Although very familiar with Jewish culture, I didn’t know that observant Jewish folks didn’t shake hands. Few years ago I met an observant Jewish person and extended my hand to shake his. When told that he wouldn’t touch my hand and to not get offended, I smiled and said that I understood because in my culture we greet each other with a “namaste” 🙏🏼. I saw him again a few months later and he called out to me saying “Namaste 🙏🏼.” I thought it was so wonderful, thoughtful and respectful!
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Wow, that's a really special story. Thanks for sharing!
@GillyFromPhilly Жыл бұрын
I love how they look at each other. Not all googly-eyed, but full of respect.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
😊😊😊
@sistersistera Жыл бұрын
I am not Jewish however what this couple says is so true. I enjoyed their talk so much. Thank you.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome! These kind of insights are universal!
@CircassianLune Жыл бұрын
As an Azerbaijani Muslim, I would like to say that you guys are today the subject of my prayers, may God bless you both! 👍
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@lilianacm Жыл бұрын
I am Christian .I also have values ,but I have found your message very,very special! The way you talk,the way you LOVE each other is an example for all the world👍🌏! Thank you very much for sharing! May God bless you very much🙏🙏!!!
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
🙏🙏
@MelissaKnoxwriter Жыл бұрын
Love the way they look at each other. The trust.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Trust is so important!
@deanedubansky6923 Жыл бұрын
Now the whole world will see the beauty, the holiness, and intelligence of our incredible Rabbi and Rebbetzin. Through their examples, their teamwork, and their leadership, our Shul overflows with love, guidance, caring, learning, worship, compassion, holiness, kindness, and acceptance. Fantastic video. My sincere thanks and appreciation to you both.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
😊
@toddvoss52 Жыл бұрын
You are very lucky to have such a Rabbi and Rebbetzin
@superm70 Жыл бұрын
Stunning I'm Christian and this is such stunning advice and a wonderful couple
@sistersistera Жыл бұрын
This couple gave me so much to meditate on.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
That's great to hear!
@MitchM240 Жыл бұрын
This dude has a serious way with words. well done.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@DirMaverick Жыл бұрын
Okay...let's talk about how he looks at her when she's speaking 😅😅 That's amazing.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
😊😊
@marilynryan7822 Жыл бұрын
@Michael Acquah…and the way she looks at him too.
@margybernard Жыл бұрын
And she likewise. 😊
@margiematson781 Жыл бұрын
And vise versa ❤
@sandypeters5790 Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy to have heard both of you!! You are a beautiful couple, with a beautiful family and synagogue. I’m so grateful to be a part of your congregation! Arlene Parkin
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
They really are! Glad you enjoyed
@mslady1521 Жыл бұрын
I like when she said that if you found love once you can find it again in that same person.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Powerful point indeed.
@elizabethwilk9615 Жыл бұрын
As a Catholic I share the same views. Bless you both
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@miracleswillhappen3401 Жыл бұрын
I love this so much. You both speak so well. I am a cradle Catholic and though I have never question faith I have struggled with Catholicism. I love to hear your passion and a commitment
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
So happy to hear! Glad you enjoyed, and thanks for watching!
@beeos_an9 ай бұрын
I'm not a Jew, but this perspective on marriage, 10 on 10.
@katipohl2431 Жыл бұрын
Feeling great sympathy for this couple. Wise rules and life advice.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
💯💯
@marinamayo7994 Жыл бұрын
I agree with everything you said regarding marriage! Thank you for this wonderfully informative discussion!
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
You are welcome :)
@truecynic1270 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful couple with excellent values and great understanding of humanity and the guidance humanity needs
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Well said
@maisobh9390 Жыл бұрын
The thing that we tend to forget that there's so much in common when it comes to religions....as a Muslim we commanded to believe in all religions and all prophets without distinguishing them from each other " as long as it's practiced peacefully and respectfully".....and I found so much sense in what they spoke about in terms of the scarcity of the marriage and the sexual boundaries....all the respect 🙏
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Glad you think so!
@JewGotit Жыл бұрын
that was incredible, thank you Rabbi & Rebbetzin for your Gd given wisdom, and open hearts with sharing golden nuggets with the world. May Hashem bless you and your family ad 120 and see you soon BH in Israel.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Amen! Thank you!
@sensationallyyours6520 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful couple with the right insights, living life, marriage and family the way it is supposed to be!
