God bless her uncle for unleashing some truth and sympathy

The brother doesnt care at all with this problem. With his legs crossed i dont think he even take this seriously.

Period cramps hurts like hell, her father and brother should try the period cramps simulator.

"She doesn't treat/talk to me like I'm her older brother" Me: *"because you don't DESERVE to be treated like an older brother"*

And she doesnt treat you as her older brother is because you dont act like one

Wow Was I the only one that got shocked to know that the brother punched her and grabbed her hair until she falls on the floor ? This is totally abusive and wrong , I feel bad for his future wife ( like my mom said , the way the man treats his mom and sister is the same way he will treat his wife).

11:00 "He's so handsome!" No he's not he's ugly both outside and inside stop lying like that 💀💀💀

I want hello counselor to bring back everyone that comes on the show after a year to see how things are going. I highly doubt all of them go home and say yeah we'll change cuz we went on the show LMAO

I feel like this wasn't took seriously.. Like when she said how her brother punched her and threw her on the floor, they said ``if you call him oppa, he sad he will treat you better`` then talked about other things...For real, i'm still worried for this girl..I hope she'll be okay

The brother has some *serious* problems. This family looks like it's gonna fall apart at some point.

The brother couldn't mask his aggressive nature even while on TV when he said: "am i your friend or what?!" You can tell how fierce and domineering he must be in the intimacy of their home too.

I honestly think that the children should live under the roof of the uncle for a while because he seems to understand more and would most likely make it more even and make everyone appreciate her for what she does

The most annoying part is that they force her to do all that work by herself yet they still complain about everything she does even though she tried her hardest. It's like their never satisfied but they don't actually bother to help either. If I was in her shoes I'd be so frustrated.

she holds her tears too well....that's...so sad

I live in S.Korea. It's so a child abuse.. They should go to the police and see an actual counselor. This program has been issued on the news every week cuz every concern on this show is so abnormal and savage. Common opinion in S Korea now is the guests should go to police instead going to that stupid show and laughing about it.

I'm so worried, I have a feeling that she'll got more work to do than before. I just want to hug her :(

Girl that brother...I see through him -.- he’s abusive

This situation is so hard to watch. Both the brother and the father are determined that she doesn't do most of the work and the stuff she does do, she doesn't do well. They don't seem to give a shit about what she's going through. The only one that took her side was the younger sister and it's sad to see. I hope her circumstances improve.

She should leave as soon as possible.. Brother and Father are the epitome of toxic male.

As someone who also comes from a conservative and poor family, I understand her feeling. I am the oldest daughter and my only brother is 9 years younger than me. Since I enter middle school, my parents have told me that I can't go to college cause they don't have money, I am a girl anyway so they'll invest their money to my brother. I was a strong and stubborn girl, I was looking for scholarships from my schools and many organizations. I ended up support myself from middle school until I got my bachelor degree thanks to those scholarships. I had to go to schools, join the student committee since I got the scholarship from the school, join many volunteer jobs with the organizations that support me. Even with that, I still have to do the house chores. Mind you that I had no laundry machine so I do the laundry at 5.30 am by hands. Then I have to clean the house, well, my house was small so that's okay. Yet they still complain why I didn't do the job properly (forget about the compliment!) I usually sleep 4 hours or 5 hours max a day, and back then if someone asked me what'll you do if you get a day off, I'd say sleep all day. I start became tutor when I was in high school and became a freelance writer when I enter university. Now, 3 years after my graduation, I can rent a better house for my family and support them financially. This is the moment where finally I had a say in the family. It took years before they can accept the fact that I can work and be an independent woman. Girl, with that kind of family, you need to be strong! The only thing that can shut them down is to prove that you can be a success even though you are a woman and poor! I don't have the heart to dump my family, so my plan is to save more money, move out and live my life while still supporting them financially. I promise to my future daughter that I won't let her face the same situation as I was. fighting!

Tsk. Everything they said is excuse. I felt sorry for the girl

What the hell!!! The girl is suffering from domestic violence, and the anchors told her that she has to be good to her brother who beats her and that is her fault????? I can't believe this. I am really too shocked of how inhuman and ignorant human beings can be.

That brother said coldly to his sister "You are crossing the line !". Did he ever stop and think that when he throw his sister to the floor? Girl move forward with your life and leave that house ! For God's sake...

If you're not acting like an older brother then you shouldn't be called an older brother. I hate these entitled men, her and her little sister should just move with the kinder uncle and let those guys rot in their own filth.

He says his sister doesn't clean the house well enough but he's worse.His chore is to do the laundry he falls asleep when clothes are still in the machine leaving his poor sister to have to rewash the clothes 2-3 times. Without the help of the eldest sister the family would be so lost. The father and son have a heaping case of toxic masculinity which they need to fix asap and the sister needs so much more appreciation.

I feel so sorry for her like this problem definitely won't be solved here because the father and brother clearly are far more comfy with nagging her and taking her cleaning for granted

Honestly I don't know how she didn't cry, as they were talking I couldn't hold it in

I won't lie, this had me tearing up and I don't cry this much. I feel so bad for her. I feel everything that was just exchange here that day is just that...that one day. I feel like they'll go back to how it was and she'll continue to suffer. I honestly wish the best for her

I can’t imagine what the brother will be like if he ever marries a woman.... he’ll probably treat her the same way and maybe even worse.

