It can’t not be for the pedos behind closed doors in the “pageant world”. Sickos.

I think we are all now on a list for having watched it

Idk it’s terrible

Even I thought Cassidy’s skirt was a lil’ bit short, ngl

@@confu5ed_ it was half a skirt! But what a smart child

idk I have ADHD and it kinda seems like she does have it. yes she also has bad behavior, but it probably doesn't help if she has ADHD, it's really hard young to sit still, listen to adults, be calm, etc..

@@Kekkndslgnlwnh I agree. it's hard to focus sometimes and her parents are making her do something she doesn't like, which is why i think is why her behavior is bad

@@Kekkndslgnlwnh same, (must be a katie thing) i’m also seeing behaviours congruent with oppositional defiance disorder- it’s a common comorbidity in kids with adhd, most outgrow it (i did).

At least she's not medicating her undiagnosed

I agree. Until you deal with the parenting I wouldn't suggest the plausibility of ADHD or ODD. Kids know when parents don't hold boundaries. Then they'll do what ever they can to bend those boundaries to get what they want.

There's another episode of this girl, and she was diagnosed with ADHD

@@enjie3061 I have diagnosed adhd

This girl really had ADHD, but she does need to grow up. Good she was diagnosed in later years, you can just tell sometimes when you are used to babysitting or being around children. It’s good she suspected it and got her diagnosed.

I totally agree!!

😂😂

I agree

THANK YOU

Absolutely. Most people on welfare don't want to be and want to get off it as soon as they can.

Yep, that was so unnecessary. Who cares how people get their money, it's about putting your child first and making sure your child has everything they need and feel loved. X

I agree by the looks of their house looks like they’re on welfare

Next time go to the Doctor

Exactly. Why is she "undiagnosed"? A child should not be forced into unnecessary activities they don't like. I had all three of girls try dance, gymnastics, Tae Kwon Do, and musical instruments. They each liked some and disliked some. I accepted that.

@@fayezentner619 All the doctor does is have parent/teacher fill out a questionnaire.

If she were a boy the mom wouldn't of said that

As a person with diagnosed ADHD, I found it offensive.

I know I have adhd and it’s not all hyperactive behaviour

That woman has unreasonable expectations for her kid. You don't do that to any child, let alone one with ADHD.

I have read from many comments that the child got diagnosed with ADHD

At least she acknolegded its adhd and not totally disregard it

As someone with adhd, a lot of kids with adhd come across as “bratty” or “troublemakers”

well, tbh I hated most of my ADHD meds when I was little. they suck when it's trial and error. some made me feel way worse, I ended up trying to cope for a looong time without meds and learnt self discipline, until close to highschool and college. I can see why parents are weary of the meds. doctors love to throw pill after pill onto people, and if you can naturally handle it without, it's probably the healthiest. but if you're really suffering and don't have proper guidance on how to go about it without meds, then it may be best just to do the meds.

@@Kekkndslgnlwnh this is true for me to! I can’t be on stimulants so that’s the majority of adhd meds an none have worked

why would you want a child put on medication for ADHD? that's a bandaid fix..ADHD is not something that should be surpressed

@@milesmorgan7938 exactly! There may be a VERY few instances (i only saw 2 in 15 years and they also had other sever mental health issues on top of it) it could be helpful but as an RN and mother of 8 it is usually what parents say just because their child isnt behaving. I tried it with our oldest because we felt guilted into it but after a few months decided against it. Also later in life he ended up addicted to any kind of stimulant and getting arrested for it. I have it severely (see a psychiatrist and counselor for it) but learned to use it to my advantage. My 5th child has it but we are teaching him to learn how to make it work for him. Neither child misbehaved. Just had a really hard time focusing and not figiting. Bad behavior is learned not caused by adhd. Some kids might have a harder time sitting still but being rude and disrespectful is not a symptom of adhd. A LOT of parents just dont want to deal with their kid and teach them how to deal with it.

@@milesmorgan7938 some kids do better with meds. Every kid is different. A friend’s daughter started doing poorly in school in high school. She had never slept well and couldn’t concentrate. She was never a hyper or bratty kid. Finally, she was diagnosed with ADD in grade 12. Since starting her meds, she’s got top marks in all her classes in university. She no longer has problems concentrating and thoughts are clear.

When she made those comments red flags were going up big time for me. You are that kids need to know that winning isn’t everything and losing is a part of life.

@@kimma508 if you have a shot for every red flag in this video you'll pass out halfway through it

@@amandaveiga908 So true!

It's not the child's fault it's the mother fault for teaching and enabling that type of thinking

IM SAYINGGG!!!!!

Omg lol

I think that's what a lot of them do. And it's sad.

She started at 2 months old... The mum is mad

It’s her other daughter

STAGE MOTHER!

I think that about a lot of these pageant mothers

It’s not exactly what you think. There isn’t any excuse for some of these actions. However….This lady had another child, during the late 80’s -90’s. Her first child was also in pageants but absolutely loved them, was very well behaved and worked very hard. The mom was kind of a spaz then too but you can tell she really is a good mom. The child died from cystic fibrosis at age 14. She dealt with the constant medical attention the child needed only to lose her. I’m certain it influenced the way she is raising her other daughter now. They were actually part of another documentary on a and e in about 1997-8? Here is the link to part 1 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/pN2RiqZ3mtLRoH0.html. She died very soon after the a and e documentary.

That's usually what it's all about. Mom living vicariously through her child in a sad attempt to recapture her glory days as she desperately clings to her fading beauty and youth. Just sad all around.

@@surlywithfabshoes what is the mom's name?

They all are.

I agree. :/

The hitting is a really bad parenting method. But I think beauty pageants are the worst.