@KeeHart Жыл бұрын
The way it's supposed to be in your opinion, couldn't be further from what I think marriage is about, we're very equal in mine,I'm not treated just a baby carrier or just as mother,I'm treated as a woman where my opinions and wants are respected.
@paulalepadatu930 Жыл бұрын
First time i hear Marriage word in Hebrew is the same as Holly, wow! I am born again Christian and I agree to what you are saying about marriage, that is what I believe. God Bless You 🙏
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
G-d bless you too!
@superm70 Жыл бұрын
Agreed !!
@blumberg1982 Жыл бұрын
Shana Tovah! May we all be inscribed for good, for blessing, for health and for maasim tovim in the book of life.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Amen! Thank you!
@1951kvk Жыл бұрын
I'm a traditional Roman Catholic and your way of explaining the whys is wonderful and agree.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@Mindy56743 Жыл бұрын
I love this. My husband and I made the commitment many years ago and we had many problems during our marriage and had to rebuild the marriage many times. We had to fall in love many times. People don’t stay the same and find new parts of each other that we loved. Love is something that happens and you have to grow life a life plant.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Powerful. Thanks for sharing!
@StopDropAndLetGo Жыл бұрын
I love you guys, thank you for the purity, honesty, beautiful and Godly advice and words. God bless you both 🤗🙏🏻
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Same to you!
@transformation2479 Жыл бұрын
Yes! Great conversation! More people need to be addressing these issues.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
💪💪
@KittyM- Жыл бұрын
What a loving couple.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Indeed 😊
@community1854 Жыл бұрын
I love what they have to say! And the end is the best part. Rabbi, leave ur wife alone 😂!! And she said what she has to say in a subtle loving way!! Anyone can imagine that! Very sweet and very spiritual and very deep!
@Missmewithdat Жыл бұрын
I would have loved to have grown up like this ☝🏼 God bless you
@mosesandzippora Жыл бұрын
What a great example! Love love !
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@marcelofrmo Жыл бұрын
Beautiful. It made me thoughtful.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
That's great to hear, thank you for sharing!
@tomsik11style Жыл бұрын
Love your view on observance differences vs orthodoxy. We are all different and go through a growing process. But every category always tries to separate us. We are such a small group. Don’t need more division.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Well said!
@Rosee3333 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. 😊 I have been struggling recently and you made some beautiful points that have helped me. From my heart, thank you. 💜💜
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
You are so very welcome
@ThatJewishFamily Жыл бұрын
Very nice! Thank you Viglers
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
🙌🙌🙌
@KristaLinford Жыл бұрын
Beautiful ideas. Thank you for sharing these healing values. I am not Jewish, but agree completely with you.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
😊😊🙏
@michaelbass9321 Жыл бұрын
Excellent as always from Rabbi and Rebbetzin Vigler . Very insightful as we have come to expect and have experienced as relatively new congregants. Shana Tova... Michael and Brigitte B.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Shana Tova to you too!
@mattfreelie55 Жыл бұрын
Interesting, we share a last name!
@c.m.b.7567 Жыл бұрын
intimacy and sex is not seen as impure and is not taught as bad like in other religions. it is sacred and holy
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@CalmPotato Жыл бұрын
Curious to know which other religion you are referring to. As most I know speak of the same thing.
@pamdewall4588 Жыл бұрын
This is so wonderful. I want to b in a relationship like this so much😅
@StopDropAndLetGo Жыл бұрын
I want the same Pam 🤗
@shirleydoncel5512 Жыл бұрын
Me too
@theresefournier3269 Жыл бұрын
In-DEED ♥️🔥🎶
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
🙌🙌
@rickv2629 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this! Please gibe more Jewish relationship advice!
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Will do! Stay tuned!
@syedabdulwahidsohaily493 Жыл бұрын
Salam, 🙏🏻 Rabbi Dovid and Chana Vigler, you are absolutely Right in your interpretation of Relationship, Marriage, Orthodoxy & Observance 👍🏻👍🏻🌹and I am so Happy that it is so close to the teachings of Holy Quran/Holy Bible/Holy Torah 👍🏻which binds us so tightly close,& rightly close by the Prophet Abraham's Religions 🙏🏻God Bless Humanity across the Globe 🌎 Amen 🌹 Sohail Karachi Pakistan ❤️
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Hello 👋👋 Thank you for sharing these words!