The father is a pathetic excuse of an example to his family. He son who is looking up to him will feel it's okay to abuse/beat up women because he dad's justify it as having "good Intentions". The girl will have issues with men because of her father. I hope she never marries a guy like that

15:52 "Gyeongseon can't rely on anyone" dude that hurt so much! My tears won't stop...

I can tell that the brother is gonna be very agressive in the future.

Why would she talk to him properly when he punches her, pop pull her by the hair?

What is wrong with those men in the family?!!! I wonder why is their mom is passed away. It must be stress is one of the reason of her passing. Sigh. Poor girl. Ive rather run away from the house than living in hellhouse

She should leave the house and stay with a friend or someone for a while and let them see just how much she actually does for them!

they went over the physical fighting wayyy too easily. He said "I'll stop hitting you if you're more respectful" which is... ridiculous. You should never hit someone

“why do all highschool students have the same haircut?” “the bowl cut” “everyone uses the same bowl.” lmaoo

As a brother, that brother needs to be a better brother. Also as a brother, it is honestly so hard to hit a sibling. Being physically violent with my sister has never crossed my mind. Whenever I hear brothers and sisters physically fighting is just leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

I cried when she mentioned she was jealous of her friends and didn’t have a mum to talk to. Even though I have a mother I feel like some things she wouldn’t understand, so I felt that.

Rest in peace Park JIsun 💔

Why is the dad lying like that seriously that’s your daughter ugh 😑 calling him bro isn’t gonna resolve anything he doesn’t respect her so why should she? like wowwwwwww seems like yeonja understands what’s going on....poor girl

For me its like her family took advantage of her kindness, as the eldest daughter, she must feel responsible to take care of her family when her mother dies. But then, its became a habit. House chores is a heavy task, like a work labor. Everyone in the house should participate. Give work that appropriate to the kid's age. Being young doesnt mean that they could just sit and do nothing.

I could see tears in her eyes but she didn’t cry once, such a strong girl! 🤧 Hope it’s gotten better by now, it’s hard to struggle by yourself and keep everything bottled up..she should find someone to talk to ☹️

I wonder how the people “causing the problem” are convinced to come on the show

lol, father caught lying through his teeth. Even if he says that he does most of the dishes in a week, who gets to wash them if he decides he doesn't feel like doing them? The older daughter. And the son coming home late or doing a half-assed job of doing his supposedly share of the chores because he knows his sister will end of doing them or risk getting yelled at by their father.

The brother should have to earn being called oppa instead of deserving it.

I feel so bad for her, i relate to her so much growing up. So glad my life has changed since then.

I cried in this episode , I’m going through the same thing and it’s a relief that I’m not the only one who feels this way

That "oh my God" sound effect is such a mood

So they are abusing her on the basis that they shouldn't do anything in the household because they are men plus she is younger. The son is going to be a terrible husband/partner with this behavior normalized for him. He should be actively assisting with chores as well. It's hard but her best bet is doing very well in school so when the time comes she can get as far away from them as possible.

Imagine if they had Jessi as a guest on the show.

The dad and brother is really sexist

Only those who have done chores before know how hard it is and how lots of efforts can seem like we didn't do anything. For the dad and the bro to say that they've done it and still judge the sister, that means they don't actually do the work. One who knows how hard it is, knows how to appreciate another who does it for them. Everyone's schedule in the family is long and they are barely living together, that's why they can't get along, they are only busy doing their own thing.

If the brother keeps growing with that mentality of girls then he’s going to be looking down on women for the rest of his life. The thinking of the men in the family is so unthinkable and so old, it’s 2018 grow up. It really looks like the daughter has no one on her side. I hope the whole family starts to appreciate her more and see how truly kind and strong minded she is.

Gosh... His uncle is understanding. I would be lucky to have a person like him in my life

20:47 if you notice, what the brother were saying was not genuine, it almost seems like he was cringing inside. He said those without looking at her, and even close his eyes, unlike her father and the sister who said their words looking at her.

On another note, her eyes are sooooo beautiful. The eyes that mask her feelings.

A standing ovation for the Father for lying on national TV!!! And a plus for the dongseng for supporting her unni even if means making her a lazy maknea!! And I totally feel bad for this girl, for having a close minded father and an abusive brother.. I hope after this show the brother won't hurt her.. I just hope she's fine somehow..

아버지도 힘들고 아이들도 힘들고... 지금 많이 힘들죠? 힘들었던 만큼 더 좋은 날들이 올꺼에요! 너무 예쁘고 잘생겼네요. 힘내요!

Watching this hurts me so much just by looking at the way she holds her tears in so well😢☹️

I want to give this girl a hug so badly right now you don’t even know omg 😭😫

Are honorifics in Korea so important, that the brother pulls his sister's hair and throws her to the ground because she doesn't call him 'Oppa'? Seriously?

