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I decided to only date married men - Adelaide
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@Martin-cr8hp 3 ай бұрын
This one wa my husband this and that😂😂😂🚶🏾. You’ll regret and delete this channel one day. She’s on the spot light 💡 now.
@Ownnarrativepodcast 3 ай бұрын
Witchcraft 📍
@NsikeSibisi 2 ай бұрын
I’m with you and you on that one. She’s definitely on the spot. Wenza ngathi she’s the only woman with a husband.
@winnieletuke6601 10 күн бұрын
This girl is honest. Normally side chucks speak bad about the wife's. I like her she is light headed 🎉.
@khensim8959 4 ай бұрын
The love I have for myself will never allow me to be a side chick to any men, self-love is important girlies!!
@_theerealnono_7694 4 ай бұрын
🎯
@CbosEasyRecipes7 4 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@luthohlazo7431 3 ай бұрын
It's one thing to find out that you were a side.. but WILLINGLY?!!! Aowa ban!!
@olaideosidipe4425 3 ай бұрын
Sending hugs 🙅❤
@user-mk3wh3bx6y 3 ай бұрын
What if u are a side chick 🤔
@learnwithme322 4 ай бұрын
I am a married woman, but I like Adelaide!😂🙊 She's owning her choices, wrong as they are. She's a smart girl and quite likeable.
@poppyashleytshikovhi1480 4 ай бұрын
😂I’m married but she’s likeable person .
@matomehillariousramere7998 4 ай бұрын
Will you allow her to be your sister wife?
@ntombizodwamariamakhoba8231 4 ай бұрын
True. Even me. We can't always blame the ladies. Our men go out there and presuit these girls / woman
@ntombizodwamariamakhoba8231 4 ай бұрын
We must stop blaming women for our cheating husbands they are the ones breaking the promises they made to us pls stop fighting the ladies deal with our husbands.
@learnwithme322 4 ай бұрын
@@matomehillariousramere7998 I said I like her. I never said anything about sister wives. Her choices have nothing to do with me.
@paballomathatho102 4 ай бұрын
Shes sugarcoating😂😂 they do it raw and married man dont respect their wives as much they spend 70% of their time with sidechicks they give them money and forget to tale enough money home 😢
@Ntombi_Lusenga 4 ай бұрын
Yes, she lied. Married man like it raw and they are scared of their wives not respect. There's a difference.
@mrsspringbok 4 ай бұрын
The saddest truth
@comfortaloyo7659 4 ай бұрын
Why do you think they are scared of their wives?..i think due to the huge respect for their wives contrary towards the side chick?@@Ntombi_Lusenga
@katlegomagongoa8224 4 ай бұрын
Sad reality😢no protection
@Itss_your_girl_bk 4 ай бұрын
I like that she's honest.Married women will always be bitter.Your husbands are chowing out there and using prep unfortunately
@BONG101MJ 3 ай бұрын
The host is projecting her own life into the interview.
@PalesaSawukazi-fc9mk 3 ай бұрын
& She can’t help herself
@BONG101MJ 3 ай бұрын
@@PalesaSawukazi-fc9mk I hope this is learning curve for her. It doesn't make for good viewing and it may deter other guests. To get the most out of your guest... remain neutral and let them talk.
@shartinahkentse5873 3 ай бұрын
Like she is asking for herself and she is even down forgetting her job . With fake smile inside he is burning 😅😅😅
@BONG101MJ 3 ай бұрын
@@shartinahkentse5873 Yep. The entire interview is cautionary tale FOR HER.
@Mbalings 3 ай бұрын
It was hard to watch
@siphokaziluzipho4197 4 ай бұрын
I am unmarried, but I hope young girls are not aspiring for this life style. Hope the young lady will heal. She may seem proud, but underneath there is hurt there. We all wanted our own families, our own husbands, not other people leftovers.... No young girl dreams of dating a married man when young. Life happens.
@jacksonmpala7870 4 ай бұрын
WHEN DEMONS ARE GIVEN PLATFORMS TO SHINE
@yolz555 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@yolz555 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@yolz555 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@tebogogumede5730 3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@nette2144 3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂🎯🎯🎯
@triciakekana 4 ай бұрын
Those people respect their wives, How on earth is that respect please?????
@liarwithagun 4 күн бұрын
You can betray people you respect. That said, usually a guy cheats because he either doesn't actually care about his wife/girlfriend (most common reason) or his marriage is sexless and he gives in to his impulsive 'need' (not strictly a need, but fairly close to one) to have sex.
@pulemakitla2927 4 ай бұрын
Bathong Adelaide was a lovely guest hle. Funny as well. I mean I listened to the whole interview. I enjoyed her xem
@parajeroxie 4 ай бұрын
Dear Podcaster Please include English subtitles at the least because that enables me to enjoy the whole interview thank you in advance
@mrsspringbok 4 ай бұрын
I can even be the translator even 🤝
@nazziwavanessa606 4 ай бұрын
I know right? Not all of us are SouthAfricans yet we love this show
@msngema1380 4 ай бұрын
That would be nice…I trust Promise to deliver on this one
@ilonatimoteus1340 4 ай бұрын
Yes please they should do that!!👏🏽
@E-newsNamibia 4 ай бұрын
Us❤
@babygirlshair47 4 ай бұрын
I didn't think I was going to enjoy this. A married woman myself fell in love with her. I hope she finds her soulmate and builds a future.