Yup

The best parenting technique is to not parent. (Sarcasm obvi lol)

@@kelsey2333 in her case not parenting is still better

This is child abuse👎👎

Not only is it child abuse, but this family is going to go bankrupt because of this crazy mother. Watch.

Cassidy has a right to carry a lot of anger ........ this whole thing is just warped ........

I don’t blame her for being angry and acting out… it seems as though she doesn’t enjoy pageants and doesn’t want to do this- but her mother is living vicariously through her and forcing her to participate. The entire pageant industry is gross and abusive:

That kid is angry and rightfully so. And instead of investing in pageants, how about her true passions in an age appropriate way.

Exactly my thoughts 🙄

Why is this not the top comment?

In the USA, appearance is what sells. That's the financial security. Sad but true.

@@pkay4113 it's funny because beauty doesn't last

It's America

Spend less money on pageants and put that towards a proper diagnosis for that unhappy child.

Same..I'm 41 just getting a diagnosis If I could have been helped earlier my life would have been totally different 😢

I agree with you and I am so grateful that my mum and dad did the right thing and got me on medication as soon as I was diagnosed with ADHD. I'm still on medication, and it has been a huge benefit. On the days that I accidentally forget to take it, I feel like I'm in a fog. It is sad to read the comments here and find that so many parents still refuse to get their children the help that they need.

My daughter has ADHD, and after many forms of intervention (none which worked) and many, MANY papers of documentation I decided she needed medication. It's a very difficult decision, but it takes the edge off her and she has begun maturing socially and catching up with her peers, and her focus is so much better now! She's on a non stimulant so her weight doesn't drop after Adderall caused a plateau for weight gain and then a dip (she's already skinny). I'm a strong advocate for early intervention, it makes me sad reading stories where people could have thrived with help in their youth but now struggle as adults because of lack of care years ago. 😢

Says it all.

Can't even imagine that!

Jayla Cabrie maybe deep deep down she realises that she is an awful mommy and that she treats her poor daughter like a doll and not a human and thus deserves a good hiding.

I thought she looked familiar, surprised to see her doing pageants again since she said that she thought they were unfair before and she was being ripped off on the fees.

What she profiled on another show?

Wow, it's like she's trying to make Cassidy into the girl that died.

@@rebecca8525 that’s what I thought, she’s literally trying to mould this girl into a child she no longer has. It’s sad but also sick

so she is reliving her late daughter's life through this daughter....how horrible and abusive for this little girl.

Exactly! With all the things that we are doing away with, this day in age, why can’t this go with? There are so many fun and beneficial activities for kids to participate in these days. This shouldn’t be one of them

It's abuse and it should be banned 😡

I can agree with you and you live in Germany cool

Ja das ist teilweise richtig krank was man da sieht. Furchtbar.

totally agree with everything you say!

Her daughter died at 14-16 and she loved doing pageants. Her medicals bills are from her dead daughter cystic fibrosis. That kid lovedddd pageant. Genuinely the mother needs help and prov uses pageants to feel closer to her dead daughter

@@kooolkidninjamaster doesn’t sound healthy

Or be a parent.

Wait fr? Where can I watch it?

That is so sad. Also goes to show that we shouldn’t judge people when we haven’t walked in their shoes. This poor woman is obviously traumatized and now this younger daughter is also becoming traumatized by default. I feel for them both. ☹️

@@cici2562 I feel incredibly sad for her losing her first daughter, but she needs to get help in some way, and stop forcing her youngest daughter to be someone she is not (the other child).

@@jesussaves6625 I agree she needs help to resolve her issues with her firstborn and to learn how to treat her second like the individual that she is. Understandably, it seems the lines are blurred for her. Making it tough on mother and daughter.

What's happened to this Mom and Daughter since then?

It's an excuse for her behaviour which is no doubt caused by being forced to do things (pageants, inane smiling, bribery) she dislikes. Child abuse with fake diamonds.

Ikr some can get years in jail for possession of weed and then there’s this video…literally soft cp 😐😑😐😑

Extremely sad for the mother, but don’t abuse your second child because of that. She is a different personality, let her be whatever she wants to be!

Agree with all you said.

Ik it’s so disgusting.

It depends

@@hopinbunish on what??

I have to agree to an extent. Let them play with it at home. Once they get to middle school they should be allowed to experiment with it to express themselves

Some of them look like a drag Queen did the make up.

@@kennedystarr8094 you’ve obviously never seen Rupauls drag race if you think they’re in drag makeup 😭

Yes, I remember that episode. Her first daughter Jenny was so sweet and practiced hard and showed respect to her mother. However, Jenny was not a beautiful child nor had a good singing voice. Julie's current daughter Cassidy is very pretty but lacks the positive attributes that Jenny had.

You have no idea what we’re all thinking, but the majority of us think it’s wrong and mom needed to get a life of her own.

Thank you for sharing this. Its good to remember there is more to someone's story than we see. I can't imagine the pain the family went through, and how it affects their lives.

Yes, I remember that episode. Her first daughter Jenny was so sweet and practiced hard and showed respect to her mother. However, Jenny was not a beautiful child nor had a good singing voice. Julie's current daughter Cassidy is very pretty but lacks the positive attributes that Jenny had.

Me neither

It’s so stupid women can live through their children and so gross men can drool over babies. Straight up abuse!

It’s supposed to be to raise there confidence and showcase there talents or whatever but honestly covering them up with makeup and fake tans and making them feel like they have to be perfect kinda defeats the whole purpose of that

To bring in money to explotiativve organisations,TV broadcasts and their sponsors.

I know I have diagnosed adhd and the meds help

Autumn Stone I hope to all that is good that you are not a mother. You sound so vindictive and nasty. The children are the victims here and that chonk of a mother is the actual spoilt brat.

And a number missing completely