Overcoming Depersonalization Derealization Disorder and Intrusive Thoughts (Quick tips)

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In all my years helping people overcome anxiety, the symptoms that most unnerve people, are the ones related to mental manifestations of anxiety.
I am talking here about feelings of unreality (DP/DR) or intrusive thoughts.
Those were the symptoms that most troubled me when I was caught up in the anxiety loop.
I feared for my own sanity. I feared I would go mad, I feared I would be stuck like that forever.
When Michelle Cavanaugh and Aida Beco told me that this was a major theme in their one to one sessions with people, we decided it was time we three recorded a video to give people information and guidance on how to overcome it.
So if you suffer from feelings of unreality or feel disconnected from yourself or deal with intrusive thoughts, this video we just recorded will help you immensely!
It's a video I wish I could have had access to all those years ago for my own recovery. If I had seen this, I know I would have saved myself a lot of unnecessary anguish.
Depersonalization symptoms. (From the Mayo Clinic)
Symptoms of depersonalization include:
Feelings that you're an outside observer of your thoughts, feelings, your body or parts of your body - for example, as if you were floating in air above yourself
-Feeling like a robot or that you're not in control of your speech or movements
-The sense that your body, legs or arms appear distorted, enlarged or shrunken, or that your head is wrapped in cotton
-Emotional or physical numbness of your senses or responses to the world around you
-A sense that your memories lack emotion, and that they may or may not be your own memories
Derealization symptoms
Symptoms of derealization include:
-Feelings of being alienated from or unfamiliar with your surroundings - for example, like you're living in a movie or a dream
-Feeling emotionally disconnected from people you care about, as if you were separated by a glass wall
-Surroundings that appear distorted, blurry, colorless, two-dimensional or artificial, or a heightened awareness and clarity of your surroundings
-Distortions in perception of time, such as recent events feeling like distant past
-Distortions of distance and the size and shape of objects
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@arianavaughn6074
@arianavaughn6074 3 жыл бұрын
to anyone feeling like this, we are real. we are okay. time will heal us all 🤍
@Happys_Art
@Happys_Art 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I’m experiencing this feeling.
@dayna11098
@dayna11098 3 жыл бұрын
Thank u I have this all the time and I’m really scared it won’t go away
@ethancowart6765
@ethancowart6765 2 жыл бұрын
how do you know that all of us will heal though.. dont some people never get better..
@DanielMatotek
@DanielMatotek 3 жыл бұрын
Everyone in here, I want to remind you, you can heal from this. It will get better and I am living proof that you can get better. I was there, thinking I will never find myself ever again but I want to reassure you that you do heal if you put the work in. Five months and still healing!
@tannerbrandon5211
@tannerbrandon5211 2 жыл бұрын
Anyway to contact you
@tannerbrandon5211
@tannerbrandon5211 2 жыл бұрын
?
@missjennpenn
@missjennpenn 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you man
@Zero-wl7oe
@Zero-wl7oe 2 жыл бұрын
Hi what work are you doing to heal it? I was wondering do you think the Covid Vaccine could be the cause of any of this?
@daisytucker4498
@daisytucker4498 2 жыл бұрын
How did you get better?
@learninginline
@learninginline 3 жыл бұрын
One of my therapist said to me as long as you think you’re going crazy you’re not if you were you wouldn’t be aware of it and that helps me when the dp gets worse
@Bladeeistee
@Bladeeistee 3 жыл бұрын
I can assure you that you will get through this, guys!! I had it for some time but really accepting it helped me to feel completely normal again! :) Don‘t be afraid. It will pass.
@rediff9819
@rediff9819 2 жыл бұрын
Wish I never knew what anxiety was. I was happier as a child running in the rain, jumping in the puddles, gazing up at the stars on a silent night. Now life ain't what it used to be. Those beautiful days are gone. Everyday is a battle.
@daisytucker4498
@daisytucker4498 2 жыл бұрын
. I just want to be happy and free, I’m trying
@cjhancock4290
@cjhancock4290 3 жыл бұрын
The hard part about this is the lack of information that’s out there, Honestly KZfaq is a god send. Thank you guys!
@turtlestwinsvlogs9789
@turtlestwinsvlogs9789 3 жыл бұрын
it’s so scary because sometimes i feel like i don’t know my parents and i feel like i have no emotions anymore
@jeshuayancey5264
@jeshuayancey5264 3 жыл бұрын
Ohhh yes same here mostly... the not feeling like your family looks or feels familiar and close!