@puluxulu6510 3 ай бұрын
So true because whether we like it or not this things are happening and you have a right to your opinion
@AsekhoSoboyce 2 ай бұрын
I’m also married but yhooo I love her so much 😂❤️
@CbosEasyRecipes7 4 ай бұрын
I will say this with love, if you respect headquarters, how much more you should respect GOD. It is His institution, tswada!!! Surely this lifestyle has comebacks my dear ❤️❤️❤️
@Amahle361 3 ай бұрын
So true cc. I feel sad for her. Cause this is not it.
@moyahabothoka8634 2 ай бұрын
Adelaide is extremely emotionally intelligent and resolute in her being. The shade thrown by Promise, sometimes covert but mostly overt…Adelaide has not changed her demeanour or shut down . She continues to speak with as much confidence. I love this hun!
@Slindo_M 4 ай бұрын
I respect Adelaide (sp) for being so open about this, it’s happening worldwide, whether we like /accept it or not.
@mphogagane5409 3 ай бұрын
Truthfully, it's been happening for as long as our grandparents were alive. Its just that our grandmothers were rather secretive about the dynamics of married life
@mavasaamukelaniconfidence3571 4 ай бұрын
She was my roommate for like 3 months last year. I know this girl, she’s actually a good person
@ZaneleAyanda-ty6vf 4 ай бұрын
Nchoo
@PheladiNewman 4 ай бұрын
good people do not date married men. lenyalo ke Modimo and if one can't respect marriage then clearly they don't respect God
@missdee212 4 ай бұрын
😂😂
@triciakekana 4 ай бұрын
Nothing good about someone who sleep with another woman's man idc whether the marriage is not working. Rong is rong
@patriciajamela846 4 ай бұрын
good person for sleeping with a married man.???nah nothing good here no morales,standards and dignity is gone🤣🤪
@ItuThePhlyOne 4 ай бұрын
This was such a fun episode. I love her authenticity. So real. Your energies flow
@KeleForm5 4 ай бұрын
Let us judge positively. Adelaide Thank you for being authentic, ur Boldness n Honesty. Good advise and affirming to HQ dat "they will 4ever occupy that seat in parliament. HQ shud know Side Chicks comes in levels, Promise please bring the" other level of side chick(Competing, Entitle, Wrecker type) n in both Males n Females. This is Not spoken about among society and it's happening. HQ should know that "Thz Maparas" becomes greedy!!
@cee9809 4 ай бұрын
It's easier to speak about what a man wants or needs from the outside, become the "head office" and see what type of man you'll be dealing with. Wives want their marriages to work so they try most wives try theyll put the kids ti bed early to spice things up but a man who lacks discipline will never be disciplined! And the same goes to women. One has to want to be faithful to remain faithful. He will always cheat until the day he decides to be and stay committed. We will be trying kamasutra in these bedrooms but if he wants to cheat he will 😂😂 love from zim Promise ...English subtitles please whenever you can❤
@AmyMapena 4 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@busisiwemichelle5391 4 ай бұрын
Uqinisile
@_theerealnono_7694 4 ай бұрын
You're right, if he lacks discipline and is lustful, nothing will keep him faithful.
@DR_Zandipetronella 4 ай бұрын
True, this lady has no business giving advice to married women😂😂😂..she knows nothing about it. Being a side chick is different from being a wife.
@CC-mp7id 3 ай бұрын
Men want to be respected as head of the family, they want a home with tranquility, appetising food, lots of sex and lots of children. If any one of these is missing then the man will definitely get a second or third wife. If you control him and treat him like an immature person he will look outside. The point is that men want to be treated like kings and be seen to be in control
@sebapa-le-masenke5981 4 ай бұрын
There are two types of side chicks. The one who is in it for the fun of it, the money and no commitment expected from the guy as long as he keeps paying up. The second one is looking to replace the "head office" and take the lead position because she sees herself as part of his future. She usually has everything except a man who wants to commit. The first type can be detached from at any moment, but the second type can be very dangerous to such an extent that they'll even use Muthi to get what they want.
@gabriellehanks6850 3 ай бұрын
There's a 3rd type, too. The one who has a man of her own, but he can't totally fulfill one or two aspects that the side piece needs in a relationship to feel complete. However, she's content enough with her man that she doesn't wanna start all over with someone new. Instead, she dates a man who's already attached who can fill in the spaces of what she's missing in her primary relationship. That void might be sexual, financial, companionship, intellectual intelligence, etc.. A lot of people tend to think that all side pieces are these lonley women who can't get a man of their own. I've met a lot of married or partnered side pieces over the years who have no intention of leaving their primary relationship. They're everywhere.
@CC-mp7id 3 ай бұрын
There is a 4th type too. The one who wants to be a second, third or fourth wife without displacing the first wife or head office
@humbulanimulaudzi6459 3 ай бұрын
@@CC-mp7id I prefer the 4th - one who loves your wife/s and kids
@GrassrootsViews 4 ай бұрын
The host could barely focus on the show because her mind was busy auditing her intra-marrital behaviors from the beginning 😂😂
@xolelwangcokongca7541 4 ай бұрын
Lol i saw that, she was flabbergasted
@nalediedward5639 4 ай бұрын
😂😂
@thobilemqwathi7292 4 ай бұрын
Exactly the lady just woken up the insecurities
@puluxulu6510 4 ай бұрын
Did you see that
@GrassrootsViews 4 ай бұрын
@@thobilemqwathi7292 I'm pretty sure she was sweating the entire time
@hlengiweyourstruly 4 ай бұрын
What kind of desperation makes y'all date married men? I'm 32 and this guy told me that soon I will get desperate and I'll date married men😂😂😂 I laughed because I've been single for years and I don't wanna be in a relationship for the sake of being in one. Being alone can be lonely but I think a married man would make me feel lonelier Thatha! Wena side dish, wena escape from reality, wena de-stressor, wena fun time 😂 and of course sexual tension reliever. Sebenza girl😂
@tendanipelaelo6293 4 ай бұрын
You love yourself. Big up to you
@AmyMapena 4 ай бұрын
Congratulations
@JoyCharmain 4 ай бұрын
That's on you 😂😂Im a happily lonely side chick😂😂❤
@ThelifeofTuupsi 4 ай бұрын
@@JoyCharmaindo you get to nag him . Give him a hard time when you are hormonal? What’s the point of being with a man. If I don’t see the point of being with a married man….
