OP Wants to Reconcile with His Adoptive Brother After Bullying Him All Over His Life for Being Ad...

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00:00 1st story:
AITA for refusing a relationship with my mother after she’s basically NEVER been in my life? (Weight-Late in r/AmItheAsshole)
15:23 2nd story:
I (22M) feel like I forever ruined my relationship with my adopted brother (19M) (Throwaway_099111 in r/family)
26:47 3rd story:
Here is a peek into the depths of depravity n-parents can sink to: Covertly destroying 20 years of romantic relationships for their children. (BigJohnThomas inr/raisedbynarcissists)
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@hisuniquestyle3269 Ай бұрын

S2. I wanna know how OP’s parents introduced the adoption situation to him. I’m not giving an excuse for his behavior, but sometimes parents make moves and don’t explain to their child. For someone to go from being an only child to having to share parents is definitely gonna create a negative reaction. Did his parents unconsciously favor the cousin because of his situation? Did OP have to make sacrifices to appease his cousin? At the end of the day he should just leave the man alone bc he’s traumatized him enough. I do feel it’s wayyy more to the story.

@princessmarlena1359 Ай бұрын

Story 2: Here’s what OP needs to do, LEAVE HIS ADOPTIVE BROTHER ALONE. He apologized and made his peace, his adoptive brother made his, and that’s it. If OP isn’t forgiven, fine. Let him live with the crappy things that he did, but at least he tried to make amends. If he does involve the parents or try to pressure his adoptive brother into forgiving him, then he is no batter than the many horrible narcissistic people in these sort of stories that are abusive yet then demand forgiveness just because they “apologized”. If you demand forgiveness, you definitely don’t deserve it, nor are you truly “sorry”.

@AlvarodeAlmeidaSantos Ай бұрын

Yeah, he should not even mention it with the parents. The brother will keep contacting him if it is what him want.

@JimBeamFiend53 Ай бұрын

Story 2: I am cautiously optimistic on OPs sincerity. I get the vibe that he wants to sort things out, but has no damn clue what to do and the hurt rins too deep.

@ianmoritzplatapino3684 Ай бұрын

Story 1 this op dad is a damn doormat and really doesn't care about op. And why do people think that being and saying they're sorry they have a right to reconcile and being part of the life of the people whose life they destroyed? Classic selfish behavior

@RepellentJeff Ай бұрын

Story 1: Sounds like dad is an addict who swapped alcohol for a far more dangerous drug….

@VR00100 Ай бұрын

Def not drugs, instead he's gone nuts

@RepellentJeff Ай бұрын

@@VR00100 I was implying religion was the new drug.

@VR00100 Ай бұрын

@@RepellentJeff religion is not a drug, despair is. Cluts use this to manipulate people Religion is the idea of enforcing your morals over pride and taking the "zaza". This is regardless of any major religion

@tipr.999 28 күн бұрын

If you listened to the story then you'd realize that he's still drinking despite being "religious".

@brainbomb. Ай бұрын

I hate that mother from the 1st story.

@ianmoritzplatapino3684 Ай бұрын

@@brainbomb. Classic narcissist

@Zurround Ай бұрын

FORCING reconciliation on his child makes me hate the father even more than I hate the mother at this point. When someone has been horribly abused, in this story almost fatally you can never FORCE reconciliation on them and to try to do so is a form of abuse in itself meaning he has now to varying degrees been abused by BOTH parents.

@aleksandarvil5718 Ай бұрын

Story 3: The World's Smallest Violins 👌🏻🎻👌🏻🎻👌🏻🎻👌🏻 for _"parents"_ !!!

@Zurround Ай бұрын

I posted above that there should be a way to sue them for slander or libel.

@pezchef7577 Ай бұрын

story 3: it seems like every former gf didn't approach op and ask. every ex parroted moms words and didn't come up with their own conclusions on their own life experiences with the op they knew. every exgf was gullible, naive, and kinda shallow in their relationship. granted some were probably young at the time, but as time passes on and op and (hopefully) his former gf(s) we're getting older, the same immature ability to form a deep meaningful and mature relationship. i have mixed feelinn but this mom does need to go pound sand

@alfredmarcos1761 Ай бұрын

At some point the need for salvation becomes a desperate attempt to grab at anything hoping its their hail mary

@gregoryk.9815 Ай бұрын

You can contact your local child protective services and get a case against her even at your age which would borrow her from ever seeing you and if your father tries to force you he can lose custody of you and you'll have to pay child support to the system.

@crystalgemgirl731 Ай бұрын

Dude,dude, dude... All you did was reopen old wounds.🤦🏻‍♀️

@4myzelf 25 күн бұрын

The axe forgets but the forrest remembers

@VetaRoberts-sj7sw Ай бұрын

Yta, leave him alone

@Storylinesphere1208 13 күн бұрын

That last one was crazy!!!!@@@

@Bucketus.Lord.of.Buckets Ай бұрын

Story 2/Title Story: OP is incredibly selfish. He was more concerned with how he felt than how his brother felt. The whole "repair/build a relationship" thing was to make OP feel good, not to help brother and the family.

@mevan883 Ай бұрын

Sound more like both because OP did asked if brother/cousin if he wanted him to stop. Saying sorry means nothing if you don't acknowledge what you are saying to sorry for. If anything OP should have asked if they can go to family therapy.

@princessmarlena1359 Ай бұрын

Agreed.

@user-hr5pc3rt2n Ай бұрын

Story 1. Best thing you could do for your grandparents is be sure they are vaccinated and self isolate with them.

@drayott-jr Ай бұрын

Story 2, your goal was to apologize and say sorry let him know it was your fault and you wronged him; Also you should've told him what the discussion was about before forcing him into an uncomfortable situation he had no mental prep for. You instead didn't tell him what the topic was, and tried to rip the bandaid on a healing wound. You also dumped how bad you feel about it on him which is not info you need to give him.

@thejadewizard6178 Ай бұрын

Any god that shines hate and fear into men is not worthy of worship. People of faith are supposed to be kind and nonjudgemental of others, both of which the dad no longer is. That's the problem with most religions, even the good ones! Fearmongering, if you don't believe in me, you are damned! I don't believe god is this petty.

@bleedingroze Ай бұрын

Completely. Hatred and fear is not the way of faith.

@drayott-jr Ай бұрын

You're definitely right. The gods aren't the issues, its the people writing their own ways to force people to follow their own ideals.

@VetaRoberts-sj7sw Ай бұрын

Be up front with her, tell her the truth. You don't want to see her again

@Zurround Ай бұрын

Story 3: Can a person sue over ruining relationships with lies like this? slander or something?

@AlvarodeAlmeidaSantos Ай бұрын

yeah, but proving it is hard.

@erinwessel2195 Ай бұрын

Whoosh! That last one was crazy

@XllllllollllllX Ай бұрын

Op and his dad in the first story are doormats for not just cutting that woman off there life

@mevan883 Ай бұрын

Dad, not really just someone who believes people can better themselves.

@mylw4387 29 күн бұрын

OP was 16 (a literal child) when this post started, and did try to cut the "mother" out of her life when she got old enough. The dad was the doormat.

@Stevensenegal222 Ай бұрын

Story 3 " I can't think of a single rational woman who wouldn't listen to that." Excuse me. Some Women are actually loyal and honest and understand that many parents are absolutely fucked in the head. Who could just believe that with no evidence or personal experience. If some of these creatures start to hate you, because your family is shit talking you behind your back, instead of telling what they are saying about you, that is disgusting betrayal. He even took her back wtf. She will stab him in the back at the next opportunity. What happens when the next guy tells her how shitty her boyfriend is and that she deservers better?