Once You Complain You've Already Lost

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This video comes from Gary's 2016 keynote at Web Summit. Watch the full keynote on his main channel here: • WEB SUMMIT GARY VAYNER...
Complaining is one of the least productive things you can do for yourself and your situation. By facing the reality of what things really are, you can get to correct the problems much faster than dwelling and complaining about them.
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@SaffronSageAstrology 5 жыл бұрын

"If you are good enough, nobody's stopping you."

@amerkovac5247 4 жыл бұрын

And what if "you" are not and you're not aware of it?

@SaffronSageAstrology 4 жыл бұрын

Amer Kovač I guess that’s the work we all have to do to be successful. Cultivate the self awareness to know. I think it works the opposite way as well where a person can be naturally excellent at their craft but they don’t know it because it comes so easily to them.

@user-qn3ox9in1k 3 жыл бұрын

Translation "If you could, you would." Ignores logistics, reality, and passive aggressive sabotaging of other people.

@onelifepassport 5 жыл бұрын

*So true when I realized this my life changed for the better. Take full responsibility and strive to become the best version of yourself and use all the energy on bettering yourself and not making excuses.*

@JBtheWeightlifter 3 жыл бұрын

just like Goku :)

@onelifepassport 3 жыл бұрын

@@JBtheWeightlifter exactly!

@Octocat77 3 жыл бұрын

Excuses on what?

@ogbobby89 2 жыл бұрын

So when I killed myself. Nobody cares

@cristianwithnoh2951 2 жыл бұрын

Take responsibility for something you didn't even do that is effecting you?

@markettree7772 5 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! You’re either “solutions-oriented” and you’re actually valuable moving forward, or you’re “problems-oriented” and as you complain, you’re just another part of the problem. Never point out a problem, instead point out areas of opportunity with at LEAST 3 good solutions.

@acharich 5 жыл бұрын

💣💣💣

@acharich 5 жыл бұрын

*Never _just_ point out a problem (I'd say..)

@tdavis6260 9 ай бұрын

Barzzzzz!!🙌🏽🎯

@carlosalcazar2344 5 жыл бұрын

I don't understand how this shit is free!! Thanks Gary!!

@theofficelab 5 жыл бұрын

Every time things don't go my way and I start pondering, little Gary appears on my shoulder and yells: 'Stop complaning. Do something about it. Cause nobody fucking cares!' - There's no better motivation!

@NigelJ 5 жыл бұрын

I think it boils down to acceptance more than anything. Many people complain bc things aren't the way they want them, so instead of accepting that reality, they deny it, and since it continually lets them down, they complain. Ultimately it gets them nowhere, which is why acceptance is liberating, even when we accept things we don't particularly like or want to.

@mypersonaltestgia2704 Жыл бұрын

Exactly: it frees you!

@NiceOCGuy1981 Жыл бұрын

And they expect others to help them because they're in a tough spot. WAKE UP!!! No one is going to help you. It may feel unfair, but that's life.

@WholeHealthConnections 5 жыл бұрын

If we take the time that we use complaining to take actions towards our goals... things start to take a big shift for the better. Positivity, gratitude, patience, persistence, consistency. Let’s go!! Join the positivity train.

@ShaneHummus 5 жыл бұрын

That's why don't complain. Be happy when problems or obstacles arises. It's your leveling spot.

@johannmuster9726 5 жыл бұрын

That's right that nobody cares. I work harder than everyone, life was never fair to me, i always found a solution BUT i complain at the same time! Of course i speak it out if something is not right!

@melodicgod2382 5 жыл бұрын

People complain so much at my school, but I feel like it’s a good thing in a way, to express what your going through inside and let it out. But yea most of the time I don’t care or people don’t care when I complain.

@theadaptivefitnesschannel4308 5 жыл бұрын

This is timeless wisdom from Gary. I'm going to forward this s*** to all the complainers I know. LOL

@noemiphung9394 4 жыл бұрын

Great talk Gary! I have applied my no complaining rule for 4 months now. It was hard in the beginning but feel like I am getting the hang of it. It has brought me joy and peace. It has given me the opportunity to see the good in every situation. Cheers to everyone trying to live the best life possible!

@xWe2s 5 жыл бұрын

The greatest talk. And this is the best chunk of it.

@MonicaSancio 5 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! Gary Vaynerchuk rocks 👏💜I love listening to the truth: you are so right & right on the money on what to do now. We are lucky to be living NOW in the greatest era, being who we are really... "Who are you scared to fail in front of?... Own it or eliminate it. Put yourself in a position to succeed!... If you are good enough, nobody's stopping you!" 🙌💜

@WildSatoriForest 5 жыл бұрын

5:48 The entire speech in 9 words.

