 ай бұрын
How many times when talking to young girls that are younger than you they complain about sexual harassment? It has happened to me many times.
@md.halimzaman46705 ай бұрын
Hi Joyanima! Enjoyable & informative. Looking amazing!
@colinmccarthy792110 ай бұрын
I have studied Psychology and Philosophy. Human Relationships,Behaviour,Love and Sex,is a Very Important Part of our Life’s.Personality,Character,Traits,Interests play an Important Part as well. Throughout our Life’s,we have Knowledge,Experience and Wisdom. Older Men have Maturity with Younger Women.Younger Women look for Maturity.❤️🙏🏻❤️.
@bbrown58618 ай бұрын
I am 63, and my partner is 35. The key for me is not only overcoming E.D., but thriving sexually. It took some tinkering, and l still have to “manage” my erections, but I found this combination to be successful: Diet, little to no alcohol, no narcotics, supplements of testosterone and nitric oxide and, of course, viagra/sildenifil.
@chatwithaninja7 ай бұрын
Get a Bathmate pump. It will help circulation where it's needed trust me. I started using one and I now have Morningwood just about every day
@discokillers86749 ай бұрын
In my 50s. Easier to meet women in their 20s and 30s than when I was their age.
@user-uq5qs5uh9k6 ай бұрын
All younger women and older women are all unique and not the same. Individual difference
@southernguru14552 жыл бұрын
It's called sugar daddy/ sugar baby situationship
@gorevarix40362 жыл бұрын
Taking her out to fancy restaurants and dinners is still spending money on her. If a guy has money, do something simple to get to know each other first. If she's bored and doesn't wanna stick around, move on...don't waste your time and money.
@jeremycarpenter5550 Жыл бұрын
I'm 47 and I have dated 10 years younger or 10 years older .
@orlandocamacho62597 ай бұрын
Hi everyone I’m 61 my lady she is 30. I tell many times how beautiful she is and I ask her about the age gap is it okay with her she tells me she wants an older man she doesn’t care about age. She likes when I tell her that I want to go marry places with her park beaches movies and romantic dinners ect she loves it. So I’m learning that I’m on the right track with her. Thanks for the video.
@GuitarGuru-AndyPaul2 жыл бұрын
Lol first share advises to take her to a really really expensive restaurant, and right after that she advises not to try to buy her;-)
@ProgressiveDiscussions2 жыл бұрын
Take her out to dinner to a really nice restaurant? I knew it was going in this direction. Spend a lot and keep entertaining the gold digger. And then when money suddenly becomes tight then she leaves. Relationships should not be like having a sales job with a quota. I will pass. If the younger woman is really interested she will make an obvious move.
@jimaylan61407 күн бұрын
How about the classic, "Want a piece of candy, little girl?"
@user-og4wu5yl9i6 ай бұрын
Yes you or the very one on my mind
@jvaught58 Жыл бұрын
You guys encourage me. I'm 64, millionaire and the woman I've been flirting with is a 31-yr-old mother of three, mature, wants a husband, getting to know each other well, and I can picture us married. Oh she's unbelievably gorgeous also. Wish me luck--or offer me advice
@armandosanchez8329 Жыл бұрын
Good luck for your money 💵 my friend 🤠
@callmeishmael3031 Жыл бұрын
She's a mother of three and she wants a husband? You're kidding? Wow, that's really unusual. What a catch!
@adaptercrash Жыл бұрын
You want sin o min bun
@chrispekel5709 Жыл бұрын
Surely you're joking?
@michaelcrann6241 Жыл бұрын
No advice Jack, just get on with it my friend and enjoy every minute!!
@styxzero1675 Жыл бұрын
I think most men want a younger woman, that is just in our nature and the upsides of a younger woman compared to an older one is endless compared to the downsides. Im 35 and I get hit on all the time by younger woman (maybe it is because I look alot younger than my age) but combine that with a more mature mental approach and younger women loves that from my experience. I see no reason at all to date women that are my age, they are more demanding, have more baggage and are usually pretty boring not to mention the look department and if you want kids. There are definately exceptions tho, some older woman looks young and are fun and does not have alot of baggage so then the age dosent matter.
@sleeve86517 күн бұрын
I forgot how old I am ! It really doesn't matter ! As long as I get to the Grade School in time to pick up my beautiful young, extremely attractive wife ! In case you're wondering, she's a Teacher ! 🤣😂🤣
@charlesvictorrose8 ай бұрын
I'm 84, my new gf is 19. Age is just a number and a mindset.
