I lost my beloved partner 6 months ago. I knew him in HS and then reconnected 4 years ago and realized I have always loved him and we were/are twin flames. He died of cancer, which we knew would happen, just not when. Now I can't seem to let him go, and the pain is unbearable. I feel like I'll be disloyal if I move on. I just don't want to lose him, although he is lost.

i lost my mom suddenly too , my sister and I found her she passed on infront of us and i cant even begin to explain the disbelief and shock that we still feel its been 6 months n she was only 59.

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absolutely, same here.

Just found this and I agree, it is very well done and so helpful.👍

Heartfelt. I am so sorry you have been left alone and feel abandoned. My heart goes out to you Joan and will pray that you will be comforted. May our God, Jesus’s, become for you, your cheerleader.🧡

I'm grieving too, my Mom died 5/1 I'm struggling

So sorry. My heart goes out to you. I lost my husband 5 years ago. That first year was devastating. It does get better in a way but I still miss him like crazy.

I believe it does. This is such a cliché but time really is the best healer. I can imagine right now you feel so desperate and stuck and trapped in your grief and can only see it spreading out for eternity. But these things heal, as impossible as it sounds now they do. It's so difficult to imagine where you are now ever feeling ok about his passing and that his passing will never, ever be ok or acceptable to you. I'm not going to tell you I promise but I am 100% certain that your grief, whether it's 1-year 2-years 3-years will naturally find its own healing. I'm not saying that you will move on from him in, as far as you will be moving away from him, but you will move on from the acute pain. All of your feelings are 100-percent worthy and need to be felt by you right now and for however long that takes. Remember how he said that buffalos run into the storm... maybe you could try not waiting for the grief to get better. Maybe instead you could run into the eye of the storm of that grief and sit there and embrace it lovingly and with full self-acceptance, no matter how ugly or savage the tears. The grief changes shape every single day and is likely to surprise you with all sorts of strange and uncomfortable feelings. Much like a wound healing, how it sometimes becomes ugly and scabby and pussy before it actually gets better and new skin is formed. It's probably hard to believe anything anybody says to you right now... but yes it will get better. ❤️❤️❤️

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Marcia, may you find solace and be comforted. Will pray that it will be so.🧡

it's such awesome mature heartfelt evidence based content!

I've known other adults who not only lost their beloved parent, but their siblings who did the same thing yours are.

I'm here if you want to talk, I'm grieving too

@@carolmusselman8859 My boyfriend died two weeks ago ,just like today i heard that terrible news At first I was in disbelief Then i asked his cousin he confirmed and it became so real ,the first week I cried my eyes out now I don't cry as much I feel numb I try to survive I tried to commit suicide but it was a pathetic attempt I don't want to die yet I just don't want to live like this anymore 😭 I avoid looking at our photos and videos we were so happy but now it's not helping me he was 24 he died suddenly suffocated by the air conditioning while he was in the garage with unknown girl they both died everything is just absurd especially the way he died he was full of life I don't think it was suicide And I don't know what was his relationship with the girl and he can't even defend himself but it doesn't change anything anyways, he died And he's never coming back and I'm left alone with his memories and his beautiful details and impact he made on me

My daughter was killed by a hit and run driver 3 mos ago . I am beginning to try to “talk “ to her. I miss her so much and there are so many unanswered questions.

Hello ​@@librarylover6414 sorry about your lost of your daughter! I lost my only daughter 5 months ago! How are you holding up ?

@@glory1star thank you so much for asking . I’m struggling with grief but have a therapist and attend zoom grief groups when they’ re held . How are you ? Are you in Tender Hearts ? I want more zoo time with other grieving parents.