@FakedFate
@FakedFate 3 жыл бұрын
In my experience when I feel that way, it’s important that I remind myself, and you yourself that there are aspects of people and yourself that you are unaware of. You can focus on what separates us, or you can focus on our similarities. Think of all of the genuine proof you have that you are related. That they are your parents. Try not to snowball down Doubt Mounrain when your whole life is proof that you know them and they know you. There will always be parts of others you don’t know. But there’s a part of everyone human you’ll always be connected to: life itself. ❤️
@avasmith5216
@avasmith5216 3 жыл бұрын
Yes same like I'll just be yalking to them then I'll feel unfamiliar with everything then i freak out but don't know how to tell them with out freaking out even more
@wizalex58
@wizalex58 3 жыл бұрын
Here is something crazy feeling for not havin emotion is also a feeling like u are worryin for not having one. Hope this help u and remember its temporaly they will fade away
@neon.purple
@neon.purple 3 жыл бұрын
How are you now? I'm getting false emotions while trying to remember my happy times :'( I'm scared of not having my genuine feelings
@lindsayreese2976
@lindsayreese2976 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve suffered from DP/DR chronically for about 11 years. This video is GOLD!! What these people say is truth and the only way out , after years of struggling I NATURALLY implemented all of these tools and got better.
@aidabeco
@aidabeco 3 жыл бұрын
That is wonderful to hear Lindsay!
@ethan-scott
@ethan-scott 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Lindsay! I’ve been searching for some evidence that someone who suffers from this chronically can get better. Been 8 years now. Thank you for giving me some motivation and hope! :)
@tannerbrandon5211
@tannerbrandon5211 2 жыл бұрын
You were able to recover?
@CPFCPlumber
@CPFCPlumber 2 жыл бұрын
Glad you have overcome your issues, it does help knowing that other people go through this so your not alone. I've come through it myself but struggling a bit again to be honest. Need to keep strong I suppose, done it b4 can do it again....
@fuckyuh23
@fuckyuh23 2 жыл бұрын
How are you doing now?
@luisofsuburbia
@luisofsuburbia 3 жыл бұрын
I have had this about 5 years ago when I first had my panic attack and everything went downhill from there.... I overcame it and have recently encountered another anxiety driven episode which has triggered another state of Dep and Der...... this is not permanent you will overcome it and be back to normal. this is just another symptom of extreme anxiety.
@tannerbrandon5211
@tannerbrandon5211 2 жыл бұрын
Anyway to contact you? Did you have it 24/7 the first time and recover?
@missjennpenn
@missjennpenn 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@hamza3065
@hamza3065 3 жыл бұрын
Feels like I'm already dead. Just going through the motions of life without life. Without that passion, that energy, that interest. I also doubt my experiences as being my own. My memories don't feel real. I doubt my parents being mine. Nothing makes sense. Feels like I'm an alien who landed in the middle of this thing called life, I look at trivial and normal things with wonder and get amazed. It's scary.
@ILiveinaShed
@ILiveinaShed 2 жыл бұрын
please please please get therapy, even it doesn’t work it will help you get on the right path the way to overcome any of these symptoms is within your mind, but you might not be able to access it alone
@jackiebambrick4192
@jackiebambrick4192 2 жыл бұрын
I'm having so many multiple thoughts that shouldn't be scary but I'm reacting to them with anxiety and now I associate these situations with this feeling which is constantly. I get myself upset as I have this constant anxious feeling. I'm going to have to get used to start feeling excited about my feelings.
@breannalynn7005
@breannalynn7005 2 жыл бұрын
Same wallah It’s hard.. inshallah it gets better for you.
@bluebeardman4745
@bluebeardman4745 2 жыл бұрын
I can relate. It is terrible experience
@applepie3610
@applepie3610 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not scared of going crazy. I'm scared there's something physically wrong with my brain making me feel this way.
@sarinapdl2821
@sarinapdl2821 3 жыл бұрын
Yesss me tooo r u ok now??
@legoghostyoda9211
@legoghostyoda9211 3 жыл бұрын
@@sarinapdl2821 Same lol
@juliama7992
@juliama7992 3 жыл бұрын
Samee
@danielcunningham5940
@danielcunningham5940 3 жыл бұрын
Same with me. I sometimes think that the concusions I have had and a shock to my brain from an explosion in Viet Nam, long ago, combined to damage my brain. The only medical help i can get is from the Veterans Administration hospitals where they want to tell me it is nothing - just normal symptoms of getting old. Or they want to get me to admit to having suicidal thoughts so they can lock me in the nut ward.
