I wish great health to your husband, lady!

my dad is from oct 29.

MAY THE GOOD LORD SHINE HIS LIGHT ON YOU TWO FOR ANOTHER 45YRS!!!

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Word.

And, for men like you it's the size of her implants. Olivia Hanson: I couldn't agree more.

Could you PLEASE email my wife that? She needs to hear that from a female and not a male that is her husband.

Thank you! All are arguments mostly because we don't have most things in common, we let each other enjoy apart, but come together what we both enjoy, if that makes any sense Lol.

Seems like you're wasting your time. The hell is the point.

I should have saved more money...

It’s up to family and community to inform young people. Schools, it seems, seek to destroy traditional families. That said, we live in a different world today. Television programming and its messaging, are a formidable force of degeneracy. Family shows, in which the children disrespect their oafish parents, is but one example. Without the negative programming from the television, families would stand a chance. The Amish have it right. Happy 20th!!!!

They definitely won't. Schools want your child to believe they can be whatever gender they "want" to be. They'll force their ideology onto your child.

@@tanneredge9774 I think I'm seeing that for myself.

What is Marriage? I mean sure you have to pay rent, and buy groceries... but so does everyone married or not. I've been married almost 16 years and still just think of it as being with the one person that I like spending time with the most.

​@@tanneredge9774nail on the head 👍

@MorTobXD only twelves years married, but still don't regret it 😊😊😊😊

Always remember to repent of your sins (sin is transgression of YAHUAH’S LAW: Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers, & Deuteronomy) And Have Belief On YAHUSHA HAMASHYACH. HE Died and Rose three days later so that you can be forgiven of your sins! HE Loves you! Come to HIM!🙂🙂🙂

I can confirm. I'm nineteen, and it's strange looking back two years ago and realizing how much growth and maturity I've gone through.

@@ReyBanYAHUAH pleas stop these stupid messages they are so annoying not everybody has same religion or is non-religious and I see these stupid messages that arent even religious 🙄🙄

No you didn't, you just started to learn when you started being banged. Like everyone today.

Arе you making thеsе mistakes with your man? twitter.com/a9c60516d47d92b7a/status/804693412402241537 Are You Ready For MMarriage 1950

@ God has blessed you. But others aren't that fortunate.

I thought you were joeanna the moment I saw your profile 😂

Amen!

THANK YOU!!! THIS EXPLAINS WHY MY PARENTS WERE DOOMED......

Very scientific. Way over my head.

I definitely wasn’t expecting that when he mentioned a graph or data- a numbered board with a few dolls.

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two separate studies, yo!

adamatomic41 Well said!

@@laurenking5342 ^

'In marriage it is well to say that two become one. The question is; which one?' - someone

absoluetly true

I want to have children in the future, but I am not sure if I want to be married.

never underestimate the power of BOING!

Yes, it requires BOING BOING BOING BOING BOING BOING BOING BOING

@@GenerallyGeneralLee like your comment. like your id

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After knowing each other for only 3 months and some odd days, that’s the only thing on their minds.

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Human nature doesn't change that much

The bonding between two human beings in the oldest story of humanity

And don't forget booze 🤓🚽and gambling 💰

I've heard about a couple who got married after three months of dating. The husband killed his wife.

my dad proposed to my mum after 2 weeks of knowing each other

+ScoffSlaphead72 I know a couple that run away together the day after meeting each other for the first time xD. They got married and they celebrated their 50th anniversary two or three years ago. They are from my Parish (Church). :). Your comment is good. There are exceptions to the rule, but i agree with EclecticDancerp, most of couples with 3 moths tend to see only the good side of everything. It's important to get to know the other person well. But, basically it can work with anybody. The thing it's to learn to love the person you liked at first, with all its good and bad things. :D. *Sorry my english is not very good x_X. Greetings.

You forgot 17 hours!

And she is eighteen!

You're old fashioned and both you and the guy are WRONG! Sex and marriage, go together like a horse and carriage.....

He is absolutely right.

I haven't even watched the video but it can't be any worse than today marriage

That would be the exception, not the rule. I think two people should date for at least 1 to 1.5 years at the very least before engagement

How did you know she was the one?

