20 years ago, when I became a baal teshuva, nobody told me just how hard marriage would be.
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@raisayudasin9638 Жыл бұрын
I stumbled across this video and it spoke to my heart! Wow, thank you for your honesty Rabbi, so relatable! The fact that you decided to put your wife first brought tears to my eyes! Thank you 🙏
@emilyengle292 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, Rabbi, for sharing your life and struggles with us.
@RabbiRom2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Emily... Hope you're doing well.
@Nesretep1002 жыл бұрын
As the man who married us, it's great to hear your honestly! Thank you :)
@RabbiRom2 жыл бұрын
Thank you good sir!! Getting married is easy... Now staying married, ahhh!
@chickiek8011 Жыл бұрын
This is amazing! I am not of Jewish faith, but I love how real and down-to-earth this Rabbi is. He speaks from the heart, I love that! Blessings to you and your family, Rabbi.
@1daughter1son Жыл бұрын
While our family is not Jewish I really appreciate you sharing your feelings and your family! Thank you, Rabbi.
@RabbiRom Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Cyndi! Blessings and Success
@ary-shalom8356 Жыл бұрын
Wow. Great video! Here I am thinking to myself: I’m studying Judaism and conversion classes, I want to have a home with Jewish values, yet I’m in love with an atheist. What a crossroad 😢
@Shabbatcom9 ай бұрын
This was an amazing video! I appreciated your candor and honesty. Great job! BK
@ShefaBand2 жыл бұрын
Wow! Rabbi Rome does it again with another phenomenal video! Def gonna try to integrate this one
@bubsodleson4109 Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful story. I'm not jewish but I've taken many things from your message I'll be able to apply to my own marriage. Thank you!
@davidsrobotroots2 жыл бұрын
Welcome back to KZfaq! We missed you Rabbi Rome! Glad things are back on track :) Kol tuv!
@RabbiRom2 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir! Blessings and Success!
@juliec21342 жыл бұрын
Very inspiring! Thank you for your honesty and transparency.
@RabbiRom2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much... Wasn't easy to admit that..
@YaakovWMusic Жыл бұрын
Wow! So special of you to share with us what happened to you to help us focus on what's important in life since many times we do lose that focus. Thank You so so much Rabbi!
@RabbiRom Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the kind words Yaakov. Blessings and Success!
@AvidanVlogs2 жыл бұрын
Glad to have you back, I hope to see more of you!
@RabbiRom2 жыл бұрын
Toda achi!!
@nataliesirota26112 жыл бұрын
My husband and I similar conversation about his work. Thank you so very much for sharing.
@isaacwolowik Жыл бұрын
I appreciate your vulnerability. Bless you.❤❤❤
@claudiachurch42852 жыл бұрын
I stumbled on this channel , but loved it so glad you decided to save your marriage
@RabbiRom2 жыл бұрын
Hey thanks so much.... Welcome aboard!
@mordechaileviyitzchok2580 Жыл бұрын
Watched this with tears in my eyes! Thank you so much for sharing
@1andyou2 Жыл бұрын
Wow, your awesome man. Real man talking real crises in life
@siyata4u Жыл бұрын
Got biated with a good title, and got hooked with good content. Let's how the rest of your channel goes. Just subscribed. Good Luck!
@Mushu88210 ай бұрын
Toda for honest words. I think, G-d knows the heart more than anyone, and since we are all imperfect in this world, maybe being honest to ourself and G_d is even the most spiritual way ever. To admit, that one has failed, is a sign of dignity and strength and faith. Iam a Noachide on the way to convert, you gave me hope today. Because you are a born in and to hear from you, that it's even difficult for a born in, I don't worry too much anymore. G_d knows my heart more than I do. I do what I can and always try to get better than the last time. The rest is in G_ds hand.
@tsousley182 жыл бұрын
B"H , shout out to Rabbi YY . Glad your working on your marriage. Intermarriage, divorce, and low birthrates (+assimilation) are a self inflicted genocide on klal Yisruel. We need strong Jewish families, and more of them.
