i started crying the moment the listener started talking about how they feel when people said to "grow up" ㅠㅠ being childish isn't a bad thing, it's just being urself and having fun x

Bro really hurt our feelings and then wondered if we started making dinner💀

2:48 “yeah, I got myself a happy meal, you know since I’m so childish, but seems like I forgot your food… too bad” and that’s how I would react

Him:Let's eat dinner, i'm starving me: I'm not really hungry Him: Oh, you're not hungry? me:CUT THE CAMERAS

The fact that listener was trying to show that they are grown up made me cry

As someone who had to grow up young, this hit too close to home and this audio made me cry more than any of your other audios You really outdid yourself this time! 😁

This hits way too close to home, I have autism and a bubbly personality. That two mix together which makes me seem childish, I'm almost 18 and I'm always hearing " You need to grow up", "you need to act your age", or "why do you need to be this way" but it was nice to hear the ending.

I really got into character and started bailing my eyes out when you said “because they’re too childish?” My mom always tells me to grow up already and stop being childish

I love this part 14:18 where he acknowledges the fact all it takes is one comment for me completely shut down and take a long while to heal This audio was really relatable since I’m autistic so being told to grow up by the one person who actually tolerated my childish behaviour would make me completely hate myself and change everything, Tysm for the comfort it was really great 😭

This hit so hard as I was and still are always being told to “grow up” “your so immature for your age” I started sobbing as soon as he said it, Do I really need to change that badly?

When you got childhood trauma and this hits on another level 🤡👌

This is what always scares me, I have a very funny,goofy and often flirty sense of humor and personality as well as loving,caring etc and so far it hasn't annoyed anyone and they say not to change, but I find a guy I truly love etc and be with it worries me that I may have to change :(

“You’ve never really liked Chinese food.” Me: “OH DEAREST LOVE. YOU WOUND ME. I LOVE CHINESE FOOD.”

"I bet it's her usual dishes like mac and cheese" hell nah you did not just say that

I felt bad wtf. I hate my sensitive self sometimes

I didn't even know I was sensitive about being called childish. I just started crying.

Oh this one hit hard, the moment he said "I'm sorry" couldn't stop crying 😭 He actually apologized for what he said and not just justified why he said it, there is a huge difference. And your warm and calming voice just made this apology even more heartwarming ❤️😭

This audio hurts in the way that when I get upset I hide it and then feel more hurt when nobody notices that I’m still upset. The way that he didn’t realize the listener was feeling upset for so long, even when they were acting so different from normal. The resolution of this audio is something I wish I got more in real life.

Oh, this one HURT. I have had so many people say I'm 'childish' to the point where they shame me for what I like, then suddenly make it my fault when I decide to give up on what they see as 'childish'. It's like, what do you expect to happen? I'm gonna be upset.

The ongoing subtle panic in their voice when they kept listing a lot of fun things to make up for what happened and we keep saying no like 🤣🤣🤣 "i fucked up. I know i fucked up. and badly. " As someone that was forced to grow up so fast, this means a lot to me. I never had the chance to feel vulnerable, and am always pushing myself to put on a strong facade and smile, work my hardest. As much as I know this is good for me in a professional field, it hurts knowing people don't want the other side of me, a true side. Thank you for this video.

I have autism and a bubbly (and picky) personality, but I kinda dress pretty goth, so when I’m told to “grow up” I act more “mature, gloomy and serious” which actually is when I’m angry, but people think I’m doing some sort of goth character so they leave it because it’s more close abt how they want me to act… it was nice hearing someone noticing and apologising instead of just blaming me

Fun fact : When they say “Forget about it/Forget it” they didn’t forget about it… But dang this audio made me ball my eyes out i was crying so hard 😭

I sat through this entire video and cried almost the entire time because this is my biggest fear. I had to grow up way too early, and now I try to… I don’t know, get some of that lost time back. But people don’t understand it and think I’m way too goofy when I feel comfortable around them. And that’s why I barely allow myself to be just… me. So, thank you for this incredible video 🥺❤️

i've never usually crying over a asmr, but, hear me out, THIS ONE MADE ME CRYING LIKE A BABY, I- 😫😭