Worked for us, too.

if you have your first kid in 1986 s/he is my age

That is unusual now a days to still be married after knowing each other for such a short time

Nyla Nelson It’s only unusual because our culture has forgotten what marriage is and how to make it work.

@@nylanelson5212 i knew my husband 34 days before marrying him. LEGIT. Going on 15 years and very happy…

Dang ya'll really must've really clicked. I'm not surprised. It's happened to many of the people I know

If we lived in times like this, we wouldn't have problems

Pastors are a great help in that regard, probably one of the main reasons why religious people are more successful at marriages.

@YamiKisara After government took over churches with the tax exemption act its hit or miss on whether they'll be good guidance.

I agree

I actually came here for the advice. Got to go back in time to find a dating guru with some sound advice 😄

there’s nothing to make fun of

Really????!?!?

@@shannon473 old time misogyny, racism, their effed up values.

​@@marshiemoonYou've been listening to too much MSM

im surprised a black marriage lasted so long is he white ?

@@mohnish7653 No, darling, he is all soul brother. At the time of this reply to you, in four months it'll be 35 years! But trust me, even though staying hitched to each other is the biggest challenge of our lives, if you call on the Lord like we try to do, you can make it through anything, one day at a time.

that’s so cool!

Good for you!

Love it, 35 years is impressive especially these days people never last these days, sending all my love

hothmandon .

Shardae .Greene 😂n that's why you should never get married

I LOST IT HAHAHAHAH

I laughed when that happen 😂

Absolute truth though.

@@matinajazmine Marriage is signing a piece of paper. Nothing more or less. It's being together for a long time and not understanding how to make it work that's the problem.

no I rather everyone today don't behave like plastic

+cathy2000 I can see both, perhaps something that hits upon the ideas, the importance of consideration, and understanding, without the weird outdated pandering.

+cathy2000 I don't care how they behave. the important thing IS THE POINT. not just young ppl but EVERYONE OF EVERY AGE needs to hear this.

amen this is more important today bc of our lack of respect for the sanctity of marriage and our outrageous divorce rate

+randall2020 if you look for racism youll find it. similar backgrounds implies nothing racially at all. it more likely meant were they of the same religion/similar family style etc. and there used to be a sanctity of marriage. our stark individualism has ruined that.

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Mostly single black mothers here in the US..... multiple kids by multiple fathers.

Sheesh she did say African but I guess PRC NH you should have been specific on your exact location because people can’t wait to nitpick. I get it, your family and those you associate with have parents that understand the importance of the right mate. Blessed you are!

You mean before the African man marries 5 other women and then runs around town knocking his girlfriends up.

@@michaelbritt2162 you sound like a racist piece of shit. Stop that racist assumption of black women you moron

@@inmyelementblue7186 Just because you don't like the statistics doesn't mean its racist. Facts are facts silly

And getting to know oneself

They knew eachother for 3 months

Society forces the institution of marriage on people before they are ready.

It's very treacly, but not too far-fetched. A bigger problem is that we have a tendency to treat the unmarried like children in society who haven't "figured it out" yet. In areas that emphasize purity culture, the more severe, the worse the marriage outcomes tend to be. Young Adults are naturally eager to begin romantic and sexual relationships, and when they are forced to completely hold off until marriage, people tend to jump the gun to get married before they are ready. Parents in those cultures also tend to allow marriages to happen quickly with limited dating/romance/sex experiences because they are afraid that their kids, especially their daughters, may be unable to resist temptation and "ruin" their so-called purity.

correct

But it made sense and was CLEAR!

Yes, a black and white film with sets and you take that as to mean an illustration of the time. That was hardly high-tech for the time, you just ignored the entire video to get your quick "past-is-primitive" gag out there, which I'm afraid won't work as soon as you see it in real time real footage, especially in color, and in sound.

@@WitchKing-Of-Angmar Actually I liked the film and made a lot of good points.

@@poetcomic1 I'm sure you do, but you are clearly talking down to an era using a strawman creation and naive recounts of the past to make an assumption that isn't true. That was an entirely modern time in 1950. In another world that better represented these eras, there would not be comments primitizing the time, and people wouldn't be so darn afraid to compliment the era for its hard work and never ending atulment.