@hlengiweyourstruly 4 ай бұрын
@@AmyMapena congratulations for reading ❤️
@kobonemagampa5198 4 ай бұрын
You know what Jonko, u are matured and so authentic like nothing. The fact that u know gore they "might" cheat cos the wife cant keep up with the side. I give it for u girl❤❤🤗
@IamBarati 4 ай бұрын
The joke is on her. Married men are chowing her time and youth.
@_theerealnono_7694 4 ай бұрын
🎯
@psps5435 4 ай бұрын
I am not married but I must say 28 years she's still young, eventually she will want to settle down and definitely she will taste her own medicine. They start like that then later on they use muthi on poor wives... Indeed we live in a sick world!!
@phindimahlangu-ve8eu 4 ай бұрын
she will be crying blood screaming ma2010 showing her hell 10 years from now
@busisiwemichelle5391 4 ай бұрын
You are not lying yaz
@moyahabothoka8634 2 ай бұрын
Ke yona cycle of life mapara will do what mapara want to do. This is the wild, adapt or die…the girlies are adapting
@AmyMapena 4 ай бұрын
The fight between married men, side chicks and married women will never end. This thing has been there since nako tsa our great grandparents. Rena re rasa fela mo social media but it will never end. Cycle of life
@robbylebotha 4 ай бұрын
It won’t end. Women must just accept and draw up boundaries for men to cheat. Use protection Don’t make babies Don’t cheat in the area we live in Don’t get calls from sides at home Don’t take away providing for the wife and home For example
@spm9130 4 ай бұрын
@@robbylebothayou know very well that this bucket list will not happen!
@FineWine. 4 ай бұрын
@@robbylebothaEasier said than done 😂
@marciabrandon2423 3 ай бұрын
It will end one way or the other!Nothing lasts forever!
@NosifundisoHoho 4 ай бұрын
Promise is being judgemental, yes what she’s doing might be morally wrong but you can’t invite a guest, for you to be throwing shade and being judgemental she’s here to have a conversation with you not to be judged by you.
@sisinyanamojatau3176 4 ай бұрын
This marriage thing is showing us flames.
@philamayekiso4955 4 ай бұрын
Right!! She needs to go Hazel’s podacast
@mokgethoamapheto2204 4 ай бұрын
You're right. She's taking this whole thing personal nje
@ludwe7857 4 ай бұрын
Aowa she actually handled this quite well, she did her best to keep it cute.
@Yeye__ 4 ай бұрын
@@ludwe7857I think so too
@kelebogilemabye3825 4 ай бұрын
I think there are pyschological issues here.the way she is explaining it she literally agreed to breadcrumbs.no normal human being wants to be second best.saying she only gets 5% tells you she is deeply wounded so is the cheating husband.they both have deep rooted issues
@nette2144 4 ай бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@Ndazo_ 4 ай бұрын
Imagine 5% Yoh ka gana
@MobaRalephenya 4 ай бұрын
en bcz we don't wanna commit to anyone...so a rena prblm at all Adelaide is not alone at all
@LukeRev480 4 ай бұрын
She is smart, playing her cards very well. Wives receive the worst treatment from husbands not love. She wants soft life not wife life.
@PheladiPhillipine_ 4 ай бұрын
@@LukeRev480people can never accept that some people don’t care to have what the masses want
@nomsachironda9624 4 ай бұрын
Am sure she has childhood traumas for her to view life like that shows that the gurl have deep issues
@robbylebotha 4 ай бұрын
Nope, you’d be suprised how many normal women are sidechicks. Not even for financial benefit. Educated, great job, house, Mercedes Benz. But still a side chick.
@KgomotsoLodi-yx5zs 2 ай бұрын
Some women just don't want commitment nje.
@Cash_is_King727 4 ай бұрын
Side chicks seem to understand male nature better than wives do but not well enough to replace the wife. Wives understand men well enough to convince him to commit to them long term but not well enough to keep them entertained long term like a side chick can. It's an interesting dynamic. But being a wife seems like an innate thing I don't know if it can be taught.
@_theerealnono_7694 4 ай бұрын
Meanwhile, these married cheating husbands seem to lack discipline and self-control. They're lustful and irresponsible, therein lies the problem.
@sumptuousgoddess2224 4 ай бұрын
These men be marrying for money as well…
@kefentsemamabolo5520 4 ай бұрын
Side chick will always be 100 steps ahead of wifey becoz there is no commitment, finances, kids , bills involved ...married women would also excel in being side chicks to other people's men , becoz those men are not their husbands and don't have any obligations towards them
@CbosEasyRecipes7 4 ай бұрын
Interesting analysis. Please do one about men too cause I must give it to you, you're good dear
@marciabrandon2423 4 ай бұрын
@@mphomamadionce you are on paper you can never be side chick. The law is always on the side of the wife.