I'm not childish! *crosses my arms, puffs my cheeks and pout* When I was a child, people was always telling me I grew up too fast, that I didn't have a realy childhood and stuffs. And now that I'm an adult, they actually call me childish... It's called healing your inner child, and it's actually healthy! 😋

I love argument asmrs especially when we run away and their like no wait- like yes I love drama 😭 If this was in real life tho that would be a different story You have a really nice voice btw

* Me trying to hold in my tears after he told listener to grow up * * Also me at the end literally crying* GREAT JOB 👍👍👍👌👌👌👌

I was crying while listening to this and my brother was suddenly like "did he call you again?" he thinks that my ex called me, he hates my ex so much. great audio btw, I'm about to get into character lol (bcz people call me childish so many times) and I love LoFi bgm, it's comfy to listen

I had a family member call me childish because I still sleep with my childhood teddy bear and had bought stickers from the craft store. told me I should stop watching cartoons (they meant anime and animated movies) and act my age. I was upset at first but then I realized they are probably upset I still allowed myself to do such "childish" things as an adult. Life is fuckin hard and stressful as fuck so allowing yourself to have some fun or comfort every so often is a good thing in my opinion. I'm literally typing this while wearing unicorn socks and slippers lmfao also I might just be a weeb but is the ichigo's dad from bleach?

3:22 “You’ve never really like Chinese food.” Me who loves Chinese food religiously: Who said that?!? 🤨🤚 Also this was a great audio ❤

I love how I come back to this to relisten everytime I want to get my feelings hurt and I can't blame no one but me

Honestly, this hit home since I'm used to people calling me childish or immature, but this was different because he apologized and that's not something that people are willing to do because they don't understand their mistake. Thank you for making this!

Ohh, Man! Being told to grow up when you are just being yourself hurts a lot. I'm glad with being myself most of the time, but when we heard things like that, we started to evaluate each moment that could be different if we were more serious or something else. Glad everything in the end Works out, but in real life is not always the same

Idk if ive committed on this video but i can relate to this because my own family has said i act to childish and it makes me want to cry everytime because one second its"be who you wanna be" and the next its "DONT BE SO F**KING CHILDISH GROW UP YOU LITTLE SH!T" and i always leave the room and go to my room of the bathroom and cry quietly for a hour and they always say afterwards "oh your just sensitive and cant grow up"...idk who else has family like this but no knows true pain until your family hurts you with words and makes it known they dont like how you are... sorry if this was to much to say i really am.

If your partner ever tells you “Just forget about it” or “Don’t worry about it”, you either: 1. Hurt their feeling and should ACTUALLY WORRY! Maybe panic a lil. 2. It’s nothing but a meme or inside joke between your partner and their friends. 3. They could be like me and have ADHD and could have completely forgotten something so it’s literally nothing.

As a person who acts childish this really made me feel better. I grew up way too fast, so I act childish to see it’s like to be free like a young one, but sometimes people just make fun of me or just tell stuff like “Your so immature for your age”, “Grow up!”, etc. And this video hit me real hard, thank you

the way my heart broke when you said grow up bcs the amount of people who told me i need to grow up in life

TW: There some mentions of my experience of growing up young, that may upset people. There are also some capital letters in this, I understand some may be triggered, I promise that is not intended. Ends with some words of encouragement for you, guys. I have always been way too mature for my age, I get told all the time, by parents, relatives, friends, even sometimes strangers that I am in a safe situation to talk to. I always had added responsibility, expectations and just an 'advanced' mindset that other people of my age didn't have. This audio hit really hard and made me cry. Which isn't necessarily a bad thing. Audios that make me upset or cry, like this, are really helpful to me. They help me to get in touch with my emotions, which I have a lot of issues with regulating and just not knowing how to feel. These help me feel something real and remind me that I am human. To anyone going through a hard time. Whatever it is. YOU are VALID. YOU MATTER. Your FEELINGS are VALID. YOU WILL get through it. And when you think everyone is against you, know there is at least one person,(me, hi) that hasn't even met you, yet knows that you are EXTRAORDINARY. If you want to talk about anything, comment here, if you feel more comfortable, I can give you one of my socials to talk to me instead. Have a great day/night, Darlings. you are all loved. At least by me. ❤❤

3:44 THE WORRIED CHUCKLE WHILE HE SAYS THIS AWWWW 4:55 “love yoou 😊😄😄❤️” that was so cute are you kidding 10:02 the contrast from the first “love you” to this one is so heartbreaking UGH your voice acting is so gOOD

I like that he speaks in his natural voice. It's refreshing

The second someone says that kind of shit to me I just... Shut down. They won't see me laugh or smile. I won't be in the same room as them and only do what they want or what they tell me to do. I go on Autopilot and just hide in my own head.

