Our juiciest Q&A so far...

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@xxflipchick22xx 11 ай бұрын

It’s so nice to hear that some couples can go 3 months without doing it. It’s so refreshing to hear. I’ve never heard anyone say that before, so thanks for being so real.

@fidelll6793 11 ай бұрын

I know some people that went without it for nearly 5months, s*x isn't everything and most people don't really care about it, they mostly after communication and cuddly moments and all that, so yeah I like hearing things like that cause s*x isn't always necessary.

@cassie8844 11 ай бұрын

its normal

@luna07430 11 ай бұрын

It's really a normal thing lol

@gigilampe4478 11 ай бұрын

I never did until 2 years of relationship

@telepathicmagicshop 11 ай бұрын

More normal than you think, and its ok 😊

@tetebery93 11 ай бұрын

oh that comment "farina is like a good wine as she ages she becomes more refined and beautiful by the day" THAT WAS ADORABLE DONGIN IS SO SWEET love both of you so much love how you are so honest and open and mature with each other and to us you both are couple goals💜

@nuchii4128 11 ай бұрын

The matching outfits!!🥰💜 (also Dongin is getting so much better with wearing color 👏🏾😂)

@jescamsaki6377 11 ай бұрын

Dongin-"We saved our purity for the wedding"😂 meanwhile Farina"no we didn't"🤭y'all can't lie.Congrats for the wedding 💓💓💓💓💓lots of love am sending.

@leahjones5689 11 ай бұрын

This was so a great video! I wouldn’t even call it “juicy” or tmi it was just a healthy and informative conversation! Thanks for trusting us to be so open about such a taboo topic and thanks for making the topic less taboo!

@amlbby 11 ай бұрын

It’s cute when you two call it “squishy time” lol.

@justsomeonewithbigolegittybity 8 ай бұрын

No dong in calls it *the deed*

@riyaprabhakar5878 11 ай бұрын

damn you both are soo so mature the way you both talked about this topic along with how imp communicating and mental health is ..idk how to explain but really it was so so good to see a couple talk about such a taboo topic with this much maturity without being too serious yk.. loved the vid btw💜💜

@sweetmercy95 11 ай бұрын

I just love seeing how open and honest you guys are with each other. You are a great example of what a healthy relationship should look like.

@anushkatiwari8703 11 ай бұрын

I always wait for farina to say 'riiiighnnntt' her way of saying right is soo unique😆

@bekas79 11 ай бұрын

Interesting how people ask "how do you keep it spicy/romantic and not too friendly", as if friendship and romance were mutually exclusive. In my point of view, romance and sexual intimacy should be the result of a deep, all-encompassing friendship! Happy long-term couples are eachother's best buddies! This means that that person is the one you can be your most vulnerable, truest self, and they fully accept and desire all of you. Unfortunately, hook-up culture is kind of overpowering this point of view. But I'm so happy to see a healthy couple like Farina and Dongin spread an emotionally mature perspective on this 🥰✨

@im_emo_as_frick 11 ай бұрын

Its actually so comforting and nice to hear anyone, let alone women, talk about stuff like LELO because it used to feel like such a tabboo to talk about anything s3x related and im glad there has been more representation and acknowledgement lately

@user-cm2ky4uh9y 11 ай бұрын

Wow 8 years is impressive

@AngelsOnScreen 11 ай бұрын

The purple looks really good on you two!! Also this is such a fun video. Dongin was cracking me up trying to proclaim his innocence, like boy PLEASE!

@breaddjinnie._.1940 9 ай бұрын

"We saved our purity for the wedding" "No we didn't" 🤣

@InesDBG 9 ай бұрын

In December me and my boyfriend celebrate 9 years together and living 3 years together :) Congratulations to you 2 ❤

@TheOreocookie3 11 ай бұрын

You two are so lovely, thank you for sharing this with us💜 I don't remember what a healthy relationship looks like because the only one I ever had ended nearly 5 years ago and left alot of emotional scarring, especially about this topic. This helped remind me what a dynamic should be like, open and safe. I'll probably enter my 30s in a couple of years single too, but it's better not to settle. Hell, I don't even remember what a date feels like🤣