@Hlaps 4 ай бұрын
Not the side chick giving married woman advise 😂😂😂😂 initiatiate😂😂😂
@marciabrandon2423 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@mphosathekge1224 4 ай бұрын
😅😅😅
@ImmaculateIsaboke 3 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@brendahlela Ай бұрын
@hopelesslyhopefull5920 4 ай бұрын
I enjoyed this interview,life is not a one size fits all thing,these things happen and most married women are awaere of their husbands shenanigans...@promise try interviewing a wife that intentionally decide to stay in they marriages with cheating husbands!
@kevinandilemediahouse 4 ай бұрын
This is the topic most people don’t want to discuss. Your married husband’s have side chicks. Just be happy if you have never seen any with your husband. Married men bayajola and that will never change.
@Goi-l5x 4 ай бұрын
A man can cheat and that his and his wife’s problem but a girl this young giving herself to married men is ridiculous. They protect their kids and use her and she agrees? A re ‘I don’t ask their age??? Haowa guys
@hlengiweyourstruly 4 ай бұрын
True, and it's still wrong, just because loyalty is scarce doesn't mean women don't want their husbands to act right
@Onyinyechi35 4 ай бұрын
Right..... most of the side chicks these days are also married women......so do the math
@silindiledladla2173 3 ай бұрын
Even woman's, are even better.....
@hlengiweyourstruly 4 ай бұрын
No matter how you beautify nonsense it will still be nonsense. Someone will watch this and think it's a good idea to go for that married guy, pathetic!!!!
@nette2144 4 ай бұрын
You are right! I wonder how she grew up..
@patriciajamela846 4 ай бұрын
thanks Hlengiwe.
@siyandamolefe1867 4 ай бұрын
Do women go for married men or do married men go around asking out single women ?????
@patriciajamela846 4 ай бұрын
@@siyandamolefe1867 if u approached by a married man and you agree to it, does it make it right??.i believe both parties contributed.as ladies we can say no but we choose to tag along.
@nette2144 3 ай бұрын
@@siyandamolefe1867 I believe some "women go for married men" because they get involved with them, and some married men approach single women. However, it doesn't lessen the crime on either side. These illicit relationships happen because both parties agree to participate in them. Willing buyer, willing seller.
@DuduM27 4 ай бұрын
At 19,early 20ties she was already tired of her peers.Kanti nicala nini ukjola?😂😂
@MadamTMT 4 ай бұрын
😅😅😅😅😅😅they are very fast this one😅😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@user-bg3qv1pb4v 4 ай бұрын
12 years 😂😂😂😂
@DuduM27 4 ай бұрын
@@user-bg3qv1pb4v Yoo🤣🤣🤣
@Vv-fl2rm 4 ай бұрын
Same way you have bad bad experiences with men experiences at whichever age 😂😂😂
@tthuto.m 4 ай бұрын
@@user-bg3qv1pb4v maybe even 10 😂😂
@hlengiweyourstruly 4 ай бұрын
You can lie to Promise, lie to the viewers and lie to yourself but you cannot lie to your conscience. Deep down you know that what you are doing is not normal
@JoyCharmain 4 ай бұрын
Its now a norm meiskat😅
@polaokhoarai4421 4 ай бұрын
aee ska jaja
@nette2144 4 ай бұрын
I wonder if he's seeing other girls besides her.
@hlengiweyourstruly 4 ай бұрын
@@JoyCharmain I see that
@keletsomotala598 4 ай бұрын
It's also not norm to married men, so this life is not norm then 😅😅😅😅😅
@kgotatsothobejane6761 4 ай бұрын
“He wanted you vele “ , Promise don’t kill me 🤣🤣🤣
@maphuthakhosa3510 4 ай бұрын
If he's married he mustn't approach me. Those boundaries haykhona. I'd rather be single tjo!
@_theerealnono_7694 4 ай бұрын
Right?! Ba mbora nna batho bao. I'm good being single.
@MbaliNgwenya-xj2bu 4 ай бұрын
Most of these husbands meet their soulmates after marriage😂😂
@mahlakganedikeledi52 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Ndazo_ 4 ай бұрын
I agree😂😂😂
@Yeye__ 4 ай бұрын
Men will say anything to sleep with people 😂😂😂 imagine believing he has found his soulmate AFTER 😢
@tebatsorebbecaa5715 4 ай бұрын
is not like they telling their sidechick mos it is a bitter truth@@Yeye__
@ntombizodwamariamakhoba8231 4 ай бұрын
You know it is very true the same as women
@sisinyanamojatau3176 4 ай бұрын
Just hold the person you have an agreement with accountable..... The rest is history. Some married people are still looking for their soulmates...they say😢 it's sick but true
@busisiwemichelle5391 4 ай бұрын
Insecurities make you date married man fix yourself sisi
@nette2144 4 ай бұрын
💯💯
@sifisosithole9631 4 ай бұрын
Promise must learn to be professional don't put your emotions or make it about you when interviewing someone
@FlorenceMtsweni 4 ай бұрын
Heban
@myfavouritejonas9790 3 ай бұрын
Y'll are just judgemental, you wanted Promise to side Adelaide or what? She is just voicing her view too.......pls rest.
@lisemelomazaiwana1682 3 ай бұрын
I loved listening to Adelaide...I also enjoyed Promise s reactions and how she managed to do the interview so well.I also liked how all were laughing...I laughed too. M a married woman too.
