i love how this channel shows the beauty of being alone, when it's just what you haven't thought it would be like that, but sometimes yourself being alone is the most beautiful thing ever.

I'll be studying abroad this year..and I feel so scared to live alone but your videos always make me feel like I'll be just fine.

i love everything you said, especially the part “i cant possibly experience everything so i would rather experience myself” bcs i did too. last few years, it was hard to accept that some of my dreams aren’t meant for me. that it may take a long time or may be not at all. so instead i should focus on how to make myself happy. it made me healthier and even better. i learned a lot of things by loving myself. it is not a selfish thing to do, for me loving yourself is the start of being the best person ever.

The diary entry at the start was beautiful. I studied at uni in Bournemouth from 2017 to 2021 and I had such an altered perception before I went that I would also have a huge friend group and be out on the town all the time. Taking the time to almost get to know myself again was one of the best things I've ever done. I applied to study a Masters yesterday just to prove to myself I can do it - if anyone reads this, never give up on your dreams - and always be the one star in the sky that shines in a different way

I feel so happy watching this. Someone had to say it. What we think will happen later in our life, might not happen and that is perfectly okay! Enjoying where we are, who we are is what true living is :)

Hey, friendly advice! I worked at a flower shop and I learned that flowers that are kept in a vase with water are better cut in diagonal rather than perpendicular so the flower can take in more water at once since the surface of absorption in greater. It will make them last longer if you cut them like so from time to time! :)

Jing’s new video + food = my perfect Friday night

I love watching your videos because it brings me back to my university days in England, 35 years ago. My children are grown now and I have grandchildren. The years go by fast, but it's lovely to go back down memory lane through your lens. So much remains the same and is so familiar. I can relive the sights, smells, and sounds through you. Thank you for that.

This is so relatable. Who I was as a teenager and how I thought I would be about socialising is light years away from the quiet homebody that I had become. Letting go of and identity that you clung onto so intensely can be the greatest gift of freedom to yourself.

It's lovely, refreshing to see a student living in such a wholesome way. You'll never look back with regrets on this time, as you've used it well 💓

I think you'd rlly love the aesthetic dark academia tbh

Hi Jing, I'm 14, and your videos really inspire me because I love how they are not completely super productive like the other vlogs I see, but realistic. My dream is to go to oxford too and you show me exactly what I hope to achieve. Thank you so much for keeping things the "real" you and that just makes me realise that I don't have to pretend to be someone I'm not just so people will like me.

8:18 100% agree, sometimes it feels like we have to live the “uni-lifestyle” while it’s more important to find our own balance first

I honestly feel like I'm going to oxford whenever I see Jing's videos. What a beautiful feeling she is able to create!!

randomly found your channel and pulled up this video. the first scene hit me and I burst into tears. thank you. it described me with the walking into a room and feeling inadequate and the weight of all the lives you’re not living and the things you’re not doing. my brother is 23, college has worked out well for him,he had $250 a month housing for 3 years, he has gotten internships and jobs, got a new car, just got married with an amazing remote job right off the bat

It’s so nice to see someone taking time for themselves and having a fun time being alone. I spent 99% of university alone, and although I enjoyed being alone, I never really cherished it and did cute stuff like this😭I feel like I need to reenter university again so I can do stuff like this and also try harder in my classes lol

Gilmore girls + food = PERFECT FRIDAY NIGHT! ❤

The tiny bear, candle, and small dining set table with chairs are so heartwarming. Well worth the money. I hope you smile every morning when you see them. Xoxo 🧸

someone help me I'm so addicted to her videos.. and girl I loved that candle stand.

this channel just makes me so happy

Omg you make oxford university parks look so nice through your videos! I am from oxford but I love watching it from a KZfaqrs perspective. 💜

I cried with your video, I'm learning to love myself and you represented those details, thank you

I love the self-reflection you do in every video. We should all practice it to be more pleased with ourselves and our environment. It's a healthy habit we should all aspire to 💖

I should always have tissue and popcorn with me before I watch your videos 🥹your voiceover is the best and I just love the idea of experiencing you and letting go of the ghost of who you thought you’d be..you’re so so amazing Jing argghh 😭💖💖

Im a student in Korea and whenever i watch your videos i feel so relaxed and i get to breath in and out from these competitive highschool😢 I even watch your videos while im eating😂 i was also able to dream about studying in England by watching ur videos. thankyou for your amazing vids!

Okay what you did with the pinboard is such a vibe!!! Magic

I love ur vlogs , especially when u talk about deep topics like living alone … ur vlogs are my free therapy 🫶🏻🫶🏻

ohh the peace for being alone is everything

Spend 2 years in uni in London. And I also turned into a much quieter version of myself than i thought. This is exactly how I would spend my nights! So nice to watch your vlogs they're very consoling and bring me back to UK life!