@@WitchKing-Of-Angmar I was just clowning. WOW you are INTENSE. I would hate to go camping with you:

Sounds like my parents. They dated for 6 weeks and were married for 54 years.

Maybe you didn't talk about those things consciously, but you probably got an idea about them subconsciously. I mean...when you start dating someone, chances are you met him or her during an activity you enjoy, so that already means you share at least some hobbies. Or if it was a classmate, you know the same people. You go out to eat or watch a movie, BANG! You get to know a LOT about what your significant other likes. Or your date might make some remarks that you agree with or that annoy you because they go against your beliefs or POVs. Once you learn where the other lives and their job, you have a good idea about their financial situation (of course, they may be terribly in debt, but generally speaking it gives you an idea) and will compare it to yours even without really thinking about it. Within six months you probably had the chance to disagree about something or see his or her reaction to children - all of that tells you about their views on those topics. So yeah, the video makes the lovers more consciously think about stuff, but I reckon most people from normal households (aka mother and father present) catch on about this stuff without explicitly sitting down and planning with their date. Obviously it's a good trait to be able to do that on the go, as you'll eventually have to figure out how to raise your children, where to go on vacation, or how to share hardships (although I don't wish those on anyone, but some will probably float everybody's way at some point).

The minister was also full of shit.

@@andreasantoni6896 Always remember to repent of your sins (sin is transgression of YAHUAH’S LAW: Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers, & Deuteronomy) And Have Belief On YAHUSHA HAMASHYACH. HE Died and Rose three days later so that you can be forgiven of your sins! HE Loves you! Come to HIM!🙂🙂🙂

Cultural Marxism completely threw everything upside down and here is the mess we are living in today with record divorce rates, single mothers and sexual degeneracy everywhere.

Ahh the 60's, when the beginnings of today's debauchery really got swinging! All social scientists know this, but many are paid to say otherwise. Mind you, Hollywood had a hand in this decades earlier by portraying men as bullying misogynist wife beaters.

We were married in 1974...I was 2 months shy of my 20th birthday...

Omg how did you know he was going to stick around? 3 years is a long time to hope it becomes romantic… 😭

@@brooklyn3299 He told me that he wanted to be more than friends too and so he said he would wait for me and he did. He didn't date or talk to any other girls, I was truly his best friend and he mine. We always knlew we would get married someday it just wasn't time to date yet. We've been married 3 years now!

How long did you make him wait? How many men did you sleep with while making him wait? How much do you disrespect him? How many times have you considered bringing up a open ‘relationship’ to him knowing he’s a weak man and won’t leave you? Or have you done that already? I’d get your Husband to watch Red Pill content and Men’s advice channels to make sure you’re not disrespecting him.

⁠​⁠@@Imthesoulofthesgood lord. get a grip. have you ever considered that some people are in happy, devoted relationships? and for all you talk about “disrespect”, you don’t seem to respect women all that much.

@@Imthesoulofthes who the heck messed you up? 🤣😂😂

cherryclan1 thank you for sharing! This has given me so much help!

Bullshit. I've been on long distance relationships and if it wasn't for my phone and computer, I would have never had the life I had, but probably a more solitary one. And before you say anything, shyness and being overweight don't do any good in a world where we're judged by looks

you commented this on youtube dipshit

youtube is also social media. silly statements like "back in the 1950s everything was fine without computers, ergo we can return to exactly that kind of living now and it will only result in the good qualities I perceive from that time being promoted"

I agree they are wise words. If one looks past the dated mannerisms, the essential message is just as valid and valuable today.

Ethan Swords Very well said. This was how they taught young people about life before Kinsey’s lies and perversion infiltrated society. Every person should watch Judith Reisman’s documentary about it before having children of their own.

Wisely said!!

Agreed :)

wanna know what else isn't dated? The Bible ; the wisdom and knowledge of God.

They absolutely are!!

Yeah I guess you're right. Women really don't need an education. Just drop out of school and get married. In Sue's case, she'll go to school until LARRY graduates and then get married. Oh how I love the old days ;)

***** You guys have a very narrow view in life. Brainwashed to think that you have to be slaves to the capitalists.

Hayden Talmadge I'm surprised that the feminists haven't jumped onto you yet for saying that, even though your comment reeks of sarcasm.