@TheeMsutu 4 ай бұрын
I have an experience where I was approached by a married men while I was still in Matric 😭😩. Mo guy was driving with his family (wife n kids), wearing a ring. Did he not get out of his car to come and approach me while his wife was there? He came and acted like he wanted to ask me something about my school and decorations for our matric farewell since he did decorations. He straight up told me that he is married so he told his wife that he's coming to enquire about decorations and stuff so that she wouldn't suspect 😭😭I was so shocked and traumatized 😂mo guy was bribing me telling me that he will buy me nice things. I didn't agree anyways, I've always been scared of dating older guys, let alone married men😭. I'm 22 now, done with university and I sometimes bump into the guy and he still asks me out, he doesn't forget my face shame utata wabantu😂🚮
@marciabrandon2423 3 ай бұрын
You did the right thing. Never hurt another woman! Dat guy has demons in him!
@moyahabothoka8634 2 ай бұрын
Sipitori is unmatched in story telling 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@paulneugbiyobo4156 3 ай бұрын
This lady confirmed the fact that it is insecure women who date married men. Who wants to be the number 2? The hidden one? Not me by any chance.
@KgomotsoLodi-yx5zs 2 ай бұрын
Not all side chicks are insecure.
@poshi117 4 ай бұрын
She is still young this one,she thinks that she has all the time in the world😢😢😢😢
@KgolokiRatshabedi 4 ай бұрын
Introduce yourself, tell us what you do. "if doing married men is not the only thing you do". PROMISE🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Keeping_up_with_MrsM 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂 ku nini Ngithi yhooo
@NosifundisoHoho 4 ай бұрын
Promise is disrespectful.
@mabathomosekeli 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@KgolokiRatshabedi 4 ай бұрын
@@NosifundisoHoho she is spicy bathong hahahahaha
@triciakekana 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@KideNetworks 4 ай бұрын
What is this Promise😂,she is giving us opportunities...she should start a masterclass😅 Personally, I am surprised how passionate she is in her job...Salute Adela!!
@thandomkhabela525 4 ай бұрын
Shes lying,they chow it raw,no man will take care of you o sa mofe raw!hei angazoxoka lo!
@MISSAndy1 4 ай бұрын
True my experience with the married man we've never used it even on our first attempt
@NaloThembekile 4 ай бұрын
Exactly she’s lying
@lizzytshetlho6208 4 ай бұрын
That part she lied😂
@MobaRalephenya 4 ай бұрын
that part she is lying vele...tlkng from experience
@dineosibiya2123 4 ай бұрын
They love it raw...they catch
@tedtlyhlatswayo403 4 ай бұрын
I enjoyed Adelaide 😍 & she shared 'her' life experiences and who are we to judge...❤
@portiamakinita3854 4 ай бұрын
Yooh nna ke tshaba di union tsa batho angeke!!
@pontshomotaung310 3 ай бұрын
the way this lady is soooo unbothered lol promise is streeeeeeessssed
@user-wn2zi5iv7x 2 ай бұрын
Very
@moyahabothoka8634 2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@KgomotsoLodi-yx5zs 2 ай бұрын
Very stressed.
@mazmkb3064 4 ай бұрын
We can learna thing or two with this lady. Not that being a sidechick is tight but she's somehow got it together within herself. She's not moved by anything or anyone
@joycehlophe5182 2 ай бұрын
Not like other side chicks who are home wreckers.....but it depends on the man either she respect his wife or not
@nomcebobuthelezi944 4 ай бұрын
🙃🙃 I was ready to hate on this lady lol she’s hard to hate on
@baatsebamashego334 4 ай бұрын
Same, but she's so sweet and adorable 😅
@pulemakitla2927 4 ай бұрын
True hey. I watched the whole interview guys.
@Ezisemoyeni... 3 ай бұрын
So true😂😂😂
@selinabatlhaodi612 4 ай бұрын
One thing i learned about married men is not to judge side chick,if God deals with SC he should start with our husband.coz ma menemene this men
@Ithabeleng_Kopo 4 ай бұрын
Adelaide represented the side chicks so well … that’s if she’s telling the whole truth
@hlengiweyourstruly 4 ай бұрын
They feel validated for settling with these men
@user-bz7vt6gm6o 4 ай бұрын
It's self hatred because are not a preference just for a good time
@SibsM93 4 ай бұрын
@@user-bz7vt6gm6ole yena she's there for a good time so she says 😂😂
@biggieshorty 3 ай бұрын
@@user-bz7vt6gm6ohe is for a good time too
@user-bh2od3xb1w 2 ай бұрын
@thabie
@user-ei1ox9qv7r 4 ай бұрын
Promise, promise , promise, how many times did i call you 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@FineWine. 4 ай бұрын
Married men are a "peace of mind" while the bachelors are a "headache".
@busisiwemichelle5391 4 ай бұрын
Keep telling yourself until u have you own family come back let's talk
@FineWine. 4 ай бұрын
@@busisiwemichelle5391 I'm listening 😊
@MobaRalephenya 4 ай бұрын
For us who doesn't wanna commit to anyone...we see no prblm doing wt Adelaide is doing at all
@FineWine. 4 ай бұрын
@@MobaRalephenya Absolutely, different strokes for different folks!
