She stood her ground, never let a man dictate what career and/or goals you're trying to reach! You go girl!

She's a beautiful, ambitious woman, pursuing a career, and he looks like a bum who's never moved out of his momma's house. These two are not fit for each other AT ALL.

His comment" on her being a Cheerleader. She saw a red flag" she recognized this as controlling behavior. She knew, it would only get worst. She, was smart to end it. Well Done" to her ❤

Insecure maybe? This is the one time I agree with the “catfish”

So he lives with his momma? But doesn’t want her to have a career? Okay I see, man child. Got it!!!

Nah I'm on the lady's side😂

Yall this man did not know that Kami is a former competitive cheerleader 😂😂😂

I thought mom was gonna come out like "You the Heffa that's been stressing out my baby"😂😂😂

This man’s on tv not even looking like he cares or dressing to impress and she shows up looking like a goddess and secure in who she is a woman, as a career woman, in everything. Good on her.

Good for her. Women, leave at the first red flag. Be grateful for red flags and leave.

It's giving insecurity 🙄😒 She definitely saw the red flags !

That man was looking for a caretaker not a partner. The fact he can’t even confront his “catfish” without his mom next to him and he can’t get a moment to be upset alone without his mom there shows exactly what he was looking for. That woman did not want to be his mother and she made the right decision to ghost him. Her only issue was reaching back out to that man.

He is obviously a momma boy and ain't ready for an adult relationship especially living with his mom smdh

"what?she having a job?😐"😂😂😂😂

Him being dressed like that to meet her should be a crime lmao he needs to focus on himself

He never met her in person but trying to control her that’s insane 😳

bro fumbled so hard

This is where "date someone on your level" comes to play.. She's ambitious, has goals for her life, and she's set on moving on into making her goals happen. Much respect to her for knowing what she wants and not settling for anyone else's plans! He doesn't seem to want to change his life in regards to leveling up and moving out from his mama.. He said what he said and she didn't like it and kept it pushing! He's insecure.. That's it.

Yeah sorry but I'm on her side in this scenario. She didn't handle it as well as she could have but I would be very put off by someone I have never even met trying to dictate what I can do with my life.

He couldn't at least put on something nice to meet with her tho?

So he didn't want her to be a cheerleader bc he felt insecure, and also felt she wouldn't be focused on their relationship...

He is tripping for real😂

She too good for him. He is way to insecure for no reason.

Mama's boy. Girl ruuuuuuun!!!!😂😂😂😂

Nev’s “you don’t want her to be a CHEERLEADER?!?!🥴” had me so dead And the fact his mommy came throw off the whole situation, I would’ve left cause I already know how he is 😭

The audacity!!! He's talking about her wanting to pursue being a cheerleader, but he's trying to get into video gaming online (I saw the full episode)??? I'm glad she stopped talking to him. He's too insecure; she's already getting attention as a musician but had she become a cheerleader she'd be in the presence of prestigious men that he know he can't compete with, but he's not going to admit that, so instead he disregard her goals or interest and point blank gave her an ultimatum....and she chose herself 👏👏👏Just by looking at them you can tell she's out of his league but she's also ambitious & goal oriented, as she should be; women like this don't have time for men who don't believe in their dreams. She did the right thing, and I'm proud of her💯💯💯

She could’ve handled it better but I’m sorry it seems she dodged a bullet. First it’s you can’t be a cheerleader next it’s why you going out with your girlfriends. Never let a man’s insecurities dictate your decisions ladies- job wise or anything else. She’ll be alright

The only thing that's crazy here is how weak he is

I take it he stays with his mama. Durag was right as heck too. She dodged a bull-let !

There's absolutely NOTHING wrong with he wanting to be a cheerleader. At least she has a goal, and working towards that goal. He still lives with his mama.

He’s insecure

She stood on business 🤞🏼☝🏼

If he didn’t want to be with her why he call catfish? I guess he wanted to force her into changing which is LATE and outdated. Let your mom hook you up with somebody sir 😂

I think Mum should have stayed in the house.

He doesn't want her to be a cheerleader, because maybe she will come to her senses and not become a stepmother when she is childless lol.

The fact he said that she wasn't all that attractive, was a bs statement. What it was he got his feelings hurt. Because she wanted to be friends. So he tried to take a jab at her physical appearance. Which didn't work because she didn't flinch and she's beautiful he can't deny that. He’s just butt hurt. He should be thankful a gorgeous girl found him attractive. All it boils down to he's an insecure man. That wants to dictate what his girl do. And she's not that type. She's a strong independent woman. He wants a submissive woman that'll jump when he say jump.

What a powerful, level-headed and incredibly confident woman. You go girl 💕

From my perspective i think he feels like she shouldnt be a cheerleader because shes always on the go & not gonna care about him,his mom or son

He was scared he’d lose his girl to a ball player 🤣🤣 insecurity is a mf. If you lose em you weren’t meant to have em.

Thats his insecurities so let him stay with them by himself. Never let a man or especially a man you have never met control your destiny. Period.