@xt.sqnjq_gqchq._ 11 ай бұрын

I'm sure you'll find someone. You seem like a very nice person :) And even in the meantime, there's always our boys we are delulu for, seeing you are a kpop fan 😊

@getit5050 11 ай бұрын

Tbh I thought it was a clickbait video because I don't think y'all have ever addressed these topics like this before . But it's good to have a little more insight especially when both of y'all have grown up in entirely different culture and backgrounds. Also I absolutely love how considerate y'all are of each other . I hope the best for both of you 🫶

@TheRightDirection 11 ай бұрын

The way farina leans on dongin 😊 when she's shy You guys can literally see in their eyes that they are still attracted to each other

@jm52hz 11 ай бұрын

it’s so nice to see you (and people in general) talking openly about the topic!! and the matching outfits are so cute 🥺💜

@wattsparkinson 11 ай бұрын

Such couple goals! You guys are a wonderful example of a beautiful, healthy and loving relationship. Thanks for sharing

@unmeiartist 11 ай бұрын

You guys are always so insightful, and just make me laugh no matter what

@Lorena_ 11 ай бұрын

I really love the way you two communicate! It’s reeeally important in any relationship! You two deserve all love!! 💕💞💖

@pomutcki 11 ай бұрын

those Q&A feels like couple therapy, like you're forced to answer question honestly and both hear each other sides, if every couple did that i think that would help them communicate better

@anny2401 11 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing this with us, for some people (like me) it's important because my family was never open about those things and I've always been too shy to talk to my friends about their experiences

@annannya1356 Ай бұрын

this felt like I was listening to my older friends teaching me about relationship stuff! I dont have many couples around me, and none that I can talk to openly. So I look upto you two for the healthy relationship you have. Really appreciate the insights, I have never been in a relationship so sometimes it's difficult to tell what ppl say online is real or exaggerated. But I trust you two, thank you for deep diving in such intimate details.

@livvictorianesmoengulbrand7770 11 ай бұрын

Love how open and “natural” you guys are❤❤❤❤

@seraphinnie 11 ай бұрын

Oooh this is a spicy one! 👀 It's cool how open you guys are even though you don't owe anyone any info about your relationship. And unrelated but I'm looking forward to the apartment tour, I'm so curious about Bingsu's corner since we got a lil teaser. 😂💖

@MOONFIA_ 11 ай бұрын

i really appreciate you guys talking so openly about it :))

@duckie0613 11 ай бұрын

DONGIN I FINALLY GOT THE AIRISM TSHIRTS YOU TALKED ABOUT BEFORE, and they're as amazing as you said they were

@n-k4088 11 ай бұрын

U guys always make my day better fr. Lylyly. Take care and stay healthy. Wish u the best for the future and the wedding ❤❤❤

@Persephoneeeee 11 ай бұрын

You two are the best! Love every video you put out! My favorite couple on the internet ☺️🩷🩷

@maiianthe3280 11 ай бұрын

Thank you for being so open and sharing so comfortably :)

@ayeshafaiz9500 11 ай бұрын

Your videos together are my happy time, you guys are love 💕

@mercyrichard8689 11 ай бұрын

I love your matching outfits So nice (also today's video is lovely ❤️❤️)

@lisaayna2055 11 ай бұрын

I love that you talk about it so openly, and also about the toy❤

@anusreepal19 11 ай бұрын

This was so nicely talked out and i am so proud of both of you❤

@catalina4447 11 ай бұрын

I loved the honesty, i felt like i was talking with friends, loved it!!!

@breaddjinnie._.1940 9 ай бұрын

6:25 Thank you for telling me what vanilla even means 😐 I was like, yea she has vanilla colored hair 💁🏻‍♀️

@meeman1000 11 ай бұрын

What is this consistency!? Looooove it! 🫶

@arantzaperez8758 11 ай бұрын

I love this content. Thank you for being real and honest with this type of topics.❤

@Sindi-N 8 ай бұрын

I truly enjoyed your video👌🏾 You both spoke so matturely and explained in an insaley humorise way. May your love florish and proper through all the odds. I love you both. I am a new subscribe and I don't know why I just found your channel.