@natinah3177
@natinah3177 3 жыл бұрын
@@danielcunningham5940 I am very sorry, it's sound terrible. Believe me, it doesn't matter what is the reason, you still can get better. There are no answers to all questions, and that's a fact. So please take care of yourself, and accept this part of yourself, you are not alone
@Jake-zg1ue
@Jake-zg1ue 3 жыл бұрын
i havent even watched this yet and i go to the comments. just want to add to the comments here that you are loved, everything is actually okay, and everything WILL be okay. I recovered for a long time, and now its coming back just a tad bit, so i came to this video. "Real life" is achievable and I felt it for a long time. Its just a couple steps away. Never give up gang! My heart seriously goes out to all of you.
@hannaherb9583
@hannaherb9583 3 жыл бұрын
I am so so so scared. I just wish someone could hold me together so I wouldn’t keep falling apart in front of my daughter.
@riyakhobragade649
@riyakhobragade649 3 жыл бұрын
Needed to hear this 🥺
@tannerbrandon5211
@tannerbrandon5211 2 жыл бұрын
How long did you have it 24:7? You felt back to normal?
@danielw4838
@danielw4838 2 жыл бұрын
It’s pretty amazing how powerful our bodies are. I keep trying to tell myself: “if my body can create this many powerful *negative* symptoms, I know it is capable of producing powerful *positive* symptoms.” I think of it like the Hulk. The Hulk, when caught up in negative emotions (fear, anger), uses his insane strength to destroy everything. But when in the right frame of mind, he is capable of incredible strength. It’s the same with us suffering from DPDR. Our brains are acting like the Hulk just going around smashing things. The problem is not that our brains are too powerful-it’s that we’re using our power in the wrong manner. If you are capable of creating DPDR, you are just as capable of creating so many powerful positive things. It’s all coming from the same source (your brain). By removing fear, you’ll slowly learn to use this powerful brain in amazingly positive manner. Definitely a lot easier said than done. I’m still in the thick of things myself. But I thought I’d at least share something I thought of the other day.
@bernadettebrown1852
@bernadettebrown1852 3 жыл бұрын
Being in a movie about yourself without a script
@lindsayreese2976
@lindsayreese2976 3 жыл бұрын
People who are truly crazy are blissfully unaware of how crazy they are. At times I wished for true psychosis. I wanted the break.
@CPFCPlumber
@CPFCPlumber 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Lindsay, I had DP from a traumatic drug event when I was 19. It lasted for years but I did overcome it. I'm now 39 but feel again like I'm going a bit crazy again, but I ain't if that makes sense?? Any advice on Psychosis?
@YourNay
@YourNay 3 жыл бұрын
Feeling weird while still carrying on is key and true acceptance but I feel like I’m being stripped away from quality of life. I can’t enjoy my life or experiences fully because I am still thinking about how “weird” I feel in the back of my mind. Just afraid that I’ll never fully be engaged and intact with the world, family and friends again. That’s mentally my biggest obstacle and trying my best to get thru that! 🙏🏽 Release fear! 💯
@terrysanghera1680
@terrysanghera1680 3 жыл бұрын
exactly my life my friend. i hope we get through this.
@portia5497
@portia5497 3 жыл бұрын
are you doing better?
@CPFCPlumber
@CPFCPlumber 2 жыл бұрын
That's exactly how I feel, the thought of how I once felt normal and content but now at the Bk of my mind will I ever get that Bk. Constantly feeling weird and different in every situation. I think the key is to accept what has happened but its easier said than done. Good luck to you, stay strong....
@justinbroniszewski
@justinbroniszewski 5 ай бұрын
What Aida said about losing your sense of self is exactly how I feel two years after having a mental breakdown that gave me the worst panic attacks I'd ever experienced. I felt like I was on the edge of sanity for three months, and although I have improved, I'm still struggling with it. It's awful.
@asianguy6174
@asianguy6174 3 жыл бұрын
If you say, I’m accepting it, but it’s not going away, you’re not only not accepting it, you’re thinking about it, seeing it as a problem to be solved. Your concern is precisely what causes it to begin with.
@fatrat3408
@fatrat3408 Ай бұрын
Whoever sees this, you are not alone. There’s people who feel the exact same way, no matter what it’s caused from. I have had it for a couple months from pointless thoughts, Im scared it won’t go away, but I know if I stay strong and accept it and be patient, it will go away. And it will be worth it. I promise. You might wanna give up, but you will be so happy you didn’t when it’s over. Please keep going and try to accept it and surround yourself with people who love you 💗
@Thebaron666
@Thebaron666 Жыл бұрын
When Aida was talking about her therapist that told her that “she’s not going crazy yet but is on her way”… that pissed me off so bad. This happened to me too. Most therapists are such a joke and actually do more harm than good. I don’t care if you have a phd in psychology from the most prestigious school on earth. If you haven’t experienced what your patients are talking about, and overcome it personally, you’re useless to them.
@mentalhealth4408
@mentalhealth4408 3 жыл бұрын
Anyone suffering from blurry or dull vision.