I have autism and PTSD, which causes me to age regress, so this audio hit really close 😭😭

Yk this was a little different to me since I was always told I was “so mature for my age” or “more responsible that most.” I used to be really talkative and stuff, but I was told I was “annoying” and “I needed to give someone else- anyone else- a chance to talk.” And having working parents and a big age gap between me and my siblings I felt like I was behind. So I just started to force myself to grow up, it’s still a habit I have to constantly be responsible and mature but it’s hard. Even when my friends tell me that they like it when I’m more childish and relaxed, I find it hard to do so.

Let me get on my soap box, one sec Okay, so as someone who has a grocery list of mental issues, sometimes they overlap and weird stuff happens. Main example here is trust issues/abandonment issues, and attachment issues. It takes me a while to trust someone, but once I do they're stuck with my annoying ass. I've been through the ringer of "you need to grow up", and if someone I genuinely trusted on a deep level said that, it would definitely trigger the reactions of the listener here. Thanks for the amazing audio! Keep up the great work, and look after yourself!

I kept swallowing the feeling of wanting to cry my soul out while this cuz im around family and they would take the phone from me thinking im crying because of someone and will ask countless questions that will end up taking my device away and maybe getting physical but i really like ur voice- TwT❤️

There is no amount of "I didn't mean it!"s in the world and beyond that would ever erase the way this would alter my view of someone. And I'm petty enough to change my behavior to see if they really do treat me differently or if they'll realize something's wrong. And that's on needing therapy. 😘👉👉

As someone who had to grow up really fast I can sometimes act childish and I get told to grow up all the time and it’s honestly sad and makes me cry

What a good way to cry after waking up , since I haven't been eating well or doing anything due to things like this , lol

Him: when will you grow up? Me: never

Me and my sister grew up in a very mental abusive and toxic household, they always told us to grow up, to wear makeup, etc so that boys would like us more and that we'd marry a rich man someday so they can be rich. At one point, we had enough and started becoming aggressive and we'd start yelling at our parents all the time. They would always work and barely have time for us, my sister is older than me so when they used to yell at us and say rude things (e.x. grow up, stop being lazy, you're useless, etc) she used to comfort me, I genuinely love her so much and I don't know what I would do without her. So this really hurt but me and my sister are happy now and we solved our problems with our parents because we had a long talk with them and some therapists. So this hit home hard.

wow, this actually made me cry when he fully and whole heartedly apologised.

Really went and made half of your fanbase cry 😭😭😭

5:03 when you yawned, it scared me so bad😭🤣

Being a very so called childish person this really hooked me hard and was really great to listen to ❤

I did a extra grade as a kid so I'm a year older than all my classmates, in result I act more childish, because Im around younger people, and it makes me upset to be called childish cuz I can't help it 💀😭 (wonderful video btw I enjoyed listening to it!!)

Its funny that i found this video when i did, because this morning i was feeling really down about feeling like everyone treating me like i was a baby. Its just always bothered me since i usually get ignored. Its just been hard for me to be okay with not having to act like an adult all the time. They act like I'm annoying or a nuisance, its just been hard for me to be okay with not having to be adult all the time, and that its okay to be silly and stupid

Bro??? I never cry over audios but DAMN this one came close. Hits different... could also just be the childhood trauma. Who's to say?

"Grow up" Me : b-but I wanna watch hello kitty 😃

Where’s my makeup kit, I need to ugly cry “Please cry into a towel this time, not into your pillow.”