@elialan 11 ай бұрын

l love honest and not so pg Q & As so much

@im_emo_as_frick 11 ай бұрын

15:52 Farina, I'm dead lmao but also i completely get what Dongin is saying, and i relate a lot. I agree that in a relationship, it's very important to be open about all aspects of yourself and be comfortable showing the different sides to your personality, because if you dont feel like you can do that and you cant work it out with your partner, youre probably in the wrong relationship: you shouldnt force yourself to be unhappy for the sake of just BEING in a relationship

@juliewalsh7401 10 ай бұрын

Wow! So impressed with your way of communicating!

@devipersaud 11 ай бұрын

Yayyy, congrats on your wedding, hope you both have a fruitful life ahead❤.

@vaniautami2701 11 ай бұрын

I don't know why but dongin speech is kinda giving me father-daughter deeptalk/advice time lol and I'm not complaining. I like it

@absarygampong4736 11 ай бұрын

always looking good farina!

@pinkypilot 11 ай бұрын

One of the best vids. Thanks for being so honest and frank❤️❤️

@blessingoffor4557 11 ай бұрын

Hi farina ,I just wanted to say I love all your videos and y'all are my fav couple on yt❤😊

@kierstenimperial1168 11 ай бұрын

Haven't watch ur vlog recently but I've been a fan of u guys since start of oandemic. And shocks!!! You guys gettin married owemjiiii so happy with u both ♡

@ABC-zn5jv 11 ай бұрын

You two are a sweet & lovely couple! Can't wait for your wedding! :)

@ishikakataria5979 11 ай бұрын

EARLY!! YOU GUYS ARE ABSOLUTELY ADORABLE AND I LOVE YOUR CONTENT SO SO MUCH!! I'LL ALWAYS LOVE YOUR LOVE

@jungshookandinfiresbya3dol322 10 ай бұрын

This is such a good video, especially for people who have 0 experience about it. It’s a super educational video, kudos! 👍🏻

@Daniel-Unmeiten 11 ай бұрын

''You are just happy that the other person is around and yeah, that's enough'' it's great to see a couple where both are very responsible and committed to their relationship that prioritizes what really matters without forgetting that romantic side, you two are an inspiration. Seriously, from the bottom of my heart i wish you the best in your beautiful relationship. God bless you always ❤

@farhanugradar2786 11 ай бұрын

I love their realtionship its just so perfect 🤗❤

@Racheal_crown 11 ай бұрын

The way I love you guys eh your videos make my heart warm ❤❤😊

@halfmoon3017 2 ай бұрын

When I used to watch this channel you guys were together for 4 years, I knew it's been a while since the last time I saw you , but damn I didn't expect it to be 4 years difference. It means I haven't come here even once during highschool that's so weird. I remembered you guys out of nowhere since my major is German (in uni) and I was like " it would be fun if they have videos in German, I enjoy watching them in general ". I'm truly shocked. I guess I studied a bit too hard for the last 4 years.

@negarakd 11 ай бұрын

Honey your outfit is super great😍

@antonlirik1354 11 ай бұрын

You 're a wonderful couple .Happiness to you !!!

@priskaheinl9295 9 ай бұрын

Ich finde Euch zwei toll...Danke für die tollen Videos 👍✌️🫰

@Erin-te8bl 7 ай бұрын

Dongin you are such a loving, understanding sweetheart ❤

@fireruby1882 11 ай бұрын

This was entertaining and very healthy!! You 2 are VERY good role models ☺️💙

@taeyongscheeks 10 ай бұрын

It honestly is fun liszening to this. I see alot of different couples. As a young person I see alot of break ups as well. So seeing you guys again after some time just made me happy.

@agatamakowska1728 11 ай бұрын

I love You guys 😂😂 While watching this video i felt like im just having a nice chit-chat with friends ❤😊

@pjscafe 10 ай бұрын

congratulations on your upcoming marriage, guys! So happy for you.

@nicgurney3790 11 ай бұрын

Very honest x after more than 25 years with my husband you explained a long term relationship well x

@auracae 11 ай бұрын

U R STUNNINN FARINAAAAAAA

@carlethiastreet7596 11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for such an informative video. Loved it.