@michaeljackson73612 жыл бұрын
Younger women make me feel younger, wtf is wrong with that
@rickyking1790 Жыл бұрын
nothing at all
@carlosverde-datingtips70012 жыл бұрын
Great tips! Become a High Value Man on your Purpose, that way - you become the type of man that women are naturally attracted to - because you’ll be in High Demand! Women are going to be able to sense that immediately, quality women that is! - women that have their lives together. And therefore, you won’t need to chase them, because they’ll be drawn to you - like a magnet! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
@warfossil2 жыл бұрын
LMAO! You're listening to a fish explain to you on how to catch a fish.
@sleeplessgamingct42272 жыл бұрын
How many girls you got? Also how do you get them to stay?
@AB-vc7ox2 жыл бұрын
yeah be high value as in meal ticket
@michaelwhorton82869 ай бұрын
I'm 56 and I've doing some hugging with a pretty girl at work that is in her 20s. I've asked her out twice and she has flaked both times but she keeps smiling at me and hugging me. My sister and brother in law has a 20 year age difference between them and they have been married for 13 years.
@johnnyhorton598410 ай бұрын
Advice to man of any age - old or young. When I was an adolescent I didn't think I was attractive. My feet are too wide, my ankles are too thin, my legs are too bowed, my hips are too wide, my biceps aren't big, the list goes on and on. Around the age of 14 I was even afraid of my forehead which I hid under my fringe. Then sometime when I was around 18 I had a couple of thousand pounds, it doesn't have to be expensive to travel, and I travelled from Canada, through Western USA in the Summer, and down through Mexico and Central America. I wasn't looking for sex or love, I figured I was too ugly to be loved anyway, so I was just exploring the world and learning as I backpacked, staying at YHAs. I gradually gained confidence through being able to find the right buses and hostels and start to learn Spanish. I met smart university students backpacking and could have intelligent conversations with them, I have a curious mind, so I gained general self-confidence. And being among Hispanic people really boosted my body confidence because gradually I realised that girls in Mexico liked my blue eyes, my fair hair got blond in the sun and it seemed that girls loved my hairy bowed legs in shorts. Haha! Just as the lovely presenter of this KZfaq clip said, my kindness shone through my smile and I even found Mexican girls following me down the street. By the time I got to Costa Rica a whole group of school girls whistled a 'cat call' at me! Bless them! I started to realise that I was really attractive. Probably my key attractiveness was my curious mind and heart's desire to see other people happy and understand how the world worked and try to learn how to make it a better world for other people. But, the key factor was simply that I was moving and exploring. I didn't meet girls on a volcano in Oregon. I didn't meet girls at the Grand Canyon. I didn't meet girls in San Francisco. I didn't meet girls on the beach in LA. I didn't meet girls going down Baja California. I didn't meet girls in Mexico City. I didn't meet girls trekking up the volcano next to Mexico City. I didn't meet girls at Maya Temples on the Yucatan Peninsular. But, somewhere along the way a few girls followed me down the street. In Belize a girl tripped me up at a crazy club and afterwards I realised she had been telling me she liked me. In Costa Rica I did some dancing at a holiday taverna and some older women sexily rubbed their bodies up against me was we danced, they are much more physical in Central America. Finally I started to realise that one just flows along until the magic of love happens. Then I realised that millions of men and women of all ages have low self-worth and lack confidence because they have been trying to find love in the wrong places at the wrong times. Of course girls dream of falling in love in beautiful places, some of which are not expensive at all. So go to beautiful places. Some places, serendipitously, things will happen. Travel wisely and have safe adventures, see amazing things and learn lots, and you will start to shine. Never underestimate the power of building up good karma. Along the way I did voluntary cotton picking in Nicaragua to help the nation. Then in Costa Rica unexpectedly love happened, a beautiful Danish girl backpacker loved me, and lots of other beautiful girls made a target of me. Suddenly I discovered that I was really very attractive and I actually got spoilt by how easy I found it to pick up women. So you are probably much more attractive than you realise. And, you may well just be in the wrong place at the wrong time. And, what you really need is an adventure, and best of all would be a beautiful magical place where women want to fall in love. Where is that perfect place? You will find it as you explore while building good karma.
@ajamant37162 жыл бұрын
Steer clear gents: show her a good time (deep insight). Next she says take her to a special dinner and the next point “don’t buy her love”. Fish don’t teacher fisherman how to catch them.
@bigslice542 жыл бұрын
"Take her on a helicopter ride....It doesn't have to be expensive" lol
@menorcaventura3442 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. I kept thinking, “I don’t need to be womansplained about women”. I have life experience. She needs to impress me if she is younger, not the other way around.
@a320nick6 ай бұрын
"Hey Baby, how about a trip to Mars!"
@johnnybbgunner21362 жыл бұрын
Just want a companion that will take me for who I am…if treated okay, I will leave her all my belongings when I am gone making her well off with a house, cars and cash.😎