The fact that I was watching Gilmore Girls just before diving into your vlogs again! I love your editing, it makes me want to go at that university someday, keep going with your nice work Jing:)

you're now one of my comfort youtuber🥺

I can’t tell you how much I love your videos and when it ends I feel really bittersweet because I want to live like you but don’t know how.. I really love your videos please don’t ever stop making them

your channel grew so fast, I've been here since the start and it's so good to see how far you've come 💌💌 love how aesthetic your videos are, jing!! Much love 🤍

being alone is so beautiful ☁i love it so much

on the road to 200K already!!! your channel grew so fast, so deserved

i love this video so much. life has been so tough lately, but seeing your video had such a calming effect and it made me feel understood. thank you

You just made my favorite vlog ever. I love how you show the beauty of spending time on your own and not living the typical college life because I feel that we all deep down prefer this somehow. You are living your own aesthetic and your editing is amazing! You are my real life gilmore girls comfort content

I feel so relax watching this.. you are my inspiration Jing...you made me feel that you can do so many things alone ❤️🥺 So grateful to have your presence...😌 Lots of lots of ❤️ Take care of yourself bestie..🤗

Hi, I’ve been looking for some videos that not only use aesthetic background noise but also with voice over to also fill my thoughts, and I’m glad I found your videos and I think this will help me through my 2nd semester ☺️ Thank you very much 💖

I also want to go to oxford and i love your vlogs they comfort me and motivate me

I want to go to oxford when im older and these videos make me feel determind to try even harder to get into oxford. I love these videos soooo much

i look forward to your vlogs sm! there's no one who vlogs like you... the self-reflection parts (which sound almost like a beautiful romantic poem) or just you being you... i just love your content smm! (that coat holder part was so fun btw!)

It’s nice to see Oxford from a different perspective. I have a boring student life here, so seeing you romanticise it is nice. I forget the city is beautiful and our uni is nice. (16:33 absolutely!)

i love everything about your videos … they bring so much comfort 🤍 thank you

Girl I LOVE your content. I first found your channel for the Oxford content, but I have fallen in love with your style! Your videos are both calming and inspirational, and I love the way you infuse your videos with your own personal reflections, whilst maintaining aesthetic visuals. As a fellow North American living abroad, I love hearing your perspective on finding balance and embracing time spent with oneself. You are a beautiful person, and I love how real you are with your viewers! I look forward to your future content & wish you all the best 🤍🤍🤍

I love this video, makes me feel good ッ

Your videos are like therapy 🤍

i recently discovered your channel and i'm so glad because it's so meditative and therapeutic to watch and listen to all your vlogs across london. finding calmness amidst chaos is finding solitude love your work :))))

YEEES JING UPLOAD NEW VIDEO

the moment I see Jing's posted, my excitement level just goes📈📈

omg i love this❤i love how u enjoy yourself. Like every little things we do with ourselves can make us more happier ..u are truly a inspiration for me jing...this cozy vibe 🥺I love it....your vlogs are my happy pills💓thank u jing..love u

This is the only channel that shows reality in its true sense. Like after my high school, I haven't been in touch with my frnds who've gone their ways, and thinking of it sometimes makes me sad... But here's Jing pulling me out of sadness to teach that yess let's normalise feeling alone. ✨🦋💕 Love you Jing, Love from India🇮🇳

ive been watching ur videos ever since you first started posting so its nice to see the channel grow so quickly and follow you on ur personal journey!

I just woke up and saw that you posted :) thanks for making my day! I love your videos

honestly your vids make me excited for college!! keep doing what ur doing queen

it’s so admirable how you find time for everything in ur life 😭 i find myself struggling to take time and reflect but resonate with sm of the feelings in ur videos :,,) thanks for making and sharing these moments with us

You should post a video every weekend 😭, I love your playlist btw

I feel the same about the topic of not being social all the time in uni (I'm also on exchange in the UK rn), and it's hard, but honestly, I'm the happiest by myself (or with close friends/family). I'm also binging Gilmore Girls haha

Normalize finding your own balance, loved that. The back-and-forth mixing at the tap was actually such a funny scene.

My fav Vlog of yours, I love how we all can relate to you in finding joy in the small things rather then partying and getting wasted and having a shitty night day. Lol not fun at all. I love your content and get excited every single time you post ❤

Thank you for being such an inspiration Jing 💛 the intro was the Ted talk I needed ❤

Your videos are si therapeutic and motivating at the same time. Thanks for this Jing!❤

i always feel motivated with everything - reading, studies, life in general - whenever you upload a video 💖

The way you are just happy being with yourself makes me feel like i can be like that too.Your videos are very peaceful!Love you❤

i just love the vibe of your videos 😩🤍

Falling in love with your editing skills 😤💗

so aesthetic and so realizing! I just loved your video

This was the BEST!!!! LOL YES, I do enjoy hearing people outside having a good time and I'm inside nice and cozy!!! LOL, You and I have the same Friday nights. LOL Thanks for Sharing! This was wonderful

ur videos are always healing, i love you jing 🧚🏻‍♀️🧸💌

Such a cozy and warm moment 💖 Your videos always brings me joy and calmness 💖 Thank you for being you 💖

The way you gracefully articulate the way you're feeling is truly incredible. Thank you for continuing to inspire me with these serene videos✨

So cozy and well needed. Your content always brings me comfort & joy. Thank you sweet Jing! 🫶🏽

Happy belated birthday Jinn mom, also just wanted to let u know that u have raised such a good, kind and sweetest human being alive…Always take care and sending my love to u❤