88pie88 Shut up, hippy.

@Lord Farquaad wow you still living in a cave 🤣

@@pammir631 ☝️

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@@pammir631 17 is the age my grandma started dating my grandpa (He was 23).

I had a girlfriend in Kindergarten but I just know I want to get married and have kids

PS unlike everyone else, I do not count their age as a red flag, I got married at 18, and my fiance was 19, I am now 21 and our marriage is doing well. However we knew each other for 10 years when we got married, not 3 months. We grew up together. :)

Megan Baldwin, I agree that they do not seem ready for marriage, but any young couple who asks a minister or their parents or other moral respectful older person for advice on marriage, is VERY SMART! At least they are asking...and listening and taking the minister's advice!! A fool doesn't listen to anyone else - and ends up getting into horrible, destructive relationships! Then they usually blame everyone else for their own bad decisions! We can create a tangled mess of self deceit for ourselves.....and we end up hurting ourselves in the process! What a waste of a life! I agree with this video: A wise young person gets advice from moral older persons who have more life experiences.

Megan Baldwin Yes, I think it is important to really get to know someone before you get married. It is good to also have common interests and goals in life, and other things like religious beliefs, moral beliefs, things like similar interests can also help because you have to have common goals for your marriage, although you don't have to agree on everything. It's good to take some time to find out what each person wants to contribute what your goals are for your marriage. This is my opinion, because you have to have common ground to build on. I am NOT saying that you have to agree on everything or never argue, but, it is good to build a good foundation first, and get to know someone over time.

CaliWis804 I agree with you 100%!!! My mother has a saying "A smart person learns from other's mistakes, a fool - from his own." It's so sad to see that younger generations are not either raised, or w/e is the reason behind it, to ask for advice or at least LISTEN to those who have lived longer and have seen more. I remember my teenage years still (i'm only 26) and even though I was as hard headed as the next brat, I was brought up by my mother who always took time to talk to me and I always listened (even if with one ear at the time) I'm married right now, a little bit over a year, and I completely agree with the 1st chart presented by the marriage counselor. Especially on having similar backgrounds, although to me it's more of having similar cores and traits (b/c if you are too much of an opposite, it really DOES start to strain the relationship, especially if both are vocal about it). You can always compromise, but it can sometimes only take you that far, until you start to feel resentment towards the one you loved because they can't understand you. You can try to shove it under the rug, but then what kind of married life is that? Alot of things come with time and some relationships just can't stand the test of time. And friendship too. That's a great basis for any relationship, if not the best. At end of it all, the point of marriage is to spend your whole life with the other person, to grow old, build a family. If you come to a point in your relationship that you can no longer talk to each other about anything, enjoy each other's company and have fun, like friends do, then you are simply roommates who have sex. Also, if you don't lead a healthy and active sexual life with your partner, you are still only roommates. And finally marriage should be about personal growth, of both individuals and as a whole.

Well at least they were smart enough to get counselling

yeah, bro. the world is a mess now. they've destroyed us not only for us to get by and prosper in life, but have also damaged us spiritually. Sex without marriage is normal now. cheating has become normal. isolation has become a norm. anxiety at an all time high due to things like status issues; where one is in life, trust issues because very few out there want commitment while many just want to fool around. Such evil spirits have invaded humans causing them to slowly self destruct internally; leaving us confused not aware of the true nature of what we are. The world is one big lie. its become hell on earth while its disguised with fancy nice looking homes and trees and roads; but inside us, lies darkness. there's only one way to realize this truth and that God.

I agree with your analysis but not the conclusions. The years from 50s untill 2000s were the most extraordinary that history has ever seen in West world. That kind of society was based on plans and future. They ruined the present 🎁😂

@@KingJonathanThe1st come on 🤠, you are a grown up!! Take some responsibilities! Do you still need your mum and dad to take decision for you?

@@laurapavone3513 Don't know if you intended to respond to my comment specifically, but I'm going to say that my comment still stands. One of the examples that I'm mentioning is my father-in-law (in his 80s now) who only went to high school, got a job as a clerk and worked his way up at the company and retired comfortably at 55. Jobs were very manual back then, and he retired before any computers were in use in the office. Also, there was no international competition back then. The US economy was also in great shape when he got his start in the 1950s. The stable job, great economy, and no college debt really worked out for him. His marriage was great, he had lots of free time for hobbies and clubs... in ways that young people today do not have and likely won't have. It's a different world now, with more financial uncertainty and and the additional stress is not a help for young families.