@MobaRalephenya 4 ай бұрын
simple
@lightslite 4 ай бұрын
My dad used to say “when I am making advances to someone and they mention my wife or kids “🤮🤮
@paballomathatho102 4 ай бұрын
😂😂like the nerve the dad has😅😅
@_theerealnono_7694 4 ай бұрын
Trash of a father. 🚮
@keotshepileplaatjies8424 4 ай бұрын
..... but when we say don't make every interview about you ba re are wrong
@kefentsemamabolo5520 4 ай бұрын
Makes sense why she stands for not leaving marriage for a side chick ...looks like a normal thing ...but I'm honestly not judging her reasons 😊
@lightslite 4 ай бұрын
@@kefentsemamabolo5520 makes sense . I get where she is coming from. Mom endured , therefore it is now normalised.
@phemelomorake4711 4 ай бұрын
I'm not even surprised, she's from Hammaskraal after all🤣🤣
@nette2144 4 ай бұрын
Is it common over there😂😂
@Vv-fl2rm 4 ай бұрын
You should be saying I'm not surprised our husband are cheaters shame they will leave us at home and hunt in hammanskraal
@rofhiwambedzi7241 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@LungileMthimunye-xn2xv 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@triciakekana 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@melvisgumbo 4 ай бұрын
Those braids are popping. ❤❤❤
@Hlaps 4 ай бұрын
Very beautiful
@elizabethchokoe 4 ай бұрын
“yeses chelete tsaka “😩🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@pulemakitla2927 4 ай бұрын
OMG my money
@NokulungaMacu-uq8qu 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@malebomammile9283 4 ай бұрын
Married men do ask for babies, some stay in these relationships for more than 6 years. Babangwe we have two babies with a married man we've been with for over 8 years.
@malebomammile9283 4 ай бұрын
Ebile ba agetše le di side chick metse.
@KholoKhangale-yq7ig 4 ай бұрын
While others raise kids alone,going to public schools then kids in marriage go to private Most fatherless kids in south Africa are for married men
@malebomammile9283 4 ай бұрын
@@KholoKhangale-yq7ig waaai! Some side chick's kids are in private schools too. This thing is not cast on a stone. It's different for everyone.
@palesamacholo3367 4 ай бұрын
Yes, it depend on how responsible is the man@@malebomammile9283
@Maria-yp6le 4 ай бұрын
True.@@KholoKhangale-yq7ig
@mahlodiqm298 4 ай бұрын
Promise did say after shooting this that she is SHOOK 😂😂😂. I think she lied on some parts, like using protection. Girl we know!
@zeemali4369 4 ай бұрын
Exactly. U are ✅💯
@sparrow62210 4 ай бұрын
They never use it, never😂😂
@pfanomukhodobwane1666 4 ай бұрын
I also don't believe that
@mphomamadi 4 ай бұрын
They hit it raw
@mphosetlogelo8275 3 ай бұрын
😅@@mphomamadi
@rachelgorases7126 4 ай бұрын
The way the world turned out to be this days nonsense has been normalised🤦🏽♀️ but anyways life goes on
@_theerealnono_7694 4 ай бұрын
Serious, and it's quite shocking that a there are many people in the comments normalising and condoning this.
@AmyMapena 4 ай бұрын
Promise your reactions kill me...ari "eba production"😂😂😂😂
@nthatisidimema9084 4 ай бұрын
Ei mahn my husband
@qaqambafuzile5967 4 ай бұрын
It's all fun,game and exciting until it backfires . We have seen a lot of people menstruating non stop because of man that belong to other people or that are being fought for. Unfortunately when its that bad she won't be this excited to tell the story. When I see such I remember uthando noxolo episode of a lady that was also from hammankraal who bled to death because the boyfriend decided to have outside relationship and the woman showed that lady flames
@nette2144 4 ай бұрын
She doesn't have a conscience or she's broken.
@kuthlwano2958 4 ай бұрын
@@nette2144I think she does have somewhat of a conscience my guess is that she’s broken. Like she admitted at first that she was in a relationship that made her insecure. If she knows that she can’t build a home on another woman’s tears then there’s hope that there’s a little bit of conscience left. Let’s just hope she grows and heals her insecurities so she can be normal again ❤
@matanato01 4 ай бұрын
Human beings are not property,they belong to no one🤣🤣This is why men won’t stop cheating guys,you’re enablers
@qaqambafuzile5967 4 ай бұрын
@matanato01 that's why there is or being fought for. I don't excuse man for cheating at all I just say that sometimes one will be in a relationship with a man that has someone else who will do you bad. People use things to make others suffer it does happen. So we can't intentionally go for people that are married and be proud of that because we say they are not properties they don't belong to no one. Married man belong to their families until they get out even if they can be dated by the whole world
@NaloThembekile 4 ай бұрын
Why is this lady saying ausi promise promise ele age mate yagae???shes 28 promise is 30
@Ownnarrativepodcast 4 ай бұрын
THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE
@hlengiwendaba8345 4 ай бұрын
Hi Promise. Your subtitles don’t explain the other language but English and it defeats the purpose as a IsiZulu speaking lady I lost a lot in the conversation. Otherwise, thank you for the Podcast.
@roseannbarrows5266 4 ай бұрын
Please guys try and get subtitles because we really love watching the podcasts but we don't understand.
@MadamTMT 4 ай бұрын
Generational curse e hlolwa ke bana ba dinyatsi😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@yolisamrso9827 4 ай бұрын
There are consequences to this and unfortunately it will affect the innocent generation of hers...
@VeliswaMa 4 ай бұрын
Im here for Promise's braids. Am reminded why I like that colour of the braids.
@NaloThembekile 4 ай бұрын
This lady is lying to promise she trying to make her feel better married men don’t respect they women and married men spend 70%of their lives with the side chicks and they wanna make them very happy she’s lying
@AmyMapena 4 ай бұрын
And they definately wont be taking care of u while using a condom. Lol shes buying face mo Promise
@KholoKhangale-yq7ig 4 ай бұрын
People are not the same
@khetimthembu8465 4 ай бұрын
True!!