@larakay9783
@larakay9783 3 жыл бұрын
yess
@UniquelyMadeDaugter
@UniquelyMadeDaugter 3 жыл бұрын
try too get a your eyes checked too! mine got better when i got glasses
@richardbranson8658
@richardbranson8658 3 жыл бұрын
@@UniquelyMadeDaugter yes me to.. I have dp really bad 24/7..and my vision has gotten worse as the dp does
@hamza3065
@hamza3065 3 жыл бұрын
Yes. And it's not even in the eyes. It feels like my mind's blurry.
@janicestout1978
@janicestout1978 3 жыл бұрын
Yess here!
@savnac
@savnac Жыл бұрын
As somebody who has suffered with derealization for over 10 years, I am so grateful for you three to have come together to provide this discussion to all of us. I’ve been having a flare up of derealization these days due to excessive screen time, and you all reassured me and reminded me that I can make peace with these safe sensations. Thank you all so much.
@legacytrainer4242
@legacytrainer4242 2 ай бұрын
Michelle's last "what if this last forever?" Is spot on. I feel this all too often.
@marcushuffman5262
@marcushuffman5262 7 ай бұрын
I can’t believe I’m just seeing this years later! I’m going through depersonalization pretty bad right now due to panic and anxiety attacks but I know it’s all in my head and once I stop thinking about it so much and get the anxiety under control this will fade away on its own. I’ve had it before.
@hailey7049
@hailey7049 2 жыл бұрын
while feeling like this, its hard to say I genuinely feel less alone after this video, because this has been the most loneliest, most tiring chapter of my life, and im at a point where i feel like nothing and no one is real. but i can genuinely say i do feel a sort of relief, to finally be able to put a label on what I’ve been going through for months, and to now know im not going insane or crazy. i know soon enough one day I’ll feel like myself again, and I’ll continue learning how to cope and accept this part of me. thank you so so much for this video you don’t understand how grateful i am for it.
@nikhitasingh9307
@nikhitasingh9307 2 жыл бұрын
omg . i finally feel heard and not alone , thank you
@matthewhernandez4687
@matthewhernandez4687 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for helping me understand it. It’s gotten my foot in the door for me and for others. I’m still trying to deal with my anxiety but now I understand my body and mind.
@lg4360
@lg4360 3 жыл бұрын
One of the most important understandings I have had with regards to my anxiety is the feeling of being hypersensitive to my surroundings when very anxious. Things that normally are just passing by, I become much more sensitive to. A room I sit in every day may suddenly feel more enclosed and dreamlike. Suddenly things that were just there take on a much more enchanted meaning. Dream like? Perhaps so......
@mrc.p8423
@mrc.p8423 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@vivi-uz7qq
@vivi-uz7qq 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, me too! Sometimes my home feels unfamiliar to me :(
@yvainerasmus3777
@yvainerasmus3777 3 жыл бұрын
@@vivi-uz7qq this happened to me about two weeks ago....so unpleasant.
@mickyhouse8753
@mickyhouse8753 3 жыл бұрын
Wow you just described exatly what I am going through. I am so sensitive to the sounds and start to focus on it and would trip out
@theloughdown5752
@theloughdown5752 3 жыл бұрын
1000% same. It’s like being in a constant state of hypervigilence
@FakedFate
@FakedFate 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this content. Could’ve used it years ago, but it still resonates now.
@jazzman6858
@jazzman6858 3 жыл бұрын
There isn’t enough information on DP/DR/Unreality but it’s getting better. I suffered chronically back in 2017 after a breakdown , transiently in 2018/2019/2020 and now in 2021 I rarely experience it at all. It’s been a long process of acceptance and not caring when in that state but through memory and habit, my mind still goes there because of how traumatic it was when I was really disconnected. When I do feel it now it’s extremely mild to the point where I soon forget about it and just go about my day. Knowledge is everything when it comes to this offshoot sensation from anxiety. Michelle sums it up rather nicely when you experience it.. ‘ok I feel weird right now, oh well... back to what I was doing’ that’s telling you’re brain you aren’t scared, bring it on which of course then lessens and eliminates the feeling. Thanks for highlighting it guys. Keep up the good work and stay safe.
@chelseabrown9314
@chelseabrown9314 2 жыл бұрын
You have no clue how much this video has helped me.
@joeblowjohndoe206
@joeblowjohndoe206 2 жыл бұрын
You guys literally described everything to a t. Just hearing this makes it instantly better. That's proof right there that nobody is going crazy lol. The thing is I learned this years ago and kinda forgot when the dr "went away". The intrusive thoughts are what really start scaring you. Then you keep it going knowing exactly what you're doing. I remember thinking oh my God I thought this or that I must be really finally going crazy. All the while knowing I would never act on them. Im currently laughing about all the times I said "well here it finally is. I'm finally losing it" haha.. Thank you guys SO SO SO much!