I'm shocked. Like how can she not cry from so long..,,,,..I would've took out rivers of tears.....aw

"she does not do it properly" is their only excuse

my mom passed away when i was 9 years old and my brother is 4,my dad has to go to work,and i have to take care of my brother,cook,wash the cloths and clean the house,i try not to complain because i know it's hard for my father too.after a few month my aunty asked her boss to allow her to work half day only,so in the morning i do all the chores,by 12 am my aunty come home from work and i go to school.

bish I'd runaway

너무 안쓰럽고…… 눈물이 난다… 저런 집에서 어떻게 견뎠을까 기댈곳 하나 없이…

It made me cry when she said she miss her mom i have my mom but looking at her im thankfull and im sorry to her she is same as my age but i can feel her i hope she is ok now♥

This is one of the most frustrating concerns I've ever watched from this show

The hosts never take concerns seriously it’s annoying they do it because if they dont keep up the comedic effect ppl won’t like it

I just like the fact that this show helps this family to atleast change a bit and show love and affection, say something they have'nt said to each other. Hope this family will get along with one another and try to be understanding.

Every time I watch a episode I have never made it without crying

I don’t get it, i’m the youngest in our family and I’m also a girl but I do most of the chores, I can at least understand because i know my older brothers and sisters have also done this when they we’re my age buuuut they’ve never been as rude as that older brother and their dad. I think the dad favours the brother more that he grew up being a brat or something like that. It’s really different with a mom cause you know if their mom’s still with them and heard about this, she would’ve disciplined them both and not just shrug it off. That father and his brother irritates me. So frustrating.

This is Korean culture. They always say that girls MUST do these kind of things. And as if boys should just stay there and eat what the girl cook. That's disgusting. My ex bf used to be like that too. He always told me how his mother does everything for him,like dishes or laundry or cook for them whenever they are hungry he told me I should be just like his mother. Thanks to God I know my rights and just broke up with him. They are seriously doing this and I know not only this one is suffering from this.

This case was handled so so poorly. They made it into a joke. The abuse with her brother especially was treated like a small spat. The counsellors addressed the sexism, but didn't realize how deep rooted it was, and how learned behaviours like those are difficult to change. The father learnt it from his father, and the brother from him. They won't change. The only thing that might improve is when the sister grows up a little and helps out; which is not a good solution in the slightest, but that's the only feasible answer I can think of for her.

That poor girl there...her family is so unreasonable towards her...God bless her and I hope that her situation can improve

Bruh this made me cry

this is so heartbreaking, I would adopt her and her sister in heartbeat if I could

rest in peace Ji sun-nim🙏💙

Just by seeing how her father and brother stare to her, they look so mean. The gaze, looks like they doesn't like her to speak in the show. Respect for you girl, i know what u feel❤

I wanna slap the dad so bad U can tell the dad is lying about doing work

The father and son. Ugh.

"oh he meant well" well god bless you i love you so much imma bout to pummel your face in

Why do I keep on tearing up while watching this?

I hope they will all be good to each other

Yoojung is so understanding 💕 thats why i love her

I really love this program so much watching from Nigeria

My husbnd is very nice to me.he helps me alot and cares fr me.i thnk helping each other out is the true meaning of care and love which every family member wants from other

poor thing. I'm so fucking heated right now. I'm laughing from rage & getting teary eyed at the same time. That whole family is verbally & physically abusive & extremely manipulative. I'm really starting to detest this show because it makes situations like this seem okay & that makes the viewers think it's okay. I hate that POCs (people of colour) turn a blind eye to everything instead of trying to understand and make a difference. We can do better than this!!! If you are constantly feeling scared or uneasy something is not right!!! It might seem normal to you because this is your life but it isn't!! You shouldn't feel this way!! people just brush it off because 'It's a part of the culture' It's really fucking traumatising is what it is!! why do you think POCs have the highest suicide rate?? I hope she makes it out alive or with half a brain.

I felt like crying so hard I'm in the same boat its been two years as well. Maybe if things were different and my father and siblings understood I wouldn't be like this.

If you want to be treated like an older brother you have to be an older brother not only in ages. You have your two own hands do your own chores

why do i cry every episode

Shows like this just make me think, every family should visit a counsellor once a year 😂😅😅😅

Lowkey feel bad for all the siblings tho even the brother because we gotta think he probley acts like this because his mom died right when he became a teenager, i hope this family gets better because to be honest they seem like they can get better.

She is so beautiful ❤️💜

shes so pretty omg

korra is still so sexist...my gosh. it's freaking 2018. they re constantly evolving in technology....why can't they evolve as humans?

Dad: You're sister is 12 years old she still too young BOI I STARTED DOING THE DISHES WHEN I WAS 9 YEARS OLD

Well watching this I was crying so so much and I don't cry well watching Hello Consoler. I can relate to this so much

I feel sorry for her and I understand. I went through something similar once my mom started working. Till this day no one ever appreciated everything I did for them. I was in the same position as her. Middle child, oldest girl. I hope she moves out first so they can feel her absence and understand all the things she does for them.