@hildaovalle1455 Жыл бұрын
All men should have a mind and sense of humanity that this rabbi has. Is no wonder that she is in love with him. I fell in love with him as well. God bless them both. Yes, the world would be different and for the better.
@heatherkulak8633 Жыл бұрын
I loved hearing this lovely couples perspective Well communicated
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
So glad you appreciated!
@theresefournier3269 Жыл бұрын
Holy, sacred, set apart!💐♥️ 🔥
@rivkahrayzltsap9316 Жыл бұрын
I love this🙌🏻 And the way the answers are expressed!
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@jacquiwhitehouse2924 Жыл бұрын
Hello love this video, I’m Christian & I feel really uncomfortable hugging & kissing friends I’ve never really liked it when people invaded my space. I totally understand your commitment just to your family. Since coming out of covid for me it has now put a stop to this, I missed hugging our grandsons & our daughter so to keep them safe I no longer allow people into my space. God bless you both & keep you safe 🙏🏻🙏🏻
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@golda_devarim31.6 Жыл бұрын
really enjoyed this one. thank you for your efforts!
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Happy to hear that!
@deborahgolob6275 Жыл бұрын
So very well sad
@ec756810 ай бұрын
I'm not Jewish but I can get behind a lot of these ideas. I think a lot of people don't like the idea of living within any guidelines.
@glenanleitner2606 Жыл бұрын
Great bring more
@joanblack626 Жыл бұрын
a beautiful dialogue between the two of you....so proud of the two of you and feeling so fortunate and happy to be one of your congregants!
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Will do!
@StephenGrew Жыл бұрын
I definitely agree. I've always felt that, too much touching, feely, feely thing going on between relative strangers.
@monikabaranska6673 Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful couple ❤, well done
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
You are so kind
@seekpeaceinyalife Жыл бұрын
This is the best way !
@pvabotelho Жыл бұрын
I’m Jewish and this was so wonderful and made me think and meditate about some of the subjects
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
That's awesome! Thanks for watching
@jeana-geniawest1187 Жыл бұрын
I love this. Very insightful.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Indeed :)
@cathy1944 Жыл бұрын
I think all your answers are perfect answers and really should apply to all people and all religions not just being Jewish.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
These ideas have universal relevance, and can apply to people of all backgrounds.
@empowerme8029 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this! It has helped me understand our marriage better without even realizing what we were doing.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@hilarykay1777 Жыл бұрын
I met this couple many years ago at their Yom Kippur service in a hotel. It was my husband’s first time making it through the service without leaving. They are something special. Truly wonderful neshamas. We’ve now become Baal tshuva, but they gave us our first good taste of true chassidus.
@Zaxnafein Жыл бұрын
Absolute gems of Torah wisdom 🙌🏻
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Yes indeed!
@eatandchat7887 Жыл бұрын
I loved this video. Thank you.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@amyaias.alagoa Жыл бұрын
G-d's involvement is vital
@ruslanadovhal Жыл бұрын
I love it! Thank you for sharing this beautiful video!
@adriennefranco6227 Жыл бұрын
I love when he says he was looking for a kind person - not a professor. Look for character not externals. Externals change, character does not.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
So true! 🙌
@ks2994 Жыл бұрын
I love this so much.
@helenclarke3517 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! As a non Jew formerly married to a Jewish man. I enjoyed your insight. Although not together we have an amazing grown son!
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
👋👋👋
@bidinosaur Жыл бұрын
When making more of these videos, can you have a voice over for the questions please? It makes them more accessible for people who are blind or visually impaired. I was unable to read the questions.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for the feedback!
@folkeholtz6351 Жыл бұрын
Very very good to underline that we are all keeping the Torah, since the word orthodox is a word given from someone outside the observant Jews. We are orthopratic. I like to do what it is said : Not take a observant Jewish womans hand. She belongs to her husband not to me at all. Very good information and teaching. keep up the very good work, Folke from Sweden.
@marthaellenconner98 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful and Godly perspective on intimacy and marriage. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏻💜✝️✡️
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Our pleasure!
@brigitte1221 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Rabbi and Rebetzin for your wisdom. A question I would pose is, doesn't a hug or peck on the cheek of a friend show that you value them and their friendship above just another person you may know? Isn't it just a sign of affection for a dear friend without it becoming sexualized?