@beautybeauty789 4 ай бұрын
True,But she said her own personal experience 😢what if that was not the case for her
@leratokanomsa 3 ай бұрын
I am a married woman and I have mad love for Adelaide. Thank you for sharing your life with us and owning your story ❤
@bauldouinbondo8677 3 ай бұрын
Plz don't call us names as married men's.
@iris1896 3 ай бұрын
Ncoow maybe Adelaide should locate your husband
@leratokanomsa 3 ай бұрын
@@iris1896 fire 🔥 I come again that thought and the spirits behind it (praying in tongues) 🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️
@iris1896 3 ай бұрын
@@leratokanomsa 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 akere you are madly in love with her
@chotachota3536 3 ай бұрын
I thought the same. They love hee coz its not their husband. Double standards.
@exhortationsbyeva6345 4 ай бұрын
The driving force behind these side-chick and married men relationship is lust and greed! It would be impossible for these ladies to settle with one man,, unless they get deliverance 😢
@inathindabeni5112 3 ай бұрын
I disagree with you if u say it will be impossible for them to settle with one 1 man.. Njani kodwa they date 1 married man at a time.... PLUS his lady said she wants to get married.
@andiswadudeni3509 3 ай бұрын
I am a married woman but I love Adelaide❤😂this was funny
@iris1896 3 ай бұрын
Until the likes of Adelaide allocate your husband
@Hazelbeing 4 ай бұрын
Promise is so shady. 😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣 "You were like, this is the life I am choosing for myself"
@mbalikambule6053 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@teeslife2408 4 ай бұрын
Learn other languages please 😢😢😢😢😢😢
@dipuoann6678 4 ай бұрын
I am going to watch this more than once 🤞🏻😂😂😂 Mpete wa tla ka truck!!!
@TholakeleR 4 ай бұрын
Promise we love you but don't be shady when your guest is speaking because of what you think about them or their situation.... I also think this side chick is not make sure we need another one. It was fun to watch though ❤
@patienceikombele9161 4 ай бұрын
She's not make sure because you like drama. This is a peaceful side chick now you doubt her.
@kphosh 4 ай бұрын
Agreed... keep the biases at home and take the guest as she is.
@silindiledladla2173 3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@brendahlela Ай бұрын
@@patienceikombele9161 🤣🤣🤣 peaceful side chick
@sparrow62210 4 ай бұрын
Iam still saying hunger will be the end of many marriages in South Africa, I blame poverty 😢Iam a single mom with daughter's that iam creating legacies for trying to avoid such social challenges in future😢
@laetitiaotomo4869 3 ай бұрын
You found out about the pain commitment can bring, so you've decided to be the pain vehicle for those that are committed?. This is confusing..
@lutendomakhokha1562 4 ай бұрын
Ur attire promise is so beautiful n yu are so beautiful in it
@latozaM 4 ай бұрын
She has a good heart nd she’s so considerate I just wish she can meet her own person
@mahlakothaba9720 4 ай бұрын
Married men are the most sweetest beings in this world❤❤❤❤❤
@busisiwemichelle5391 4 ай бұрын
They are not sweet to their wives m sure
@NaloThembekile 4 ай бұрын
Exactly specially to us side chick,ausi oo dated men who hated her Rona our married men can move the world for us
@Ndazo_ 4 ай бұрын
@@busisiwemichelle5391yes they not
@KeituForever 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@KeleForm5 4 ай бұрын
Wedding Anniversary wouldn't be there If level 1 side chicks wasn't in the picture
@tshilidzinegota8917 4 ай бұрын
It's so interesting (actually cruel) that you know the pain of coming out of unsecure relationship, like you explained and you want other women to feel what you felt. Honestly women will always sense it or find out. The worst is sensing it because you feel like you are just going crazy, leading to insecurities. You are very cruel Sesi.
@mrsspringbok 4 ай бұрын
Hurt people hurt people
@_theerealnono_7694 4 ай бұрын
Then you get some delusional people in the comments saying she has a "good heart". Where?
@raunashikomba8034 4 ай бұрын
I was looking forward to this episode, but unfortunately I felt excluded since the guest spoke less English and there were no subtitles 😔.
@mathapelomphahlele5309 4 ай бұрын
Click on the “CC” option on the screen, it will show subtitles
@MpumiDlamini-ft5de 4 ай бұрын
@@mathapelomphahlele5309 Those do not translate vernacular languages..
