OP Beat The Sh*t Out Of His Brother After Catching Him SA’ing His Fiancee. After 4 Years, OP’s Fa...

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3 ай бұрын

My family wants me to forgive my brother after he tried to r0pe my fiancee (u/Solid-Designer-8973 in r/offmychest)
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@low-keydrama1260 3 ай бұрын

"You should give him a second chance." The thing is, OP DID after the brother tried to kiss the fiancé and look what happened, the brother actually was SA'ing her. If OP and fiancé forgave the brother and gave him a THIRD chance, he would've been sneakier and bolder. I fully believe he would've found a way to fully harm the fiancé.

@Catherine.Dorian. 3 ай бұрын

There’s a reason sex offenders don’t last long in jail, even inmates know you can’t fix those types of people they always offend again

@matthewbarabas3052 3 ай бұрын

you really shouldnt give people second chances, especially of these kinds of actions.

@francinetitherington4060 2 ай бұрын

Also, many inmates have children and know their own kids are more vulnerable because they are incarcerated and can't keep an eye out for them. Peodos don't do wekk in prison because of that.

@trashotaku 2 ай бұрын

oh absolutely

@EmilyPersephone Ай бұрын

Not to mention that the mother, who is telling him to give him another chance, has clearly given him many chances herself. She was just in denial and wanted to pretend it didn't happen.

@leazimridaniels8552 3 ай бұрын

So the parents lost all children

@_juju_jojo_ 3 ай бұрын

Great parents👍

@frost3193 3 ай бұрын

Ideal parents👍

@amoththatthinks 3 ай бұрын

Best parents 👍

@crowfather0249 3 ай бұрын

Superb parents 👍🏾

@minustheone80 3 ай бұрын

Extraordinary Parents👍

@_juju_jojo_ 3 ай бұрын

As a woman, how can a mother prioritize her son after committing the most heinous act a man can commit on a woman? I understand loving him unconditionally and forgiving him, but basically sliding what he did under the rug and demanding OP and his fiance, the fucking victim, to forgive him? Are you fucking kidding me? Just finished watching this and I forgot it turned out he was a serial assaulter. Shame on the mother and father

@grapheist612 2 ай бұрын

100% because he gave her her first grandchild. Especially being in an immigrant community. As soon as I read that, I said “ohhhh, now I understand.” There are so many stories on Reddit about mothers in particular throwing their children away because they won’t/can’t give them grandbabies.

@Notoriouscj1 2 ай бұрын

Women lie

@N..P.. 2 ай бұрын

I'll never get that, either. I made it clear to my kids that if they ever committed certain acts, they better hope the police get to them before I do. My uncle SA'd an 8 year old boy and I could never understand why my grandmother was more concerned about her son being on the registry and never about what the kids life has been like since then.

@zachboyd4749 2 ай бұрын

@@N..P.. Good on you for teaching your kids about accountability and consequences. Those are traits that too many parents seem to not care about these days...

@Allantitan Ай бұрын

@@N..P..you sound like my mom. If me or my brother did anything like that we would be begging the cops to arrest us if only to have some metal bars between us and our mom

@leroysgamesandmore2226 3 ай бұрын

Parents definitely knew and helped cover for the brother

@DeeBraynt2010 3 ай бұрын

I suspect that the brother had been escalating for a lot longer than what they found out in the investigation. The Birth Giver was a little too quick to jump to the pervert's defense and try to rug sweep.

@CG-yb6zj 3 ай бұрын

@DeeBraynt2010 He felt safe enough to do it at a PARTY and on his bro FIANCÉE no less. Unless you're THAT delulu, he knew his parents would cover/protect him. I've half a mind to wonder if one of them was a lookout during given his past history 🤔 they knew what's he capable of and kept their eyes on him, but wouldn't stop him, so instead chose to be near enough to mitigate the situation and throw doubt on the woman's claim.

@leesills7800 2 ай бұрын

Yes, my thoughts exactly if he felt comfortable enough to try that with his brothers fiancé, surrounded by family, then I can almost guarantee you he had done it to other women before, and according to the OP they lived in a very insulated community, which leads me to believe that the parents would’ve had some ideals of what was happening

@kayne2889 2 ай бұрын

Dad's reaction to hearing what his son was doing says it all, he clearly knew his son had a history with SA and his first thought was probably "dammit" and wondering why that bastard would pick someone so close to the family. It would be easier to sweep it under the rug if it was a stranger or just someone, they could cut contact with, but someone that close to the family? They can't do that without having others ask questions.

