I was thinking the same thing, like my immediate reaction was I hope this series ends with her being pregnant, like how amazing would that be, but seeing everything she's already been through. She's been through so much and she's choosing to be vulnerable with us when she really doesn't have to.

🤍 yes

this>>>>

I think she is! The last part was recorded between july and September from the last year. I’m really expecting good news, they have been through so much that really made me cry. I’m gonna be very happy if I’m not wrong! God bless them❤️

Nicole Aviles amen to thisssss!! We’re lucky that she’s sharing it all with us ! Just keeping them in prayers!

Gabriella Lugo I’m so happy for you! May your baby boy & you always be safe ❣️ I’m 21 & was told I might have ovarian cysts so I’m very scared for the future but this gave me hope

Omg reading this makes me so happy 🥺 congratulations to you and your family 💞

Reading this makes me so happy. Congratulations!

Such a blessing 🥺♥️ so happy for you!

Gabriella Lugo I am crying this is beautiful

Also. It's just no one elses business. If you're not involved in the making or carrying of said baby, it's not your concern. So dont ask.

And also because it’s just rude to even ask a woman if she is or not.

Preach sissy

Yes! Thank you for no longer asking couples this. My husband and I have been together for 13 years and had a horrible miscarriage last year that no one really knows. When people ask us this, it hurts so bad! I don't want to openly tell people we are having problems conceiving because it's no ones business and I don't want the added stress of people asking about it and "have you tried this or that." I just wish people wouldnt ask this question at all.

Yes! People asking me why I don’t have more kids. It’s so messed up obviously it’s because I can’t .

Jael Cameus or they just don’t want to have kids and that’s okay too 😇

I use to get so annoyed when I got asked this question. I knew I wanted to start having kids at 30 years old but nobody believed me in my 20’s and would keep asking why I wasn’t. My husbands friends would make fun of him saying he couldn’t have kids. Once we had one at 30 they all shut up.

Jael Cameus totally agree! I never ask a couple when are they having kids bc you truly don’t know what someone is going through.

Hate when people do that!!!! Like think before you speak!

Alicia R that’s not okay and is for pathetic losers

So very well said!! 👏🏼💛

No, it's just what we wish for her.

@@mrs.cardenas3178 of course everyone wishes that for her and none of us wish it for her more than she does for herself. This is the equivalent of " are you pregnant?" Or " when are you going to have a baby?" I guarantee you that it hurts her if she hasn't gone numb from hearing it so much. I know it's just good intentions.

@Enormous Dixahalv you can also apply your " solution" to hate comments too, but then those who want to communicate with her cant. Maybe the comment section would provide much support for her. I think the easiest thing to do is keep such comments to oneself. Problem solved.

@Enormous Dixahalv shaddap jerk

@Ashley Elle oh I know . It's not malicious at all. The good intentions are there. It's just that she wants a baby more than we do for her. Infertility makes you feel like you're faulty and every time you get a negative test , it's soul crushing. You're already disappointed in yourself ( even if you know its not your fault) you don't need to fell like you're disappointing your viewers too. I'm 100% sure she knows you have only good intentions.

Renata Goodley OMG cant believe someone could ask that?! How horrible

I'm with my husband now coming to 10 years, I was raped before him by my ex, had no choice but to have an abortion as I was never going to marry him. When I married my lovely husband still with him presently 3 miscarriages in my marriage. Now iv got endometriosis and cant have any suffering monthly, people ask why I dont have children being married this long a decade, they say if wasted time they dont know my story or pain iv been through physical and emotional people never think before they speak. I may never have a baby of my own in my arms making me feel less of a lady unfulfilled they make me feel. It hurts when people look and ask. My arms are empty and my heart broken but people judge before knowing anything about what's happened and happening, all based on assumptions. I prey to God maybe a miracle happens one day for us or we can adopt a child if not will just have to have many cats and become a cat lady. As it can be so lonely deafening silence in the house.