@FM-to3gy 5 жыл бұрын

nah, others are great

@SharonTseung 5 жыл бұрын

So true. Gotta think macro and also take full responsibility!

@inc0ntr0I 3 жыл бұрын

I have had a productive week, your videos are hitting me hard today gary! I am meeting with my old boss and hopefully future mentor! I wish happiness for everyone! LOVE

@a7xfanben 5 жыл бұрын

Gary's trying to squeeze his hand off his arm in the thumbnail 😂

@hiphopheaven Жыл бұрын

Complaining is not only therapeutic but also the first step towards creating change

@mosaicmonk4380 5 жыл бұрын

Those invisible coconuts almost took out my boy gary lol .

@acharich 5 жыл бұрын

💀💀💀

@mrvincentpogi 5 жыл бұрын

yes thats right i learn this from garyvee

@369jwillow 5 жыл бұрын

Absolute truth for me and many others

@nathansegurakennedy8607 5 жыл бұрын

The uncle I never had but always wanted. Thanks uncle Vee

@ste7en777 3 жыл бұрын

all crying does is expose sadness

@MornevanWykSubscribe 5 жыл бұрын

Yeah I won't do that-i won't give up on my KZfaq dream. -i will keep grinding and pushing and become a youtube success

@dmax1 4 жыл бұрын

"Eliminate Mom and Dad" got it gary, Thanks as always

@user-qn3ox9in1k 3 жыл бұрын

I take it you don't have Narc Parents.

@GorgonDrageil 5 жыл бұрын

I will say though, love yourself and care for yourself. Suppressing trauma and baggage just to act tough will also hold you back. Fuck if nobody gives a fuck. Please give a fuck about yourself. 🙏 #Balance

@shanethecoolestshortfilms 5 жыл бұрын

I "fuckin" love this guy...I needed to watch this video

@TimRoseOfficial 5 жыл бұрын

Great stuff Gary!

@landonic81 5 жыл бұрын

I just came to the comments to complain Gary! Here's me complaining!

@epicmyth457 2 жыл бұрын

Oh thank you.

@AdamAlq 5 жыл бұрын

As someone who’s been in business for a number years (nowhere close to as experienced nor as wealthy as Gary), I can tell you that he is 100% right! Along the journey of becoming an entrepreneur, you’ll meet all kinds of horrible characters. Suffer from immense stress and loss of wealth in chasing your dream. You’ll have more bad days than good in the beginning, and it’ll seem like everything and everyone is against you. Complaining about it won’t achieve anything, because as Gary said; “nobody gives a fuck”. All you do is waste your energy by complaining and end up feeling sorry for yourself. The difficulties are part of the journey and you have to face them I’m afraid. Not everyone is cut for this journey and I appreciate that. This is why I hate people going around thinking that calling themselves a CEO, entrepreneur etc is cool. It’s not! It takes years and years of hard work with blood, sweat and tears! The title may sound fancy but the journey you have to embark on, not many can handle.

@starlife1441 5 жыл бұрын

really nice that's so true

@flavianstanciu9952 5 жыл бұрын

really true

@playmobilegames1626 5 жыл бұрын

true

@user-cc4bi5kc9o Жыл бұрын

Gary Vee is that dude. I hope he close to god while hes doing this as well. Like this dude. Real dude.

@baslielalene4702 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@pavlostsangarides7500 5 жыл бұрын

Best Gary Vee speech so far

@annastayziaa 3 жыл бұрын

rewatching this in 2021 🤗

@HipHopLuVeRZ 4 жыл бұрын

"If you're a FUCKING ALIEN" hahahahah GARY VEE!!!! You should make a stand-up comedy special, I'm tellin you man :))

@reverendbluejeans1748 Жыл бұрын

I think it was better to be a nerd 20 years ago. There was so much less competition back then, and technology barriers was much harder.

@ste7en777 3 жыл бұрын

been there. done that.

@mypersonaltestgia2704 Жыл бұрын

Yep truth : no one cares and no one is coming to save you U figure it out alone.. its sucks to accept this, but once u do, u become free to go be yourself and do wtf works for ya with no explanations, cause who cares wtf u do?! No one 🙌🙌🙌🙌

@gregsg01 5 жыл бұрын

Better to use your time to move forward than to whine!

@austinsomogyi1437 Жыл бұрын

To be fair theres a difference between complaining and speaking up tbh

@joaquinben4458 3 жыл бұрын

Yeaaaaaa!!! No more complaintssss!!!!! Get into Action!!!!

