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This show is not just for men..I personally enjoy it Alhamdulilah 😊 it's general knowledge for all .thank you team yaqeen❤

Thank you for speaking on this. I am unmarried F28 and I am finding it difficult finding a spouse while navigating asking about this. I am very fearful of marrying a man with this issue around my age, because it will ruin the halal intimacy I deserve and saved myself for. I pray Allah gives me someone who guards his chastity through all channels (eyes, mouth, and physical)

As a mom of a boy, this show is a blessing. Alhamdulillah 🤲🏻 May Allah reward you my brothers in Islam.

Great advice... One thing I would add is to learn about your triggers for any kind of addiction and try to eliminate them. For a lot of young people being bored is perhaps the biggest trigger so just try and engage yourself in other stuff and in sha Allah you will get out of it.

Thank you so much for having these discussions. I really appreciated the response that as parents we may go over board. My 2 oldest sons when they were 21 they both started drinking and with the first one I was hard as a stone. Don’t come home if you have been drinking ext… he went into the army and had a very hard time with alcoholism but when the second son started drinking it was Allah put me in a bubble and said” stop.. you have given it me so be quiet. If you say anything he will be fighting you and will not hear me” so as hard as it was I stayed silent through crazy calls in the middle of night when had been drinking… it lasted for 3 mths and o e day he came to me and said” I am not going to drink anymore… did you know iot does not make since… I spend all my money, endanger myself, am sick and don’t remember anything.” I had to nearly bite my tongue hue but I didn’t say anything just hugged him. To this day he does not drink!!! Alhumdulilah, Sapanallah!! Thank you for shedding light on what men need to do be good men and what women can see they should be looking for to have a good man. It’s all so last in our society today. May Allah Bless you and the words you are saying and bring a bountiful harvest back to our Umma🤗🙏

Ya Allah save us from this sin 😭

Great discussion. A lot of these addictions also come from unhealed trauma or abuse. Promiscuity is often a cause of some traumatic experience. Hopefully, with these conversions, it will open doors for proper healing for all issues.

May Allah reward you guys. I reverted to Islam last year and as a 23 year old in this world everything you touched on is things I been struggling with since I became Muslim. Maybe you guys on the next podcast can speak on someone new to Islam who is still struggling with sin and for example I try to pray my 5 prayers but some days if I smoke weed I feel almost embarrassed to pray I know our prayers are not valid for 40 days after consuming Intoxicants but my lord is the most compassionate and most merciful as he reminds us often so soon inshallah I completely stop smoking but if I do smoke should I still pray that same day. And before I reverted I was in haram relationship but now I want to make it halal and I’m just not financially ready to be able to marry and take care of a family now what’s some advice you can give a young person who wants to get married but not financially ready. May Allah protect and reward you guys.

Thank you to everyone! With this discussion we reinforce more that we are not out of this world, where drugs are legal and common things but it is the opposite. Very helpful for our kids.

Exposure to pornography starts from cartoons/shows/billboards with just a little bit of skin of women here and there. Sleeveless dresses advertisement. This gets effected in a child's brain. And he starts wanting more and more and more. There is practically no guidance in this regards from parents (speaking from Pakistani perspective) We never just go full in porn, it always starts with some seemingly innocent things on television. I write this as someone who has struggled with this addiction. Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah, by the grace of Allah SubhanWaTalla, I have been distant from that disgut for some time now, and these observations that quoted are from my experience. The level and subtly of faheesha that exits. Aadhubillah. May Allah save us. Save you kids from this. Be wary of the advertisement. Be wary of television.

Jazakallahu Khairan for this important discussion! May Allah guide us to healthy habits

Great discussion

Allahu Akber.

ALLAH BLESS YALL JIDAN JIDAN JIDAN

Allah bless you

Beautiful conversation between brothers, learned a lot.