Omg this is so horrible for you and for this little boy... some people don't get what the adoption is about

Renata Goodley i wish more people who could, would consider adoption. The suffering children (of any age) of the world need caring & loving adoptive parents like yourselves. Adoption is such a beautiful mutual gift.

I was adopted from India in the early 80’s to a Caucasian family. I say that because it’s quite obvious that I look nothing like my parents and my brothers (who are biologically my parents). The questions and comments kids would say to me, and even adults to myself and my parents were and still are atrocious. “You aren’t your parents REAL kid”. Or to my parents, “how can you love a kid that isn’t really yours?” 🙄 then there was the time my dentist made a joke to my mother while I was getting my teeth cleaned..”her dad must be the mailman”. People have no tact, and no respect, and have no concept of love. Bless you and your child for the family you have found in each other! The adopted community is so special and I’m proud to be a part of it.

Kaitlyn Allen عقیثثی

Perfectly said!

Well said!! I'm so glad you mentioned this, because it's very important that we don't let Desi & Steven feel like they've let us down!

Yes! Thank you so much for saying this.

Well said ✨👏🏼

This! Maybe they don't even have a final episode yet. Maybe they just thought with all of this footage piling up they might as well start to share it. Or maybe they are expecting. Either way, this series is valid and helpful.

E R I C K A THIS!!! 🖤🖤😭😭🙌🏽🙌🏽

Yes 👏🏼

couldnt agree more! also, not everyone wants kids, like myself and i wish people would stop asking because there are so many reasons behind it

Yes!! This needs to be said!! 💜💙

E R I C K A sooo true!!! 🙌🏼💖

What?!?

me

Me!!!

Im so HAPPY

Emily i think they anounced at the same day cause it was on mothers day on insta and here it was too

Dbubblesss28 hiii!! Fertility nurse here as well in OC. Totally understand what they’re going through! I feel for them! Sending lots of love!!

I couldn’t agree more. I hope this changes soon.

Thanks for comment, I have been going through this long journey and still hoping a little one after 6 ivf tries.

I am not ashamed, but people who don't go through years of infertility treatment just can't understand

Congrats!!! I struggled as well and I’m currently 6 weeks. I know I still have a long way to go but I have faith. All in his will 🙏🏼🙏🏼

Congratulations! Wishing you a happy & healthy delivery ❤️

Congrats!

Jessica Rodriguez congratulations Mama! It’s all in his will. He’s the one who got me through it all. Praying for healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby.

Erika Velazco Thank You!

Right!🙏🏼❤😭

Me too!

Girl my 6 lash extension are GONE!!! 😭😭😭 they deserve so much 🥺

Same 😭

Same here

yay so happy for you , i hope you have a safe pregnancy and a healthy baby💕

Sophie Hale i agree! whatever and wherever this series goes, i’ll be supporting you guys till the end!

🥺😭❤️

:( awww

The Perkins thank you for sharing ! 🥰

Definitely. My husband was so broken up over our miscarriage that it was hard for me to show my own heartbreak. It’s not that he wouldn’t have been supportive and comforting, but I just couldn’t add my grief to his.

Thank you for sharing such a personal and emotional experience. Sending hugs your way and hope this journey ends with some babies very soon. Like you said timing is everything, God will send your babies when is the right time I’m sure. You’ll both will be such loving parents! Wish you the best, love you guys

Bro you have nothing to do with their life

@@Insanepie leave her be, you know nothing about their journey.

Van M sending love 💓

I am so sorry to hear that. Sending hugs 💓

bless your soul.

💕 sending you love Van!

It's not fair how expensive IVF is. There are so many deserving, potentially amazing, should be parents out there. Sending ❤❤

I agree in Jesus name. Amen. ❤🥰 I love you, Desi and Steven. Hang in there. Joy will come in the morning!

Jasper Gamil AMEN 🤍🤍🤍🤍

Amen!!!

Amen❤️❤️

Ameeen we pray in Jesus name !!! Keep the faith.