@sparkeyjames 3 ай бұрын

His parents are total enablers and despite him being accused of sexual assault multiple times still support him. The worst case of golden child syndrome I've ever heard of. the only other case that I found near as bad was of parents covering up the youngest sons GF getting with his older brother and ghosting the younger one the day he was going to propose to her. Then for 5 years covered up the former GF marrying the older brother. The parents even went to wedding. The younger brother totally lost his shiat for 5 years wondering what happened. The GF had cheated on the younger brother for 2 years with the older brother before ghosting him and the parents knew about that too. Wasted 7 years of his life because of that.

@Catilena1890 Ай бұрын

Whoever the lawyer was that said "Brother would drag OP down with him" is full of shit. There is no way in hell OP would get anything because he did not assault a man, he defended his girlfriend from a monster.

@prideguy3233 14 күн бұрын

That would be difficult to prove in court.

@gavinwilliams1288 3 ай бұрын

Wow the family are POS, the older brother of OP is disgusting, and those that supported him are nasty too. Good you cut contact with them, keep positive people around you OP

@RyukinJakka 3 ай бұрын

OP's only mistake was not telling his family about the first incident.

@superphantom100 28 күн бұрын

That wouldn’t have changed anything.

@sarahlail2516 3 ай бұрын

So these parents deciding to cover for their oldest and pushing for their other children and daughter in law to "forgive and forget" they lose all of their children instead of supporting their youngest ones and would have lost the one. Totally logical these parents are, just wanting to keep pretending that their eldest wasn't a monster.

@ashencloak667 3 ай бұрын

It's not about logic or how the calculus of how many kids they want to keep. They deluded themselves into thinking he wasn't doing anything unforgivably evil. They didn't want to think a son they raised was capable of that. Or worse, they don't think SA is "that bad" and believe that he is able to bounce back from hurting people like this. They didn't do the math of how many kids they would still have, they just wanted nothing to change.

@Notoriouscj1 2 ай бұрын

Women lie

@Allantitan Ай бұрын

@@ashencloak667I’d be lucky if all that would happen is getting disowned if I even attempted that

@tendotezira4976 3 ай бұрын

I feel bad for OP's niece because that girl won't have a dad but it's for her own good

@matthewbarabas3052 3 ай бұрын

why would said neice want a dad whos a rapist, anyway?

@Notoriouscj1 2 ай бұрын

@@matthewbarabas3052what??

@N..P.. 2 ай бұрын

It's in her best interest that he's not around. She's safer that way.

@toriladybird511 Ай бұрын

@Notoriouscj1 if he can SA a fiance trust me he's not gonna see much issue with harming his OWN child

@eidelrose Ай бұрын

@@toriladybird511can verify, unfortunately

@Connorstallionsisahero 3 ай бұрын

Op is the hero of his own story ... 😂😂😂.....

@Yaksonator 3 ай бұрын

Aren’t we all…

@Kris-wo4pj 3 ай бұрын

@@Yaksonatornah some people are the villian instead

@_juju_jojo_ 3 ай бұрын

@@Kris-wo4pjI think he meant that some OPs who are in the wrong believe they’re in the right, no matter what

@dokuganryu1565 3 ай бұрын

I mean, if nobody else steps up then...

@Only1199 3 ай бұрын

Should have told mom, dad and the family telling him to forgive the brother, if bro had did what he did to OP’s girlfriend to a child, if he had taken/cornered a child into that bedroom and tried to SA the child would they be all forgive him or would they permanently exile the brother.

@toriladybird511 Ай бұрын

They would have done exactly the same snd made the girl feel it was her fault. It's amazing the mental gymnastics family can do to protect the predators BUT blame the victims.

@drifter139 2 ай бұрын

parents should be grateful that OP didn't end his brother outright and only sent him to the hospital. you don't assault someone and expect others to get over it in a few months

@Ianna80 3 ай бұрын

It's not easy facing ur attacker bc even when ur in court (a safe place... usually 😂) u still feel like u did the moment u were assaulted & it takes yrs to even get to the point where u can think back w/out panicking... it's 1 of the things they took from us, security!!