@brianschnurr3254
@brianschnurr3254 3 жыл бұрын
This video is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you so much!
@moonmama95
@moonmama95 3 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!!! I bought the dare book that was recommended to me by a friend and it's been so incredibly helpful. This video made me feel so seen and gave me incredible hope for my recovery.
@naomiadowaa3408
@naomiadowaa3408 3 жыл бұрын
Life savers. This amazing! Great video!
@rearwheelslider
@rearwheelslider Жыл бұрын
YOU NAILED IT GUYS. explained everything I feel.
@bbeeellllaaaaa
@bbeeellllaaaaa 3 жыл бұрын
Have had DR/DP in 14 years, all the time, it never goes away - i had a traumatic childhood and anxiety and DR since then. IT SUCKS but thank you for spreading this information, in sweden where i live no psychologist know about this shit so i havent been in therapy for this
@mackenziewalsh8750
@mackenziewalsh8750 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. You just made my month. I've been losing my mind, worse then ever. This hit everything. Thqnk you thank you thank you
@shouvik_travelhobbies3064
@shouvik_travelhobbies3064 2 жыл бұрын
So wonderfully explained.....can relate so much......thanks to you all for putting this in youtube
@sxfnlc
@sxfnlc Жыл бұрын
You all are SPOT ON! You are explaining this exactly right. Our thoughts are not always truth. We believe they are.
@ScottJ_Moses
@ScottJ_Moses 2 жыл бұрын
I really want to thank you all for this talk/video. I’ve been dealing with anxiety around existentialism and intrusive thoughts for months, and this really laid out everything in a practical way. I already feel better about these thoughts, and am picking up the book as soon as I’m able. Seriously, thanks again.
@lammyphuong2627
@lammyphuong2627 3 жыл бұрын
i'm on my journey to combat derealization disorder...aghh it's tough but i will try those techniques you have mentioned in the video
@Nhileishere
@Nhileishere Жыл бұрын
This was possibly the best informative discussion that truly targeted every aspect of dp and dr i went through!! Thank you so much. Michelle was also wonderful and hilarious
@FlyingOverTr0ut
@FlyingOverTr0ut 2 жыл бұрын
Good discussion. I didn't even know what mental health was aside from sitcom stereotypes about lying on a therapist's couch when I first got it and it was horrifying. I went through a few disabling, roughly year long bouts at different times. The last relapse I had was Nov 2019 and though wasn't as severe as others was still very painful and disabling. However I knew what it was then and though progress was excruciating I am far better now and have much better coping mechanisms for when I feel little flare ups.
@carlosdelacueva2713
@carlosdelacueva2713 2 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this video (: All three of you brought a warmth, sincerity and playfulness to the philosophy of dp/dr Thanks so much
@tmerkury2813
@tmerkury2813 2 жыл бұрын
This video alone helps a lot. Thank you.
@taohiker1
@taohiker1 2 жыл бұрын
Meditation and chakra healing. This brought me out of having it for over 11 years. These two things will bring down your anxieties/fears and help you find the answers that are within you.
@sublimeblush
@sublimeblush 2 жыл бұрын
Finding this video, the first time I have heard of this. Finally, finally I have a way to relate and understand and explain the hell I have had all my life. To know, this is real and now I know why I am WEIRD. And try to explain it better to those I love and have had to tolerate me being around as drama, or disappear for long periods of time the past 30 some odd years. I am crying. ty all!! 💓💗💓💗 I am diagnosed with bipolar/depression/anxiety/ptsd and now have complex motor and vocal tics which are tremendously affected by those disorders. I am very often in DP/DR. Boy does it hurt when I shut down and get discredited by those I love.
@aubreyk.9780
@aubreyk.9780 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I’ve watched so many different videos on KZfaq & I couldn’t connect & absorb what I watched. I saw this video & it brought so much comfort to me on how open & accepting you guys talking about this battle. Thank you
@inesd3191
@inesd3191 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the video! To be honest what I feel keeps me scared is that the existential thoughts are absolutely valid. We do not know the beginning of the beginning and the meaning of life. But indeed, I can feel that my relationship with the thoughts vary to ok to terrible depending on the day.. so depending how powerful I feel DP/DR. I believe that once I feel connected again to my self and my surroundings (currently outside is a strange world but I go and continue my life anyway) those thoughts will decrease and be definitely less scary. I was never scared of death and now I have irrational fear of life and death and myself. But I am hopeful and convince I will get better by dealing with my emotions and stress properly. I will recover and so will you
@merino77771
@merino77771 3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou Barry for covering the topic of DP and DR which are in my opinion the most disturbing aspect of the anxiety disorder and not really covered much by other therapists. Before reading about it in the DARE materials I did not even know how to describe it so would just say it was a 'numb' spell or the 'invisible' feeling which can just pop out of the blue and for me would trigger panic. Well done guys for your help.