Me

The worst part is watching these crime shows during quarantine and thinking wow some of these people don't deserve to have kids, but then those like you said who would KILL THE MOM AND DAD GAME aren't as lucky. Unfair world we're in, really unfair. I hope they're happy in this process though.

Totally feel you on that one.

i hope you get blessed with "the one" darling, stay positive :)

I know that it doesn’t really help, but you are not alone. I am 35 and was going to leave the same comment. Hoping it eventually happens for us all.

Yeah, I felt this!

Whew sis this hit me in my soul, because same! It breaks my heart to see Desi go thru this, but thank you for sharing your story! I’m sure you’re helping thousands muster up the strength to continue!

Very nice story ✨🙂👍🏼

Crazy that adoption was more expensive than IVF :o

Justyna Wisniewska My parents didn’t make enough to qualify for adoption, but they were able to afford IVF because they qualified for a program that cut the cost by 50%. Also, not sure if it was just cheaper in general during the 90s?

LayersOf_Jenn me too, love! Sending you so many good vibes ❤️

I felt this too 😔 it's so true right. We made it in the end with donor eggs but my gosh it's a journey. Love your content Jenn and rooting for you and T...and these guys too of course ❤️

Im on the same boat..... lots of hugs for you ladies and positive vibes.... and hope one day we can come back to this post and said “Im pregnant “ I’m 💯 % sure it will happened 😘😘💕💕💕💕

I wish you the best of luck! Be strong ❤️

KJ Fletcher thank you 😭♥️👏🏻

* QUEEN

I think that was intentional

Kr Bk lmao thank you it was 😂

He’s amazing,they’re both blessed to have each other.

Alina Herrera 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 I know ppl don’t ask to be mean but it can really break your heart with every question.

Well said 👏🏼

Indhira Sanchez i love this!

Same!! I feel for them so much.

Amen!!

Karis Aguilera I did too. I feel like Steven is such a great partner and so supportive

I was in the same exact boat as you. I wasn't aware of how common it truly is until I went through this myself.

Same. 🥺😭

Same, I’m empathetic but I did not expect to cry!

adoption! 💕 i love that you shared this, blessings to you & your family!

Amazing!!! You’re their super hero!

Shelley Mccain oh wonderful! I clicked on it too. Am nervous to watch as I am still without child, but of course hopeful! Thanks for sharing your story. I love stories of hope and women who encourage ! Fertility journey is so hard.. but with love and support is possible. X

👏👏👏 Good bless you 😘😘

Krystle J natural or with help?

Congrats! I hope you and your family are happy and healthy! ❤️

Krystle J took us 7 years for a successful pregnancy too

Took my aunt 12 and she's got two beautiful babies I get to call my cousins! So happy for you, congrats!

This comment scared me honestly. I’m so scared 😱

i hope that one day youll carry your baby stay strong and positive💕

Dame here but God’s timing is the best..All the best darling ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Catie Hoydic I was thinking the same thing! I’m hoping this ends with an announcement because my heart hurts for them so much 😭🙏🏼

I'm SO PRAYING this!!!!

💯

I was thinking this too, I prayed so hard for her and I know she will be the most amazing mother🥺❤️

But its important for her to know that even if this doesnt end with the “big announcement” yll are expecting that it is still okay, we love her and pray for her. If her journey ends differently that doesnt make her any less amazing.

👏

avt30 congratulations!

Ashley Elle Hi there...I had two frozen embryos and only one took, thankfully! I had my treatment in Spain, Alicante an AMAZING clinic called IB...very professional, 1000 times cheaper than in the UK and a first time positive !!!....if you need more info I’m happy to share....8 of us in my IVF group network are now with child or pregnant via this clinic! X

Jinan Thank you so so much! 🥰

Hey I know of a spell caster that can help you manifest children into your womb in less than 2weeks,he helped me my sis and my aunt. He can help you with twins or triplet,he is so powerful.⏯⏯⏭⏭⏯⏭

I also watched the gardening video's yesterday, and she has such a nurturing soul. With the gardening, doggies & her family. ❤️🥺

Katherine Hernandez This comment > 😭😭💕

Sam GG Sam GG I think you need to look back at my comment and realize I never used the term Mother Nature. I said DESI nurturing her plants was a beautiful metaphor to me of how she would nurture her child (embryo). Bearing children is a part of nature, and in the human species only females can carry child. Natures gender was not and is not something I lose sleep on.