This video is giving peace and chilling vibes. I feel calm and beauty of spending time alone without rush and noise. Thank you💗

god i absolutely love your videos. i have them on whilst i’m studying because i cannot deal with absolute silence and yours are the most calming whilst also enabling me to focus primarily on my work, but also because they make me really excited for my future and uni! they especially motivate me since i’ll be going to Oxford in October, and it seems my excitement enables me to really study hard to ensure my dream. occasionally i’ll look up from my work and see the visuals, the sites in oxford, and i almost start crying. i am so so excited that i was able to get into my dream university, and i’m so so happy that you are able to find balance and acceptance in your life

I also feel comfort hearing people having fun, while enjoying solitude 😊

Your videos are so beautiful and calming. You always motivate me to find joy in the little things :)

My favorite kind of days to recharge and reset! Thanks for capturing it so beautifully ❤️

a book recommendation video would be nice🧎‍♀

Been recently really hooked in your vlogs, it made me motivated and to actually start my day more productive the past few days. Did not really expect i will dream this big and actually thrive to try and study in our state uni. anyways keep it up!! and thankyou for making us feel motivated through making calm vlogs about your journey to success ❤

This is my favourite video of yours❤,I come back to it almost every week

I really really reallyyyy love your videos. Hearing your thoughts about yourself and life makes me feel that I’m not alone in this world

I just love your channel so much!!! you're such an inspiration

Your videos are such an inspiration to me. Thank you so much for all the work you put into producing these beautiful videos.

Watching your videos bring me so much joy!

u have so calm and comforting vibe 🥺✨ it’s awesome, and i really enjoy this video, cause i love evenings/days like this with yourself as a little act of self love 💗

Your blogs make me feel so cozy and warm I love this idea of spending time with yourself and loving the little things in life. Also the rose you drew was so cute!!

Winter is honestly my favourite season. :,-) I like seeing the flowers blossom in spring and going on summer walks when you're feeling the beautiful shine from the sun, but hopefully not its intense heat, but autumn and especially winter are just so cosy. Ever since I started noticing these things more, I've actually liked it when the sun starts setting earlier and earlier. Now that that's not so, I'm starting to notice how it helped me this past winter in that I found it easier to actually wind down as it gets late. Maybe my messed-up sleep schedule has something to do with it... but let's not think about that now. 😀 (sorry lol my thoughts are always a mess) I agree with what you said at 16:30. I think the beauty of this, hearing, from a distance, people enjoying themselves late at night while you're taking things easy as bedtime draws nearer, comes from the realisation of the vastness of the world. While you're curled up in bed with a book or watching a show, there are other people out there enjoying themselves (just like you are, just in a different way). And you probably have no idea what exactly they're doing but they're together and it seems like they're having the time of their lives. And then it's like the joy they're experiencing in that moment is contagious, you just feel it in your heart, a warmth. And they don't even know who you are. But you don't mind. They're with each other and you're alone but you don't feel sorry for yourself, you feel happy for them. I've had this video in my Watch Later playlist for a considerable while, probably since it was uploaded (over two and a half months ago), and that's because I like being in a good headspace and cosy environment when I watch these vlogs. I really think I'm going to be able to get my life back on track in the coming weeks, having a good plan for doing my schoolwork that I hope to stick to while also being able to make progress in my writing and basically just being productive as well as taking breaks from working. I just want to work enough so that my self-care time feels... not "earned", but more rewarding, that's a better word. And I don't even think my life is getting back on track, after the pandemic, I mean; I think I actually have the chance to be better than I ever have been because with every passing year, I feel more confident about who I want to be. I was already thinking this in 2021 but 2023 is even more different to me then, and 2020 me and especially 2019 me. I guess that's just normal, I'm only just becoming an adult. Maybe 2024 me will be yet more different... but for now, that doesn't really matter. There's another thing... I really want to get better at living in the moment, being present and mindful. A bit like those people partying late at night. I think I'm going to go and get ready for bed in a bit, not sleep so late (it's quarter past one but still earlier than most days).

I'm still trying to find comfort in being alone, but your videos help me and inspire me so much. Thank you!

Lovin' the idea of living and fully enjoy being alone gives that kind of comfort that you can't find to someone. Your vibes truly reflects it, you nailed. Rooting for u my gorg bestieeee 🫶🤍🤍

Thank u for showing me the London love from across the world ❤ ur videos just keep getting better

You're so lovely to watch! I'm inspired by youu. Love your channel 🌼

thank you for always offering us powerful inner peace ily

omg your vlogs are so calming and relaxing.

Your videos are sooo calming

Love your vlogs, they are so relaxing and empowering at the same time, keep going! 🥹

What a philosopher! In these stressed out times personal work/life balance is more important than ever. It is wonderful to see genuine happiness on the screen. You seem to be making the most of your current lifestyle and surroundings.👏👏👏👏 One final thing, your cooking always looks mouth watering! 😘😘

this is too wholesome!!

you did your romm literally SO nice. i love your aesthetic. thanks for this super comforting video :>

the corn cheese kimchi fried rice looks so good.