@m.c.9419 3 ай бұрын

If op had been a little more skeptical and kept his girlfriend away from the brother maybe the story would have had a different ending. Maybe. But it honestly sounds like op's brother was determined to do something awful to op's girlfriend and just needed the opportunity. What a creep. Imagine thinking it takes four years to forgive attempted r*pe. I'm glad op didn't give into "family first no matter what or how ugly the circumstances". "He moved to the other side of the country, changed his name and went into therapy" right. So basically a crminal running away from the consequences and throwing up a smokescreen to seem like he's actually doing his best to reform instead of taking advantage of a clean slate. I'm glad op never let this slide. It was obvious that this wasn't the first time op's brother pulled this kind of stunt.

@toriladybird511 Ай бұрын

OP might have thought 1st time he was drunk as he didn't know his brother is a predatory monster

@francessweeney2308 2 ай бұрын

His mother is in denial. Her mindset is that he was drunk and misread the signs. No mother wants to believe that their beloved son is a r@#ist. Especially if he's done it before, his mother would probably go to jail to protect her son.

@sheparedcomanderN7 3 ай бұрын

So all of this is pretty bad but what third world hell hole would punish a man for saving his girlfriend from a rapist? Edit to clarify, he says several times they didn’t involve the courts because it was possible for OP to also face punishment for “excessive self defense “

@southernflight5078 2 ай бұрын

You'd be surprised how easy it is to get arrested as a victim defending yourself in the US.

@Catilena1890 Ай бұрын

@@southernflight5078 If the GF is white, no way in hell would OP get prosecuted. Attacking a white person as a foreigner is a one-way ticket to prison.

@SilveryBlue1010 2 ай бұрын

So the ex-brother is a predator? **Shudders**

@whatnujgaming714 18 күн бұрын

I bet $5 that they may someday become a Roblox dev. (If ykyk)

@user-it4fj5bg7e 28 күн бұрын

For story 01, bro I literally spat after hearing the title. Op's family is insane as fuck😮

@candicemonique5927 2 ай бұрын

Why are so many people in the comments talking s**t about the op and defending the brother?

@prideguy3233 14 күн бұрын

Cause some people fucking suck.

@rebeccamcguire2798 3 ай бұрын

his family is mighty delusional jesus 😅 how embarrassing

@onepieceisking5493 Ай бұрын

I'm not surprised that the second the parasite saw the cops he tried to run then fight the cops. He knew why they were there. Nor am I surprised that he lied to everyone at where he lived to save his butt and build hisife on lies. At least the parents testified against him and he's now jail. Unfortunately some people are just so beyond disgusting and vile. Typical that he tried to get back at op by trying to get op in jail for beating him years ago. Bet he was pissed when the judge dismissed it. He did that because he knew it was op that exposed his true vile nature to everyone and got him, finally, arrested.

@justinebidulopoutchini9774 2 ай бұрын

lol the brother could try to sue for defamation, but it isn’t defamation if it’s true

@Eric_Black134 2 ай бұрын

Can confirm the sliperyness of banana peals when i was a kid, i left one on the floor, and my little brother stopped on it while running and went through the wall.

@Pincushion45 3 ай бұрын

I'm gonna be honest. Why do people never nip things in the bud before the meltdown. Dude tell everyone they weren't the ones who beat their brother, tell them their significant other wasn't almost assaulted.

@southernflight5078 2 ай бұрын

People like OP's family don't believe in anything being wrong until it happens to them. Blind fools who'll continue to make excuses until they are the ones suffering.

@toriladybird511 Ай бұрын

@@southernflight5078they don't want to think OP's ex brother IS A MONSTER

@vodkasama5503 3 ай бұрын

First story and is the only story 😂. Now I want to play minecraft. Your builds are so pretty 😢

@K.Esmerelda-zy7cf 3 ай бұрын

I've been playing Minecraft while listening to these. I listen to reddit stories and play games a lot.