@odisho100
@odisho100 Жыл бұрын
You have no idea how much this video has helped me! DE/DR and intrusive thoughts I literally told myself I was going crazy
@rodanski7967
@rodanski7967 2 жыл бұрын
Dp and Dr are definitely the most disturbing stuff i ever felt. at first i thought that that's it im going crazy, im losing it. Im super glad i found DARE app, really feels like it saved my life. THANK YOU BARRY ❤️
@arjashley1
@arjashley1 8 ай бұрын
This video helped me break down and understand dpdr and intrusive thoughts more than any other video I’ve seen on the subject. It was super helpful so thanks y’all!
@schlondascott3679
@schlondascott3679 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much now I can really help my daughter get back on track and understand that all is well with her mental health and she can overcome this now that we both know what this condition is God Blessings to all of you for sharing this information.🙏
@lk6380
@lk6380 2 жыл бұрын
This video should be the gold standard for educating others about dpdr. Thank you guys!
@lg4360
@lg4360 3 жыл бұрын
I've suffered from this since my early childhood. Had a very disturbing episode today when having to bring my wife to the hospital in the middle of the night. Even though I have been living these experiences all of my life, it is so important to remind yourself of these very realities as to what is actually happening in your mind. This posting today could not have come at a more opportune time. One day, my hope is to share and help others with this devastating condition that has not only afflicted me, but my daughter as well. Thank you all for sharing and your encouragement.
@varadahuja7842
@varadahuja7842 3 жыл бұрын
this is what i have been suffering... now i will show this video to my doctor nd family that this is what i have been facing for yearx .. amazing video ❤❤
@fionalee5177
@fionalee5177 Жыл бұрын
I have been struggling with CPTSD for many years now and have never heard it put like this before, I’m seeing things soooo differently about so many things. I have to go process things now but I feel like I’ve found my home. Thank you all ❤❤
@francescalucas2603
@francescalucas2603 8 ай бұрын
I have never ever related so much to somthing all I can say is thank you all 3 of you for describing exactly how it is letting us know we are not evil or crazy
@yvainerasmus3777
@yvainerasmus3777 3 жыл бұрын
I was using DARE incorrectly and this video has cleared it up, I was using it as a tool to push it away, not understanding the 'allow ' part....I do understand better now....helpful discussion
@vonrodri314
@vonrodri314 5 ай бұрын
I loved this video. Everyone here was just a light of inspiration. If you are going through DRDP just know you are not alone. It will make you stronger as time goes. It is not forever
@divaricca
@divaricca Жыл бұрын
Thank you! It was very reassuring to me. And Michelle made me laugh so hard! What a lovely personality ❤️
@elliondmcqueen
@elliondmcqueen 2 жыл бұрын
This conversation along is helping me out so much thank you
@crochetgirlie
@crochetgirlie 3 күн бұрын
u guys have helped me so much. i can’t explain how helpful this video is thank u so much
@racheljames9742
@racheljames9742 3 жыл бұрын
Great video nice to see you guys explaining this horrible topic. Its good to see that your on KZfaq aswell it really helps to watch and understand that we aren't alone i will subscribe and hopefully see more videos.
@portia5497
@portia5497 3 жыл бұрын
did anything change
@gabrielamejias4895
@gabrielamejias4895 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t thank you guys enough for this video. Yesterday my anxiety convinced me that I was becoming crazy because I couldn’t feel like myself anymore I wanted to scape from my mind. After watching the video everything made sense and today after 2 weeks I can finally feel like myself♥️ I don’t fear it anymore because I know what my brain is going thru and I most importantly I don’t want to scape from my mind 😁
@fractalofgod6324
@fractalofgod6324 2 жыл бұрын
Michelle is hilarious, such a character. Love her.
@JoshShuman
@JoshShuman 2 жыл бұрын
Have had this for many years. What worries me now is that I've actually gotten to a point where I am afraid of these symptoms going away. I've become so used to this being a part of my life that I experience intense anxiety and restlessness when the DP/DR is lifted (which is extremely infrequently and typically only for a day or two before I slip back into the symptoms). Every time it's gone away, it's because I've actively "fought back" against the symptoms, but it's hard to keep that up all the time. Wish I was more motivated to beat this.