@@laurapavone3513 you speak as if your wise but you sound like a fool. Have a great day.

+MegaBojan1993 I'm ready, all I need is a husband! Perfect! Meet me at the church! (after my showers and parties of course).

malibu64 How old are you ? :)

27! Let's see, do we have the same religious beliefs? Enjoy the same friends? Have similar tastes and interests? We'll banish that psychological distance soon enough!!

malibu64 I'm 28. That's close enough :)

I feel the psychological distance evaporating before my eyes

Omg how did you know he was the one??!

Not asking you personally if you were, but how important do you think virginity is for a successful marriage? A lot of younger people now have been around the block a dozen times or more, do you think they will have trouble settling down or staying satisfied or faithful?

​@justsomeguy1671 yes virginity is important

@@bironjames9948 ya we guys understand that but just wondering what the female perspective is...

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Just like your romance!

AntiKira20 invader zim reference? 😍

@@E0Bebot You got it.

So did she marry a MOOSE? 😳

Nate The Great haha! I don’t think anyone lives by that rule now. I wouldn’t even invest in a winter coat without trying it first.

julie Wallis if you only ever sleep with one person in your life, that will be the best sexual partner you’ve ever had. The more people you sleep with, the less likely it is that you’ll marry the person that was also your best sexual partner. And if you marry based on who WAS the best sexual partner, then the marriage may not stand the test of time as the years go by

DeadLittlePunkDoll yeah you basically repeated what I told you and said it as if I hadn’t thought of it like that. That was the point I was making and you could take either of our perspectives on it. Anyway, what I’m getting at is that I’m not convinced that you would ever be fulfilled in marriage, if before that marriage you had slept with 100 other people. Would one person suddenly become enough? You’ve tried 101 flavours of ice cream and you’re now sticking with chocolate?

DeadLittlePunkDoll yeah and I can appreciate that. It’s not something I’m suggesting be enforced, just a path I’d personally recommend. There seems to be one path that more successfully leads to fulfilment from what I have seen. Most people don’t realise that till they’re part way down the wrong path

@@JulieWallis1963 you will marry a whore and you can't make a good housekeeper and mother out of a whore if she slept with you without a ring if the ups guy looks good she'll do him if she works with a cute guy she will try him. She will NEVER be faithful so keep trying on coats that others have tried on but remember you will never have a coat that is was really YOUR COAT enjoy sloppy seconds

It's all the fault of the monopoly media cynical and degenerate attitude.

Mind you, videos like this are based on scientific statistic. Science is nothing more than a recording of patterns. So the general knowledge disseminated by this guy is only generally correct. When you are appealing through science, there are no absolutes, only generalities. But that doesn't mean the generalities are a bad rule of thumb to be completely disregarded. At least I've found as much.

Statistics mean nothing to the individual though, keep that in mind as well.

Holy Khan Well cite your “science.”

I think that videos like this helped marriages stay together then

These rules obviously can't apply to every single person. But overall this is good advice. The divorce rate is rising now. Videos like this would be very helpful.

Green Eggs & Ham1 getting back? this is old it's not advice it's comical

Um tbh this isn't biblical marriage ijs.. but the advice for the most part was good

Green Eggs & Ham1 Funny That us atheists still have equally strong marriages without the need for god or the bible. I’m very happily married to my best friend, we make each other laugh daily, we look out for each other, we trust each other and are there for each other through good times and bad. Not that we have had many bad times, but for a couple in their mid 50s I think we can say we have a solid relationship. Don’t blame or credit god for something that is entirely due to the hard work, commitment and attitude of the couple. I’d be very upset if our daughters got involved with any “churchy types”. a load of jumbo jumbo spouted from religious crackpots isn’t going to help anyone. A good marriage depends on the couple, *not* god or the bible.

julie Wallis What’s wrong with Jesus?

I'm not aware of any circumstance in which junior college would be superior to a state university.

Sex does that to some folks.