@dest5218 2 ай бұрын

@@K.Esmerelda-zy7cfis Minecraft fun? I never really understood it

@K.Esmerelda-zy7cf 2 ай бұрын

@@dest5218 It's not really about that. Minecraft is more about scratching the itch to hoard and build with a touch of survival. I'm a loot hoarder so I enjoy getting to feel a sense of accomplishment from obtaining as much resources as possible and having it be a good thing. There is also a sense of accomplishment from building. I've made some really beautiful structures. My favorite being a two story brick house with a bedroom on top. It had a huge 5 story pagoda on one side with a spiral staircase that ran from the ground floor up to the top and a little glassed in sleeper hidden in the roof. There was also a massive two story greenhouse on the other side of the house made from red brick and light blue glass that had a fountain on the roof that actually fed into waterfalls that ran down the interior walls down into streams on each floor. It had shelves filled with clay planters. It was on a small mountain nestled in the lower part of a mountain range and had a glassed in dining area below the ground floor that lead into the underground storage area which had a bathhouse and a huge furnace to heat the building. There was a glassed in water elevator that went from the basement straight up to the bedroom and an underground tunnel that went under the green house that connected to the horse stable near the farm. I had to dig up all the clay from river beds and fire it to make the bricks, grow all the trees and cut them down for the wood accents, floors and ceilings and the furniture and had to dig up all the sand and gather flowers using bone meal from fishing to make the colored glass. All while making sure I didn't starve. So I wouldn't say it's so much about fun as it is about feeling accomplishment for your effort and time. Minecraft is pretty therapeutic. Me and my GF play it together a lot. You can also play in creative mode like in most of these videos where you can just use anything you want without having to gather the resources yourself and you can fly. I like playing survival.

@dest5218 2 ай бұрын

@@K.Esmerelda-zy7cf thanks I think I get it now, much appreciated 👍🏽

@K.Esmerelda-zy7cf 2 ай бұрын

@@dest5218 You're welcome. Hope you enjoy it if you decide to try it out.

@jongault7527 2 ай бұрын

One thing I have learn3d from all these stories is that if you marry your college sweetheart, she's gonna cheat with her boss.

@candicemonique5927 2 ай бұрын

What?

@jongault7527 2 ай бұрын

@candicemonique5927 Quite a few (the majority, in fact) of these stories are " rage bait " writing exercises. I believe this one to be as well. In all the cheating stories where OP meets their spouse in college. Notice that the spouse almost always sleeps with their boss.

@mrjackdapper8573 25 күн бұрын

I don’t really get why op would be mad at himself it’s not like he saw this coming

@NakaidaBeauzec 29 күн бұрын

Ah the wonders of alcohol

@matthewbarabas3052 3 ай бұрын

if OP has to specify that it isnt racist, its racist.

@Notoriouscj1 2 ай бұрын

What???

@FrederikEngelmand 2 ай бұрын

Exactly. They are probably black or Arab immigrants, so they don't see what they do as racist if against white or asians

@TheGenn 15 күн бұрын

"this sounds racist but it is not". sure it is, if natives dont want to interact with your migrant community it would be hella racist, so why wouldnt it the other way around?

@LordofDungeons32 21 күн бұрын

Shame on the judge for dismissing the excessive use of force count.

@miguelruiz4613 20 күн бұрын

Im willing to bet the older brother was the reason they weren't liked around where they lived

@jitgamer-ki1fl 3 ай бұрын

I know this is random but is that minecraft world youre playing on public? It seems nice

@user-xd6ni8cr2i Ай бұрын

I live in Sacramento I'm 67 years old but years ago I used to play pool in a tournaments around here in the league I was not very popular because I didn't do drugs and I didn't cheat kind of funny you know how they want to get rid of people who don't do drugs anyway one of the teams had a captain on it and this guy everybody thought he was the nicest guy in the world and he forced me to shake hands with the president of the league when I beat him twice and he refused to acknowledge it so when I shook his hand I realized that I was forced to do it by this guy that I really thought was a nice guy well about a month later we found out that this guy was what they called the roaming rapist his name was Derek Sanders he was going around raping a whole bunch of women that I can say this on here because he's already been convicted of it so it's not slander of any kind but I found it funny that they got rid of me because I'm not popular and I don't do drugs but this guy is a rapist and they thought he was the nicest guy around that just shows you how messed up people are in the head

@michel3184 11 күн бұрын

What is OP

@a1saucin221 3 күн бұрын

Fiance is a strong mf

@diffsnicker 14 күн бұрын

Op basically said "yeah my gfs parents are xenophobes that only interact with people that look like them and call people born in the country they moved to foreigners but its ok because they aren't white"

@loplop7029 Ай бұрын

“This sounds racist…” because it is racist!