Excellent and open discussion on a topic few discuss in a religious forum. May Allah bless the good Muslims on this forum. Ameen. (From observations on some people’s lifestyles and family life: Men who indulge in such things will never have a happy marriage or relationship with their Partner or even with the God they say they believe in. Women who subject themselves to cheap lifestyles, allowing themselves to be objects of pornography will never have self-compassion or self-respect due to their lowered standards. Teens who engage in these addictions will never fully mature nor will they have a happy future or respect for women--unless Allah guides these people towards good manners and love for Allah before anything else. (Many nihilistic misogynists who later do mass shootings have had such addictions). A fragmented home life is no excuse to become a violent or misogynistic or abusive personality. After the age of 18, people of civility can transform themselves, or blame their fragmented childhoods. Islam teaches no intoxicants or magic or witchcraft or gambling or alcohol for multiple wise reasons. Allah knows what is good snd what is shameful for the human soul, (unless the violent one is meant to be beast-like by destiny as an example for what not to be like). The California misogynist who stalked women and hated himself is an example of what not to be. Understatement, but it is a common phenomenon). To the still-good youth: Be strict on yourself before you are swept away by poor, evil and addiction-infested lost souls. Islamic prayers are definitely a life-saver. 🌴

Jazakallah for the beneficial knowledge

Please help us and take this seriously, this is the worst issue affecting us

addiction to screen itself is impacted maney young and adult to mental health issue .finding councilors who has the same value is very hard. Make duaa for the kids who is going through tough situations.

Need a social media detox and that’s why I am watching this. Although I have never personally watched pornography ever in my life

Alhamdulillah

ALLAH Akbar ❤❤

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اللهم صل وسلم على نبينا محمد وعلى آله وصحبه أجمعين وسلم تسليما كثيرا إلى يوم الدين

Disagree with the therapist brother’s opinion on video games. Muslims have a higher calling.

Maa shaa Allah tabarakallah Allah humma barik. An eye opener. Subhanallah. Great topics. I think it's also important to understand, sometimes children who suffer sexual abuse may go on to watch pornography or develop haram relations. So there should be somewhere where they are able to reach out and seek therapy. In shaa Allah. Jazak Allah khair

21:17 "When my Fajir is on time, I know my day is a W" lol

Allah Akbar

Danger of unrestricted access

I would like to say thank you all. This is sensitive subject matter. However the impact of psychological, emotional distress on the brothers who engage in porn- enactment in their relationship which has an impact on their wife, girlfriends. This also creates a behaviour of secrets , lies and this also can cause confusing of the brothers sexual identity. There is a psychological distress on the body and this also triggers to have unhealth sexual acts that are unclean. One suggestion is to maybe be a little more implicit of the impact porn on the whole existence of a man life, this also triggers power and control in their relationship. There is also the cases where brothers have this mindset ' oh this is not a big deal'. The beauty and humbleness of pure intimacy and understand the sacredness of intimacy and the blessing that blossoms when it is halal. Secondly, having the detachment from the illusion of the purpose of our this life and detachment to be in a the peaceful of salah, deep reflective process of daily observation of your thoughts behaviours and ego and really being honest of the external power of validation by another. The brother that was speaking to provide a safe space for brother to come and express their attachment of porn, I remember once saying to a group activity if all these thing is good why is their the shame to be able to speak about the challenges that we all may face in our life, we are human and fallible. As a sister I listen to Imam Cave, I am inspired to the openness and knowledge of each brother that flow through the dialogue to respect and integrity, To give yourself the space to seek the support and you're not alone. The psychological trauma of addiction of porn is real in society. Thank you so much, this much appreciative.

ALLAH IS ONLY WAY TO SAVES US IN WORLD OF MADNESS THE TRUTH COMES FROM ALLAH ONLY ALLAH KNOWS BEST FOR US 🙏☪️☪️☪️ ALLAH MASHALLAH SUBNANALLAH ALLAHU AKBAR ALLAH

Marriage, if not fasting but not work for long term. Able to subdue at day but at night need some urgent bed.

ALLAH IS LORD 🙏☪️☪️☪️ ALLAH MASHALLAH SUBNANALLAH ALLAHU AKBAR ALLAH

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Im addicted to porn for a long time IDK how to stop it and where do I find a support group

@12:00 I could have used one of those back in 2010>2020 era @49:10 This is a central curse, porn will destroy the natural desire you have for your life. PS: replace weed with fast food, and you have the modern dark triad. Porn. Gaming. Fast food. Why would you bother with anything else? Replacements I found: A) FFood > working out/lifting, cooking my own healthy food. Body builder level. B) Gaming > programming/writing/career 'side projects.' C) Porn > Won't be fixed until I get married I know. I just try to: 1. Get tired. 2. Think of my deceased mother. 3. Stay in public spaces. 4. Hard cut off speaking to women, including online. 5. Hard cut off content with skimpy females.