@RabbiRom2 жыл бұрын
Yes, indeed!
@bradprice28772 жыл бұрын
‘brilliant’ such an awesome, honest share. Happy wife , happy life 🤭
@RabbiRom2 жыл бұрын
Appreciate it... And yes, definately trying to make her happy!
@michelleboyd7824 Жыл бұрын
Marriage is work. After almost 30 years of marriage and there has been major ups and downs. We have worked and loved each other, but we love each other more today than yesterday. And our two sons know that just because times get tough doesn't mean you end it. You work through it, because you love each other. And you never give up on the ones you love. (This doesn't include physical or emotional abuse)
@alexibrahim5118 Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness sounds like I need to do the same. Thank you for sharing
@red---paulvanravenswaay2247 Жыл бұрын
Well done AND funny! Encouraging words😁
@savtamarlene2 жыл бұрын
After 48 years of marriage and the first 24 years living a secular marriage, it was FABULOUS hearing that when a young man learns how to be husband before the chasana, he is told he is supposed to love his wife as much of himself and to honor her more. He is told that he should shield his eyes from other women and to only have eyes for her...and that she covers her hair from other men and only shows him her hair. These aspects of Torah observance were very appealing...and mikva was the sprinkles on the ice cream cone. Our daughter had us sold! Marriage is constant effort...but the rewards are AMAZING! Three daughters, three "sons" and now fourteen enicklach! Well worth it!
@RabbiRom2 жыл бұрын
Baruch Hashem! Only nachas!
@savtamarlene2 жыл бұрын
@@RabbiRom 👍
@mdbedelsohn4307 Жыл бұрын
Amazing, Baruch HaShem!!!! Thanks for sharing
@ShnayerRoth Жыл бұрын
Respect. Thanks for making this
@moshdee456 Жыл бұрын
I love the nefesh habahamis dialogue
@Leon-jp7ch2 жыл бұрын
Incredibly inspiring. Yes, we all have something to struggle with, whether it's bad or not.
@RabbiRom2 жыл бұрын
Ain't that the truth, brother.
@AvidanVlogs2 жыл бұрын
Wow! In every way...
@rachelm42132 жыл бұрын
So ya went to Bistritzky’s office…. Nice! BH 🙏🏻🌻🤪🙏🏻 Shavua tov !
@DJW19812 жыл бұрын
Love this, so honest and upfront. I was not blessed with a wife but I'll be sure to bear this in mind if it ever happens. :)
@RabbiRom2 жыл бұрын
Amen!!! Blessings and Success!
@DJW19812 жыл бұрын
@@RabbiRom Thank you, and to you :)
@ZalmanNelson Жыл бұрын
this is simply awesome!
@thesoulmateconnection2 жыл бұрын
Happy wife, happy life -- she is Torah 💗 We are here to experience love. That is what the Torah is teaching us. Be love and be in love 🥰 Thank you for sharing, you do an exceptional job putting together amazing videos and explaining Torah very realistically. Ty
@RabbiRom2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much.. Blessings and success!
@the.rebbes.shliach2 жыл бұрын
כל הכבוד!!! 👏👏👏
@mazalmizrahi15969 ай бұрын
Very cute
@utube143ful2 жыл бұрын
Timely!
@levirabinowicz656811 ай бұрын
JUST GREAT!
@anne-catherineabraham46962 жыл бұрын
Wise decision. Yiyeh b’seder …
@RabbiRom2 жыл бұрын
It did take a while though... Toda raba!
@trackhawkleo707 Жыл бұрын
Lol great video 👍👍
@isaacslevy11 ай бұрын
Have seen many people prioritize their job over their family
@TwoChassidsInaPod2 жыл бұрын
Scared me !!!