@zaira9799 2 ай бұрын

I agree this is a mess up story, but somehow I don't like the OP, like he sees himself as some kind of hero and is all about justice but the guy couldn't accept the consequences of beating up someone and that was the excuse to no sue the brother in the first place. Dude wasn't looking for justice, he was looking for vengeance.

@prideguy3233 14 күн бұрын

Because if he went to jail his fiance would be in a worse situation.

@miqueiasqueiroz8796 3 ай бұрын

It Seems fake, but its a good story

@mista4323 3 ай бұрын

how so?

@Finckelstein 14 күн бұрын

@@mista4323 All the little things. The timeline is completely nonsensical for one. He talks about the SA as if it was 4 years ago and the rest happened in the last few months. There is no way in hell he found 8 victims within a year and had it go to court+sentencing already. That typically takes YEARS. Also, a life sentence for SA? Hahaha, sure. Not to mention that all they got was testimony. No DNA samples, no police reports, nothing. In what world would police officers march through your parent's house to throw you in jail for this? Also, why would OPs lawyer be involved in a criminal trial AT ALL? After looking up the story on reddit it's even worse. He claimed the trial took only 2 months. This is the fakiest fake that ever faked faking. Also, his "dismissed charges". That's an entirely different case that can't just be dismissed by the same judge or any judge for the matter. It would have had to go to court. This reeks of creative writing.

@Fiery_Latina_Goatchan_GF_681 2 ай бұрын

Sorry but I will never defend acts of violence and I am glad OP was disowned too

@disregard425 2 ай бұрын

You are a weakling

@candicemonique5927 2 ай бұрын

So you believe an act of violence worse than sexual assault which by the way is an act of violence? What an ahole. 😡

@prideguy3233 14 күн бұрын

What a shit take

@wkkowrld 10 күн бұрын

sexual assault is an act of violence.

@Fiery_Latina_Goatchan_GF_681 10 күн бұрын

@@wkkowrld ya tell that to the cops

@Notoriouscj1 2 ай бұрын

Op in 1 was a pos he chose a girl over his brother.

@disregard425 2 ай бұрын

Op in 1 was a great bf who defended her girlfriend from his serial grapist brother* there fixed it

@ChrissaTodd 2 ай бұрын

So you'd defend a rapist got it thanks for the self report

@vidaapplebee8388 2 ай бұрын

Is this the brother?

@candicemonique5927 2 ай бұрын

You are an ahole, if you really mean that.

@vidaapplebee8388 Ай бұрын

His brother is a monster!! Wtf is wrong with you?

@JonathanJoestarJuicefest 2 ай бұрын

"What were the family thinking when defending someone doing something that can give you ptsd?" Oh I dunno, families defend women who commit infidelity and paternity fraud on the regular...

@disregard425 2 ай бұрын

What does paternity fraud and infidelity have to do with a story of a brother assaulting his brothers fiancee?

@JonathanJoestarJuicefest 2 ай бұрын

@@disregard425 The point is that families tend to defend people who do other vile shit as well

@sampattnaik1911 2 ай бұрын

No the point is You are trying to justify their Stance of Defending a R@pist by creating imaginary situation in your head

@JonathanJoestarJuicefest 2 ай бұрын

@@sampattnaik1911 "imaginary situation" that happens on the daily, especially in the US?

@sampattnaik1911 2 ай бұрын

@@JonathanJoestarJuicefest your delusion that apparently families forgive Women for cheating is really concerning. This statement make it seem like infidelity isn't committed by men and they don't ever get forgiven for that? Infidelity is not a crime. It's just a wrong commited by both men and women. So that point is baseless. And then what the fuck is ever paternity fraud? And How do you ever convince yourself that a woman committing infidelity is somehow as big an issue as a man r@ping someone?