Lollll I seen this episode last week, they don’t even look compatible together. He didn’t even have the decency to make himself look presentable for TV

I say it all the time, insecure men can't handle beautiful women

She is wayyyy out of his league

Tbh he’s a bum that wants someone to take care of him and his child , it’s why he lives with his mother as well

INSECURE!!! The fact he can not give a straight forward answer to the cheerleader question is dumb

Basically what he said was "im insecure, and i dont want my woman being around football athletes" Lmao

What in the holy hell is going on 😂 bro live with his mama and trying to dictate someone’s life. There are ALOT of people out here who fumble people because they’re insecure

Yo why he playing victim

As rare as it is to get the person youre actually taking to, this fool fumbled the bag

She saw the red flag I would've walked away from him too ...independent woman working and you want to tell me what to do or what not to do!!

Cheerleader must be a code word for something cause there’s just no way someone CHEERLEADING has got you feeling that insecure

He's too damn grown CTFU looking like a big ass baby smdh

Welp, glad everything worked out. They weren't compatible🤷🏿‍♀️

Never have a man running you!!!! I dated a guy who left for work at noon and he didn't come back to my place til 1am!!! He left work at midnight but it took him an hour to drive to my place

So early it should be a crime

He doesn't want her to end up LEAVING him for a professional ball player

She is too good for him anyway. He is looking for someone who is at the end of their journey looking to settle down and buckle in for downfalls. But shorty is on the up and up and has a long way to go before she gets there

Nahh where is the full episode? I got to see the rest of this because what is his problem? He's acting like he had a cheerleader girlfriend before and somebody took her. 🤷🏾‍♀️ Like sir explain yourself.

I truly feel him . Stay your ground man, you will find the right ONE 💟

What a baby 🙄. I like her alot wishing her success in her career and many blessings. After loosing ppl close to you, you just want to be happy and do things that make you happy, we are here for a short time not a long time❤

She did the right thing. My husband of 28 years did not want me working. Now I'm stuck up schitt's creek without a paddle. Never let a man tell you you can't or don't need to work.

Okay, wearing two designer bags at the same time. 😅

Lmaoooooo she real af

he’s insecure🤣and she’s a pretty girl so regardless of her job she’s gone get attention lol. and no grown adult can sit there and give another adult all of their time and attention…people have lives

She’s a beautiful woman 😊.! She deserves way better than him. That shows he’s not confident with himself because he’s afraid that she’ll get attention from other men and she that as a problem. A confident person doesn’t feel insecure or have problems with someone being something and they’ll accept that perosn for who they are not judging and saying that I don’t want you to do that or this like WHATTTT!!!. That’s definitely a red flag 🚩.

Some men can see independent women as a threat. Smhhh level up or get left.

Aww he's a lil mama's boy. Keep shining mama and keep it pushing! 💯

okay but why continue w/ her when she clearly stated her wants?

Yes! Season 9 is here! New episodes!

Yeah she dodged a bullet 💯

I fell in love with this episode. He was left looking so crazy in the end while she was catching flights living her best life. 😂😂😂

She dodged a bullet lool

Whaaat!? Why!? 😂😂 Good for her.

She wasn't wrong at all......with her fine self. 🥰 This boy was dusty knew it & insecure about her being a Titans cheerleader. Giving very much so incel. Buh bye. ✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾

I should’ve known he was a momma boy by the way he’s dressed and he’s talking to Russia and telling her what to do with her life. This man ain’t gonna get any woman now 😂bc the whole world saw this episode and he ain’t gonna ever a get a chance with a woman now 😂😂

Run girl. Mom is an enabler.🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️💃🏽

He should have supported it because at the end of the episode she said she changed her mind meaning she couldn’t cut it. Lol some people just like to talk and share goals that seem unattainable. Just nod and agree. As long as it’s not s3g work I don’t see the problem

This dude is a BUM living with his Mammy and has NO 👎🏾 MOTION 🚫 Im soooo glad The Sistah chose to make moves and pursue her career ✌🏾💯✨

This is wow 😮

He’s wants her out away stuck in the house where no man can see her.

Did he say she's not attractive? He's not well spoken. She's sharp. They are worlds apart.

I am so glad for her whew dodge a red flag dwl

If she becomes a cheerleader, she’ll be around a higher caliber of men than him. Coaches, executives, athletes, etc. He’s scared she’ll forget about the mama’s boy she has at home lol

She did the right thing.

Girl...... RUN.

Russia is gorgeous 🤩

Mamas boy vibes

Hes a dusty for sure, girl, run.

she so def did the right thing and removed herself from where she wasn't aligning with him

Yeah... mother's please stop babying your sons and making them idiots.

Without the show she was not going to show up, just a chance for some free publicity nothing more

I need to watch the whole episode......

Good for her

Well said girl dont let anyone tell you what to do i dont either rambo it girl

He's insecure, don't date a baddie if you can't handle it

He wants them to move in together, not her travel while professional cheering.

This the first time yall meet and that’s the best you could do? He would’ve been her downfall for sure. You want this lady to not chase her dreams. So that y’all can be laid up in your mama house while she playing step mama to your kid(s)? 🤔 he gives insecure talking about he didn’t want her to be a cheerleader. Girl you dodge a bullet! You can do better!

If he really wanna be with her like he say he does he should support her in anything she does

I don't understand why he's upset he couldn't accept her for what she wanted to do with her life and he upset because she didn't want to be with him oh well

Never be with a man who don't want you to reach your FULL POTENTIAL!!!!! Plus he already gotta kid that his MAMA taking care of. He looking for a mama that he can do the nasty with. You better than that girl. Keep running bcuz he woulda had you doing EVERYTHING. Bills, kids, and all housework.