I started crying when he told us to “get some self control”

This video was a random recommendation of KZfaq, the first second I heard...I love your voice. I'm crying, idk why exactly... It felt so real. I'm too dense and childish even if I will be 26 year old this year. All my answers where responded by the questions of your character, it surprised me.

for someone who had to be an adult when she was 10 this hit WAY to close to home

The fact that I didn’t fully live my childhood and I just grew up to be a child like figure and doesn’t have a interest watching irl movies but animated and childish shows/movies :’)) thank you for this audio

When he said " ok, I'll drop it ". I legit imagined me being like: *in Kageyama's voice* WOULD YOU JUST DROP IT?!

This video hit so close to home for me, it even made me cry. Thank you for this amazing video...

THIS HURTS IN A DIFFERENT LEVEL, I MEAN COME ON. HOW IN ETERNITY DID YOU BREAK THROUGH THE 4TH WALL AND KNOW MY FAV IS MCDONALDS, *CHICKEN NUGGETS SPECIFICALLY.*

You have a very similar speech pattern to a friend of mine and every so often I catch it in certain words. It's actually really nice, a sense of familiarity makes these pretty neat! :)

It made me cry bc it’s so relatable. Edit: thank you for the like I suppose!?

This hit really hard. I was not expecting to relate so much to this

The fact that I went through this as a child made me cry so much

this rlly hits home btw i love your argument asmrs

did I cry? Yeah, is my nose stuffy? Yes

Stop bc I broke down when we started to clean out the closet 😭 idk whyyyy I got extremely emotional….my inner child was feeling sad and I cried so hard

Thank you for making this.. it made me cry😭😭😭

Bro really make us feel like shit and then take us to the mcdonald

Not my typical go-to voice script type but figured I'd listen anyway. Felt more like an old sister to the listener than the listener themselves 😂 got me frustrated af cause of course they changed their behavior due to what you said, how dare you say something so hurtful 😤 older sister hugs for all the listeners who really felt this audio

This is what I need to hear before I go to bed. I swear I'm addicted to this before I go to sleep lmao.

Una de mis muchas traumas de pequeña JAJAJAJA toco llorar 🐱

me thinking being told to "grow up" is normal:: 🤨

This is the most personal video I ever heard, new sub 💕

Anyone else have a moment of “stop. GOW DID YOU KNOW THATS NE?!” When he said your friends and family tell you to grow up? I started crying because that was always the reason I got broken up with I acted like a “toddler”

I'm Bawling my eyes out rn.. I really need to hear this.. Noone Ever apologies to me after they Say all those Hurtful words To me..

As someone who’s been told they need to grow up and act more mature this hit home for me. Thank you so much for this I loved it, please take care of yourself🫶

But child!!! 😭😭😭😭😭 being a child is fun!! 😭😭😭😭 bro I still love coloring with crayons for no reason! It’s so fun! Especially when I’m stressed. It takes me back to my childhood! ☺️

Feels like my heart is being squeezed 🥲

This helped me so much , thx fr the comfort

actual tears right now, this audio hit so close to home 😭😭

this audio exist Me who's been a grown-up ever since I could remember walking and talking and acts like a child to compensate for my trauma : 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Dating ichigos dad feels wrong. 💀💀

As someone who had to grow up too fast bc my parents are divorced and i had to be like a second parent for my Younger sisters to help my dad with his mental illnesses and and some other disease's and my mum kinda ignored me and only really took care of my sisters her bf wasn't the best person to me but nice to the rest of 'em this hit quite hard totally not crying So sometimes I act a little childish with things and I get told all the time "U should grow up more" or "why r U acting like that ur not 10" and then people wonder why I'm so cold and harsh

I'm only a couple seconds in and I already know I'm gonna cry

This has actually been the very first asmr I’ve cried to.. coming from a kid that had to grow up extremely fast when young knowing way to much for my age and always being told to grown up and change.. but I really liked this asmr made me feel happy to hear a apology even though it’s not technically real great asmr

I can't believe I can't believe I relate to this audio-

this makes me so happy to hear tbh, as an age regressor this is like a pain that i needed to experience and get over again and again

I live for these dramas

I’ve dealt with bullying from 5th grade to 7th it was always because I was childish, most of the time I guess. So, hearing the words “I would never ask you to change.” Made me cry,l. And they do every time I listen to this.

This made me cry. I know how this feels.

Another great audio, as always.

NGL I started crying like full on

This hit way too close to home 😭 great work with this one!