@Lizzie_Nghitu 4 ай бұрын
Is it you or me? 🤔 😢
@DiseboMtsweni 4 ай бұрын
I'm glad that in summary that there is no winning
@molatelomatlala1363 4 ай бұрын
There's a book titled "Adelaide the royal mistress" by Takalani M 😂😂😂Mrs Makunyane🤔😂
@thelmasebetlela5233 4 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Promise you are killing me 😂😂😂😂😂
@tendanipelaelo6293 4 ай бұрын
Does this girl think there's any family out there that will accept her as part of their family after this podcast. She might get married, but it's very much unlikely that her in-laws will love and accept her as part of the family
@Ndazo_ 4 ай бұрын
That’s very true ❤
@mamagaseangelique1282 4 ай бұрын
In laws will still hate on you even if your a virgin
@tendanipelaelo6293 4 ай бұрын
@@mamagaseangelique1282 Talk about your in-laws. It's not all of them
@mmathapelochristinah4205 4 ай бұрын
But she’s not a prostitute nje 🤷🏽♀️ she’ll just make a good bekezela gang nje
@user-es1ux4rx3g 4 ай бұрын
True
@RuvimboMK 2 ай бұрын
Interesting topics on you podcast Promise! Well done. Suggestion: to reach a wider audience please add English subtitles for the portions and phrases that your guest prefers to use mother tongue - you will reach world wide subscribers in no time 😊
@katlegoalfred6842 3 ай бұрын
I just love Adelaide she sounds so respectful while being naughty with ppls marriage 😂😂she's not here to BREAK anyone's marriage but to balance her finances there n there....and remember DONT judge modimo more rata kao fela 🥰
@user-es1ux4rx3g 4 ай бұрын
I am a great fan of this podcast, but today I was really disappointed because the discussion was in their language 😢and I am listening all the way from Namibia. Please Promise, tell your guests to speak English
@myfavouritejonas9790 3 ай бұрын
We are together I am from Namibia 🇳🇦 too, I feel left out.
@justym8747 3 ай бұрын
Also from Namibia. Luckily I understand the language. I enjoyed it
@reneilwemorobe8204 3 ай бұрын
She did tell her to speak English as much as she can haow
@leratom7662 2 ай бұрын
Some topics are much easier being explained in our language.
@SiphesihleNameng1 4 ай бұрын
I feel sorry for her 😢. I have a sister who dated a married man for 15 years. You know she now says the man never did anything concrete for her, she waisted her life for this selfish man. Now my sister is in her 40 and it’s a bit too late for her to start a healthy relationship, she is used to that toxic environment with that married man
@mahlohonololebuso741 4 ай бұрын
Adelaide said at some point she wants to get married at some point meaning she won't be dealing with married men forever. At some point she's gona be in a stable relationship (or so she hopes) but some women, like your sister (no offense), date married men all their lives until it's too late.
@Live_More_Love_More 4 ай бұрын
@@mahlohonololebuso741 makes no sense to aspire for marriage when you’re breaking others marriage😂😂😂
@mahlohonololebuso741 4 ай бұрын
@@Live_More_Love_More it makes no sense but there are prostitutes and promiscuous women who are married today with kids. It may sounds stupid to us but life is not a Nigerian movie. Women like Adelaide get married while single women who have kept themselves struggle to find husbands. It happens lol
@inathindabeni5112 3 ай бұрын
So she stayed for 15 years in a toxic relationship?
@brendajackson13 3 ай бұрын
Your sister needs to take some responsibility for knowingly dating and staying with a selfish man for 15 years...15 YEARS.
@servantofgod4311 4 ай бұрын
Promise "hona rea performa" 😂😂😂
@DineoKhutoane-vc7pk 4 ай бұрын
Promise wanting to feel better about wives being prioritized ultimately, lol😂😂
@Ndazo_ 4 ай бұрын
And this men honestly they don’t
@KholoKhangale-yq7ig 4 ай бұрын
But do you see promise suffering?
@NompumeloMasina 4 ай бұрын
Bathong ausi😂😂kunini ngithi yohhh
@tendanipelaelo6293 4 ай бұрын
Please tell that girl to value herself first. After valuing herself, then only can she realise that what she's doing is the devil's work
@JoyCharmain 4 ай бұрын
Its not devils work but leading to polygamous
@tendanipelaelo6293 4 ай бұрын
@@JoyCharmainIt's the devil's work period
@robbylebotha 4 ай бұрын
The Bible nowhere condemns polygamy. Some of Scripture’s most prominent figures had more than one wife. The first polygamist was Lamech. He “married two women” (Genesis 4:19). Abraham had three wives-Sarah, Hagar, and Keturah. Jacob, David, and Solomon all had multiple wives as well. Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines. These are some of the Old Testament’s great men of faith! It would appear that, at least for a time, God allowed polygamy.
@mabathomosekeli 4 ай бұрын
@@robbylebotha The Bible does condemns polygamy, otherwise God wouldn't talk against adultery. Before polygamy there's adultery. Where in the Bible did God tell Abraham and others to marry more than one? Just because they did it, it doesn't mean God approved of it. Read the Bible for revelation, not to get information. There are things that happened in the Bible and were not God's will.
@_theerealnono_7694 4 ай бұрын
@@robbylebothaWhat a hypocrite. Don't quote scriptures to try and justify your wicked ways. God never told anyone to go take multiple wives and approved it. You hypocrites wouldn't want your wives to have other husbands, yet expect her to be okay with your nonsense? Disgusting!
@elizabethphiri7934 3 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness! She enjoyed for a moment but the impact can be for a life time spiritually. God is mercifully too.
@Rachealncube-eu7yz 2 ай бұрын
Promise's husband uyajola . you can tell the way she's handling this conversation
@patienceikombele9161 4 ай бұрын
I can't wait for her guy to put a ring on it. We will see her back to Promise playing for another team.
@CbosEasyRecipes7 4 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@sybillamula7190 4 ай бұрын
The funny thing about being young is that you think you will be young forever, one day she will grow up and realize that she wasted her own time with these men, time she could have used to invest in her future, to build her own relationship, marriage and home. There’s nothing new under the sun, go and ask those who came before you and I hope she doesn’t wait until it’s too late !
@CbosEasyRecipes7 4 ай бұрын
Amen!
@katlegoportia7575 3 ай бұрын
life has no manual...here we are 27 years without stable relationships even though we don't date married men....we are just like her relationship wise. she might even get married before us
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