@rg7122
@rg7122 Жыл бұрын
Aida I desperately hope you got a new therapist. What a terrible thing to say! Thank you all for this content
@chantelwilson4146
@chantelwilson4146 3 жыл бұрын
Dare is helping me so much. I have a much better understanding about anxiety and have so much hope that I will overcome it this time instead of just getting over it, i always pushed the feelings away until they eventually subsided but they always came back because I wasn’t dealing with the issue I was just putting a band aid over it. Anxiety it’s self has never really been my problem it’s always been derealization. I’m so glad Barry understands this because a lot of therapists and doctors don’t acknowledge this symptom of anxiety. A big tip while researching about this ( which we all do!) Focus on the video and ignore the comments. If you read that someone is still suffering you’ll begin to believe that you’ll never overcome this. By implementing the dare response it allowed me to overcome that fear almost immediately and post this comment. You will be okay. WE will be okay. I believe in all of you and I pray for the courage and strength to heal. ❤️
@IVAN-vx8ln
@IVAN-vx8ln 3 жыл бұрын
Thank so much you give much hope ! Did you overcome it yet ?
@SandungaLuna
@SandungaLuna 2 жыл бұрын
This was such a great video I love you guys thank you for the great information.
@user-yp1bd5wr5k
@user-yp1bd5wr5k 3 жыл бұрын
watching this feels so awesome, finally someone who understands me!! I have been struggling with the DR for almost 10 yrs now and this is the ONLY WAY to cure, nothing else helps as much as this
@randynavarro6101
@randynavarro6101 3 жыл бұрын
Does anyone get these weird feelings when walking around stores?
@maryjezierski5392
@maryjezierski5392 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! I used to attribute the these feelings to the lighting. Have you experienced headaches afterwards?
@jakeschleifer1303
@jakeschleifer1303 3 жыл бұрын
@@maryjezierski5392 lighting definitely effects my derealization. Especially if I come from being out during the nighttime and go into a bright room. My derealization is through the roof then
@moonmama95
@moonmama95 3 жыл бұрын
@@maryjezierski5392 fluorescent lighting has definitely been linked to anxiety! That was one of the first triggers I noticed!
@willnorth6339
@willnorth6339 3 жыл бұрын
@@moonmama95 same here, I had fluorescent lights at my work place and physically couldn’t stay in the building.
@ethancowart6765
@ethancowart6765 2 жыл бұрын
all the time
@chrissiedavies2892
@chrissiedavies2892 3 жыл бұрын
Have been using DARE for 3 years now. Gradually got over the fear of DP/DR - which turned into fear of fear - that I suffered from for 50+ years. Hoping that people with my problem will find this now and get their lives back in a much shorter time!
@zp-4373
@zp-4373 3 жыл бұрын
How’d you get over that fear?
@emmabeaumusic
@emmabeaumusic 3 жыл бұрын
how did you recover?
@annageise2424
@annageise2424 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I have this too!!! I have fear of DR itself... I rarely actually feel depersonalized but I get so anxious about it to where I start convincing myself I am.
@defender7624
@defender7624 3 жыл бұрын
I thought I was the only long hauler of DP/DR! I’ve had it for 33 years but I finally no longer care and it doesn’t scare me anymore. I still have a mild case of it. You’re right it’s just the fear of fear. Once I stopped following my first fearful thoughts I started slowly getting better. Fearing the fear just exhaust our minds and keep DP/DR going. I haven’t watched this entire video so I don’t know what DARE is? I’ll watch it later
@gizellemendozaa3818
@gizellemendozaa3818 3 жыл бұрын
@@defender7624 what do you mean you had it for that long omg and 24/7 this scares me so much
@yvainerasmus3777
@yvainerasmus3777 3 жыл бұрын
I cant wait to get my copy of DARE...Currently in a loop and using the helpful videos in the meantime....
@Zero-wl7oe
@Zero-wl7oe 2 жыл бұрын
Get the hands dirty, use them as much as you can, paint a picture, build something, sketch something, clean your room, don’t drink tea coffee or anything with caffein, stay drug free. Don’t be a sitting duck waiting for the anxiety to fill up your mind, don’t give it that chance so don’t sit and think and day dream like I always do (starting to cut it out now due to this). The hands 🙌 are a tool for healing get them going. I bought a colouring book yesterday and spent a lot of my time colouring in the pictures when I felt the weird feelings come on and the derealization. Idle hands are a dangerous thing for the mind. Use them as much as you can. This keeps me fairly intact. I honestly think what causes panic is letting the mind go weak and then sit daydreaming and thinking about things. Hope this helps.
@peterdoty9797
@peterdoty9797 3 жыл бұрын
Great discussion could have used it a while back but thanks for this!
@Sean-gr2wk
@Sean-gr2wk 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing content guys, love your energy as well Michelle!