@aryareef 11 ай бұрын

I love that you guys always work to make it real, it is so comforting and refreshing to watch your authenticity and willingness to be a little vulnerable! I also love that you guys have these kinds of conversations together as a couple. I agree these kinds of things are important to talk about, thank you for all your work

@gogontlesetlhare 11 ай бұрын

I love the openness

@arabellapatriciabieber 10 ай бұрын

i love your videos together so much 💖

@jessicasheridan7 11 ай бұрын

I’m so glad you made this video, I feel like nobody does. and if they do they’re not really that honest

@vintavonta 11 ай бұрын

I WAS WAITING OMGGG LOVE YOU BOTHHH

@ishanaaa7 11 ай бұрын

You made my day 🧡

@aarna8692 11 ай бұрын

You both are the best couple I have ever seen Btw both are looking soo cool in purple 🥰💕

@taliamit1021 11 ай бұрын

I like this video so much. This is so honest and i really enjoyed listen to your smart opinions. I feel that i could relate to every word. Thank you

@rohanajay 11 ай бұрын

Manifesting for a relationship like Farina and Dongin ❤️😻

@Scandinavianmochigirl 11 ай бұрын

I love you guys so much, you made me believe in true love💕

@adelinaschneider2793 11 ай бұрын

actually I am very scared of having a relationship because it's not working out for my parents...so I kinda have the fear that there is no healthy relationship. the two of you give me so much hope though, ofc not everything can be perfect but I feel like as long as you really love and respect each other everything can be talked about. so thank you for showing that partners like you can actually happen💜

@tofi8555 7 ай бұрын

I was in the same place :(

@adelinaschneider2793 7 ай бұрын

@@tofi8555 hope you are okay now

@nandaschomakers6472 11 ай бұрын

Congrats and you look really happy together❤❤❤

@ceasarlinayisi2233 11 ай бұрын

Farina is so cute and sweet and so so prettyyyy. I love her.❤

@auracae 11 ай бұрын

U guys r u guys as always... love ya💜✊️

@luca-sp3rz 11 ай бұрын

hey how do you shift from deeply communicating and talking about feelings to a playful side, especially when the other told you about something they dont like or feel annoyed/hurt by; how do you not walk on egg shells after it and continue as you were before?

@nayhanmahdi9304 6 ай бұрын

even though im single asf, this really helps alot thanku!!

@heathergreenbank5638 8 ай бұрын

You two are wonderful ❤️💜❤️

@romanmaxica7816 11 ай бұрын

So refreshing! 🙏 So what’s Dongin’s Stitch?

@leeauslander8305 9 ай бұрын

Really cute couple!

@Iloveheaven568 7 ай бұрын

I love this

@funinartcraftzz 11 ай бұрын

Pastel purple really suits u both

@seasonal629 9 ай бұрын

I really love your personality Farina..bubbly, kind and pretty too 😊

@sahelichatterjee1477 11 ай бұрын

Just love you both💜

@MollyJones1992 11 ай бұрын

Nodoby's talking about LELO tho and I high key wanna try it haha

@ccxoticc 9 ай бұрын

Most amazing couple ever💜

@mayrose9387 11 ай бұрын

You guys brought up something important about being able to communicate your curiosity in bed like Farina saying bandage looked interesting 🤔 and you never know where things lead to for both of you but can at least say u tried something. It's beautiful to be able to explore things with each other and that in my opinion keeps things interesting. Also acknowledge that sometimes some one is in the mood and the other isn't and etc best to not ruin squishy time and intimacy just for the 'need' keeps it a positive fun time and doest make it into something that feels like a duty. Much love to both of u ❤🎉

@mr.squeeze7070 11 ай бұрын

It's like watching your parents giving you the talk in the most comfortable way lol

@mannatkaurbhattal4307 11 ай бұрын

I am so glad they are opening up to this hahaha

@user-xx1tg9ht4p 11 ай бұрын

I was told about men and women and what they do together when I was in year 5 at my school and my parents let me read a book called every woman 😊I even learned about my period before I started at age 10.