@mechhaya 5 жыл бұрын

You can do only one thing good at a time and they can't be opposite hence either you are solving something or sitting and complaining about it, which side are you on ? .... me always solving :)

@ste7en777 3 жыл бұрын

i love it when extremely important things go wrong

@ste7en777 3 жыл бұрын

i do that all the time

@ste7en777 3 жыл бұрын

i'm either happy or annoying

@ste7en777 3 жыл бұрын

put a smile on your face

@ste7en777 3 жыл бұрын

virtue is self-betrayal

@jasonsimson3349 Жыл бұрын

I've been going through some hard times lost all my friends and i am alone and feeling like I'm going insane but i taken an promise not to complain ever again. because it makes me ugly.

@cosodesign8953 Жыл бұрын

It really does. Happy people and successful people don’t have time for it.

@ste7en777 3 жыл бұрын

advice from adventurer to adventurer

@jjmaia 3 жыл бұрын

As a EU citizen, I was affected by Brexit. I dealt with it by leaving the UK and went travelling to Australia and never stopped :p

@rachitchoudhary6063 5 жыл бұрын

I need to hear this

@ste7en777 3 жыл бұрын

i just start with it

@richmanni.motoring 5 жыл бұрын

Facts 💯🔥

@EthanSchwandtTheMindMapGuy 5 жыл бұрын

Dwelling and Pondering and Prying Doesn't Do Anything.. *That's huge!*

@Black7Bluebird 4 жыл бұрын

The coconut comparison was awesome. I love hoy Gary!

@celiapryce2688 5 жыл бұрын

Nothing but facts 👏🏽

@09070605uty 2 жыл бұрын

One of the best speeches ever!

@ISpeakHTML 5 жыл бұрын

I keep watching Gary, I feel like his words apply to me, however it’s really hard to hold strong to my passion of cannabis, I feel like I’ll disappoint everyone around me even though it’s something I want and would enjoy, if I make 40k a year I’ll be content. But I don’t wanna do what I love because I only have so many people in my life :/

@ste7en777 3 жыл бұрын

to never check would be a mistake

@lei9149 4 жыл бұрын

bruh when the camera turned and i saw all the cameras i died lel

@kylegambling 6 ай бұрын

Amazing video, motivating, in reality complaing is not going to get you any success

@AlecDrow 5 жыл бұрын

Fuck he's right!

@my_onlysunshine9143 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you, I needed to hear that :))

@dewadebadon 4 жыл бұрын

Daily Energy! Thank you Gary!

@ste7en777 3 жыл бұрын

and sadness is our little secret

@ste7en777 3 жыл бұрын

once you smile you already lost

@globalgrimewatch 9 ай бұрын

All the phones... drop it.. and take the message in. What have we become?

@RoadMover01 5 жыл бұрын

I love this guy

@ste7en777 3 жыл бұрын

i wouldn't want to ruin it

@ste7en777 3 жыл бұрын

everything will be okay

@LaundryChuteLLC Жыл бұрын

So revelent

@krsdivz2378 Жыл бұрын

Sounds like this guy needs a hug. I encourage my closests friend and loved ones to complain to me if they need to just let off steam. For him to say no one cares... Well i dont think he's met everyone

@toreymyshrall1004 5 жыл бұрын

It just is how He said it is

@shabanpasha 5 жыл бұрын

Best speech ever!!!

@MaJeSTiCz0 3 жыл бұрын

True

@chrisfleming47 5 жыл бұрын

#ThankYouGaryVee

@ste7en777 3 жыл бұрын

they have a list of extra good people

@FeelGoodWithin 5 жыл бұрын

Love it Gary😝😍👌

@carpenoctem775 Жыл бұрын

If you can, try to find a solution. Next step is to reach out. But don’t give up, unless it’s a last resort. And if so, learn from it. Tomorrow’s another day.

@ManipulateHavoc 2 жыл бұрын

Complaints only hold water when your are the ocean

@amritkumarbehera9631 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Gary Vee

@ste7en777 3 жыл бұрын

we're here to help

@jeffsdavis 5 жыл бұрын

Gary Vee is such a boss! Keynote with no notes!!

@mariammohammad3061 4 жыл бұрын

It’s not fair that there’s an empty chairs ! I would die to be setting there 😭

@sphakhumalo3346 5 жыл бұрын

this is power ever in my life motivation

@joaquinben4458 3 жыл бұрын

Yeaaaaaaa i needed this!!!

@LittleRapGuy Жыл бұрын

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@ste7en777 3 жыл бұрын

i hope it's extremely important

@ste7en777 3 жыл бұрын

game on

@ste7en777 3 жыл бұрын

i was talking to the commercial