@gabrielal7422
@gabrielal7422 2 жыл бұрын
I was free for about 6months or so and I was so happy, but I had a really bad panic attack at the start of summer and now my dpdr is back, it really sucks but I know that I have gotten better and I will again
@lolaluken4563
@lolaluken4563 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent explanation. Great video. Thank you.
@Animebitesx
@Animebitesx 2 жыл бұрын
So helpful, thank you for making this.
@oliviaruthrobinson
@oliviaruthrobinson 3 жыл бұрын
This video helped me immensely 🖤
@agostinaesquivel5966
@agostinaesquivel5966 3 жыл бұрын
This was just in the point. Thank you
@jacintamorrissy5399
@jacintamorrissy5399 Жыл бұрын
I don’t know where my comments here go as I cannot see the 2 of them’ A question please for anyone here? these Speakers here come across very Real to me’ & so Relatable & I thank you🌷🌷🌷
@melaniesenogles5818
@melaniesenogles5818 2 жыл бұрын
I am really stuggling with this, the feeling frightens the life out of me, even though I know it cant harm me 😭
@heyheyy2141
@heyheyy2141 2 жыл бұрын
Love you guys , this has helped me alot
@mr_sugas_fire3015
@mr_sugas_fire3015 3 жыл бұрын
I dont remember why i ever loved the people in my life. Feels like im a copy of me that received instructions how to be me, but doesnt really understand how to actually
@mrc.p8423
@mrc.p8423 3 жыл бұрын
Brilliant way to describe it
@hamza3065
@hamza3065 3 жыл бұрын
So true. Rarely you find an accurate description of this thing and this is really close.
@iimstateii8319
@iimstateii8319 3 жыл бұрын
That’s was really good
@arsenmalaj8757
@arsenmalaj8757 3 жыл бұрын
It feels like you're born today and you try to make sense of the world like an adult. Which is far more difficult than when we were kids
@arsenmalaj8757
@arsenmalaj8757 3 жыл бұрын
Also, why did you get dp? Weed?
@StuntmanTV
@StuntmanTV 6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video! ❤
@mikami9099
@mikami9099 Ай бұрын
depersonalization and derealization are just FEAR! FIGHT MY PEOPLE! you will overcome it. have faith and return to your body as much as you can you are safe.
@EsmaeilSarabadani
@EsmaeilSarabadani 2 жыл бұрын
Very good discussion... thank you... I learned a lot and that helped me so much...
@justaudio626
@justaudio626 8 ай бұрын
I’m grateful I found this video, thank you to the Reddit user and thank you for this video.
@yvainerasmus3777
@yvainerasmus3777 3 жыл бұрын
I struggle with the accept and allow. My words say it, but my body finds it hard to go into spaghetti mode.
@larryrobinson1399
@larryrobinson1399 2 жыл бұрын
I’d love to see a video or have someone help me understand the vision issues that comes with this , I started with these symptoms after a few panic attacks and my vision is a big part that keep fuel on the fire in my case , light sensitivity , everything looks glassy and weird , I know my surroundings but feel detached for sure .. hang in there everybody and good luck !
@lenettedossantos893
@lenettedossantos893 Жыл бұрын
this was soooooo helpful, thank you
@terrysanghera1680
@terrysanghera1680 3 жыл бұрын
Michelle is absolutely AMAZING. Been dealing with derealization since April.
@Pointblankmos
@Pointblankmos 3 жыл бұрын
I've been going since about May. Stay strong!
@mickyhouse8753
@mickyhouse8753 3 жыл бұрын
How you feeling now? for me it comes and goes
@michelelotito694
@michelelotito694 3 жыл бұрын
Do you guys have ocd too?
@portia5497
@portia5497 3 жыл бұрын
did u improve?
@isamarbaeza3544
@isamarbaeza3544 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing video! This is my biggest and most bothersome symptom! So helpful 🙌🏼
@deon_pet
@deon_pet 3 жыл бұрын
I am with you!
@cjhancock4290
@cjhancock4290 3 жыл бұрын
I am also right with you!
@theloughdown5752
@theloughdown5752 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@marinamanoilov
@marinamanoilov 3 жыл бұрын
same 😭
@zwyczajnadziewczyna333
@zwyczajnadziewczyna333 3 жыл бұрын
Thank You so much for this video! 😊
@catofarrell9474
@catofarrell9474 Жыл бұрын
Had constant derealisation for 27 years solid. It has effected my cognitive function. It took drs 21 years to tell me what it was. So the amount of plastic buckets on my head is so intense
@SergioRussoPlus
@SergioRussoPlus 3 жыл бұрын
Great video. Thank you so much.
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