Praying for you Eman ✨

God bless you.

Im forty and just took that out of my mind

Tamika Adams every couple that’s going in this journey deserves a baby

Yazmin Mejia thank u for sharing this story. That was nothing but God girl! Your parents deserved you and vice versa. Love this 😭

Yazmin Mejia xx

@@tatyanacouture5448 Sorry but this is all too common on fertility treatment couples, they are able to conceive after they give up treatments and all the anxiety, stress, expectations go away. Just nature, no Aliens or Gods involved .

Gonçalo Monteiro OR you could just accept that EYE believe what I believe and I respect our beliefs so respect mine. GOD BLESS 🥰

This story alone made me emotional, that’s amazing.

@Mario Deskovic GIRL SAME.

maddie s same 😭

Omg same

same 😭

Me too!!!

maddie s same!! 😭😭 i couldn’t stop the tears they just came out and wouldn’t stop.

Christina Leask do you mean after the autoimmune disease was treated? Sorry don’t mean to be a Karen, I have an autoimmune disease and they are permanent but can be treated. Don’t want people to think it can be corrected as most as very serious and painful like mine.

NLo i think she meant starting a treatment and goind under remission. Also there is a disease called antiphospholipidic syndrome that causes blood clotting and spontanous abortion and has got treatment

Hayley Joe yeah they all have some type of treatment. Doesn’t work a lot of the times but there are options. I knew what she meant. Just had to correct her wording so she’ll know along with others. There is no correcting an autoimmune disease, but they can be treated. No biggie, constructive criticism.

NLo I understand autoimmune, my daughter has celiacs disease My sis in laws was specific to pregnancy, her body attacking the embryo as a foreign body as soon as it implanted, and yes, this particular AI has been corrected, I can’t recall the name of it but it’s done and dusted

NLo It is interesting though that during the pregancy the immune system lowers it’s natural defense due to the fetus (so that it doesn’t produce antibodies against the baby).

Magaly Azpeitia so true!

😔

Sad world we live in.

JENNIIVIBES god is good!

I’m sorry for you’re loss, with whatever you choose to go forward with in your life I know it’ll lead to true happiness.

Xx

I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing this. Like you said its a topic we as woman sometimes dont like to talk about it and it takes courage for what you are doing and i thank you for that. I am 32 and Ive had a miscarriage and i am so terrified of being unable to carry/hold a baby . I also understood things happen for a reason. God knows we have trust him! And have faith. Love you and again thank you

The names of your sons are so touching it made me tear up! I wish you nothing but the best 💕🙏🏻

I thought the exact same thing!! 👏🏼💛🙏🏼

I was thinking this as well!! 🙏🏼

I was thinking the same thing 🙏🏼

I was just telling my hubby the same thing!!!! I told him hope the end of this series is when she says they are expecting 🙏🏼🙏🏼🤞🤞

Krystal Tello girl same 😭

Me too!!

I was the same! 😭

Yasmina Geagea love that ❤️

Omg girlll😢 those words are a dagger through your heart. I know the feeling.

Agree! Happened to me twice!

@@therese6659 Im so so sorry hun xx

@@christacalleros6782 So sorry hun xx

Me too! You could feel every word they said

Zulma Lissette It would be easier for me. I have bad anxiety my thoughts are everything once I get in an uncomfortable room 😔 I’m working on it though and I am proud I have grown.

Its called meditation

Monica Fabiola unfortunately it doesn’t work for everyone...