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
That's a great question! Perhaps this will shed some more light on the topic kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jM-eqNyLx5Opg2w.html
@kimberley8686 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful words 😊
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Thank you! 🙂
@dafnapns Жыл бұрын
I'm beyond happy I've stumble upon this! Like founding a treasure. Thank you and to this beautiful couple. In G-g's will, I'll be married soon.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Please G-d! So happy you found this. Welcome to our channel!
@angelaspina846611 ай бұрын
Beautiful couple! God bless you,,,God keep you!
@jamescairns4051 Жыл бұрын
Hello! Lovely video thank you! Beautiful couple. ❤ שָׁלוֹם
@angelaspina846611 ай бұрын
Enjoyed this video immensely!
@elevateyoursoul1020 Жыл бұрын
I love you both! ❤
@maryrosed8475 Жыл бұрын
I must say I missed hugging my close family and friends during Covid. However, people I hardly know hugging me drives me mad!
@lisca2866 Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful couple!!
@migdaliavasquez1874 Жыл бұрын
That’s powerful 😊😊😊😊😊
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Glad you think so!
@mimmiblu6138 Жыл бұрын
It's fascinating listening to them, because they really believe in what they say and they look very happy. But I also know that my life was very different and there are many different ways to be happy in marriage: I 've been happily married for 21 years and neither of us believe in God or verginity before marriage. And taking away physical contact with other human beings from me would be like killing me, even though I have never thought for one second that I could betray my husband. But hugging my friends of both genders in times of distress isn't certainly a sexual act, but simply an act of kindness.
@naomie793 Жыл бұрын
Wow this video is just beautiful
@lightwings7957 Жыл бұрын
Ty shalom toda
@ashirahelat4749 Жыл бұрын
We change so much in the modern world that we want a spouse who can change in a similar way.
@gloriabatel9981 Жыл бұрын
Toda. Love your sharing and honesty.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
So nice of you
@iloveyouyoulovemeify Жыл бұрын
im not jewish or religious but i can tell kind ppl when i see it
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
😊😊😊
@nancylee1625 Жыл бұрын
I am a Christian woman and I completely agree with this lovely couple. It would benefit all couples to sit down with them to discuss the realities of marriage. It is all about commitment and loyalty.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Indeed!
@sharonlampert7452 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful Jewish Couple. Mazal Tov!
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
🙏🙏
@mdmommy Жыл бұрын
I love you guys thank you so much my neighbor has been trying to get me to go to your Shull for a few years now I moved from Jupiter to Stuart but I have to tell you I'm going to show up probably on sukkot. I need to meet you. very inspirationl and many things you said were things that I needed to hear it is as if God just answered my prayers this week
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
That's awesome, thanks for sharing!
@albertlugassy3610 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing great
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Pleasure!
@toddvoss52 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful
@JYO2023 Жыл бұрын
Agree thank,you
@a.m204 Жыл бұрын
So beautifully explained
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Glad you think so!
@nllee7051 Жыл бұрын
Her hair is amazing! Ouu loving it 😍
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Yes!
@philipluxembourg9013 Жыл бұрын
I love these two beautiful people
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
🙌🙌
@tudormiller887 Жыл бұрын
Chanukah Sameach. Watching from London UK.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
👋👋
@beorngolden7923 Жыл бұрын
It's time to cherish as well, our private life.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Absolutely.
@pamelagonzalez46 Жыл бұрын
Amazing even if your not orthodox ! Thank you, Shalom
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
Shalom 👋
@54leonilda Жыл бұрын
Observant…great!
@ardentabacist Жыл бұрын
Yo Rabbi and Rabbi's wife, that was truly expiring and insightful and all that! I believe that what y'all was saying is the secret to happy marriage! Once when a young lady was axed if she "liked" a young man that she was dating and answered that she had the same love for him as any other jewish person the Menachem Mendel Rebbe said . . . “For a husband, you have to have more than basic love of a fellow Jew.” well this rabbi wife seems to have that, if you axed me.
@myJLI Жыл бұрын
That's such a great story and message! Thanks for sharing!
@sgtrabbi Жыл бұрын
HalleluYah! Be Observant! 🐏
@danieldubaere7728 Жыл бұрын
I agree with wath you say if you are holy in your mind you will be pure in all your actions and toughts .I say to G-- change my heart to be like your's so i may be pleasing in your sight. Love you