@Kish3463011 ай бұрын
Well I never care what others might say or how they judge me . But that’s great news you out your wife first 👍🏼 But I have to say divorce laws are out dated . In that a man has so much to gain even after divorce but not a woman .
@richardmechaly478228 күн бұрын
You must have studied the gan hashalom?
@Reporterreporter770 Жыл бұрын
יישר כח
@tamarfischer283 Жыл бұрын
LOL. Love it
@RabbiRom Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much.. Blessings and Success!
@RobespierreThePoof7 ай бұрын
Everyone makes mistakes.
@rothsusan2 жыл бұрын
Another Homerun!
@RabbiRom2 жыл бұрын
Tod raba!
@EPA187 ай бұрын
I suspect the issues in your marriage were fictitious, just to make this video and make a point.
@TheShoshie102 жыл бұрын
A spouse should not come before G-d
@RabbiRom2 жыл бұрын
well... If Hashem would have His name be erased in the sota waters for shalom bayis, then, He wants her to come first...
@Crystal11Skulls Жыл бұрын
@@RabbiRomWithout G-d, there would be no wife. So G-d must come first.
@KosherWithoutBorders Жыл бұрын
Very good video! 10/10 the frum Casey Neistat 🎉
@RabbiRom Жыл бұрын
ooh wah! What a compliment! I think I have a ways to go though... Blessings and Success!
@michellem55532 жыл бұрын
Wow. -Michal
@RabbiRom2 жыл бұрын
yup, that's right.
@tatlertom3090Ай бұрын
i had to leave bt world because of the relentless positivity....also every story was half the story. the part, the way, the spin, the rabbi wanted us to believe. real discourse was not possible. that is a persuasion trick, not real persuasion. a stage trial of sorts.
@kingblueflash Жыл бұрын
nice
@chaimbochner7474 Жыл бұрын
Is this an authentic story? I want to share this!
@RabbiRom Жыл бұрын
Totally true story...
@randigerber1926 Жыл бұрын
What an outrageously attention-getting title for this video!!!!!! A Jewish man's Jewish wife is his ezer kenegdo. There need to be ongoing classes to teach and re-teach this. And support for Jewish marriages. (Birds of a feather flock together and make the flock stronger.) (It's one of the things I imagine will exist after Mashiach comes, but it would be awesome if we didn't wait!) Thanks, Rabbi Rome. You've revealed true bitachon ... trusting in the Torah's view of marriage (= "kedusha") and that HaShem would lead you to great success!
@salaisamueltiyar22052 жыл бұрын
the way we want role model for that but in this day a lot we pople behave like they are great poeple but they got divorce 100 million time but they still said i learned form it how? that is stupid
@hirschman2 Жыл бұрын
👍
@RabbiRom Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the thumbs up.. Blessings!
@hirschman2 Жыл бұрын
Thank to sharing with as, your privacy ,,you give as a good leçon ,to me and other,that’s watt I thing ,and mean .My HaShem give you happiness and joy with your family,Same for all of as…thank you.
@weswelkerman2 жыл бұрын
יחי אדוננו מורנו ורבינו מלך המשיח לעולם ועד. הרבי חי וקיים בגוף גשמי כפשוטו ממש
@coz7891 Жыл бұрын
You made your wife more important than God? Really? That's an abomination!
@RabbiRom Жыл бұрын
Not if that's what God wants...
@thetruthandonlythetruth8184 Жыл бұрын
WOW!!! Prioritizing the wife before Hashem??? Thats changing Hashem into Ha'shame
@cjoneillj Жыл бұрын
Ugh. 😫
@kookoochu1 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@RabbiRom Жыл бұрын
Glad you liked the video!
@farrahfrench7690 Жыл бұрын
But you are so not appealing!
@RabbiRom Жыл бұрын
Ouch... But alas, every pot has a lid. Even the ugly ones.
@sylviasolomon2241 Жыл бұрын
אני לא מאמינה .זה נראה מזויף .למה רב ידבר כך ב. I tube.